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If you had more of the cravings you would place it higher in the priorities list. I can understand your side too.
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:02 PM
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Hormones. Testosterone drives us like crazy. It's hard to describe to someone who does not have it. It's like a drug. Definietly a much worse carving than a cigarette. Imagine the most hardcore hornyness of your life (I assume you are a woman). Now imagine having that several times a day even. I have 3-5 rushes of wanting it almost every day. It's hard to stay focused this way. When I have a woman with me romantically I can make this feeling go away for about half a day. Low T males have much le…
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:49 PM
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They use the scientific method called "if you don't look big enough to pick a fight gtfo"
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:38 PM
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In the eyes of men? It does not matter. In the eyes of women? You aren't. Women's criteria for a real man is much stricter than you would think. They are selecting based on NOT criterias. He's NOT having a beard, so I must seek better. He's NOT earning enough money so I must seek better. And so on... Men will select based on HAS criteria. She HAS a nice body so she is good enough for me. She HAS a pretty face so she is good enough. Just learn reality and embrace it man. Life will get better if y…
/r/seduction15/06/22 11:08 AM
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I'm only 60 kilograms and a real man begins at 80 so I need to gain weight. Other than that? Maybe a beard and some interesting skills (I'm working on the latter). Money-wise I make far more than the average in my country. I do save a lot of cash and I will be migrating to Switzerland soon to make even more. I have supreme hygiene and great hair (according to women, I hate it actually). I do believe I do tick most of the boxes on that list we usually mention. Still, this is an endless fight to b…
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:10 AM
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Depends on the person. Sure it does a blow to your ego, but that's the purpose of it. You can be a pathetic weakling or you can take control of your life and actually improve it.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:52 PM
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I was expecting a link for a 1000$ online dating course in the end. 10/10 would not read again. Apart from the joke above: this is a good support material, but it is not the "meaty part" of dating tbh. I would say the basis of the whole thing should be "molding mindset". This would mean that you should know what you are looking for, and know what that thing requres. You mold yourself into that thing. Rest of the abundance mindset and stuff that you mentioned will follow anyway after you made you…
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:09 AM
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Well, there will be some scum always. They won't go away as long as society and economics lets people go for looks only. I do believe the next decade will sort this out with all the diseases and wars coming up. We live in a way too prosperous time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:05 AM
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They have different standards than they used to have. Now it's all about looks and prestige. You can see a lot of women put up with so much BS from hot guys that they think all men are like that. It goes like this: Hot guy (8-10 in looks): does not clean, does not do housework, is a manchild, barely earns any money etc... Basically a scum. Avg. Girl: puts up with his BS for long time, assumes all men are like that. Not willing to lower her standards due to this. Avg. Men: does all stuff that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:24 AM
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Depends on the aesthetic that you look like. Are you a cool girl with tats and other extreme decor? I'm expecting you to be upfront and to not mess around what you want. Are you a hot/cute one? Then I'm all for the chase. For me it's the best thing. If I get someone before date 3 (that means a kiss), I'm going to think bad stuff about her. But of course there are exceptions to the rule. I got together with one of my one night stands even, and that was a somewhat long relationship. Find out what …
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:18 AM
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I just need a new business card
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:33 AM
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Impressive. Very based
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:29 AM
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It's a cultural thing mostly. Here in hungary we have a lot of gypsies. They are mostly recognized by the typical black curly hair. They are infamous for beating and keeping woman as hostage. Forcing their wifes to give birth as many times as they can (due to child support). Various other types of violences and illegal child marriages (age 12 is optimal considered by them, and 14 is the ideal pregnancy age). I think it's understandable why I do not want to be associated with them (which happens …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:35 PM
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I like that I'm skinny. 175 and 62kg. Women hate it of course, but that's not the topic. I feel great this way. What I hate in myself: brown/green eyes and black curly hair. That's like the curse of god. I find it disgusting. The worst one can get... Also, I'm able to grow a goatee, and women like it, but I find it so disgusting on me that I always shave it to ground zero. It puzzles me how anyone can like beards. So yeah, I find myself somewhat attractive, but I would do almost anything to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:42 PM
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Male here: Culture group: central european I was told to seek out opportunities and work hard to acquire wealth and safety. This is the reality of the world. This is why men are men. Our education and our brain is hardwired on achieveing goals. If I was not f*cked over by being an ectomorph (tipical skinny) I would be an 8/10 at least. Regarding women: I was told to treat each of them as queens and put them on a pedestal to make them like me. It did work in some cases but reality knocked in: eco…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:28 PM
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Is it really risking it if I'm dead inside?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:27 AM
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It's a good decoy rather.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:03 AM
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I don't know how you could write a post so true and so salty+cringe at the same time. The cringe part is hobbies/passion. Men do not have time to do stupid shit like this. We have to provide. We need to save up money for a house, car etc... It's much more work and sacrafice than you would think. Most women aren't willing to help out with it either. They just sit / walk around spending alk their money on stuff they don't need. A proper man looks for career improvement or a second job instead of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:38 AM
