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Why unsuccessful getting off them? Is it the withdrawal, or do your symptoms return? Have you looked into SAM-e (a natural antidepressant that's used in Europe as first-line sometimes, rather than SSRIs)? Or 5-HTP?
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:44 PM
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Is your relationship with your room mate (and good friend) more important, or sleeping with this girl? No matter what he says, it will make him uncomfortable. Probably not worth it.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:39 PM
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This guy isn't going to do anything. OP has to take a stance for his self respect. In the rare occurrence that the other guy is going to be violent, it will be him initiating, not OP. Therefore, OP will not look like the caveman, the other guy will. Also, OP doesn't have to fight back, he just has to subdue him and scold him like a child when he's in a submissive position.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:28 PM
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Next he does it and it's in front of everyone (make sure it's a good group, lots of women or anyone you want to have respect you), call him out in front of everyone. Ask, "Why do you feel the need to keep shit talking? Does it make you feel better about yourself? All of us (point to the rest of the group, to create a rift) act like adults and just want to have a good time. Why are you so petty and childish? This needs to stop. No one will respect you if you behave like a child. If you have a pro…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:13 PM
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Sounds like he was having a bad night and the alcohol really messed with his head. Shouldn't drink when you're that emotional or in a bad mood. Don't throw away 7 years of friendship because he lost control while drinking, especially since it isn't who he is normally. Everyone has bad days. At least see what he has to say.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 09:34 PM
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You can't depend on external validation to feel secure or insecure. If your girlfriend has not given you any reasons to think she's disloyal (as in, she doesn't flirt with other men or she hasn't cheated, etc), and you aren't planning on breaking up with her, you need to stop this thinking. All this will do is make her see you as less and, paradoxically, more likely to cheat. You need to focus on yourself and imaging as if you are still single. You wouldn't act like this if you didn't have her y…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 08:25 AM
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Why did you ask her how many guys try to talk to her to begin with? That was your first mistake, and she was actually responding to your shit test.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 08:23 AM
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You aren't committed to this other girl, and unless you gave her any reason to think you're exclusive or you're only talking to her, then you haven't done anything wrong and she doesn't have a right to be upset. If you like her, then keep talking to her. If that was a deal breaker for her, then she is probably not the right one for you in the first place.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 12:50 AM
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I call that a space case.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 12:49 AM
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I think adding to your bio to show off the best parts of who you are will help. Also, don't be discouraged. Don't depend on external validation to tell you who you are.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 12:48 AM
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It is when something upsets or bothers you, but instead of dealing with it head on or sharing your feelings/thoughts/communicating, you keep it inside and let it out during unrelated manners. In doing so, the other person sees you being moody and an asshole, and may not even know why you are actually upset.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 10:20 PM
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Is she upset about something? What's her mind state?
/r/askTRP23/12/15 10:19 PM
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An issue here is that she knows your withholding sex for the bj, right? So the subtlety left when she became aware.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 06:20 PM
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Holding out with me more long term than this, I think. How important is the blowjob to you? Or connecting with her physically?
/r/askTRP23/12/15 06:05 PM
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Yes, and he is doing all that. That isn't the question here. The question is if he should respond and tell her where he's stands. I'm not sure why there's an issue with being straight forward, rather than dancing around?
