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10

That’s not true. Maybe you’re just more “masculine”. That’s like saying women who like guns, cars and video games are only doing it to attract men. If you believe that then you need a serious reality check. Some men really do enjoy certain aspects of homemaking for their own pleasure, not to cater to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 01:51 PM
5

Can confirm! Good friend of mine for 5 years is 34 and never had a girlfriend and only had sex a few times. Each time we hooked up he lasted like ten seconds then wouldn’t even try to communicate or work with me on it. After the third time of trying to see him I told him it wasn’t a good fit. Good friend, terrible lover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:34 PM
4

I’m sorry you had to deal with that. Very similar patterns to my exes. It’s important that you recognized these behaviors and can learn from them. No one can have a healthy relationship with someone who suffers from addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:32 PM
10

Alcoholics have deep seated mental health issues that lead to them treating you and themselves like shit. My alcoholic ex did so little to take care of himself mentally and physically and he ended up taking his own life one night when I was gone because of a fight we had. It’s a huge red flag for me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:27 AM
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Alcoholism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:21 PM
13

It’s one of many things I tried not to judge him too harshly for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:27 AM
7

Thank you so much ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:33 PM
5

Are you in the USA? If so, does your state have “common law”? If not, you have every right to put his stuff out the door and lock him out with it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:50 PM
55

First of all, I want to thank everyone in this group. I don’t comment very often but I often read through your posts and learn a lot about what a healthy relationship should look and feel. This group is like coming to a supportive friend. This story may be a little long and mentions suicide hence the trigger warning. But I thought if I could let this out that others might encourage me that I made the right choice and that others might learn from me. So if you choose to read on, thank you. A frie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:41 PM
3

He found someone else that he “liked better”. Be lucky you dodged a bullet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:16 PM
3

QUALITY TIME doesn’t mean “More time”. It’s about the time you have when you’re together. It’s too soon to move in together. Why can’t he move closer to you? Also, with children involved you need to be careful about involving a male figure into your home on a full time basis. My mother would do this to me and my sisters all the time and it always ended terribly for all of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:01 PM
3

I’d be glad he didn’t! Because you know he lives like that all the time. Bye, nasty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:42 PM
20

They were two very young looking girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:32 AM
8

Rotflmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:40 AM
9

Fuck that, Fredrik.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:39 AM
74

I saw a porno titled “Are they even 18?!” And I threw up a little. Definitely lost the mood to masturbate after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:29 AM
18

Then still agree to meet even when he never calls it a date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:23 AM
12

I’ve been seeing a very nice guy the past couple weeks and he sent me a picture of his food and when I told him his food looked sad, he sent me back with a picture of his food now smiling. It was such a cute gesture that no one has done for me in a long time. Like took the time to not just respond to my text but make a full display of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:56 AM
8

If your first message to them isn’t offering to suck their dicks, then the conversation is pointless to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:53 AM
15

I don’t like the use of “especially” here. When else would/should she feel guilty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:49 AM
13

Maybe you should find a more HELPFUL way to share your point than to be so insulting and a BITCH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:00 PM
2

How in the hell?...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:41 PM
3

What is bomboclaat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:26 PM
29

So if he has 4/5 but he’s not over 5’9” there’s something wrong with him??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:56 AM
3

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:58 PM
1

Lol it was her lucky day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:40 PM
5

I looked at him and said, “You up for changing a tire today?” It was MY suggestion that we help and he got right on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:22 PM
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I agree! The negative posts I often agree with but it’s important to show the good aspects of how these strategies help us to manifest good men into our lives. I just like how organic our connection was. It was through my very close friend and when he mentioned he didn’t want to do any dating apps she knew he wasn’t a fuck boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:16 AM
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Thank you. Those were even brand new white shoes he said he bought today to look nice for our date. They were scuffed up and black after this and he wasn’t even upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 11:29 PM
8

You can’t see his face at all in the photo. I did ask him if I could take his photo and even sent him copies. I’d be amazingly impressed by the individual who could ID him or myself by this photograph.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:53 PM
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He didn’t even hesitate. The ladies were on their way to a wedding and were so thankful. Even got us a gift card for date number 2!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:52 PM
6

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:51 PM
64

I have been the worst skeptic in all honesty. I was super prepared to have to lay down all these boundaries with this guy right away and I realized that all of my fears, although warranted were not necessary with this guy. Going to keep being myself and be up front about what I want and see where this goes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:37 PM
86

Thank you! He seems genuinely kind. He even makes his own furniture! Real go getter type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:28 PM
16

I need to how learn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:23 PM
106

Thank you! I’m cautiously optimistic but it’s the best date I’ve gone on in a very long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:01 PM
109

