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He’s so trustworthy and caring. I’m the type of person who’s really easy to take advantage of because I don’t stand up for myself but he has never taken advantage of that. He genuinely cares that I’m okay with everything and what my opinions are and despite my insecurities there’s no part of me that doesn’t trust him. He’s honestly reshaped my idea of what love is and makes me want to be a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:12 PM
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What line of work are you in? Hope you don’t mind me asking but I’m just really intrigued by your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:22 AM
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I would consider those straightforward. They are true, they just don’t necessarily explain why those are their boundaries but the implication is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:59 PM
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I’m an atheist but want marriage because it symbolizes “I want to spend the rest of my life with you and you are my family now”. I guess if my boyfriend wanted to symbolize that some other way I’d maybe be okay with it seeing as it holds no religious value to me. if he were to ask me to change my last name to his that could be very special too and we’d treat it like a marriage without the paperwork. As for kids, I would not want to raise my child a single parent. My half brother didn’t have a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:17 PM
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It sounds like somebody who doesn’t want to believe the truth. Most women I know are pretty straightforward even when it makes them look shallow. “He has to be taller than me” or “ he needs to have a car and a real job” I just told my hairdresser I would be moving in with my boyfriend soon and her real reaction was “oh now you’ll share his money.” I found this kinda rude because that’s not at all how I think of it (we are too poor to not both contribute equally anyway seeing as we are college st…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:17 PM
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Yeah it is possible you just have to be honest and speak in a mature way without sugar coating things. I personally have a lot of bad memories of my dad yelling and now I panic when somebody yells so if a man did that to me I’d definitely leave and probably care less about what he actually said rather than if he just said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 04:07 PM
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Yeah. It’s important to be on the same page as your significant other and I have a strong desire to be a mother one day. No matter how In love I am, a baby will always be more important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:25 AM
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Yes and no. I’d be okay with that if I made enough to support us both. But we are both in school and I’m going to school to be a teacher which isn’t super great in terms of money. But let’s say that was all figured out, I’d try it out. However if I got pregnant, that wouldn’t work anymore. I’d have to take pregnancy leave. And that’s probably where that situation would have to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 02:36 AM
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Wait, Are you saying it threatens women in a way if a man is comfortable enough with his masculinity to admit he likes romcoms? Just trying to understand cause I’m not sure I’m following
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 02:13 AM
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I think that it could help to lose weight but only because it seems you’re insecure about it and I think you’d feel better to have that accomplishment. Many overweight men have girlfriends so I think it’s probably because maybe you’re shy. I don’t want you to think losing weight will solve all your problems ( I add this as an ex anorexic) but at the very least you’ll be healthier as long as you do it right and that can help your brain too sometimes. This won’t make your brain any better if you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 02:52 AM
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Thanks I appreciate it:)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 10:58 PM
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To be clear, I didn’t make a 180. I think people should deal with their emotions in whatever way is most helpful to them (and not destructive to others) without being shamed. I just felt I understood OP better because it seems he feels he’s almost been shamed for not dealing with emotions the way people want him to. I brought up the story about my boyfriend because OPs responses reminded me of it and I wanted to explain why I felt I actually sorta understood. That doesn’t discredit my original s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 01:27 AM
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I could get behind that for sure. It’s hard to grasp what that would look like cause I only can really go off of what I’ve felt and what helps me but I do know that people have different outlets. And I agree it’s okay to not cry. I would just add that it’s okay to cry too. I was so confused because when my boyfriends grandmother passed away I kept saying “it’s okay to cry and to not be okay, I won’t see you any differently,” and it was clear that just wasn’t what he needed. It threw me off cause…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:23 PM
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And that’s a fair distinction to be made. But I think the stigma that men shouldn’t be emotional makes it harder for men who do have big trauma because even if what they are experiencing is something anyone would struggle with, they may still feel that pressure. I just know how I feel when my emotions are belittled so it makes me sad to think of that happening to anyone. If it were as simple as just choosing to have a thicker skin then sure. But I don’t know that anyone can really choose what hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 06:49 PM
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Yeah, I don’t see an issue with feminine men. I just personally am very feminine and don’t want to be in a relationship with somebody exactly like myself because there would be less room for growth. My boyfriend has taught me so much and I hope he feels the same about me. Though I have a friend who prefers more feminine men and that seems to work for her personality quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 06:40 PM
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Professional help would’ve been the most helpful. But I also think that if he felt he could talk about it with anyone it would’ve helped a lot. I think the drugs were to cover the pain of something that could’ve been let out years before. I felt comfortable telling my friends and they’d listen anytime I was upset and they’d tell me they loved me and I didn’t deserve it but I’m not sure he had that. And being able to talk about it with my friends like that is what I think helped me the most. My b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 05:26 PM
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If my boyfriend asked me to watch the titanic or the notebook I would be excited. However If my boyfriend was super feminine I don’t know if we’d both have much to give each each other. I can give him my feminine perspective and he gives me his thats much more masculine and I think that helps both of us. He helps me be patient and make better decisions because I’m impulsive. And I help him understand people and their emotions when they act in ways he doesn’t understand. I think a good relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 04:39 PM
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I disagree for a certain reason. Growing up, my father was abusive to my mother. I was a little girl and I cried it out. Sometimes I even still cry about it if something reminds me of it. My brother on the other hand did not emotionally deal with it at all. He never cried about it or anything. At the time it looked like I was handling it a lot worse. Except for when he was in high school he turned to a heroin addiction. I do not know anything for sure here. However, it’s been my opinion that he …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 04:26 PM
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This whole thing started when you commented about your own vagina. Then I said "that's not my experience" and since then you've talked about my vagina many times and I've responded to the things you say. All I'm saying is this is funny to me how heated you get about how you don't think vaginas are supposed to feel good during sex. This has been fun but if I talk to you another day my vaginas ego with be boosted too high from all the importance you're giving it. Maybe focus on your own now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:52 AM
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Ive got to say, this is the most my vagina has been talked about by a stranger online it's quite exciting . you love to slip it into every response. Maybe you have interest in it cause you seem to have a sad sex life so that's why youre so curious about mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:22 AM
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Bitch all I'm saying is sex is supposed to feel good I'm sorry that seems to strike a chord with you. "Women in general and the ones who don't get as much pleasure" those two things don't go together. "Generalization of a whole gender" can't be " a specific smaller group of women" Yeah I thought you were a man cause your original comment was fucking dumb and makes no sense from a woman. Telling people to imagine what sex is apparently like for you. Funny enough is a comment of you describing sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:21 AM
