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| 5 | What is the purpose of a first date?It’s basically a job interview | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 12:50 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with her fucking other guys?If you don’t want her fucking other guys, then you need to talk to her about being exclusive. Until then, there’s nothing you can do about it. Always assume that any woman you’re seeing is also fucking someone else. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 03:43 PM |
| 9 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?He’s just been “the hot guy” for so long he’s all most people know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 02:13 PM |
| 4 | It's time I admit I suck with women and will probably never be one of those men who are successful with themOk, let’s look at the positives here: You’ve fucked 4 women so far, had 1 FWB, and been on over 35 dates. This is actually pretty good, and you’re only 24. What did you do to get those 4 women to sleep with you? How did you manage to pull off 35 dates and a FWB? Focus on this and try to apply it to future women. Remember, you’ve still fucked 4 women. You’re not as bad as you think you are. There is something that is attractive about you that made 4 women want to have sex with you. Do you spend a… | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:21 PM |
| 6 | She wants to bang a guy who earns more than her husband.Friends and family think Always with this. The opinions of outsiders are more important than her husband’s or her own. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/03/22 12:43 AM |
| 74 | Am I the only guy who thinks it’s easier to approach women solo rather than with a friend or wing?There’s always the chance she likes your friend more than you. Then he goes home with her, and you go home to masturbate. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Is thinning/balding hair a turn off in the dating world?I’m bald. Back in my 20s I wasted probably hundreds if not thousands of dollars on treatments that claimed to restore hair loss. None of them worked except minoxidil (Rogaine). In fact, there are only two treatments that have been proven to work - minoxidil and finasteride (Propecia). Minox stops working when you stop using it, so if you go some time and forget to use it, your hair will start falling out. Fin can fuck up your libido, so that’s an automatic no from me. Eventually I accepted my fa… | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:45 PM |
| 11 | Oneitis: Get rid of it today!In my experience, men get oneitis when they like a girl enough to ask her out but don’t make a move. They’re always wondering “what if” but they’re afraid of doing anything out of fear that she’ll never talk to them again. Then they end up in the friendzone, thinking that eventually she’ll realize how great he is. She’ll never do that. At this point, he’s “just a friend”. The best way to avoid oneitis is to ask her out so you get your answer and you get closure. If there’s a cute chick that you … | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 03:34 PM |
| 0 | How do you keep being positive if all you're getting is being ignored and rejected?Meet someone at work. Seriously. I’ve had relationships at work and none of them turned into the nuclear bomb everyone thinks it will. You’ll already know the person anyway, so you’ve passed that hurdle. Other than that the best thing you can do is just keep going. The modern dating scene is a shit show that everyone complains about but those same complainers keep doing the exact same stuff they’re complaining about. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Do I ask this girl out or not?When in doubt, ask her out. When not in doubt, ask her out. If you don’t ask her out, you’re setting yourself up for getting a crush on her, which will lead you down a road of pain. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 02:47 PM |
| 3 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for mehttps://youtu.be/Sl7jz0qNbH0 | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 06:30 PM |
| 2 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meYour first mistake is being on reddit, OP. Search “Chad formula” on YouTube. He will guide you. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?Because even if it’s not a “no”, my time is valuable. If I want to set up a date with a chick and she’s saying “well can’t today” with no backup plan, or “can’t today but maybe next week” but no real energy to actually meet up, I’m moving on. She can get back to me if she wants and if I’m free I might try to meet up, but she won’t be my priority. I spent too much time back in my younger days waiting around for girls and even getting strung along by some of them. No more. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Anything other than “yes” is a “no”. This includes “maybe”, “hey sorry I’m busy”, or any variation. So, maybe she actually is busy. Maybe she has something going on. Maybe there was an emergency. You’ll never know. All that matters to you is that at the last minute she cancelled on you. One thing to keep in mind is that women will move mountains to be with a guy they’re interested in. Assume she’s uninterested and move on. Go ahead and text her, “ok no problem, just let me know” and leave it at … | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Can I keep An Ex Out Of The 'Ho Phase'?Put yourself in her shoes. What would you think if your ex was still trying to control your life? What if your ex was bringing up concerns about where you’re headed? You’d roll your eyes, say, “ok”, and go do what you were going to do anyway. It really seems like you’re set on trying to stop her from a ho phase. According to you, she doesn’t do casual sex. So if she doesn’t do casual sex then you have nothing to worry about. Either way, this isn’t your problem. If you absolutely have to, tell he… | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Can I keep An Ex Out Of The 'Ho Phase'?stay in good standings with her You need to ask yourself why you’re worried about this. You have your own life to live. She was once a part of it, and now she’s not. Let’s assume that she still has feelings for you. Then why isn’t she concerned with staying in good standings with you? You say that she’s started drinking and smoking. Is this something you would’ve been unhappy with when you two were together? If so, did she know this? If she did know it, then if she still cares about you still, w… | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 04:09 PM |
