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CMVhyperlinktoZelda_v2/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:29 AM
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How about peace of mind and comfort? I like to think I show up with those things. I can't imagine being intimate with anybody who won't do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:03 AM
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Some guys are genuinely into crazy chicks whether they admit it to themselves or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:51 PM
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The world was smaller and my mom was sheltered from guys like my dad. When she got with my dad, it was kind of a novelty for her. I doubt he would have been all that special if she had fuck boys blowing up her social media/dating profile. By the time she comes across my dad, she would be too burnt up to give him a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:01 PM
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Ma was Mexican and raised Catholic. Dad was a wild Puerto Rican stud. They would have stayed in their lanes is what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:12 PM
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What defines being good at sex? Since it involves other people, does being good mean pleasing one consistent partner? Pleasing multiple one night stands? If it's the latter, I'm shit at sex then. I never had sexual experiences with random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:01 PM
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Dad definitely would have still been a lady's man, ma still a good Catholic girl. Whether they cross paths under a modern dating setting is unlikely. I think ma would be disgusted from the constant dick pics and married a good Mexican church boy. So yeah I wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:50 AM
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I think you're missing a key element of this. It's not so much about scrutinizing women rejecting traditional feminity. It's them doing so to appease men and put other women down. That's the motivation feminists make fun of. It's like if a left wing man preached about rejecting traditional masculinity just to impress women. It's not actually about helping men free themselves, but to help this one guy get laid. He would be a pick-me just as a woman with the same motivation, especially if he puts …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/23 11:36 AM
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I'm 5'3". Height has been the least of my problems in this world surprisingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:55 AM
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So are you demisexual? Does sexual attraction come after getting to know someone's personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:59 AM
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I mean if you're befriending a great guy but it turns out he's actively dating other women (which may or may not include sex depending on his values). Do you just drop the friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:54 AM
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So you're fine with a potential friend turned boyfriend seeing or sleeping with other women as you get to know each other's as individuals? Remember, you're trying to be friends first. Monogamy is a sexual/romantic ballgame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:37 AM
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What's gonna be the difference between casually dating men and casually hanging out with them as "friends"? You're still getting to know them at the end of the day while building a foundation for a long term relationship. Starting out as friends just sounds like unnecessary steps when you can take the conservative route of not sexing on the 1st-3rd date. You know, a proper slow courtship. That's basically what you're proposing by recommending the "friends first" route. Unless you're down with fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:17 AM
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Sorry dude but it's still a bad take. There's literally 12 years old being hit on and sexually assaulted for just existing. They can mitigate the risks til they're in a burka and still suffer through rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/23 01:01 AM
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What bias? Academia is another soulless corporate machine once you get passed the smoke and mirrors of feminism. They'll put out a bunch of feminists papers and give lip service to left wing ideals, but you're foolish to think academia is as progressive and feminist as they let on. Those intellectuals still sit in their ivory towers letting their yes-men and women save face for them. Contrarians or "radicals" are shunned and blacklisted the moment they start making these intellectuals actually w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/23 08:16 PM
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Everybody should be proactive in what they want in life, man and woman. If you want something you go get it. If you fail to obtain it, at least you tried and put up a fight to get it. You can't let fear stop you. My girl saw me and knew she had to have me. She took action because she wanted a guy like me in her life. Had she been passive, we would have never been. When we were long distance, I had to be proactive along with her in keeping our relationship alive. Nothing's more detrimental than n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:34 PM
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So you're fine with sitting around waiting for shit to happen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:22 PM
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How is being passive ever better for a man than taking action?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:03 AM
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I kind of agree with you. Most guys aren't worth approaching from a woman's perspective, so as a man it's better to be proactive than sit around waiting when you're nobody worth chasing to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:03 PM
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We're talking about celebrities and book covers though. I think women's preferences play out differently in the real world. I mean how else do you explain the dad-bod craze? As a dude I don't get it, but lots of women I know prefer it over chiseled six packs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 10:55 PM
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I rather have one good woman and 50 million for the last of my life, but you do you man. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:50 PM
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No I'm too old as in beyond the need to chase pussy for validation. I just wanna set myself up for a good retirement and live out the rest of days in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:36 AM
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I'm too old to be a fuckboy. I rather be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:20 AM
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The point of dating is to get to know a person. The reckless thing would be getting in a committed relationship or marrying them right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:24 AM
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Obviously. I think you are on point with her being your acquaintance first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:50 PM
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Friends to lover is cute for the rom-coms, but dating is about getting to know the person. There's no obligation to commit to anything until you two are ready. Being friends first feels like playing it safe in a dishonest way. You can play it safe by taking it slow with your date. You don't have to sleep or marry each other immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:49 PM
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Friendly but not friends is the sweet spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:40 PM
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Not u/Icy_Ordinary2025 but something like "Hey I like you and wanna know you as more than friends." Or "I don't wanna waste your time or mine, so I'll keep it real with you. I think you're someone I can see myself with. I hope we can see each other sometime if you feel the same."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:39 PM
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When have men ever stood united if not against an enemy faction of men? Yeah envy is probably a huge threat to the MRM.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 09:40 PM
