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MINDSET SHIFThugship/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:30 PM
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Ugh, yeah. I know exactly what you're referring to. Definitely frustrating "advice" to receive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 08:06 PM
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I have been given helpful advice by women older than myself who I wouldn’t say are living my ideal life… but that advice was along the lines of “don’t enable the type of behaviors that I did.” Basically warning me that if I enable certain behaviors, I will end up in this woman’s position. Very powerful and definitely well meaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:41 AM
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Except when they think they can use it to take away her freedoms. It’s never used to excuse or explain a woman’s behavior, but it is certainly used as a reason to punish or use her when convenient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:45 AM
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Yeah she was probably using whatever remaining energy she could scrape together just to get through the day. When you’re that depleted and just focusing on surviving, figuring out ways to make positive changes is rarely on one’s radar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:11 AM
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Comfy jeans, comfy shoes, and a flannel have been my first date uniform pretty much since college. Comfort first, and helps weed out the dudes who expect me to spend too much of my valuable time making my appearance "acceptable" for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:29 PM
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Omg I have loved that about being in my 30s. Suddenly I don’t feel the need to be polite to creeps, I feel comfortable telling dudes that make me uncomfortable to leave me alone, and most importantly, I feel comfortable helping other ladies who aren’t quite there yet fend off dudes. Can’t tell you how many girl friends I’ve made by just simply being situationally aware and being a safe person for a lady who just needed an ally in the moment during a night out. Being able to confidently extract a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:00 PM
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Lol, shoulda replied "Now that you mention it, you do feel a bit smaller than normal..." before cutting him off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:47 PM
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I know a few. They definitely trend older and have secure careers which allow them to pursue their interests and enjoy a high quality of life. I have never seen these guys actively hit on a girl, however I’ve seen them engage in meaningful conversation with people regardless of gender. I’ve also noticed a pattern of them putting a lot of time and energy and sometimes money into building up the local music community by doing things like pressing vinyl to promote local artists or 3d printing masks…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:11 PM
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Ugh, I had a guy who I was already familiar with due to many shared friends and being at the same social events at the same time frequently do a variation of this to me. He had plans to drive to a nearby city (4-5 hours drive time one way) to see a music event our mutual friends were performing in. I mentioned that I was on the fence about going to the same event. He goes "You should go! You can just ride with me!" I was back and forth on it, stating that I normally preferred to do my own thing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 04:28 PM
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Because not everyone is comfortable with their perception of reality being shattered. Some people, when confronted with evidence that contradicts their beliefs, will do anything and everything to try and disparage or discredit that evidence to preserve that belief. It’s sad and frustrating when a good friend reveals themself to be unwilling to confront the truth to preserve the status quo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:28 AM
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My ex took the squatty potty with. :( But my current partner bought one for each of our 2 bathrooms… and he made sure to buy the nice looking, foldable, bamboo ones to match the accessories in our bathrooms. No, this wasn’t a gift, it was part of our standard household goods shoopping thankfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:50 PM
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Right? Or didn’t think to take wedding photos with that part of his neck on the side that wasn’t facing the camera? Or even have it photoshopped out in the photos? So many easy fixes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:20 PM
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My NVM ex chose to do #5 when trying to convince me to stay in the relationship. It didn’t work and now his wedding photos of him and his current wife (who he met and married at least a couple of years after I left him) have my name still on his neck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:07 PM
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Haha I just posted the same exact thing, and then scrolled down to see that you beat me to it! Happy to be in good company!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:26 PM
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You’re doing all the right things! Congrats on making the decision to do the right thing for yourself and good luck with your journey to extract yourself from this. On a more logistical note, it may be worth considering talking with your landlord or building management company (once you have money on hand to break the lease) about the situation. You owe him nothing in terms of preserving his reputation, and some landlords will do you a favor and allow you to break the lease for free or reduced f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:56 PM
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I've had a tough time tolerating pickme friends/acquaintances for sure... but I've also had a remarkably easy/fun time making friends with people who may not know about FDS but def practice (or at least are open to) its principles. Example: out at a late night music event, and I see a girl looking lonely while her bf is dj'ing. She is not local to here, and so has no real connections. There are some dudes circling here and eyeing her. So I invited her to come hang with me and my friends, letting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:01 PM
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I'm concerned that this was his way of testing what you would put up with. Good on you for ending it right then and there, and it's a great reminder to other women to immediately get away from guys that test your boundaries like that. People like that.. if they can get away with saying awful stuff to people's face often escalate to see what else they can get away with from that person. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:56 PM