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It will be in favor of men I think. Those who build their actual lifes will be at a great advantage. Jobless hot guys will still slay, but not in a manner like now. In trouble, women seek safety at all costs if necessary. The bettering of the economy will be a nightmare though. Women will mass divorce men for the sake of "I can still seek better"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:15 AM
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Personally I do not like vaping. When I'm happy I do not smoke tho. It's a coping mechanism after all. Thanks for the advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:07 PM
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Yup. Looking for the unicorn currently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:50 PM
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In hungary its full of guys on the free courses because "bro, worth a try". But qlmost no man goes to payed ones because it requires a monthly fee in advance usually
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:50 PM
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Most men aren't willing to go to dance classes, especially if you need to pay for it. Just don't go to a free one and you are good
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:28 PM
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That's why I mentioned the cultural difference part, it's a more important factor than one would think. Even the big cheapskates are buying these. For women it's like a bare minimum. If you manage to pick up one, they will just keep nagging you 24-7, until you are willing to buy these. I do not wear designer clothing or expensive stuff like I mentioned above. I still managed to be together with a good ammount of women. It all ended when they realized I'm not willing to spend on stupid shit. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:27 PM
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The good you described is average here (I'm in central europe, hungary). Even that costs a lot. Good would be: beard growth and care ensuring (as a good portion of us can't grow a beard / chest hair) RetroJeans / Levi's outfit or even better. Good perfume Good haircut Gym Cosmetic services (skincare etc) Good watch Good car (yes, it's part of the appearance here. This would mean Audi / BMW / Mercedes max 10 years old) Clothes can't really be same season, but it is somewhat acceptable. Another th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:18 AM
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I guess average is good enough for them. Nothing wrong with that. I do not get the 'TRP-approved' stuff, as I set my own goals. Some parts align with them to some extent but that's okay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:22 AM
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It's about the order of things. First is cash, then looks. If you have an average/below average income, you cannot get the superior looks on a good cost. I won't sacrafice like 40% of my income to look good. I will work until it becomes less than 5%. Having your own house and a normal car is also a good support, as that's the bare minimum to enter the field I think. Not for women but for me. I won't take a 30 min bus drive there to get a boring date and 30 more mins back. I'll just drive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:19 AM
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What do you mean by this? It's unclear to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:15 AM
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Just the ammount of women on these classes are enough to make him desireable. Someone not responding? He can go to another one to talk. It will come across as if he was popular
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:42 AM
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Narcissism is rated as a negative trait for men... Just look at how quick a woman will jump into bed with a narcissist...
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:53 AM
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Dancing is your best bet I think
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:44 AM
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This. I've been doing the same thing and it works wonders. I'm at the career and wealth path right now and it topped my game seriously. I still need to go after women, but now they are much more responsive than before (I'm ~10 years into my development). Cash and career alone can lift a lot. In a year or two I will go forward in the looks department too. Sad thing is: it needs a fuckton of work and several burnouts. I can understand how 15 years of constant grinding means "the juice is not worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:08 AM
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It is bad. I'm a smoker and I can feel the effects too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:46 AM
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I think after drinking and smoking can be acceptable. One of my friends in uni trained his whole life (190cm tall, 100kg) so he was manly. After every gym session he sat down, drank 3 beers and smoked a cigarette or two. He never posted about his physique. Note: he was an army guy and he said a lot of them do this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:13 AM
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I'm a software developer. Note: I rarely had trouble with meeting women or getting in a relationship. I just hate how I have to treat women to make them happy (I was always unlucky with my choices, so my sight on things are skewed by my misfortune)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:16 AM
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I know it does not make sense but that's how it is. This is the sad reality. I would love it if it was a different, but it is'nt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:04 PM
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As I mentioned, I work to jobs to be able to afford a house early in life. The inside of the city is for rich people not regular folk. A pro tip for life: never rent, let the system fail. And most office jobs do not requre 40 hours of actual work. If companies utilized manpower well, there would not be a need for such high ammount of people. Also, if people realized their own place, rent could not be absourdly high. If you can't afford it with one job (and some savings at the end of the month), …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:25 AM
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The countryside has a lot of job opportunities too. I live in a small village near a small city. About 20 minutes of commute to the local factories to get to work. Rent is usually cheaper in a village, so you can save for downpayment better. For instance: I started my job while living in our capital city. As soon as I could get full home office, I moved back to my parents house. I've taken on a second job, so I would earn even more. I try to spend next to nothing (I even postpone most of my plan…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:12 PM
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Metropolitan areas are not starter homes. The countryside is perfect for starters. You can even grow your own food, which saves even more cash. 70% of your food can be covered by a relatively small garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:58 PM
