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Are you generally speaking the sort of person who would be considered a nice dude? Do you risk offending people to say things you find true, funny, or to otherwise express yourself? Do you pipe down to avoid risking tension? Do you ever default to conversational topics that are likely to go over successfully but you don't particularly care about? Are you willing to contradict someone directly when you disagree with them, even if they're someone you're attracted to? Are you avoiding topics that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:33 AM
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This is cope. Average for a man is fine. You're likely shooting yourself in the foot by coming across ass needy and validation seeking as you compulsively try and entertain women and earn their approval. Being funny and conversational is good; being reflexively inoffensive and safe is far worse than being average looking. These women can likely tell you're trying to satiate an urge for ANY companionship rather than interested in one of them in particular. Abandon outcome seeking socializing beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:22 AM
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How high up on your priority list are A) the text timing shit and B) "resistance to your advances and shit tests"? I would hope "pretend to not be interested in me and play mind games for a bit" isn't a bedrock foundation level element of your ideal successful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:10 AM
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This is a sane and well adjusted take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:01 AM
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I believe some call them "sea cows", if that's more to your liking. Terrestrial fats, similarly, are often referred to as "land whales". Truly. Remarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:09 PM
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Being socialized isn't indoctrination. Also, can we please stop using the nebulous "society" as the culprit? Men are incentivized to do things that will make other men respect them and will convince women to sleep with them. Men respect some variety of competence and traits that make for a loyal comrade in arms, so to speak. Women will sleep with men who seem masculine and like they have enough resources or cache to take care of them. We're gynocentric, though. Men aren't the sex that chooses in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:01 PM
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Toxic masculinity is when people dislike how you do man shit and being a high value male is when the manner in which you do man shit is attractive and appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:55 PM
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Overweight punk/scene/emo chicks almost universally still prefer to pursue skinny musical type boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:04 PM
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Ouch. Mean, but not wholly inaccurate. The South is more obese than the Midwest, and the West Coast and Northeast are the least fat, though still per capita pretty fat. Unsurprisingly, wealthier areas tend to be less fat and poor areas more so. All that aside? Our fats just happen to be fans of monogamy and thus will date other fats. Coastal fats are all polyamorous and nonbinary and whatnot now; while the coastal fats will have sex with other fats, it's less likely to find one settling down. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:00 PM
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People are online and have pornography to scratch libidinal itches. Less of them milling about in social spaces with the hopes of getting lucky. This said? How really common was approaching random women like, ever, in anglosphere countries? Like. I doubt our great grandparents were all gigachads so much as they likely grew up in smaller social circles and got married early. Approaching women has always been dangerous. Tbh? For both parties. You could ruin your reputation as a man or get beaten f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:41 AM
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Once. Ever stopped and acknowledged how little of shit you could give about sexism that men talk about? Have you ever weigh and compare the benefits of being a chick against supposed grievances? Let's rip this band-aid off - any accurate description of male and female dynamics is what most people would consider inherently sexist. Men and women are not equal. Obviously. Men and women are different and do different things and have different distributions regarding their capabilities and process th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:01 AM
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Because Tinder is inherently harder for men to use successfully, this sort of picture critique, especially about hunting or fishing photos, shows a lack of respect for and understanding of quintessentially masculine hobbies, attributions the difficulties men have on Tinder to garden variety dude pictures is off base and kinda blasé and mean, given we know Tinder has more male users than female and algorithms may ensure most of your swipes don't even see your profile, and lastly? ... because crit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:13 PM
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Wide hips are indicative of fertility. Shapely butt correlates to wide hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 07:17 AM
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Do you have knowledge of other countries and their norms regarding breastfeeding?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 07:15 AM
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...what the fuck's with the random slur?
/r/MensRights18/11/20 04:49 PM
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People care about women's issues; men are disposable. Standing up for "Men" in the same way women stand up for "Women" is, and will probably always be, perceived as insecure, angry, embittered, misogynistic, or unwarranted. You're not going to change peoples' reflexive reaction here. The only way I see the scales tipping again is if there's a neoreactionary cultural wave, that is, men *actually* institute a patriarchy, so to speak, and the odds of this happening are slim to none, at least here i…
/r/MensRights31/10/20 10:53 AM
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I take issue with your characterization of women's interrupting as cooperative. Women work substantially worse on group tasks than men do, especially if there's negative feelings between group members. Dudes can sublimate potential negative feelings in order to cooperate and focus on a specific task. First encountered this research on fuckin' NPR of all goddamn places. I may be nitpicking.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 03:28 PM
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No it isn't. Interruption is a natural part of conversation. It's more pronounced in and characteristic of men's conversation habits, but it's not inherently rude.
