hugshugs23 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? So much anger. I wonder how many ways you’ve abused your wife over the years. Are you one of those men who went abroad to find a submissive & controllable wife because you couldn’t find one at home? Similar to how some misogynistic & sad men preach about sourcing wives from SE Asia or Eastern European countries to have an eternal slave and child bearer. Congrats to you. You got your desire yet have so much anger at women having choices. Glorifying the religious & national background of your wife…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 11:38 PM
1	Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread No. Nor do I care about height. That’s not part of my standards. 6 figure men are abundant to me since I am that myself and avoid certain places and people. It’s goes back to building and transforming the type of life you want. There’s no need to hate those women for their preferences either. They will adjust them or work on themselves after experiencing failures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 07:38 PM
1	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? I’m not Mia Khalifa. I also don’t sleep with men on the first date nor entertain men who do not have the means to take care of a family or want casual sex, FWB, etc. I also have investments & of course at this age not the means men of your age would have. You cherry picked from my post history to fit a narrative or judgment you wanted to have about me. Fat and crazy is a cop out YOU threw out because I struck a nerve. If I was so fat & crazy successful men would avoid me. I earned the means to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 01:12 AM
1	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? So you cherry picked & even went far back into my post history to make yourself feel better. Topamax is a medication prescribed for migraine prevention and other uses that has potential side effects such as loss of appetite, serious vision issues, & causes menstrual changes that others taking it posted about & I replied to help them and many others who will Google & find those Reddit threads when information online is scarce. Many people gained weight during covid and I have lost it while always…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 12:47 AM
3	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? Where did you get this belief that women become desperate or unlovable after 30? I can understand that thought consoles some men who consistently get rejected by women, but many +30 women are still dating and getting married. This isn’t 1957 where a woman doesn’t have value if she’s not married by the time she’s 30. It’s almost like fear mongering. Side note, I’m really glad I don’t meet many men who think like you. Any expression of this attitude gets a man tossed. Quality people attract qualit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 09:38 PM
0	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? I don’t have to. I’m attractive as a person and don’t treat people like this. My filtering system churns through men like this fast. Currently speaking to someone who seems worthwhile and if not so what.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 07:43 PM
2	Men DO chase "all types of women" it's just people(who won't be named) who make the assumption that these women would even like them back when they do not…. Some men feel they have more years of availability in the dating market but that’s also more years to have bad habits ingrained to when you chase younger women like me who are more than four years removed from high school, we can sniff misogynistic beliefs or a certain energy from you that is creepy. Then some end up paying for sex and attention from younger women and escorts. Older men are literally a laughingstock or a wallet to some younger women. It’s really weird when some of you resort to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 02:54 PM
1	Looks, money, career, social status, none of this can be generalized. What can be generalized for both genders is whether or not you're providing value for the other person Thank you for this post. I’ve replied to threads & comments where it’s obvious some people don’t understand the concept of bringing value to a relationship or partner by being the best version of themselves first. Regardless of another person‘s standards or preferences, being the best version of ourselves benefits us in many ways and even then it won’t be the absolute best for some people we could want. Some men here say women have unreasonable standards or post self-defeating beliefs that illus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 02:18 PM
4	People always thing that being a virgin before marriage is the best thing to do. Is that even remotely true? It’s becoming clear that a good portion of men in this sudreddit have very limited beliefs about women or conditioning. Many women aren’t sitting around waiting to get chosen. Many were focused on their careers, said no to subpar or inappropriate guys, and enjoying their lives. Also, let’s be real. I’m in my 20s and have met men in their 30s & up who deserve to stay “out there”. On dates with some it becomes obvious why they are still “out there”. Some have personality issues, don’t respect wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 01:50 PM
3	What happens to women and go their own way? Lol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 11:00 AM
1	Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread You’ve become immersed in an internet figure’s doctrine as if it were from a god. You can fix your face with surgery but you’ll never evolve your mind or world perspective if you don’t internally fix or adjust yourself. Stoicism is valuable because no matter how much money you spend on your face, we’re all going to die & a man or person who has not learned how to live in the present day with himself as he is in the present learning to give his time to real things that matter is a man who is losi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 06:42 AM
2	Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread Spoken in the words of a man indoctrinated by Kevin Samuels. “Stfu because I don’t like to hear men complaining.” No, I didn’t complain. You replied to my informational comment to OP’s question that provided facts with an illogical, twisted comment and disdain for women. Luckily I don’t meet or deal with men like you in real life & sniff them a mile away. You’re a minority. My face is beautiful. You can’t even address the other things I mentioned after expecting me to be fat, old, & ugly. I want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 05:07 AM
3	What happens to women and go their own way? So are you saying if the sex and connection is good you will engage them again? So it’s a gamble for women to have sex with you based on a whim? If not you throw them away? How do you view sex? Makes me curious if it’s just like a handshake to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 02:58 AM
6	What happens to women and go their own way? That’s your standards. Luckily women who don’t want to quickly share their bodies with strangers don’t have to. I’ve met plenty of men who don’t like easy women BUT will take it IF offered then not call or contact her again. Women shouldn’t feel pressured to fuck or not have a “chance” at a LTR. Might as well stay home if that’s the play. I would and I do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 01:29 AM
5	What happens to women and go their own way? Yeah. And I withheld my expression and feelings while he spoke. I’ve learned more & more to let men tell you who they are uninterrupted. It’s making filtering to find a good mate easier. The sad part is they ask “What did I say/do wrong?” It shows they have no idea. I’ve stopped explaining anything at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 01:21 AM