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When did I deny some women dont like it? Plus don't bs me your comment was about "women in general" All I said is that Biologically you're supposed to enjoy sex. Biologically you're also supposed to have 10 fingers that doesn't mean every human has 10 fingers. Its a bummer. but it is considered "abnormal". Not that hard to piece that together... And your bit about pleasure not being necessary for conception doesn't really relate to anything I don't know what you're trying to prove by that. The p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:07 AM
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You're seriously telling me that you don't believe women were made to enjoy sex too? Maybe youre the narcissist who thinks everyone's vagina is like her own after all. personally casual sex isn't my thing but I have a friend who likes it and that's fine. Sure, instinctually women probably care about men's resources and protection but sex is still typically a good sensation for most. You have to be in the right head space and enjoy the person you're with but it's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 03:23 PM
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No, you're creating reasons for things that haven't been proven. The fact may be women remarry less. We don't know the why. Again, correlation does not equate to caustaion. Obviously pleasure isn't needed to create a child. But the reason anyone feels sexual pleasure at all is because its a way our body gives us incentive to reproduce because that's how species survive. It's not rocket science to figure this out and arguing against it is pointless. My last point had to do with why women typicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 06:27 AM
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Correlraion isn't the same as casuation. Women not remarrying could be because of many other factors. And even if somebody is more okay being alone, doesn't mean they aren't still having sex. Obviously my vagina isn't every single vagina, I never said all women enjoy sex I'm just saying I know for a fact that many do. And are you saying that our species reproduced through rape? You realize our bodies are literally designed for sex, right? Its a natural instinct... That's kinda why there's 7 bill…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 05:33 AM
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What are you even talking about? I thought you were a man cause you said " I imagine sex for women is like X" so... Maybe youre a virgin? Not sure why a woman would be imagining if you've had it. But either way youre a girl, fine. Still gotta back up your claims. Where do you get the idea women are "more okay" being alone? As for the slut jab lmao. yes I can explain that last bit. Women get pregnant so it makes sense for us to want safety and long term things. Men can impregnate multiple women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 05:19 AM
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Lol what would I do without boys in this world to explain my own genitals to me? I’d also like to see where you get the idea that women are more okay with being alone? Pretty sure most people don’t want to be alone. Maybe you think this cause you haven’t successfully given somebody an orgasm...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 04:04 AM
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No shit... why would they fuck somebody they didn’t like? But your comment was about how you imagine sex is like for women in general and you’re wrong in my opinion. Sure, there’s bad experiences. But even the bad ones aren’t really like what you’ve described anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:18 AM
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Not my experience at all. And none of my girl friends have ever expressed that to me either. Everyone I’ve talked to about it thoroughly enjoys it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:24 AM
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Well my answer for you depends on a few things. Really think, are you leading these girls on? Do you say things to girls you know they want to hear so you can sleep with them? But either way, why are you surprised your hook up develops feelings for you? Sex releases oxytocin which can very easily make a person develop feelings. I’m also 20 but that’s why I’ve never had sex outside of a relationship. I’m in a LTR and for me sex is about enjoying it and also pleasing the man I love. Granted he’s t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:22 AM
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I would never cheat on my boyfriend. I respect him way too much and genuinely strive to make him happier. If I felt the need to cheat I’d probably think long and hard about what the real issue is and what I think I’m missing so I could tell him. That way we could see if we could fix it. Though, I’m so satisfied in my relationship it’s hard to imagine that. I think at this point it would take a lot for us to break up. We both have similar values and are calm and fair. We both have a no cheating t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 03:55 PM
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I would probably only be in a relationship with somebody I found attractive which I think is normal. Looks aren’t everything but attraction in a relationship is healthy. I’m not picky or have crazy standards or anything. I would hope that any guy I dated found me to be attractive. I’d be really sad if I found out somebody I dated didn’t. So, I guess you’re right, id only be submissive to somebody attractive to me. But at the same time theres way more factors that go into that than just looks. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 05:42 AM
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I don’t see the issue. I like being submissive to my boyfriend but that’s something I like to do for him because I love him and I know he respects me. Doesn’t mean I’m a walking door mat for any man. I also doubt many women care if their boss is male or whatever. I don’t see how that’s an issue. If a person goes to school gets a degree and a job above mine, I’ll respect them no matter the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 02:01 AM
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As a woman I feel I’m often told to smile. It can be annoying sometimes when I’m grocery shopping and some random old man tells me to smile (that really happened) and I did it. I think it was probably a bigger thing in the past than it is today. I’m relatively happy but as a preschool teacher I’m definitely used to putting on a happy persona and I’ve learned that it’s useful for more than just toddlers because people in general like me better bubbly and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:58 AM
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I think that’s 100% fair. Attraction is heavily influenced by who can create healthy offspring. It’s not bad to want a healthy woman carrying your baby. As an ex anorexic, I can’t subscribe to the “healthy at any weight” bs. I personally would be more attracted to a healthy man too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:51 AM
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I have social anxiety so I guess all the fun that comes with that. Taking a while to know me, It will be painfully slow for me to open up to your friends and family, I stay in a lot. Im good with dealing with it by myself and not taking my insecurities out on others though but I know it’s got to get annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 02:54 AM
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It does work actually the logic is the same. More effort doesn’t effect responsibility. And just cause I’m a girl and I don’t understand the concept of “boohoo I want sex but cannot have”. I’m sure rejection hurts. But so does being harassed so it’s kinda just as shitty for the stereotype of each gender. I mean, I’ve really been scared before due to men’s advances and it sucks when you realize you can’t go certain places alone. Like I learned the hard way that I’ll only visit the steam room in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 04:29 AM
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Im laughing off your “proof” because that was actually funny. “Reality” tv and anonymous posts online really don’t mean much to me in terms of actually changing my opinion on an entire gender. I’m very aware that there are women out there who are bad people, that was never in question. What I do question is your “ assume women are whores until proven otherwise” attitude. That is a statement that’s very disgusting. I hate when people are like this. I don’t like policing people’s thoughts. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:21 AM
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The only times I bring up things that aren’t relevant is responding to your irrelevant comments. If you don’t see why me saying sex is an experience and not something to give then I seriously think you forgot what you said because I was responding to your notion of men being okay to have free sex but women shouldn’t give it to them if they want to be respectable. It’s clear to me you like to have different rules for different groups of people and that is where we won’t see eye to eye. Sex is sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:14 PM
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Your statements on sex make zero sense. So, men will accept sex and so it’s the women’s job not to give it? Why is there a problem if it’s two consenting adults. Nobody’s “giving” it to anyone it’s something they are doing together. I honestly don’t believe in the whole notion of sex being a reward to give, it’s a shared experience. Some people may choose to want to experience it with somebody they love, others may be okay having the experience in a casual setting. Why care about what two adults…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 06:34 PM