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Nah, it's the struggler mantra (if you know, you know).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:26 PM
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Neither of them look attractive though. At least he's not dating women who could be his daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:10 AM
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I'm not sure who the enemy is or if there's even an enemy at all. Its all a machine at this point, too big for its own good and turning us all into pigs to slaughter and be slaughtered. We rely on it yet it's killing us. We can point the finger at the 1% of men and their figure head feminists and minorities, but they just inherited a system they didn't really create. I suppose we can fight until they relinquish some power, but that's just gonna be more blood spilled over yet another war against …
/r/MensRights02/08/23 02:24 AM
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If the most powerful people are men, then the world is dominated by men albeit more powerful than you and I.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/23 11:05 AM
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Already am. It's great. A bit different from the usual relationship experience since it's not milestone-heavy, but the love is there and the sex is still passionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:30 AM
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So basically stay away from sheltered, coddled, good girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:53 PM
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I think being attractive is hard no matter the generation, especially the way beauty standards fluctuate through time. Same thing with the job market. Imagine how hard it was to keep up as a farmer or craftsman once the industrial age began. No generation had it easy and to act like the modern age is the pinnacle of hardship is laughable, especially if you're in a first-world western country. As for past generations, the 50's golden era was funded by the G.I. Bill and advancements made in WW2. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:48 PM
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They're in lust, not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:23 PM
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I suppose doing it for the emotional and financial well-being of the children, but life happens no matter how many contracts you sign to mitigate tragedy. My dad became a young widow and single father during my formative years. He met my step-mom around my teen years and I think I came out better than most adults despite that the lack of a traditional nuclear family.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:36 PM
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Man stop you're cracking me up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:29 PM
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Solid run down of advice. I hope your son does well for himself out there, dating and otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:24 PM
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Ha, heard something similar from my uncle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:22 PM
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There's a lot more that goes into being presentable than showering. Putting effort into looking better or creating flattering OLD profile bios still fall under the being presentable umbrella. And honestly I was sugar coating what she said. She was not one to bullshit. She didn't butter up her children or grandchildren with empty praise. She was the first to point out your flaws and show you how to do better. Like if you looked or acted like shit, she'd tell you and show you how to act according …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:58 PM
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Well what's your idea of solid dating advice for the modern age?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:03 PM
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You didn't answer my question though. What part of her advice is outdated? Yeah she came from a generation like that, but her advice is universal and translatable to modern standards. Be presentable = be attractive, dress nice, don't be a slob. Be respectable = status, career goals, good character, intelligent, etc. Make her feel safe = don't harass, assault, or be a creep, golden rule, be someone she can herself around. Stay away from ghetto women = avoid women who don't share/reciprocate the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:30 PM
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I don't think it was that different honestly. Guys still have to make the first move, woo the lady, and be better than the other guys. What part of her advice do you think is outdated if I may ask? Most of it still checks out in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:41 PM
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Eh, they were hooking up and complaining about the other sex as well. I think her advice is still relevant. I mean what part of it is outdated? It's the same "be better" advice gurus give to guys today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:37 PM
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"Look presentable, be respectable, make her feel safe, and stay away from ghetto women". This what my grandmother told me. I thought it was solid advice to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:52 PM
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You're clearly not pretty enough OP. Attractiveness still wins out over traits needed for status and wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:56 PM
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Men value porn way too much and that hinders them more than they realize. Like you can't tell me jerking it everyday to porn since 10 years old doesn't screw with a man's development. Why do you think so many young guys flock to the red pill and manosphere. They know there's a void inside and porn does not fill it at all. They need real human interaction and guidance to properly grow as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:49 PM
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Masturbation shouldn't be knee capped or harder when you're naturally horny. Is masturbation so intangible with porn consumption that we can't get hard without seeing bodies on a screen or in our heads? That to me sound like a knee cap. Depending on women you'll never have to get off.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 10:43 AM
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By leaning into your senses, I mean really paying attention and enjoying what your body is doing. Being mindful and shit. As for sensation, ever took a really deep breath, felt your insides really tense up on inhale, and your body shiver when you exhale? There's a natural high or sensation produced in that process similar to exercising, running, or masturbating. It's strangely relaxing yet stimulating. Maybe I'm talking a bunch of nonsense, but I have yet to feel post-nut despair while jerking i…
/r/MensRights07/05/23 02:46 AM
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Gotta start somewhere. Ideally, the sensation and leaning into your senses is the way to go, but that seems too abstract when you're trying to get off porn. Returning to your imagination puts the focus back into your mind and hopefully on the road to connecting with your body and senses. Baby steps basically.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 01:41 AM
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Outlet? Do you see the language your using dude? Your sexuality is not a machine you need to plug in to give it power. Re-engage your imagination and stop racing to bust a nut over chicks on a screen.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 12:48 AM
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What's your opinion of Jordan Peterson?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 06:16 PM
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Here's where I stand on this: showing emotions is fine, but shit can get messy real fast if you don't manage or receive them mindfully (if that's even the right word). I don't think a lot of men, or people in general, truly understand how to do either. Many aren't in the best place emotionally themselves to deal with anybody's else's shit, let alone their own. I used to think I was back when I was younger. Thought I had the stoicism and emotional regulation down to a T after being forced to lear…
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 02:57 AM
