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17	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels	Conversation	hurl3y4456	/r/seduction	20/10/21 05:41 AM

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1	What to do when a girl starts to criticize your appearance? Don't sweat it. I have non existent lips (paper thin) and women are often repulsed by it.	/r/seduction	05/04/22 01:40 PM
1	Why we do struggle to admit that looks matter a lot for men? Every positive attribute is grandeur in value when physical attraction increases and lesser in value when physical attraction decreases. Every negative attribute is grandeur in value when physical attraction decreases and lesser in value when physical attraction increases. As a Math Teacher, it is often the males with shitty personalities who bully others who get the most girls. They simply look good.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/22 11:52 PM
2	Why we do struggle to admit that looks matter a lot for men? LOOKS determine your perception of a person. Imagine a 30 year old man who looks like a 12 year old boy due to a genetic condition. Even if he had wit, intelligence, and charm, he would be very unsuccessful in the dating realm. Every attribute that he possesses would be perceived to be lesser in value than a very attractive man who looks mature.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/22 11:48 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Just thought it was interesting....I had way more attention from women with low T and my personality hasn't really changed. I think most women like balance or do not prefer extremes (probability wise)	/r/seduction	11/11/21 02:37 AM
0	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Yes, that's true. Its harder to find people like that but I agree that they are out there. When you said its 99% personality, it suggests looks play a sliver of a role. There is no percentage. Both play a key role in different ratios. Some place high emphasis on looks and others place low emphasis. No one places zero emphasis. Its evident that not all women prefer men who look like Bradd Pitt. It just matters that you fit within their range of attraction---whatever the range may be. For some cas…	/r/seduction	22/10/21 12:30 AM
0	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Yeah and most women fuck way more frequently than most men. There are plenty of men who don't get any which has led to the incel movement. Its not all about hate. Sometimes we get tired of lies and deception. Most women do not swipe right on many men. You think dating apps are based off personality? No, its based off a picture!!! You can't know the person until you meet them! You simply filter the options that are physically attractive based on their other attributes. Therefore , appearance open…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 10:59 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels You are stating appearance isn't a factor for all women. This indicates that women differ from all men because men are driven by it. Yeah, I know. That is why I said everyone places different emphasis on appearance. This includes both men and women.	/r/seduction	21/10/21 10:57 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels That is your ego talking...Women are different due to the hormones estrogen but men produce estrogen as well. Men are far more sensitive to estrogen than women. Men are not so far away from women. There are differences but the ego creates more separation. Your logic is faulty. If a woman who acted feminine looked like a male model did not have success with heterosexual women, it does not imply looks did not matter. What it does imply is personality is another part of the equation that must be sa…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 10:42 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels You are living in delusion. Your facial expression changes your appearance; therefore, it is a component of it. It is also connected to the inner world or shows your personality. If you are less attractive, then you must simply be more interesting overall to yield the same level of interest as a more attractive person who acts the same...This holds if there is no emotional bias....like, all attractive men are cheaters which is not true for all cases If appearance is not part of the equation at a…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 09:11 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Not 99% personality. You can't put a number on it because looks and personality are connected. Quit being delusional. Of course exceptions exist but they are very rare. I rarely ever see ugly guys with women. Most look quite masculine even if they are fat...Women place way more emphasis on the face because that is where emotions are expressed. Your facial expressions matter a lot. The inside connects with the outside. Most men are NOT ugly but avg! Women rate most men below avg...This is evident…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 07:16 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels I didn't say that. I said most cases are above avg but that doesn't mean we'll above avg....Most are closer to it than at the extremes. Marriage is more about trust....its harder to trust very attractive men.	/r/seduction	21/10/21 05:58 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Unfortunately, looks do play a large role for most cases. That is why men who date are most likely above avg in looks. Every day I go out, I rarely see an ugly male with a woman. It happens but the rarity is much higher. They don't need to be a model....Of course that is true....most men are avg looking. The better looking you are, the higher the success rate when all other variables are held constant. But you must look sufficiently attractive to them. The logic is clear. You can't have a sexual…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 03:51 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels They have pointed out the dark circles under my eyes and the shape. Nothing to do with soul. The way the face looks has a big impact on how one perceives behavior. It influences how confidence is perceived. Body language is important but it connects with the appearance. If there is insufficient physical attraction, you can't get anywhere. It must first be sufficient before the other qualities are weighed. I noticed more women like guys with meat on their bones....makes them look larger bc fat ta…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 01:21 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels I think the eye area and hair are very important to women....I have had many comments regarding my eyes being unattractive. A chiseled body is a bonus but a good body will often not compensate for an unattractive face.	