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| 1 | I dated an objective 9/10 girl for a year and now don't feel I'll ever get a girl that hot again. Need advice.There is no end to Suffering until you unplug yourself from the Matrix. You will be happy if you dont have attachments. “unplugging” yourself is not a good solution | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 2 | I dated an objective 9/10 girl for a year and now don't feel I'll ever get a girl that hot again. Need advice.100% this is solid advice | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 12:18 PM |
| 3 | My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a dayIm definitely no expert. I learnt a lot of self-dev and pickup from reading models by mark manson and james tusk/tom torerro (and just a bit of it from taysocial) on youtube I don’t know how to cold approach at all , what do you say ? I didn't either when I started and I sucked in the beginning :-) Still trip up at times. It's an ongoing fun process with many rejections and a few successes but the successes make the rejections worth it. Do you just give them a compliment and start a conversation… | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 01:33 AM |
| 2 | My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a dayI live in a city with a million people but I don't want to bang everyone I see. Not saying your standards are low and not sure what your number -> date rates are but it's virtually impossible to meet 5 attractive women in 20 minutes. It's simple math. In any good interaction I spend around 7-10minutes, this involves intro, rapport, and closing for a number/date. And around 10-15 minutes walking/waiting for someone attractive. Let's say I have a 20% success rate to find a single, attractive girl … | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 05:32 PM |
| 10 | My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a dayOnly in high volume areas would it take 20minutes to talk to 5 women. Or if your standards are really really low. I used to approach ~10 women on Thursday, Friday, Saturday pre-covid and it'd often be draining as I'd be out on the streets for 2-3 hours at times. I loved the thrill of it but it's definitely time consuming | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 02:18 PM |
| 7 | Friendly Reminderthanks king ❤️ | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 12:49 AM |
| 6 | I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do itvine tasting LMAOO 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | My father testing my inner game mindestThe fact that you needed to say this screams your insecurities lol | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?So what's your premise here? See here's the problem. Again you retort to ad hominem arguments of calling me gullible... I don't have a problem with it but it's unfortunate that you wouldn't believe facts - that maybe tomorrow 100,000 people will have died from a novel strain of the coronavirus and in the coming weeks many many more. It is doubly unfortunate to see you use the flu argument to argue in favor of not social distancing. It's what people use when they say, well obesity kills more peop… | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 04:10 AM |
| 0 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?This is such a baseless straw man fallacy I don't even know where to start. See, the thing is I could go into depth on this channel but I find it baffling that you'd compare the flu to covid... I don't know what your news source is but if you think we treat this situation like the virus is just a simple flu, then you don't have all the facts or you simply choose to ignore them. | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?What's your province called? | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?Yeah, I am implying mortality with that statement. I am 22, probably lower risk if this curve kills based on age but I have the social cognizance to realize the threat I pose to others by going outside. And covid isn't just killing older people. It kills indiscriminately. Healthy people are also passing because of it. Of course you can be lower risk but pneumonia is not a fun thing to have and can lead to problems later on. It's the absolute best thing to do to stay at home right now, if you can… | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 07:13 AM |
| -1 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?I'm glad you've realized this. What's done is done we can only keep going forward. I suppose henceforth, it'd be a good idea to stay safe/home. Cheers | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 06:44 AM |
| 18 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?Haha yeah lol ~66,000 dummies who just died in the past few months from a virus | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 04:58 AM |
| 32 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?Bruh do you want to date more? Then stay the fuck home. Corona is no joke | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 04:11 AM |
| 6 | If you’re thinking of becoming a PUA consider thisTodd's game seems quite unnatural. OP put cult leaders in quotes for that reason. Todd tries to pick up women by using routines which seem socially uncalibrated rather than it just naturally being him approaching a woman and striking up a conversation with her and then closing a date. this is probably when he was getting started out, but it points out the routines: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W6xSB73TuTY | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Told a girl no todayFirstly, try staying indoors. Corona is a pretty fucked up disease. Secondly, you did really well. It may not seem like the right decision at the moment but a few years from now, you'll remember this as a mark of you putting your self-respect/boundaries above all else - and I think that builds character - something that will help your dating game | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Anyone Know of How to find a Wingman to go Sarging With? (Bay Area)I daygame on the regular in SF haha. but with the covid19 stuff happening, it's taken a backseat | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Man this coronavirus is really cramping my styleI agree. It's just so tempting to go outside and I've built this sort of habit around this by approaching women daily that it pinches a nerve when I'm not going out and running game on a daily basis. But I see haha, I either risk getting it or spreading it to others. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Game in Asia with Corona VirusI feel you on this. I am in the bay area and it's just starting to get bad in the US... The number of hot girls in the streets here have drastically reduced during the day which is unfortunate but I'm still taking the regular precautions. Basically, I think it's better to be precautions and run street game after the virus has died down a bit. Others are pointing out that this is a stupid post but I feel like its a legitimate issue haha | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 12:56 AM |
