TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

humanbynature Archive

View 0 posts and 51 comments by humanbynature on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

https://pin.it/j6i6r4fgvbxm3w https://pin.it/rdvvyzfc4gpbwm https://pin.it/xhpjxqkkrvunxg https://pin.it/v3ev4fctxhk5uy https://pin.it/qgyncjojps3tql https://pin.it/v5dqtaj5d4ejbg Here are some more options! I just searched plus size joggers in Pinterest so you can see how well it works on bigger girls too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:48 AM
1

Sexy joggers pants might be the way to go Link More ideas along with where you buy the clothes are aaaaallllll on Pinterest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 12:21 AM
6

The worst part is we were all in our mid 20s in graduate school. The guy was 27 when this all happened... thanks, I’m the type that wants to be liked by everyone but you can’t win em all. This is all for the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:38 AM
11

I did this over a year ago and this person and his negative little posse so profoundly affected my morale and social life that I am still picking up the pieces and trying to get my confidence back. It wasn’t even an important or emotional relationship, literally just a fling that i initiated and I kept on the down low. He tried to preemptively break it off while we were all on a trip saying “we can’t keep this up when we get back home... I’m not trying to date right now.” And I said “does it loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 11:54 PM
1

We met at a concert where I knew his friend. A few days later we went out to dinner. The next week he cooked me dinner at his house. We did the same thing a few nights later. We ate Whole Foods hot bar food at a park a few days later. That was the last time I saw him because 7 days later when I thought he had finally made some time, he stood me up at our agreed upon date to the farmers market... and he didn’t apologize or reschedule another time. So that was that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 03:29 AM
1

You make a really good point, but all of these comments were said before any sort of break up or break off. Actually many of these comments came at the height of my excitement over meeting these people. I mean even some random woman thought I HAD to know that the guy I was just TALKING to was apparently beneath my station. I didn't see it like that at all. When I show my friends pictures of these men they say things like "....he's cute" or even "eh you can do better" while I'm gushing about how …
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/18 06:25 PM
24

This hits home for me. I get comments all the time from girlfriends like "You can do way better than him" "You really think he's hot?" and it makes me question my choices a lot. I kid you not, some random girl at a club one time came up to me in front of the guy I was dancing and chatting with (me and my friends met him that day at a grad school meet-and-greet event and invited him out in our student group) and said to both of us "You're way hotter than him!!!" I couldn't believe a stranger said…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 07:33 PM
1

I have the same issue. I eat pretty healthy and count my calories but mindlessly snack at work and go over the limit almost every day. Somehow, the more I plan and nitpick, the more I fall out of routine. I shelled out almost a grand for personal training lessons last week and I'm hoping I'll be pushed to new limits.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 06:05 AM
1

I feel like if you applied to, were accepted to, and started medical school of your own volition, it means you have a very strong desire to be there. Does the material make your miserable, or is it the long hours and stress? While the medical route will probably lead to some cons like debt and stress, it opens up to a pathway of a life you simply cannot obtain in another field. There will be nothing in life you can't have. Your children will have the best of conditions to grow up in. You will be…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 04:50 PM
–

My weight loss goals are progressing well, I’ve already hit the goal I set for myself to be achieved by the end of September. I’m definitely going to reach my end goal by Dec 31. I’ve been shopping so much more and enjoying every single thing I’ve bought and people have been complimenting me way more on my style. I’ve mainly been “shopping in my closet” meaning I’m trying new combinations with more accessories (dangling earrings, switching up eye and lip colors, hats, etc.) Mistakes... I still h…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 12:56 AM
7

Yup! It's freezing for the first half of "summer" here. In June - August it's a casual 55F (12C) with ample fog with some 65F days sprinkled here and there. September and October is when we see more 70-90F days. I think the high last year was 106 and it felt like a state of emergency was declared because so few people have air conditioning. The rest of the bay area outside of SF experiences a normal California summer with 85-100+F days throughout.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 06:58 AM
4

Is he coming soon? Summer is just getting started in SF so the weather is great. Only advice is to not center your time in the dorm even though that’s the easiest thing to do. If you would rather relax than do a hectic tourist day in SF consider renting a car with Getaround and taking a scenic drive across the Vallejo bridge to somewhere like Sausalito for a hike or romantic dinner. Feel free to PM me if you want any restaurant or activity recs in the city :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 04:37 AM
–