/r/askTRP23/12/15 02:32 AM
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A more drastic approach would be to take a break from her and explore things until you're feeling strongly about one way or another. It could really just be overthinking. You could also try things differently in bed. Maybe some more kinky play, or BDSM, if you're a fan.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 01:07 AM
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This isn't worth my time. If you can actually respond to my points logically and objectively, I will keep an open mind and listen. If you can't muster that, don't bother.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 12:52 AM
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Again, you're failing to respond to my logic, and you're trying to insult me more, while making assumptions. Rather than insulting others and trying to feel better about yourself that way, why don't you focus on yourself to improve and grow? You don't think her issue with investment is going to come up again? It will. And she will cause more turbulence for him as her frustration grows, and it will bother her in the back of her mind. It will also make her as his plate more short-lived. Also, why …
/r/askTRP23/12/15 12:46 AM
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I'm a man, I've been following The Red Pill since it started, and just FYI, I am very familiar with the side bar. :) Also, I'm not sure why instead of discussing this with me logically and being objective, you are avoiding my opinion and basis for it, and rather trying to invalidate my logic by calling me a woman and telling me I don't have a right to advise. It's kind of cute the way you believe you are in a position to advise and that you understand Red Pill Philosophy, yet you already lost fr…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 12:36 AM
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It would be better to know what she is trying to communicate, rather than assume. If you're going to see her for long term, or eventually go into a ltr, communicating more would be good for you both. You aren't losing frame or her interest by knowing where she stands, and telling her where you stand, regardless of where that is.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 12:27 AM
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What are you talking about? I think you're taking her question out of context because of your mind set, and it's affecting your ability to give clear advice. You also make very generalized statements, like: "Women are children they babble on with silly shit like this." And why is it silly for her to shoot from the hip and tell this guy her impression so she can understand whether or not they are on the same page? I agree that sometimes women can behave irrationally and very emotionally, but from…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 12:23 AM
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You should be able to find women where, if you tell them your real age, they will still want to date you. Lying always backfires.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 10:13 PM
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It is not unreasonable to second guess yourself at times or have some anxiety or doubt. Just makes sure whatever you choose is what you truly want.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 10:10 PM
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Yeah, delete their numbers. Don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:41 PM
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Why are you wasting your time? It was one thing for her to not be interested and tell you that, but a good friend wouldn't mess with you like this. She isn't very mature. Don't invest in her anymore, and I mean as a friend, because nothing else will happen.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:28 PM
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Why do you fight? Why did she leave the house? Don't fake emotions, or pretend to sniffle. This is silly. Do you actually feel anything? Share the genuine part, don't act. You can choose how much you want to share, and how vulnerable you want to be, but pretending to be vulnerable or acting out something like that is probably not the best way to go. She will think less of you as a man if she feels you are fake or acting, or if you aren't genuine with her. Real men also have feelings and emotions…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:26 PM
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One called you weird, and the other called you clingy. The more you try, the more it reinforces this image of you. Are they in your social circle, or do you see them in a work environment, or class, or anything? You shouldn't text them or spend any time trying to earn back their respect or interest. It's insulting to you, and also a waste of time. Just be yourself and focus on becoming a better person and reaching your goals. If you see them in any setting, they will see this indirectly and mayb…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:23 PM
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Based on her actions, it sounds like she is very invested you. She spends all her free time with you, enjoys doing what you want to do, or at least tries to be a part of your life. Not sure how much you guys communicate or how she i emotionally with you though. It is a compliment, and I don't see it as malicious or something to worry about. She could honestly be thinking you were the kind of guy she has wanted, and wishes she didn't have to wait until 25. What was her dating past like? Did she h…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:21 PM
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Have you read this post? Did you ask yourself, how did he hack their accounts with just their emails? Doesn't he need to figure out the passwords? Also, what girl in high school is an escort with clients, and receiving 400 friend request? And why would someone post this just to tell us? I was originally kidding, but you took this really seriously. Read OP's post. And also on a serious note, the legal trouble would start when you hack someone's fb...
