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4	Would you approach men if it'd eliminate the problems with men approaching It's both the genders' business. Majority of grass touching men aren’t completely petrified of approaching women. They just prefer clearer signals. You can give clearer signals while still maintaining your passive role in heterosexual interactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 11:34 PM
8	What do you define as flirting? First of all, shitting where you eat is always a bad idea. Literally one of the dumbest things you can ever do as a man so I don't know why it always comes up when the topic of flirting comes up. How hard is it not to hit on coworkers ffs? Second, the real reason most men don't want to "endlessly try" is because of psychological fatigue and ego. Which is itself entirely valid but fears of a harassment accusation or allegation are overblown.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 11:09 PM
2	Would you approach men if it'd eliminate the problems with men approaching I agree but it's also a two way street. Wasn't it you that wrote that long comment a few weeks ago about what "female game" actually looks like? Basically IOIs like you just mentioned, plausible deniability, and men needing to pick up on those signals. Some men will approach every and any woman. These are the sources of nearly all "creepy guy" complaints Some men won't approach any women (i.e. the overly passive and shy men) Most men operate in the middle and are waiting for a clear enough signa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 10:47 PM
1	Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have it But "oh my goood she did not notice me what a fucking bitch/my life is over/she will never notice me/I have to be a dancing monkey" is not an effective negotiation technique That's not what I'm saying, obviously. Being expected to not take no for answer and to "try harder" feels like a toxic game to me and most guys who would read that. Why would you even entertain the possibility of getting with a guy that isn't putting out the "effort" you want? Why waste your (and his) time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 10:28 PM
8	Would you approach men if it'd eliminate the problems with men approaching Meanwhile, men do not approach me at all, and it sucks. How are you signaling you want to be pursued, if at all? This is pretty much the fundamental basis of "game" on the woman's end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 10:17 PM
7	Would you approach men if it'd eliminate the problems with men approaching Based and incel-factory-pilled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 10:13 PM
9	The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is generally attractive to women isn't reasonably obvious For this to be the case ‘feminists’ will have to have never birthed an attractive charismatic son, she will have had to birth nothing but unattractive socially awkward possible neurodivergent sons. Statistically speaking that just seems pretty impossible to do. Never made the claim that it never happens. Strawman. Again let’s see some sources. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/07/07/61-of-u-s-women-say-feminist-describes-them-well-many-see-feminism-as-empowering-polarizing/ Wait you thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 07:59 PM
2	Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past? you’d be surprised how many men lose their virginity this way in foreign countries. Can we get a source on that please?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 07:52 PM
10	The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is generally attractive to women isn't reasonably obvious People are products of their environments and home environments can vary widely. None of this should be shocking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 07:46 PM
14	The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is generally attractive to women isn't reasonably obvious Yes, because most women in the US ages 18-40 when surveyed said the word "feminist" describes them either "somewhat well" or "very well". https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/07/07/61-of-u-s-women-say-feminist-describes-them-well-many-see-feminism-as-empowering-polarizing/ The point is "feminism" isn't the core reason for why there are a rise in incels. Certain subsets of feminism are hostile to the concept of deterministically driven, sex based behavioral trends and preferences, the denia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 06:41 PM
18	The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is generally attractive to women isn't reasonably obvious For this to be the case ‘feminists’ will have to have never birthed an attractive charismatic son, she will have had to birth nothing but unattractive socially awkward possible neurodivergent sons. Statistically speaking that just seems pretty impossible to do. No, it's the fact that single mothers produce awkward incel-y sons. The fact that most single mothers are feminist is mostly correlative, but the lack of fathers present in the home to impart lessons for dating is the main factor. Growing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 06:12 PM
1	Why aren't more RP/Black Pillers Anti-capitalist? Were the problems that I listed under capitalism specifically. Corruption isn't necessary to mention under capitalism because the purpose of capitalism is for private individuals to profit indefinitely. It's not corruption if that is the literal definition of the system. My point is they're overlapping. So making a broad, generalizing statement like "capitalism is responsible for all of the above problems" is stupid when corruption and government mismanagement can just as easily cause the proble…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 08:32 PM
1	Why aren't more RP/Black Pillers Anti-capitalist? All of the problems that I've described are caused by capitalism, it's a fact. Really? All? Don't see anywhere in your definition of capitalism mentioning corruption, which has existed throughout all of history. You don't think that has contributed to some of the problems you've described?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 08:13 PM