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In the past few months I've had a few male friends from when I was in college (read: older dudes I'd hooked up with here and there when I was in my single and dating around phase) hit me up on various social platforms. One was on fb messenger, where only 3 messages in, the conversation turned to "you can't handle this" bullshit.... block and delete. One was on LinkedIn, under the guise of looking to fill a position that I was definitely qualified for... but also turned into a "we should play ten…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:51 PM
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They realize. They just don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:12 PM
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My best friend got divorced around 28/29, and now she is KILLING it at life at 33. Like no joke, as soon as she got herself out of that situation, within months she was able to find a job even better than her previous one, an amazing apartment in a fun part of town, and at this point I've lost count of how many places she's traveled to since her divorce. Props to anyone who recognizes that things need to change, and then actually goes through with it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:32 PM
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Thank you :) yeah I’m grateful to have found a real partner in every sense of the word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:21 AM
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Agreed. Also, re:the 20 minutes thing - my partner, back when we first started dating, would routinely drive 40+ minutes out of his way to see me. He would do this after spending about 45 min on the train to get home from work (which I lived closer to at the time but which didn’t have a good affordable parking situation for him), fetch his car, and drive down to see me so that we weren’t at the mercy of train schedules when we hung out. Did I appreciate the heck out of it? Yes! Did he mention it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:08 PM
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Fair. I wonder why I never came across it? Likely because I mostly browse on mobile and just scroll through my feed rather than seeking out specific subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:53 PM
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I wasn’t even aware of this survey being a thing, otherwise I’d have added my response to the pile. Wonder if the timing of it affected the response volume?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:37 PM
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I think that it’s reasonable to want to have solo time with your friend or time without any SOs present. The way we usually signify that is by framing it as girls night when making plans. As in “Hey, what do you say you and I have girls night? It’s been a minute since we’ve had one on one time!” It sends the same message as “hey can you not bring your bf this time?” but is a bit gentler. Of course if your friend and her SO are the type of couple that just can’t be apart, or worse... he insists o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:33 AM
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Thankfully, my boyfriend and I are totally fine with it if one of our friends 3rd or 5th wheels it. There was a time when my closest friend was single for a while and so the 3 of us would go out together so frequently that we started jokingly calling ourselves the tricycle. We’ve had other times over the years where his single friends would hang out with us in a similar manner too. I’ve also been the single one in the past and it was the same thing... I was comfortable enough with my friends tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:01 AM
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I'm lucky to have multiple very good friends who do the following: - Relationship and life advice is always available, but must be solicited. (Except in extraordinary/dangerous circumstances.) We don't spend our time together bossing each other around about what we think the other should/shouldn't be doing, within reason. - When plans are made, every reasonable effort is made to stick to them. We all have pets and demanding jobs, so we are definitely understanding when things come up that throw …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:16 PM
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You're also not supposed to freak out or stalk someone when they reject you, but quite a few people don't seem to understand that, so here we are...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:49 PM
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You can opt out of social media and still get caught via your digital footprint. Besides the obvious call and text records that may sync across different devices, location tracking (yes even if you have it turned off, some apps still manage to have that sort of info on you), digital receipts/transaction records (Uber, gas stations, atms, etc), even COVID notifications popping up from a different state if you drove through it or whatever... all things that can prove you weren’t where you said you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:56 PM
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This is a great theory! But I still want an explanation for why my then-boyfriend did this all the way back in like 2008, when I don’t think game streaming was even a thing yet. Or if it was, it wasn’t yet on his radar. Funny enough that’s when i got heavily into Reddit (to pass the time while he gamed) and subsequently found the strength to leave him. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:48 AM
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Yeah, that's a good point. Better safe than sorry, and you're right... just because he hasn't shown himself to be violent thus far doesn't mean it's not in there. Esp since he's already shown he's capable of poor judgement in the moment by messaging you in the first place. Stay safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:12 PM
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Something to remember is that should people find out about this, HE is the one that should be embarrassed or uncomfortable about this. In my experience when I've shut down LVMs like this (even ones I work with or ones who run in the same social circle as me) they are usually hoping that you'll never bring it up publicly because they know that there's very low likelihood they come out of this situation looking good if others find out about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:40 PM