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I think there's a difference between being sexy and being sexual. I find that men are more concerned with the latter and women the former. I never hear dudes stressing about being sexy enough for their women. They're more pressed on being a great sexual partner (or convincing themselves they are). Women, on the other hand, can't even think about getting sexual without looking/feeling the part. As if expensive underwear and adopting a slutty persona is required for sex. Not knocking it though. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:11 AM
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Interesting. I'm glad to have met the exception then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:49 AM
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Are these women actually into the men they're with though? Like after all the infatuation and wedding bliss goes away? Do they not look at their man and still want to devour them (metaphorically speaking)?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:12 AM
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I'm already with the first and damn she's a good time, so first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:32 PM
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Taking the initiative or charge for one. Maybe some shit talking or taking the piss. Mostly a competitive spirit. Knightly and chivalrous too. Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:57 AM
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Yup and yup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:18 AM
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I grew up with macho men for uncles and a casanova gearhead for a father. I had plenty of good examples of manliness in my life yet I'm kind of in the same boat as you. I don't see it as an issue though. We like what we like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:02 AM
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Then it's even. You both sort of raped each other. Anybody who wants to press charges fails to see the nuance of the situation.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 04:42 PM
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What's to be scared of? Don't have sex while she's shitfaced.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 04:37 PM
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I'm sorry you never met a goofy woman you can joke around with man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:34 PM
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So I work in a kitchen with young women from 18 or 23 year old and I do not find any of them attractive. Sure some have a cute face, but like how your daughter would. Even if I was single, I wouldn't go for any of them. The maturity ain't there and I'm not interested being daddy mentor. As for losing attraction to my partner, I don't really buy it. I've been with my girl since high school. We've had the fortune of watching each other grow up. It wasn't and isn't a jarring process. Watching someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:20 PM
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That doesn't mean that a parent should subject themselves to their adult child's abuse. You can love from a distance. And I think that kind of support, knowing that even if you fuck up (obviously my example is way bigger than a fuck up, but it's just for the example's sake), you still know your parents will love you and want what's best for you. I think you can still do that in a romantic relationship as well. Love doesn't dictate you ought to be together under the same roof. It's about wanting …
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 11:53 PM
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Romantic relationships are where many people tend to be vulnerable in outside of family. We like to believe our families wouldn't abandon us in a vulnerable state, so the same hope is bleeds over into our romantic relationships. Our partners tend to become family in a sense, so ideally they wouldn't leave us high and dry if we fell horribly ill or opened up about not so pleasant things.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 11:49 PM
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And you think preferences exist in a vacuum? The world around us inform and influence our preferences. You know what you sound like...."between going to a pool party with a bikini and being butt ass naked at a party". That's my point, you're against someone drawing a line but then do it yourself. I'm not against shit. Draw all the lines you want man. It's your life. Don't waste it with anyone who doesn't make it better. I'm just confused about how a bikini would be fine while being naked is a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:48 PM
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How about instead it being down to crossing the boundaries within a monogamous relationship Boundaries that exist because of how sexualized women are in society. Men know how desperate for pussy men are, hence we rather are partners not put themselves in risky positions like being nude at a fucking pool party. My thing is it's absurd to have a standard like that because women's bodies are sexualized regardless if you rather your girlfriend not party naked in a pool. The irony about your opinion …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:49 PM
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This makes no sense. You're justifying one thing by completely changing the scenario. I don't see it that way. I'm asking where is the line when it comes to how sexualized woman get to be inside of a monogamous relationship. Obviously being nude at a pool party is crossing the line for many, but that's due to how sexualized and entitled people feel to policing a woman's body. If homegirl was in a bikini would her boyfriend be okay with it then? Doubt it. Like I said her worst offense was hiding …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:50 PM
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Yet her in a bikini would fine? Those things barely leave anything to the imagination. I guess you gotta compromise at some point though, or else women would all be in burkas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:17 PM
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I understand that they deeply crave my virile energy and my dick is my gift to them. I'm a humanitarian. It becomes a dance between the masculine and feminine. And a dance is to be enjoyed. This is the way man. Beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:04 PM
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Only on Tuesdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:56 PM
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I get what you're saying, but if I'm attracted to her then why settle for friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:54 PM
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Not only that, but their bare ass and tits are sacred. Only the eyes of God or their man can bare witness to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:52 PM
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Good attitude man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:48 PM
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Yeah no problem link I get what you mean, but some chicks' modesty stems from shyness and insecurity. My girl was the last one to be caught flashing anybody when she was insecure. After helping her realize her body was great, she became a lot more confident and ballsy in her sexuality. It was a beautiful transformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:41 PM
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At the party? Nah. I think it happened recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:30 PM
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Just got done reading through a post on r/sex. Apparently a dude's girl got butt ass naked at a pool party while studying abroad in Europe. She didn't let him know and he had to find out through some pics and videos instead. Personally, I think his girl's worst offense wasn't letting him know. Flaunting the body is hardly a crime. If you got it own it. Just don't act like you got something to hide. Trust and honest above all. Maybe the boyfriend doesn't share the same attitude though, hence why …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:28 PM
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Not inherently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:25 AM
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I know I judge Jeep guys with fat wheels and angry headlights as obnoxious jackasses. I'm no better though. I dumb all my money into a hot rod I have no business driving in this economy, but fuck it. That's my baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:26 PM
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Respect 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:53 AM