| 5 | Can I keep An Ex Out Of The 'Ho Phase'?She definitely still has a lot of feelings for me……..I’m holding out for the future Dude, you are the textbook definition of friendzone guy. She will not hold out for any future. You need to move on. I let her know that I can see the signs of whats coming and if we are to be friends, I could never see her as a future partner and that I would be there for her as a friend and to put an end to any flirty / lovey talk between us and keep it strictly friends. (I wouldn't mind keeping her as a friend … | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 01:22 PM |
| 3 | If you get dumped and stay friends with your ex after the breakup, this is what will happen.That really sucks, but it’s something we’ve all been through. So you’re not alone. This says nothing about your worth as a man though. All it means is that this one girl, out of the billions of them on earth, was not into you. That’s it. Keep going. So I did some investigating and she been talking to so many guys This is something guys always need to remember. You are NEVER the only guy she’s talking to. That sweet girl who you think only has eyes for you is also texting, calling, having lunch w… | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 03:51 PM |
| 97 | If you get dumped and stay friends with your ex after the breakup, this is what will happen.This is why you don’t stay friends with exes and you don’t become friends with a crush, because what happens with a crush is almost identical. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Why is ghosting so maligned?Don’t you dare complain about it though, because if you do then you’re being nEeDy and cLiNGy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Why is ghosting so maligned?Because it’s spread into other areas of life. It’s one thing to get ghosted by someone you’ve been on one date (or even a few dates) with. It’s another when people who you thought were your friends do it to you. People are so afraid of confrontation that they’ll even ghost their friends without at least trying to work things out. What’s even worse is that people will say that nobody owes you an explanation, which is bullshit. If you’re in a relationship with someone - whether it’s a romantic rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What does “ask her something for logistics” mean? Either way, she’s not interested in you. Unless I’m misunderstanding this, she really only interacts with you in a group setting. Also, regarding the texts: she got them. We stare at these things basically 24/7 now, and besides, that red dot notification doesn’t go away until you open the message. The fact is, she got your texts, you’re just not that important to her. There are no secret meanings to this; she didn’t decide that you two don’t text… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Dishonesty with intent is at the heart of most friendzone situations, usually from both people involvedExactly. And both parties are being dishonest. Maybe the girl friendzoning the guy truly wants him as a friend, and of course the guy agrees to it because he thinks one day he’ll get his chance. In the meantime, he’ll start trying to derail every relationship she gets into. Or maybe she just wants free attention while she’s in between boyfriends, so she strings the poor sap along. She’ll get all the boyfriend perks and not have to give anything back to him. Maybe the guy fuck zoning the girl wil… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 03:23 PM |
| 7 | Dishonesty with intent is at the heart of most friendzone situations, usually from both people involvedI’m not talking about me. I’m past that point in my life. But I do know what it’s like which is why I tell guys to not be friends with girls who have rejected them. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 02:23 AM |
| 14 | Dishonesty with intent is at the heart of most friendzone situations, usually from both people involvedThe problem is that if you ask a girl out then that means you like her. Which means that unless you can get rid of those feelings then it’s going to suck being “friends” with her knowing that she’s dating and fucking other guys. It’s why so many guys in the friendzone are miserable. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 08:37 PM |
| 98 | Dishonesty with intent is at the heart of most friendzone situations, usually from both people involvedIf you ask a girl out and she says “no, but we can be friends” then you need to ask yourself if you can handle knowing that she’s dating (and probably fucking) other guys. That while you’re sitting there trying to work up the courage to text her, or waiting for her to text you, she likely isn’t thinking about you at all. You need to realize that in all likelihood, she isn’t going to wake up one day after a string of shitty boyfriends and realize that the perfect guy (you) was there all along. Do… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 08:22 PM |
| 21 | I think my coworker likes me ,what do I doI know plenty of people who have had successful long term relationships and even got married after dating as coworkers. It doesn’t have to be the minefield everyone makes it out to be. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 03:25 AM |
| 3 | For Red Pill Men Who Believe In Relationships: What sort of women do you seek for marriage and LTR?Absolute truth here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 02:26 PM |