| 15 | Alternatives to stop jerking off so much?What a great comment | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Man this coronavirus is really cramping my stylePreach! Stay safe out there | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Man this coronavirus is really cramping my styleAh sorry to hear that man. Is everyone walking around with masks on? Hard to judge IOIs or even look at their face for that matter | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Man this coronavirus is really cramping my styleI was haha | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 04:47 PM |
| -3 | Man this coronavirus is really cramping my stylewhat's wrong boy... are you dumb? | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Man this coronavirus is really cramping my stylefor sure, thanks for the tip! | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Fuck approach anxietyOh shit I just saw this. I think it's got to do with what your goals are. It's 'nice' to have a wingman but your goal is to cold-approach hot women. When you're starting out, you want to throw yourself in the deep-end and you might be absolutely miserable about cold-approaching - but that's fine: this is the familiarity period when you're trying out something new and it will usually always suck. Sure, it's nice to have someone to talk through things with and bounce ideas off but this is your jou… | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Fuck approach anxietyI 100% recommend not doing this when you're starting out | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 06:26 AM |
| 8 | Here’s a reminder that even “good looking” dudes can have difficulty on dating apps.Umm, excuse me, but I ONLY look at BBW Milf midget TRANSEXUAL incest porn, thank u | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 10:20 PM |
| 2 | If you want to achieve your goals, don't focus on them: Reggie Rivers at TEDxCrestmoorParkEDOh yes, I agree. Process over Product https://www.coursera.org/lecture/learning-how-to-learn/surf-is-up-process-versus-product-wTEpf | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 01:09 AM |
| 2 | If you want to achieve your goals, don't focus on them: Reggie Rivers at TEDxCrestmoorParkEDI don't doubt your experiences but it's important to put this into context. The title is incredibly misleading because it diminishes all effort you put into achieving your goals. Those who really achieved something in life didn't just do it because they didn't focus on them. Of course they did! That's all they did. It's all just relentless effort, focus and practice that pays off at the end. And to take advice from some random dude who cites his middle school experiences is not very smart. I'm s… | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 04:25 PM |
| 3 | If you want to achieve your goals, don't focus on them: Reggie Rivers at TEDxCrestmoorParkEDThis is the dumbest Ted talk I've ever seen. The intent is good but the content is shit. Reminder to other folks: not all people who give Ted talks are intelligent and the titles are often clickbait. And if you want to achieve your goals, please do focus on them... | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..Fuck. Some of the comments down below the good ones are incredibly repulsive. OP, for your own sake, don't entertain those. Plus, next time censor any name's for the sake of internet anonymity | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 08:10 AM |
| 31 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..Because if you were a "nice guy" you might have lashed at her for 'leading you on' and all that dumb shit typical incels who think women owe them sex do | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Best place to game in San FranciscoI stayed there for 3 months. Stanford is definitely not a daygame place. However, if you have friends in the Palo Alto area, parties at Stanford are decent | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 07:39 AM |
| 5 | Golden nugget of wisdom from a 65 year old.This is good advice if you add a disclaimer. To call women bitches and whores is just in poor taste. I don't know what the socio-economic background is of your 65 year old friend but that sort of a generalization is unnecessary. | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Quick approach tipEnglish is probably not OPs first language ;) | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Kissed a girl u like last night, today did not bring good news.It was refreshing to read this, "Like I said, I am sad. But it feels kinda good to be sad." You're not developing oneitis as others have stated. It's natural to feel like this and if the girl doesn't reciprocate well early on it's only fair that you move on and pursue others and focus on your other interests. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Stop Behaving Like Her AuntieAre you the same Nick from mysimpleconfidence? I really liked that dude | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Women just aren't into me because im short.> Most women are shallow when it comes to height. what data do you base that off? | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 06:25 AM |