Probably forgot who he was talking to. Likely set up multiple dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:41 AM
22

I haven’t met a man in over a year that hasn’t done this to me at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:39 AM
2

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:21 AM
-5

I love the pummeling I took for what was a true statement. A lot of people can’t seem the handle the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:14 PM
-64

I mean that’s sweet but it isn’t Paris
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:30 AM
36

An important realization she should hone in on is that she was feeling happy and self confident UNTIL she got in a relationship. Men do this to you. We don’t need them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:44 PM
63

God I need to come in here and the tell the story about a guy I met when I was a bartender who tried to bring me into his room with a twin sized mattress on the floor without a sheet. Fucking comical night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:56 AM
5

Yeah it’s all fun and games until you see his face light up too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:47 AM
16

Don’t ask, don’t tell. I learned after the first 3 boyfriends to not disclose that information. They’re only asking to have a reason to be mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:06 PM
94

Men: “Maybe she shouldn’t have been homeless then.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:04 PM
1

Try not to choke on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:35 PM
1

Every god damn day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:40 AM
2

Like the rejection of his diploma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:15 AM
2

I didn’t know that but I do now. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:15 AM
6

When I didn’t respond he messaged again saying that he does feel very poorly for how he treated me and is just trying to be a better person. I assume that’s an acceptable enough response. Not sure what else I should expect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:29 AM
7

No... couches don’t make for great places to have sex in the dark. I don’t remember exactly what happened but I know it was an accident. Just general clumsiness among 16 year olds having sex in the dark. The abuse I referenced was outside of this situation in particular
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:27 AM
4

Oh yeah it’s going swimmingly. I knew the delays in his responses was because he’s messaging other women. He said that he loves making men come multiple times over and I told him he was confusing the word “men” with “apes”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:59 PM
8

It was probably the same guy that messaged me. I commented on that post too and he messaged me asking if I would actually be interested. He was nice about the way he asked and I was polite back. But I was like, really dude? You think I don’t know you’ve messaged every other woman who commented on this post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:36 PM
4

He will just join it through another account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:34 PM
17

This was no man, let’s be clear about that. Hahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:33 PM
9

His Reddit is strictly for trolling. It makes no difference if I report it. I just find it hilarious that anyone could think I would be like “omg how dare you. My WHOLE DAY IS RUINED!” This dude might be a troll but I fucking shove trolls’ nut sacks through a meat grinder and feed it back up their asses through a crazy straw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:29 PM
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I also don’t know how he can be a cum guzzler and an incel at the same time but I’m going to stand by what I said. Edit: I know, it’s his own cum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:29 PM
37

It started with all the women who were tired of men who clearly had no chance, messaging them like they have a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:17 PM
17

Thank you. It was 11 years ago but it’s only been lately that I’ve been correlating my past relationship with him to how it’s affected my current decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:05 PM
15

We were having intercourse on the couch in the dark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:58 PM
5

Open all the way for full text
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:49 PM
23

None of my exes have girlfriends. I was stupid AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:03 PM
43

He was probably free because she kicked his ass out at 2am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:46 PM
2

I’ve only ever had a couple but I suspect is was more platonic on my end. I think they are definitely physically attracted to me. But nothing ever happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:49 PM
16

Right?! I immediately was like, “Can I text this to everyone in my contacts?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:47 PM
2

What is it when they actually go through with it? Then is it love?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:03 PM
3

Maybe it shouldn’t be if it’s full of porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:48 PM
53

I don’t know.. #3 is starting to seem more common these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:04 AM
6

But.... we’re on Reddit..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:25 AM
12

So his pp can be hard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:23 AM
9

“She left me Rogaine by the stairs. Says she prefers guys with hair.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:44 PM
27

All these bald bros
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:37 AM
4

I mean, let’s hope she doesn’t choose to breed with this dude but it’s not a woman’s job to make babies either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:34 AM
5

I mean it’s his choice. It’s her money. She doesn’t owe him anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:31 AM
16

It’s his girlfriend. Not his wife. He didn’t have to move into the flat with her if he couldn’t afford it. Me personally, I would not have responded differently had it been the other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:27 AM
5

Like their giant tits?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:23 AM
5

What’s she gonna do with seven kids??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:03 AM
14

I’m so upset that she had to ask people to stop asking her for links. Disgusting fucks. This is the kind of shit that makes me want to murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:53 PM
14

Where tf are you finding these men?! Can you send your used ones my way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:24 AM
1

Not all rape is forced. Statutory rape for example. When a 15 year old girl thinks she’s in love with a 21 year old man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:39 AM
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