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Do you even enjoy dating or getting to know women because your hard screening says otherwise? Like I get it. Physical touch is a huge deal for me too, but to expect a woman to be down for a hand on the thigh 30 minutes into a date is tone deaf if you are interested in getting to know her. Maybe you're going after a specific kind of girl (the kind that sleeps around/into casual sex, lustful, more forward in her attraction). In that case, may it's not a big deal. With a more reserved chick who doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:51 AM
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You must really burn through relationships. What's the rush?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:38 AM
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It was a mix between negative and positive. My dad was a reformed player, so he never made a big deal out of sex outside of not getting anyone knocked up or catching diseases. Everybody outside of him however...
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 07:20 PM
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Are there any regulars hanging around there at the counters or tables? Is this place a mom & pop shop or just a discount Starbucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:37 PM
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There are certain places like diners and donuts shops where regulars usually just gather and socialize for hours on end with each other and the staff. The regulars tend to be older, blue collar men and women, but I've met some of the greatest people just picking up some coffee at these places. While some are standoffish, once the conversation gets going it's like you've known each other for years. Even had one lady introduce me to her daughter who's around my age once. Nothing came of it because…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:22 PM
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Just know that half of the people in church probably jerked off to something unholy and call it even.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:47 PM
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Go to church. No seriously even if you aren't religious. It's an environment where people will welcome you more of less, introduce you to their circles, and invite you to events and functions where you can connect with other people. All you gotta do is show up and be a somewhat functioning human being. They'll take you into the community, maybe under the pretense of "saving" you but still
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:38 PM
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Not to be harsh, but what makes you think you would be that guy if you decide to sow your wild oats?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:05 AM
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RIP bald guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:26 PM
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I know I grew up sheltered with catholicism and all, but even my good Christian boy ass knew their were people in the world who will use and abuse you. I'm guessing these red and black pillers grew up completely isolated from this sinful world. You can't even be mad at them though. Someone clearly failed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:24 PM
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So women are just doing the gender inverse of the Madonna Whore thing. Beta Bux = Madonna Chad = Whore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:08 AM
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Where in nature do you see this behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:03 AM
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Maybe you don't need one now, but probably when ou're sexless again, since being content without pussy is impossible for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:15 PM
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I mean if you're that desperate get a hooker or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:00 PM
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Universal Basic Income perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:55 PM
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Dude there's more to life than pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:52 PM
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Calm down Dan
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:47 PM
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That too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:42 PM
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So you never wanted to one up a dude who thought they were better than you? That alone drives a man more than pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:38 AM
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I don't think he missed your point. People don't approach someone they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:35 AM
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I wish to be a functioning adult with his shit together in the streets and a boytoy in the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:50 AM
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Yet they act like they're ruled by impulse like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:44 AM
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Here's some wisdom kid: stop thinking with your dick and stand your ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:38 PM
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What does believing in human dignity have to do with pill ideologies? Speaking of which, I recommend reading Jordan Peterson's Beyond Order. He's got an interesting chapter on ideology and why we ought to abandon it since it divides more than unifies us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:01 PM
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Male ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:30 PM
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And doing what's right doesn't make you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:06 PM
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In a way, but not in the only my every order kind of way. More in the surrender your ego and I surrender mine so we can take on the world together. Both partners should be willing to work and compromise together in the relationship. I'm not interesting in always having my way. I see nothing wrong with my partner taking the reins. It's when we're facing down a common issue and they refuse to work with me or make it a "me vs you* thing. I believe in us vs the problem, and the only way we can overc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:53 PM
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Not that surprising to see honestly. Seeing the number of calories for a Big Mac was never gonna deter any McDonald's diehard from ordering one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:42 PM
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It's not that unnerving. Mothers do away with their kids quite often in nature. Survival of the fittest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:38 PM
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Congrats man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:34 PM
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I don't personally crave a submissive woman, but I think the appeal of one is cooperation vs competition. I'm a pretty competitive dude as most guys have to be in this world. It's bad enough we have to compete against each others just make our way. The last thing we want is more fighting in our own home. We don't need anyone else busting our balls you know. Work with us, not against us. Cooperation is what we desire. Trying to one up the other is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:27 PM
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Yet she couldn't keep a man to save her life, literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:56 PM
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Agreed, but even marriage is no guarantee of anything. Women can end up having another child to take care instead of a leader. I think it's best to hold out for a man of conviction, but eh what do I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:14 PM
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I was reacting to OP's notion about single mothers raising weak men being proof women aren't capable leaders. From my personal experience, any man worth a damn will not leave their woman and child in such a vulnerable position. Saying most men was a bad generalization, so my apologies. Still, there is a startling number of single mothers households out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:22 PM
3

