hsmwill3 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness) Because standards change over time. What someone wants at one point (most probably younger) is some super hot guy, so this is set as a priority. Later down the line, an emotional connection trumps any hotness someone can have. Personally, when I’m in a relationship with someone, I wouldn’t bat an eye at the hottest women in the world as I don’t know them and know we most likely won’t connect on the same level as me and my partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 08:31 AM
5	Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness) One thing I see on here a lot is people saying guys can’t choose and women can. Guys can choose, once you stop valuing yourself on having sex all the time, you can hold out and set your standards higher. A woman with standards is attractive, and when viewed as not having sex or ‘sorting herself’ until she meets the right guy this is attractive. The same can be said for a man. You may not have sex for 1/2/3/6/12 months, but that is also fine. The second you stop placing value on how much sex you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 08:29 AM
7	I hate how much my confidence fluctuates. Some days I’ll wake up feeling handsome. Other days I’ll wake up feeling like Gollum thinking I’m being delusional about it all. Read the six pillars of self esteem, great book, helps with ways to maintain it	/r/seduction	22/08/21 08:30 PM
28	Why are men so persistent? Presumably all of these mean they don’t have a chance with you?	/r/seduction	22/08/21 08:16 PM
1	Social isolation is starting to get to me How old are you? I don’t think this is the case for people not in school/university	/r/seduction	10/08/21 08:33 AM
1	Social isolation is starting to get to me How do you meet women in a music class?	/r/seduction	10/08/21 08:31 AM
2	Girl B told me I was “the total package” in a text message Are you joking? Screenshotting a message for your Instagram story.. I thought the age was going to say 12 not 29 Christ.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 07:37 PM
74	23F and am coming up on a year of no sex. I (27M) would find having those standards for yourself extremely attractive in a women and think it’s very rare to find someone like that. Stick to your guns, don’t sleep with someone you don’t connect with for the sake of it. If anyone did find it strange it’s probably because they’re insecure themselves. And if you’re not satisfied sexually, find a way to do this yourself.. honestly you’re completely fine.	/r/seduction	05/08/21 07:50 AM
1	Do you guys bother with dating apps? I’ve deleted mine, I got matched quite a lot, but it seems to me, you’re always getting matched with people who you don’t find attractive at whatever level you are	/r/seduction	04/08/21 07:11 PM
1	How to stop being emotionally invested too fast? We did, she has since ignored me. Regardless, that’s not a question you should ask, it has no relevance to you, different people, different conversations, different worlds.. you cannot compare. Just do you.	/r/seduction	26/07/21 08:45 PM
2	How to stop being emotionally invested too fast? I don’t think you should double text. I think you should just do whatever you want, regardless of how you look. If it was me, I’d probably not want to double text as I’d assume she’s ignored me. But I had a scenario just like this, then a few days later I’d forgot, saw her story and found it funny then replied without even remembering she’d ignored my last message. Just do whatever you fancy man. And remember, it’s not the end of the world in any scenario that unfolds.	/r/seduction	26/07/21 08:27 PM
3	Is he interested? It’s not a ONS anymore, you’ve had a second date.. Just go about the situation as if it was anyone else you’ve dated previously. No one can read his mind. If you get to a 3rd/4th date it is perfectly acceptable for you to ask him what he is looking for.	/r/seduction	26/07/21 08:15 PM
13	How to stop being emotionally invested too fast? My best advice for you in this exact scenario is to stop looking to see who has viewed your Instagram story. There is actually no benefit to it, you can’t control it so it shouldn’t bother you. If she replies she replies, if not, then not. You can’t control it, don’t worry, go about your day, week, month. If she posts a story and you think it’s funny then tell her if you want, even if she hasn’t replied, same advice as above applies. Don’t have any expectations from anyone and just try and enjoy…	/r/seduction	26/07/21 07:41 PM
3	How should I respond when I initiate touch but she backs away? 😂	/r/seduction	20/07/21 09:18 PM
810	Guys falls asleep in my bed but doesn't want to cuddle?? Sometimes a person just wants to sleep, don’t overthink it	/r/seduction	20/07/21 12:26 PM
1	How do you approach a group of girls drinking at a table? So I did this twice last night… I walk up to the table, say hey are you girls from round here… they will answer. And whatever they say I’ll just be like oh right, what are you planning tonight? Me and my mates we’re just trying to figure out where the best places to go Are later.. Obviously be happy and smiley. Then presumably at least one of them will start telling you their plans, then you just go from there with normal chat, then if you’re there long enough either bring over your mates or say…	/r/seduction	16/07/21 01:11 PM
2	Great confidence and approach but girls always seem interested in my friends So the solution is only go out with worse looking guys?	/r/seduction	15/07/21 11:51 PM
2	Great confidence and approach but girls always seem interested in my friends I’m trying to understand what I’m doing wrong, hence the post	/r/seduction	15/07/21 11:43 PM