Hi all, What does dating look like for you? The actual date itself, not the act of finding them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/18 05:30 PM
–

I'm aiming to lose 15 lb by the end of this year. I track my calories daily already and made a task sheet to document how I have contributed to my goal every single day. I broke the 15 lb up into 5 lb monthly goals. Let me know if you ever need an accountability partner to keep you motivated!
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/18 05:26 PM
2

I think it depends more on the personality type of the girl. One of my roommates doesn't party, cooks and bakes very well, has a good job, and has simple hobbies like gym, farmers market etc. Very homebody type and someone I thought would be RPW. But from what I see she's also a bit cold, not super considerate of others, fiercely independent (her own mom admitted to me that she wishes her daughter was more warm and family-oriented), and she goes quiet if I ever bring up a moderate or slightly co…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/18 12:08 AM
5

Someone once commented on Reddit that some men enjoy going getting haircuts because it's the only time a woman touches them and does something nice and comforting for them. I crave touch when I'm single as well, but I acknowledge that I could get a hug or an arm around me in a bar within half hour if I wanted to. Men may go weeks without a single compliment or smile from a woman. When I'm in a good mood, I make it a point to smile and say hello to people in the street no matter what they look li…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/18 06:28 PM
5

I feel like I’ve known this for a while and actually get a little turned on when a man I’m into finds a few other girls sexually attractive. It makes him so much more real, normal, and manly to me... a few hot girls on instagram, some glances or an occasional comment.. just a normal amount. Him acting like you’re the only pretty girl in the world is a downright lie and is kind of a blue pill turnoff. This knowledge fuels that healthy competitive fire in me that lets me know I’m never done with m…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 03:58 PM
3

Hm. My suggestions are psychology, early childhood education, sound engineering, sound editor. You could be a music teacher, music therapist, or an administrator somewhere music related like a recording studio, radio station, music department of a university... Definitely don't waste the money getting the music degree. If you really hustle at a music-related job and network in the community looking to jump the ranks, you'll be way ahead of university students. Why is it so expensive by the way? …
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 05:49 PM
7

This is what happens when you read RPW without having actually gone through adult experiences that make you solidify your personality and your values. This dissatisfaction with yourself isn't one of your problems. It's THE problem. You haven't said one redeeming thing about yourself, one thing you're proud of, one of your goals in life and it makes me sad. What is your PURPOSE? My "rightful place in society" so far is working in a cancer center to get patients into clinical trials to potentially…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 06:49 AM
22

Asking for ideas and insight based on an interest you have is one thing, but we have no idea who you are. All I see is a loooooong list of excuses to be lazy, and the only career option that comes to mind is peddling It Works! and Younique on social media. It sounds harsh but your post has us begging the question: "Well, what CAN this girl do?" There are tomboyish hairdressers and girly software engineers. Figure out who you are first, and then start setting some goals on how to do more of what …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/18 08:07 AM
1

Sure. My parents met him after too much time had passed in the relationship. This was my biggest mistake as it seemed like this guy was a secret... but then again I didn't have much beside his work to brag about him throughout the dating process. Aside from not being able to vet his family, my parents didn't like that he talked only about his job and his circle jerk of entrepreneurs.. not once did he mention that he liked me, that we are going to build a future, or anything about me at all... to…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 04:29 PM
1

One warning. Changing yourself is great and all, but it was also my super good-girlfriend act that allowed all this to go on. This act wasn't me; I'm not actually OK with this treatment but I pretended i was. In your one life, there is no greater disservice to yourself than not being your true self. You can grow as a person, but don't ever put on an act to accommodate someone. Not only will that fake persona be expected from then on, it will be even more devastating to the other person when they…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 04:03 PM
5

My best friend, who has been successful in vetting and relationships thus far, told me something that stuck with me. "In the first year, it shouldn't be this HARD." She was referring to the arguing, the crying, the shit birthday, the shit anniversary, the 20/80 split between how we spent our time (always with HIS friends, HIS work, HIS home).... and it finally clicked that yes, it should not be this hard. If someone wants you, they will try their hardest to prove it to you, no matter the circums…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 04:16 PM
–