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I wasn’t emotional I was joking around. He didn’t make me mad in the slightest I just thought he was coming off as a bit of a douche and I’d goof off a bit. Feel free to share your own arguments though if you wanna I just didn’t see the point in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 01:44 AM
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Maybe when I finish college I can start being smart like you and saying things like “sluts are bad” lol. It is sure strange you feel you know me well enough to have an opinion on whether or not I’m getting the full benefits of my college yet. I’m assuming you think I’ll get the full benefit of my education if I start agreeing with you. But I’m afraid you’re the one who doesn’t seem to grasp what I’m saying. I’m not mad when men decide a woman isn’t marriage material to them. I would hate for any…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 03:51 PM
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I’m fine with men choosing not to marry women with high n counts. If I had a son I would hope he’d find a kind, loyal and smart woman but I wouldn’t think to ask her number of sexual partners, that’s quite odd. I see the negatives to hook up culture which is why I don’t participate in it. But I wouldn’t sit and complain about women doing what they want. I don’t see the point. I’ve looked into your comment history, it’s full of blaming women for just about everything wrong with relationships thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 10:45 PM
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I’m in an LTR and I don’t envy single people. I don’t hook up with people I’m not in a committed relationship with so I wouldn’t really do much with the “freedom” from being single. Plus I don’t think I’d find anyone out there better for me than the man I’m with. He’s loyal and gentle and smart and basically everything that’s important to me. Maybe it’s important to also add I have social anxiety so I do have tendencies to like what’s comfortable but he’s the one person who I’ve felt comfortable…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 03:47 PM
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I understand what you mean I just disagree. I think people are free to date however they want and it’s not anyone’s business as long as there’s no abuse. Kind of like how I would never date a player but I have no place to tell them how they should and shouldn’t act. Nice bandwagon fallacy with all the “other men agree with me” statements, but at the end of a day you have an opinion not a fact. Your “simple test” is flat out stupid. Maybe you’re the type to get mad over your partner dating people…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:10 AM
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I never gave my opinion on teens having sex. I said it’s okay if they date people and learn from their past relationships in order to learn about what their standards are. There’s a difference. but I will say your anger when discussing teens “basically fucking” does humor me. Also hookup culture doesn’t back up your statements of women’s “ entitlement” to marriage so I seriously have zero clue why you spent so much time finding links for that. I’m sure it’s harder to find a man when you’re older…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 01:25 AM
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My boyfriend. I’ll have fun doing the least exciting things with him. Like we’ll cook dinner and be joking around and having fun. But with my friends I feel pressure to have a fun plan like we have to go swimming or to the mall. On the other hand I could just sit on a couch with my boyfriend and we can talk about anything and he just has the best jokes. And he’s also the person who cheers me up the best when I’m not in a great mood. When it comes to my friends, they make me feel better too but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 10:17 PM
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I have the same rule for the same reason! It sucks coming from families like that because most people can handle hearing a raised voice but it puts me in fight or flight mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 10:06 PM
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I’m actually with the man I think I’ll marry in the future. He’s everything I want for myself and future kids and I try hard to be the woman he deserves. So I don’t care for relationship advice. But it’s not a problem that 16 year olds aren’t 100% mature and thinking about marriage. I didn’t think of marriage until I was 18 and even now I see it as something for the future that I’m preparing for. Sometimes a person has to try things before they decide if it’s right for them and there’s no shame …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 09:27 PM
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I personally don’t buy into the idea that a woman’s value is only her looks. But either way, I don’t see how women are acting entitled to marriage. And the whole standards thing is you just not understanding the concept of growing up. I’m 20 and I have more standards than I did at 16. It’s called learning and growing as a person. For example, my ex taught me things I didn’t like and I used that information to be able to really appreciate my current boyfriend for who he is. But there’s no entitle…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 06:08 PM
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For somebody “going their own way” you sure spend a lot of time and energy into trying to achieve female validation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 02:24 AM
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Lol okay good luck with that. Maybe don’t mention this to the women you’re planning to “earn” cause that’s a red flag if I’ve ever seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 01:49 AM
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Your hypocrisy is hilarious. Let me get this straight, women are “entitled” for not settling. So What does that make you for assuming that women not wanting to be with you is selfish on their part. You’re the one acting as if men are entitled to women and it’s the women’s character flaw for not wanting to be with them. I don’t see it like that. Relationships ago two ways and both must be interested. No entitlement in preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 12:29 AM
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I care but I recognize that’s only because I’m insecure. Though I am sure not to put my insecurities on my boyfriend like they’re his problem. I just kinda keep it to myself because deep down I know I can trust him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 01:17 AM
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A home setting is very different from a daycare setting but that doesn’t make what I experience invalid. I would argue there’s unique value in a teacher point of view because they are familiar with more kids than a parent would be. Sample size totally matters. Obviously individual children are VERY different. All I meant was that looking at gender groups as a whole, I don’t see much that only interests one gender when looking at the younger groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 04:57 PM
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I personally don’t really see that too much. At my work toddlers (1-3 age) all seem to play with everything about the same. They all seem to want to run around and be silly and then they want to be picked up or hugged. But that’s a young age where they are learning a lot at once. How to talk, potty training, fine motor skills etc. of course each child is different and I do notice obvious differences in individuals. but at that age they all seem to enjoy everything about the same when you look at…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 05:28 AM
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This is a bit different but I am a daycare teacher. There isn’t much difference between a toddler boy and a toddler girl. But something that’s really stuck with me emotionally is a few boy students who I can just tell have been fed the whole “ big boys don’t cry,” thing from their parents. I have seen a 4 year old hold back his tears and refuse to explain to me why. I’ve never been one to judge men for being emotional, but I think it’s made me extra careful to make sure I never make a guy feel a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 02:59 AM
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See I’ve had this rule where men who cheated on their past girlfriends aren’t an option to me. Especially if they haven’t had enough time to learn from it. I like to trust the person I’m with. I’ve been with somebody untrustworthy before and it made me a person I don’t like. I was constantly checking his social media and got nervous when I didn’t get texts back. In my opinion, it’s not worth it. There are too many people in this world to settle for somebody who stresses you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 01:28 AM
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Yes, in high school. I wasn’t physical with him but I was flirty and eventually convinced him to leave her. I never thought much about it until I was in a serious relationship with my current boyfriend and I felt real love and I realized how ashamed I am for what I did. She knew of me. She saw pictures of me saved on his phone ( selfies, never sent him nudes) and she hated me, rightfully so. Luckily I found a really great guy. But if for whatever reason We don’t stay together, I’d never be a sid…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 03:58 AM
