| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | FTBStart by video evidence catalog everything in the house. Everythijg in the garage everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 06:53 PM |
| 6 | Checked my messages for the first time in forever, to a very interesting butt dial.Weird how the world works.. finding out now for some reason. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/25 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Made to Feel Like a Stranger in Your own Home?You need to get away from that I'm so sorry and I understand, yeah.. disgusting you don't deserve that | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/25 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Wife stonewalling with intentShe's checked out, she'll probably claim dv so be on guard. Don't talk to cops without an attorney good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Damn man!Same thing as boned | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/25 04:00 AM |
| 5 | STBX - Access To Her ChatGPTOp id get a paternity test before dissolution.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/25 01:03 PM |
| 4 | STBX - Access To Her ChatGPTFact | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | I need a pick me up!And delete fakebook | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/25 04:09 AM |
| 3 | I need a pick me up!Here's one from me, time heals everything. Once you get away from her the healing begins and do not look back narcissistic people are the most manipulative heartless people out there and she will "hoover" just to play you like a cat does with a ball of yarn. Keep it to emails and never have sex with her again once it's over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Any dads here with EVERY WEEKEND custody? How does it work out long term for you?I do.. Thursday to Sunday for two weeks then Thursday to Friday for the third. It's great for me, but i found a cool chick who understands and it doesn't stop me from working | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/25 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Suggestions dealing with hostile ex trying to annoy me with new boyfriendFirst and last name and birthday.. how you get it is up to you, lots of ways lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 02:18 AM |
| 7 | Suggestions dealing with hostile ex trying to annoy me with new boyfriendDo a background check on him these single moms will date anyone with a pulse Also why is she even close to your door. She should be curbside and also record your exchanges. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 02:12 AM |
| 7 | Sleeping with the enemyStory old as time. Nothing can go wrong! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | She gave me the death sentence.True | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/25 06:12 PM |
| 13 | Tried to reconcile last nightWhy do women make such great archeologists? ˙ʇsɐd ǝɥʇ dn ƃıp oʇ ʎʇılıqɐ uǝǝʞ ǝɥʇ ǝʌɐɥ ʎǝɥʇ ǝsnɐɔǝ𐐒 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/25 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Ex-wife friend reaches out to me with this belowThis! And block and delete keep your chin up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/25 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Who is she?Pull the rug on this hoe | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Hot Bedroom Toxic RelationshipI don't know about op I'm checking this out though | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/25 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Talking parents appI chose to stick with emails there is a free option called app close | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/25 10:49 PM |
| 6 | Ex cheatedIf I were single with no kids and could go back in time I would get a job that paid for my boarding like a fisherman military working on the pipeline that's just me though | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/25 04:53 PM |
| 2 | First date next weekAfter coffee go feed ducks. Have fun! | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/25 02:37 AM |
| 5 | What hobbies or projects have you taken up as a single dad?This guy gets it for sure | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/25 01:50 AM |
| 4 | Fighting my own lawyer to do the right thing. (google sheet)God I remember trying to get points like this across to my attorney towqrs the end, ridiculous. How are you communicating | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/24 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Fighting my own lawyer to do the right thing. (google sheet)Looks like you're receiving more in the end. I don't think they'd consider past payments unfortunately | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/24 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Fighting my own lawyer to do the right thing. (google sheet)Equalization payment means it has to bring it to equal so ask in the form of a question why that amount. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Attorney Contract Question????Devious 😃 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/24 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Child Support ModificationThe tables have turned, jeez | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Brand new iPad and expensive items missingThat's how we roll here | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/24 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Believe what she saysAmen | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/24 06:59 PM |
| 4 | STBX just threatened suicide. What do I do?Yuuuuup this guy knows.. these women are dangerous and table flipping is a good way to put it | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/24 02:51 PM |
| 4 | Missing her latelyThis that and that again | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 03:43 PM |
| 11 | How did I fuck up my life so badly & what to do next?You have your own group. Bye | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/24 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Modern women aren’t worth itSome women are.. I'm sticking with that | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Sleep overDo not ever ask your ex to take him back during your time they'll use that against you so fast. My advice is simple make him tired by being active as possible and wearing him out. Let him pick out his bedding and read him bedtime stories, fuckin easy pz lemon squeezy good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Divorce License PlatesHplysngl | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/24 10:29 PM |