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I agree that it would be nice for there to be a convenient way to expose cheaters, but it also needs to be done in a way that doesn't embarrass or make things worse for their victim(s). For example, if a woman is cheated on by a guy, she may not want her whole network to know about it for whatever reasons she may have. The guy already hurt her, so I wouldn't want to then pile on by also taking away her ability to decide whether this is something she is comfortable sharing with her whole network …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:35 PM
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Ugh yeah. I've had an ex try to get me to prorate his part of the rent for the month he was moving out due to us having broken up. My response was "hey, I'm happy to have a conversation about each of us settling up for a financially fair split... but are YOU sure that's a conversation you want to have?" Didn't hear a peep about it afterward. (I had paid 75% of our rent for a good 2+ years of our relationship as well as most bills. And not because of some agreement, but because he had gotten fire…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:35 PM
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If they add something to the gathering, they get more interest. The same as average looking girls. I’m speaking based on my own experience (as an average at best looking girl) hanging out in an electronic music scene setting: If they are average looking and their attitude sucks (as in they act entitled toward people’s attention and goodwill or are generally obnoxious) then yeah most girls will try their best to avoid them. If they are average looking and they add something to the experience such…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 02:03 AM
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That's the point... if they make their standards impossible, then they can excuse their inability to connect with women as "nobody has met my standards" rather than "I bring nothing to the relationship."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:33 PM
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Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:15 AM
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I'll admit, this is something my younger self would absolutely say. Thankfully, I learned why that was not a healthy way of thinking/existing well before this conversation with my friend, but I think your comment is still relevant to the discussion because I think that kind of commentary definitely qualifies as language that is disparaging to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:26 PM
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But is that because they prefer it that way or because they can't get the men who make the big bucks? It depends on the woman. I would say that at least in my network, women prefer to make their own stable, comfortable income because they don't want to be financially dependent on anyone. This includes their parents, as well as a potential partner. These women also have no difficulty finding partners when they want to (including wealthy ones) but because of their own hard-earned financial freedom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:21 PM
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It was stuff along the lines of what I thought women should and shouldn't put up with from guys. Or why women chose inconvenient times to speak up about things that made them uncomfortable. It was said in the context of a conversation about why I had to break up with my ex, whose family had made me uncomfortable many times over the years and I was making excuses for why my ex didn't stand up for me then. I was basically writing it all off as being my fault for not just dealing with it as opposed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:01 PM
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Again, who said anything about purposefully not correcting a misconception? I agree if one gets wind that someone they are seeing thinks they are exclusive when they aren’t, it should be brought up and corrected. Edit: to be clear, I’m not advocating for dishonesty or misleading anyone. I believe that it’s possible to date multiple people ethically. The key is to, as you said, not hide anything. That is up to both/all parties to feel out the specific situation and make sure nobody has the wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:11 AM
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Who said anything about hiding? If they never volunteer that info but they are never asked, I would say that's fair game (for either party to do) as long as there has been no agreement of exclusivity. If they get asked "are you seeing/sleeping with other people" and they answer "no" (untruthfully) then yeah, that's lying and manipulation. This goes for both men and women, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 10:40 PM
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Agreed. I think using protection is a good signifier of whether the other person is not currently participating in or expecting exclusivity. But it also shows consideration for the other party that they are willing to take steps to ensure the safety of both people even if they aren’t exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 08:30 PM
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I can empathize with the men in these situations. Of course it is frustrating to be putting time and effort into courting someone that doesn’t appreciate it. But I think there is a bit of hypocrisy/double standard here: guys in this sub complain about women expecting them to read their minds, but they refuse to have the conversation about exclusivity when they feel like they want someone to commit to them. Whether because that’s because they want to leave their options open or because they are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 08:21 PM
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I’ve been in this situation in the past and yeah... if we don’t have an agreement to be monogamous, then it’s unreasonable to expect that of either party. I don’t think it’s that hard to hold others to the same standards I hold myself to. Similarly, if I no longer feel comfortable engaging in relations with someone because they are sleeping with others but I keep silent about it that’s on me. If I had a really good date with someone but we weren’t exclusive, I wouldn’t have any ground to stand o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 08:07 PM
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If by courting you mean explicitly exclusive... sure I’d be annoyed and likely break it off. But if by courting you mean that there hasn’t yet been a conversation about exclusivity, then no. They would be within their rights to sleep with whomever until an agreement of exclusivity is reached.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 08:01 PM
