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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Rating Girls Well, that's something I don't have experience in, so I can't really give you any advice...I've got all that to look forward to, I guess ;) You could try starting a thread, I'm not sure of the general age on Seddit but if there's any older players on here they could probably help you out. There's definitely guys in your age range over at mASF so you could try them if you can't get any help here.	/r/seduction	04/04/11 10:22 PM
1	"I can't tell if this is all you want me for." Worst thing to do IME is to get all Dawsons Creek on her and start talking about your relationship status, or worse your emotions. I'd probably use something along the lines of "That's the idea" or "I'm doing something right, then" in this situation - anything to stop it from turning into an actual conversation. You want her to be thinking about you more than you think about her - the more you tell her, the less things she has to wonder about. As long as you don't give her a straight answer, you…	/r/seduction	04/04/11 10:18 PM
1	Rating Girls All the structure and rules and strategies are counterproductive. The better approach is to be more abstract, loosen up.. and be more "zen". Absolutely. All of the 'tactics' exist for the complete newbies - the 24 year old who's never kissed a girl, the guy who can't even order food from a hot waitress without getting flustered. If you're relatively normal and just want to improve, you're better off building on what you already know than scrapping it and starting from scratch. the only risk you …	/r/seduction	04/04/11 12:30 PM
0	Rating Girls You're clearly set on this, so I'm not going to argue with you - neither of us is prepared to change their mind, so it's pointless. This was kind of interesting, though: I don't see how you can advocate the community but disagree with one of it's core tactics Really? I love watching UFC fights, but I disagree with having 3 rounds - I prefer it when the guys just fight until there's a winner. But rounds is a core part of the rules. I know plenty of guys that love football (soccer), but hate it wh…	/r/seduction	04/04/11 12:10 PM
2	Rating Girls Sure they do. They also think that offering a girl a drink is a great way to meet women. They also think that bringing flowers on a first date is super romantic. I don't use what non-community guys do as a guide, and neither should you. What is the exact difference, in terms of the specific tactics you would use to fuck them, between an 'HB7' and and 'HB8'? If I say a girl is a 7 and my buddy says she's an 8, do I use 7 game or 8 game? These distinctions are worthless. There are no numbers, ther…	/r/seduction	03/04/11 09:11 PM
2	Rating Girls Now that you ask, I'm struggling to explain this in words. I guess what I'm trying to say is a little esoteric, and probably more intermediate/advanced level stuff, but...game is already in you. You already know every word you are going to say to a girl, it's just a matter of putting them in the right order, and carrying yourself in an attractive way...you have every instinct you need to be successful, it's already latent within you - you just need to make your brain allow you to access them. Yo…	/r/seduction	03/04/11 08:55 PM
3	Rating Girls I don't ;)	/r/seduction	03/04/11 08:37 PM
11	Rating Girls Rating girls is a waste of time. The idea of an online community for seduction is to socialize nerds. The 1-10 scale is nerdy enough as it is. The last thing we need is an even more pedantic rating system with more numbers and criteria. Pickup is not about rules, acronyms, numbered lists, or jargon. It's about managing emotions. Try and get all this left-brained shit out of your head, and feeling more.	/r/seduction	03/04/11 04:46 PM
3	"You will realize in your personal life that at some point, seduction is over and force is being requested." Try and focus on reality, not what some TV exec thought sounded like a cool line. Things that happen in movies and TV shows don't actually happen. You might as well tell us about some movie where the guy serenades a girl and it works - it's fictional, so it doesn't matter. TV and movies are for entertainment only, don't let them colour your view of real life.	/r/seduction	03/04/11 04:01 PM
13	The traits women like men to display when they're finding the perfect man. Interesting read from TwoX. This is a list for potential husbands. This is irrelevant for guys they want to fuck right now.	/r/seduction	03/04/11 12:54 PM
3	Fail. First week back in the game. Trying to learn how to ride a bike again. stupidly tried to toy with my "check down" I have no idea what this means. I just would like to get some advice on how someone closes at a college party especially when they are surrounded by a lot of there friends. Barman game is going to be very different to regular game - unless a barman comes in here to share what he knows, a question this vague will only get ivory-tower, KJ guesswork. Try and ask specific questions if you want specific advice. Also, I take issue with this: Fail. First week …	/r/seduction	03/04/11 08:47 AM