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Chicks have one super advantage: they have tons of cash to spend on themselves. Take salary of 2000$ (I'm not an american so I can only guess, but the point will stand none the less). If a woman has to budget from 2000: Rent: 1000 Food: 300 Hobbies: 200 Looks: 300 Sport: 100 Party: 50 Random bs/ savings: 50 In short: she can use all of her money on herself and still have a bright future. Savings are also easier if she has some plans for boobs/face surgery. If she works hard she can be S++ tier i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:33 AM
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I do not know about that time but: I can understand that blue eyes + straight blonde hair is S+ tier in looks. His body looks average by today's standards. Juice culture is to blame. I do go to the gym (I'm an ectomorph) so I can see how his phisyque is extremely hard to achieve by not using roids and stuff like that. If society collectively cracked down on roids with extreme punishment I think only 1 man out of 500 could look like him (accounting for money, genes etc). Nowadays it's 1 out of 50…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:12 AM
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Bruuuuh. This is the best answer yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:38 PM
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Oh. I see what you did there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:01 AM
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I hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:52 AM
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What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:52 AM
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Today I've signed up for a salsa class. It's been a while since I was a ladies man, but I think I'm ready to seek a relationship once again. Wish me luck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:01 PM
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I hope so. I'm family oriented so that would be a dream that came true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:08 PM
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That's true. Having some similarly muscular men as friends can be your best bet I think. I'm a smaller guy so some men see me as easy prey to show off their strength. They back off as soon as my friends come to me. Seeing 5 guys with 100 kg of muscle each can be terrifying. Since they wanted to have no mercy towards me we show them none either. Can be funny, but I regularly get punched. I always have the last laugh at least
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:11 AM
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Bruh moment man. I live in a fairly ghetto area. It costs me one third of a premium gym at our capital (plus travel cost and time but let's not account at that). And this is the best gym in a 25 km area. At least people are not agressive. I could train for less, but I do not want to deal with (even more) retarded people. Meathead stereotype exists for a reason I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:21 PM
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To be fair most of them are big dumb-dumbs. I go to gym regularly and most guys can't make the effort to train with same weights on each hand (like train 6kg on left hand and 7 on the right one). I go alone so I listen to them talk since listening to music can disturb your balance sensing. Just by the words they use and how they talk makes it straght forward that they are double digit IQ (starting with an 8). It's literally 10 seconds of talk and you can sense it. So I do believe if someone is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:52 PM
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I do not see what trouble they could get in by having muscles. Could you please explain what you think of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:27 AM
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Earlier in my life I thought the same, then I realized I've just met the wrong type of women mentioned above
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:40 PM
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I think it can be emulated pretty well by a "good boy". Stuff like : motorcycle riding, somewhat rebellious clothes, adventure and pleasure seeking, standing up when you need to, having a masculine body. This is what women like in them. You do not have to be actually bad. Some may like the actual trash, but it's rare. Even those trash guys can only get away with it because: they can talk well (explain why they aren't trash. In other words: they can lie well) or they are good looking enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:04 PM
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I'm a man. For my son: treat women like a gentleman, but do not forget that you are the leader. You have to make decisions instead of her. I would teach him that he has to build his career and life because men must be the bread winners. I would also tell him that some areas are dominated by women and some by men, so they have their own fields where they are leading. For my daughter: I would teach her what the scum of the earth looks and sounds like. Chase any of them away if they get her. Tell h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:48 AM
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It is true to large extend. (Note that I'm from central europe so economy is different here. For instance a gallon of 95 gasoline costs 13-16 dollars. This is one of the cheapest in europe). From what I've heard an avocado toast costs 3-4 dollars. A latte costs 3-4 dollars too. A netflix payment is also 20 a month. We can also account for cigarettes and alcohol. I have to guess here, because I do not oive in the USA. Averige drink price is 10 dollars according to the internet. People usually go …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:34 AM
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Try to come up with open questions. Like: what do you like so much in your hobby? Who's your favourite character from your favourite series and why? Stuff like this. Yesterday I flirted with a friend. We looked each other deep in the eye. She stroke her own legs for a few seconds then stroke my hand gently. Made my heart beat much faster. You will know if it works, if he responds with a delay. That means the blood from his head went elsewhere. Then go for a walk and grab into his arm old school …
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:53 AM
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And if none of the girls like you there you can still socialize with men who can introduce you to other women. Or be friends with the girls too. Women love that. The best is: just by going to the store a few times you will see who your collegues will be. No wasted time. Or if they don't invite you anywhere you can go to a pub and recognize nore people possibly. Thats also an entry point to social life. This is also the reason why so many lowlifes can do well with girls. They can play that they a…
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:34 PM
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Join their workplace as your second job. You make money and they have to interact with you. They will see your personality and also build some companionship because you are colleagues. There you have it. This is the god tier move you can make. Any manager welcomes an engineer who says "hey man, I need to do phisical work in order to blow off stress by my office job". They know that you will work well and honestly.
