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Err....you sure these comments are actually snarky? They just sound like plain conversation comments to me
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 04:59 PM
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Is your husband attractive? Is he fat? Make sure he is actually an attractive man before you go beating yourself up
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 07:57 PM
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Same thing as a woman...once you're in a monogamous, long ass relationship, new and exciting things get your attention. You may want to sleep with a gorgeous young, fit guy but you still love the balding, dad bod husband. Sex and love don't necessarily go together for people.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 08:47 PM
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I was playing off three guys to see which one i would like the most. One of them really stood out and constantly went above and beyond. He is very successful and once I knew he was serious, I really got to know him and was happy with my choice. We're getting married in 9 days, he has bought us a house near the million mark and consistently shows me how much I matter to him. I love him to death and he is the best man I could have ever asked for. I am 33. Never ever settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:48 PM
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That's because you come across as not having anything else to do but support your husband (whatever that actually means) and staying at home. Which sounds like you don't have any interests in anything but doing that....!
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 09:34 PM
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Er.... firstly Russian is spoken in many places around the world and it's not the only language to not have articles, so that's a bit of a stretch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 10:16 AM
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Siberia is actually beautiful, please don't ruin it with this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 10:01 AM
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In many ways you can't know until you do, and most people won't own up to the fact they hate it/regret it. So... pretty difficult question to answer. Theoretically, I think it's pretty ridiculous to say it's the most gratifying thing a woman can experience.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/19 04:41 PM
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"decent enough" + small + doesn't bother to satisfy you. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 10:26 PM
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Spoken like a man who is threatened by an internet forum...
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 06:18 PM
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I am a big fan of the rebound. Helps me feel better, enjoy life more and get over my ex. Rebounds have a natural end point and I have never fallen for a rebound. So I am personally in strong support. It's a pretty human reaction and it's definitely helped me make good choices with partners
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 09:49 AM
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Stop with the victim mindset. They didn't "have you", you f*cked them yourself. Ok. So what. You have had sex prior to your current partner and guess what, it's not the end of the world. It would be nice but it's not reality. You have now experienced a little bit of the outside world and as another poster mentioned, be grateful for it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 09:44 AM
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Go back to the male subs buddy, some people are indeed very pressed for time
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/19 09:20 PM
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My darling, rapists aren't people who sit in parks waiting to jump on unsuspecting women. Rapists are people who continue to have sex with someone when that other person says no, or doesn't consent at all. No man or person worth their salt would act like this. This guy is revolting...what goes on in his head that he thinks he is entitled to do that to you? What does he see you as? You said stop, he didn't. This is the definition of sexual assault. It's clear you're torn up about this and this is…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 02:30 PM
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Aren't transgender men...women? So really, are they actually catering to men? Also honestly, does this really impact you. Btw I recommend looking into things like Modibodi
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:36 PM
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This is rape. I'm so sorry. Please seek counseling. Sending you lots of hugs. I would msg this person and tell them what they did was sexual assault, but that is your decision
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 12:58 PM
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Definitely line yourself to cut all ties. Best advice and observation I have about relationships - a man will make time for you and lock you down if he thinks you're important to him. You should always feel secure in your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 11:39 AM
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Walk. Now. Wtf is this guy . You seem self aware and commited. He sounds like moron. Next.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 08:18 PM
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Errr....no.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 09:58 PM
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Don't be smug. You're taking solace on someone else's (perceived) unhappiness. That is one of the most ugly, unfeminine, unwise and cruel things you can do. You don't know that your marriage won't fail or some horrible thing won't befall you or your partner cheats on you. Be happy for what you have and focus on growing into the best person you can be. Stop being a mean awful person.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 07:00 PM
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Wtf....does your husband respect you as a human being? Do you respect yourself?