1	Don't you hate those people... Guitar-playing comes into its own when you get old enough to be in a band and play gigs in bars...or when you're old enough to bring a girl back to your apartment and she sees a guitar there...that's why I said start learning now, because by the time you're good it'll be useful...but you were way ahead of me ;) Don't sweat high school girls too much though, puberty does weird things to your head...that's why you won't find too much material based on high school game, it's all fucking random dude…	/r/seduction	02/04/11 05:53 PM
3	[FR] Learned A VERY Important Lesson Tonight Well I Failed Tonight If your goal is to learn, and you learned something, then you didn't fail - you succeeded.	/r/seduction	02/04/11 05:23 PM
2	Don't you hate those people... Trust me. It's BAD. I'm not saying bad because it's not "correct game", I'm saying it's bad because he actually makes himself look like a complete idiot. It's not just me, all my buddies that sit near me always laugh at him with me when he just makes an ass of himself. So he approaches a girl, talks to her, and despite the fact that he has a whole group of people mocking him (essentially cockblocking), he still gets results? That's pretty damn good imo...what teenagers think is acting cool, and …	/r/seduction	02/04/11 05:11 PM
1	Don't you hate those people... IMO, there's no need for game in high school. The best way to learn this shit is naturally...if you're still not where you want to be at 21 then read up, but as a kid it's pointless...or even counter productive. Anyway, onto your problem... Why do you give a shit how many girls another guy gets? All that matters to YOU is how many girls YOU get. With this girl, you were way too eager. You texted her, and then texted her, and then texted her, and then called her. In the meantime, she texted you o…	/r/seduction	02/04/11 04:11 PM
5	r/Innergame new sub section! This is my shit right here. If you get inner game right, everything else just falls into place. It's like, all the tools you need are already inside you, you just need to figure out how to make your brain let you access them. It looks a bit barren at the moment, so I'll dig up a few old articles I've written from other boards and post them over there to get the ball rolling.	/r/seduction	02/04/11 02:17 PM
4	Seduction = Inception = Creativity. Utter bollocks. Just because in one study there was correlation, does not mean there is any causation going on. I mean, look at this: http://mashable.com/2010/08/10/iphone-sex-okcupid/ I've had almost triple the number of the highest average for my age on this study, and my phone is a cheap, second hand piece of crap that turns itself off for no reason every now and again. Nobody fucks someone because they have a cool phone...but statistically, there's a correlation between phone type and sexual…	/r/seduction	02/04/11 01:59 PM
1	My observations on women and their sexuality. you need to be honest with your potential partner about what you want No you don't. Plenty of guys lie to women and get exactly what they want. Plenty of guys tell the truth and get exactly what they want. It doesn't matter if what you say is true or false - what matters is if it works or not. Having a relationship is a totally different ballgame, but these are the seduction boards. You don't need to be honest to get a girl into bed, and sometimes it's easier not to. acting like you don't care y…	/r/seduction	02/04/11 01:11 PM
1	Beta to Alpha: Questions on how I should have dealt with old relationship issues as an Alpha/PUA The dreaded "I'm fine" when a girl actually has a problem Ignore it...do you really want to listen to her problems? I'd tell her to cheer up or get the fuck out personally...last thing I want is a boring conversation about inane shit...that's why she has friends, so I don't have to listen to it. Many girls, it seems, feed off of drama in a relationship Younger girls do this IME. Goes with the territory...if she's acting like a kid, call her on it and tell her to grow up. If she keeps acting like…	/r/seduction	29/03/11 09:07 PM
1	My sister needs help! (or, how to approach game from a woman's perspective) It really depends. Does she want to screw around, or does she want a relationship? If it's the former, I have no experience picking up dudes so I can't help, sorry. If it's the latter, she could probably do worse than checking out The Rules...it's basically an instruction manual on how to disqualify weak dudes, and train the strong ones. It's scary reading for a guy, but for a woman it's pure power.	/r/seduction	29/03/11 08:54 PM
1	Pride and the Alpha Male To be honest with you, I don't really buy into the whole 'Alpha' thing - as far as I'm aware, some guy once said that Alpha males get more women, so guys should affect Alpha characteristics in order to fool women into liking them (back when NLP was popular...). People misinterpreted what he said, so we get all this 'BE ALPHA' stuff nowadays - I guess it can be useful for beginners to break them out of the 'nerd' mindset, but once you start seeing results you can drop it with no real consequences…	/r/seduction	18/01/11 07:24 PM
-1	Hey seddit: What do you do when the girls make out with each other? Take a picture Go back to whatever I was doing	/r/seduction	18/01/11 06:46 PM
1	From the Couch to the Bedroom: How To? I'd be very surprised to find out you've actually tried out all of these lines. Even more so if you actually got success with any of them.	/r/seduction	18/01/11 06:32 PM