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:37 PM
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Peak comedy. I just love it. If you ask this seriously: look up the 36 (if i remember correctly) questions to fall in live with each other
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:04 PM
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I wish you good luck mate!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:10 PM
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That's so sad. Can't he have a rapid licence training?. Send your sister to a week long holiday and just dont tell her that you have started to bike with him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:53 PM
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Because we must be higher (for a healthy relationship at least). As soon as women "smell blood" they will push men to their limits. If he is an overly aggressive retard, he will dominate her with his stance (or even worse, sadly). Women won't do this if they see and feel that their boyfriend is higher than them. It's that simple. Never show any sign of weakness. I got pushed around by women like that. I was driving and she was cursing at me. I listened to her and drive until our destination. Do …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:51 PM
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He even insisted on that. Everyone was/is a biker in our family. That gas is cheap as dirt. Over here it's rougly 13$/gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:40 PM
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I do not know what the "good r" part means. It's that I want those who would be an almost perfect match. I've seen enough to know what I'm looking for. So I do not see any reason to waste time and tons of money on someone who I would not marry in the end. I want to be ready for that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:34 PM
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Yup. I've never understood women who date men like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:02 AM
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Yes. Can do better does not mean must do better. Or as we say in software development: if something works, don't fix it. Why would I throw away a perfectly good relationship for what's essentially a gamble?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:00 AM
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Maybe. I'm horrible at guessing a man's attractiveness. Some cases I've seen the man was disgusting. Bathing only once every week and stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:57 AM
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To some extent it is. I rarely go political but this can't be left out. Liberal standing people do this in turbo mode. Conservatives are taking a stand against it. It's a time game. Liberals don't make children for their own replacement so their numbers are dwindling by the day. With the openness of cuck culture on the internet, the actually valueable and strong men are raising their children stricter to not let them turn into liberal people. A lot of countries are also using counter propaganda …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:31 AM
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I've seen dudes breaking up because they did not have a degree but their girlfriend had one. Some men are just overly picky too. "Be beautiful and a dumbdumb compared to me". I think a good portion of women (30%) are willing to date down, especially if the guy is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:51 AM
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I'm not in the western sphere so I can only rely on what I read about the culture there. My guess would be: they are forcing men with sheer numbers. If almost everyone does it it becomes normalized slowly so men would have no other option. But that's just a guess so enlighten me on it please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:44 AM
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Just tell her that your job requires you to not have any. Don't say anything else on the why part. Mystery will be just as attractive
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:14 AM
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23 M I did a speedrun on my degree (computer science). I've been working since age 14 (and saving up). When I tell people that I already work they are wondering why because around here the middle class can afford to keep their kids in uni until age 26-28 (with no work ofc). I just keep working and working (oldschool german work morale). Most people assume I do it because I'm poor while in reality I have achieved more than most people in their 30's. I just don't give a fuck about prestige (no tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:09 AM
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Big true. You have left out only one point: some can display your personality. It 's just a glorified filter for them. They can see who you are much easier. If your job is anti-prestige (working in IT for instance) it can really balance stuff out. When I tell women that I learn to ride a motorcycle and I got to gym they are wondering why the hell did I become a professional nerd. If they don't know these things they just treat me like if I was a Low value male with good money. That's all they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:26 AM