Be in charge and take care of yourself dude. Stop focusing on not being dominant enough for women. That undermines the whole point of being a leader. Just focus on growing as person for your own benefit. I'm not much of a daddy Dom myself, but I don't need to be. Relationships are fucking sports teams or corporations, requiring you manage your partner like a child. The only thing you ought to focus on managing is yourself. Taking care of yourself triumphs anything. After all, what kind of leader…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:57 AM
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Because being a moron doesn't stop at having a dick. I agree there is a lack of accountability here, but I'm not about to pretend most men are shining beacons of leadership anymore than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:11 AM
4

It depends. Does effective leadership require some level of antisocial/psychopathic behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:36 AM
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Seems to be more lowlife, deadbeat men than not, hence my original statement. Most men aren't leader. We're proud followers of someone else's doctrine at best and pitiful lowlifes at worst. Very few of us blaze our own path worth leading others down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:27 AM
16

And where are the fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:39 AM
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Most men aren't built to lead if we're going by that criteria. Men are just held accountable by virtue of being the disposable sex. It's has fuck all to do with being a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:21 AM
18

Beats me man. I want a grown ass woman that fights by my side, not a child I have to shepard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:06 AM
0

I think that goes both way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:47 AM
3

Boys need Jesus and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:30 AM
3

That phrase is not as clever as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:33 PM
1

I doubt being bi is the reason. You're just a well-adjusted human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:03 PM
2

You would think not given how pissy guys are about women having a high body count. Having sex on every third date you have with a guy is sure to add up right? Maybe I'm more traditional than most, but I see no harm in waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:01 PM
3

Nah Monster High was in. Bratz got sued and basically got shut down by Barbie. They never recovered in popularity ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:55 PM
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Bratz dolls are so 2003 dude. The only chicks in love with them are 25 to 40 year old collectors. The young girls are just chasing trends and mimicking what they see in Euphoria. They'll grow of it and start obsessing over the shit they actually grew up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:48 PM
2

Well just look at this way, the demons those ladies have will come out eventually and it won't be pretty. Nobody can hide from themselves forever.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 02:46 AM
5

I'm ruled by my heart that supplies plenty of blood to my dick thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:02 PM
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"no, i expected more from you, you re just jealous, you're just like the other guys" "i want our relationship to stay pure, i don't care about him thats why i slept with him" So wanting sex = being like all the other corrupted douchebag? Wow. I expect that kind of regressive thinking from religious girls. You dodged a bullet dude. Sorry you went through that heartache. Clearly her own madonna-fuckboi complex couldn't see sex with you as a meaningful expression of intimacy. You deserved better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:22 PM
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Never ran into a girl who did this, but if I had I see no issue. She's not obligated to sleep with every guy right away just because she has in the past. It's her sexuality. She can flex it how she wants. She doesn't owe me sex just like I don't owe her a relationship just because I've been in a long ass one before her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:04 PM
3

Username do not check out. Seriously though at least your honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:21 PM
3

Well good for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:55 PM
5

Looks like we differ philosophically, because I believe in accepting the suck and living in virtue in spite of it. Not for a God or religion though. I do it because I only get one life. If I spend it letting the worst outcomes overshadow everything, I might as roll over and die. It's true we don't know much of anything. I can't say having a kid is right or marriage is a sure thing. I won't pretend things can't go wrong, leaving you more fucked than you were before. I will agree that life sucks, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:52 PM
5

I agree one of the big issue in dating stems from an abundance of options. When you can go through person after person, forming lasting bonds with people stops being a priority hence all the meaningless sex and lonely young people. I'm sure a burning world doesn't help, but why give into such nihilism and doom? You think meaningful sex with someone you adore is worth a damn in a world that's falling apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:39 PM
4

And they wonder why dating sucks for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:21 PM
6

Meaningless for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:16 PM
6

For context I'm not a casual sex kind of guy. Anything over 5 partners outside of long term relationships is high for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:05 PM
2

I love me a woman who can defend herself and protect the weak, but getting into violent fist fights is not my cup of tea. There are better, smarter ways to handle situations. Violence ain't the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:23 PM
1

Anger isn't a weakness. Reacting like a rampaging idiot is. You're channeling you're anger productively. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:57 PM
6

I agree. Children don't need booze to open up and form connections with each other. I'm not sure why this all changes once we hit puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:10 PM
5

Yeah there is porn like that. It's just not mainstream.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 04:08 PM
8

Depends on the kind. It's like any form of entertainment or food. A lot of it is trash and not very healthy, but the homemade stuff tends be better for you.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 01:51 PM
10

Well the late 90s to early 2000s was a very formative time in my life and I'm definitely a boob and midriff guy because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:28 PM
3

You think sticking dick in a vagina is demonized, wait til you hear about homosexuality lol.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 11:35 AM
3

After you do the hokie pokie and turn yourself around. Seriously, don't overthink it man. When you feel the urge to fuck build up just enough, you put on the condom then and there. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:32 PM
1

I guess some women find it just as hard to turn down sex I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:04 PM
2

If she's approaching the same guys who would approach and play her for a one night stand then yeah I agree. Not every man just wants to smash and dash though. Some of us want a relationship as well. Telling them apart is the real challenge, but women are intuitive. I thought you guys were pretty good at picking up on players.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:23 PM
2