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I’d find it sweet actually. I waited for my boyfriend to say he loved me and we are still together years later with a healthy sex life, so it worked well for us. He was very patient while we waited. He let me know he wanted it but he was okay to wait and it made me feel comfortable when I finally did decide too. I’d hope I’d be as kind and understanding as he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 01:35 AM
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Yeah. for you, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 11:50 PM
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Sorry if other people’s social anxiety might be an inconvenience to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 02:09 AM
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Depends on the stuff. I expect less texts through out the day. But I expect more quality time than I did in the beginning. I believe I am giving and expecting more meaningful things over all. And I’m expecting and giving less of the unimportant things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:07 PM
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I likely would be turned off by that news. Im not going to say that I would never date somebody who did, but I think I’d listen closely to how they tell the story and look for red flags. For example, if it was a low point for them I think I’d be okay with it. But if it was like “ I went on vacation and I did it for fun and it was great” I would not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:04 PM
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Some men seem to not talk to me as much since they know I’m in a relationship. The nature of what they say changes a bit too, in a respectful way that I appreciate. I’ve noticed a guy at work seems more comfortable speaking with me over my single coworkers since he found out I’m in a relationship. I think because there’s a clear understanding that neither of us are looking for anything else. I’m “safe” in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 09:57 PM
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Depends how n the guy. But I believe a man treated me portly cause I let him. I stopped letting him and he apologized. I’m no longer romantically involved with him, but he treats me with respect. This could just be him growing up though which I believe would be a part of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 12:56 AM
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I still think you could find a FWB that treats you well. And let’s be real, a married man may treat you well but part of him will always associate you with shame. As for you not owing her at all, I just disagree. But if you’re actually okay with doing things you know will hurt someone, then we will never come to an agreement. If you really think the wives will never figure out then I think you’re a bit naive. Believe it or not there’s a lot more to it than just you and him. In middle school my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:00 AM
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Maybe so that you aren’t a part of breaking somebody’s heart or ruining a family. Sure, it’s not your fault they’re having marriage issues, but what is your problem is that you do not care about the consequences simply because you personally have nothing to lose. There are plenty of single men who only want casual sex, you just want casual sex that’s kept private because you don’t want people to know you do it, and you’re willing to help a man cheat on his wife to do so. Just because he owes his…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 12:56 AM
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Depends what their idea of improving is. I liked this boy for a while and he improved himself by being a bit of a womanizer. It wasn’t my thing and I quickly lost interest But even then, I didn’t get mad or hate him. It obviously made him happier, he just wasn’t my type anymore. Another guy friend of mine improved himself through getting a better job he was passionate about and I thought that was dope. And I was stoked when my brother got sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 08:07 PM
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Yes I would. I take good care of myself. And even though I’m insecure, I can still acknowledge that I like my body. I’d probably appreciate myself more if I saw myself from the perspective of somebody else rather than myself since I’m harder on myself, like most people probably are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:29 AM
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A relationship is really a commitment, even if they don’t know, you broke that commitment. If you truly cared about their feelings you wouldn’t cheat in the first place, there’s a huge chance they will find out. Not to mention putting them at risk for stds. It’s fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:52 PM
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Different women have different motives. For myself, I love my boyfriend very much and I like to express that in many ways, one of them being sexual expressions of love. Also, I enjoy it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:48 PM
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Almost 3 years, we started dating our senior year of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:28 AM
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Nope I don’t. Lost it to my current boyfriend about 3 months the into our relationship. I waited until we said we loved each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:19 AM
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I think it’s helped me realize how lucky I am. If the shit you guys say is true about most people (which I’m not convinced it all is) , then dating would be very risky and scary. But I was lucky to find my man in high school. We are still young, I can’t confidently say that I 100% know we will get married in the future or anything, though that would make me very happy. But I’ve at the very least, I’ve experienced what I believe is real love. Without worrying about hypergamy or any of that. And h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:05 AM
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I don’t think we have to always choose who has it worse. This is one of those things where both situations are shitty and the victims of each have a right to speak out against it, and should. I agree with you that convicting a rapist isn’t a win, I just don’t think comparing different people’s struggles and trying to decide who has it worse is necessary. Even if one is worse, it doesn’t matter because they’re both wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:46 AM
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I think I must have been 17
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:01 PM
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Idk what SJWs have to do with it, it’s not a radical idea to say that not all women are attracted to the same behavior. I get turned off by reckless behavior. A guy was trying to show off to me and my friends by driving recklessly and I was so turned off and scared. I made a point to never get in his car again. My boyfriend on the other hand doesn’t take much risks and I’m glad he is who he is and our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:52 AM
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Depends on the woman. Everyone is an individual who likes different things. I’m not a huge fan of risk taking, im far too anxious of a person for that stuff. But some women might enjoy that excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:31 AM
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Here’s my weird two cents. People in general can’t handle the affects of aging on our bodies. Hell, once we die we often remove the blood and embalm the body, filling it with harmful chemicals that endangers the mortician and the soil all to delay the body from decaying. The idea of “The wall” makes me wonder if the reason we find younger adults more attractive is actually just because we are afraid of being closer to death. I mean, I suppose it makes sense if we are made to want to reproduce an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:07 PM
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That’s not really the definition I’ve thought of when I think of maturity. Going to college is likely a sign of being mature but I think it’s about making responsible choices. Girls tend to “mature” faster than boys is usually said because girls in high school usually play it more safe than the boys do. I did a bit of research and saw that girls brains tend to connect itself faster than a males brain. I’ve only ever seen that women mature faster, and that’s only really noticeable when you’re you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:49 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever asked a guy for money other than asking my current boyfriend to get me food but I don’t really count that because we take turns paying for meals so it evens out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:12 AM
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Lmao I know that about my ex best friends dad and sadly her too for the same reason. And I found figuring out that label helpful because I found a community of people going through similar things and it helped me understand and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 02:34 AM
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I think I agree with your last statement that women may get less top rewards and less risks. Though I think that is something that is kinda taught to us. Women are raised to stay safe. I always had earlier curfews than my brothers and had to check in with my parents a lot more because I’m about 110 pounds and physically I cant defend myself as well. I don’t feel oppressed by that because I’d rather go home before dark than have anything happen to me. In a perfect world I shouldn’t have to, but n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:05 AM