1	Why aren't more RP/Black Pillers Anti-capitalist? Cool, so then you can't blame capitalism for the problems you described since all nearly all national economies are mixed in one way or another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 07:38 PM
3	Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have it The only "negotiable" (if you even want to call it that) aspect of women's attraction towards men is familiarity/comfort. That's the main reason you see average men with beautiful women (i.e. the "just be first" rule). Sometimes "no" is a "I'd rather lick my own anus then kiss you" and sometimes it means "yes, but I want you to try harder than this" No self-respecting man is going to play these kinds of games. Either give the guy a shot if he isn't displaying any glaring red flags in hopes of bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 07:25 PM
1	Why aren't more RP/Black Pillers Anti-capitalist? Capitalism is not incompatible with government intervention or aid. Even the "Nordic Model" with strong social safety nets is at its core, capitalist in the way they allow businesses to be run organized. The % of people living in extreme poverty has dropped from 36% in 1990 to 10% in 2015. I wouldn't call that dystopian. And you have yet to say what alternative economic model.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 07:13 PM
1	Is voice an underrated factor in determining a man's attractiveness? And that's why I got my voice surgically altered lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 11:59 PM
3	Why aren't more RP/Black Pillers Anti-capitalist? Conceptualizing any other economic model is sacrilegious to these people. Except those other alternative models have already been tried, not just conceptualized. It's like any other religion, blindly believe in some arbitrary reward that is highly unlikely to happen. Getting a lot of "false consciousness" vibes here. Marxism, Marxist Socialism, and its distant estranged cousin Fascism all descend from the common ancestor of neo-Hegelianism, which makes them more akin to a pseudo-religion posturi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 11:51 PM
2	The last posts about intimacy and standards show how disconnected women is from the average men reality and how discussion is mainly a pointless effort Yeah, I'll concede on that. If a woman is commenting on a difficulty or problem, whether societal or personal, you can always count on at least one guy chiming in about how men have it worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 09:56 PM
3	The last posts about intimacy and standards show how disconnected women is from the average men reality and how discussion is mainly a pointless effort How often do you actually see women talk about their own loneliness, vulnerabilities, and insecurities on here vs men? I don't see it very often, and when I do it's almost always reframed in the package of being "strong and independent". There was one mid 30s woman who commented a while back about her husband leaving her for a younger, hotter woman. How, if given the choice, she would trade her high paying career and her intelligence to be that younger woman if it meant feeling that love from he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 09:10 PM
2	Average women who somehow scored a very attractive man a few years earlier who left them and now they won’t lower their standards But I do think each person on an individual level should do some introspection about what they truly want out of life and if/how a partner plays a role in that. At a certain point in the delusion, it stops becoming a "partner" and more of an atm/sex machine. There is no mention of building of a life together, no overcoming adversity, no mutual support. Only my needs, my desires, my wants and what a man can do to satiate them. Me, me, me. That type of woman is fundamentally no different than the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 07:57 PM
2	Baywatch star Donna D'Errico reveals that she’s lonely and unloved 🥱 Like listening to a Google recruiter complain about not finding any good candidates.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/11/22 07:01 PM
1	By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege. I quoted your own words and interpreted them at face value. How does that show lack of reading comprehension?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 11:12 PM
5	By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege. Women are the only ones that have extensive skincare routines, undergo dangerous plastic surgery and regularly wax their entire body. 🙄 I'm a dude and I'm 2.5/3 on these (partial credit on the last one because I wax my dick, balls, asscrack, nostrils, and get my eyebrows threaded). Also please. Most women do not regularly wax their entire bodies. Body hair maintenance is seasonal for the overwhelming majority of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 08:42 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your account is blocked from opening a chat, you'll have to request me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 11:39 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Bruising is pretty much gone. The worst part was trauma from the endotrachial intubation for the general anesthesia. My uvula was turning white and sloughing off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 11:36 PM
