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Yeah it's okay to give her a peck on the lips in public. The kiss on the forehead all the time could put you in the friend zone area.
/r/seduction02/11/22 01:45 PM
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Hence the Maybe. Maybe she didn't want to do anything. Maybe she did but didn't want to go all the way. The key thing is maybe
/r/seduction01/11/22 09:36 PM
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You're definitely overthinking the situation. After a while you won't even notice it. Plus if you're into her and she turns you on you think she's cute and everything then what does her nose have to do with it. Turn around and hit it from behind
/r/seduction31/10/22 04:25 PM
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That's happened to a lot of guys before mainly because of all the stress they put on themselves. You probably put her on a pedestal in your mind and when it came time to be able to explore her body the pressure was subconscious. It's only natural to get turned on by a girl that you find attractive. No reason to suppress it just find a way to not let them know unless the two of you are alone and getting hot and heavy
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:36 PM
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That depends on the situation and also how old are the girls that you're hugging and how old are you? Is this happening every time you hug a girl or is there just certain girls that this happens to
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:16 PM
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Let's start off with your ages? How old are you and how old is she? I don't think you should be kissing around the forehead unless you want her to think you're just a friend or a nice person. Being affectionate like that in public is not a big deal. Most people don't want to see somebody rolling around on the ground with each other while they're in public
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:09 PM
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Well maybe all she wants to do is make out and do some oral. If that's the case enjoy yourself until she decides if she wants to have all out sex or not
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:59 PM
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Yeah that's absolutely perfect. It's something simple and it gives you enough time to get to know them and for you to decide if you want to go on a second date with them. If they try to pick a place that's pricey then that would be something to watch out for
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:17 PM
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No I don't think it's a red flag. But if they want to go somewhere that's costly or they make a comment about a place that you choose then it's a red flag. And yes there are plenty of girls who just want to go out to have an expensive meal at the cost of not being interested in a guy but still going on the date with him. You pick the place even if it's a little cafe or wing place and if that bothers them then that should tell you something right there
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:42 PM
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The first step is believing in yourself. No matter what other people think or say. Once you realize most people truly don't care what goes on with you that will make things easier for you. You're probably harder on yourself than most people would be
/r/seduction18/10/22 04:39 PM
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Well maybe they do find you attractive and you're just too hard on yourself. The simple honest answer to give them is that you haven't found the right one yet. Until you find the one you want there's no reason to think about kids just yet. If you know they don't have kids then ask them why don't they have kids yet.
/r/seduction18/10/22 04:20 PM
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Talking from experience. Reach out to her let her know you had a great time. There's nothing wrong with keeping her as a friend. You might be surprised and find out that she doesn't want to date you anyway. She might want a friend with benefits every now and then. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that because you will eventually find a dry spell. I'm not saying go out with her every week but once every 3 weeks or just hanging out as friends is better than ghosting her. It's not leading her …
/r/seduction18/10/22 03:46 PM
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No don't move out just to have sex with a girl. If you're meeting girls who are living at home with their parents then there's nothing wrong. Maybe you moved too quick to get the hotel room. Have fun keep going on dates and stay at your parents and Save money. If you're in college and you're working who cares if you're living with your parents. You're doing everything you can. If a girl has a problem with it then that's their problem not yours. Just having your own place is not going to make a g…
/r/seduction18/10/22 03:41 PM
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There are plenty of women who are into that. They love to be humiliated during sex and have a little pain inflicted. You don't have to look and stare at the genitals. But it helps when they shave and take care of themselves down there. Do tits bother you? The more you look at the female genitals the more you will get used to it. Most people are kind of in all or shock when they first see genitals from the opposite sex. The more you see it the more you'll see the beauty in how pretty and soft or …
/r/seduction11/10/22 04:05 PM
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Well a little insight would help. Just curious how old you are. Would like to know what you have seen so far or what you might be facing. What scares you about sex? Is it the way genitals look or is there something else? Not all genitals look the same. They're pretty similar but there are definitely some that are prettier and sexier than others. Are you male or female this would help with anybody wanting to give you advice
/r/seduction11/10/22 03:28 PM
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Yes that's basically true. It used to be women thought away to a man's heart was through his stomach. Mentor visual so now it's through sex. If a woman puts it on US during sex we are hooked. Women are more intellectual. So what we talked about and tell them is what gets them hooked. The only way to make it happen is to be straightforward and honest with them. They will appreciate that and you will attract the ones you want. That goes for telling them what you want and a physical relationship.
