huolap8 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-2	Birth rates are going to keep plummeting It’s almost surreal some of the shit you see online. There’s a lot of things pushed on women, the biological urge to reproduce (that 100% of all living organisms have) is not one of them. It’s just over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 05:51 PM
6	CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriends What type of responses are you looking for here? Anecdotes to counter your anecdotes? Those women have a certain type, so what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 03:54 PM
4	Non virgin men shouldn't ask for virgin women Well, in general, women don’t care about body count nearly as much as men do so those men who care can much easily find women who don’t than vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 11:13 PM
3	The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give up What are you even disagreeing with. Red pill says you must better yourself because you have to compete for women. You’re agreeing with that, so what’s the problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 05:29 PM
–	Men also care about height Anyone who says men don’t have height preferences is a liar or delusional. The difference is that the “preference” is 1) not as strict as women’s height preference 2) the amount of women that fall outside of men’s height preference is astronomically smaller than the other way around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 06:52 PM
8	There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ? The whole point of the Pareto principle is that it can be applied to a wide variety of things. It’s not a hard and fast literal rule but rather a lose guideline that can overall show trends. Our disagreement here is whether the Pareto principle applies to dating. I say it does and is evidenced by dating apps data. Here is good evidence supporting it: Evidence Your second point is largely irrelevant because women do not respond to messages in the same rate that men do. Source from OkCupid itself	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 01:49 PM
12	There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ? Redpoll did not invent the pareto distribution, I think you’re a bit out to lunch with your claims here. Just look at online dating statistics that show the top % of men overwhelmingly get the most amount of messages and matches (inb4 dating apps aren’t real life - despite being the single highest factor for forming relationships these days).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 01:28 PM
11	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Several reasons: - Dealing with drama from her EX - Significant time and money investment because in the real world, there’s no single mother who’s not looking for help. - You will never be a priority, third string at best. - If the relationship ends and you’ve grown fond of them too bad, you have 0 parental rights. Think about it, you literally get all of the downsides of being a parent with none of the upside. If the man himself has kids from a previous relationship is the only time I understa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 07:54 PM
4	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Well if I see someone doing something that’s foolish, it’s reasonable for me to call them a fool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 07:39 PM
12	Women do get rejected by men You said all this unnecessary white knight bullshit and still missed. The only reason women are terrified of rejection is because they almost never make the active move. Women just are more risk averse than men are. That’s it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 07:32 PM
1	CMV : Muscle is cheap, and in 2023 women value genuinely rare immutable traits, such as height and face Well if your physical safety was reliant on someone else, would you feel more safe with someone that’s 5’0” 100lbs or 6’3” 220lbs? Muscle has the same effect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 08:57 PM
5	CMV : Muscle is cheap, and in 2023 women value genuinely rare immutable traits, such as height and face I don’t buy it. At 25 FFMI that’s visible muscle territory, you mean to tell me the women you’ve been with make no comments on that? Let me be clear, I don’t mean that women will start approaching you and just fall over themselves. The most they’ll do is take a cheeky glance and look away (that’s just how they are). The real difference is the genuine attraction during sex and intimate moments. How they’ll tell you they feel safe and how masculine you are to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 08:12 PM
1	CMV: it should be illegal everywhere to get sex using deception “Deception” in general is too vague a word. Not a realistic endeavour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 05:00 PM
41	CMV : Muscle is cheap, and in 2023 women value genuinely rare immutable traits, such as height and face Women report musucular men as more physically attractive, especially when it comes to short term relationships. Source Honestly you can tell who works out and who doesn’t. Building visible muscle is not easy and anyone who’s been working out for a sufficiently long time will be able to tell you the difference in treatment from both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 01:13 PM
14	Yes, muscles will get you laid. Let’s be real, are there even really people who deny that having muscles as a man increases your attractiveness? Or are we just arguing with the wind? It’s not like a +5 or anything but even going from a 5 to 5.5 helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 09:45 PM
2	As a man, when you're interacting with a woman, what is your biggest fear? You can have a fear but how substantiated that fear is can be up for debate. For example, I can be deathly afraid of sharks but if I live in the middle of the desert it’s not really a valid fear to have. You can prove your thesis in a much more convincing way by using data. You’ll find that paradoxically men are much more likely to be the victim of all sorts of violent crimes than women are. So despite being more likely to experience it, do most men walk around with a fear of being assaulted? Ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 02:03 AM
7	If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old women This discourse is only a thing online and it’s one of the dumbest most brought up topics. I thought we were past policing what two consenting adults do in the bedroom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:45 PM
–	CMV People that dont have real life Experience/functioning Social Life should not talk about Dating Strategy, it is just annoying how deluded those takes are. Yea and who’s opinion would you take more seriously: some guy who’s read 100 books on tennis but has never played or someone who’s played tennis at the highest level?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:17 PM
4	As a woman why should I get married? Not sure what you’re on about. Your second link says that marriage does indeed have an effect on depression for both men and women. Childless women are also more likely to report severe depression than mothers. Source Saying it has nothing to do with it is as inaccurate as sayings it’s only due to those two factors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:01 PM
1	Does cheating happen because of bad morals, and not because of lack of attraction? Huh? Im assuming you mean STD/pregnancy but you don’t need to be cheating to get someone pregnant or pass on an STD, single people get that shit all the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/23 09:58 PM
-2	Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women? Not meant to be better just more realistic	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 10:18 PM
-3	Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women? Would they cheat? Probably. Leave their wives? Doubtful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 10:02 PM
3	Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful? You’re just lashing out at human nature. For example, all in shape people do the same thing: eat healthy and exercise yet weight loss is a multi-billion dollar industry selling refrigerated goat semen to gullible smucks thinking “surely this is the only way to lose weight”. Most millionaires/upper class people did the same thing: increase their income and long term invest yet there are millions of people getting caught in get rich quick schemes everyday. What is obvious is ironically not obvious…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 05:00 PM
4	Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance? Did you read the link you posted? Fat was considered good because of chronic malnutrition and food insecurity the average human faced. So far = your children wouldn’t starve and you could produce milk. Clearly that is long past being an issue in the modern western world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 11:17 PM
0	Cmv : I now believe women are actually right. Maybe mens personalities are a bigger problem than I believed In a perfectly logical world it wouldn’t be a problem but the average woman rates the average man as unattractive. You can see how this would create a huge imbalance when it comes to attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 11:13 PM