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| 13 | How do you deal with spineless men working with you and being constantly shit on by women in your workpleace?the reason I ask is I got shit behind my back for not playing nice like the ither guys, and instead of using their heads and band together, the men prefer to act like pussies AND being shat on by the women | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?We are after different things :) I said I dont want to apology, just call it a truce, ie, letting her know I’m not gonna destroy her, but we can have a good relationship cause right now, out relationship is dead. I want to go to work and have a good relationship woth my coworkers and not having my girlfriend be excluded and made fun of cause she’s with me and I dont care about them. And yes, thos is the real life, no BS about “I’m your sexual leader” or shit like that. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?My girlfriend of course. If I tell them in public or private to “back off”, you think they are going to suddenly let my girlfriend alone? They are going to trash her even more | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?All I wanted was to be left alone woth my gf. I’m not afraid, I just don’t want to fight, especially since I know this shit cause I spy on them, bot cause they let it transpire. That’s why I wanted to talk to the girl that I had a problem with. My gf is now untouchable and they know my boss wont do anything to her. I already demontstrated my power. Talking to them to let things go = you know I can fuck you up, now let’s move forward. I sure as shit wont apologies, we both said shit behind each o… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?So if they are jealous, can I parch things up by giving them some attention? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?They are afraid of me. They know the owner cannot and wont touch me and hate that I can go to him whenever I want to to create trouble. I dont want that relationship without the rest, ie, just being scared of me is not what I like. What I wanted to do was this: talk to the woman who I’m closest to and tell her I wanna let things go, and restart from there. She’s the one I had the rift with, the rest followed from that. Do you think it can work? The other woman doing this does it private and thin… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?They are doing their jobs and gossping private. It’s not direct. And yes, if I know they are trying to punish her in private, how can I have a good relationship with them? And no lol, “just walk in and be in charge” where does it come from? Are they gonna start gossiping and isolating her because I said so? Lol | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?I also have dirt on the company owner, enough to blow up his marriage. I could use it to get the trouble maker fired, but it's risky. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?ok, let's say I wanna strike: how can I do it? This shit is happening behind our backs, I only know of this because I can see their chat conversations, nothing more. They don't know. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?I know who the leader is, it's a small bitch who's not even pretty and hates me for what I did to her in the past, ie, not helping her at all. Everything stems from that. I tried scaring her, didn't work. I tried bulling her, didn't work. I tried smearing her to my boss about her professional deficiencies, didn't work. Sure, she would back down but then would complaint in private to the other women, limitless complaints. She just wouldn't stop. So time went by, I let it go, and closed that door.… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?It's usually to avoid trouble with the people you are fucking. There's no favoritism here, no harm done to anyone. Nothing. Why is this shit happening? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?Swallow your pride if you have to. Figure it out how? I'm trying to figure out HOW. Making peace with them? ask for forgiveness on something wrong I never did? what do you suggest? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Women I work with (who have no issues with me) are shaming my girlfriend on a regular basis and isolating her since she started dating me. How can I put an end to this and go back to normal?I know this because I have access to their private chat conversations. The main person fueling this is the one who had a grudge against me, the others followed. I can't isolate her, I can't get her fired. And she just created a group with 90% of the women in the office where she has no issues trashing my girlfriend. You think I can change her opinion, when she started this for NO FUCKING REASON? Literally, her complaints started when we started travelling before the covid emergency, that's it. N… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | My LTR is being hated on by other women cause she's with me. Is this bad for me? Anything I can do to make this better on her?The woman who took the chance to attack my girlfriend because of me had been "wronged" by me in the past when I refused to do her job for her and stuff like that. She never let it go. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it common to be in a group of people joking around for someone (girl or guy) to take a cheap shot at you just go show they can insult you?No, I do have a car, that wasn't it. We were talking about the fact I had to go somewhere to buy something, and I don't know how it came up we may meet on the way there, so I said "maybe you could give me a ride" and she replied "more like I'll run over you". And she laughed, and the girl I was talking to looked at me and laughed, surprised at what she had said. I didn't act butthurt, but I know she said it on purpose to attack me and it bothered me that, the intention. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it common to be in a group of people joking around for someone (girl or guy) to take a cheap shot at you just go show they can insult you?You suggested that she could give you a ride somewhere and she said all she'd do is run you over with the car. Exactly. We were joking/teasing each other, and the feeling I got was that she escalated by straight out suggesting she would run me over. And it was out of line because the girl I was chatting with got taken aback also. It's like: joke, joke, joke, fucking trash, joke, joke. See? That lack of respect and deep hatred/distaste towards me is what got to me, and I felt like crap re-living … | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it common to be in a group of people joking around for someone (girl or guy) to take a cheap shot at you just go show they can insult you?I'm sorry, I really fail to see how it was low level insulting. You mean it was a straight up insult or just a joke? | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it common to be in a group of people joking around for someone (girl or guy) to take a cheap shot at you just go show they can insult you?EDIT: the fact is, when she said that, and I saw her laughing, and the other girl catching up on it, I felt like crap. I felt like she was disrespecting me on purpose. I felt like she had to put me on the same place (socially) that the other guy tried to put me in the past. That's why I felt, and it stuck with me for a couple of hours. Is this normal? | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Is it common to be in a group of people joking around for someone (girl or guy) to take a cheap shot at you just go show they can insult you?Have to admit though, this is kind of weird. Were you at an aspie meetup? No, but the guy who used to hang with us kind of framed me as "the clown". Now he's out of the picture, and this girl had became his friend. The point is, I was joking/teasing/flirting with another woman, and I know she said that just to underline I was at the bottom. E.g.: you are a girl we are both joking around, and I say to girl X: "hey, you should be more like brinkle! she has the right idea!". X then joins the conver… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do women treat you one way and then backstab you like crazy behind your back if it suits her immediate purpose?She's not nice and flirty. She's just trying to be in your good books to use you. That is all. You are right, I realized this a while ago and that's why I stopped helping her. The damn bitch even has the balls to throw around phrases like "you are not helping me anymore..." or simply act frustrated when she needs help and I straight out refuse to help her. She has never been your ally. Your use of the word backstab seems like you thought she was your ally. Exactly. I used her in the past to get … | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do women treat you one way and then backstab you like crazy behind your back if it suits her immediate purpose?you go about your business with the myriad other goals and women around you. I'd choose the second, reducing her to at most, an annoyance. This is exactly what I want to do, but it already revealed itself as an annoyance. She is in a long LTR, and we work together in an environment full with women. What she does is she tries to form groups of girls and stuff among coworkers and tries to keep me out. This is fine with me, what's not fine with me is her interfering with office relationships the sa… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do women treat you one way and then backstab you like crazy behind your back if it suits her immediate purpose?But u do agree with me that she kind of has the upper hand at the moment, right? I'd like to think she doesn't and that I can do whatever I want without consequences, but something tells me that's not the case. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Why do women treat you one way and then backstab you like crazy behind your back if it suits her immediate purpose?For some women the only personal value and self- esteem they have is to be better than others or have losers to chase them . This describes exactly her, I just didn't know how much it applied to other women. She sucks at her job (or doesn't like it) and uses all kinds of social means to swim the damn office and not be eaten. In that frame, she has the "losers" guys that help her no matter what, and hens she tries to gather together besides her, and the "bitches" she hates. I fell into the catego… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do women treat you one way and then backstab you like crazy behind your back if it suits her immediate purpose?Well I dunno honestly. It's not that I disagree with you, on the contrary. It's that I never gave her any kind of emotional benefit at all. The most I ever did was "play along" when it benefited me. E.g., I pretend to agree with her jealous whiny against other women just because I had my own reasons to keep those other women in check, and I knew she would could be used. But, at the same time, the moment things don't run my way, I cut her off. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do women treat you one way and then backstab you like crazy behind your back if it suits her immediate purpose?Then why the jealous act? Or why trying to flirt with me and shit if she already knows she's not getting from me more than the bare minimum? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 10:25 PM |
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