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So your ideal is same age or 2-3 older but your partner is menopausal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:19 PM
7

I always like to check back in on this sub every few weeks to make sure it’s still batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:34 AM
1

Imagine basing your dating preferences on who pays the bill at Burger King..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:28 PM
2

The biological diversity practically available today is magnitudes of order greater than was the case for the vast majority of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:54 PM
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Glad to see this sub is still trawling the depths of illogical theories dressed up as biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:52 PM
2

Well when people talk about “chivalry” it’s not a literal call back to knights. It’s tongue in cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:54 PM
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I agree, drive and ambition and goals are attractive. My ex-wife is a self made business owner who has overcome a lot and has more hustle than anyone I know. When we got married after college she was barely making $25k but said she’d by making 6-figures in 5 years. Less than 5 years later she was making over $250k and I was in the process of leaving my career to help with her business. After our divorce I dated a woman for a couple years who had her doctorate in nursing and now has her own pract…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:42 PM
2

It always amazes me all the female “friends” guys seem to have on here…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:56 PM
7

As a kid I loved a good cheese and ketchup sandwich. Somehow I can resist them today…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:03 AM
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Ah Purple Pill, where no one ever seems to understand how growing up and changing as a person works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:04 AM
1

Wait shouldn’t the “alphas” be in control? Otherwise how “alpha” could they really be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:07 AM
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Guess they aren’t so alpha if they aren’t even in control?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:05 AM
1

Go to Russian. I hear there are like 10M “extra” women there. All you gotta do is survive fighting in Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:49 PM
1

No having dated in my 20’s and 30’s with a break for marriage inbetween it was definitely a better experience in my 30’s. And I dated some 20-somethings at that point too. They were just too immature and didn’t have their lives together. My life shouldn’t be what they use to structure their life that they haven’t figured out yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:40 PM
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Women over 30 > women under 30 all day every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:11 AM
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Demands commitment and fidelity. Also demands that sexual gratification be placed above that commitment. Yeah, that won’t cause any issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:46 PM
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Who is getting ready for a difficult day after 10am?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:22 PM
3