/r/seduction	21/10/21 01:01 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Yeah...supplements may make a few small changes but its short term. That is why T boosters are a waste. Itd better to try and optimize the organ system to support hormone production. The body will produce what it needs. Another factor is androgen sensitivity. If very low, total T would need to be higher to compensate for a lack of receptivity.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 11:12 PM
2	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Plenty of 18 year old men have low T nowadays. There's plenty of posts on reddit verifying that. Its not the majority but more men have low T now than the past. Yeah, most supps are garbage. I don't use many supps except berberine. "Theres no way to improve liver function"...Really? Dropping alcohol would surely improve liver function. Not overeating would surely give the liver a break and assist its function. My liver enzymes decreased from 50 to 20 in 2 months after ceasing alcohol and adding …	/r/seduction	20/10/21 10:30 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels The biggest factor was reducing stress. I already stated that. My levels gradually rebounded once i took care of my body The liver plays a huge role in detoxification via the methylation cycle and hormone balance/metabolism. A poor functioning liver will have difficulty managing the metabolism of estrogen will can screw up the ratio. You need a healthy liver to efficiently break down fats. If fats are not broken down well, it could lead to inflammation. As you know , you need fat as a building b…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 10:11 PM
2	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels There's a strong connection between your health (includes mental health) and appearance. When your ill or sick, it distorts the mind in a negative way and it also negatively impacts the outer outline. Someone with high energy + euphoria + positivity is imfluencing the inner ecosystem in a + way. This will make you look better. Consider what sleep apnea does....It creates dark circles under the eyes over time and makes you look tired...People may comment on this bc that's the first thing they see…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 10:01 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Its not secondary. Looks heavily influence the initial impression. Interest due to looks comes before interest due to personality. If both variables are connected, it means the relationship is bidirectional. Looks influence how she views your vibe and your vibe influences the outline or expression (looks). A smile looks better than a frown. I treat appearance as a catalyst that spurs interest in other attributes. The other attributes like energy/vibe + humor are there to sustain interest. If you…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 09:43 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Yes. Im 6'3" 205 lbs at around 10% bodyfat	/r/seduction	20/10/21 09:36 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Explain how its not about looks at all when looks and the perception of personality are strongly linked or connected. The variables all work together in tandem. Its about probability. Life is not equally distributed	/r/seduction	20/10/21 08:22 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels It works for younger girls or women in early 20s. If you're too feminine looking, you'll have much less options as you age	/r/seduction	20/10/21 08:19 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels That means you look masculine and therefore, they expect to be dominated bc it makes them feel more feminine and validated. Its always about looks bc personality and looks are connected. Everything works in tandem. I rate myself below avg nc I've been told me face is ugly atkesst 50 times. Never one compliment or pursuit. Women are receptive to facial features bc they show your emotions. If you looked like a 10 yr old boy due to a condition, it wouldn't work out for you if you acted the same as …	/r/seduction	20/10/21 06:27 PM
2	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels I understand. If you don't pursue, then you don't know if there's latent attraction unless they directly show it I've pursued over 100 times and was rejected every time...often off the bat or told I am ugly. It takes confidence to pursue. I've had girls laugh at my jokes and tell me my personality is good but they said there was no physical spark. Most men are avg looking....When you fall well below avg, the negative side of reality opens up more frequently. If you were really an 8, girls would …	/r/seduction	20/10/21 05:58 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Thats your ego talking....How do you know? Also, the less objectively attractive you are, the more interesting you must be to sustain interest.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 04:12 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels I said "act as if"...doesn't mean it is the case. Its just my view. Yeah...If anyone is told their face is ugly numerous times, you would think it could distort the mindset in a negative way....This is why you see a disparity between attractive people and unattractive people. Unattractive people are simply more likely to become bitter for these reasons. Of course a negative mindset could destroy attraction after the initial encounter when THEY GET to KNOW YOU....But if they call my face ugly wit…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 03:44 PM
