huttimine Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Many men losing interest in women Of course, I never said it's just about components, just that compliments sometimes are a part of a relationship. At least that's me, <shrug>.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 08:15 PM
1	Many men losing interest in women Not appearance, but about a few things, yes. If that's sad, so be it. Why is it sad though, just curious?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 07:37 PM
1	Many men losing interest in women Friendships are literally the one safety net for men (and some women) if/when they're doing abysmally in their love life. Unfortunately these days friends aren't that close and hence romantic partners are more of a need.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 11:13 AM
1	Many men losing interest in women Um men need some validation in their lives too, hello? Otherwise there isn't a point in being with women in a relationship honestly, many of us don't want sex so badly that we'll put up with emotionally cold partners, despite the stereotype.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 11:07 AM
1	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. The title of this post has this important word "extremely". Nobody is disputing that selectivity is higher in human females just like other females of species. The claim is that women are more selective than is viable with equal populations and monogamy. The rest of your post has a lot of denial of my assertions without any elaboration. I'll skip on "sex is a need" for now. There's nothing that needs to be "justified," because my lack of attraction isn't wrong. I don't need to "reason" it any mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/24 03:23 AM
1	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. No, I'm saying men can learn/autosuggest attraction in themselves to someone who they didn't find too attractive but ticks other boxes. This isn't having lower standards for attraction to begin with. For YOU attraction is this visceral uncontrollable force you're a full slave to. Naturally you're going to defend the sacredness of your choice and the absolute lack of a need for reasoning anywhere there. Since I and many men aren't quite slaves in this way, we are sort of capable of encouraging ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 12:06 AM
1	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. What? I'm confused. I just told you that IMO men don't seem to be as helpless in which women they're attracted to, as women seem to be helpless in which men they're attracted to. IOW men are able to generate attraction in themselves for otherwise good women who aren't that hot. You imply women can't do the same. Therefore I said women kinda have to/should put up with men they aren't attracted to. What is convenient for who here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 11:35 PM
1	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. Since you (again, like every woman ever) imply that you have zero ability to understand or influence your attraction at a conscious level.... You're pretty much right in what you wrote ("morally" but obviously not legally or practically). Are you sure you're blue pilled? Before you ask, no it's not like that for a lot of us men. We have the little head giving inputs, and then we have the conscious mind telling us things, and the latter has some decent leverage over the former, not complete thoug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 11:24 PM
–	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? Right so women are as animate as lego blocks. So it's not okay for me to get frustrated about lack of action on climate change as well because the governments are also like Lego blocks? (They're even worse in my opinion though)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 09:06 AM
1	Q4Men: Would you be mad if your friend didn’t let you stay overnight at his house after a bad experience with a house guest that overstayed? If not, then why be bitter if a woman has boundaries that she may not have had in the past? Just told you - I'm okay with x, y, z, not a, b, c. Partner 1 does a, whimper but accept. Partner 1 continues doing a, I continue whimpering and accepting, without there being any coercion/blackmail/threat being involved. Then partner 1 and I break up. Partner 2 comes along and does a, I immediately make it a huge dealbreaker. I'm changing my definition of rape. Or I'm okay with rape by some partners but not by others. Pick one, but doesn't change the outcome "unacceptable".	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 07:04 AM
0	Q4Men: Would you be mad if your friend didn’t let you stay overnight at his house after a bad experience with a house guest that overstayed? If not, then why be bitter if a woman has boundaries that she may not have had in the past? How are you getting this? The point is men want women to have one definition of rape to apply to all their long term partners. Most men here will happily abide by it, they don't want to be rapists, they don't enjoy it either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 06:49 AM
-2	Q4Men: Would you be mad if your friend didn’t let you stay overnight at his house after a bad experience with a house guest that overstayed? If not, then why be bitter if a woman has boundaries that she may not have had in the past? Lol no. Certain men just think that their partners lose the right to claim rape for some of their actions, if they've been unwilling to claim rape for the same actions by their previous partners. Long term partners have to all be treated equally. No tiering allowed. Don't women tend to say the equivalent when they want the whole deal - gifts, caring, sacrifice, love, making them feel special - no matter if they were not high-value in my life before? No matter what they brought to the table from …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 06:40 AM
-1	Q4Men: Would you be mad if your friend didn’t let you stay overnight at his house after a bad experience with a house guest that overstayed? If not, then why be bitter if a woman has boundaries that she may not have had in the past? If she tried anal with the previous guy once or twice, didn't like it and never tried again, then it's okay unless the new guy has a thinner dick that warrants another try. If the previous guy forced/coaxed himself on her anally when she didn't like it, and she warned him off and he never forced himself again, then okay. If previous guy forced anal, she didn't like and told him off, he persisted, and then she dumped him, then okay. If he forced anal, and she didn't like and told him off, but he …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 06:07 AM
1	Q4Men: Would you be mad if your friend didn’t let you stay overnight at his house after a bad experience with a house guest that overstayed? If not, then why be bitter if a woman has boundaries that she may not have had in the past? That isn't what he meant and i think you know it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 05:48 AM