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:03 PM
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"... but I already got permission from my mom... Let me know when you want to go on an adventure then and I'll sneak out, and you can do the same ;p" Indirectly, you're challenging her for needing permission and being "owned" by someone. Second, you're being calm and making it funny, rather than getting upset or irritated. Third, you're setting the stage for a challenge and giving her a chance to redeem herself. I don't agree with you sleeping with her though, but that's what you can use if you …
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:59 PM
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Yeah this is a good idea. Using other situations to show OP's thought process and where he stands. It doesn't only have to be about relationships though, it can be about anything. She will get a picture of his character in different ways.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:56 PM
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Why would he look for things about her to not like? How is that a good mentality when going into an LTR?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:56 PM
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Don't think like this. It's not good for you, and it might slip out unconsciously in your behavior and it will communicate negativity, and possibly insecurity to her. If you decided to LTR her, that means you have taken the time to get to know her and discern whether or not she is a good person and the right fit for you. That means you need to trust her, going into this, and be relaxed. If your personality is strong and you don't let people walk over you, but you are fair and calm, she will see …
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:55 PM
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Like I said, talking to her about being unsure about commitment at the moment and you would like to take a break or just take some time, wouldn't be the worst thing in the world. Yes, she will be upset, and there is a chance she will move on, but it will probably give you the smallest amount of headache and allow you to get to your goals and decide what you want and what will make you happy in the easiest and quickest way possible.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:52 PM
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I am focusing on myself, I'm not the one who hacked two women's Facebook accounts and posted on it! Haha. Seriously though, it would be really funny. If it was me, I would do it, because that is focusing on myself, because it would amuse me. There's no bitterness or resentment. It would just be funny. If you can encourage or accept a man cheating on his girlfriend on redpill, why can't you encourage or accept a man trolling on a girl?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:51 PM
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Her value system is fucked up for choosing a mate. It's good for you in this situation, but it probably indicates the other criteria in her value system are questionable and may hurt you in the long term.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:49 PM
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Tell her that you didn't know she was a Russell Peter fan, and then respond by saying "Do the right thing" in an Asian accent. source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-qtrAMK7_Qk Then make a joke that she'll be the girl who makes you consider sexual reassignment so you can't offer that at the moment. Point is, don't take it seriously.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:48 PM
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You're over thinking this. Focus on your profile and showing your mind and personality, and put up the best pictures you have to offer. Doesn't matter if they are alone or with people or what you're doing in them. Just ones that bring out the best in your features and make you look attractive and approachable/likeable.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:46 PM
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Correct her grammar and say, 'Actually, it's "may I have your number?"'
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:45 PM
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You like her, you aren't just interested in sleeping with her, correct? A girl who is in a long term relationship who will jump ship like that and cheat, is not a girl you want to end up in a long term relationship with. Unless there are some really unique aspects to her situation, this is probably not the best idea for you to risk your emotions in.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:44 PM
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Is this typical behavior for you? Do you feel remorse? Telling her would hurt her, and probably ruin the relationship. If you are in love and seriously want to marry this girl, don't tell her, especially if this was a one time thing for you. There is a moral dilemma because you broke a commitment and the trust of someone, but sometimes you need to weigh the consequences of being transparent about something. However, we should talk about you being drunk and kissing a girl. Being drunk doesn't cha…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:43 PM
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This guy is lost. Number one, he shouldn't post this on the internet. The issue is between him and his wife. He needs to resolve things with her, figure out why it happened, and resolve all the emotions and behavior behind it. What he did was not right, but even if everyone not the reddit community chastises him, reports him, vilifies him, or even tries to give him advice, nothing will change. It is really between him and his wife and they need to deal with it.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:40 PM
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What made you decide to be in a relationship with her in the first place? Were you settling, or were you satisfied with your sexual experiences and decided she was the one you wanted to invest in? If you feel like you haven't gotten just having a good time out of your system, and you don't see the ltr going anywhere, you might as well break up with her and go full force to explore yourself and enjoy yourself the way you like. Keeping her as your ltr will hinder you from doing this, and make you …
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:38 PM
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The right woman will keep her promises. If you screen the person's character and take your time to get to know them before you invest in them, then you will have a better chance of having picked the person with the right character qualities. I have made the mistake of investing in plenty of women who were not good people, and who did not have a concept of loyalty or true commitment. I also have made that mistake in investing with men who I believed were true friends, but when it came down to it,…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:34 PM
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How is it petty and bitter? Have they done anything to him? It doesn't sound like he has a personal issue with them. He went out of his way to hack into their accounts and is telling us... what was the point of that? At least there is some climax with this. Also, isn't red pill supposed to be a judgement free zone? You aren't really using any logic to explain to me why that's a bad idea. It is simply just an idea, neither good or bad.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:32 PM
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Maybe you aren't ready for an ltr? If your mind is in other places and you have other desires, you shouldn't confine yourself to an ltr that might ultimately not work out and that you aren't 100% into it. It is wasting you time and hers, and being unfair to the both of you. One thing you could try is to have more variety in bed, try new things, explore some more kinky aspects. Maybe she likes BDSM, or will try some new things with you? If you want to keep the ltr, put your focus on her. If you c…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:30 PM
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Because it will reality check them, and because it would be funny.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:16 PM
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You need to let go. The only thing stopping you is the anxiety in your mind. But remind yourself, it isn't real, and that you can do this. You need to look at yourself positively, and affirm to yourself that you are capable. As far as your size, it's not your measurements, it's your confidence and what you do with it. You can do this.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:14 PM
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The concept is good. The more porn you watch, and with greater frequency, the more desensitized you will get because of the sheer amount of stimulus porn offers that interaction with another person does not. This can hurt you. Masturbating is healthy though, and actually will reduce your risk of prostate cancer and serve as a sexual outlet for you so that you don't have to depend on getting laid to find relief. Imagine two scenarios: 1) you go on a date, and masturbate occasional so you are thin…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:08 PM
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There's a website, www.meetup.com. It's used a lot in the U.S., I'm not sure about Canada. Basically, you join and you can search groups by location. You can probably find a handful of groups that fit your interest within 20 miles of your location, so long as it's used in your area. People organize events for different sports, topics, activities, etc. You can meet like-minded people and engage in something you enjoy that way. Enjoy your holidays!