Yeah you sound like a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:41 PM
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I hate to break this to you but the promise to stay married isn’t some magical unbreakable thing. Someone can be just as committed without an official marriage as with one. Why do you think the promise to the institution of marriage is any more valuable than the very same promises made to the things inside that marriage? If it’s bitter and loveless what is being preserved? Nothing. I got the feeling these won’t be issues you’ll ever have to actually come to terms with though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:30 PM
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Well I’m pretty sure no one’s vows include their commitment to bitterly hating the other person and maintaining a hostile, loveless home until hopefully one of them dies. You are concentrating far too much on the durability of the contract of marriage while ignoring the very aspects of the relationship that contract is intended to protect and encourage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:15 PM
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But they aren’t. They are preserving something in name only. That isn’t a commitment to marriage. That’s a commitment to the appearance of being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:00 PM
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That’s okay on Mother’s Day, not Valentine’s Day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:20 AM
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Yelp for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:44 PM
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Do you really think there was a ton of mate choosing going on in truly hunter/gatherer societies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:24 PM
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Wow you’re a real charmer. Maybe you should consider your propositioning of men to service your balls and how that might have impacted the traumatic events of your life?
/r/MensRights28/01/23 03:38 AM
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Uh what? This is a discussion of trauma based on age. No one said any sex has a monopoly on trauma. Try hopping off the eternal cycle of grievance for once.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 03:11 AM
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First time using logic I see. You may prefer it, but if you want to characterize having debt as a personality flaw while having debt yourself that’s hypocrisy. Again, it’s about owning your own shit. When did anyone’s height negatively impact the other person? Is someone actively harmed by another person’s height? No? Didn’t think so. Don’t worry chief you’ll work it out someday!
/r/MensRights28/01/23 02:11 AM
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That depends on the STD. Some have a way higher incidence level in one sex or the other. Also almost half of all STD infections in the US happen in the 24 and under age group. That doesn’t bode so well for avoiding it at those lower ages. Maybe age isn’t such a great indicator? The Clap for example seems to have a pretty steady drop off for women after their early 20’s. https://www.cdc.gov/std/stats18/figures/19.htm Seems like dating a 20-24 yo might be the worst age to avoid that infection. It’…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 07:00 PM
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But that trauma of your own past relationships never finds its way into subsequent relationship dynamics, right? Maybe you are making the very trauma in younger women that you are trying to escape in the older ones? Wouldn’t it be ironic?
/r/MensRights27/01/23 04:29 PM
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No I’m suggesting that judging others based on their supposed trauma (you also don’t know) doesn’t seem too sincere if you yourself have the same or more trauma. Especially when you seem to characterize the very existence of such trauma as an automatic negative impact on you. But somehow can’t imagine your own trauma might negatively impact the other person. You can’t have another person’s trauma in your life but have no qualms about putting yours in their life it seems. I mean instead of dancin…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 04:21 PM
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Have you considered how your trauma might be creating trauma in these supposedly otherwise trauma-free young women? Creating new trauma where none existed before certainly must be worse than simply dealing with existing trauma.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 04:13 PM
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But you are cool visiting that trauma on someone you believe to have less even though you think more trauma in a partner is bad? Interesting.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 04:09 PM
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How many STDs and relationship trauma do you have?
/r/MensRights27/01/23 04:06 PM
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It’s almost as if 2 people couldn’t have any other differences between them or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:48 PM
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If a boyfriend qualifies for the program they can live there- no different requirements than the woman.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 10:12 PM
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Guy seems a bit confused. You can get section 8 without having a kid. And you can get section 8 as a man. And you can get section 8 as a family with husband and wife or even boyfriend and girlfriend. Landlords aren’t turning down section 8 because of single mothers but because while not all section 8 people are trash a lot of trash people take advantage of section 8. The fact is accepting vouchers usually means getting a higher rent than market and a large portion is guaranteed as a monthly paym…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 09:59 PM
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No almost all of them happen in extremely stupid situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:39 AM
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But he can do it on a burner account?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:59 PM
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He did manage to spell it all correctly though…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:52 AM
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That was a good one. Had those men just been allowed to be men they would have fought valiantly for their country despite never having done so for decades…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:00 AM
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No I’m saying obviously guys have no problem being attracted to promiscuous women as evidenced by the billions of dollars spent on fantasizing about those actual or pretend promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:59 AM
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The porn, strip club and prostitution industries agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:08 PM
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Trying to argue against promiscuity with evolution. Now I’ve seen it all…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:08 PM
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Fuck lions? Good lord!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:51 AM
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…a modest proposal. Make half the incels fight the other half…or fuck the other half. One way or the other it solves half the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:42 AM
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That’s all well and good. I’d say I probably had more talks about “relationships” with my mom too, but I think those were wildly different from the context in the manosphere discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:33 PM
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Do fathers typically teach sons how to date? I mean is the decades old dating knowledge of my father all that relevant to today? I can count on 1 hand the times my father has told me he loves me- that hand could be fingerless though. But I have always know he does. I wouldn’t describe him as a super involved parent in terms of direct care or school or emotional facets of life but he did always involve me and my siblings in things and while it often took the form of chores and helping on projects…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:03 PM
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Your (possible) children are screwed with this approach to life. Sounds like it’s not a huge possibility though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:44 PM
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No trouble, you’d have to do much more than that for me to feel attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:47 PM
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It’s a post about complaints, it’s literally about the negative. I’m just pointing out this list of complaints seems to use a bunch of stereotypical gender roles as a crutch when the reality of most relationships is much less simple. It’s not an episode of the Honeymooners
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:01 PM
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I’m saying most couldn’t even if they wanted to. So those guys might be better off learning to handle a spatula instead of a hammer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:58 PM
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A few decades ago cars were more accessible because there was less electronics involved. Many of the routine maintenance items of old barely exist today or they require specialized equipment to perform. Cars are also far more reliable today. No one was handing out 60k miles warranties like candy in the 80’s When there is less of a need for skills they tend to go away. Also many times with an oil change it’s cheaper just to have someone do it once you account for your own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:17 PM
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I think the number of Americans that change there own oil is in the single digits %-wise. That’s a pretty simple task as far as cars go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:06 PM
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Most guys can’t competently fix things around the house let alone build a deck in their spare time. So many of these complaints lean real hard on tropes that hardly apply to the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:30 PM
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The weak pretty rarely rise to fill a power vacuum. Some kind of societal calamity will only make the powerful more powerful- just in a different way with fewer checks on power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:34 PM
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“China is doing fine” Thinks there is a bit of government coercion involved there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:31 PM
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When my ex and I married I made maybe double what she made. Within a few years she was double me. Eventually I left my job to work for her because it made more sense to grow her business instead of work a stressful job with less upside potential. There were years where she made 8x what I was making when I left my prior job. It was hard to say who was “making” what because we had a few different revenue streams with different roles played in each but her business was the cash cow no doubt. Money …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:15 PM
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Finances and substance abuse play a big role in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:17 AM
2