| 3 | I have a (mostly) healthy relationship with my wife, but there's zero sex. Unsure about what to do next. 34m 33fDoes she take antidepressants which can ruin sex drive | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 10:03 PM |
| 5 | Ex buying me self-help booksAlready working on the sequel "How To Day Drink Wine And Function As A Mother To Your Children" same author | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Ex buying me self-help booksWell maybe you should buy her a book about basic car maintenance and house maintenance and cat maintenance | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Child supportDoes the custody arrangement go over expenses? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Alienating the kidsIm so sorry for you, if you have a custody arrangement it should be enforced. Go to the meetup spot at the time on the judgement and keep track of it. Have her explain, keep communication to emails or minimum text. Shes a piece of shit | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Dating appsHere is a well thought out idea of what kind of gal I am interested in…5′ 5″ or taller, but not over 6 feet (because while I don’t mind being eye to eye with you, I won’t ever be looking up to you), lives close enough to be at my house within 10 minutes after I make the call, genuinely passionate, intelligent enough to be good company, sexually available (preferably insatiable) and VERY attractive – we’re talking Jessica Alba, Keyra Augustina attractive – women with a body-fat percentage higher … | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Truth always finds a way to the surface.If that's not closure idk what is congrats | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Ugh.Yeah it sucks I'm not going to sugarcoat it. If I were there I would give you a big giant man hug and tell you that everything's going to be okay for real we all I think know the feeling unless our exes turned out to be some kind of celibate after the marriage thing but that ain't happening | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 04:05 PM |
| 2 | SuicidalLet's give up some good breakup songs reply to this with your favorite Gorilla Zoe - Echo | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 07:03 PM |
| 5 | SuicidalDon't actually tell anyone that. You'll be sent to a mental hospital and your shit will really be crumbling. To answer your question just eat sleep and stay away from alcohol delete Facebook and start lifting weights | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Ex wife and her “family meeting” bull.This is my question too unless it's court ordered fuck that it ruins the transition bridge as well | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 10:38 PM |
| 2 | My ex loves telling me about her sex life.Does this happen around holidays? I mean her nastiness cuz that's just vile | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 08:45 PM |
| 8 | She said, "You could just pick up the dog poop without me asking. You see it just like I do."Dude im with you, dogs are retarded and have to be monitored like children. I love em just too much responsibility | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 11:31 PM |
| 7 | Got evicted in my own houseGet a dvpo on her dude you said she is yelling at you and stuff and destroying your property. She threaten you in the last 6 months? Think about it | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Divorce copingDepends on your face.. also looks don't matter its all about $$ | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/24 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Female here - Absolute Hypocrisy of my female neighborI didn't put that shit in my plan for this reason | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 12:40 AM |
| 2 | No contact with kids 50/50This guy has the knowledge | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 04:13 PM |
| 9 | Admitted to Narc ex wife I still love herTry telling her no, and to respect your boundaries. That'll remind you of why your cheating whore ex wife is going to die lonely. Fuck narcs | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/24 11:12 PM |
| 9 | Admitted to Narc ex wife I still love herSounds like a trauma bond | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/24 10:43 PM |
| -3 | How is spousal support fair??Because women are disadvantaged the whole equal rights thing is a joke and this system protects them | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Working out on a budget, add your routines and suggestions. Get after it, men!Replace cake and other junk food dessert with an apple boom | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Working out on a budget, add your routines and suggestions. Get after it, men!Sandbag and YouTube! About $40 lasts years of hard use.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 10:51 PM |
| 9 | She is refusing to get out of my Bedroom. What should I do?Unless it's life and death leave cops out of it 😒 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Going to TrialSounds about right taking 11,000 to make a woman that is spiteful of you to see rationality | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How to celebrate a divorce from a narcissist?Fucking awesome | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/24 06:05 AM |
| 2 | When You Don’t Know What Ex Is Saying About YouJust tell people to be careful what they hear they may be hearing it from the problem. People understand that | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Don’t Give UpGreat work and encouraging | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/24 12:30 PM |
| 3 | How do I get started? Separate accounts or lawyer?Go around the entire house taking a video it will come in later when you are separating your s*** from hers | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/24 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Money Making after child SupportCreate an onlyfans #daddy | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/24 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Custody QuestionBe sure to look at your local laws regarding this because you do not want to move your child without letting the court know | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/24 02:58 AM |
| 2 | I really don’t know what the fu*k to do.With an epidemic of male loneliness throughout the country you take away a man's family and then order him to pay some ludicrous amount per month I'll tell you something though in jail there are other men and it actually feels like a camaraderie of course slots are limited for this free meals and reading vacation | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 12:52 PM |
