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Like does anyone really go around saying yall look like trouble. I seriously think some hard-coded part of GPT has been configured to think "trouble" is the ultimate aloof, bad boy, seductive phrase to use. Literally every opener/conversation thread it recommends includes that word.
/r/seduction29/09/25 05:17 PM
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If you are genuinely the lover or the chaser - that is the thing you can genuinely give - then look for women who desperately want that kind of experience. [...] If you can't be the bad boy, figure out what you can genuinely give and look for the women who want it. I feel like you're understating how much pussy you're "leaving on the table" by not embracing certain important aspects of being a bad boy. If you want casual sex with young attractive women, many of them, are going to be responsive t…
/r/seduction29/09/25 04:55 PM
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I highly recommend this Mark Manson GPT to "discuss" with "him" concepts from the book and how to apply them to your specific situation. One word of caution (I haven't read all of Manson's stuff, so I don't know if this is really his views or some quirk with GPT): the bot tends to go on a rant about "don't just think about her looks" when you tell it you have standards. It usually agrees with me if I push back against it.
/r/seduction27/10/24 12:23 AM
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There's an opportunity cost though. Time, energy, mental stamina dealing with yellows and convincing them to become greens. Focus on finding more greens instead.
/r/seduction06/10/23 07:18 PM
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You can't close every sale and you can't seduce very woman. You're going to lose your mind trying to "correct what you may have been doing wrong" for every rejection you get.
/r/seduction06/10/23 02:14 AM
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The time you spend haggling with a "no" chick, you could find a "yes" chick. Focus on chicks who are receptive to you instead of pulling teeth with chicks who aren't. Fuck Yes or No
/r/seduction06/10/23 02:13 AM
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Who cares what the staff think? I've taken 40+ dates to the same bar across the street from me, since I've moved here. Once I took four different dates there in five days. /u/yeetyeet1122 , keep doing what you're doing 👍
/r/seduction30/09/22 08:07 PM
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Agreed. Frat dudes in college get laid more than almost any type of guy. Most are broke, but they have a few things going for them: access to hot women, the balls to pull the trigger, and in being good shape (not even bodybuilder-level, just athletic).
/r/seduction30/09/22 08:03 PM
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Change the subject and ask her: "when was the last time you were tied up?"
/r/seduction21/09/22 01:33 AM
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Truth. Hot chicks definitely have a "looks threshold", above which you need to be to get with them. You don't need to be a god-tier Instagram model, but you need to look within her league.
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:18 AM
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Don't beat around the bush, you're hitting on her and you're interested in pressuring a sexual relationship with her. Own it: "Hey there! You're really cute/sexy, I had to come over and say hi." Have a very quick basic conversation: "What are you working on / reading / etc.?" Screen to see logistics about asking her on a date: "Are you in school? What do you do for work?" "Do you live around here?" Get her number and leave: "I gotta run..." OR "I'll let you get back to your work/reading/etc..." …
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:46 PM
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Obesity rate of 18% to 44% isn't helping. https://www.wihealthatlas.org/obesity/age
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:48 PM
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This. If you're wondering if she still has a boyfriend after 5 minutes of talking to her, you're not flirting aggressively enough. You're paying safe, "I hope she likes me" game.
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:42 PM
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Not sure if you're joking, but BDSM and kinky sexy are real things that many women like and talk about on dates. If you're too stiff to even bring the subject up, how do you expect to have that sort of sex?
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:45 PM
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Ask her: "when was the last time you were tied up?"
/r/seduction13/07/22 02:16 AM
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I agree. Competence breeds confidence. There's really not any shortcut to becoming confident. It's a process of trying, failing, learning, growing, improving, and finally achieving and internalizing success. You're not going to become a Don Juan, super confident, suave seducer by having a conversation with your internal child. You're going to get that confidence by approaching a ten thousand women, and having sex with 100 of them.
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:54 PM
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And Ann was his long-term girlfriend. Imagine doing this for a chick you're not even serious with or fucking yet.
/r/seduction15/05/22 08:44 PM
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So you're saying that of a girl isn't attracted to you in the first 5 seconds that her decision is set in stone, carved into granite, to never change? That's 80% of what I'm saying, but I don't think it's black pill. It means you don't have to "work in a girl" to get her attracted to you. If she thinks you're above her "looks threshold", and she's sexually available, then all you have to do is make a move. I just play the numbers game. Approach 40+ chicks a week with "basic game" and don't try t…
/r/seduction15/05/22 08:40 PM
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Yeah, I'm trying to have sex with these women, not become their emotional support system. Listening to a woman's problems, providing support, and then expecting to get laid is textbook nice guy* behavior.