| -2 | For Red Pill Men Who Believe In Relationships: What sort of women do you seek for marriage and LTR?As close to a trad wife as possible. Unfortunately more modern women are shunning this identity by the day. They’d rather spend their 20s “finding themselves” - meaning sleeping with as many guys as she wants and of course, traveling. Then when 30 hits, she wonders why the guys she dates just want sex and all the good men have either been snatched up or want nothing to do with her. Listen up ladies: if you are feminine, nurturing, loyal, with a low body count (think single digits), and you take … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 02:24 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]There really isn’t a set time. One day you’ll just realize that you haven’t thought about her in a while and it won’t affect you. You’ll just shrug your shoulders and move on with your day. Best thing you can do is learn from it and avoid it. Next time you’re talking to a girl and you like her, just ask her out. She’ll either say yes or she’ll say no, but you’ll have your answer instead of wondering what if. | /r/seduction | 11/11/21 09:46 PM |
| 170 | She lost interest out of nowhereIt happens. Women are fickle. One day she’ll be all over you and the next you won’t even exist. You might never know why she lost interest because she probably doesn’t even know why herself. Just keep moving. | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 12:45 AM |
| 11 | A Case Against "Only Texting for Logistics"Texting is just another form of communication, but the rules haven’t changed: women generally talk more than men, so let her do most of the talking. Men tend to say stupid shit that we might not mean anything by, but she can take it in an entirely different direction. Match her energy. If she’s texting you every day, respond. It means she likes you and wants to talk with you. If she’s pulling back or the “tone” of her texts change, then pull back yourself. Maybe she doesn’t like you as much, or … | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Reasons why online dating sucks for both men and womenReddit is not the majority. Don’t let this cesspool website form your worldview. There are plenty of good men out there who don’t just want to pump and dump, but women have to actually look for them. Date people you already know, there’s nothing wrong with it. Or have a friend set you up with someone. Otherwise you get stuck in the infinite loop of job interview first dates that get exhausting and make you want to give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 05:55 PM |
| 7 | Reasons why online dating sucks for both men and womenLOL. Society isn’t pressuring women to fuck on the first date. And who cares if “some men” think anything? Have your own standards. If you want to hold off on sex until you really know a guy, then do that. Maybe it’ll take you longer to find someone, but he’ll be better quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Reasons why online dating sucks for both men and womenWhy would you care what some rando thinks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 05:47 PM |
| 13 | Reasons why online dating sucks for both men and womenThe reason it sucks is because everyone complains about the bullshit games everyone else plays when dating, and then they go and play those same games themselves. This happens with or without apps. Girl: “uggfhh why can’t I just find a sweet, great guy who’ll take care of me and stick with me long term?” proceeds to friendzone those types of guys and dates assholes or guys who charm her into bed and then disappear Guy: “Fuck why can’t I just find a sweet, feminine, nurturing woman who’ll be loya… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Double TextingForget about it and move on. She saw your message, it just wasn’t important enough to her to reply to. We’re staring at our phones 24/7 these days, and we see every notification that comes through. Don’t take it personally. If she gets back to you then great, if not then no big deal. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 03:23 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]It’s really more about being honest. If you’re getting to the relationship stage and these questions get asked then you owe the other person honesty so they can make their own decision. It’s way better to get this out in the beginning than have them find out later that you lied. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 07:29 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Not being judgmental. I have standards and if someone doesn’t meet them then it’s my right to move on with my life. If a woman wants a guy who’s 6’5” and built like the rock, then that’s on her. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 07:27 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Yeah fuck having standards. Just accept whatever’s thrown at me. Let us know the next time you date someone who doesn’t meet your requirements. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 07:26 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]But I thought it’s nobody’s business? Or does that only work one way? | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 03:56 PM |
| 56 | [deleted by user]I’m not expecting a virgin but I also don’t want a woman who’s been fucked by the entire city. What would be a dealbreaker is if we’re heading into committed relationship territory and she lied about it. I don’t want a woman to tell me that she’s only slept with six guys and then some time later I find out that she’s slept with 100. If she’s willing to lie to me about that what else would she lie about? I think that you should be honest with the person if you’re getting into a relationship and t… | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 03:55 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Sex is sex but Penetrating someone is not the same as being penetratedAgreed. It’s why I think the idea that “my past is none of their business and doesn’t matter” is bullshit in general. Be honest about it and let the other person decide if they want to continue things. Everybody complains about how the modern dating scene is shit and yet they still act like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Sex is sex but Penetrating someone is not the same as being penetratedSay you’re in a relationship with a guy (or even married to him) and the entire time he told you that’s he’s only been with three other women besides you. Much later on you find out that in reality, before you came along, he was a major playboy, had slept with dozens of women and none of them were in committed relationships. Wouldn’t you feel lied to and betrayed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Right time to ask out a girlThe best time was 2 weeks ago, the second best time is now. She’ll either say yes or no. Any version of “maybe” - “I’m busy”, “not sure”, etc - is a no. Do it and you’ll have your answer. Don’t do it and you’ll always wonder “what if”. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 10 | I’m starting to give upYou have a lack of abundance and probably a crush on this girl. If you have to try to get her interested in you then she’s not interested in you. This is not a Disney movie, you’re not going to negotiate attraction. Based on what you’ve said here you’re not creepy yet, but if you keep it up you will step into creep territory. You say that you see her at the gym, but do you ever talk to her? If not then why are you looking her up on social media and messaging her there? Let her go. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 11:09 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]We all say stupid shit sometimes. Don’t worry about it. She gave you her number so you’re good. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | When to send the first textDon’t overthink it. If they ghosted you then they didn’t care about you in the first place. Unfortunately ghosting is the hot trend these days so you’ll just have to get used to it. If a girl likes you she’ll keep up a conversation with you (and go on dates) regardless of whatever ridiculous texting formula you hear about that you use. She won’t think you’re needy because she already likes you. Obviously don’t blow up her phone because nobody likes that, but what you’re already doing is just fin… | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 08:04 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]She’s playing mind games and manipulating you. Or she’s just fucking insane. Either way this chick could ruin your life so gtfo. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How to confirm a date without sounding needyText her “hey we still on for (time)?” Simple. Some of these replies are telling you to say “I’ll be a little late”. Don’t do that. Everybody complains about all the games and bullshit going on in the dating scene, and yet those same people keep it going. If you’re really going to be late then tell her. If a girl is really going to think you’re needy just for confirming a date then she’s not worth your time anyway. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Homemade porn isn't unrealistic, it's simply that some people are not getting enough actionThe problem is that people get in these echo chamber communities and it reinforces itself. Yes people are lonely but you can either sit in your bedroom all day being lonely or you can take steps to fix it. Nobody says it will be an instant or overnight change but chances are in the long run it will work out. Or you can get on the internet and complain. That’s a sure fire way to beat loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 12:40 PM |
| 2 | She likes me, now what?I just need to formulate a process Jesus Christ man. I am also pretty confident and good at conversation If this is true then why do you need to “formulate a process”? If you know that she’s interested, then just go ask her out. If you don’t do it then someone else will. She’ll either tell you yes or no. Take any form of “maybe” to be a no. If she says no, then you have your answer and you can move on with your life. If she says yes then go out and have a great time with her. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 12:12 PM |
| 2 | What to doHow many times have you asked her? Give her 2 or 3 times and then move on. If she’s interested then she’ll make time in her “busy” life to meet up with you. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Homemade porn isn't unrealistic, it's simply that some people are not getting enough actionSeriously. Everybody is having sex. Your crush is having sex (just not with you). That nice, sweet lady at work got rammed hard last night. That dorky looking guy you saw at the grocery store has a wife and they fuck too. Goddamn. Get off reddit and get and do shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 12:02 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Does she like dogs? Send her a picture of a cute dog from IG. Nothing wrong with a little light conversation. Just don’t blow up her phone all day every day (nobody likes that) and you’ll be good. Honestly, a lot of these “rules” about texting are fucking stupid. “Don’t text her again until after you meet up or she’ll think you’re needy”. Dumb. If she’s going to lose interest in you because you sent her a meme or whatever in between first contact and date then is this really someone you want in … | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If that’s the case then I’d move on. Women will move mountains to meet up with a guy they’re interested in. She’s either a) interested but actually busy every single time b) not interested and just stringing you along or c) just wants to be friends. None of these options are beneficial for you. If it’s a, that’s not your problem. You have your own life to live and you don’t have time to waste on a girl who is interested but can’t make time for you. Besides, does she ever suggest a back up plan? … | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 11:04 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If she gives a detailed reason then she’s probably legitimately busy (or whatever her reason is), so give her a chance. If she doesn’t get back to you when she says she will send her a text just to ask if she’s available but if she flakes again move on. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 09:32 PM |
| 3 | What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy?True, but if RJ in a man is caused in part by his lack of a sexual past, I don’t think Kanye (or mostly any celebrity) would be a good example. Still, I get where you’re coming from. We’re all just human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 05:25 PM |