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I've stopped dating to be able to build myself up. Wealth building cannot be done with someone on your side. I don't know if this fits your criteria of mgtow. As for the handling of loneliness: I have fuckton of willpower to get through it. I used to have a lot of relationships. I just realized I want a top tier woman who can't go around like "I have other options so submit to me". In short: I won't be a slave to a woman. This realisation came to me after I was too weak to handle a relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:44 PM
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Dear, lovely one and stuff like this is completely okay. Babe is too much though. Culture group : central european (hungary)
/r/seduction25/03/22 08:31 PM
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You can do a few things to increase testosterone naturally: Cut out chicken and fish from your life. Rely on beef and pork. Same with veggie oil. Use pork fat instead. This did wonders to me. What also helps is seeking strong rivals. These can be your friends even. Your body will react differently when your mind thinks there's danger. Another note: calibrating how much masturbation you need is essential. Full on retention can cause problems in your prostate. Ideal ammount is to only do it when y…
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:26 PM
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Simple: they are hot. I do believe women have this order of priority: 1. Hot and already succesful man 2. Hot but unsuccessful man (they believe they can turn them into providers. They fail miserably in 95% of times) 3. Not hot but successful man. They think that this man can't be motivated to take care of his looks. In reality it would be quite simple with just a few sentences: "Honey pls get a new haircut, i would like this one much better" or "we should hit the gym don't you think?" Or "this …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:11 AM
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Makeup is a bad one I belive too. But stuff like this can be considered: a few missing teeth that needs dental surgery. It can cost tons of money. Medical stuff is hella expensive.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:52 PM
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1st: I agree. I hate these type of men and I wish they disappeared. 2nd: The same reason why women need the alpha male. The difference in mood and overall life quality and happiness with a beautiful partner is amazing. (At least until the annoying things come forward)
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:49 PM
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This is what I was referring to. A student girl has maybe 50 dollars a month and she needs that for alcohol/having fun
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:47 PM
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Like: He is making her believe that she hasn't improved that much. She went from a 4 to a 7 or even an 8. These type of guys want girls like mentioned above to believe they barely improved to the level of 5
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:44 PM
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The recipe for this type of men is quite simple in most cases. They met a girl that had potential to be super hot but she did not have cash to maintain herself. (These girls usually did not have a boyfriend until they met their partner) So they grabbed a girl with potential and stayed with her through thick and thin. She did not have cash to get better at the age of 18 but by the time she was 20-22 she had it so she became stunning hot. Guys could stay the same since the girl did not know what b…
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:18 PM
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Working is the pleasureful activity for me. Hobbies are just to not seem boring at a young age. I can't really grasp how a grown man could do such things when there is so much work to do. The dressing and dancing is a good recommendation for attraction. Thank you very much
/r/seduction20/03/22 05:01 PM
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I'm talking about a whole image mate. The oldschool pua advices applied but better. Just don't forget who you really are. Make scriptbook with all the stories you can say. Don't be afraid to steal some from far away too. How would they figure out that it's someone else's story from a 1000 miles away? Here's what I did: two separate "wardrobes" of clothing. Two separate sets of places where I go with each type of girl. Two different personality displays. I'm learning to ride a motorcicly just for…
/r/seduction20/03/22 08:09 AM
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I would recommend you to build a successful image and a subhuman tier image. If you want to have your fun quick and easy just show the subhuman version. If you want an actual girlfirend show the real you.
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:53 AM
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Around here (hungary) it's perfectly normal. Even the most famously slutty women will hold themselves back so you would think that she is a good girl. When they see that you are able to provide them with a good life and you are also at least somewhat attractive, they restrain themselves. That's their game. The smarter ones even calculate in your friends group. The fewer they knew before you the better. They do not want you to find out what they did in their "fun" years. Sometimes that's why they…
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:39 AM
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Bodybuilding, riding a motorcycle. Both have been just started. I will pick up saxophone classes as soon as I have time for it. Language learning is a big plus also. I don't do hobbies for my own pleasure. It's all for my image. I wonder if there is anything else that greatly increases my attraction. Any ideas?
