hyacinth_waves Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	“Not ready to be serious … but I want to keep seeing you!!” does NOT warrant any response Yeah, I made it to step 4. But didn’t reluctantly agree. It was very difficult to shut it down and really affected my self-esteem for a long time. But so happy I never slept with him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 01:05 AM
2	The Real Reason Men Always Pursue the Women Who Want Relationships as “Hookups” - Summarized Perfectly in this TikTok chef’s kiss Yep. They want you to treat them like a priority while they treat you like an option.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 03:07 AM
19	Ask men who want casual sex why they don’t just hire sex workers and watch them explode. Why? They chase women who want commitment because it’s predatory! Yep, also had a situationship that was like this. Even after we agreed to “just be friends” he’d get all suspicious and weird if I’d arrive at events we had with mutual friends at the same time as another male friend he was close to. It’s all about their access to you and not interest in you as a person.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/21 04:49 PM
13	Ask men who want casual sex why they don’t just hire sex workers and watch them explode. Why? They chase women who want commitment because it’s predatory! They get off on you desiring them even though they don’t desire you, just sex (in the most general sense).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/21 04:27 PM
2	Make it stop. 💀 lmao yes literally had this said to me:”i thought we were both similarly logical”.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/21 06:33 PM
29	Rejection is redirection Yep. They want company, attention, sex, and emotional labor without having any responsibility. Same thing happened to me when I fell for a friend who told me they weren’t “romantically interested”, and I fooled myself into believing they were because they wanted all of the above from me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 10:02 PM
5	Ghosted after not putting out on a date 1 is so true. Made the mistake of “dating” a friend, and when I wouldn’t “sleep over” he told me he didn’t think he was romantically interested. Only thing I’m thankful for is at least he told the truth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 10:33 PM
2	Is there a word for this? Yes. I literally had a dude ask to “be more than friends” and less than 12 hours later deny that he had any romantic feelings for me. Okay, what? Took way too long to realize that he wasn’t interested in me, just interested in sex. When I asked if he just wanted FWB he denied that too. Not sure what you want from me and not sure you even know so byeeeee!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 02:55 AM