3	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels And again you act as if looks play no role. I dont obsess over it. How tf do women automatically assume so off the bat? They must be geniuses with crazy psychic abilities. I guess they say my face is ugly bc I'm obsessive	/r/seduction	20/10/21 02:37 PM
3	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Ok....just because it's not the norm doesn't mean it's not thr case. Just go to youtube and there's a load of men with this issue. Plenty of men love to believe women are infatuated with them by their actions without ever regarding the looks component.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 01:23 PM
3	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Come on man....You either believe me or not. I created a youtube video talking about it. How else would i get evidence when it happens in the moment. I can give you a few snapshots of girls calling me ugly on snapchat if you want verifiable evidence. Do you think attractive people are treated the same as unattractive people. It us evident that the more unattractive you are, the higher the probability of being called ugly. It won't happen for many cases but if you're in the right environment (aro…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 01:07 PM
2	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels In most cases at clubs or parties, i was either calked ugly or a creep or ignored completely.. unattractive men are more likely to be called creeps..its a defense mechanism ----instinctual. Most men are avg looking so they generally won't get called ugly.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 12:49 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Its mainly about the face. It works when the face looks solid. Men are different...they focus way more on body. So...high T + attractive face (attraction is objective) = high success rate or high potential for success	/r/seduction	20/10/21 12:48 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels I never dated....just been told my face is ugly. I had a girl say, " why are you acting confident, you look like shit Most of you try to circumvent and often never admit how much sexual attraction matters.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 12:46 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels I do like myself. I literally get told my face is ugly before I speak. I brush it off bc I can't control it.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 12:45 PM
1	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels I have high DHT. My estrogen is on thr high side due to high testosterone....more T = higher E. My endocrinologist said my level is typical.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 12:44 PM
5	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Yes... Bitters such as dandelion and burdock root help reduce workload of the liver and gallbladder. Taurine assists bile flow. You need sufficient bile output and low viscosity to optimize the breakdown of fats....This eliminates the potential for inflammation. Inflammation will trigger the release of cortisol, which could breakdown muscle fibers to attain extra glucose (meet higher energy demand of body) The key is to attain all the micronutrients to nourish the glands and use other herbs/supp…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 06:10 AM
5	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels I have a lot more energy and strength. My mind is clearer and sharper. I felt horrible with low T. The lethargy and weakness were the worst parts. Since the liver and gallbladder deal with methylation, detox, metabolism, and fat assimilation, it would make sense to target these organs to optimize the digestion of fats to convert into the building blocks of Testosterone. A healthy organ system implies optimized T. Not everyone needs 1000 ng/dl to be healthy. Some people are more sensitive to test…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 06:05 AM
5	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels No, I focused heavily on optimizing the organ system (liver, gallbladder, thyroid, etc). I researched extensively for 2 years. I had chronic anxiety from the ages of 16 to 18. This is what depressed my T. It took some time to rebound.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 05:57 AM
5	Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone Levels Stress reduction was a huge factor. Optimizing my diet and exercise regime in a consistent manner helped a lot. I've been at this level from the age of 25 to 30, perhaps earlier (based on bloodwork).....I felt the change in my early 20s. I tested low T at age 18. I recently tested at 870 ng/dl with a free T around 140 pg/ml (40-155). I am not arrogant, at all. After all the negative comments from women, I think my face is ugly....I was called cute when I had low T and women flirted with me. Now,…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 05:53 AM
1	Do some men just NATURALLY have higher testosterone than others? I have a lantern jaw but women still say my face is ugly. The most important features are eyes, smile (lips) and hair (eyebrows). Women are strongly receptive to emotions. Just ask them....They frequently compliment guys on these features. I rarely hear them talking about jawline compared to the other features. The jawline is a bonus.	/r/askTRP	19/10/21 01:05 AM
1	Do some men just NATURALLY have higher testosterone than others? Depends on how attractive the face is. I have a very good physique (6'3" 205 lbs 10% bodyfat) but women tell me that my face is ugly af. I can't get laid. I have very small eyes. When I'm at the gym, you cannot even see my eyes from a distance. I think that I am insensitive to estrogen because it is very difficult for me to store any fat. I have zero lips as well. The pattern is so clear. You generally notice women go for two sets of men.....Men who look masculine (bearded + large body size) or …	/r/askTRP	19/10/21 12:59 AM