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My exes are like this. None of them could ever stand to look "uncool" by being alone anywhere. Luckily, my current BF is more secure... which not only is a a great quality in a partner, but also convenient when I'm running late for plans we make because of public transportation issues or getting out of work late or something. Never any guilt, just "Ok thanks for the heads up. I'll find a bar to grab a drink at while you make your way over. See you soon :)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:14 PM
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If you didn’t notice that she had no hobbies prior to getting married, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 09:55 PM
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Not all narcissists are effective at getting what they want. Some of them are extremely transparent, some of them are extremely covert. But yes, all narcissists are only out for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:32 AM
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Not only that, but these same men clearly go out of their way to select for women who don’t have many achievements of their own so that the man can be THE MAN in the relationship... but then cry about it when they lose their job and suddenly their partner isn’t as thrilled to be their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:49 PM
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Idk, it’s more common for guys to include their girlfriend in their social media photos than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:52 PM
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I would say they are between 30 and late 40s. Which is pretty consistent with what you’ve noticed. Though to be fair I don’t know much about those much older or younger than that range because they are all either in different departments or ranked too high for me to be having regular conference calls with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:39 PM
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It’s actually pretty encouraging to see the opposite of this in my zoom calls. My boss constantly has to reschedule our smaller calls because one of his young kids woke up from a nap and his wife was on a much higher priority call elsewhere in the house. He never complains or seems annoyed when it happens either. And now that I think of it, most of the men I work with who are married with kids seem to treat their responsibility the same way. Not complaining, not calling it babysitting, just matt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:25 AM
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Exactly. Also, blue collar jobs seem to have less wiggle room for flexibility. If someone is a construction worker, they likely have a set schedule that they have to follow that is pretty rigid. If a construction worker wanted to work afternoons and evenings, for example, that wouldn't be a commonly-accommodated request by their employer. If a construction worker wanted to go to a doctor's appointment in the morning or start a weekend early, they would likely need to put in for time off. White c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:29 PM
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Since you asked for a source elsewhere in this thread, here’s one I found that is interesting: https://www.npr.org/2015/02/08/384695833/what-happens-when-wives-earn-more-than-husbands “So the author found that a man is more likely to cheat on his partner if he is more financially dependent on her. And men who are completely dependent on their girlfriends or wives are five times more likely to cheat than men who earn the same amount as their partners” Obviously this doesn’t disprove the many hypo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:40 PM
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It's too bad that this seems to be the majority of experiences for a lot of people posting here. I know anecdotal evidence isn't the be-all, end-all, but I still think it's relevant to the discussion at hand: In my group of friends, I would say that about 60% of women out-earn their long-term male partners by a LOT. I'm talking male produce manager at a local grocery store being married (for over a decade) to a female VP within a national company. Or the female head of HR for a global company ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:16 PM
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To expand on what you wrote further, do you mean a guy seeking/attaining a job equal to or better than what he had prior to the job loss? Or do you mean literally any job that brings in some sort of income?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:57 PM
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The world may be shit, but that doesn't mean all people (women included) are shit. Naturally, you end up getting into habits that prevent unnecessary hurt for you, and I get that redpill can be helpful with that. But choosing to employ redpill strategies for dating/getting laid makes it more likely that you'll hurt and drive away a potential partner that would have been a great match for you. Because it seems like a lot of the redpill is based on assuming the worst of someone before they have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:53 PM
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it could have started out with the husband earning more and then losing his job, or becoming disabled If she didn't leave him when he suddenly didn't have his job, and was ok becoming the main breadwinner for the household... isn't that the opposite of hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:17 PM
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I think both are able to be entitled. Where the difference comes in, is in physical ability. A man who feels entitled to something statistically has more testosterone, height, weight, strength, what have you, to get that thing. A woman who feels entitled to something has to rely on social circumstances to get it because it's likely she doesn't have the height, weight and strength to take the thing she feels entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:18 PM
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A lot of men are also not open to receiving tips on passwords and encryption.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:54 PM
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Much like others in this thread have said, I made the choice not to get him fired because this is a job and environment that I otherwise enjoy. I didn’t want to become labeled by whoever would label someone for taking action against a perp, and then have it tarnish or cut the rest of my time at this company short. What I did do was I discussed it with my boss (whom I trust) in writing so that there was a paper trail in case I did decide to pursue it, or if someone who was reporting this guy for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:35 PM