/r/seduction11/10/22 02:47 PM
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Well here's my advice. You're young. Focus on your life and career but that still leaves plenty of time for you to have play time. Find the time to enjoy yourself with as many females as you can. You don't have to go all the way with sex if you're not ready. But get out there and enjoy yourself. Let yourself enjoy their bodies and let them explore your body. Don't worry about self-esteem. If the women are into you then obviously they're attracted to you. You should make sure your balancing out y…
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:51 PM
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The best way is to just always be nice, genuine and friendly. Also don't be that person that's always negative. It always takes time but it will happen
/r/seduction06/10/22 10:53 PM
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Yeah it's better to not text him as much. If they read the message and they take hours or even the next day to get back to you I would take that as a sign. Some people don't like to text and it does take them a while to get back to you but not 8 hours or the next day continuously. Keep your options open because there are plenty of girls who don't mind texting back and don't mind initiating the text
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:24 PM
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Well it definitely sounds like she knew what she was doing. I think you should ask her out. Don't do it inside the gym maybe catch her in the parking lot on the way in or on the way out. But there's no way she could not have known what she was doing.
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:06 PM
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It's possible but I you're probably overthinking it. It's a simple fix by asking her out. When you ask her out just let her know that you didn't get long to talk to her before but you would like to get to know her. So definitely ask her out
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:02 PM
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Sure it is. Nothing wrong with a guy being called pretty. Just means he has attractive features. It's better than being called husky. Not even sure what husky would mean or even what masculine would mean but pretty means that person's got attractive features.
/r/seduction04/10/22 07:15 PM
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Well there's plenty of restaurants / bars around you I'm sure that everyone goes to to have a drink or hang out. Not just the Frat parties or fraternities. And just walking around and being on campus you're going to have the opportunity to meet plenty of girls. I know you don't think you will have that opportunity in the clubs you are in but think back to high school. Nobody thought the girls in the band or the baton twirlers we're having fun and freaks but lo and behold everybody found out they…
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:16 PM
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Well you don't have to go through the dating apps. You're in college and there's going to be plenty of opportunities to go to different social Gatherings / parties / sporting events. There will be plenty of women for you to try and hook up with. It's College it's going to happen. Hormones are running wild and plenty of kids going want the same thing you do and that's the full college experience
/r/seduction04/10/22 04:13 PM
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Well don't let it make you feel weird. She's going to appreciate the fact that you reached out to her. Just tell her hey I just wanted to let you know that I am apologize for sending you the other message. I didn't know you had a boyfriend. He is a lucky guy and hopefully we can still be friends. That's a simple straightforward message to her that she will appreciate and it will do your friendship with her a world of good
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:46 PM
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It sounds like she wanted you when she thought she couldn't have you. When she found out you were into her then you didn't seem that interesting to her anymore. Keep going out with her keep talking with her and giving her compliments. Make sure they're flirty/ sexy complements. Talk to her straightforward and get what you want from her. It sounds like that's the personality she was attracted to to begin with. If she thinks you're not interested in her then she will probably move on. So tell her …
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:30 PM
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No don't go sir. Just be straightforward and apologize to her. Send her a message telling her you did not know she had a boyfriend now or you wouldn't have sent the flirty message. Follow it up by telling her that he's a lucky guy and move on. If she ever breaks up with him down the road she will always remember you're nice words. But definitely reach out to her and apologize and talk to her yourself don't go through any of her friends
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:25 PM
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Just ask her out for a drink. Doesn't have to be liquor it can be coffee or tea. Also be prepared. I remember being 26 and going out with an older lady female. You don't have to play games with them. If she takes you back to her place or if you go back to your place she knows what's going to happen and I guarantee you she's going to rock your world. She's going to say and do things you only dreamed about. So find out when she has time to get together and ask her if it's possible.
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:14 PM
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No you're in college. That's what college is for. You're going to have plenty of one night stands and plenty late night hookups. Especially with all the apps out there nowadays. There's plenty of girls who want to do nothing more than have a sexual encounter and go about their way. Keep looking at all the apps and putting out profiles.
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:01 PM
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There's several different ways. It's okay to hook up with different girls. There's so many different apps and websites that girls are on looking for only that. Quick easy hookups. But it sounds like you're going to have to find some girl who's wanting a friends with benefits and release some of your attention. There are also plenty of girls out there who want a hook up every now and then without any serious connection. The desire to want a beautiful girl is never going away you just have to lear…
/r/seduction03/10/22 09:17 PM
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This one's going to take a little time to give her a little reassurance and for her to get a little more unwound/relaxed. I don't know what age group she falls in but is it possible that she is a little inexperienced?
/r/seduction03/10/22 04:14 PM
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That's true. But they are many things you can do that won't cost much at all but will give you guys time to hang out with each other. I'll bet you after your second date possibly even your third date then coming over to your place will not be a problem. Did she ever give the reason as to why she was hesitant on coming over?