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So wouldn’t policing your mind be kinda like dwelling on it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 02:52 AM
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You can try and police your mind. You’ll probably end up feeling like a shameful pervert because it’s in our nature to want to reproduce, with many people because that’s survival for ya. Dress us up in clothes and give us desk jobs and cars all you want but we are still animals. You can’t take that out of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 04:05 AM
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Well, I don’t really know your story at all so it’s really hard to say. Plus reddit won’t let me look at your page for some reason cause it’s “NSFW” even though I’m over 18 haha. If you want to message me, you can. and I can listen or try and give advice if you want. I really do hope that things get better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:06 AM
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Haha I said I have 2 friends. I don’t know shit about that. But I am happier when I stop putting pressure on myself to build more friendships because I’m actually quite busy and happy as it is and the only reason I care is because I feel like I have to. So it depends if you’re lonely or just embarrassed. If you’re embarrassed, stop thinking about it. If you’re lonely, I’d actually focus less on other people and more on yourself and who you want to be. You’ll likely build better relationships onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:44 AM
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To be honest, I only have 2 girls I consider my friends so I can’t really say I know much about women’s behavior despite being one. Of course, there’s absolute selfish bitches out there, I’ve dealt with one in particular who nearly made me want to treat her the way she did me. But, had I done that my credibility would be gone. And I think a healthy mindset for a woman is the same as a healthy mindset for a man.I’ve taken a few college psychology courses. I’m all about therapy and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:26 PM
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Well I don’t think that’s right that you are labeled that way. I’m not going to pretend to understand what you’ve been through cause I don’t know you. But Still I think your mindset isn’t right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:06 PM
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But as you said there are differences in how the genders typically behave. Many men feel pressure to not be vocal about their emotions which is why I believe there’s a difference in suicide rate. The pressure society puts on men to not be emotional is for sure a negative thing men face. But that’s not to say that more bad things happen to them or that they have a harder time becoming successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:03 PM
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I’ve seen the first one used as “ women love conditionally while men love unconditionally” a few times. The second one I’ve seen a few times on the MGTOW sub a few times. As for the last, I wouldn’t say that’s true even speaking generally. There are shitty things that happen more frequently to both sexes. Who’s to really say which is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 07:00 AM
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I can accept things that are true. But the AWALT mentality that I’ve seen is just not true. I’ll be specific about the comments that I’m talking about. “ women only love conditionally”, “ every woman is a bad girl, just some haven’t had a chance to be bad yet” and “women live life on easy mode.” These things are not true and are just a lazy excuse for being ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 06:14 AM
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But you said you didn’t care for people you don’t know. How have people you don’t know earned any label?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:40 AM
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Yes there are times when generalizing might be necessary. Generalizing negative connotations into massive populations like gender and race... not so much. I was talking about generalizing women as toxic and selfish people which is not helpful or necessary in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:40 AM
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I appreciate the honesty. but I don’t know why you’d be okay with that. I mean, wouldn’t your issue with women be that you don’t think they’re good people because they only care for themselves. Yet, you’re fine just not caring about people and labeling them in ways convenient for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:02 AM
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Generalizing people is never good in my opinion. Plus, it’s pretty infuriating when my experiences are being invalidated and people assume they know me better than I know myself. Seems like a confirmation bias fallacy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:49 AM
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The idea of AWALT pisses me off pretty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:35 AM
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There’s no actual definition of cheating lol and it can’t be cheating if it’s okay in the relationship the point of cheating is that your “cheating” the terms of that relationship. It’s fine if that’s considered cheating to you but it’s not a universal rule
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:14 AM
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No lmao it’s impossible to be cheating if I’m okay with it. Me and my boyfriend are the ones who define our boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 09:56 PM
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Cheating is defined differently to other people. My boyfriend knows I don’t care if he looks at porn, so he’s not cheating when he does. However in other relationships it might be established that that’s not okay. But in my opinion, we can’t help our minds. We all are attracted to multiple people, not just our partners. It’s doesn’t matter what you think about as long as you care enough to control those urges. I don’t see the point in policing what my boyfriend looks at online so long as I’m the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:55 PM
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I think this is because of the way we treat men when they are emotional. It bothers people if a wife’s husband has a girlfriend because you think “ that’s sad, she probably feels sad or insecure about this.” But with men people expect them to “man up” and “get over it.” But I mean, either way if all people involved know and are okay with it who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:59 AM
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Lol my friends ex said that to her. Though I know he’s an unusual one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:07 AM
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I usually feel bad. I don’t like telling people things they don’t want to hear and it’s hard for me to turn people down. Now I have a boyfriend though so now I have a solid explanation. But when I was single it just made me feel uncomfortable because of course it’s a sweet gesture to show somebody you’re interested in them and it takes a lot of guts and I hate to turn people down but I don’t want to lead anyone on so it was an internal battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:45 AM
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I mean, you created a very negative definition so of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:37 AM
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I believe theres somebody for everybody.In fact, I thinks there’s got to be multiple people for each person. That being said, your people have other options too and many of your people you will never meet because they live too far away. Or maybe you meet them but never actually get to know them. So, some people will die alone. But nobody is destined to be alone, they just were never at the right place at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 07:39 AM
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I don’t think it’s a big deal at all. When other things go on in your life ( like a migraine) you don’t always say things in the nicest way because you’re stressed out. It happens to literally everybody. It doesn’t make it okay, you should apologize after. But you should also be understanding that somebody wasn’t feeling well and not take it to heart. They both messed up, but it’s not anything serious. I don’t get why anybody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:05 PM
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Never. I’m glad that I’ve gotten to experience romantic love the way I do. I am really in love. And it’s true, I can be deeply hurt by this. But, my boyfriend honestly seems to be the only one who really cares about my wellbeing. My friends will put me in dangerous situations because they’re only concerned with fun. But my boyfriend makes sure I’m safe and comfortable. I can’t imagine choosing not to experience something that can be so wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:12 AM
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I don’t really believe it’s special if your love is an Android who is everything you want them to be. The best love isn’t easy to find for a reason. It’s scary, because they can break your heart. But then again, I’d take that over some Android who’s only with me because that’s what they were made to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 07:38 AM
