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| 1 | Here we go again. Same problem many of us have. Huge oneitis. Again. Why? How do we stop it?Life’s weird. I just like reddit so we can finger things out collectively | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Here we go again. Same problem many of us have. Huge oneitis. Again. Why? How do we stop it?To be honest I don’t even know anymore, I’m so confused I shouldn’t be taken advice from lol. All I know is I’ve went into things with my head on and let my emotions guide, and I’ve tried to let my head guide more than emotions. Everything has ended up in both success and failure in trying to be satisfied with a girl lmao but obviously failure in the end if I’ve loved and lost, still single and unhappy. Basically just run around like a chicken with your head cut off and do whatever the fuck, cuz… | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Here we go again. Same problem many of us have. Huge oneitis. Again. Why? How do we stop it?Well what if it was open enough to the point you fully understand that if they find someone else, that doesn’t change how they feel about you? Because I’ve only had that once, but it was SUCH a comfortable feeling knowing I had absolute trust with someone because neither of us had any reason to hide anything. Cuz I’m that sense, it really is learning how to lose in the right way | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Here we go again. Same problem many of us have. Huge oneitis. Again. Why? How do we stop it?Ya man it’s really tough in a society where everyone is expected to be monogamous entirely. It’s like one giant ass tragedy haha. I’ve found the healthiest way is to figure out how to work things out to have a truly open relationship with a girl. It’s hard af and many girls will not be about it, but they would be more likely if they realized “they’re not just another bitch” which is what they’re scared of | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Here we go again. Same problem many of us have. Huge oneitis. Again. Why? How do we stop it?It really is constantly at war. The best way I’ve found to maintain is to keep relationships with girls open, it’s true respect for each other, but not many girls can do that. I can’t stand the, I’m worried about you and you’re worried about me thing. All relationships should be based on positivity and love for each other and respect for how people truly and honestly feel, otherwise it’s just trying to be possessive over someone and that’s 100% always going to end up toxic in some form or anothe… | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Here we go again. Same problem many of us have. Huge oneitis. Again. Why? How do we stop it?I have to make an effort to, yes. Because over and over again I would fall hard into someone I was really into just to feel heart break/ have to break their heart. Or worse, it gets stretched out forever and it’s just continuous pain, but love can come out of that too and usually doesn’t come without some kind of bullshit. It’s very tough Ps 4 hours is a very long time to make out lol Pss he may be push/pulling you so that you’ll gain interest, and you chase him more. So hold composure and that … | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Here we go again. Same problem many of us have. Huge oneitis. Again. Why? How do we stop it?It’s in the way our brains are wired. If you look at the psychology of apes, men want to fuck everything but they still want to be monogamous. We’re cursed af. I’ve never been able to find a way to fix it other than to just keep fucking around with girls I don’t actually like so I don’t get there lol. Or when you recognize the feeling, literally run. Cut things off then. Chances are, she’ll come chasing you anyway and maybe you can keep it in your head to keep up that chase. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 03:45 PM |
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