2	Pride and the Alpha Male This isn't a seduction question - you say the girls are in the friend zone, and don't mention any other women being present. If you were 'the Alpha', you wouldn't have accepted any challenge to your authority, least of all from one of your followers. You would have harassed the guy until either he lost status, backed down, or left the group. Luckily, you and your friends aren't wolves so it doesn't fucking matter. If you and your boys want to talk shit on your own time, nobody cares.	/r/seduction	18/01/11 06:21 PM
3	Where do I go from here? This went sour for 3 reasons You didn't see her because of vacation Not your fault, just bad timing. Not insurmountable. You made yourself too available We talk every other night when we can You should be too busy to be talking to a girl you're not fucking. Especially 'every other night'. And if you're not busy, you should be 'busy'. (the big one). YOU TALKED ABOUT YOUR FUCKING FEELINGS BEFORE YOU WERE EVEN FUCKING FUCKING HER Unforgivable. I told her I am attracted to her NOOOOOOOOOO I want to …	/r/seduction	18/01/11 06:08 PM
9	Seddit what went wrong?? You were too invested in her - read this again: yesterday was the big day and I finally was able to isolate and ask her in the most confident voice i could muster It wasn't a big day, it was Monday. If you're asking, you're not confident If you have to muster your confident voice, you're not confident This date simply meant way too much to you. I imagine that when you 'isolated' her, you made a huge big deal about it, and the whole scenario was awkward, and that's why she said no. If she contact…	/r/seduction	18/01/11 05:43 PM
2	Pickup as a student + race issues? Hooking up with girls as a student isn't even easymode, it's the tutorial. Go out with your mates, and you're bound to pull...you'd have to be trying pretty hard not to. Either that, or a WoW addict. With the race thing, it can make a difference, especially when Asian culture is involved. I live in Asia, and people really care what their parents think about stuff - if their parents wouldn't approve an interracial relationship, it's not going to happen. The most important thing really is to have …	/r/seduction	18/01/11 05:26 PM
2	Ex-gf wants to get back together, but is also thinking about other options. Should I seduce her or go with the flow? It didn't work last time, and you'll have the same problems this time. It won't work. One-off, no-strings sex is one thing, but getting back with the ex is a terrible idea. You broke up for a reason. I really think you'd be doing yourself a favour by backing out of the situation and finding someone else.	/r/seduction	18/01/11 05:11 PM
5	Is there One Source to get all the basics of the game? You can't become competent from a book - just like you can read as many books as you like about guitars, you can't learn to play one without picking one up. Double your Dating is a good place to start imo. It's not full of nerdy acronyms and jargon, and it's pretty decent advice as well.	/r/seduction	17/01/11 03:23 PM
4	The Dos and Don'ts of renting a movie and dinner. The best thing to do is just get a movie you want to see, and make food you like. If you get, say, a rom-com just for her, when you wouldn't normally watch one, you're sending out totally the wrong signals. Just remember that movie selection is really not important. If you choose Toy Story and she likes you, she'll think 'aww, that's so cute'. If you choose Toy Story and she doesn't like you, she'll think 'what a childish loser'. Whether she likes the movie choice or not depends on whether she l…	/r/seduction	17/01/11 02:37 PM
1	What can I do if I am boring and not funny? You want to have interesting life experiences so you can tell other people about them? You should want to have interesting life experiences because they are interesting. Considering your attitude, I'm guessing you're a bit of an underachiever, and you're working at a job you're way too good for. The reason you don't really get on with your co-workers is you're much smarter than they are. This has two consequences; 1. The things you say go over their heads 2. The inane shit they talk about doesn'…	/r/seduction	16/01/11 12:12 AM
2	Preparing for massive downvotes, but would like to share my opinion You seem to have confused 'the original intention of feminism' with 'the way it actually is today'. As for the 'true feminist' idea...it's a fallacy. The famous example is the 'true Scotsman': One guy says 'No Scotsman would drink Irish whiskey.' The second guy says 'What about Hamish McDonald? He's from Glasgow and he drinks Irish whiskey'. The first guy replied 'Yeah, but no true Scotsman would drink Irish whiskey'. Simply ignoring the feminists who do things you don't like and saying they're …	/r/MensRights	14/01/11 06:25 PM
2	I work with disabled kids, and I'm an MMA fighter. How do I keep from looking like a wanker when I tell girls about what I do for a living? It's not looking like a wanker that's a problem, it's the fact you feel like you look like a wanker. Seriously, can you imagine anyone saying "I met this guy last night, he's an athlete and his dayjob is working with disadvantaged children. What a twat."? I'm guessing no because it's never going to happen. On the other hand, if you feel nervous telling people what you do, then when you tell them it'll knock your confidence a little and maybe even throw you off any good vibe you've got going. My …	/r/seduction	01/10/10 08:03 PM