/r/MensRights29/10/20 02:47 PM
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Your speech isn't marked by its clarity. You're making distinctions people don't use and rationalizing around them. This is the opposite of clear. I don't have to evoke a third party boogeyman to make myself look like the superior person here. You're literally arguing against learning about things if those things are academic and denying biological science. And I don't hate those two groups. They're just misguided.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 08:01 AM
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Lmao. You're a fucking hypocrite. You're not "not being obscurantist" for not knowing the jargon; you're just uneducated. What you're doing, however? That's obscurantism. You're flashing archaic or otherwise not commonly used terms around for no reason but for the mystique. I'm assuming some crazy fucking religious chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:40 AM
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The difference between me and you? I'm replying *to* what you're saying, and you're accusing me of things that I don't believe. Your novelty/creativity distinction is missing the point and you ignored the whole "I write songs" part. I'm sorry that you're sad we live in a deterministic universe, btw. Science is scawwwy and makes me sad sometimes too :( Creating new language happens within the context of previous language known, the mechanisms that make it possible, and the instinct to bridge conc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:38 AM
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Oh and holy fucking shit, diversity or "strangeness" and you'd stupidly call it for no reason, maybe to be obscurantist about it....anyhoo, is SUPER CORRELATED WITH LESS PRODUCTIVITY, TRUST, LESS UNIONIZATION EFFORTS, ETC. You literally know nothing. I've been sharing this conversation with my friends to point at you and laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:30 AM
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Technical language is different than obscurantism. You'd know that if you were smart enough, but you aren't. Why are you so weird? Are you a feminist or a religious zealot or autist...?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:27 AM
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You have...never read anything on human biology or cognitive science or psychology, have you? Language acquisition and use? We have instincts for that. Your creativity comment is stupid and frankly I'm beginning to suspect you are as well. I'm a guitar player, temperamentally open and novelty seeking, a musician and producer who literally crafts songs from vague glimmers of inspiration snatched out of my skull. *Hate* creativity? Have you noticed your only lines of attack are strawmanning my pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:26 AM
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Uh yes it is. That's how all civilizations started. "This is US and everything else is OTHER and we're in this together against THEM or THAT". Lmao. You don't form civilizations with strangers. Tribalism is more than an impulse; it's a fundamental cognitive mechanism that we need to use and do use to make sense of things. Lmao. I'm pretty jaded on academia; I do, however, advocate for knowing what you're talking about and researching accordingly. I recommended you try it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:13 AM
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Aww. You don't realize that people actually *do* have instincts, lmfao. Holy crap, THAT MAKES YOUR SILLINESS MAKE SENSE. We didn't leave nature behind, heheeheh. Your distinction is dumb, dumb, duuuuumb. "You can either be a human, or act like a psychotic retard subhuman, you can't have both!" Yeah, no shit. People don't act like that. We have a lot of instincts and act on them. Living in a society requires these instincts to acquire language, navigate social norms, learn, etc. We're modular, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:03 AM
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"Should"? We *are*. We didn't overcome tribalism and we shouldn't try. Our instinct towards forming "tribes" is exhibited in any group behaviors we engage in, especially in a high-trust societies where even people you know are "sorta kinda" in your tribe and you act accordingly. Civilization is the most natural thing humans do. Well, smart ones, anyway. Weird how cities tend to pop up wherever people are given long enough periods of times. Your distinction between the biological and the human is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:58 AM
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Sex is part of nature. Gender was a synonym for sex until a child molesting pervert John Money made the distinction in order to justify a horrific medical experiment concerning two twins (both of which committed suicide as adults). You shouldn't use that term, as the experiment meant to justify the distinction was a complete failure. You should stop hating sex and sexed behavior; it's making you unhinged. You realize bEiNg A sLaVe To NaTuRe is just being oneself, right? Left to their own devices…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:54 AM
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You're suggesting we can change how people respond to something on a visceral, gut, emotional level. This is different from wearing a condom. Bad point, moving on. My mistake. You believe certain parts of people are previously written over blank slates that can be erased and tailored to your ideological goals if you give it another shot. You, however, are not talking about thoughts, or how we think about something; you're talking about a reaction. This is inborn. You can repress it, but it's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:46 AM
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Women think this because women lean towards hypergamy, gravitate towards the same top small percentage of males, and thus are used to shacking up with men who have enough options that *they don't care if you get off of not*. If you've never heard of a relationship where the woman is more sexual and sexually demanding, so to speak, you haven't spoken to many people. Get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:40 AM