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True. I was anorexic my last few years of high school. And as embarrassing as it is I only started eating more when I realized if I worked out and ate more I could grow my ass. With the media these days it’s really easy to get caught up on your body. Here I am, a student, a preschool teacher, and a musician. I have a 3.5 gpa, am half way to a degree, preform music at restaurants, and have a bunch of kiddos I love who look up to me and I am here all concerned about if I’m pretty enough even thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:16 AM
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Imagine going through a loss, say a loved one dies, and this robot is trying to comfort you. Your pain is nothing more to that Android except a chance to show off how it was programmed to deal with this situation. But they don’t actually feel a thing. Just like when you die, they won’t feel a thing. But they never felt a thing. on your wedding night, they didn’t feel it. When you guys adopt your child, they didn’t feel it. I personally don’t think it’s fair for a child to have a parent that not …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:36 PM
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Wouldn’t that feel kinda lonely, because while you love this AI, deep down you know they don’t feel anything and they’re just programmed to be what you love? Isn’t the really special thing about being in love is that it makes you feel lucky that this person who you love so much, loves you back? Not to mention, many people want kids. And lastly, you and your robot would never relate. I know lots of people on here love to talk about how women hit a wall and that it decreases their sexual value, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 04:05 AM
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I think you’re forgetting that sex is not the main reason to be in a relationship. Most importantly, people want to feel loved and like somebody understands us. Otherwise, FWB would work perfectly well for everyone. I don’t think that the deep want for emotional connection is just gonna magically go away in 20 years because extreme feminism exists and you can order a realistic sex doll online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 03:58 AM
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(Female, 20) A relationship weak in either of these areas would be very difficult for me. Honestly either would make me insecure. To be emotionally unsatisfied Would mean he was distant and not didn’t show much affection. Like if he didn’t make an effort to see me much and when he did he was always focused on something else. To be sexually unsatisfied would mean he didn’t seem very sexually interested. I guess for me that would mean if sex dropped to just 2 times or less a week(as a constant thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 01:44 AM
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This is not true. I’ve been not interested in guys until I get to know them. And I’ve been attracted to guys until I get to know them and it doesn’t have to be because they did something horrible, it’s just because we have no chemistry. Sure, within 15 seconds I can say if I find somebody visually attractive. But being visually attractive doesn’t mean I’m gonna wanna sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:31 PM
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If deep down you’re a bad girl then sure. I think that only happens when you’re not genuine. I mean, I’ve always been a “good girl” and nobody gives me shit for it. But if I were to start marketing myself as bad I’m sure I’d get lots of people calling me out for not being as bad as I say I am. Because deep down, I know that wouldn’t come naturally to me. I wanted it to when I was younger so I could fit in better with the popular kids but that’s just not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:53 PM
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Yeah that’s probably part of it. I mean, that would make sense from a survival standpoint. And even though we likely don’t need that protection as much these days as we did in more primitive times, it makes sense that could still be in our subconscious. But I still think that the passion behind the anger is important. A man protecting himself or others is attractive, but there’s a thin line from safe to scary. And from a survival standpoint you wouldn’t wanna be with somebody who’s anger becomes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 07:44 PM
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Personally I don’t get it either. But I think it’s more about the passion behind the anger. I’ve heard girls get all excited that a boy got violent with somebody who creeped on his little sister and say he’s hot. But they don’t say that about a guy who’s just making an ass of himself at a bar. And I really think the whole “ I want two men to fight over me” trope is more of a teenage girl fantasy than anything else. Nobody wants to marry someone who’s constantly having anger issues. Passion can b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 02:35 AM
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Well I wouldn’t want to be pregnant while stranded on an island that’s for damn sure. And seeing that I’m also attracted to women, I’d likely look for a female partner. Also I don’t think I’d care too much to further the human population.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:41 AM
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I lurk on here because I find it interesting how you guys think. We don’t agree on much, but I still have read things in here I see as valuable.
/r/MGTOW212/01/19 04:58 AM
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I do love my father, but no I would not. I actually kinda swore to myself not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:08 AM
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I don’t. I don’t think it’s something you should strive for, but if you end up pregnant and the man isn’t interested in being in your lives, I don’t think it’s dumb to decide to have the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:31 AM
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The mom doesn’t have to fill the obligations either she has options, she would have made the decision to have the child. I don’t think choosing to have a child as a single parent is dumb, if you do then that’s your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:15 AM
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we actually grew up quite the same. I recognized very young that my dad didn’t love my mom. He was abusive both emotionally and physically, and I remember sleeping with them in their bed one night because they had been fighting and I thought if I told them I was scared and needs to sleep in their room that they’d stop. Once my mom thought I was asleep I heard her say to my dad in a really heartbreaking tone “ did you really mean it when you said you never loved me?” And my dad said something lik…
/r/MGTOW210/01/19 07:35 PM
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Just cause somebody knows they’re doing a shitty thing doesn’t take away their responsibility. It’s shouldn’t be such a rough thing to understand both parents are equally responsible. Also why did you respond to my initial question asking for proof if you weren’t interested in it. That was my main point. But if you seriously would rather any potential criminals to be aborted then you and I will never reach an agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:54 PM
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Lmao okay sure let’s just give the men a pass because they’re less selective. Don’t act like men are just so desperate for sex they’ll get it anywhere, that’s not true. The man is being just as dumb for choosing a woman who would get him in that situation. Maybe he can leave and not raise it, but child support should be his concern. Just cause a woman carries the baby doesn’t mean he’s not responsible too. Maybe he’s not responsible for what it does for her life, but he is 50% responsible for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:08 AM
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I don’t understand how a man and a women have sex and have a child and either one of them is any more responsible for it. These men are adults, they know what sex does. Their responsibility doesn’t just go away because they don’t care about the woman or their baby. Also I’m sure if you asked single mothers if they regretted having a baby close to 100% would say no. Maybe the extra time and money is better than a child to you, but usually the parent loves their child so much that it makes up for …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:43 AM
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You’re acting like having a single parent makes you better off dead. I’ve had a relatively bad upbringing. Abusive father, heroin addict brother, OCD mom who refuses to get meds and also never stood up to her abuse, alcoholic brother. I could’ve turned out pretty fucked up. There was a time when you could’ve said I should’ve been aborted. But I’m the first in my family to go to college, I’m in love, I’m at a job I love. My life is turning out good. I’m glad I’m alive. And I’m willing to bet most…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:15 AM
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Yeah and I understand that aspect. If a woman is irresponsible with sex and has a baby with somebody who isn’t interested in being a father they’re less likely to be responsible enough for a child. I can accept that harsh truth. But, what are they supposed to do once they’re in that situation? And couldn’t you also say that’s just as much of the fathers fault because he’s the idiot who nutted in a woman he had no interest of having a child with. And then instead of trying to parent (by single mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:05 AM