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:04 PM
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Yeah, and if she doesn't wear it, then you will have a better idea of her commitment level. Give her the bracelet, it sounds like a great gift!
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:59 PM
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That wasn't a shit test, from the way you are presenting it. That isn't the definition of a shit test. You've been seeing each other for over two months, and she completely flakes and disappears on you all day? A shit test would have been cancelling on you last minute, or telling you she made plans with her other friends etc. This is very erratic behavior. Also, she's being very emotional, and now she's deflecting and attacking you? Something else is going on. It could be that she has a personal…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:58 PM
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What are beta emotions, by your definition? I don't think the approach is to overcome an undesired emotion. The approach is to understand the thought process behind the emotion, and if it is erroneous, correct the thought. Either by "fake it until you make it", positive thinking, or logically rationalizing and reminding yourself. Thoughts <--> Emotions, it's a two way feedback street. Don't focus on blocking an emotion or ignoring it, rather, fix the thought.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:55 PM
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Did you keep your calm when you responded to her? Put a code on your phone, or if she knows it, change it. That way you won't have to physically make effort if she gets a hold of it in order to maintain your privacy or her respect for you. Do you guys live together? If you don't live together, then leave, or ask her to leave, and tell her you can talk when you calms down. Don't get upset. If you live together, it's a bit harder. You need to get away from her, but not in a way where she forced yo…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:52 PM
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Do you want more with her, or do you just want a good time with her? Have you made it clear to her, in either direction? If you just want fun and nothing serious, tell her. She'll either stick around and try harder because she wants to convince you if she wants more, re-evaluate and remain your fwb until you finds someone who will commit, or move on. If you see yourself as valuable and want to be congruent to your desires, then just be honest. If you need to lie or mislead a woman to keep her ar…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:49 PM
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That actually is not a childish question. There is a difference between emotional and irrational things a woman can say if she's upset, and a simple question when she sees she's investing in someone because she is on a different page than them. Also, how can he physically give her a hug if this is a text message?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:47 PM
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And she is going to want to stay with someone who just disregarded a serious question she had for someone she cares about?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:46 PM
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If you're going to sleep with someone you don't know, or from a bar, single or not, use a condom. Seriously. I get that it's the last thing you want to do when you're drunk, but if you want to see yourself as someone who can be relied on, and someone you can rely on for yourself, you need to protect yourself and stick to the decisions you'd normally make sober. I'm not saying you automatically are going to get an STD. It's very possible you got nothing from the girl, and your girlfriend just has…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:43 PM
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This was at a table, or at a bar? Also how many dates has it been with this person? I think out of etiquette, regardless of man or woman, if you are making initiative with someone and you choose the place (since you know the prices and they might not be able to afford it), then you should at least offer to pay the first time. That's the only exception. If you met them a the bar, you should buy drinks separately, or alternate rounds. Don't leave your card open, or just use cash. If you're at a ta…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:33 PM
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Smile, say "Yeah, I like a girl with penis envy", then squat a little bit to subtly imply that you have to stoop to her level, and turn your face to one side and say "Here, I'll even give you my good side princess."