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:17 AM
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Here's my story (consider that my country is in central europe) : At the age of 14 I decided to become a high earning man. It took a lot of work. I got a degree in Computer science. I solely focused on getting a good paying job first and having a stable background. It only took one year longer than the shortest possible route (due to bad roommates and the fact that I had to work while studying). I had no time or resources to become the high tier attractive male. I knew it did not matter. Good sa…
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:26 AM
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I prefer solo too. My male friends are limpdicks, but they look better than me. If I'm out with them I look like the beta male of the group (I'm the most competent one actually). Girls are eyeballing them and they are afraid of approaching. I do make the approaches and girls aren't that interested in me because they see I'm with better looking men than myself. After my friends follow me (about 5 minutes into the convo, so they can be sure women does not eat me or some stupid shit like this) they…
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:53 AM
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I have one that I'm pretty good friends with. After seeing what her relationship with her boyfriend, she gives me hope that my partners so far were just bad choices. I learn how women generally think. It's good to watch how she interacts with her boyfriend. Free XP basicall. It's just like any other friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:35 AM
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Maybe you have a pet that puts people off? For instance, I would not get together even with the hottest woman I know if she had a cat inside the house
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:35 AM
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Most people have some topics they like. So you have to take a shot in the dark. If you land a good topic, they will be interested. Business life requires you to fake interest when necessary, so work on that. What you can do is be well read and become able to connect topics. Learn the personality types and keep a list of what they are most likely to be interested in. Notice a symbol on a necklace or something like that. Most people wear jewelry and other add-ons for this reason. If you pay attent…
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:28 PM
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I'm not the tipical toxic man around here. We are similar. Even the culture group is matching. I do believe that the size of the fight in the dog that matters, not the size of a dog in a fight. I'm rooting for you. I used to be there too, but I've got everything I needed from the hookup life. Cheers. Edit: why would people downvote me?
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:18 PM
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That's good for you! I would have some questions: What are your looks like?(not just a number, I would like to hear a description) Any instant DHV / DHV story that you use? How much eye contact do you hold before going in? Do you have friends with you when you approach? What culture group are you in? (Western, Central European, Eastern European, Asian, Indian ) I know it looks like a lot of questions (and it's still not everything that I would like to ask), but I'm curious how you can do this in…
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:06 PM
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That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:20 PM
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Your point is right. And I also realised what I wanted to mean the first time. There are some males that are "leftover" / lower tier. For most of humanity they were regarded useless (because they are). They do not contribute anything to society. They are just good looking and thats it. Some women had made the effort to provide for these men. These males don't have the drive that actual real men have. What happens today, is that society is so rich it can afford these males to be paired to women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:49 AM
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Well a stable society is a different beast. Most of human history hasn't seen a laboratory like stable civilization (wars, revolts, famines etc). Wars have accelerated evolution in a very specific way according to a theory (can't remember where I read it, or if it was proven true or not) In the early times a lot of women were defending their children. When conquerors came, they slayed both the children and their mother. The women who were willing to abandon their own kids (read: let them get sla…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:24 AM
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Oh, my bad. I tend to misunderstand things sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:12 AM
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It's not just about who they select as a partner. Take competence for instance: I know a lot of men who are extremely incompetent but good looking. One of them hasn't had a job in almost 3 years, yet several women are heads over heels for him. Society will suffer if these guys get to pass on their genes. This attitude and competence will result in a societal collapse/ heavily lowered standard of living. They are just a net minus on society. It sounds harsh, but that's the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:11 AM
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I think it will solve it in just 30-60 years. Just think about it: A traditional normal couple has about 3-4 kids in a good marriage with realistic expectations. All before 35. In the meanwhile a CC rider + F-boy does not want to settle down before 35, and most of them never want to have children. Even if they have one or maybe two: They might never see their grandchildren. I've seen the effect in such people's parenting. They (usually) teach their own child(ren) to never want to have kids from …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:00 AM
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This is not a trope story. He was my best friend for 1-1,5 years. I just say what i saw. I learned a lot from him actually. It saddens me what I saw. He helped me realize what I'm worth and how to do stuff. We had an another friend and things got complicated, so all of us finished the friendship. Best days of my life though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:08 PM
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My (used to be) friend is a good example to explain. He is 190 cm tall, has a lot of muscles and no excess body fat, and to top that a strong beard if he grows it. With a ton of cash. What I've seen is that he had a one night stand every 3-5 days. He was in a relationship only when his reputation got so bad that it took him more than two weeks to sleep with a new woman. He does a lot of stuff for women. He takes them to places they've never been to and stuff like this (only for the hot ones thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:02 PM
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Simple math: 100 men and 100 women. Around 30% is in a relationship. So that leaves us with 70-70. Let's say half of top tier men are in that. That leaves us with 10 top noch guys and around 70 woman. 30 are way too low tier to even fuck them. The remaining 40? Thats 4 women for every man. Girls usually have a one month interval between one night stands. A month consist of 4 weeks. That means one girl for every week for a 10%-er man. I'm sure you know a lot of men who have one night stands with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:46 PM