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I drive to my boyfriends house a few nights a week and sleepover even though I have to get up even earlier in the morning to get to school or work. This can make me very tired because we will stay up a bit later than I normally would and I wake up earlier and I take early morning classes and sometimes have to be at work by 7 am. but it’s worth it for me. Also just general acts of kindness for him. Like bringing him coffee to bed or if he leaves before me I’ll make his bed. Sometimes I sit in his…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:13 PM
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Just because men are usually the ones who put in the initial work in the relationship, doesn’t mean they aren’t desired. Any person in a loving relationship should strive to boost their partners ego and not bring them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:39 AM
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See i was stuck in a situation like that. It felt so intense for me though I genuinely didn’t believe it was possible for him not to feel the same. I thought maybe deep down he felt it but he needed to realize it on their own. And unfortunately was aware of my feelings and saw no issue using me for validation when the girls he really liked didn’t pay him enough attention. But ya know, we both ended up learning the lessons we needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:09 AM
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Mind sharing your source where you got this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:26 PM
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this isn’t about dating but here’s the worst experience I’ve had When I was 16 I was being harassed by a 26 year old man who made a bunch of comments to me about how I look like “10 years in prison” and whatnot and he kept telling all the under 18 year old boys to hit on me or touch me “cause they can.” Nobody went as far as to sexually assault me, but I was afraid it would happen that night. since then I do try to not let myself be in scary situations. I don’t get drunk unless I’m with a group …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:21 PM
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I think if anyone cheats then it’s over. There are underlying issues that cause people to cheat. Either they’re a shitty person or there’s issues in the relationship. Either way, the sooner you end it and move on the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:10 AM
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Yeah I think the difference more so comes down to being responsible and trustworthy. More so I think about children. I couldn’t marry a man I wouldn’t trust to be a good father to my future children. Sure, part of that is being responsible with money. But more so is what will he teach our hypothetical children. I was raised in a pretty sad environment where I witnessed emotional and physical abuse. As painful as all of it was, at least I learned what not to do. So, my expectations for a husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 07:55 PM
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They’re filled with the male version of what OP said. If you look at the comments it’s community posts it’s often guys blaming all women for the wrong doings of their ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:52 PM
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Maybe by your own concept of marriage. I personally think there’s a lot more to marriage then sex. I don’t care if he’s slept with a few women in his past if I’m the one he chose to be with for life and have a family with. Sure, maybe I’d be insecure if he slept with a lot of women because I’d worry about how I compare. But I don’t understand the whole devaluing a person because of their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:47 AM
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I feel like that’s more of a everybody issue than just a women issue. Try looking at MGTOW lol. But yeah it’s a harsh lesson we all have to learn. In high school basically everybody close to me was using me or taking advantage of me in someway, even people who I still consider good people. So now I’m working on myself and how to stand up for myself and set better boundaries. It sucks because I like trusting people and seeing the good in everyone. I think we all have to realize if the same horrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:34 AM
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Honestly I don’t care about either too much. I see what you mean and how one might feel that way, but I think the way these things are used today is much more innocent. If my bf asked my parents to marry me, My first thought is “ he cares about my parents opinion and that’s very sweet.” I personally want to change my name because I want the same name as my future husband and kids. I associate changing my name with becoming a family. also I am not attached to my maiden name at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:28 AM
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Me and my boyfriend have always taken turns paying. If somebody buys a more expensive thing the other will pay a few times until we feel even. It’s similar to splitting the bill I suppose, except we both get to feel like we are doing a nice thing for the other. This is what I recommend because I think there’s a joy you get from both paying and receiving. Especially because you never feel taken advantage of. And we’ve never had an argument or and issue with this system with 2+ years together. Of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:25 AM
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I get that, and I agree. But i don’t see how that’s a bad thing. And I also wouldn’t go as far as to say that traits of sociopathy is male nature. I think there’s a big difference between surviving and actually not being able to feel remorse. And there’s a reason why most men aren’t diagnosed as sociopaths, because most men are not sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:16 PM
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Nope, it’s actually a mental disorder. It’s otherwise known as “antisocial personality disorder” and it’s in the DSM-5 and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:01 AM
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Hmm. I’ve never started that talk so I can’t really say. But I don’t see why it alone should be a problem. I do kinda think men probably feel like they’re supposed to do it so maybe if the woman does it, it can make them feel a bit emasculated. Which probably sounds dumb but I think our society puts a lot of pressure on men to be the dominant one and that they’re supposed to make moves. I could see how a woman who does that may be more likely to be more dominant in general and that could make so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:37 PM
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I believe there was this study done on mice (this could be sorta off but this is what I remember) where they’d put treats under these cups. At first they were always there and the mice would obviously eat them. They slowly stopped adding treats as often until eventually putting them in hardly ever at all. But the mice were obsessive about checking for them. That’s kinda how I see being addicted to emotionally unreliable partners. I was in a situation like that for a while with my first “love”. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 02:40 AM
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I want to be married one day, not necessarily for the marriage itself I guess but for what it symbolizes in the relationship. To me I guess it’s really beautiful to think of being in love so much you both choose to (ideally) spend the rest of your lives together. I guess I’ve just always grown up in a society where that’s what you do when you’re that serious about a person. And that’s what I really want, is a relationship that strong where we decide we are partners for life. And I also want chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 02:22 AM
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I would prefer a virgin personally. If im being honest, I’m too insecure to feel like I’m being compared to 30 women. If the number were lower, I’d be okay with it but if I had to choose between the two, I certainly wouldn’t be happy being number 31. I know myself and I know that would be bad for me. That wouldn’t be his fault though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:31 AM
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When I do get hit on it’s usually done in respectful ways. One guy did kinda stand in front of the door of the steam room at my gym so I couldn’t get out and that was super annoying but I still felt safe because the gym staff was in the building. Though I do look quite young for my age and I think most guys are too afraid to hit on me because even though I’m 20, I could pass as 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:16 AM
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This is pretty fucked up
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 11:38 PM
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I understand it’s hard to open up after you’ve been Hurt. I can relate in the sense that I’ve had a really hard time making new friends since my best friend betrayed me. And honestly I only have 2 friends I see occasionally and a boyfriend I see a lot and I’m busy yet I feel this pressure to have more friends. honestly if it weren’t for that pressure of having more friends just being what I’m “supposed to do” I would be totally content. And I imagine you feel the same way, like you’re just “supp…
/r/MGTOW30/12/18 05:16 PM
2

Lol gotta love the “if you don’t want what I have, you’re gay” card.