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Then, fight against the macho mentality that feeds the one-sided view of sex. No, you won't do that by demanding multiples and putting extra strain and competition among men. In my opinion, if you're a person who decries machismo, stoicism, competitiveness and aggression, y'know, stereotypically masculine demeanors? You're not advocating on behalf on men and I kinda ask you go away and stop trying to help. Your idea of helping men is predicated on making them more dispositionally like women. I *…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:37 AM
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But that is wrong in so many levels. Why should people accept and make jokes about biological flaws that humanity can breakthrough? Because we're biological creatures and no amount of complaining about it is going to change how people feel and react about these issues. Tops, you can repress shit for a while, but that's about it. People are not blank slates. Give up this belief now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:31 AM
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I accept your apology completely and wish you well. I would like to add before I go that, hey, bud, I happen to fish plenty nowadays. It's just usually not my idea to go and I could take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 12:43 AM
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Ellipses are three dots, not four. You are a huge, cringy, lolcow. Your metaphor is creepy; are you equating asexuals and women and implying you're going to murder both? Why would you say such a thing? Edit: Wait, what the fuck, there are lots of fish that catch other fish. Your dumb dumb edgelord strained metaphor doesn't even make SENSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 12:16 AM
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Need? No. Want, intrinsically. Scantily clad bar flooziees (of...less than excellent positive/repute??) are similarly as viscerally attractive if not desirable on an intellectual level. If all of them only had eyes for one dude in the bar, that's non optimal. People still like flirting...or letting themselves be won over. ÷ ²
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 08:51 PM
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No. It's like how psilocybin mushrooms can make you feel more connected to music than you've ever been before but music isn't ruined after. In fact, you might even learn to appreciate it is a new way sober. That's what happened to me, anyhoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 08:48 PM
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In totality; one of my problems was finishing, not lasting, but it seemed to go on a long while as well. I haven't had an opportunity to do it again, or rather, haven't decided to do it again since, so maybe it'd prolong things now, idk. I'm prescribed Adderall and strictly adhere to recommended dosage because, well, I'm legit ADD as hell, but that night intentionally took a few because of the whole confidence boosting aspect of uppers and my nerves. I should mention that I'm asexual; something …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 08:20 PM
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The commodity is male attention, not sex. People like to feel wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 07:57 PM
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As a general rule, I assume the majority of women sleep with the minority of men. I make no assumptions about what these men look like from region to region. Condolences about Dankula, btw. I almost guarantee these people are not being direct, which makes them think they're being ignored instead of a dude just not...getting it....which turns to resentment which makes the gal snap and piss off and offend the dude. idk about the two way street thing. Like, I've offered points precisely twice in my…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:15 PM
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Apologies. I'm quitting nicotine and I've snapped at a couple people unnecessarily. My bad. Uh. Speed. Amphetamines. That'll totally do the trick, scout's honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:11 PM
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Oh, I apologize. I thought you were putting words in my mouth. I sincerely apologize; I'm quitting nicotine and it's making me testy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:09 PM
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I am not making that distinction at all. I fully acknowledge women get dolled up for Instagram audiences of primarily other women and without a dick in mind. I also acknowledge he spent more time talking about the shaming and not so much the presenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:08 PM
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First off? Shove your "lmao" straight up your ass; the condescension isn't necessary. Learning to enjoy oneself is half the battle, especially if you're an anxiety ridden man, and reaching orgasm is actually difficult for a lot of us. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201203/mens-secret-sex-problem Psych today isn't a great source, but it's what I could find in a couple minutes. There was a really good article about male "self-watching" during sex and how it led to worse outc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:05 PM
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Fuckin' duh, dude. Are you seriously unable to think of any male intra-group competition that isn't about women or mates? Really? Men and women compete among their groups for status in the hierarchy and whoever floats to the top is generally more dominant/successful, but a lot of the individual competitions isn't explicitly about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:46 PM