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Way too many people just pretend that they have the cash necessary to live the "don't care, I look cool" lifestyle. Most of them are from the lower income bracket that you have described. I always wondered how they could be such pretenders. I'm a software developer with a very good income compared to my age. Sometimes I see people (with much lower income than me) eat a meal that cost's as much as my whole weekend party-time. This is just a flex to "show society who we really are". I can see thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:38 PM
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I have zero clue either. Maybe they just want a valid excuse to make the hook up look like a good decision to their friends. But when they still believe it in a relationship... now that is way beyond me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:34 PM
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All women I've been with had this mentality. They start to push the limits to see when you would become an asshole. They tune stuff back when you start to treat them like shit. This sickens me to the core too. The women I truly loved and appreciated became horrible harpies with me. On the other hand, when I was with women that I did not love, they treated me the best. I did not give up my bad habits/hobbies because I did not care if I lost them. I guess this is part of the "love hurts" phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:27 PM
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Worst part if it is that these guys are usually the (almost always) unemployed trash tier men. Only they have enough time to develop enough stories / fun talk / etc to last a whole party. And they just do it every f***ng time. They can pass even the most obvious BS lies to most women. "Yeah, I got a job offer that would pay me 160k annually, but I turned it down because I did not like the company's style" Like dude, you are making barely above minimum wage and people know it. I will never unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:01 PM
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That would be the best outcome for the West
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:22 AM
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That's a perfect cocktail for social unrest and societal collapse. If you look at history, every society that had it like that collapsed/ turned into a dictatorship. Imagine that you have 100 man, with real age distribution. The fighting age is 18. In my country it means 60-80% of men between 18-25 are ready to rebell to have a better life for themselfes. Not even close enough, especially since they have hope of turning the table in a realistic time. If it would get pushed to 40... that would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:36 AM
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It depends on the culture he's in. 25 is a valid age to turn the tables in hungary. Here, by this time you can see where an other human being is going in life, and people aren't afraid to tell them the ugly truth. A bunch of my aquitances are labelled parasites because of their lifestyle. They might be good-looking, but living the NEET life makes it much harder to date them. They basically had their fun in highschool and now they are unable to get a job/ make enough cash to have a realistic futu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:44 AM
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With age it will change. It's not just your mindset but also your situation. You are beginning your life, thus I assume you do not have a lot of resources to go with. Most women love what you can do for them in this age. Time is on your side, if you do not have the outstanding looks. Later girls (or at least a good portion of them) will realize that they can't tie down a top tier male so they decrease their standards to a realistic one. A few hits against their egos is all that it takes. Just wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:44 AM
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If you are poor, you just can't take a year off for travelling.... You need to be extra rich / stupid to do this as a man. Just focus on building up your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:06 AM
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You replied to the comment where I wrote down, that it's not about bra sizes... I was talking about cup size and how we measure the first 90 in the 90-60-90 expression. Only she thinks that I'm talking about bra size. An excellent troll, I was too tired to notice it yesterday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:01 AM
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Bruh. I's shame i gave out my free award already. You are the one who would have deserved it. This is an an epic comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:13 PM
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The measurements you wrote aren't equal visually. And you missed the point so let me highlight: The 90 in 90-60-90 refers to overall circumference not what you use with bras. Two different tyoes of measurenents
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:07 PM
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I know how it works. Thats why I added the note. Read it back
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:58 PM
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That's the point of it after all. People usually have fit individuals in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:02 PM
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I forgot to add a note to it: 90 should be including the whole breast part (so the measuring tape should cover the nipples). It is also expected to be B / C cup size.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:00 PM
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Or 90-60-90 for cm folk. I know its not the exact same measurement but around here we say it like this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:06 PM
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To prevent exhaustion of your body I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:26 AM
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Thank you. I wish you the same. Desperation is for the weak, I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:34 PM
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I hope so. I made contact with a dieating specialist a few days ago, but he's also puzzled. I will solve this somehow. I just simply can't stay like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:13 PM
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Yeah, it might be the hustle culture that takes it's toll on me. At least I have a considerable ammount of cash to compensate for my shortcomings
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:04 PM
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Really depends on what my body thinks. One time I had 1700 calories with no loss. One time I had 3000 calories with severe losses. Activity did not differ
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:58 PM
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I already did. According to her, I'm almost perfectly healthy. I sort of accepted this curse by now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:53 PM
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I already did. According to her, I'm almost perfectly healthy. I sort of accepted this curse by now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:53 PM