Yet somehow a man approaching her reduces her chances of being used for sex. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:08 PM
3

I've shared moments with women, but they fizzled out because nobody took that next step. Not me because I was always in a relationship. Definitely not woman because why would they? Very few are willing to ask out the guy. Even if I were single and taking advantage of those moments, I'm still the one seizing the moment. Not the woman. Not many seize the moment like the one you described, even when guys are signaling their interest. They're just waiting for their turn to do so and hope you take a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:29 PM
4

I only call it luck because so few women dare to approach me. Social skills and good characters helps absolutely, but most guys do the asking. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:45 PM
7

It was because the woman initiated it and I was just down for the ride. Well aren't you a lucky bastard?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:10 PM
15

So why not approach them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:53 PM
1

Well I think make up on women is fine. I think they're beautiful with or without. Makeup might not appeal to you and that's fine. You got your taste in beauty and I got mine. Like you said it's subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:47 PM
1

And so is art.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:16 PM
1

Not really just do some research and see for yourself. Don't take my word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:06 PM
2

Anyone with eyes can see women are, on average, more beautiful than men. They have a grace to them men don't. Why do think feminine looking guys tend to be pretty boys? Anyway, you clearly see the natural beauty of women if you're advocating for no make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:46 PM
3

As a former pretentious culinary art student, breadmaking is absolutely an art. We're just gonna have to agree to disagree I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:40 PM
2

Make a thread about it and you'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:37 PM
2

I think they do, at least subconsciously. You can't deny the fact smelling like ass repels people. A normal person with enough sense showers regularly to avoid that. How come men can look presentable without makeup? They'd probably look more presentable if they did. Men are supposedly the uglier sex after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:23 PM
2

A shower is to make you clean Hence attractive. You'd seriously date a woman who smelt like shit and dressed in trash bags? Its not about it being a grift. Its about it encouraging vanity and being superficial, which inevitably leads to insecurities, hence why a lot of women are insecure. It's not about vanity. It's about looking presentable to the world and everyone with enough awareness tries to look good to some extent. Makeup is no more superficial than me putting on cologne. It's masking my…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:02 PM
1

And not every woman meets that standard when they apply their makeup similar to an artist who sucks at anatomy but draws portraits. There are some rules in making good art. I think the same applies to makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:37 PM
1

Not every artist is original lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:32 PM
4

Okay? Make up isn't any more disingenuous than taking a shower or wearing nice clothes though. All those things mask the average, smelly apes we are in the morning. Why single out makeup as some big grift? Also, masks can be interesting as fuck to look at especially if the artist is skillful and creative enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:31 PM
1

Ha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:35 PM
6

I beg to differ, but you do you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:33 PM
3

So a man with few options outside of a wife is considered sexually unsuccessful?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:25 PM
3

The fact that we're arguing whether make up is art kind of proves it's art. After all it's subjective. You might not see natural makeup as art and fair enough. I see it as a different art style in the vain of photorealism. Not very creative but a technical marvel. It takes great skill to pull off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:23 PM
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I thought the study was talking about sexual success though. What are we measuring sexual success by exactly? How much casual sex a man has or how much sex he's getting in general? If the latter, then the guys having consistently good sex with the woman they locked down are pretty successful and conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:17 PM
2

No two women have the same face or taste, so their makeup isn't going to look exactly the same. Their methods maybe similar, but they are bringing attention to their unique features or personality. One woman might wear dark eye shadow to compliment her deep set eyes while another rocks red lip to express the her more daring side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:11 PM
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That I'm different from other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:04 PM
3

Modern art is seemingly devoid of creativity and expression, yet they still hang dots and squares in museums every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:02 PM
1

Makes sense to me. What is this study on about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:00 PM
6

Seems to run contrary to TRP's image. Those guys definitely lean conservative but swear up and down they get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:51 AM
12

Its a mask. No it's art and some women are damn good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:40 AM
4

Hard to say. We probably would have broke up before going off to college to tell you the truth. There's not enough commitment between us to warrant a long distance relationship, especially through college. Still, you mention the time constraint of 6 months. We stuck it out for 4 years. Yeah we had the occasional visit or break to be together, but still. It worked out because we made it work. We could have broken up anytime and saw other people. You know how many girls I passed up in Miami? I cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:24 AM
3

Most of high school. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:11 AM
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Eh, it worked out for my girl and I just fine. We went to different colleges 7 hours apart. Might not seem like a far distance, but it kind of was. We had to go out of our way for surprise visits since we stayed in opposite ends of the state. Still, we made it work and I think we came out better people for it. There's was none of the cheating BS. We were apart for a reason and that was to build a good future for ourselves. We kept our priorities in check and supported each other along the way. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:09 AM
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Nah people will always want what they can't have, regardless of waistline. Also, Erica is a cutie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:27 PM
3

Holy shit lol. I'm a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:36 AM
4

Doesn't this man have a daughter? I swear just when I thought I was warming up to this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:35 AM
1

I feel like I'm more old fashioned than I should be, but I'm kind of okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:24 AM
1