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I used to be involved in social stuff at work all the time! Some of my current best friends are coworkers (male and female) that I bonded with in my first job out of college. I thought that this is how it was at all workplaces. I was lucky enough that the job that followed was filled with good people, so no funny business and plenty of genuine friendships came out of there too. (In fact, a lot of the guys at that job in particular were happily married HVMs who were all very respectful to everyon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:14 PM
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So stop telling me what I want or how I think. It's simple. Agreed, everyone should be allowed to think and want whatever is right for them. Like, I'm sorry I wasn't born with an immaculate jawline, or the natural ability to cultivate an 8 pack inside of a week, or a bassy, deep voice that makes your nethers quake. Maybe you should practice what you preach. You don’t like it when people generalize or assume what you want/think, you shouldn’t do that to people either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:21 PM
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Also, if anything, text allows me to check my tone before I finally say something. I often type out a response that is exactly what I would say in the moment, realize that I could say it in a nicer and more constructive way, and then rewrite it. To me, knowing it will live on the persons phone way after the conversation ends adds pressure for me to not say anything I’d regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:43 PM
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Not sure about how effective this sub is in changing the minds of those actually posting here, but I thing it’s good to have a place for lurkers who may not have “picked a side” so to speak to see each side’s arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 09:23 PM
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Same here, definitely can agree it’s uncomfortable. My personal theory is that men like to date women who are independent and successful because they live with the idea that they (the guy) will strike it rich someday. In their mind, that day hasn’t come yet, but when it does, they want to be able to say they aren’t with a gold digger. I’d say most of the time, unless they are in medical school or legitimately working toward their long term career, that doesn’t materialize and then the resentment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:05 PM
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If he’s asking me politely, and we have the ingredients to do so, I’ll do it and also make myself one while I’m there. Similar to how if I ask him to get me a glass of wine politely, he will get me one, and grab himself a beer or something while he’s there. ETA: this is also true of the reverse... if I ask for a sandwich or if he asks for a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:41 AM
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As annoying as it can be to get chatted up while I’m just trying to shop for groceries/run errands/wait for a friend at a bar, I appreciate this response. (For the record, I am not single and am not looking for any additional romantic partners.) If someone wants to take a chance and try to start a conversation with me while I’m not receptive to it, I appreciate when I politely decline (in a non-accusatory way that doesn’t embarrass the other party) and they gracefully accept my response and move…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:26 AM
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I think married people are capable of sketchy behavior just like anyone else. Being married doesn’t suddenly make people behave like angels. And plenty of unmarried couples are able to be trustworthy, long-term partners to one another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:36 AM
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No need to be sorry! I’d rather discuss issues like these with people who feel strongly about them than those who are apathetic!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 09:56 PM
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So you weren’t capable of reading past #2 in the first link? No coments on Grace Hopper, or Ann Tsukamoto? Nothing on any of the other articles?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 09:43 PM
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So you’re not in a debate sub to actually debate with facts. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 09:22 PM
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I love that you are (perhaps unknowingly) making this post in a reply to a female who works with code and with making things more efficient to everyone. I have had a great amount of male and female colleagues who I respect. And none of them “bitch and complain about the wage gap”... we all just focus on getting our job done. The world wouldn’t end if either of us quit. We are all replaceable... men and women. So rather than try to step on a gender different from your own, why not focus on better…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 09:13 PM
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Nope, I’m actually for equal treatment of all genders. I’m not arguing pro-woman. I am arguing against making gender-based arguments with no factual basis. But I have yet to see any sources or support for your arguments beyond “it’s an argument out of my ass!” So I fear it’s you who could improve your resting comprehension here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 09:08 PM
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Firstly, most social studies are not worth the paper they are written on. Sure, but if it's so obvious, then there's gotta be *Something* out there for you to reference. Secondly, this study only looks at office work, not work across all industries. Fine, but then present your sources on other industries and we can continue this discussion. Thirdly, the study only attempts to measure work done, not work capacity. So how would you propose measuring capacity? And why do you feel that "work done" i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:52 PM
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I could just as easily say that women are 50% more productive than men (for the sake of argument) and based on your logic, that would be good enough. How about instead, we focus on the facts, and figures, as you said you prefer in your earlier post: https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/a-study-says-women-are-more-productive-than-men-at-work/lets-talk-about-communication-skills/photostory/66847841.cms Here's a higlight for you: The study states that men work slightly more …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:42 PM