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Try the egg-wine diet. 1 egg in the morning, 2 midday, 1 for dinner. And a bottle of wine to be able to not shoot yourself because of hunger (preferably dry&white vine). Worked for my hard to lose weight friend. He lived one week with a normal diet, and one with the one I described. Lifting "converts" fat into muscle so of course you wont lose much. Cardio is your real friend. I never do it because it makes me lose so much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:29 PM
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It was for 3 months, and I tracked my weight biweekly. At that time I was in school, so the only physical activity was training and going to gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:23 PM
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There is nothing wrong witm me according to the doctor. She said I'm at an almost perfectly healthy state.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:20 PM
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Fist fighting, karate and gym (both compound and isolation exercises) I did it for 8 years and I gained 8 kilograms of bodymass. Unbelaveably pathetic if you ask me. My net weight is 60kg nowadays. I need to pump it to 75 at least (although a 100 is preferred around here). There was a time when my daily caloric intake was 4000-5000 kcal, and even that did not help. I just gave up after that much time with basically no results
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:54 PM
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I did something similar but it did not work for me sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:13 PM
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What training and diet did you use? I'm struggling with the same problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:18 AM
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I was extremely skinny, so needed to gain weight. With the height of 178cm I used to have 114 pounds (52kg) of bodyweight. Literally a stickman. I wasn't really considered human. I actively did sports (karate, fist fightin and gym) for roughly 8 years. This has brought me up to 134 pounds (61kg) of weight. It became easier to date, but still not good enough. I would be happy with 165 pounds (75kg) but that's considered still too little in her. In hungary we have a saying: men under a 100 kilogra…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:16 AM
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Oh. Well, it's truly hopeless for them in there. I'm glad you have fun none the less. When I go to clubs with my sort of average/good-loking friends, I become the cannon fodder. They are cowards, but much better looking than me. So of course approaching girls is my job while they follow, just half a minute later. I never get the go-home-with-someone part of it, but I like dancing so it's never a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:01 PM
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Going home/to a hotel on the first night is the issue. Unattractive males need time to show their manly personality. It does not happen in just a few hours. Several dates will make it work. You are attractive and able to get a new girl any time. Your friends are not like you. You can still reject the girl later. It's sort of a duble date actually. This is basically the modern version of taking one for the team. The game changed, so the rules did too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:20 PM
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What did the two of you do? It's almost impossoble to fail this, so I'm really wondering what could have gone wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:34 AM
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There are two options for you if you do not have good looks: 1, find a friend that is good looking enough and make him do the heavy lifting. He would go for it anyway, so just ask him to approach 2 girls that are out together. Just let him approach with his own BS and join in later. Hell, even you can approach and just let him be silent if he is shy. Women stay there about 95% if the tine if they see an alpha looking male. Literally the only point of failure is if you have other friends and it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:43 PM
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The ammount of times I heard this.... Kills the attraction for me. For me, it looks like when a kid tries a shitty lie because she realised she messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:35 AM
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Well, usually that is the case. I have one thing to improve that is a big turn off for women: I'm 178 cm (5 foot 11) and only 60 kg (roughly 120 pounds). I'm a good talking partner, I can connect well emotionally, I'm Computer Scientist with a degree. I will aquire wealth soon (for my agegroup I'm already in the 95 percenentile of money earning). My weight is literally the only thing that holds me back. People are suprised when they learn that I've won in an amateur boxing championship and an am…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:31 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:19 AM
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I take it gracefully. Sure, I get angry at first, but not towards the girl. It's towards myself. The fact that I was not good enough again. While the initial anger lasts an other feeling kicks in. It's sort of an adrenaline rush. It lasts for roughly 3 months. It makes me go crazy career and improvement wise. This feeling has fueled me through the last 9-10 years. I became a workaholic. Soon I will have my life together at the age of 23 (and many more improvements are to come). So I would say it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:36 PM
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I think the turning point is near in the west. In hungary we have some of the promiscuity, but one can still find a lot of wife material style women. Feminist women are being left alone here. We do a lot to keep social sanity in check (banning gender studies for instance). Since we are ex-Warsaw pact, we know it all about demoralization and it's consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:59 AM
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It's not about what percent. It's about when the important groups of society get depressed and "trashed" because of sexlessness. Male sexlessness can lead to two things: 1. War, to conquer and have new women for yourself, because the other males died etc... 2. Dictatorships. What does stand in the way of a would be dictator, if all of the police, army and other goverment entities are operated by men who live a miserable life? Who do you think they will side with? Someone who makes their life mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:47 PM
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May I ask why is it a bad thing? I could never find a hobby in my life, and it actually puzzles me how some people can hood interest in one thing for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:23 AM
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All of my relationships got wrecked because of this attitude. One woman thought that I was the ideal slave. An other one just thought that she should take charge of things and command me, since I was too busy fixing our lives. Really grinds my gears how they come to that conclusion. Anyone care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:28 AM
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