1	Do some men just NATURALLY have higher testosterone than others? I'm 30 years old and my T levels have consistently been in the 800-900s range for the past 5 years. My Free T and DHT level is at the top of the scale. I have extremely vascular forearms and massive traps. I have abs even though I don't work them out. I've been accused of roids before. My body-fat level is around 10% despite having high estradiol levels (50-60 pg/ml)....DHT helps antagonize its action. The extra testosterone certainly helps, but your sensitivity to it is the most important facto…	/r/askTRP	19/10/21 12:55 AM
1	If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone? NOPE. I'm not a sexual person, in general. I rarely think of it. Yeah, women are extremely picky about looks. Hence, why most men are deemed unattractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 04:59 AM
1	If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone? Long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 04:15 AM
1	If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone? Are you talking about ALL cases? That is clearly not true. I never really craved sex, yet I know most people seem act with the objective of attaining it. Most women would love to have sex with an attractive male because they FEEL the euphoric effects to a higher degree than men. An unattractive male would NOT induce nearly that same positive effect. It is obvious why the top percentile of men are so desired. Society must push forward and be optimized for survival. The best genes will try to prev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 02:42 AM
1	If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone? I'm 6'4", 205 lbs @ 10% bodyfat and I've been rejected over 100 times with zero successes. I've had numerous women tell me that my face is ugly af.....The face is more important overall....It determines the acceptable height range. O well.....cannot control physical attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 02:39 AM
1	Blackpill = why isn't she attracted to you? Redpill = Why did she dump you? No, I've had my friends tell me that the women I pursue are not that attractive. My standards aren't that high. I certainly need more leverage in other areas (moreso than most) if my looks aren't playing much of a role. I've swiped 100% for a year on tinder with no success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 04:50 AM
1	Blackpill = why isn't she attracted to you? Redpill = Why did she dump you? I am 30 lol. Yes, I know my face is ugly because I have been told very frequently that it is the case. The probability of being called ugly increases the uglier you get. The odds of a very attractive person being called ugly is very slim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 04:34 AM
1	Blackpill = why isn't she attracted to you? Redpill = Why did she dump you? I'm 0/100+ in attempts so far....been rejected every time I go out and pursue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 04:26 AM
1	Blackpill = why isn't she attracted to you? Redpill = Why did she dump you? False. I'm 6'4" 205 lbs at 10% body fat. I have a lot of muscle and worked very hard to earn it. I have a solid career as a teacher and private tutor. I go out often and socialize. The problem----I keep getting told by women that my face is ugly. I try to engage, but I am often ignored. Not many men experience this side of reality bc most men are average looking. That is often sufficient for long term relationships provided the other factors are set.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 04:17 AM
1	Blackpill = why isn't she attracted to you? Redpill = Why did she dump you? The face determines your acceptable height range. The face is the best predictor for success, not height. Height adds to overall attraction but the value gained is NOT the same for all cases. If the face is ugly, you dont gain nearly as much leverage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 04:13 AM
1	Blackpill = why isn't she attracted to you? Redpill = Why did she dump you? I'm 6'4" 205 lbs @ 10% body fat at age 30. I've been told by women numerous times that my face is ugly. I have a solid career as a Math teacher and private tutor. I have published two academic journals and invented a math equation. Women don't seem interested at all when I attempt to engage, and would rather give me a look of disgust when they see my face or ignore me without giving me a chance to speak. This is the unfortunate reality. Your odds of success depends heavily on facial attraction. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 04:09 AM
1	Blackpill = why isn't she attracted to you? Redpill = Why did she dump you? Humans run on biological drives and instincts. It is clear that appearance drives interest because without a catalyst to induce a reaction, there would be no sexual intent. You only need personality to sustain interest which precipitated due to looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 04:08 AM
1	Blackpill is the best pill I'm 6'4 205 lbs @ 10% bodyfat, yet I've never dated and have been rejected over 100 times. I've been told by women that my face is ugly ad numerous times. Face is #1!! I was dancing next to my friend who stands 5'4" and weighs 100 lbs. He had multiple women approach him to dance. They complimented his facial features. I was a ghost even though my confidence was through the roof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 02:21 AM
1	Blackpill is the best pill I'm 6'4 and shredded. I am 30 years old and never have been approached or had sex. I've been out many times. Height is grossely over emphasized. What matters is the face. I've been rejected over 100 times. My record is 0/100+	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 02:14 AM
1	Blackpill is the best pill And so many men rave about how much height matters. I'm 6'4" 205 lbs at 10% bodyfat (=shredded) and numerous women have told me my face is ugly af. My natural T level is at the top of the range but it didn't help me get pussy. Women care most about the face (eyes, smile, and hair).	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 02:12 AM
