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| 22 | Why are some men so obsessed to keep women's standards as low as possible?Her eyes radiate a goodness and a kindness so brightly. It truly boggles my mind the kind of vitriol and hate that others project onto her. I totally agree with your analysis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:37 AM |
| 9 | If he wanted to he wouldDated a guy 10 years older than I. After 8 months together I had the talk and he said that he was not into getting married, that it, "was just a piece of paper". I told him that was the end of the relationship then. But he didn't want to lose me, he gave me just enough minimum effort to keep me. I didn't understand my worth and took the crumbs he gave (he literally proposed in his sister's basement while we were at her house with a $50 Ebay ring. he had plenty of money.) We married but I ended u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 01:06 PM |
| 30 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰"Known to cause STDs in the state of California" im laugh crying rn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 01:52 PM |
| 15 | Men love gold diggersRubbermaid nightstand!!!! Dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Happy Friday. Remember, know your worth.I think dude needs the number to the local burn unit. Special intervention is needed to come back from that one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:26 AM |
| 9 | How to level up your emotional health after years of abuse and internalizing painful social experiences?If you haven't already, look up attachment style theory. Specifically anxious preoccupied or avoidant and see if it rings a bell. You are not your trauma and you can get better. You run cause you learned that people were inherently bad. You didn't have anyone to protect you and show you different. Your response kept you safe when you were young but now it threatens to overcorrect your life and keep you from developing relationships. This is a trauma response. Half the battle is figuring this out… | /r/askFDS | 05/10/20 12:06 PM |
| 15 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayThe whole period thing and the way the patriarchal systems make women feel shame/disgust over a bodily function is just ridiculous. Especially when we understand that, biologically, the monthly period is what enables to human female to be able to conceive throughout the year. It is a terrific 'ensure the species' survival mechanism. It also hormonally makes the human species able to have and enjoy sex year-round rather than a once a year estrus. Could you imagine the bitching, then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:53 AM |
| 30 | How to feel comfortable dating out of my league?Ok. Wow. This whole thing SCREAMS pickmesha, girl. You are not "dating out of your league". Already assuming that a guy (who is studying law, NOT a lawyer) from China (90% sure he is bankrolled by parents to do so). Vs you who are living at home but working and saving money says more about socio-economic differences - not league issues. You are saving, working, self aware on your issues. You have resilience, reflective capability, carefulness, and you are 21. You are 21. The ONLY people who have… | /r/askFDS | 27/09/20 01:54 AM |
| 96 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡I've wondered if this is a USA kind of thing. I am American, but I have lived in other countries. I was shocked, honestly, to see how well-dressed, well-groomed, and good smelling those non USA guys were. They actually put in effort to look good. To my eyes they initially read as 'gay' because they dress as nicely as gay men often do in the States. How sad as that? That I am culturally normed to read nicely groomed men as gay. Digging deeper: that I, as a woman, have internalized that only men c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 11 | Friend with guy problems won’t listen to meListening to her complain and let off steam while she allows the crap to continue is enabling your friend, mode healthy boundaries by having them with her. She likes the attention otherwise she would be an end to it. | /r/askFDS | 21/09/20 05:13 PM |
| 32 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesI know, right? So magnanimous, really. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:04 PM |
| 14 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.Yep. This is a mom who will be jealous of every girl her son dates. She is threatened the girl will take her "little man" away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:23 AM |
| 13 | To block or not to blockYou are creating rationalizations. You are BSing yourself and you know it. | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 03:01 AM |
| 35 | FDS is anti polyamoryNot to mention the satellite orbiting "poly" pick me who actually wants to be the one in the established relationship. Using poly to wedge herself with the aim to dislodge and remove the other woman. The lable "poly" is more acceptable parlance for "the other woman". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:45 AM |
| 13 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?I hope they keep it up because it's because of them I even found this up. I was so confused about in cells so I started to go on some of the subreddits and one of the intels was complaining about this community so I totally hurried over and was like oh my God this place is amazing and magical and wonderful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:10 AM |
| 25 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?Exactly this! Whenever I have posted in finance or investing they always speak to me with the assumption that I am male they call me bro all the time. As if, they are incapable of even imagining a woman taking care of her own financial shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:08 AM |
| 5 | Sex Positive Media Hates Women. Women don’t want to be murdered but yes lets worry about these people’s “rights” to maim each other during sex.Your username name oddly checks out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:20 AM |
| 6 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.I developed a debilitating chronic illness. It took a long time for me to find the right specialist and treatment. I was in constant agony. My ex-husband didn't physically leave but totally checked out in all other ways. When he had two back surgeries I was 100%there for him, did everything for him. 100% committed to his care. Juxtaposed to me asking him to take me to the ER and told him he could just drop me off. And he did. He wasn't interested in my medications, the doctor, my journey. One ni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:16 AM |
| 15 | LVM exampleI have a job where I work with a lot of women in relationship. Your philosophy here is a common one and the one where my clients remain single year after year, or they bump into someone where there is chemistry but otherwise a bad match but they think it's meant to be and stay until the bitter end. It's an all or nothing strategy. It can be avoidance disguised as an action plan. The law of attraction means you are also searching. We don't just bump into cars, houses, jobs: we search for them. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:16 AM |
| 56 | I really love this tiktok. As someone that is currently learning to love myself and do things alone. Seeing ppl do this encourages meI knew the gig was up when I saw thems white claws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:24 AM |
| 7 | I was deleting pictures off my phone and I found this gem. So glad I deleted my OLD profiles. It was just too much effort.What does OLD stand for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:34 PM |
| 26 | This girl supported her “aspiring author“ boyfriend for 4 years, then he proposed and demanded a prenup because he’s actually super wealthy and never told her.... where would you even start??My heart breaks for this obviously kind and good hearted woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:32 AM |
| 6 | This girl supported her “aspiring author“ boyfriend for 4 years, then he proposed and demanded a prenup because he’s actually super wealthy and never told her.... where would you even start??💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:29 AM |
| 30 | Old dudes on dating apps be like...My brother in law was online dating: he was 50 but put his search at 37-43. When I asked him why he couldn't date someone his own age he says, "they're decrepit by 50.". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 03:21 AM |
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