| 1 | My cousin trying to help me out...🤦♂️creates a disgusting imagery. your cousin is probably hurting your case even more. | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you sit with a girl at the movies?I usually get coffee or drinks and escalate kino while walking afterwards. It seems to work for me usually | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 01:56 AM |
| 2 | You are better looking than you thinkHow old are you? I am 21 and no one in my friend circle says stuff like 'no-homo'. And neither do they feel uncomfortable complimenting my other friends. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 09:50 PM |
| 2 | The REAL way to deal with Shit Tests from women, from an actual womandumb things like, `you are not my type`, `i only date men with money`, `i only go out with people who have pets`, `i only date men who are <fill in the blank here>` | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a wing in Hyderabadchallenge of daygame in India. Plus, I love middle eastern girls ;) Are you confused mate? If you want to chat up middle-eastern girls go to Abu Dhabi, Dubai, or Doha, not places like Hyderabad | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out in person for the first timethat's a terrible idea | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 03:01 AM |
| 2 | I suck at getting dates off Tinder.I've been cold approaching for a few months now and even though I haven't had great success with it, I think it's better than Tinder. In that, if you don't follow the 2 rules - be attractive, don't be unattractive, tinder isn't going to do much for you because a huge part of the game is having really great pictures and being very socially present. I think cold-approaches [meeting people on streets/cafes/libraries] are a better way to build self-confidence and increases your ability to meet peopl… | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 01:14 AM |
| 19 | Are thank you posts allowed?That's weird. It shows this as your comment: '1. Living in the Midwest USA' (I am using the Reddit Android app) | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Are thank you posts allowed?Question was 'How old are you?' | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Are thank you posts allowed?Don't think that's what he asked | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I keep losing myself into girls.this is getting dangerously close to r/niceguys | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 10:00 AM |
| 5 | Ask a girl I like for favors?But thank you for telling the senior moderator how to do his job. He is being a dick | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Ask a girl I like for favors?Damn. That escalated quickly from E to F | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How To Meet Women In A #Metoo EraAbsolutely. trash video | /r/seduction | 19/05/18 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Best places to daygame in New York?I've had my fair share of success at the Oculus actually | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on daygame and approach styleAnother idea that I’ve had is to leave my Fly unzipped and allow part of my dick to poke out while I walk around the college campus. joking right? | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | The BEST way to day approach a girlit is actually OPs blog. but he's spamming it everywhere which is kinda annoying | /r/seduction | 28/04/18 11:53 PM |
| 3 | The BEST way to day approach a girlStop reposting the same shit you posted a week ago ffs | /r/seduction | 28/04/18 06:29 AM |
| 1 | I hate being needy. I want to stop being fucking absurdly needy and need to get my shit together. What do I do? Help appreciated.Thanks for that! That was very detailed and helpful. Unfortunately, I live in a dorm so that'd be unlikely but I think I should tell her that I enjoyed her company and just take her out to eat somewhere or to a bar maybe and see how it goes. And I think I should make clear that I want it to be a date... So, I met her on a Friday and got dinner with her on Saturday night - do you think this means a 'date' is implied? I never mentioned the word but I asked for her number/facebook and then just mes… | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 01:02 AM |
| 2 | I hate being needy. I want to stop being fucking absurdly needy and need to get my shit together. What do I do? Help appreciated.thanks bro this helps the thing is, maybe i am lacking in the friends department. i have been lifting for a while now and look like in pretty good shape. i don't online date much so cold approaches and people in my college at uni are the only way i meet people and girls (who i talk to and ask out) this one was special in that, she came into the study room i was studying in and we struck up a conversation, felt a connection; got her facebook; asked her out and went out with her the next day. at t… | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I hate being needy. I want to stop being fucking absurdly needy and need to get my shit together. What do I do? Help appreciated.reference? | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 10:58 PM |
| 2 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlbeautifully put! | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 04:50 PM |
| 54 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlNow I am confused whom to believe | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Met a cute chick at the gym. Got her number and texted her and she did not respond yet. Anything I could do to follow up?Right on | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Met a cute chick at the gym. Got her number and texted her and she did not respond yet. Anything I could do to follow up?I did. I was working out in the morning and I texted her at night. I felt she may have forgotten the name? Maybe that's where I went wrong. Oh well, will keep that in mind in the future | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 06:01 AM |