I know swearing helps me, but not to the point of verbal abuse or yelling. Just enough to convey I am angry and blow off steam, kind of like when you bang your head or toe on something. I don't have the voice or heart to yell at anyone even when I'm pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:29 PM
2

Probably a dude not resorting to punching walls for starters. Seriously though I get both sides of this debate. On one hand guys should feel free to express their emotions and seek reassurance from their wife or girlfriend. What's the point of being with someone if you can't trust them enough to be vulnerable in front of them? On the other hand, I don't believe most woman are eager to fix a man's problems. After all we are the problem solvers, not them. We ought to sort that shit out ourselves. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:20 PM
1

Sex > Status > Loyalty > Kids. I included status based on how anal guys are about not wanting to wife up women with high body counts. They definitely want a woman of "high moral" status since that leads to loyalty and certainty that her child is his.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:52 AM
1

I legitimately don't understand what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:53 AM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:50 AM
1

I'm still with my girlfriend dude. I only have eyes for her to my dying breath. I'm just saying virginity ain't all that. You can meet just as many terrible virgin women as you can promiscuous ones. The quality of a woman is not determined by how much dick she had that wasn't yours. Just chill on the unicorn hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:45 AM
1

Ha, true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:00 AM
1

Yeah but you guys treat innocence as some sort of fetish. Virgins aren't people to you. They're precious dolls you just have to catch like they are some legendary Pokemon. Trust me I grew up in this bullshit ideology. As a good Christian boy, it was my sole duty to preserve the innocence of a woman until marriage and never to debase her. Not for her sake, nah. It was to keep her from being a whore in the eyes of God aka out of touch elders. You guys speak of feminism condemning male sexuality, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:55 AM
2

Like virgin women can't be shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:31 AM
1

Not without questioning if she's crazy or religious it seems. A chick who isn't getting laid is such a fairytale you guys call them unicorns. You put them on pedestals for your gratification and ego instead of treating them like people who probably aren't all that different from men. I hung around virgin girls back in my 20s and they were just regular people trying to figure shit out like me. Their status as virgins says nothing about their character or potential to be wives. If you met them you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:27 AM
1

Because women never having sex makes her just as damaged as a whore. Women can't win it seems. The abundance or total lack of dick just ruins them according to the narrative here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:11 AM
4

Nice copypasta dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:02 AM
1

Because they saw how much that marital hardship fucks a person up when done poorly. How the hell is your generation suppose to make a happy marriage happen when you guys clearly grew up witnessing the dysfunction since you were in diapers? Of course none of it seems worth it unless you're an undying optimist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:52 PM
1

Kids aren't stupid. Even if they don't see the emotional reaction, they pick up on the spite and disrespect between parents. The dysfunction running through the family is enough to fuck up a kid well into adulthood. Maybe you got yourself right in the end, but not everyone is so lucky to recover from a dysfunctional household. A lot of people go on to repeat the cycle. Maybe your generation are aware of this cycle and aren't on that path to recovery yet, hence their apprehension about relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:42 PM
1

So what's your opinion on emotional abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:17 PM
1

What do you consider abuse though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:06 PM
3

But aren't parents a kid's first window into how romantic relationships are? If that first look into those relationships scarred a kid, it makes sense they would avoid getting or staying in them. Maybe it's pathetic to let your childhood trauma dictate your adult life, but it's a legit incentive to set a good example and not fuck up your child's expectations about future relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:53 PM
2

How hostile are we talking? Disagreeing is one thing, but throwing tantrums and disrespecting each other is a bit much for two people supposedly in love with each other. My girl and I had plenty of fights in our relationship, but it never escalated into anything insane. Maybe some harsh truths were thrown out, but it never came from a place of hostility or disrespect. Maybe you grew up watching that shit go down in your parent's relationship, but that nonsense is uncalled for. I don't care how h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:37 PM
5

Maybe all the fights they witnessed between their parents traumatized your generation into not trying any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:26 PM
1

Holy shit is TRP just one big cope for dudes who had terrible experiences with BPD women?
/r/ExRedPill19/03/22 10:06 PM
-1

OP are you upset that you won't be the best she'd ever had?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:57 PM
4

I think secularism plays a big part in the new norms you see in the western world. Countries still in deep with religion will probably continue to shun those norms or keep the taboo sexy stuff behind closed doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:40 PM
6

Ladies cum first as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:21 PM
8

Underwater it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:13 PM
1

So Redpill is just dudes taking women off pedestals because they never realized women are just as flawed as men until they got their heartbroken?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:05 PM
3

Nah they can, they just away with it by virtue of being the innocent sex. They aren't seen as dirty as men are for their sexual tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:57 PM
1

Ever heard of philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:19 PM
1

Maybe not physically, but maybe women get off on it mentally? Like mental or emotional masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:08 PM
1

The best kind if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:58 PM
1

I still paperbacks just like those still being published today, so I'm not that out of touch. As for the what women care about, I get that but you're telling me they don't get hot and bothered by the steamy sex? It's just all about the lovey dovey happily ever after tropes that gets them off?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:54 PM
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I'm not upset at all about dialogue. I think it's just as bad as porn talk. There's nothing sexy about it. But yeah those are legitimate concerns you brought up about porn and I won't deny the industry is a fucked up place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:35 PM
2