7	The concept of "pretty boys" or "feminine men" in the dating world I like to think of the female gaze like this: Generally speaking, there seems to be little disagreement between men and women and what makes a woman physically attractive, and I think this is because we all agree that the more feminine a woman is, the more attractive she is in the conventional sense. The problem is that many men take that same criteria and apply it onto masculinity and a man's perceived attractiveness. So many men will erroneously believe that the more masculine a man is, the mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 11:34 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Privacy reasons I guess. There's also just some very spiteful people on this sub and I'd rather not give them any ammunition or way to link to my real life identity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:58 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread $12k	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:55 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread 3 weeks post op from my rhinoplasty. If anyone cares to see before & after pics, DM me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:43 PM
1	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? Yeah, I don't doubt that. This is very much a product of Western beauty standards dominating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 08:04 PM
2	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? There is a surgery that change your eye color. It works by lasering away the melanin in your irises so it only goes from brown to blue. I don't think it works on people with very dark brown eyes though (for example if you are east Asian or southeast Asian).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 07:16 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nope, that's not what I'm saying. These situations are pretty much always case-by-case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 06:10 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Therapy would also help. Physical changes to said specific physical insecurities usually don't help body dysmorphia (e.g. anorexia as a subset of body dysmorphia). I think any decision involving permanent body changes at that age should be taken with extreme caution, because teens are still trying to figure out who they are and they might go on to regret it later. I have no "one size fits all" opinion for when gender affirming care for minors would be considered acceptable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 06:08 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread But because I listened to my friends and talked to him about a fictional another guy, now every invite will be passed along to him. Ah, the classic Cosmopolitan type advice that actually does the opposite of what you intended. I'm guessing their advice was something along the lines of "mention another guy to make him jealous"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 05:23 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread If she can afford it, is there any reason for a girl to not get her tits removed? Yes. We're increasingly seeing body dysmorphia being misdiagnosed as gender dysphoria, especially when it comes to teen girls' self-consciousness about their breast size.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 05:18 PM
1	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking To be fair, lack of sociosexual development is even harder to change than looks, since the train has basically already left the station.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 06:12 PM
7	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking If they're very ugly or fat, yes you're correct in that they probably already know. Usually it's the people in the 4-6/10 range that think they're more attractive than they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:30 PM
12	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking Most people overestimate their attractiveness. Except for attractive people. They usually know they're attractive. I used to think I was a 6-7 until I got rated by strangers and realized I was more of a 4-5. It sucks but at least I narrowed down what my flaws are so I can get them surgically corrected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:28 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I thought I was a 6.5/7 until I got my face rated by some strangers. Turns out I was way overestimating and I'm more of a 4 or 5 currently. After, idk maybe an actual 6.5. My midface isn't compact enough to go any higher than that, most likely. Hairline is also way too high even though I'm not balding yet. I'll send you some photos if you're really curious and you can be the judge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 09:17 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Rhinoplasty (which is happening in a few days) and a Type 3 Thyroplasty (makes your voice deeper). I may go with midface implants to go with the canthoplasty depending on how expensive they are. Jaw implants are a stretch goal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 09:12 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread That's my third procedure I'm getting done. Supposed to cost around $20Kish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 09:00 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Have you considered dunking your head in talcum powder?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 12:11 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Then no one should notice the makeup I'd be using to cover it up either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 07:54 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Scar gels help but won't completely make the scar disappear. It would be a pretty small spot on my neck, nothing too excessive or conspicuous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 07:37 PM
1	"Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice I don't agree with any type of blanket advice. Each person's aesthetic potential is dependent on numerous factors, and for a lot of guys, cosmetic surgery probably isn’t worth it. Likewise, each person's path to achieving their relationship/sexual goals are going to be different depending on what their goals actually are and what hand they've been dealt in life. From my point of view and in my experience, opportunities to meet single women are pretty scarce, and I have a mixed gender friend grou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 07:34 PM