/r/MGTOW29/12/18 04:59 PM
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And that masked sense. I have no issue with people choosing not to marry. Though you seem a lot more level headed than some that I see on here. But then again I should take my own advice and recognize not all of you are like that.What bothers me is when I see comments that say things that aim to invalidate women’s feelings. I’ve seen many things about women not being able to truly love and stuff like that. And that just makes me very sad to read. Another thing that pisses me off is the way some …
/r/MGTOW29/12/18 01:28 AM
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I’m confused though, are women whores or not? You seem to believe women sleep around a ton, but men need to try really hard to get them to? And then you guys are upset that women aren’t all virgins? I’m no feminist, but I’m gonna have to question this. Cause the way you’re wording this sounds like you want women to be more open to casual sex so you don’t have to lie to get it. But then go “where are all the good girls who don’t sleep around?” So what exactly are we supposed to be? And I’m very a…
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 08:17 PM
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I like psychology and understanding people I disagree with, that’s why I read. But I comment because throwing myself in situations where people dislike me is part of what I’m doing to try to get over my social anxiety, just to show me it’s okay if people don’t like me.
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 08:01 PM
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Doesn’t make it okay. “ if I could afford it, I wouldn’t steal it.” How does your justification work there?
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 07:42 PM
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If I wanted attention I don’t think I’d be on an anonymous account taking to MGTOW followers. I’d be on Instagram or some shit, but I don’t use social media because I’m not looking for attention.
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 04:11 PM
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This isn’t a secret club this is a Reddit page
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 05:04 AM
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Well for starters, I’m a woman so by your definition I don’t think that applies to me? But I’m in a 2+ year long relationship.
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 03:42 AM
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So are you saying that perhaps human nature is the enemy after all? Because that is something I can agree with more. But I don’t understand pumping and dumping. Are you punishing a few individuals just because you don’t like all women? I honestly don’t have a problem with hook ups if both parties are okay with it and understand it’s just sex. But I’ve seen many comments on this sub like “ lie to them and tell them you love them if you have to then pump and dump.” And it pisses me off. A man trie…
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 03:28 AM
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See, your logic seems flawed in some areas to me. The first being that you blame feminism for why women act in ways you don’t like, that makes sense. But then you contradict that by saying that there are no good women left. That doesn’t make sense together. To say feminism destroyed women is saying that they have been affected by an outside influence. That makes sense to me. But to say there are no good women... what about those who’ve grown up differently than the ones you’ve met in your cultur…
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 01:53 AM
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Are you saying it’s easy to raise a child? Cause I honestly think parenting is the most important responsibility out there.
/r/MGTOW27/12/18 09:03 PM
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That’s funny you mention that, I’m actually a fan of Jaclyn Glenn. She is a liberal who befriended Blair white who is very conservative and watching their videos together was really cool because I used to have a “ all conservatives are awful” mindset. ( yeah, I was about to be a vegan SJW haha ). But growing up has made me a lot less angry and a lot more curious.
/r/MGTOW227/12/18 06:29 AM
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Yeah, the vegan community can be very toxic. I actually was mostly influenced by freelee the banana girl when she was still with durianrider. ( crazy YouTube vegans, look up their old videos for a laugh) while I never said anything pushy to anyone, I was very angry at first after learning all that knowledge. But After all that information sits with you for a while I think you calm down and start to see the world in a more accurate way, usually a mix of the bad and the good. I think that’s just t…
/r/MGTOW227/12/18 05:58 AM
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I am a woman and was a devoted vegan for 2 years. I was emotionally driven. Not just by my love for animals, but also my own insecurities of my body. I believed it would make me thinner. Now I’ve accepted it was a cover up for an eating disorder. I even had myself fooled. I still love veganism and I think it’s a good thing if done for the right reasons. But I am no longer vegan because that’s not healthy for me until I fix my mental state.
/r/MGTOW227/12/18 05:09 AM
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I find myself all over the internet. I just like to understand people. I saw a video about this sub on YouTube and it got me curious. I wanted to understand why men would choose to go their own way.
/r/MGTOW26/12/18 03:46 PM
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Oh sorry I did kinda word that weird. We aren’t in the honeymoon phase we’ve been together over 2 years. I just meant that I’m okay not being in the honeymoon phase. Though perhaps something important to note about myself is that my father was abusive to my mom when I was a kid so I value very different things in relationships. I really just want a good man who I can trust and that I have fun with and I have that and I would be a complete fool to do anything that would ruin it.
/r/MGTOW26/12/18 09:10 AM
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That’s a very cynical way to see it. But it’s not true for me. I don’t expect to be in the honeymoon phase forever. That’s why I think many relationships don’t work is because people have it mixed up about what a relationship really is. He’s not here to compliment me 24/7 while buying me gifts and doing me favors. He doesn’t have to plan exciting dates to take me on so I don’t get bored. I’m not entitled to his time. I trust him and I’m not going to be mad at him if he takes long to respond or i…
/r/MGTOW26/12/18 08:34 AM
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I am a female who unconditionally loves my boyfriend.
/r/MGTOW26/12/18 06:49 AM
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Well aren’t you quite the assumption maker. First assuming I’d delete and second assuming I actually like Hillary. To be clear I’m not a fan of Hillary. But okay let’s dissect that tweet. Like I said earlier, this is used in the case of believing people who report sexual assault. This doesn’t mean put people behind bars just because a woman said so. What this means it to be supportive of people who open up because if they are telling the truth it can be very mentally harmful to be accused of lyi…
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 01:27 AM
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Highlighting issues and avoiding it instead of looking for a solution? Wow. if that’s what you really want to stand for then I guess go ahead but that’s pretty sad.
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 01:17 AM
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I do see an issue. But I don’t see how what this sub stands for is a solution. Feminism makes men out to be the devil, MGTOW makes women out to be the devil. I’m tired of the whole gender vs. gender battle. Divisions like this never solves problems it’s just creates them.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 05:21 PM
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Lmao why would I delete? Also I really don’t think anybody is saying believe all women always. The only time I’ve heard anything similar to this in the case of a woman accusing somebody of sexual assault and I think it’s meant more as a way to say “ support potential survivors.” And I don’t even necessarily think that but I don’t think anybody credible is out there saying believe all women always, they cannot lie. If you see that anywhere I’d like a link but I don’t think that exists.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 03:13 PM
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Do you seriously think a video of cherry picked events means anything? Somebody could make a whole video of a bunch of male rapists and murderers and do you know what it would mean? Absolutely nothing. Because generalizing groups of people based off a few individuals is nonsense.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 06:29 AM
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