1	Blackpill is the best pill So the fact that a small subset may hold true implies that entire set is true? Great logic	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 02:09 AM
2	Blackpill is the best pill I have an extremely chiseled face + large jawline/chin. It comes with naturally high testosterone and DHT (~ 1000 ng/dl)...Women still call say my face is ugly and point out my defect every time----my eye area. The eyes, lips, and hair (eyebrows) are the top features. The jawline certainly helps but it won't compensate for an ugly eye area.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 01:40 AM
1	Blackpill is the best pill Everything is connected. The perception of the inner world depends on the external expression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 01:39 AM
1	Blackpill is the best pill One word----EGO	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 01:37 AM
1	A argument for the next time someone says "looks is all that matter" I agree with this....You must have a decent face because any leverage in attraction due to height is a function of facial attractiveness. I'm 6'4" but women still call me ugly af. Women predominately care about three features---eyes, smile (lips), and hair. Generally, darker features are desired from a probabilistic standpoint. Nothin wrong with this....It is a biological necessity to be choosy. The probability of success is partially dependent on looks. If societal demands increase, then standa…	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/21 02:35 AM
2	A argument for the next time someone says "looks is all that matter" It exists along a spectrum. Everyone places varying degrees of emphasis on looks (0 < E < 1). Looks distorts the perception of personality AND personality distorts the perception of looks.The degree of emphasis dictates the skew. It's all connected....I was once told, "why tf are you acting confident, you look like shit." I can never seem to circumvent these negative comments regarding my appearance. It's just reality. It is often the case that we associate looks with personality. My body fat % …	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/21 02:21 AM
1	The reason why some women claim looks don't matter that much is because they subconsciously characterize certain physiological traits as a man's personality rather than a part of his looks. The difference between men and women is that women generally have a very narrow range of attraction. Tinder reinforces this fact. Men swipe on a high proportion whereas women swipe on a low proportion. This should come to no surprise due to supply/demand. Women truly find very few men physically attractive. I think this is a biological necessity. Men need to work hard to compensate in that department and hence, drive society forward. Therefore, I bet that the men you initially do not find physic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 12:37 AM
1	The reason why some women claim looks don't matter that much is because they subconsciously characterize certain physiological traits as a man's personality rather than a part of his looks. Women found 80% of men below avg on dating apps!!! This means that the man is likely objectively avg to above avg (reality), but your rating is skewed south. Looks are not so black and white. You don't just date someone with ZERO attraction. That is like a heterosexual woman dating another woman. You are simply attracted to masculine secondary characteristics. It doesn't have to be your ideal type, but the attraction must fall within your range (must be sufficient). Otherwise, a sexual relations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 09:11 PM
0	The reason why some women claim looks don't matter that much is because they subconsciously characterize certain physiological traits as a man's personality rather than a part of his looks. No, hormones alter facial elasticity. It has nothing to do with emotions lol. It may have an indirect effect, but the direct influence is marginal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 08:52 PM
1	The reason why some women claim looks don't matter that much is because they subconsciously characterize certain physiological traits as a man's personality rather than a part of his looks. It makes zero sense to associate features with personality traits, although it will always be inevitable. It seems that such snap judgements are what creates a split in behavior between very attractive people and very unattractive people (bluepill <---> blackpill). Increasing my testosterone level from the bottom of the range to the top of the range (naturally) made me a nicer and less aggressive person. People associate testosterone with anger and aggression. It couldn't be further from the tru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 08:32 PM
3	Does looks matter when in comes to dating women? Answer below! Height is overrated. I have a 5'7" friend who has women swooning after him (approaching him and complimenting his appearance) when we go out. I am a ghost in his presence despite my height being 6'4". The most important features are generally eyes, smile, and hair...	/r/seduction	23/01/21 10:07 PM
1	Does looks matter when in comes to dating women? Answer below! Looks and personality are NOT mutually exclusive. Physical attraction is a catalyst that spurs interest in ALL other attributes. This is why a woman will experience a stronger emotional response when a very attractive male walks into the room (increased body temperature, dopamine surge, increased heart rate, etc). You need a spark to ignite a fire (physical attraction), but you need ingredients (oxygen + wind +....) to maintain the blaze (personality).	/r/seduction	23/01/21 10:04 PM
1	Is testosterone in a man always a good thing for his SMV? Most women prefer a good mix of masculine to feminine features. Generally, the extremes are not ideal, but the possibility is still there. Find the right niche/environment such as academics or local group and I guarantee your success level will improve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/21 05:46 AM