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 03:44 PM
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I don't really follow your comment, I am sorry. I don't think being able to sleep with a 22 year old is a sign of anything inherently, certainly not of being an alpha man. Also honestly that group dynamic just sounds straight up weird or maybe you are interpreting it in a very particular way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 02:25 PM
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Wait - so why were there MSG's from other girls on his phone? I don't think your reaction was in any way inadequate and I am more concerned that the fact he had MSG's from other women seems to be getting ignored. My partner and I have a very clear policy to avoid exactly that situation so maybe this is me projecting, but I would just caution you don't gaslight yourself into thinking this is you being insecure...
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 09:45 AM
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In my experience those men are not alpha men. I have yet to meet a true alpha man, especially of that age, who actually wants 22 year olds. My partner is a very respected surgeon around the 40 age mark as are his friends and they would absolutely not want 22 year olds because they are basically children in their eyes. They are also men of integrity and have strong family values.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 08:24 AM
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Hmmm...he is almost 40, dating someone 10 years younger and asking for your n-count? Is he actually alpha? As to your question - you have boundaries. Respect them no matter the man.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 06:59 PM
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Same with mine. He really doesn't like childlike or helpless/'save me' behaviour. Which makes it sometimes tough to navigate ideas likr feminine vulnerability etc
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 04:23 PM
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Kind of just sounds like he was dating around and finally settled on his first preference (this other girl). You were not it. So move on?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/19 10:18 AM
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It's really astounding that this question would even be posed. The world is not black and white, women over the age of 30 are not invisible hideous creatures and men don't only want 21 year olds. There is such variety in this world and it's worrying that people think society can be broken down into such "rules"
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 10:10 PM
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?????
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 09:44 PM
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Are you seriously saying that based on your very limited experience of two jobs, you would never recommend a woman for a leadership position 😂
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 04:12 PM
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Yep, and I love it. Very intelligent and driven environment. Partner is a surgeon who is often surrounded by women, he is very positive about it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 04:08 PM
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Um ok lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 05:14 PM
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I am not sure she is following any advice per se, and she seems very conflicted about the tension of what she should be doing and not knowing what she actually wants to do. If she flings herself into RPW that is as damaging to her as flinging herself into some other 'way' of living. I reiterate that she should take the time to figure out what she wants, irrespective of what she perceives society to want of her.... no matter what form that may take
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 02:19 PM
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Girl honestly the best advice I can give you is that you need to realise you can live your life like YOU want. So you don't have to become a tedious housewife, or forget you have a brain and follow a man around. In fact you don't need to have anything to do with men except use them for sex if you need. If you are intelligent and capable, you can make your own money. The benefit of being a woman is you can have a child on your own if you want. That's the beauty of it all. You are not reliant on a…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 10:34 AM
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I definitely assume the guy is a slut and don't see him for a second date
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 03:09 PM
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I disagree. Meeting someone you find generally attractive from pictures and who seems to carry on a general level of conversation (grammar, spelling etc) is good enough to meet with. You may have amazing conversation online and feel nothing when you meet. It's the worst feeling because you also spent time building it up in your head. Also online dating is fast - you're not supposed to spend 2 weeks texting someone before you meet.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 10:22 AM
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I successfully play this game because it comes naturally to me, probably due to cultural upbringing. I haven't chased a man, initiated or asked first in my life. But I also have the goods to back it up. Don't play if you're not genuinely hard to get.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 05:27 PM
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Avoid!!!
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 05:24 PM
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You're a man that has questionable value-add to this forum. I recommend you stick with TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 02:38 PM
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Ok? Not sure how your personal situation matters to the topic?