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And *satisfying* in ways the Big 5 CAN'T be because it's on a gradient. My self-serving theory is that only certain dispositions/temperaments can take the test in the way it was intended to be answered and get satisfactory and consistent results buuuuut idk if that works given the Big 5 isn't that different in terms of questions. Sticking to it, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:43 PM
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Okay, let's walk through this. Yes, sure, he's talking about shaming. And what are gals shaming other gals for...? For self promotion. It's in the post. > So in sum, female instrasexual comeptition involves self-promotion which means doing things such as putting on makeup, slutty clothes to signal your sexual availability, mate guarding by discouraging your mate/tribal men from seeking other women, and the derogation of other women, through usually indirect aggression but sometimes direct aggres…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:41 PM
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FELLOW ENTP REPORTING! You just described my brain. ...I simultaneously think Myers-Briggs is a glorified astrological sign chart (okay, a little better, as it folds in a few Big Five traits) while also finding *only* ENTP uncannily eerily spot on as a descriptor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:36 PM
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The point went over your head. Men don't always recognize female competition and women don't always call it what it actually is. If you want red-pilled dudes to stop calling gals sluts for sharing attractive mirror pics or gym photos in leggings, y'gotta contextualize it in a way we will be able to make sense of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:34 PM
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Thus far, it's an inverse relationship for me. Hopefully it'll change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:30 PM
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Jesus christ, the disregard in that first paragraph. The answer why "many men" don't try? You're drawing from a subset of men who get the most action and your pussy literally has less value because the supply is higher for these dudes. Other guys, y'know, the average joes and whatnot ? They try. There's a lot of ways in which the ego bruises in these situations, and I *absolutely* guarantee most of the offended ones are engaged in an anxiety induced silent sex routine with little talking and whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:27 PM
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Do you? A lotta people will sleep with a hot chick because, all things being equal, you'll pick the hotter one if you have options. That said, if you have two in the stable and the 7 is a better lay? I think most guys would choose the 7. Hands down, if we're talking a hookup situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:13 PM
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My most attractive lays were the worst lays. I'll take a solid and sought after 6.5-7 over a 9 any day. I feel like this person writing this hasn't done the sex or is...not attracted to women? Is this a LARP?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:11 PM
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It's for disease and childbearing reasons. That's it. It has nothing to do with judging women *back*.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:10 PM
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They're close enough, champ. Once you figure out the general dynamics and mechanics of the thing and get comfortable with them, it's pretty much all just variations on the theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:08 PM
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Ass-pull. Without a doubt. ...I am honor bound to point out my answer is the correct one to the anxiety topic but your reply concerning N is correct and I totally didn't think of that one. Regardless, men aren't judging gals on N out of some brotherhood hivemind retribution scheme over being judged as shitty lays. That's a dumb idea. It is not smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:05 PM
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The anxiety isn't about competition or the girl's number you fuckin' dorks. It's about the guy feeling insecure and not wanting to "fuck this up" or embarrass himself. If the sex isn't good, the sex isn't good, and a virgin isn't going to think they're super duper into it or the sex was sufficiently lengthy just because they're new. Men judge women (as do women) on N because it's hardwired in. Someone who sleeps around might not bear your child. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:51 PM
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You're both close. We wanna be comfortable and have fun while learning. Lacking experience is already and shot to the ego and letting someone down is another hit. Being judged while doing the wrong thing adds more anxiety to this issue and the thought that you might disappoint your partner and they'll never fuck you again finishes off this nervous sundae. Sleep with someone you're comfortable with and you could talk to during and look in the eye. That's what's going to help the anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:46 PM
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Nah. A guy who's had sex on the right kind of party drugs to delay orgasm, giving him enough time to figure things out, will be better because he'll be less nervous and figured out the essentials. I was a pitiful partner until funtime substances and a tinder hookup gave me around 10 hours to figure things out and experiment. The change in quality on my end, not to toot my own horn, was pretty much overnight. Y'just need time and attention, wherever you might find that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:41 PM