| 5 | Met a cute chick at the gym. Got her number and texted her and she did not respond yet. Anything I could do to follow up?gotcha... definitely not upset at her. i am just really glad i can get myself to talk to random people now which is kinda cool | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Met a cute chick at the gym. Got her number and texted her and she did not respond yet. Anything I could do to follow up?I thought about that. Say someone had said that to me, 'Hey man, had a great time meeting you!' I'd probably just reply, 'Hey dude, you too' and leave it at that. I could imagine someone else doing the same? Is this not the case in general? Should the first text I send initiate a meetup/date? | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Met a cute chick at the gym. Got her number and texted her and she did not respond yet. Anything I could do to follow up?move on it is. i like the abundance mentality. there's probably some other 9,10 I could hit up just as well. but just in case I see her again at the gym, would you say, I should bring up that I texted her? or just say Hi, how you doin and get back to my workout? | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 04:58 AM |
| 3 | 2 Cold Approaches Back to BackI'd say Instagram is a less-trashy Snapchat. Probably worth setting up an account | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 09:03 PM |
| 0 | Why You Might Want To Reconsider Tinder...just letting you know... if you are a white male, it's very easy to get laid in many parts of asia - china, thailand, singapore, india, japan etc. etc. | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | [FR][PSA] Just Shut the Fuck Up!!!Yeah that might be right. I thought the text was after sex | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 03:12 AM |
| 4 | Be real when you are approaching a girlyeah, good blog though | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 12:16 AM |
| 3 | [FR][PSA] Just Shut the Fuck Up!!!I don't know why that's a dumb text. It is just an observation you made about the day and if she reciprocates like you somehow came off as very needy and overly invested in her then you dodged a bullet. Sure, you'd have gotten pussy the next week but you could take a few days off and meet someone else | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Be real when you are approaching a girlMan... I liked your advice and then I saw the 'Law of Attraction book' crap on your page. That shit's been debunked and it was one of the scammiest things anyone ever started... I want to follow your blog but would love it if you could keep all that mythical jazz out | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 03:54 AM |
| 6 | [FR][PSA] Just Shut the Fuck Up!!!Yep, had the something similar happen to me as well. If you feel too agitated about this, a bit of breathing meditation might help with that | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Many girls are attractive at my university. Whom do I talk with? How do you decide that?basically that, yeah | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Many girls are attractive at my university. Whom do I talk with? How do you decide that?this helped. i think i am kinda staying away from my goals atm. my hormones are probably just making me go wild for sex. and after the girl I was seeing recently didn't want to see me anymore, I think I am craving it even more. i feel like approaching ANY girl but that seems pointless because it takes up too much time and the outcomes aren't very favorable in any way. | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Today is the last day of lecture. How do I approach and ask some girls out in class if we talked only a few times before?Okay. I want to make clear one thing - this is not a bar. It's a classroom which has lectures. Men don't generally go to pick-up girls and women don't generally come to flirt with men either. When I was at Berkeley (and now at UIUC in Illinois), most of my friends were friendly folks who knew how to talk to people - they weren't shy or obtuse. They were straight to the point and friendly. If they liked someone, there was no playing games. They would approach them, 'befriend' them and ask them ou… | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Today is the last day of lecture. How do I approach and ask some girls out in class if we talked only a few times before?Women don't generally fuck the super friendly guy She never said that fuckwit. All she is saying is that, it's a goddamn classroom, not a bar. OP just wants to get laid and if he invited someone to his dorm, that is just overtly creepy. He could, as a starter, introduce himself and then ask them out, to not come across as desparate. Befriending a girl doesn't mean you cannot get them to fuck you. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 01:43 PM |
| 4 | Today is the last day of lecture. How do I approach and ask some girls out in class if we talked only a few times before?You're right. OP seems to be having the whole, I don't really want to ask them out and I just want to have sex, mentality. It comes across from the 'invite them to my dorm' statement. In my 4 years of college, I have met no one who wouldn't be creeped out by being invited to someone's dorm. Also, in a classroom setting with people you haven't talked to as much - it just comes off as desperation. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Two girls approaching me at the gymHahaha Only if OPs rep was 405+ is it worth ogling at. While this is relative in most gyms in the US, 4 plates is a milestone for a lot of people. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Two girls approaching me at the gymWhat was the 1RM btw | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Girl next doorfuck thats cold | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 02:07 AM |
| -2 | How do you know if a girl is being friendly or if she is attracted to you?hit the gym to build self confidence? What?? You can do a lot of other things to build self confidence... Like passionately taking up a hobby - powerlifting, bodybuilding, powerbuilding, olympic weightlifting just fall into a small subset of the plethora of things to do out there | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 09:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I date a freshman as a senior?Awesome. Should I ask her out for bubble tea or something? Dinner seems too much because we've basically just introduced ourselves | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 03:14 AM |
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