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:28 PM
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You haven't gotten enough information in terms of her behavior to be able to make a clear decision. There are two possibilities here. 1) She has a boyfriend, but enjoys validation and attention from other men. Does she do this with all men, or just you? If it is with all men, then she just enjoys the excitement of getting someone to give her attention and fall for her. And she doesn't actually plan on doing anything with you. If she is more of a reserved girl, but this is how she behaves with yo…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:25 PM
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This is a really vague question. How old are you? And what has been going on? Need context.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:20 PM
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You're focusing on things from an external reference. This is an error. There are two kinds of people in this world, those who try, and those who do. If you need to try to get external validation by modifying your behavior until you get it, then you will constantly be receiving feedback and modifying your behavior and changing your sense of self and frame of reference in order to fit the mold to achieve these external rewards. This is the opposite of being yourself, and being happy with yourself…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:19 PM
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If you are serious and want to marry her, and your relationship is strong, then you are showing her that not all relationships will end up like her parents. Be her rock. She's old enough to not be as impacted as a child would.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:11 PM
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Only if she wants to get revenge on someone she cares about and she's unstable.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:09 PM
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This isn't a black and white issue. Text her and speak to her when you have something to actually talk about, or if you want to make plans or get to know her or share something with her. You don't need to text her 24/7 meaninglessly, but you also don't need to act like you don't have a personality or anything to say. If she is going to like you, let her like you for who you are. The only thing you can change and improve on is who you are, not how you "present" yourself to her. That's why there's…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:09 PM
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Your response couldn't have been better, honestly. If you have a girlfriend and she sleeps with another man (doesn't matter who), then you should thank the man, and dump her, because he saved you a lot of future misery and prevented you from wasting more time.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:07 PM
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Screenshot the one cheating on her boyfriend, go to Kinko's and print in bulk, then go to your school at night and let the wind carry the copies across your campus :) Same for the other girl.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:03 PM
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She's known her best friend since childhood, and has been dating OP for roughly 3 months. That's a strong ultimatum to expect her to shift her dynamic with a childhood friend for someone that quickly. I think it is better for OP to maintain frame and not worry. If she's going to cheat, she will, regardless of what OP does. The only thing OP can control is his stress levels and frame. No point in being stressed about this. If she cheats, or he suspects it, he can just move on, and it's not his pr…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:01 PM
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You shouldn't have shit where you eat, because the dynamic between you two is altered and you have to deal with her without choice because she's in the same department as you.
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You should definitely bother. Regardless of what you look like, you need confidence. No woman is going to find a guy who is 6'1, ripped, and chiseled with a good salary, but no confidence or sureness of himself attractive. Go at it while imaging yourself looking the way you want to look, and feel the confidence and learn to be that person. You'd be surprised. Good luck
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You are over thinking this. You guys have an inside joke, it's a nice gift with thought in it, not just an expensive gift. If you are happy with her and things are going well, give her the bracelet and just enjoy your life. Don't overthink things so much. The lighter is a terrible gift for Christmas.
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What kind of an exam? Have you been telling everyone about this exam? I mean, is it the MCAT or GMAT, etc, where everyone knows you took it and are expecting your scores? Or is it something like a final? I don't think someone will think you are stupid because you didn't do well on a test... That person would be stupid. Also, what is your definition of people in your question? Is it your close friends or family, classmates, or a bigger circle? Are people asking? You can discern who you tell, and …
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No, just don't keep what happened in your mind or make any decisions with that in mind, because it'll escalate the game. Play it cool, stay playful, and be subtle about it.
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Yeah just keep things the way they usually are, and the next time she tries to initiate, if she doesn't want to blow you or offer, then just don't get into it but do it subtly. If it seems like you're giving her a conditional on that, it will backfire and you'll have a headache because she will play the same game back out of spite.
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There's nothing you can do now. If she doesn't bring it up, just keep things normal and move on.
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You shouldn't have to coerce her for the blowjob. It should come from her. Sitting on her chest was a bad idea if she already said she wasn't down and made it clear. You should have just stopped when she didn't want to give it to you, put on your clothes, and moved on to do something else, implying you can wait, and that you are indifferent.
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