| 2 | My ex wife is going to marry another man. Can I go back to court and get more custody?Nothing saying you can't.. there are appellate cases where father/mother get 50/50 time for example | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/24 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Family lawyerWhat about pets? Say we have a dog and split up | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/24 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Finalizing Divorce *sigh*Let it die and then file in your state that's better for alimony isn't it More friendly | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Legal help.Or maybe trade it you know house for house or something | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Legal help.Houdini could make an elephant disappear how hard could hiding a sale be | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Custody undecidedEmail record yourself bring a witness I chose emails particularly because it's timestamped and less back and forth than text | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Why do we seem so rare?Just remember they're not stealing anything from your plate, so don't worry about it too much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/24 08:39 PM |
| 0 | My divorce attorney wants me to pay for accountantBoth of those are included in divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/24 10:18 PM |
| 8 | A wise man once saidBros before hoes | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Silver BulletThis is right then you'll be like "not this s*** again" | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/24 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Silver BulletYikes bruh not a reason to move on though I hope it'll be natural for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/24 01:37 AM |
| 6 | What do the serve papers say ?No need to avoid it it will go to your doorstep or mail eventually | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/24 12:51 AM |
| 8 | Replacement fatherI mean nobody wants their kid raised by another guy. Fact is you're the biological father and will always matter. Just be there for them, and one day maybe you'll have a step mom for them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/24 02:59 AM |
| 7 | Absolutely terrifiedSome time apart with tactical silence should help. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Good adviceDelete Facebook hit the gym and lawyer up | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Gym MotivationJust make it a habit do it hiit at home Don't need any equipment even. To answer your question a couple years ago someone that I didn't know yelled from their car a really f****** mean thing to say and it was directed at me after that I just started working out again. If you're serious look up Lebe Stark on YouTube he's the best workout influencer I know of. The best part is these days they really honed in on how to work out at home so you just need a kettlebell or like I said earlier no equipme… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/24 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Do things ever get better?Dodged a bullet imo. As far as getting better why couldn't it? Find out what you want and work to be that. Have you ever seen The Rock when he first started? He became something else and the people loved it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/24 03:09 AM |
| 5 | How do you deal with the lonelinessThats it replace her with a dog lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 02:46 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with the lonelinessHeavy drinking, self harm, over eating, doom scrolling, etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 02:45 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with the lonelinessChange things up immediately maybe?? That's really freaking sad to think about. The last thing I recommend is getting into a bad habit | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 02:34 AM |
| 5 | Dad GuiltNobody is perfect treat them to a good breakfast tomorrow and forget it. Let them know you're privileged to be with them | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/24 07:18 AM |
| 8 | Send it?Here's what I'd send. I miss them, when can I see them? Next day same | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/24 06:42 PM |
| -1 | Ex on a defamation spreeHave your girlfriend agree to never respond.. never ever under any circumstances, that's what I've had them agree to.. people don't understand. You wanna smear her, post full details make accusations post pics location etc? No.. really why | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/24 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Seriously, what goes on in their minds?Yuuuup | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/24 06:18 PM |
| 16 | Help me out here guysWhy do women make such great archaeologists? Answer: ʇsɐd ǝɥʇ dn ƃᴉp oʇ ʎʇᴉlᴉqɐ uǝǝʞ ǝɥʇ ǝʌɐɥ ʎǝɥʇ ǝsnɐɔǝq | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/24 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Sick kid/parent, she wants to have a callIt's worse if you don't allow it. Set up a time and tell the mother off your child when and how you want it to go, in my opinion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/24 04:59 AM |
| 4 | Going CrazyGet a restraining order on her lmao uno reverse card maybe.. thank God shes not the mother to your children (sounds like) | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Tips for Custody Hearing, what worked?Bring proof of what you said about coaching and being active. Document (keep a diary with pics) about your parenting and even hers good/bad I prefer an app called simple journal for Android. Really try to work with your ex to figure out logistics and co parenting and being in examples of it. Stick to one form of communication which for a lot of folks is email. A simple way to defend yourself from bs claims it's responding with "I deny all allegations" use it as often as you want. Have family and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/24 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Did you sleep with your x-wife after the divorce?Tread carefully you're kinda using a cheat code having been through the machine already.. I don't see this going well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/24 02:51 PM |
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