hypnotheorist Archive

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2	NYT article: "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This" Well, it's less about "how much" sharing, and more about "what type" of sharing. You're still hurting from your past, so opening it up would be getting into stuff where you're "not on top of your shit". It's getting into your weaknesses where you'll end up emoting at people in desperation. Not attractive stuff. However, once you come to terms with it, the story changes a lot. If you can mention it without emotional oomph because you've already got it all figured out and you're "on top of it", th…	/r/seduction	18/01/15 07:25 PM
6	I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some Insights No, you're right. It's just that self reports are unreliable because of the introspection illusion - but there are ways around that. You really just have to know how to ask. For example, if you ask someone in the abstract "Do you prefer jerks or nice guys?" they might think "Jerks? That sounds bad and 'nice guy' sounds good - plus only 'sluts' like jerks, and I don't want to be one of them, so I'm going to say 'nice guy'", but if you give them a concrete example of teasing and not supplicating a…	/r/seduction	12/01/13 07:09 PM
1	I'm writing a book on Inner Game, and I have writers block. Help me out: what inner game questions would you guys like answered? they even admit it doesn't make a lot of sense That's a bad sign. They still have the feeling because they're unwilling to be honest with themselves about the reason - quite possibly because they "know it doesn't make sense". If I'm not cheating with hypnosis, I'll just keep pressing forward. For example, it might go something like this: "I'm afraid no girl would ever like me" Oh, so maybe you should give up then. Wouldn't want to waste your time... "Well, I mean, no, it doesn't make any sense" …	/r/seduction	05/01/13 07:29 AM
2	If I am true to my self I would scare off a lot of women Sensory overload is awesome. It pulls people into your frame like none other - just make sure you make it a friendly and nonthreatening one. The things you can do when projecting an overpowering sense of comfort are truly remarkable	/r/seduction	27/12/12 07:20 AM
3	How to properly sex talk my girlfriend through text It depends on whether you want to go the explicit "hypnosis" route or if you want to make it look "normal". I've only actually done it after explicit hypnosis and getting to or past the name amnesia level, but it should work without that first step too - you just might have to be a bit slower and more careful. The basic idea is that you take her current experience and the goal experience and build a bridge between them with baby steps. You want to communicate the experience, not the description …	/r/seduction	16/12/12 03:40 AM
3	How to properly sex talk my girlfriend through text Learn text hypnosis and she'll be so aroused that she orgasms from reading your text alone. I shit you not.	/r/seduction	15/12/12 07:36 PM
0	"You're right this is crazy" and "Do I need to grab a condom?" Tackling LMR before it even happens. Don't ask "How should I hunt you?" ask "hey deer! where are all those tasty berries!?" Girls may often talk in the abstract (in far mode) and say silly things to try to earn status points, but if you can get past that and get them to talk about specific experiences in near mode and how they feel about them, you can get good information. Seriously, this isn't as confrontational as hunting. If they see it as a status battle where you go bragging about picking up and manipulating dumb sluts, of cou…	/r/seduction	14/12/12 09:14 PM
1	"You're right this is crazy" and "Do I need to grab a condom?" Tackling LMR before it even happens. Female here. I find it really unnerving that men think that it's shows weakness to ask and that you're "giving her a chance to say no." As opposed to going through with it even though she didn't want it? I agree - under that interpretation, it is very unnerving. And I do think that this interpretation is a problem because of beginners that interpret it this way and then act on it. However, it's not the right way. Here's the trick - and it's a crazy one! If you know she wants it, don't ask. If yo…	/r/seduction	14/12/12 08:59 PM
2	How to Compliment a Woman the Right Way Ok, cool. So you do agree that compliments can be used effectively. I think you were being downvoted because it came off like you thought compliments were always bad, but tolerable if later in the process. The reason I chose that story in particular was that it also has the girl talking honestly about what she finds attractive. It's not that they have a well planned scheme to betaize guys, but that they often try to answer the question "what sounds nice?" instead of "what makes my 'gina tingle".…	/r/seduction	12/10/12 05:27 AM
6	How to Compliment a Woman the Right Way I'm curious how you interpret this scenario: You genuinely have other options and are just looking to have fun, whatever that entails - in fact, you have a girlfriend (and permission to have fun on the side), and the girl knows this. She's hanging on you all night and telling you that she likes you because you're not just desperate to get laid. She repeatedly brings up that you haven't complimented her on her looks, and agrees with you that it's needy and unattractive to gush unearned compliment…	/r/seduction	12/10/12 12:04 AM
1	My go-to line: "I bet you look so much cuter when you smile." It's not complimenting that's bad, it's complimenting in a needy approval seeking way. That tells them that they're higher value and you're willing to throw unearned praise at them. If they've earned it, you can show your approval with compliments. It shows them that you're in a position to be granting approval (i.e. you are the high value one), for one, and it also encourages desired behavior. In this case, you're doing it preemptively/conditionally. You'll get the approval if you smile :) And …	/r/seduction	25/09/12 03:55 AM
3	Tips and Tricks to display dominance and project oneself as a leader 4) SAYING "RIGHT" OR "YOU KNOW" AFTER STATEMENTS = seeking validation that what you said was true, or saying it because others aren't I agree that there's a failure mode there, but tacking on "ya know?" can be a very effective strategy for getting commitment and consistency when you're pushing the limits of their willingness to follow your frame. If you're coming from a place of "please acknowledge me!", then it's no good. If you're coming from a place of "I know this is true, you know this is t…	/r/seduction	06/09/12 07:09 PM
1	How do I get rid of this thirst for validation? I honestly would love to be this guy, I would pay an unscrupulous amount of money to master this mindset, but it's unbelievable just how impossible it seems. How unscrupulous are we talking?	/r/seduction	07/07/12 06:53 AM
3	Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason) I see the argument you're making. If you don't keep posts to what the subreddit is about, it can and will go downhill - even if it's all upvoted. However, I do think that this is a safe addition to r/seduction and I want to make sure you understand the arguments for the our side too. The one that PyouA is trying to make is that we have specific goals and insights that we don't completely share with other subreddits. Just as peacocking is something you're likely not to find on r/malefashionadvice…	/r/seduction	03/07/12 06:15 AM