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:02 AM
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BUT SHE HAS TO FUCKING LIKE YOU FIRST... And that requires communication, connection, to therefore have attraction. This is not the whole story. A large part of attraction is physical. If she think you're hot and she's horny, there really isn't a lot of "building attraction" that needs to be done. How do you explain when a chick who hooks up with guy after dancing and briefly talking with him at a nightclub? How do you explain when a chick matches with a guy and goes right to his apartment, afte…
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:38 PM
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I 100% don't think this justifies banning TRP, but Elliot Rodger's old videos were pure red Pill / incel ideology. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2014_Isla_Vista_killings
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:06 PM
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Wrong sub. We're about getting laid there, not spectating on sexual preferences of the population. Try r/purplepilldebate
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:55 PM
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Honestly, this is the right answer. If girls aren't giving me anything to work with, I just push harder for a hookup. Better than letting the conversation burnout.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:39 PM
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Yeah, of the 1,000 women he approached, way more than 2 were sexually active and considered OP above their "looks threshold". (I'm guessing he wasn't approaching girls at church and that he's not obese).
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:26 AM
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Yeah I had it backwards. More women than men in NYC, Boston and man other cities. Silicone Valley is the reverse, many more men than women.
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:35 AM
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It discourages man to go out and do his best in real life. Real life is all that counts. Maybe I shouldn't trust my own experience, I've had some very real sex from online dating...
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:48 PM
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More men than women EDIT: women than men, especially in the college educated demographic. Check out Date-onomics: players should go where the gender ratio is good
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:30 PM
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It depends on your goals. Hot chicks will still want to have sex with you, and you can heave great sex, even if you aren't great looking. But truly lustful sex is driven from physical attraction. You can't "charm" a woman into being super lustful towards you.
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:54 PM
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Chicks will lust after dudes who are hot. They'll fuck rich guys, but they won't genuinely lust after them. Lustful sex is something you almost can't pay for. See: There are 2 Levels of Attraction (Attraction vs Lust)
/r/seduction05/04/22 02:34 AM
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I present to you, Bill Gates: ✅ money ✅ status ⬜ looks?
/r/seduction05/04/22 02:32 AM
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Stir her anxiety by giving space (absence will make her want you more) I love myself an anxious woman 🙄
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:49 PM
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Note: she's still your cousin after you married her, fucked her, and got her pregnant 🤔
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:40 PM
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Many guys would be better off spending time in the gym, instead of spending time approaching women.
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:35 PM
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No problem! You're not the kind of 18 year olds I'm interested 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:00 PM
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Why 18-23? I haven't had much experience with women, and I prefer the experience when both the girl and I are learning and exploring together. I've been with a few 25+ women, but they've always had pretty firm ideas of the type of relationship/sex they want and it left a bad taste in my mouth. I could probably get more dates/sex if I raised my age range. But it's quality vs quantity, and those relationships aren't exciting for me. I admit it is a struggle to get those younger women interested, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:41 AM
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Another thought I had while reading the book a few months ago: It is very biased towards more serious relationships for women in the 25+ age bracket. Other than college enrollment data, there isn't a lot of good demographic data on where college age people live (they are often moving and they often report permanent residence as their parents' house). Although I'm 34, my dating goals are currently focused on casual dating with women 18 to 23. For this reason, one of the book's theses didn't conne…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:17 AM
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I'd like to see an updated revision of the book. It was published in 2014 and a lot of it's data are getting close to a decade old.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:02 PM
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I'm 34. In the past 3 years I've slept with three 18-year-olds and six 19-year-olds. I expect I'll be getting even more young women as I get in better shape, improve my style, and hey better profile photos.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:21 PM
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I think you're afraid of getting rejected, so you're looking for a place to approach women where rejection won't happen. That isn't an option, you gotta embrace the rejections if you want the success. Or just stay at home where you'll never get rejected.
/r/seduction27/02/22 07:21 PM
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I never did any night game. Most of my success came from online -- Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. But what does it matter if places are bro-y? You're not out to make dude friends with bros, you're out to get numbers and bring chicks back to your place. When the weather is nice, Park Ave is decent for day-game approaches. U of R and RIT campuses too. Eastview mall is the only one worth spending time at. But all this was pre-COVID, so I don't know what things are like now.
/r/seduction27/02/22 07:14 PM
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Dude I'm 5'6" and I've fucked chicks with less than a few dozen messages and a 30 minute date. One chick came right to my apartment after ~20 messages on Bumble/SMS. It's possible. Like /u/oreopimp said, you're blaming other people (or your height, etc.) instead of improving yourself and putting in the work.