Does anyone ever have success meeting someone in the street in broad daylight? I like spending my free time walking outside when weather permits or in coffee shops doing work. I'm really comfortable with smiling at strangers and saying "Hello" and "Good morning" to people in the city. I see great looking men in certain neighborhoods that I would love to at least have a chat with... sometimes we'll lock eyes after I give a little smile, but nobody really stops to say hi. I'm not sure if my action…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 03:33 AM
1

If the material is too easy for you, switch to something like health science, neuroscience/cognitive, or psychology (if you don't like hard science) and then get into occupational therapy, or speech pathology like someone else here suggested. Majoring in STEM is also a better place to meet studious men. If you aim too low to start with, it will be very hard to work your way up, whereas having more knowledge will never hurt you. The degrees cost the same in the end, but the earning potential and …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 05:37 AM
1

Do entrepreneurs wait for hard evidence before they create a start-up? No, but they fully understand who they are and what they want, and they TRY to understand to the fullest extent who their cofounders and founding team genuinely are (much like finding a mate). Entrepreneurs are CONSTANTLY finding flaws in their product and business model. Constantly. But do they sit around thinking "I'm a second choice entrepreneur, the investors will never pick me." Why even try with a mindset like that? Who…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 05:28 PM
1

You are NOT a "second choice person." That is not WHO you are. If you allow the things you're saying to remain in your brain, you will ultimately adopt that identity and every single person (man, woman, child, young and old) will be able to sense that vibe from you. Please work on repeating positive affirmations, creating peace within yourself, and understanding that you are not your appearance, your relationships, your career etc. Please don't allow yourself to become an artificial, jaded, low-…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 08:25 PM
2

"Work hard in silence, let success be your noise." - Frank Ocean
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 02:44 AM
3

I'm a fellow ENFP
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 10:13 PM
1

I only fulfilled half of my goals from last month, but they were the important ones. This month: Lose 3 lb Way less computer time (must think of alternative activities aside from gym... must finish current books before getting new ones... audible?) Remain optimistic about job search; frustration and worry won't make decisions come faster Attend at least 2 meetups (already RSVP'd to 5 on meetup.com) to facilitate job search and give out or take at least 5 business cards at each of them
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 08:24 AM
6

Lose 4 lb by the end of May (This means sticking to calories and not going over!!) continue current workout routine try whitening teeth for the first time crush interviews (lots of self-reflection on WHY I want the job and HOW I will be great at it) finish book (You Are A Badass At Making Money, the sequel to You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero... amazing book everyone. It's a lot of common sense BS from a funny lady, but she is brutally honest and forces you to evaluate your thinking and actions) T…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 08:08 PM
16

It seems like you're trying harder to convince yourself rather than asking for our advice...
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 12:47 AM
2

I recently read that many of the things we don't like in other people are a mirror of something we don't like about ourselves. I was mad at my boyfriend for not helping me make a big decision and realized I was only upset with him because I am so indecisive myself and need help with big-girl choices. On the surface, you're upset that your boyfriend was so blunt and damaging to your self esteem. Beneath the surface, you are actually upset that you have been lying to yourself and holding up a faca…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:41 PM
10

It sounds like you have a huge mental block over this issue. You may need to see a therapist about it if it has negatively affected you in several relationships. Being pumped and dumped will absolutely not help you. You are already cutting relationships where the guy WANTS you. What happens when a man sleeps with you and never calls you again? That's feeling inadequate on a whole different scale than what you feel now. You may end up in a really dark place mentally. I highly suggest doing some d…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 08:44 PM
1

Seriously! How are you supposed to "have it all" when you're told that just getting out of the bed every day is a huge achievement? No wonder so many middle aged women take anti-depressants... they set the bar too high and try to compete with everyone (being best at the job "to show all the men", snag the hottest boyfriend "because I'm 100% deserving!" despite the nasty attitude) and then experience perpetual hypergamy because their perception of themselves doesn't match up with reality... Self-…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 10:49 PM
1

The hygiene probably has to do with body odor, extreme oiliness or dryness of skin and hair, tangled hair, untrimmed or unruly facial and body hair, etc. An attractive person can become unbearable if they look and smell like they haven't showered in a week.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 06:01 AM
2