1	What blue pill lies do you hate the most? Ironically, most people act to fit into a norm. We can never truly know ourselves- an aggregate of externally processed ideas.	/r/askTRP	08/01/21 01:53 AM
1	LOOKS MATTER BUT if you can’t find even one woman that likes you for you then there’s something wrong with your personality. You probably have a personality flaw or extremely high standards (see 99.99% of incels) Everyone has a personality flaw. The probability of success is dependent on the standard. Standards are increasing rapidly because the traits required from survival are adding up (more variables in a progressively expanding society). Looks are a huge proponent because there has to be a minimum threshold that is satisfied for the personality traits to be considered via receptivity (reward signaling). Higher physical attraction without bias implies higher receptivity (more reward feedback). Theref…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/20 04:34 AM
1	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! There are always going to be end limits that continually changes (expands or contracts). The two sides of the poles. In this case, if the line segment represented 0 to 1 (0% emphasis on looks to 100% emphasis), then you'd lie at the lower endpoint. The majority would then be within the range provided outliers exist. I may be skeptical but I do not deny the possibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 03:18 AM
2	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! Yes, I agreed with you there...Still hard to process the 100% emphasis on personality alone, but I have only experienced my life...This would mean that when you first met, there was no ounce of attraction based on looks. I agree that beyond the initial meeting, personality holds everything together and looks no longer play the role...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 03:08 AM
2	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! Ok...Fluid was the wrong word...I meant that you are open to accept other characteristics aside from the superficiality of looks or money, which are quite narrow. We are all shallow to some degree. I've told myself before that I am not a certain way. Then I realized I am a hypocrite... It all lies on a spectrum...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 02:56 AM
1	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! I deleted comment because I meant to say fluid in terms of what attracts you (misinterpreted meaning). This implies low standard. Not trying to insult you in any way...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 02:41 AM
0	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! I still find it hard to believe it has zero influence. I do agree that some woman place a lot more emphasis on personality. It's a spectrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 02:31 AM
1	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! If that's the case, I wonder if you'd date a woman with the same personality as your man....Receptivity to personality is a function of looks. If the relationship were asexual, I could agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 02:20 AM
0	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! Woman have many options, so there is a higher propensity to divorce. Also, the extremes (positive side) are displayed at a much higher frequency. I think this should increase the overall standard or expectation. It's interesting that we have access to so many rewarding opportunities and experiences, yet we have to shift to the next activity in rapid succession because our dopamine feedback is changing. I know woman highly value security, confidence, drive, assertiveness because these traits dict…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 09:32 PM
0	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! This pattern is continually repeated..." I’ve definitely dated people not my type." That is BULLSHIT. You have a standard, which defines a type of guy who meets the minimum requirement. If your current boyfriend took estrogen therapy before you met, would you date him? Probably not unless you are attracted to woman. Therefore, he was your type in some regard...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 09:18 PM
0	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! Probably why men who are relatively average in the looks department tend to be funny or have great personalities. They must compensate for the lack in one department to excel in another department. The men at either extreme tend to put much less work (one side giving up and the other side gaining easy validation).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 09:11 PM
1	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! Very true. I likely suffer asperger's syndrome, and do not reciprocate emotions in a typical manner. Therefore, I do not validate woman very well, if at all. But then again, woman have called me ugly various times, so I do not waste energy anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 09:05 PM
1	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! Another factor is money, which essentially equates to looks at the surface level (initially). The personality dictates what follows beyond that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 09:03 PM
1	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! The receptivity of personality traits is a function of looks. Once the precondition is satisfied (looks meet minimum requirement), then there exists a probability. Now, if you do not meet the standard initially due to looks, then you can mediate it to a degree such that you attain success. Why? Because personality traits alter the perception of looks in either the positive or negative direction. But here's the catch. The amplitude of change is proportional to looks. Therefore, if there is a stro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/20 08:59 PM