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Sure, here are a few resources for you: Inventors: http://www.takepart.com/article/2015/06/14/10-female-inventors-you-need-to-know/ Composers: https://www.classicalmpr.org/story/2019/03/04/20-women-composers-we-should-all-know Physicists: https://www.australiangeographic.com.au/topics/history-culture/2018/09/12-female-physicists-you-need-to-know-about/ Mathematicians: https://science.howstuffworks.com/math-concepts/5-trailblazing-female-mathematicians.htm Engineers: https://www.businessinsider.c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:31 PM
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You don't need a study to recognise that men are much stronger than women and responsible for practically all of our advances in knowledge and technology. Maybe that's how you see things. And that's fine. But if you're on a debate sub, it's generally best to be able to support your arguments beyond just saying things that you think are true. Edit, here I'll start: https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2018/10/women-are-more-productive-than-men-at-work-these-days I have provided a source. Now your turn.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:23 PM
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I like how me asking for sources and for you to validate your initial argument is something you see as trolling and shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:13 PM
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Sounds like a lack of ability to form an argument on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:06 PM
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Common sense. Even "common sense" usually has at least a study or 2 to support it. Wanna link me to one so you can show everyone how full of shit i am? ​ Fembots will only be necessary as sex aids. Good. Then people that need to rely on fembots don't need to pollute society with their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:06 PM
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Great! As a woman that does not want to have kids, I would nothing more than for artificial wombs to exist and not have the pressure from society to be some man’s mini-me vessel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:58 PM
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Lol I would like to hear a legitimate argument before I waste my energy countering. I still have yet to see that from you. And as for the ass-man comment... you’ll have to explain that one to me further...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:57 PM
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Sounds like you'd rather make arguments out of your ass than make actual arguments. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:52 PM
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What productive void? Why do you feel women are inferior in white collar careers? I can maybe see the argument for women not being as physically strong as men to handle certain jobs. Biology is what it is. But what does white collar have to do with anything? Heavy lifting and hazardous positions are quickly becoming obsolete with all of the automated technology coming about. This is to say, that a man and a woman can both manage the same robot that is dealing with power lines or construction. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:51 PM
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Do men choose to work dangerous jobs? Do men choose to work 80 hours per week when they know they can be just fine woking 40 or 60? I don't see how this is related to gender...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:45 PM
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Must be hard not being equipped to think critically and logically enough to see that this is not something that is based on gender/sex. I'll change my opinion when people like you would indicate they are capable of thinking in a way that isn't based on their skewed worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:45 PM
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Women don't have the productive potential of men, so the answer is no. Source? However, automation will be able to pick up any slack in many areas. Yes, i actually look forward to the days of fembots to automate dealing with pathetic, unmotivated people like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:40 PM
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instead of tithed to some never-satisfied wife and feeding a shoe collection. Maybe you should be better at picking a partner instead of blaming society for your inability to find someone you're actually compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:39 PM
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Just for the sake of argument, where did your 50% of men's efficiency figure come from? ​ Where a man sells things by facts and figures, a woman sells things by flashing her baby blues, guess which one works better. "You're a marketing genius! We should give you a promotion!" Again, where is this coming from? Your personal experience or actual data? Sell this to me with facts and figures, instead of just flashing your baby blues ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:35 PM
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So what do you do, that's so vital to society? And can't be replaced by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:24 PM
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I think I understand what you're saying now. I wonder if it's less that modern women are struggling with these issues more than traditional women, and more that traditional women are taught to accept and not communicate as much when they are struggling with these issues in the first place. But to your point, many traditional women likely don't see these issues as something that is a struggle. Idk, just musing at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:32 AM
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Skipping the generalizations on what's attractive to men, and ignoring the fact that it's been proven that women don't always want jacked, super fit guys. (All the articles recently about how women love dad bods...) ​ You are now saying that men need to spend money because they are juicing to be fit? While still ignoring that men's clothing is less expensive than womens? (Compare the prices of mens sweaters at a common store: https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/category.do?cid=63315&mlink=5151,,flyou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:21 AM
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Are you saying that someone that is privileged does not automatically have a lower inner strength? If that's what you mean, then I agree with you. ​ Plenty of privileged people are totally helpless when things get tough. But plenty of privileged people can pull it together when they need to navigate tough situations. I may have misunderstood (or not taken enough time to read) your original argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:09 AM