Don't worry about the whole not being in a relationship yet thing. I'm in my first relationship at 23, going on 24 and although I've been with men before, I wish I had the confidence to know the things I wanted would come if I worked hard for them. It's all in the RPW re-programming. I thought I was doomed and expired, but after losing weight and exhibiting self control in the dating world I have gained much more confidence. There are many beautiful, single late-twenties professionals but they H…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 01:09 AM
2

100% agree with the second paragraph (and all of what you said). I think I found this quote on TRP and just switched the genders myself. It really helps emphasize that one needs to get their character and self esteem in check before a successful relationship can be achieved. "A man does not complete a woman. A man augments a completed woman."
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 08:56 PM
4

I wouldn't introduce a guy to the red pill community specifically because that's not geared toward LTRs and may actually create a more hostile attitude toward women for a while... however introducing a lifestyle of fitness, confidence, meaningful hobbies, and creating one's own destiny can really improve someone (basically RP without the sexual strategy). Although some people can be improved through continuous validation, one cannot count on someone else to complete them without knowing if they'…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 08:47 PM
1

Agreed with making your own choices at this age. I hate to be so pessimistic but have you ever heard of the "Turkey Drop"? It refers to Thanksgiving break of the first year away when couples finally see each other and end the relationship (although some couples do make it all four years!) I know plenty of people that transferred to UCLA, but they were 4.0 students and lived at home with their parents so definitely be wary of his plans and intentions if he's not a top student.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 11:20 PM
1

We are having a friendsgiving today, and the man I've been dating for a month is coming! My roommate will be doing all the cooking because she's great at it and I don't want to mess up her grind. I'll be doing the cleaning, and the home-decorator in me is trying to come up with all the ways I can make our small grad student apartment very cozy and warm. It's hard being on a budget, but the little things like making wrapped napkin-utensil sets, hanging extra string lights, lighting candles, and f…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 05:09 PM
2

I've been reading RPW and RP for a few months now and these communities have helped so much with unprogramming all the extreme feminist ideas I soaked up in college. I have learned how important it is to derive meaning and purpose from something other than appearances, partying, and other mundane shit. For the first time, I've developed standards and act on them. I'm not entitled to anything and I hope that my efforts in staying in shape and rational personality will attract someone similar to m…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 06:35 AM
2

Why would you be a slut because of a fantasy? I've had fucked up dreams and thoughts before and they didn't turn me into a murderer or a prostitute or a degenerate... If your boyfriend is down with it, play pretend. If you think he wouldn't be, don't say anything. Don't suck the room full of dicks and get therapy if you need it. It's not healthy to plan to kill yourself over something you already know is wrong. Stop yourself from spiraling and don't suck the room full of dicks.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 06:21 PM
4

What sort of changes do you think prompted the increased positive attention from men and women? Appearance? General disposition even to strangers? Different manner of speaking with friends?
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 04:03 AM
1

No, I understood. There are the options "Remove Friend" and "Block". Use block to remove the power-play.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 09:44 PM
0

Then block them? Not looking at the stories of the person you're trying to avoid is a given...
/r/askTRP08/10/16 09:38 PM
3

I actually think removing someone who has ended things with you off your snapchat sends a bigger message. My thought process is: "you don't want to be intimate with me and you're not my friend either.. you don't deserve/need to see my daily life."
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:57 PM
1

Useless side note.. some gyms do not allow glass bottles because they can pose a safety hazard. Most gyms don't care, but mine does not allow them.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 08:16 PM
2

Excellent story! I hope to be that mature if such a situation arises.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 12:22 AM
2

Luckily, one pieces are very much in fashion right now. Perhaps you could find one that is trendy with some sort of mildly sexy feature. NastyGal 1, NastyGal 2, NastyGal 3, NastyGal 4, NastyGal 5, Acacia Swimwear 2016
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/16 03:28 AM
6

In my culture (Iranian), many women don't change their last name. My mother didn't and it never posed any problems for me throughout life. Perhaps once or twice I was asked if my parents are divorced and I would reply that my mother simply didn't not change her last name. For some reason I find the name changing thing very trivial; changing it is fine, hyphenating it is fine, and not changing it is fine. For now I plan on keeping mine because I find it weird that my family history just vanishes …
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 08:25 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter