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| 11 | (FR) Like a Boss #-close, great way to end an AFC's V-day. | hyperion247 | /r/seduction | 15/02/11 06:38 AM |
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| 18 | Guys with a lot of female friends — did you actively try to befriend women, or did it just happen? How did you go about building those friendships?This is really it. For me, I genuinely see my female friends in a different light then someone I have a crush on. I don't "friend zone" myself with someone I like. I ask them out straight up. My last gf was a friend first, but from the beginning, I made my intentions known so it was different from the start. My closest female friendships did not start from that dynamic, we built up a friendship without any undertones of dating, etc. At all. Ever. Only with a couple of them did we talk about it m… | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 04:31 AM |
| 20 | 12 Dating Principles For Young MenAs I re-enter the dating world after the pandemic and that "third of life birthday"...this quote resonates more than ever..."Time is your most valuable resource in life; don’t waste your time on girls who aren’t worth it and who show no promise." | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Dating tips for high quality womenGreat advice here. How did you know she was the one? | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Things a learnt from a very successful guyOof...look at that. Life back to normal because people trusted scientists and didn’t have morons telling them it’s all fine. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Things a learnt from a very successful guyI think the same on a lot of these posts...where is this taking place? | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Saw a girl whoes exactly my type and did the approachI recently started a side job at a gym's front desk. Fantastic conversation practice with all kinds of people (including a lot of attractive women). Doesn't have to be a gym, but I've definitely read it's worth getting a customer service or sales job (waiter, front desk somewhere public facing, etc) at least for a little bit to build up the conversation skill. When you realize your tips or sales are based off it you can take that skill and just replace "a sale" with a "number close" for example. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 11:59 AM |
| 10 | 7 Things “Nice Guys” Don’t Understand About WomenMcLovin | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 03:47 AM |
| 12 | 7 Things “Nice Guys” Don’t Understand About Womeni love it | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 12:57 AM |
| 5 | My 2-year journey from socially anxious nerd to losing my virginity this weekend. Thank you guys for all of your tips.I wouldn't have told her or said anything about it...it's more fun to save that reveal for after especially if it goes well. I know from experience...but who knows, it sounds like she's into it and will make it special. | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Why Avoiding Relationships in Your 20s Might Be the Biggest Mistake You’ll Ever MakeWho said you can't flirt with them? I'm in an awesome LTR, but still practice when I can. I think the biggest difference, is not going out of my way, but if cross paths with a girl I'm attracted to I'm not just going to ignore her because I have a gf, you just don't take it past flirting! | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 01:14 AM |
| 5 | "Give her the gift of missing you."Fantastic write up OP. I have personal experience in this as well. Works wonders. One of the main things I try to tell friends who feel like it's necessary to have whole conversations via text before even going on date number 1. Coming up on year 2 of my first LTR and I remember my gf telling me a couple months ago about how much she loved when we were first dating wondering what I was doing. Told me it really got her fired up and she couldn't wait till I reached out or we went on our dates (onl… | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Do Women See You as a Leader?I've found sitting across on the first date is definitely the more "socially acceptable" route but that doesn't mean there are not ways to build up physically. Graze her fingers on points, while waiting for food you can thumb war, people watch, etc. Also, one thing I always do is sit next to them at a 4 person square table, like diagonally, I guess, even if the host puts the menus across from each other. Something about sitting across from a date at a 4 person table bothers me, but I'm fine with… | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Worst Date. Of. All. Time. (Advice?)Noob here. Why is that? What's so bad about getting drunk (first date or not)? As the others have stated, it's important to be the leader. If you get drunk, especially on a first date it makes that significantly harder as in the OP's story where he let the other dudes make the decision and basically was along for the free alcohol. I personally have nothing wrong with getting drunk, but I'm also not in college anymore. If i'm going out to get drunk and "see where the night takes me" women wise I … | /r/seduction | 05/02/14 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you escalate a relationship with someone you already know?Une femme qui ri est un la moitié dans ton lit Love it! Definitely something I've seen first hand but now have a motto to apply. | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 06:16 AM |
| 2 | How I ask girls out"You should be as invested in her as she is in you" - Models (Mark Manson) That quote sums up a lot of this and helped me grasp alot of the other things you mention. If she is not reciprocating to a certain degree in which you would like it's usually a good red flag. | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 06:15 PM |
| 15 | My OKCupid experiment is over. FINALLY was deleted/banned. x-post /r/OKCupidSee this is my problem, I've had success on okc over the past year but it tended to be from laser focusing on one girl and traditionally playing it out. Kind of a middleground between what you are doing and settling down. Any chance I could get some of your scripted responses to point things in the "right" direction? | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 01:14 AM |
| 2 | The answer to 50% of the questions on r/asksedditAnd the final case, a "yes", isn't a big deal. I hate girls who think I want to sleep with them when I ask them on a date. I really do want to get to know them better. In my eyes, I am the prize, and I am always selective about who I let into my life. I know I've seen this before on here, but you summed it up well. I definitely need to think this of myself. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 13/11/13 09:46 PM |
| 29 | The 20 Lessons to Learn in Your 20s About Women and Dating or Be Single ForeverYep, you're done my friend. 100% done. | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 12:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My third approach ever (#close), at a dinner with my mom :)When I first read through it, I liked that line, but now reading your comment makes me wonder. What would you recommend, just talk to her without acknowledging the friend even though she is standing right there? | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 01:20 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Going Solo, or: How I Ditched the Crutches and Learned to WalkI just wanted to agree with you on how being with friends fits you into a role. I've noticed this especially when I have traveled to new cities by myself. I feel almost, the NEED to open everyone, along with the fun in it. When I've gone out with my buddies there is a sense of pressure which takes the allure out of opening (due to possible rejection). This element is completely removed when I've been by myself. Thanks for the FR/motivation! | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Tips and Tricks to display dominance and project oneself as a leaderAfter watching 5 seasons of The Sopranos, another good example of this is Tony. There are many scenes where someone (a captain, or rival, girl, etc) will address him with a question, and you'll see him, pause, finish what he is doing (cutting food, pouring a drink, etc) and then answer after collecting his thoughts or comeback. It's very noticeable and different from how a lot of the "lower" characters act. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 08:01 PM |
| 1 | A movie cure for Ex One-Itis (first Seddit post)Completely agree. I lot of people I recommended this movie to thought the ending was cheesy with her being named Autumn, but your point is the one I've believed since I first saw it. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 03:17 PM |
| 1 | My mental trick for staying confident and in a positive frame, even when you look like garbage....might help to make yourself a White Russian before going out as well. | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 12:07 AM |
| 1 | (FR) Like a Boss #-close, great way to end an AFC's V-day.thanks, and yeah I had "that" same voice screaming at me right up until I opened and started the conversation. | /r/seduction | 15/02/11 03:15 PM |
| 1 | (FR) Like a Boss #-close, great way to end an AFC's V-day.Ah, makes sense, sorry about that "meh" face. =P | /r/seduction | 15/02/11 02:30 PM |
| 1 | (FR) Like a Boss #-close, great way to end an AFC's V-day.I was thinking of waiting a couple of days to make the call, but I'm not sure. I've just heard that it is better to play the "interested, but not overly excited" approach. | /r/seduction | 15/02/11 11:50 AM |
| 1 | (FR) Like a Boss #-close, great way to end an AFC's V-day.-_- Hey man, not all of us can provide awesome, earth-shattering FR's. Gotta start somewhere... | /r/seduction | 15/02/11 11:48 AM |
| 3 | What can I do if I am boring and not funny?Can I get an AMEN!? Yes indeed. I'm 19, I don't have a problem talking to people (girls) once I actually start talking to them, my biggest problem is initiation. So, I thank you for this inspiring comment! | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 01:50 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)love the "drive-by opener." | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 03:13 AM |
| 1 | [FR] AFC @ New Years eve party... First real flirtatious encounter with a girl.Don't even THINK about beating yourself up over this sort of thing in high school. Pick yourself up and move on to the next one. And to answer your last question...if a girl is sitting on your lap...then goddamnit start some kino at least! | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 05:27 PM |
| 1 | RE: A lesson on fucking up attraction via text. (this is how it's done)I was waiting for one of these lists to pop up. Gotta love the second to last step. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 04:08 PM |
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