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They totally do, though. Women who put out easily and promiscuously and openly often receive female driven negative social consequences. Women compete just like men do in the sexual marketplace for male attention. A woman who is putting out with multiple partners is artificially cranking up her market value and also represents a potential man-stealer since she isn't tied to one person. Makes it harder for her peers to grab attention when they're not similarly available.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:38 PM
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I agree that principals are actually means to an end and not to be valued deontologically. I also think that many of us suspect protest feminist values and principles of most women are and have been primarily expedient in nature and not sincerely held. When hypocrite acts like a hypocrite and their bulshit is exposed to the world? Shame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 10:32 PM
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Apologies. My bad. It is frustrating. That other person did do that. ...THIS ISSUE IS GROSS
/r/MensRights15/12/19 05:13 PM
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Participants in the survey only number 92. Over 300 cases used for data Pool. Sexual impropriety only included physical contact in 78%ish of the cases and could be anything from "inappropriate touching" to sex. The former is so absurdly ambiguous as to make the study results meaningless.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 05:00 PM
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You're equivocating statutory and aggravated rape. u/TuckerMcinnes may or may not be correct, but you're being hyperbolic.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 04:58 PM
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The fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:51 AM
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Amoral? Sure. Objective? Nah. This sub does well in some regards, but is willing to ignore large parts of the human experience for sake of a low resolution, actionable philosophy and lens.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 09:18 PM
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Sex comes with risks. It is also a distraction. Chasing sex can come between you and your own goals and self actualization. It's not the goal; it's an indication you're doing well. Also, many people enjoy monogamy. Companionate love is a thing. Having a partner in crime is appealing.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 09:16 PM
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Polygraph tests are not evidence.
/r/MensRights21/06/18 06:12 PM
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Is it? It doesn't seem far fetched IMO
/r/MensRights25/04/18 09:31 AM
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Well, feminism ostensibly wants to either abolish all gender roles, rectify female oppression, and/or reach equal representation at work and public office. I don't think they particularly care if men feel lost or not as long as masculinity gets deconstructed. I think you have the order backwards and feminism is the tool with which to attain the goal of usurping men, at least in its current incarnation (oppressor v. oppressed dynamic and whatnot). Feminism cares less about converting men than it …
/r/MensRights25/04/18 09:31 AM
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I think you're reducing a large class of women assaulted by Weinstein to a far more specific kind of situation. From the stories, legitimately seems pretty monstrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 06:07 AM
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Two nicely dodged bullets, Neo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 02:17 AM
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More worried about the cultural changes and capitulation, and I think your chance of being the victim of a violent crime has a lot to do with whether or not you abide by certain unofficial speech codes and avoid certain areas. The odds of anything bad happening here (in terms of rape bc of the topic) isnt drastically increased just because Hollywood exists. It's still a problem, however. You could make the same arguments about Islamized zones in Europe if it wasn't for the fact that your increas…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:38 PM
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We agree there. The culture of stardom and Hollywood is patently corrupt and seems to effect a disproportionate number of people working in the industry. Rose Mcajvdkhrbhdbwhatever seems to enjoy being a martyr a little much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:22 PM
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Are those things not a problem? Are you a saying I'm incorrect? Or just unpalatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:52 PM
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I'm split on the topic. On one hand, being hanged by the mob of internet opinion is disgusting. On the other, people like Weinstein and Spacey have had stories floating around about their behavior for years, and the sheer volume of accusations is suggestive enough for me to lean towards believing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:40 PM
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If your kids can avoid the grooming gangs and your town isn't being Islamized, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:37 PM
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*Assuming that the moral whip the regressives use won't convert other dumb youth into their dumb philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 09:32 PM
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In general, it's never good to do anything TOO MUCH if that thing releases feel-good chemicals in your brain. If you jerk it too much, that could absolutely ruin your drive and and self-image and shit, but the nofap people go a bit too far. If you're doing shit, fairly happy, and not jerking it 5-6 times a day, you're probably fine. The nofap people are like everyone else; they found something that works a bit and they try to turn it into a whole lifestyle thing.
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