/r/seduction03/10/22 04:13 PM
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Don't go to your place on the second date. Take her somewhere else to hang out. It's obvious that she's nervous / scared of something. Nowadays with everything on the internet people can find every crime that happens in every city. For some this makes them more weary until they really get to know somebody. So am I suggestion is take her somewhere else where there's plenty of people that you guys can hang out and have fun. Doesn't have to be a bar. It could be a festival, flea market, bowling, an…
/r/seduction03/10/22 04:05 PM
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No it sounds like she just doesn't like to talk on the phone. Be happy texting with her for now but I wouldn't put all my eggs in one basket with her. If she didn't return any of your phone calls and I would keep your options open and keep talking with other girls. After a week and a half she could have at least returned one phone call. A text is nice but she could have returned a call within a week and a half. Make sure you keep that feel free to call option open with other girls because this o…
/r/seduction30/09/22 09:07 PM
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You should have been straightforward with him and then you would not have these questions. Just reading your post about the strategies to take and playing hard to get and thinking strategy he is playing would definitely be a turn off after a while. There is nothing better than being straightforward and finding out. He may have just decided that you were somebody who likes to flirt with people but it wouldn't go any further. Maybe that's why he moved on.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:41 PM
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Well it sounds like you were playing games with him and leading him on. Obviously he kept calling you and staying in contact with you because he felt like you never said I'm straight with how you feel about him.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:38 PM
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I wouldn't say anything. I would make sure you have round two sex and work her so incredible that she's too tired to do anything other than fall asleep. At that point it was seem okay for you to fall asleep as well. Just don't overstay your welcome. But a simple question to her could solve your problem. Just ask her should if she would like you to leave before morning.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:15 PM
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Well there's no doubt in my mind that if you Google apps where you can meet new and interesting friends, people to do things with, you will find a whole new World.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:08 PM
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What country do you live in. Are you in the us? You can put ads in your local next door app. There's tons of apps. Google apps to make new friends. There's tons of chat rooms and apps that will link you to people looking to do things with
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:55 PM
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Hey one other thing. Try putting ads out there to where you're just looking for somebody to do something with every now and then. No strings attached just looking to make a friend for any activities. Theater, movies, walking hiking things like that simple going out for coffee and you will get replies it might take a while but you will get replies
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:37 PM
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Hey one other thing. There's also plenty of women out there looking for somebody just to do an activity with. Meaning go to the movies, go for a bike ride, walks and things like that. Trust me when I tell you that it can definitely lead to a lot more than just what they posted. That's usually a safe way for them to put their foot in the water without making themselves sound like they want sex
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:12 PM
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Okay. Do you ever go out to any of the local bars and just hang out and have a drink. If you do next time you're out and about when you try talking to a female don't try talking to him like you're trying to pick them up. Just talk to him as if they were a friend. You didn't say a description of yourself so there's no way I can help out with that. You can also Google ways to make your profile look better. It'll give you ideas as things not to say and things you should say. But the main thing is d…
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:11 PM
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Then it's time to completely change your profile. Change the name you use the heading you use the description of yourself. Make yourself sound very confident. Let him know what you're looking for and it's okay if it doesn't work out but you're willing to give it a try. Don't limit yourself to one site look at all the sites out there where people are looking to get together.
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:03 PM
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Well try changing up your pictures. Just put in regular pictures don't try to put any pictures on your profile that you're striking poses in. Most women find guys sexy when they see them working or doing something physical. The thing is not to give up because there's plenty women out there and you will find your Niche eventually
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:55 PM
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Well he likes you he just doesn't know how to make a move. It's probably going to take you making the move and letting him know it's okay. I think you'll be happy with the outcome
/r/seduction29/09/22 12:13 AM
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Not necessarily dating apps but those apps like Tinder. I know there's a few more where girls mainly go on there mainly looking to just hook up. Guys also go on there looking to hook up. Don't be afraid to put in the bio that you have little to no experience with foreplay or anything sexual but you are wanting to try. There will be a ton of girls will find that sexy and willing to show you anything you want
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:55 PM
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I used to be in the same boat. What I found out is girls like you to ask questions about themselves. Anything from their past or their childhood. What are their Hobbies. Also sometimes it's good to have short conversations when you just meet someone. It leaves them wanting more later. Never be afraid to ask them if they're okay talking with you. This gives them more comfort.
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:15 PM
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It is hard to get a girl's attention nowadays. But you have so much going for you on your side. Your age / you're in the gym / your fit and your willing. It's okay to go on a few of those website and let them know that you haven't experienced that yet but you're wanting to. There is no doubt in my mind your message box will be full with girls who want to play/ Have fun with you/ and explore with you. Give it a shot I guarantee you you're going to be extremely glad you did something like that. Th…
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:46 PM
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