2	Q4Men: Would you be mad if your friend didn’t let you stay overnight at his house after a bad experience with a house guest that overstayed? If not, then why be bitter if a woman has boundaries that she may not have had in the past? Helps to soften the blow I think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 05:43 AM
1	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? Is that really the choice you face due to which you can't change your preferences? Maybe what you're saying is that in your eyes, any man who isn't in top physical and financial shape is no different from any other such man. That is, you find no difference between average men and low value men. Either men are high value, or they're trash. This could actually explain somethings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 05:34 AM
–	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? Are you sure you're bluepill? What about men struggling to find any woman for a long term monogamous relationship, marriage not being thought of yet? What about men looking for women of similar relative attractiveness (as judged by polls, hypothetically) for the above?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 05:26 AM
–	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? The whole point here at discussion is between whether average men are having it exceptionally hard. Everyone agrees the most attractive men have it easy. Everyone agrees that the least attractive men face huge difficulties. But bluepillers claim average men would have it easy but most such men have below average "changeable" characteristics like hygiene and kindness or whatever. Red pillers claim average men have it pretty hard but improving some changeable characteristics can help boost their c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 05:23 AM
–	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? Do you really think men have gotten frustrated because they haven't been able to date models (onlyfans/insta/"real")? The absurd selectivity is seen even in the "good" girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 05:13 AM
1	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? Did you just hear yourself? Are you being sarcastic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 05:04 AM
–	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? Look I really appreciate her answer and side with it, but in this sub's context it isn't balanced at all. She literally has a redpill flair as well. It's a redpill answer, not a moderate one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 04:51 AM
1	Very few if any men fit this weird definition women rattle off of “thinking women owe them sex” Nobody said men need to change nothing. The attitude with both "old" and "new" manosphere attitudes are that women are behaving in a certain unfair and destructive way, the old action point was that since you can't change it, change only oneself to deal with it. The new action point, made by less seasoned men, is that women should take some accountability. Now that's just a description, I'm not an adherent. The point I'm trying to make is that you're trying to frame all problems as needing to be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 04:47 AM
1	Very few if any men fit this weird definition women rattle off of “thinking women owe them sex” You're the most ridiculously blue pilled fuck I've ever read on the internet. Men and women are humans. They're allowed to be a little imperfect, where "little" includes being angry but not rape or assault. Men should be this, that, and few hundred other things.... Dude listen to yourself and ask if all those men around you are checking every box!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 08:17 AM
1	What is up with the term “tingles”? My comment did not distinguish between men and women at all. And I feel the desire and engage in sex too, its just that I find it odd to call it the "adultest of adult" activities. It feels great to me, but childish nevertheless. I am not disagreeing with your main thesis at all, so chill. In fact I agree, being horny shouldn't be derided for women while glorified for men. Except that men recognise their own sexual desires as being totally unreasonable. A prominent part of the comments is talkin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 01:43 PM
1	What is up with the term “tingles”? Why is it so important that no reasoning or further understanding is attained of "WHY" such interest/inhibition changed? If what he's doing is projecting, what's the right way of better understanding it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 06:45 PM
1	What is up with the term “tingles”? But much of sex and flirtation feels pretty childish! Like if sex were not kept away from young children (for very valid reasons of protecting them from the addictive&damaging nature of it), I feel sex would be a perfect activity for children. Very physical, unreasonable, and uncontrolledly emotional. Tell me, how do you feel sex is like any other adult activity? Now the dating and "chasing", yes it has adult overtones to it, but teenagers do it as well. Guess what ONLY adults do? The grave stuf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 06:40 PM
1	Don't Be Mr. Technical. Understand and Apply Blunt Force Game. The video is not labeled as such, but it's a perfectly clear demonstration of how the blunt approach might work : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9UYqiiYT48 . the chick literally is caught red-handed. I am not american, so I cannot detect if it is fake. Can someone with a good nose for it check it out? With what limited redpill experience I have, I feel this video illustrates that a "technical" approach is less successful than the "blunt" approach. IOW, instead of being a BP guy at heart and "f…	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/15 08:44 AM
1	Why are creative types more attractive to women? While there are some like this, I'm sure this isn't large enough to say nerds deserve what they're getting.	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/15 08:35 AM
0	NYTimes subtly announces change in support for feminism in 2015 Makes a lot of sense. Most of all, thanks for the optimism.	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/15 07:29 PM
1	Why are creative types more attractive to women? All this makes me think : Shouldn't it also work for Science? I mean, real dedicated scientists for whom their work/research is first, and the woman is almost incidental? Because I think these people are not that uncommon. But scientists are not spoken of by women in the same way as artists... Why? Is it because science is irreparably considered boring.?	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/15 02:49 PM