hushpuppyebt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	What is this the FDS take on “free the nipple” movement? I agree. I sometimes don’t wear a bra but it’s not some stance and am not sharing my lack of underwear to the world just like I wouldn’t show off my underwear lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/22 04:21 PM
115	Getting to see men's true colors after some pictures of me were used in an advertising campaign. When a man goes out of their way to look you up on Instagram, look them up on Linked In.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 06:08 PM
3	Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ? The ring is nice at least. Diamond and emerald situation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/22 04:40 PM
61	Stay at home dads vs stay at home mums I read a post where a man said he had been intentionally teaching his toddler the wrong definition of new words for FUN because he found being a stay at home dad boring!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 04:31 PM
18	I’m so sick of hearing praise for the most basic behaviour Honestly good behavior from men to women means nothing. If they are sharing and encouraging that behavior to other men despite the flack, that’s a little less nothing, still not quite something.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/21 03:25 PM
19	If you found yourself starting to NAG your man - LEAVE. Yes you should definitely leave if you start feeling “naggy” bc it means you’re not being heard. My husband just told his brothers over the holiday that nagging is not a thing they just didn’t listen the first time or won’t just admit when they forgot something.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/21 03:05 PM
49	👀 There are tons of the romance novels I’ve read contain LV leads, include degradation masked as kink, and are actually written by men using women’s names as nomme de plume. I found that out when I was 16 and explained so much. Now I google the author before taking a book home with me and that usually helps, but let’s not forget the ultimate abuse fantasy, 50 shades.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/21 04:00 PM
14	Ben Affleck casts blame on Jennifer Garner for his drinking problem Imagine being his kids too. “Do I stay for the kids?” It’s any one’s fault but their own.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/21 03:53 PM
33	For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery? To many dudes out there saying that cunnilingus is gross but expect daily hummers	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/21 04:50 PM
72	Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural” It’s called Diminished Gluteal Syndrome… otherwise know as Hank Hill butt hahah	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 07:05 PM
33	Why do men think that saying "enjoy being single forever" is supposed to insult us? That line is the most clear projection. The fear of being alone forever is so horrific.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 07:21 PM
15	How do you handle exes who, whilst not harassing you directly and having no contact with you, are still acting in strange ways around friends you have in common? Crying to/in front of them, tirades about missing you, asking them to deliver messages, etc? I realized that anyone delivering messages on behalf of exes was not my friend. Especially if they didn’t stop when I told them too. I had one girl actually think that I should be super flattered that some dude was crying in Texas because I was happily married states away. Tf.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/21 05:31 PM
133	Testing for "sexual compatibility" is a bullshit lie to cross boundaries and get sex Let’s be honest, testing “sexual compatibility” is possible without full on intercourse. Bc if a man can’t make you orgasm without his penis then he definitely wouldn’t be able to do it with it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 03:14 PM
16	A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls” I couldn’t agree more!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 06:38 PM
5	Taylor Swifts - All Too Well (short film) I’m glad it has other interpretations. And I think teenager me that heard it then is eclipsing who I am today makes me read it differently.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 06:31 PM
-26	Taylor Swifts - All Too Well (short film) I know it’s old music. I was telling my sister that I was 16-19 during the Fearless to Red era. But I’m a grown woman now and judging the new content from my perspective.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 03:18 AM
-45	Taylor Swifts - All Too Well (short film) I know it’s easy to be like “oh it’s cautionary” but all I see is a romanticization of enmeshment beyond the end of the relationship. Like sorry Taylor I love you and your style and amazing pop hooks, but Mr. Red Scarf is living in your head as rent free as he wanted to live in your actual apartment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 03:01 AM
12	What's the best gift you received by a HVM? Once my husband, then boyfriend, tagged along in an optometry appointment of mine so we could go to lunch after. Only instead of lunch, he took me to an unplugged performance of a band we both liked. Normally you would have had to see this group at a sizably venue, this was just in a record shop. Tiny desk style! It was the coolest thing ever and such an awesome unique experience to gift. In the same breath as that grand gesture, some of the other most thoughtful gifts come after he leans over w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 10:12 PM
28	New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing. Love to see an ego so fragile it’s threatened by a dead person. /a	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 03:57 PM
2	Guy I was talking to defends his misogynistic comments and covers them up as banter and jokes with his friends and tells me if I won’t accept him then to leave which I did. I can’t accept him for who he is because I don’t reward pornsick, misogynists It’s funny because we know that the whole “if you can’t accept me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best” was toxic pick me bullshit. But here’s this guy with that energy. Not realizing his best would still be awful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 04:10 PM
100	Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him. She’s creating bad habits for herself just to play petty oneupsman games with a NVM. As the saying goes, lay down with dogs, stand up with fleas.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/21 02:29 PM
150	Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens. “My two other marriages were with actors, and I don't think we did a great job of eliminating competitiveness” -Anna Faris Also note that Chris only mentions his daughter here, not his son, who this woman is the still the stepmother of.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/21 02:25 PM
24	California condors remind us not to settle That’s so cool! What’s a fitting username for bird facts too! Thanks for sharing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 06:37 PM
30	California condors remind us not to settle Something must have biologically compelled the condor at the time because once the population was genetic diverse and healthy, sexual reproduction continued. So this is definitely more like saying great partner or no partner, I’ll be fulfilled in life so there’s no compromise.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 06:11 PM
127	California condors remind us not to settle I find it interesting that both of the asexually produced eggs were males. They mentioned it happened when the population was smaller, so maybe it was out of genetic necessity to further diversify the lot. This is so cool! They created better more genetically beneficial males for healthier future generations.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 03:01 PM
44	Why staying in a toxic relationship makes you NV (lower than LV) when you have children My mom left my dad because his mask slipped the moment I hit puberty and she probably started preparing to leave the first time he slut-shamed me, because she bounced with us daughters so quick my little sister doesn’t even remember the bullshit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/21 03:22 PM
2	FDS is BACK! Yay! I have been missing y’all all week! Thankyouuuu	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 02:16 PM