My hardest most stressful job was a white collar desk job where I had to do almost no physical labor beyond clicking a mouse. My most physically demanding job was 6 days a week with 10-12 hour days pretty much rain or shine. If the second one had similar pay and benefits and wouldn’t have destroyed my back and knees by 40 I’d take it everyday. Never had to stress out, never had to take work home with you. I might have a bad day but it ended when I clocked out. The desk job at times would have ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:13 PM
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They divide themselves because the whole thing is about establishing which group has the most righteous claim to be perpetually aggrieved.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 04:14 PM
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I feel like anyone making this argument doesn’t have as full of a life as they like to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:28 PM
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You mean the same society that routinely kills and eats those same animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:58 AM
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What someone wants and what happens in reality aren’t always aligned. One (or both) might like to have sex daily but life intervenes. Some people are mature enough about it to recognize it’s not the end of the world and you enjoy it when the stars align for the week instead of becoming resentful and agitated because it didn’t work out on Tuesday night. Saturday isn’t that far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:49 AM
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The birth rate isn’t dropping because your position is so convincing- hate to break it to you. But playing along with your logic- don’t you think your own sacrifice of your life would be a more resounding statement than any words you might offer? Dying for the cause- it’s already a cliche. Lean into it!
/r/MensRights08/01/23 04:40 AM
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I read it right. You aren’t responsible for those babies- you are responsible for you. It’s the only person on this planet you have complete moral authority over. If your whole argument boils down to 1 life makes no difference, then any individual baby isn’t immoral either. The planet’s population is set to plateau by the middle of the century and then go into decline. Seems you have a moral solution seeking a problem.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 04:25 AM
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You dying doesn’t cause 200 people to be born. If anything it guarantees you don’t reproduce.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 04:01 AM
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Why not animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:58 PM
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You are here with the means and spare time to navel gaze on the morality of birth on Reddit-you are eating up an awful lot of resources relatively speaking.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 03:51 AM
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Sounds like a rather convenient way to justify “kicking the ladder down” behind you.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 02:48 AM
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It’s their moral duty to off themselves by your perspective. If your very existence at its root is immoral, then how could ending it be anything but the only moral decision? Regardless of the cost.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 11:20 PM
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Once you are conscious enough to understand your lack of consent to “being” you are conscious enough to stop being.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 11:06 PM
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I’m not supporting suicide, I’m questioning how suicide never seems to be a seriously considered option by those who think there should be less people- or in the example here- that even being brought into existence to begin with isn’t moral. If one believes their own existence to be immoral, then how could ending it be anything but the moral course of action?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 10:12 PM
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I’ve never understood why those who take this position never seem to do their part to remedy the issue? The solution is only a medicine cabinet away.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 07:48 PM
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It’s nature. You don’t consent to gravity or hunger or the sunrise either, but here they are. You are consenting to be here right now.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 07:43 PM
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And yet with this entirely equally available access to sexual gratification the problems you feel exist persist. Maybe a hand isn’t just a hand huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:49 PM
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Guess what a man’s own hand is also a hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:18 PM
2

