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| 4 | Product question: 43 texts that guarantee sex | hungrycl | /r/seduction | 11/10/13 03:02 PM |
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| 43 | I hooked up with 2 girls in one week. Both had boyfriends. What the hell is dating now?Should be called "Are we Eskimo brothers?" | /r/seduction | 07/08/26 12:56 AM |
| 1 | 25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chestTreat dating like your B2C sales. Prospect, mine, refine until you're happy with the results. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 04:55 PM |
| 1 | minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did.There's more commonality amongst humans than differences and you just focus on that. | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Getting back into the game at 45...and marriedSome countries it's legal. Australia for 1. | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Should I just breakup w my gf and get back to the gameWhen you do break up, just don't tell her it's her lack of ambition and shitty job. Better to say something like we have different aspirations in life and maybe our paths will cross again but for now it's a road I rather explore alone | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 02:24 AM |
| 12 | Getting back into the game at 45...and marriedA couple questions: are you seeking just seeking sex or a more intimate relationship/compatible relationship in addition to your relationship with your wife? Are you staying together just for the kids? If it's just sex you're seeking, with your means, why not just pay for it? | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:10 AM |
| 0 | you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashedIt's a case by case basis? Maybe you can live with her shagging other guys if she's upfront about it and it isn't about you. Sort of a hall pass for it predates you and you're able to turn a blind eye to it if she comes home to you and leaves whatever happens on this NYC trip in the past? Maybe you need her to tell you the little white lies that yours is the best/biggest/touches her in ways others cannot etc I think things to discuss with her. Also by saying hey go ahead on this trip, no pressur… | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 02:35 PM |
| 6 | Her Story Made Me Rethink Everything About DatingThis is how you get friend zoned. By trying to help them fix themselves. You need a complete partner to be in a good relationship. They gotta fix that shit themselves otherwise they're not ready for a relationship. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 04:06 AM |
| -3 | Going to a singles event with about 100+ women in attendance (and 100+ men). Any tips on sticking out of the crowd?If there's a checklist at the end of the night on which one the women you were interested in, just check yes for all unless you're dead certain it's a no for you. Never know where things may lead. | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Men living in NYC or other big citiesI decided what I want and the steps to get there. For me that was kids within a loving marriage. Took a while to find a partner that had the same "vision" of that that together looked like and we still work on it to refine our joint goals and work in supporting our individual ones. So find what your north star in life is and work towards it. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you mention your job on dating apps?I put stuff like "synthesiser of minds" or "hamburger connoisseur". If they have a sense of humor and are curious about you they'll ask. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionMalcolm Gladwell popularized the theory it takes 10,000 hours to become a master of a skill. So based on that if you wanted to master approaches, and it takes roughly 1 minute to approach and open.... you'll still need to do 600,000 approaches to become a master. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:30 PM |
| 0 | Can someone explain how casual dating works in the USA?Just wanted to point out that casual dating does not have to involve sex at all either. Could be just two people going to an event together to enjoy the experience together instead of alone. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I attract white womenThey love their Latin lovers, you gotta give off those vibes. Dress nice, learn some dance moves (salsa etc), and treat her like a queen without expecting anything in return (but don't simp). They want excitement and adventure so plan the dates to do something slightly outside of their comfort zones so it's memorable. Instead of going out to eat, pick up sandwiches and do a picnic in the park and people watch. | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?Try, "well, I'm hoping JUST 1 and no more after that." | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.The wildlings have nothing to lose, so they'll shoot their shot. Hot girls on the other hand are use to being chased, so they don't know how/haven't ever tried to chase guys. They also fear rejection, so they won't shoot their shot. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Stop watching porn too. Let the inner tension build and force you outside to interact with people IRL | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Goals: Have you been on dates with women 1:1? If not maybe start lower, and go out as a mixed group of friends and sit next to a girl. Work on building relationships with both genders and then work up to 1:1 activities If you have gone on a date 1:1, have you had a second or 3rd date with said person? Why do they not keep coming back? Do you have interests and things you can share your enthusiasm for with someone else to build more attraction? What is your true desired outcome? To get laid once,… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Countries where Asian men are Most Desired?Living in SF... Asian male married to white female with a one hapa child with another on the way :) Work on being out-going/curious and care less about a "result/outcome". Focus on having a great experience in the moment, and then layering upon that with further growth/exploration and you'll attract better friends and then partners to share your life with. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongNow you turn this into an app and monetize it, become a billionaire when you sell it to fb and rub it in his face with your success and billions. | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 07:53 AM |
| 0 | Any advice for rookies in a new city?JUST DO IT. Go out, try all the new things you wanted to try but never did and just have a good time experiencing new things. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Got a cute girl’s number, but I’m hesitant to text her after learning more about her life on social media [x-posted to r/dating_advice]Past achievements don't determine future success. | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Asian girls on Tinder almost always want to become friends first, and then maybe get more intimate. How do I skip the friends part?Are you just looking to fuck? Just say so. There are Asian girls who are DTF Asians. Meeting someone off an app is going to be more work unless you look like the Asian equivalent of Zac Efron, Brad Pitt or Leonardo DeCaprio. Gotta demonstrate that you're not a weirdo AND of some value to them (monster big dick they've never had? Moneybags as the other guy indicated? Fun party guy who's going to show them a good time?). I found it way easier to meet girls in social settings like bars and clubs an… | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How did Neil Strauss's relationship with Lisa Leveridge end?He starts off the book at that point: they're in a relationship and he felt trapped. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 08:55 PM |
| 8 | How did Neil Strauss's relationship with Lisa Leveridge end?He talks about it in one of his newer books. The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00ICN31SA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_vsJGybXR7J22T Essentially he was afraid of monogamy at the time. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 04:03 PM |
| 4 | What things can guys in their 20s work on right now so that as they get older, they are put themselves in a favorable position to do well with women?Develop good habits in health, work, and financial discipline. Learn what is important to you in a relationship and don't compromise on it. Once you figure that out you start to pursue it and the law of attraction begins to work for you. | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for attracting girls without alcohol, clubs, or partying?Inherit a lot of money. Jk Define what you like to do for fun and use that to meet people. For one I love playing soccer so I joined a coed league and met some girls that way. | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Pickup at the gymAll the girls I know hate getting hit on gym because they feel ugly or not at their best when they're all sweaty. Logically thinking through it, maybe sign up for some classes at the gym and talk to them before the classes start? | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Spice up your relationship: My First Time at a Sex Club and I Brought My GirlfriendNice! Congrats | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 06:02 PM |
| 0 | going to a party looking for some nice missions for a starter(18)Practice opening by introducing your friends or one friend to a group of people. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Hey, it's Rich "Gambler" La Ruina, ask me (pretty much) anything :)Can you give us one freebie from 42 texts? | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Hey, it's Rich "Gambler" La Ruina, ask me (pretty much) anything :)How do you choose which girl to spend your time with? | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 08:14 PM |
| 1 | What is more important for a girl, that you have a car or your own place?Go for your own place. You can always cab it home to the place if you've got a girl ready to go. | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 04:40 PM |
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