1	"Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice I didn't save the comment but there was one guy on a post about a year ago that said he had work done and noticed a big change. I don't remember his username so you're probably not going to believe me. I'm getting some work done myself in the near future but I'm managing my expectations. I'm not expecting to turn into GigaChad or anything, just running into some natural limitations that mewing and chewing can probably no longer remedy. I know it's not a replacement or compensation for a bad/bori…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 07:16 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, never heard of it. I'll look into it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 06:34 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's not a cyst, it's an elective surgery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 06:33 PM
1	"Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice Dudes who actually went through reconstructive surgery and suddenly got hot? Anyone? Anyone got any examples at all? I wouldn't say "suddenly got hot" but definitely showed significant aesthetic improvement. Most surgeons portfolios focus on their area of expertise. In this example you can see a dramatic improvement of the patient's eye area. This patient showed dramatic improvement in his lower third and jaw profile in a surgery that fixed a pretty dramatic overbite. Submental liposuction can h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 06:32 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I'm a dude. The scar is.... idk if I should be embarrassed about why it's there. PM me for more details.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 05:59 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Do those stores usually allow you to sample a few before buying?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 05:58 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Q4W: I'm going to have a scar that's going to need covering up. What's the best way/resource to match a foundation to my skin tone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 05:51 PM
1	Do men lose attraction to their partners over time? I work in a blue collar trade which, according to the prevailing sentiment expressed here, is full of misogynistic, uneducated, tradcon men that would cheat on their wives in a heartbeat. All of them have pretty happy marriages and not once have I heard my bosses or coworkers bad mouth their wives. The closest I've ever heard them get to "locker room talk" was them talking about who their celebrity crushes in the 90s were.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 09:22 PM
1	Q4W - What are common complaints men have about women and what do you do to break the mold? It's really not that uncommon for men getting a consistent supply of good sex to not watch porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 06:26 PM
7	Ladies, let's talk about....hair! This is not very good advice. If you are a man and you notice you're starting to lose your hair, there may be ways to reverse it, but only if you catch it early enough. They usually involve microneedling + minoxidil/finasteride. Topical clascoterone (already FDA approved as Winlevi for treating acne, but not for hair loss) is also showing really strong potential for early hair loss reversal and will probably be coming to market in the next year. If you shave it off, it may not be possible to rev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 06:11 AM
1	Women's standards are very reasonable No love life, Proof please no justification for your beliefs, Oh I wasn't aware we were having a discussion about my beliefs. I thought we were talking about your weird comment. What a weird non-sequitur. no grasp of how you're in your own way I wasn't complaining? Cope harder, little dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 01:56 PM
1	Women's standards are very reasonable Just saying, your comment has very "m'lady" vibes. More for me 🤢🤮 Perfect example of a guy posturing as a feminist and it coming off as pandering, weird, and creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 01:49 PM
1	Women's standards are very reasonable demo of incredible women Yeah, that's cringe as fuck dude. You honestly sound like a neckbeard. No woman is "incredible" by simply being part of a demographic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 10:50 AM
10	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? It isn't the answer. I and many other men I know would probably check most of the boxes and I can still see why some men would struggle. It mainly has to do with the fact that women are much much less interested in dating and going out to meet men when they're single. Which is perfectly fine (I'm sure this will get spun as me feeling like I'm entitled to women's attention), but that imbalance is going to result in some men being left behind. I also don't see a corresponding drop in societal expe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 03:52 PM
6	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? Damn, this hits almost every Just World Fallacy talking point I've seen. I should really make BINGO card for whenever these topics come up. TL;DR If you're struggling as a man with dating, it's probably your fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 03:27 PM
11	What’s it like to be born hot and remain throughout childhood then losing it in your 20s letting yourself go? Throwaway from a regular here since I suspect he might know my username. My brother. Prom and homecoming king, lead in the high school musical. Very active sex life in high school. He's obese now but he handles it pretty well on the outside. Still has his charm and humor and is very much the glue of our friend group. I still love him but he is hiding a lot of deeper issues. Somehow managed to land a pretty girlfriend that is normal BMI and they seem to get along well but I'm not entirely sure ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 06:12 AM