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 11:19 AM
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A man who trawls through online Red Pill forums is absolutely not a man red pill women want to attract. High value men aren't raging and bitching about women/life/how hard things are for them on the internet. So yes, in case you are not aware, there is a big difference between high value men and those on RP reddits.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 11:10 AM
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I don't think that makes any sense. Not sure why a high value man would be so shaken by no kiss on the first date. They literally just met, it's ok. An "RP" man is however, not a high value man nor a type we would want to attract.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 10:38 AM
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First date kiss is wishy washy? Really? I don't kiss until the second, preferably the third
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 08:17 AM
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Not a homestead one but this woman is wonderful to follow for feminine ideas and now motherhood (it's only in Russian though) https://youtu.be/sigo_VFuNj4
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 09:30 AM
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Didn't say there was anything wrong with that. I also think OP's take is a little naive. Doing good for the world and worshipping him? Unless he is in about 4 types of roles, he is probably just working to make money and provide for himself and family than doing good for the world. So let's be realistic here. Secondly, even housewives have interests and should definitely have independent financial means.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 10:40 AM
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Gorgeous, thank you for sharing! There are some really lovely Russian channels like this too
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 07:57 AM
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I do get where you are going with this but you sound slightly naive. You sound like a potential doormat, firstly. Always make sure you aren't worshipping another human being. Have your own interests and money. Secondly, I don't know which mythical corporate world you're in but not every unmarried working woman in her 30s/40s is miserable and hates life. I'm sure if I saw one married woman with a bunch of young children looking harangued and ugly because she hasn't had time to shower and extrapol…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 07:50 AM
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I asked the first point because it seems to be like a very important part of life, especially for a healthy person, so to abstain from that because you want to keep an imaginary trophy seems extreme
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 09:20 PM
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There are two comments that come to mind 1) Don't you actually want to experience sexual pleasure? Is it something that you perceive as dirty? Do you at all have interest in having a lover and exploring that about yourself? 2) Having consensual sex before you get married won't hamper your ability to pair bond. I've had sex with plenty of people and still manage to have happy, fulfilling relationships and am getting married now to a high value man. I am yet to meet one of these mythical women...i…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 08:08 PM
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Lol, no men don't automatically gain SMV as they age. Not all men become wealthy, successful, healthy and attractive. I would say overwhelmingly few do. I think you have a very 2D view of the world.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 06:11 PM
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I do agree that women at 26 don't want to bang a 50 year old tbh. They are generally clearly not as attractive or fertile as younger men. Most men worth their value won't want to bang women at the age of their daughters. I think this may be an American thing, not sure.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 09:58 AM
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By ovary scan do you mean ultrasound? Endo often cannot be diagnosed until they do a laproscopy. Mine was only removed because I had a large cyst that needed to get taken out and while they were in there they burnt it off. Huge difference and the surgeon explained they cannot see anything until they get in there.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/19 08:17 PM
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It sounds like you may have endometriosis. There are several ways you can tackle this, and I would strongly encourage talking to a doctor about this. If they don't take you seriously either tell then you think you have endometriosis or go find a doctor who will listen. I've had a laproscopy for endo and it changed my life. It is no longer crippling.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/19 04:02 PM
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Argh yes this!!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 11:33 PM
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OP says that her husband never initiated sex, was "relaxed" and overall she mothered him. One can fairly ask whether with her new approach, her husband became less of a son and more of a partner. If all she did was change her attitude (which is admirable) but nothing tangibly changed in the marriage, that undermines the entire post (that the roles were reversed). Instead now OP is arguably existing in the same relationship, just with a different perception of her reality. Which is a welcome, but…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/19 01:04 PM
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But did he end up stepping up to the role as a father? I would be really interested in how much of this is down to your behaviour and how much is it just him being lazy
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/19 12:55 PM
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That's because it's mostly bullshit. We also had communities where it was a positive for women to sleep around to increase the genetic variation of their children and communities would raise children, not just in a nuclear family format.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 02:19 PM
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Yes. They do. Cheating is ultimately about the person and only about them. Go read r/adultery and you will see men with perfectly happy marriages still going to the side. I also would question how long you could sustain a sex rate of 1-2 times a day. In my mind, once a cheater, always a cheater. That has definitely been my experience. And the 12 years of cheating on a wife....it would be an extremely hard no from me. You can't prevent cheating. You can be your best self and be the best partner p…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 07:57 PM
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I lost mine at 14 to a boyfriend. It was young, but actually it was really lovely experience. We were both virgins. Virginity is an area I really do think TRP over emphasises and this may be an American thing. Sex is not supposed to be shameful but it very much seems to be interpreted that way in some of these realms.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 01:35 PM
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