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Pulling others down instead of pulling yourself up is pretty pathetic IMO. You go to a lot of effort to say you don’t advocate for actually doing this kind of thing but then you say you don’t care about “chads”, so it just sounds like you’re trying to compensate for your own failings.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:04 AM
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If you’re 6’ and in shape I’m surprised you’re having such bad luck on the apps. Have you considered a profile review on r/tinder, or at least by a female friend you trust? It sounds like you just don’t have good photos or have a weird bio or something, in any case fixable.
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:36 AM
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Women cold approach plenty, especially as they get into their mid 20s onwards. The only caveat being they generally want more than just sex
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:34 AM
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I mean it’s the same with everything to be honest. If you’re a well balanced person with skills, hobbies and enough social etiquette you’ll find employers, friends and partners chasing you, not the other way around
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:09 PM
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But the two things aren’t mutually exclusive. In fact they’re the opposite: it’s far easier to get laid when you have a lot going on in your life than when you don’t
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:39 PM
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Honestly it sounds like you've bought into way too much of that pickup artist science bullshit that gets thrown around on here. Don't worry, I was similar in my younger and more impressionable years. The whole concept of making yourself a scarce commodity etc is broadly correct but generally misunderstood. You should never be in a position where you're artificially avoiding someone to make them want you; the whole point is that you're meant to have so much going on in your own life that you lite…
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:55 AM
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It could be a number of things, but you mention telling hookup stories to your friends. Like many things (money is another example) people who feel the need to show it off are usually not used to having it.
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:25 AM
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I mean if you're having fun then go for it dude, don't let what I think matter. I just personally don't know why you'd want to go there and hang out with a bunch of girls platonically who are only your friends by extension. I mean assuming it's a relatively new relationship, I'd only be seeing my girlfriend to go on dates, and then save my platonic times for my own friends. As it gets more serious I'd get to know her friends and vice versa but drinking alone with a group of girlfriends platonica…
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:54 PM
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A couple of things: 1) avoiding porn is wise, but jerking off without it is a very healthy and normal thing. Seriously, it relieves stress, helps avoid making stupid horny decisions, and apparently even helps prevent prostate cancer. Highly recommend you beat one out 3-5 times a week. 2) As the other guy said, don't overthink things. Even the tiniest bit of anxiety is enough to cause ED, and - let's be honest here - getting naked and performing in front of someone you like but hardly know is a p…
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:43 PM
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I mean you're already with your girlfriend, and unless you guys have a super open dynamic and her friends are in on that - correct me if so - then she's the only one of them you're hitting on. So then what's the point of hanging out with her friends? They might be friendly, but they're not your friends. If it's a purely platonic situation then surely you'd rather be hanging out with your own people than sitting on the sidelines while your girlfriend hangs out with hers. I mean I get meeting them…
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:23 PM
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I don't know about the whole showing up with a group of girls thing; to be honest hanging out with just your girlfriend and her girlfriends at a bar seems like a weird dynamic. But I can definitely attest to getting a lot more signals from girls when I'm in a relationship and - most importantly - I'm happy in that relationship. I can also attest to the opposite: getting far less interest than normal when I've say just gone through a painful breakup and I've been desperate to meet someone else. I…
/r/seduction29/01/22 09:51 PM
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I don't know if I really believe in the whole "it's harder to get laid in XXXX because people are more stuck up etc" idea. I've lived in four cities over the last 8 years and have travelled pretty widely and IMO people are people, all with the same basic needs. I've heard arguments where people say they moved somewhere new and it suddenly became easier or harder to date. I'd posit that it's not the city that's different: it's you. On the easier side, you're forced out of your old stale social ci…
/r/seduction10/01/21 12:46 PM
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This should be the anthem of this sub. Game playing and all that is for desperate people - equivalent to magic weight loss powders or get rich quick schemes. The only way to genuinely become more objectively attractive to the opposite sex is to live life to the maximum.
/r/seduction10/12/20 10:34 AM
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Really sorry to hear that man, and there probably isn't anything I or anyone else can say to make you feel better right now. For what it's worth, the things you mention - especially travel - are often much better when done alone. I've travelled solo extensively and, especially in third world countries, found the people opened up to me much much much more. It's a completely different experience. Obviously there isn't much opportunity to travel right now, but as soon as this pandemic blows over I'…
/r/seduction08/12/20 05:37 AM
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Repeating what I've already made clear in another comment chain. If I'm at all serious about a girl I only ever kiss on the first date if the situation dictates. I've never had issues getting second dates. For me, going for a kiss on the first date is usually my way of conveying that I want a purely physical relationship and I want things to move in that direction quickly. All this shit about "escalating the situation" is just PUA BS. If you are your best self and you're presenting your best sel…
/r/seduction07/12/20 01:17 PM
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Beyond this, he's subscribing to the idea that getting laid is some kind of science, and that his simple formula is the key to success. It's not.
/r/seduction07/12/20 11:43 AM
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There's no formula for dating
/r/seduction07/12/20 10:00 AM
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This is so cringe I can't even believe I'm responding to it
/r/seduction07/12/20 07:53 AM
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If I take a girl at all seriously, I only ever kiss on the first date if there's a moment that begs for it. Never had a problem getting round twos. For me to kiss someone on the first date is usually my way of telling them I only want something physical and I'm looking to move things in that direction quickly.
/r/seduction07/12/20 07:13 AM
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It's impossible for anyone to tell you this without video footage of these dates you've been on. I'm 99% sure that you're just reading the signs wrong. You mightn't have done anything wrong per se, and they probably don't dislike you, but if they're on Tinder they're almost certainly talking to other guys and you just happened to not make the cut for round 2. Nothing you can do about it except working on yourself and making yourself even more attractive, good luck.
/r/seduction07/12/20 07:10 AM
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I mean that's a reasonable attitude. It's nobody's fault that your interests don't align with anyone else's. Tbh I kinda reckon FWB relationships can only be properly done with someone you've known a long time, where it's been well established that no feelings exist. Literally every time I've entered into something "casual" with someone on Tinder or whatever (excluding one nighters), either party will start to ask for rules ("I know this isn't serious but I wouldn't be doing this if I knew you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:45 AM
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I think the issue here is, there are more men who want casual sex than women. The men at the bottom struggle. But literally every guy I know has gotten a serious girlfriend at some point, even ones who were extremely low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:24 AM
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Then that's their own problem. They're not responsible for the feelings of the so called and highly debatable "80%"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:21 AM
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I think, if anything the landscape now improves the prospects of men who struggle to get laid. You can now literally access any woman in your general area online. Gone are the days when you'd have to approach a girl in public somewhere. Adding to that, lots of people who aren't confident in person would be far more comfortable chatting online, in a context where interest is already defined (a Tinder match). And for those of us who prefer doing it the old fashioned way, bars are still packed on w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:29 AM
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Late to the party. I feel this issue is really, really overblown. Basically everybody I even remotely knew had lost their virginities by their early 20s. I know some truly abysmal people with literally zero redeeming qualities (I include in this list my short, obese, anti Semite, homophobic childhood neighbour who lives in literal squalor and has literally nothing intelligent to say about anything) who somehow managed to get girlfriends. Actually now that I think about it, the only guy I know wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:34 AM
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