| 5 | What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy?Not sure that Kanye West is a good comparison since he’s a celebrity and has likely slept with more women (and definitely has had more options) than most men out there, and he also has probably slept with plenty of women like Kim K, so he knew what he was getting into. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to say he probably doesn’t have RJ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Should I text her again ?I know it sounds stupid, but depending on how old you both are, I would take the fact that she chose to give you her Facebook and not IG or snap (or most importantly, her phone number) as a sign that she isn’t interested. Facebook isn’t as popular as it once was, and it seems like more and more people are deleting or abandoning their accounts. Could be wrong though, but I’d move on. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 07:21 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]The answer will always be 0% chance unless you ask her, so ask her. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 06:17 PM |
| 54 | How do you ‘kill’ oneitis?You need to ask her out. She’ll either say yes or no (consider any version of “maybe” to be a no). You’ll have your answer and then you can move on from there. If you don’t ask her out, then your oneitis could end up consuming you. And just remember: while you’re busy sitting there in your bedroom on Saturday night wishing you could work up the courage to ask her out, she’s busy riding Chad’s 12” dick, having the time of her life, and not thinking about you at all. Second, you need abundance. Ta… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Instead of concocting this ridiculous plan to talk to a girl, how about you just go talk to her? | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 11:08 PM |
| 184 | A reminder not to get too hung up on one girl, there's probably another one who is more excited to meet you around the cornerThis is the way. And now if work girl starts trying to hang out with you, you won’t feel as though you absolutely have to or else there won’t be any other options. Never get fixated on one girl. Ask her out and if she rejects or says “well maybe…” then move on. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed when she thinks we should be friends?I have a constant urge to contact her and hang out. But I’m thinking this is not a good idea. It’s not a good idea. You need to move on with your life. She clearly just wants to be friends and you want to be more than friends. Maybe, maybe she’s playing hard to get, but do you really want to spend your time chasing someone who plays games with your head? You asked her out and she said no. You need to start talking to/dating other women before you develop a crush on this one (if you don’t have it… | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 12:30 PM |
| 2 | This post wall single mother is using Tinder as a last resort and will not hookup with anyone!!Wow she seems like a wonderful person to be around | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/21 01:06 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]We’ve all known that guy at some point, and maybe even been one ourselves. These types don’t bother you if you’re out competing them in the gym or in a sport, but if you’re getting more female attention then suddenly they start getting loud and obnoxious. They’re usually insecure for one reason or another. Ignore them. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 3 | How to escalate with a coworker?The IDGAF attitude is the right attitude to have here. You went for it, she rejected, and you just accepted it and moved on. Keeping this attitude will help you out in the long run, especially with women. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 12:34 PM |
| 2 | How to get over the mental block that she's already got plenty of guys to talk to, so why bother her with yourself?Of course she’s talking to other guys. There is nothing you can do about that. In fact, for all you know, she probably just got through riding Chad and she had the best orgasm of her life. The point is that you don’t care. Approach her. She’ll either be receptive to you or she’ll reject you. Either way, you don’t care. Now with taking women’s perspective into consideration Stop doing this. Don’t worry about what she thinks, only worry about what you think. Remember, you have to live with yoursel… | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 12:25 PM |
| 27 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseYou did the right thing. If she starts blowing up your phone don’t respond. Just block her and move on with your life. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 12:11 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate with a coworker?Is this a job and career that you’ve worked hard for? If so then either don’t do it or proceed with extreme caution, because she can ruin your shit. If this is just some gig your doing while in college or something, just say fuck it and go for it. Either way, just ask her out for coffee after work and see how things go from there. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Either ask her out or accept your place in the friendzone | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | When a woman says she just wants to be friends and you say you respect your decision but don't want to be friends, how to handle the social media aspect of it, do you stay connected to her?You need to decide whether or not you still like her as more than a friend. If you won’t be able to handle seeing pictures of her with other guys then you need to remove her from your social media. If you won’t be able to resist liking and commenting on every photo she posts, then remove her. Remember - she just wants to be friends. You’re not special to her anymore, and any like or comment you make will get the same reaction that she gives to every other slobbering dumbass that’s orbiting her. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | This girl (24f) and I (20m) have a clear unspoken thing going on and I don’t know if she truly likes me or not. If I’m wrong there could be issues.The answer to every unasked question is always “no”. Quit overthinking it and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 42 | How can you avoid getting overly exited (obsessed) when you are dating a girl that has everything you are looking for?Talk to more women. If you’re exclusive with her, you still need to talk to more women. That doesn’t necessarily mean try to date them, but to subconsciously remind yourself that she isn’t the only girl on the planet. These don’t even have to be random women at a bar. Female coworkers will work just fine. | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Mentally I feel like a creepy old guy finding 20-somethings attractive. Society tells me that I should find more age-appropriate attraction and that I am a "creep" for seeing younger women as attractive. How do I get over these society-imposed beliefs?Then what are you doing to improve this? Take a year off to focus on yourself - no women, no video games, no pointless distractions. Exercise, eat right, stop jerking off, and if you can then start taking college classes. Doesn’t matter if you’re going for a bachelors degree or a trade certificate. Work to improve yourself. If you’re balding then either shave it all off or look into treatments. I’m bald myself, and I spent probably thousands of dollars on stupid creams and shampoos that didn’t d… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Girl who likes me intentionally tries to make me jealous and ignores me. What should I do?She’s stringing you along for free attention. Drop her and move on with your life. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Girls out of your leagueGet out of this mentality of “leagues”. They’re women, not goddesses. No woman is out of your league. Even Margot Robbie isn’t out of your league. If you like the girl then go talk to her. She’ll either keep talking to you or reject you. Either way you win. If she keeps talking then you ask her out. If she rejects you then you take it as a learning experience and move on. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 13 | How do you respond to “I’m not looking for anything serious”They’re probably freshly divorced and actually want to enjoy life for once. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Advice generating attraction with a certain personality typeIf you think you’re veering into friend territory, then you need to make a decision right now: either ask her out or accept that you’re going to be just friends. The problem with “veering into friend territory” is that once you’re actually there, any sexual attraction she might’ve had for you will be gone because you’ll just be friends. This is why it’s so important to act quickly. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Does it bother you if a girl has mostly guy friends?Guaranteed that at least one of those guys likes her and might try to derail whatever is going on between you and this girl. If you don’t dump her, then you need to proceed with caution. In my experience, women with mostly guy friends tend to be insecure so you should probably reconsider this thing. Problems start happening between the two of you? Off to her guy friends she goes to get the validation she wants, and the one that likes her will tell her to drop you in the hopes that she’ll get wit… | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Is this girl into me?My question is do you guys think a girl would stay alone at a party with a guy she is not romantically interested in? Yes, a girl would do that. But she also would not. But she might have been bored. But she might have been into you. But she might not have been. Stop trying to logically analyze what women do, because you’ll drive yourself insane. It is really hard for me to judge what's going on because she didn't send any obvious signals that she wants to be with me. She hung out with you, alon… | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 10:01 PM |
| 21 | I fucked a 10/10 last night. Unbelievably hot. I used to post in /r/foreveralone. She's going to stay over this weekend and we're going to fuck again. Help me make her lust for me.Yeah, and I’m not saying to ghost her or anything like that, but more to minimize how much space she takes up in your mind. We’ve all been there with having crushes and all that bullshit, and it can fuck you up. You need to nip this in the bud. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:41 PM |
| 9 | I fucked a 10/10 last night. Unbelievably hot. I used to post in /r/foreveralone. She's going to stay over this weekend and we're going to fuck again. Help me make her lust for me.We do, until we meet a woman who is “perfect” for us. Too many men are coming from a place of loneliness and getting attention from a woman you’re attracted to can be such a big event that it starts to consume you. The only way to avoid this is with practice. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:38 PM |
| 52 | I fucked a 10/10 last night. Unbelievably hot. I used to post in /r/foreveralone. She's going to stay over this weekend and we're going to fuck again. Help me make her lust for me.How do I not fuck this up? Talk to more women. She’s giving you crazy chick signs - you even admit to thinking she’s a loose cannon, she’s admitted to going crazy if she doesn’t get a text reply for a day, being temperamental, and doing “stupid things in the past”. Tread carefully. Unfortunately, you have a crush on her now (“But now I’m falling for her. I have fallen for her.”) Thus the need to talk to more women. She’s made it clear that she wants casual sex, so don’t think for a second that y… | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Blocked and stuckYeah it’s best to cut it off early before you start catching feelings for her | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 01:06 PM |
| 1 | reasonable requests.. any takers?Buzz your girlfriend. Woof! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/07/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | My Ex-Girlfriend and I cannot seem to let each other go? How do I get what I want?How do you “make a way to contact each other”? If she sends you a message then you need to ignore it. If you can’t do that then block her. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 12:54 PM |
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