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Many women have to put in time at the gym to be fit. Just not eating a gallon of ice cream doesn't yield the same results as working out and sticking to a healthy diet. Dressing stylishly... women also have to do that. Actually, women's clothing tends to last less long than mens clothing. Women's clothing tends to use thinner, more delicate fabrics than mens. Because of this, it has to be replaced more frequently, thus spending more money on it. (Compare men's and women's flannels or sweaters, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:04 AM
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Privileged people by definition have special rights, advantages, and immunities. Because of this, I don’t think it’s fair to compare the adversities they face to those of average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:47 AM
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How do you have to work harder? Edit: asking because I’m genuinely curious about the work men put into their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:44 AM
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“ it seems utterly farcical to claim that because it did something to you this implies that in general it does this.” It is rather nonsensical, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:23 AM
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For the sake of clarity, when I mentioned that "I constantly see myself and my friends pick up the tab" I mean the whole tab, not splitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:23 PM
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We're all operating off of anecdotal evidence and what we have seen happen/not happen. In my case, my female friends are often uncomfortable letting someone foot the whole bill for a date, especially if the date didn't go well. I don't think it's a fair blanket statement to say "women don't pay, or pay once or twice in their lifetime" when I constantly see myself and my friends pick up the tab. (And not just in LTRs or even new relationships either... this is common for us to do on just normal o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:20 PM
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I said "at least partially"... meaning if it's not going well I'm still going to foot at least half the bill. ​ I also said "all or half of the tab"... meaning if the date isn't going well, i expect him to pick up his half.. just like I would expect it of myself. ​ I'm not sure what you're getting at here as it's pretty clear that my standards for both myself and my dates are the same: whoever initiates is responsible for at least their half of the bill. ​ Edit: In addition to leaving out key pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:11 PM
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I’ve paid the whole bill (while my date was in the bathroom) on a date before. Usually on a first or second date when it’s going well. In later dates they would return the favor, and then if it progressed further we would split the bill unless it was a birthday or something. I’ve also been in positions where guys have taken advantage of my desire to carry my weight and had no problem having me foot the bill more often than not. (Same with my other female friends.) At the end of the day (for me) …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 03:12 AM
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If a nanny earns $19.14/hour (national average as of 2017 according to google), Then at 24 hours per day, 365 days per year it comes out to $167,666.40. I’m someone who believes that even when sleeping, a SAHM is responsible for the children and household, but for those that aren’t... let’s do 16 hours per day,instead of 24 hours, to allow for a generous 8 hours of sleep nightly. That still comes out to $111,777.60. So looks like quite a few people are willing to hire someone for SAHM duties for…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:42 AM
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There's a lot of things that people used to do at the start of civilization that might have kept it from going extinct. Doesn't mean civilization hasn't evolved and improved since those times to render those things no longer necessary or acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:58 AM
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I agree with most of your post, but I think there is an important distinction to be made between “feminists” and feminists... similar to “nice guys” and nice guys. Actual nice guys (guys who are nice) and feminists (those who truly favor equality, rather than co-opting feminist ideals to actively try to villainize people who may not have the same view on things) do exist. And quite often they exist quietly, practicing what they believe to be the right way of going about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:55 PM
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Agreed. There should be empathy for both sides, no doubt. And part of being empathetic to “the other side” includes acknowledging that sides’s advantages without attaching hateful rhetoric to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:20 PM
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This sub is about debate, not creating an echo chamber for one side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:51 PM
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Replace “bloops” with “terps” and “men” with “women” and voila! Better yet, try it like this: “The problem is that some people don’t understand that people are all flawed mortals - sometimes they are nice, and sometimes not. People have their personal demons and dare I say “triggers”. It’s just easier to dehumanize those one doesn’t understand into convenient little caricatures.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 12:38 PM
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You’re right, partner was not the right word. Regardless, if one is operating ethically (not misleading, disclosing information that both parties agreed makes sense to disclose) then what’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:09 AM
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Right, that’s the point. That people disclose whatever they and their partner(s) agree is appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:30 AM
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No harm in doing (or not doing) what feels ultimately right for you. There are men and women who spin plates. There are men and women who prefer not to. As long as nobody is being deceitful (in this case a mutual agreement of not asking one another about their sexual and/or romantic life) then carry on, as far as I’m concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:28 PM
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What is this percentage based on? Personal experience? Or other data?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:26 PM
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Lies, i'm sure Putin has a few places here and there.
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