3	Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread It’s sad some men have been possibly hurt & damaged so bad by not having their fathers, real self growth, or bad experiences to where you’re vulnerable to believing many things Kevin preaches. I don’t watch his channel or full videos because my mind is expansive & seeks facts. I have an inner confidence to not over generalize people & their standards which won’t change anyways if you beat them down. There’s many bloggers who also claim to know Kevin personally. You’re not unique. I’ve read thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 01:16 AM
4	Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread OP asked who he is and I provided info with some sources to educate people on his background. The internet has various voices on gender issues and dating. Not all of it is right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 12:58 AM
3	Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread No input on you saying women have unreasonable standards or why they think they deserve high-value men in response to me simply sharing information about Kevin’s background in response to OP’s original question huh? Your initial comment had nothing to do with improving one’s image in corporate America or the beginnings of Kevin’s channel. You’re deflecting because you can’t reply with a well thought out response. I understand you possibly felt the need to reply because a man you look up to wasn’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 08:27 PM
10	What happens to women and go their own way? My thoughts exactly. I don’t want to have sex with any of them. Women are objects or fuck dolls to many. Compliments from men no longer have any effect. Looks from men are whatever. True and kind words and sincerity are priceless, but seem rare these days. So rare that I’m setting myself up to practice hypergamy hardcore. I might as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 08:14 PM
4	What happens to women and go their own way? I think there’s good quality men above 30. The average age for marriage for women in the US is 27. Some people take longer to develop their careers and don’t want to be married in their early 20s. I’ve taken the approach of knowing dating is a numbers game. If a guy asks for nudes or shows any red flags early that he’s a jerk or lacks core values of respect, I cease all contact and will end dates. I’ve spoken to 30 men in the past two months and gone on 2 dates. The Volume is high but there’s no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 07:39 PM
5	Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread I gave input to OP’s question and provided information sources. Your question is outside the scope of that. Are you seeking a discussion or a debate? Kevin Samuels lived off of women and is now telling women that their standards are too high for being single mothers, above 30, etc. He’s the kind of Misogynistic man all women must avoid. As for you, why judge someone else’s standards? Standards are highly personal based on experiences and things desired. I don’t meet everyone’s standards nor do I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 07:25 PM
16	What happens to women and go their own way? In today’s world, many of us don’t even feel like playing musical chairs. Shacking up or marrying a barely decent man still requires a lot of Sacrifice, energy, and time from women. Getting pregnant, having your body changed forever, risking death, abuse, caring for kids, cooking, cleaning, managing a household, being a mother, working, etc versus being free and not having to put up with someone else’s moods or behaviors is pleasant. Some men think women are miserable without motherhood and men,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 06:54 PM
15	Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread Kevin Samuels has been divorced twice and legal documents filed during proceedings with one of his wives shows he made less than $900 a month during marriage while she financially supported him. He was broke before YouTube. In other interviews (linked) he mentioned his dysfunctional childhood and lack of a father who preferred to sire other families which could be tied to such strongly-held misogynistic beliefs. He didn’t have a strong male figure to teach him about real love, family, or valuing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 06:37 PM
1	The cost of a beautiful woman Average with a good personality would be nice. I don’t prefer really good looking or super muscular men either. I find them to be vapid & selfish. Finding a good man who treats me well with basic kindness is hard enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 09:23 PM
2	The cost of a beautiful woman Hell yeah. I spend money & effort to look good. All men don’t deserve beautiful women. It’s not a right or a privilege! Anything worth having takes effort. My effort means I deserve a man who treats me well and isn’t stingy. Broke men are either intimidated by me or try to use me for money. I don’t associate with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 02:58 PM
3	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? Met a guy 2 weeks ago. I didn’t flirt and was only friendly saying hi in the elevator & thought it was a professional contact. A week later he invited me to hang out in his apartment then called me late at night. Yes it is true. Why the fuck would I hang out in a strangers apartment after we just met? I’m really careful about meeting new men and having male friends. I have none currently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 09:32 PM
1	Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around? What level of detail would you want? Knowing that someone went on 2 dates in the past week or had sex 2 weeks ago serves no purpose unless you’re trying to pass judgements right? In that case yes it’s cool for you to ask & someone like me would tell you. If you ask don’t be surprised when the truth is told, but if the person is attractive enough or has commonalities, Group A would still pursue it seems. I’m currently talking to a conservative CEO who hasn’t asked who I’m dating. I don’t fuck jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 03:19 AM
1	It seems well-known that women find "ambition" attractive, but what types of ambition, specifically? I used to find ambition attractive, but I’ve seen people have ambition for months and years without producing any results. I’m no longer attracted to just ambition. I’m attracted to tangible results or proof. Someone who knows how to play an instrument, has acquired knowledge in their field or area that benefited them, doesn’t just want to open a business but is on the tail end or actively researching and putting time into doing it, doesn’t talk about helping others but actually volunteers & so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 02:22 AM
1	Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around? Mixing is unavoidable sometimes. People from Group A have loved me & treated me well as I gave them a freshness to life outside of checking some boxes. Sometimes they liked the excitement or attraction of a woman regardless. I ended things when it didn’t work out or life changes separated us. I often found their mindset to be close minded and judgmental. It was like reading a predictable, slow paced book over time. I try to avoid Group A people & don’t mention who I’m dating in detail to anyone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 02:09 AM
2	Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around? Agreed. People in Group C often have more options, enjoy sex & variety more, view life as an experience, or don’t want to commit for some time. Group A will always be around for some of us. Group A may also be with people from Group C without knowing. Some people in Group A can also be sexually boring or under developed because of their lack of experience. There can be negatives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 01:24 PM