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:04 AM
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Reading? You're not going to get laid by reading. You're going to get laid by going to the gym, getting better dating photos, and approaching chicks.
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:01 AM
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Used to live there, I moved to Austin, TX. Dating is at least 3x better here... urban areas to approach chicks, large university nearby, big population of young women who are open to dating and sex. When it comes to sex with women, rule #1 is "it's a numbers game." And if you're not in a large city, the numbers just aren't there. Not sure what your long term plans are, but I'd recommend building a plan to move somewhere larger, if having an elite sex life is really important to you. I did have s…
/r/seduction27/02/22 02:12 AM
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Don't be salty, go after what you want. I'm 34 and my V-Day date was 18. It's possible.
/r/seduction27/02/22 02:07 AM
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Well then hit the gym and become an elite man (1% is exaggeration, you only need to be in the top 10% of looks to pull this off... doable by most guys if they put in the effort).
/r/seduction26/02/22 01:05 AM
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UD NEED TO APPROACH 1000'S OF HARSH WOMEN TO GET THE KINDA STRENGTH YOU NEED TO BE TRUELY SEXY Where are you finding all these "nasty" women? 19 of 20 of my approaches are positive or neutral. Hardly ever do I have a really negative interaction. Like u/RomanH101 said, It sounds like you're complaining about having to put in the work, do approaches, and approve yourself.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:45 PM
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Are you looking for casual sex? Just be honest to yourself and screen harder for that. There are plenty of chicks who'd rather skip the chitchat. Don't go on dates, invite chicks right to your place, be direct about wanting something casual and physical.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:32 PM
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I'm 35, all the chicks I'm dating are under age 24. I live in Austin, Texas. One of the best cities in the world for hooking up. There are ~25k undergrads within 15 minutes of my apartment 😁 I don't know anything about India, is there a hook up culture there? I head there isn't much casual dating and most relationships are matched through friends and family.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:27 PM
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Do you live in the middle of nowhere? Any major city has tons of single chicks. Explain where the 40+ chicks I've been on a date with in the past year have come from?
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:00 PM
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How could someone in his late 40s gets lots of attention from teenage and early 20 girls? It's 100% possible (obviously you see your co-worker doing it -- why are you asking this)?
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:07 PM
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He didn't say anything about marrying these chicks. An 18 year old works great for something casual.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:40 PM
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You're the only one in this comment thread that is talking sense. The fact you're the one getting downvoted shows how many retards are on here. I think it's salty dudes who are jealous of others who have a hot 18 FWB, that they don't have the balls to go after.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:34 PM
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Off campus areas (where there are coffee shops, bars, and non-University student housing) is a great area for day time approaches.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:31 PM
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The biggest thing holding you back is your own limiting beliefs. Don't listen to the haters and the salty guys I could never sleep with an 18-year-old if they tried. If this is something you genuinely want, then go for it. You gotta put in the work though -- get in shape (especially important for younger chicks), overcome AA, get your style on point, and play the numbers game. I'm 34 and (one of) my date for Valentine's Day was making out within 18-year-old in the back of my car.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:29 PM
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Sugar daddies on /r/seduction 🙄 /r/sugarlifestyleforum is over that way. We don't pay for pussy here.
/r/seduction18/02/22 07:10 PM
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I'm willing to give OP the benefit of the doubt and assume he's young and new to all this. Maybe the girl suggested FWB, but OP wanted an exclusive gf. He settled for FWB thinking that would keep her around, without realizing it made them nonexclusive.
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:08 PM
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Yeah the "friends" part of "friends with benefits" means not exclusive. /u/Distraughtsugardaddy , if you're exclusive with this chick then she's not your FWB, she's your girlfriend. I recommend dumping this chick and moving on. It's clear she's not looking for something as serious as you are. Make sure you're more upfront about to boundaries with the next girl.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:54 PM
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some of my mates haven't got laid in years but it doesn't bother them at all I've seen this phrase online: "if you're not horny, you're not healthy." It's a very crude heuristic, but I think there is a lot of truth to it. Am I seriously to believe that a non-trivial portion of Western youth (men and women) are not sexually active, and also perfectly happy with this? To me it seems like a symptom of widespread poor diet, lack of fitness, excessive internet and video games, and overall poor mental…
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:31 PM
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I recommend rescheduling and having drinks and dinner at your place. If she's not comfortable coming back to your place after 4 dates... I'm not sure where you see this relationship going.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:15 AM
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Remember: you are not an expert at achieving success with women and dating. So your opinion may not be accurate. Trust the guides who have achieved success.