Yes absolutely. I guess my tone of writing does come off that way, but I was trying to be playful and teasing about it you know? I have no grudge in my heart towards women. I just want to cultivate a fun dispute over two seemingly similar forms of sexual media to find out what makes them different. If I comes off as woe is me, death to all women, my apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:29 PM
2

My bad it comes off that way. I'm not trying to play victim. I think I'm trying to bridge the divide or find common ground between male and female sexuality. In all honesty I'm not all that into big tits or offended by the hot guys on those covers. I find both to be hilariously ridiculous. I accept I wouldn't measure up to those guys any more than a woman could to a pornstar. With that said, it's kinda interesting how women get away with reading raunchy sex in a library while some dude would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:15 PM
2

Victim? What kind of guy do you take me for exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:05 PM
3

Not really. I think there's a double standard though. A woman fantasizing about ripped dudes gets a pass, but a man doing so to big titty curvy pornstar is degenerative. We're seen as pigs and dirty dogs while women are just being women. Not hating though. I just think women are just as dirty as men but don't want to be seen under that light for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:00 PM
2

What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:55 PM
5

Not gonna lie, you pretty much described how I got with my girl. Her personality lit a fire in me something crazy. Soon the curiosity followed and we been together ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:26 AM
3

Wow that's news to me. Not as innocent as they seem haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:10 AM
5

That's interesting. I remember how a female guitarist captivated me at a live show once. When the solo hit and she started shredding, I thought she must got the magic touch on stage and off if you know what I mean. Mind you she was far from my type, but yeah talent is definitely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:09 AM
7

Shouldn't there be something else? Yeah it's called love but apparently women and men can't stand each other these days so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:01 AM
2

So the visual appeal of a man doesn't kick in until she's genuinely attracted to him? How does that work? Are women generally blind to a man's appearance until we make you laugh or swoon?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:54 AM
2

There's nothing inherently wrong with sexual energy though. Some argue it's the backbone of creativity. You just needs to channel it towards productive or artistic endeavors instead on squandering it on ass and dick to realize it's full potential. I think the real reason society or religion keeps a tight leash on sexuality is they don't want creative expression but conformity. A conforming populous is docile and predictable one to exploit and control for their gain. I agree lust is nature's orig…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:43 AM
1

Well not all porn is trashy. A lot of the vintage and old foreign stuff is beautiful to behold. Real cinema right there. I think the fact that there is high and low quality work in each medium speaks more to their similarities than differences. There is gold to be found in both if you look. I'll definitely give Story of O a read. And yeah I'm aware women aren't as turned on by the flesh as guys are. We dudes are way more obsessed with our dicks than you will ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:29 AM
2

Fair enough. I guess the human brain can't handle visual depictions of human sexuality at play without malfunction eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:20 AM
-1

Could it be the ease of access to readily available porn on the web and not the visual spectacle itself causing damage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:11 AM
0

And you can't do that with erotica? I find that hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:02 AM
2

The kind like Harlequin romance just off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:53 AM
2

Literally beating her? Jesus, that sounds like some dark web stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:46 AM
1

Okay that's valid difference, but not everyone in porn is young or exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:37 AM
1

Okay but there is no taking sex out the equation to make your point. The reality is most dudes have a sex drive that motivates them to chase down women. When they can't score women and form relationships with them, they get frustrated over their lack of success and flock to glorified self-improvement programs to improve their chances. If they were content in their loneliness, they're wouldn't be such a community built around pick up artistry these days. A lot of men do crave relationships by vir…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:58 PM
1

In what point in history did chicks ever ask out the weird dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:21 PM
1

They may not make up for it, but not having a partner isn't the end of the world. I don't think fostering other relationships = compensating for no romantic relationships. I think it's more about making peace with a lack of one and focusing on the nurturing the connections they have. Women are nurturers after all, right? I'm not sure where you get this impression from. Uh, from the boys club that is red pill for starters. How many men would get into an asexual relationship. Very few since a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:19 PM
3

Person who legitimately doesn't want kids here. Why I don't has nothing to do with life circumstances, the economy, or climate change. I'm simply used to a life without them. Sure there was a time I thought having kids would be nice. Even caught baby fever once or twice in my mid 20's, but it was never a burning desire like some other people have. More like a passing thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:02 PM
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No I'm just a guy in my mid 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:43 PM
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So what should we do? Teach girls to ask the weird guy to school dances?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:39 PM
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I argue it's the other way around man. There's nothing like a woman in a man's life. I know I can get by on my own just fine, but I adore having a lady to share my life with. I can't imagine a life without one. I think many guys feel this way deep inside, hence why so many of them get sucked into the different pill circles. I know there are lonely women wallowing in their lack of dating success, but I say men got them beat. There are a lot more unhappy, lonely men out there. Women tend to have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:33 PM
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I wasn't talking about marriage, just in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:14 PM
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I'm all for frequent sex but don't turn that shit into an obligation like that. Sex is play, not a chore, and good sex requires more than filling your quota for the night. It requires nurturing a sense of tension, intimacy, and almost child-like playfulness between each other outside the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:38 AM
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