/r/seduction16/02/22 12:07 AM
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I will just offer you this advice: Most people overestimate what they can do in one year and underestimate what they can do in ten years.
/r/seduction15/02/22 01:50 AM
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Just because you can't pull it off, don't try and shame other guys from doing it.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:39 PM
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A woman who's looking for a partner will say not enough men approach her. A woman who's not looking for anything romantic will say way too many men are approaching her.
/r/seduction03/02/22 11:16 PM
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they want to just live their life as usual without having to worry about some random hitting on her Sounds like these women you're talking to aren't interested in a relationship or sex. So these are exactly the type of women you who you don't need to worry about their opinions -- they are the women who you aren't looking for. Ignore their rejections and find the women who are open to relationship/sex and who will be excited you've approach them
/r/seduction03/02/22 11:14 PM
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Depends on what you're looking for. Are you looking for a wife or long-term girlfriend? Then coming off as a fuckboy is probably bad. Are you trying to have casual sex, quickly, with hot, young, outgoing women? Then coming off as a fuckboy is probably a good thing and you should lean into it.
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:03 PM
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Original report: https://web.archive.org/web/20091121080804/http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/2009/11/17/your-looks-and-online-dating/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:48 AM
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We need to return to the strong morals of our grandparents and earlier generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:51 PM
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it is like the bible of the seduction literature I don't think it's considered a "go to" guide by any men's improvement communities these days. It was big when it first came out for popularizing the PUA community, but it's been superseded in almost any way. Also the book is mostly focused on a narrative around Neil Strauss's adventure into the world of PUAs. It was never written as a "how to" guide on attracting women. The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed was published a year …
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:32 PM
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I'm fucking big. 275lbs and lean with abs. I gotta call BS here. 275 and ripped would be competition ready bodybuidling level. Schwarzenegger was 6'2" and only 235 when ripped and on sage. Are you you 7' tall to maintain that weight with abs?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:24 AM
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In my opinion, younger women (18 - 25) are better in bed, because: They are hotter They aren't very "set in their ways" with sex and are open to trying new things and having the sort of sex I like most They are more willing to please in bed
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:48 AM
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Every process of improvement is weird and awkward at first. It takes time to become skilled, confident, and learn what works with any skill.
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:47 PM
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All good points. Own your journey and it becomes nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:42 AM
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However, some tell you very subtly to lie. Let's take direct daygame: Yes, you are "honest" with with your approach. But, are you honest about how often you do this? Do you admit where you got the idea from? Do you admit that you watched youtube videos on how to do this? Why not tell a girl you're with the details of your "getting laid journey", if she asks? If she can't handle the truth, do you really want to be with her? It sounds like you're describing a woman who is expecting to find the "pe…
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:40 AM
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10 to 20 mins. If she's cute. 30 to 45 mins. If she's hot.
/r/seduction13/12/21 02:38 PM
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works on every girl Nothing works on every girl, so whoever is claiming that, is bullshitting you right from the start.
/r/seduction13/12/21 02:37 PM
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Are we slut shaming on /r/seduction now?
/r/seduction15/11/21 07:34 PM
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Damn /u/Aeon199 's post history is a mess. If his next post to this sub isn't "I went out today to talk to women and..." then he should be permabanned. I'm trying to be nice here... but damn, how many years is this guy going to keep posting the same "incel theory" type questions and not taking action?
/r/seduction14/11/21 05:54 PM
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I doubt 1 in 10 men you meet on the street have complete abundance with dating. I'm not talking about guys who get laid decently, but guys who nearly have zero unfulfilled desires towards women and are totally focused on other things in life. Basically I'm talking about the "dating equivalent" of a high net worth individual -- no stress or feelings of "missing out" when it comes to getting their sex/dating desires met. Outside of that very small minority, basically every guy has aspects of their…
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:07 PM
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Yeah, the fact that /r/seduction has 650,000+ subs and Mark Manson and others have sold millions of books, is evidence that "everyone except me learned all this shit" is wrong. We're all men at different stages of developing our skills and confidence with interacting with women. Very few men out there have complete abundance with their dating and sex lives.
/r/seduction12/10/21 06:34 PM
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And the other guys, most likely she'll never talk to again or meet. Instead they end up on /r/seduction asking why their 20+ message long conversations on Tinder never result in any dates 🙄
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:57 PM
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Yeah, leaving a girl horny could just as likely result in her opening Tinder and finding someone else to satisfy her needs
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:28 PM
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