“Darwin’s Dangerous Idea” by Dennett really helped frame it all for me. Great reading to make the abstract more accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:01 PM
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That too. Selection isn’t always to the “betterment” of the species either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:45 PM
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Yeah you can’t really rely on the thing being said being absolutely absurd as a sign that the person doesn’t actually sincerely believe it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:32 PM
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It’s directed toward the OP who seems to have these hang ups. I don’t. I’m just applying his thinking to a broader range of potentially disturbing experiences for him. I’m fucking with him, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:26 PM
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I’m not the one who seems to believe bodily fluids are some immutable material immune to time or cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:45 PM
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I feel like the whole “looks” discussion when it comes to averages gets a bit off. I would think “looks” on a 1-10 scale is an absolute and unchanging measure. So “5” isn’t really average it’s just the middle of the range of possible ratings. Actual “average looks” would be relative to the absolute ratings of the group being discussed not the scale itself. Unless of course it is believed that the scale is designed to reflect some reality where there are just as many absolutely “ugly” people as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:59 PM
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Stop looking at Instagram as your sample…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:48 PM
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She’s probably fingered a couple buttholes. Think of that next time she hands you a chip.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:16 PM
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Well that’s why we can’t pretend to be individual animals locked in evolutionary battle when societal structures have largely eliminated the influence of “natural” natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:53 PM
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Hey if you want to defend the practice of wanting to bang tweens and young teens on the basis of semantics that is a hill you are welcome to die on. I’m perfectly aware of the clinical definition of pedophilia, but this doesn’t look like a psychiatrists office and there is little evidence any of these low lifes aren’t just as into 10 year olds as 15. It strikes me that they love to trot out all these arguments based on biology and evolution but that somehow the arguments based on both of these n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:58 AM
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Well that would be an example of being better suited to leverage resources now wouldn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:08 AM
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It’s not enough to just have offspring. Those offspring need to be able to leverage the available resources. If you have 10 kids and I have none, but I myself out compete your kids for resources it will never matter how many kids you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:42 PM
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So clearly genetics isn’t selecting them out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:39 PM
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Uh oh the fembot bros will be a one and done generation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:37 PM
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If only there was another entirely functional human being available to help shoulder some of the burden of raising a child?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:11 PM
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Why should anyone listen to opinions on women from a bunch of guys who have zero success with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:24 PM
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Because it’s what people actually seek out, not what they tell society they seek out. It’s certainly a better indicator of the sexual motivations of men in general than your benighted views.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:59 PM
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“The Wall” < The popularity of MILF porn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:57 PM
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Pedophilia. That’s the answer. When they say teens, what they really mean is like 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:52 PM
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Well it seems like when men are free to satisfy their sexual desires without the burdens of social pressure they go for an awful lot of categories that cut against your “wall” claims… So. Weird. https://nypost.com/2022/12/13/pornhub-unveils-most-popular-2022-searches/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:13 PM
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That isn’t what you said- you literally only gave that very small group as examples. I could just refute your claims by pointing to the huge popularity of MILF porn. Obviously “the wall” doesn’t stop millions and millions of men from getting off to women that are specifically “post wall”. Guess you’re wrong then huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:03 PM
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No, you are using actors, singers, PRESIDENTS, and CEOs as examples. Those are exceptions. Don’t try to move the goalposts now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:57 AM
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Wait thought we weren’t counting the exceptions and then you immediately trot out less than 1% of the population?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:46 AM
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You could probably find that all out before ever even going on a date…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:55 AM
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…and countless examples of lesser men attempting to elevate themselves on the accomplishments of those geniuses. Look, there is even an entire Reddit sub almost dedicated to that sad effort!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:09 PM
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You seem to have hubris nailed down…maybe stolen valor?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:36 AM
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One could just as easily look at the waste bin of history and find countless examples of failure, destruction and famine brought to you by men. How many of the world’s greatest tragedies have been brought about by a small group of men if not a lone individual in some cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:23 AM
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Pretty sure he died penniless too…so…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:19 AM
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Even in an altruistic field one can be ambitious- maybe even moreso. Running or creating a successful non-profit is no small task even though it may never return big personal income. I personally think it the attraction is more about the mindset to be able or interested in doing it to begin with. That goes back to getting a degree even. I probably don’t hold every area of study in the same regard, but just that someone sought to and completed the task sets a certain bar. I don’t think it’s abnor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:06 AM
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No almost to the letter inheritances are given to SPECIFIC people. If her mom wanted to give it to both of them she very easily could have done that, but apparently she didn’t. Her mom gave it to her, not her husband’s parents’ social budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:05 AM
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I can honestly say I’m attracted to intelligence and ambition. They are qualities I really appreciate in a woman. I consider myself a life-long learner with a lot of curiosity. I’m a business owner. It’s nice to be with someone who you can learn and build with- not just a pretty face who is along for the ride. I got divorced from a go-getter who went from a useless art degree in college when we met to her own business and clearing $250k a year. The last 2 women I dated were both pursuing doctora…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:58 AM
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You already got your dream woman attached to the end of each arm…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:32 AM
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Seemingly so. How many billions do you have? Nothing stopping you from having a fat ass and a sex tape right? Hell you might even find a bunch of rappers to run a train on you too. Should be easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:47 AM
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Of course she is- that’s why her mom always shows up on the Forbes list right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:45 AM
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She makes way more money than him. And that sex tape is what now? 20 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:41 AM
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Used? She’s the more successful out of the 2 at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:25 AM
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Yeah 20 years. But that’s only if you actually pay according to the plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:07 PM
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All that does is extend the period of repayment. You still owe the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:57 PM
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When will they be good enough to compete with losing on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:39 AM
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Imagine having such a total lack of imagination that one can’t picture a better world better than the one they made for themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:20 AM
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Guy seemed awful worried about Pete Davidson if he himself were packing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:41 AM
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How much do you think KK is worth? Because today she’s about 4x Kanye…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:03 AM
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Kanye is like 5-8
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:48 PM
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So how many of them outright look like a “cis dick” though?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:23 AM
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Don’t underestimate dating in your 30’s. If you didn’t just end up there by being a shitbag for 10 or 15 years, having some experience, stability and income can make dating much more fulfilling at that age. But that might be a big “if” round these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:20 PM
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That’s some wishful thinking. Surprise! Many guys are total deadbeats- who would have ever guessed based on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:16 PM
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That’s who I married. On her way to a doctorate and I couldn’t be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:15 PM
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Got divorced at 34, remarried a single, slender 35 year old shortly after turning 40. I have 2 kids though. I found dating in my mid-30’s far more satisfying than my high school and college years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:14 PM
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You can think whatever you like, once you advertise your thinking to the world or tell everyone else your thinking is right you can’t really complain when the world disagrees. You have no claim to someone else’s sexual activity- especially not when it doesn’t even involve you. You can make your own decisions about your activity, but don’t expect anyone else to forfeit their autonomy simply because you think they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:59 PM
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The part that usually follows the desire for virginity or low count is that anything else is a used up slut. That’s where the criticism comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:35 PM
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It’s not usually the preference itself, it’s the various reasons or justifications for the preference that get criticized.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:27 PM
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Plenty of places where age of consent is 16
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:26 PM
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Hopefully you realize at 26 that you too have a long way to go and taking exception to the inexperience of your younger siblings might be misplaced. You might be in the very same boat as them. “You” in the following is general and not toward the OP. Confidence isn’t external. It’s not about proving something to anyone else. If one’s goal is simply to impress others or gain their approval or admiration then all one’s confidence is built on others perceptions of the world. You need to be comfortab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:53 AM
1

Certainly 18yo aren’t more fertile than 16yo right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:10 AM
0

Or maybe they are just pedophile adjacent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:07 AM
1

You don’t develop a sense of humor, you either have it or you don’t. No one has ever “become funny” who wasn’t already.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:59 AM
1

Oh so what you mean to say is you were wrong and quickly changed it? But clearly you’re a master of data right? Don’t lecture me on data when you can’t keep mean and median straight. For what it’s worth the fact that the mean is a few years below the median actually supports my argument because it means there are more extremes in the set on the low side than on the high side.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:27 AM
1

Median isn’t the same as average dip shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:23 AM
1

Oh cornered huh? No the thing is a lot of people here enjoy trotting out data in service to their personal grievances in hopes of masquerading as empirical fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:57 PM
1

Yeah because only people with autism ever use data… You are saying much more about how you think of people than me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:37 PM
1

I made no challenge about number of partners. That was someone else. But do carry on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:52 PM
2

You are thinking of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:51 PM
0

I never called him a nerd/loser. But it seems that must be what you think of him huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:41 PM
0

Well he should- it works great!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:32 PM
1

I didn’t think the guy was trying to fuck the other commenter…I mean how would that even work? But I’m sure you too are a real cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:00 PM
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Because you have no data saying that using data actually helps achieve whatever it is you are claiming. There’s always lots of data and studies thrown around to justify people’s own conclusions- not the conclusions of the report. Like this fella who is basically saying someone 30 or more isn’t fit to have kids. Meanwhile the median age at first birth is over 30 in the US. So the data says otherwise when it comes to his opinion- and yet his opinion persists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:17 PM
-3

Well that makes it all sound a bit more pathological… the data says the median age at first birth is a tad over 30, so obviously a full half of all US women are having their first child after 30 and average number of children still hovers around 2. So that’s a lot of women having more than 1 kid over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:22 PM
1

Yeah of course there is no way this mentality extends beyond the Reddit environment. I forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:16 PM
-5

Nope just saying “look at the data” is a great dating strategy. Women really resonate with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:13 PM
5

The median age for first birth is just over 30 years old. So obviously it’s not too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:06 PM
1

The bottom is no lower than it ever was- there is just a lot more ways to confirm it easily and universally now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:12 AM
-1

Keep pedaling that grievance cycle…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:49 PM
0

Imagine living a life weighed down with so much perpetual pretense…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:24 PM
2

It often works as shorthand for a whole variety of things- ambition, intelligence, class, shared experience, earning potential, etc. It wasn’t an explicit requirement for me but whenever I saw someone with “some college” or similar it usually wasn’t a good sign for a great match.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:05 PM
8

Who you passing it on to exactly? Guy doesn’t sound like he’s got too many little tax deductions running around. And again most waistlines expand and hairlines recede faster than bank accounts grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:58 AM
3

Yeah most wallets can’t outrun time…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:18 AM
25

And you get more handsome every day right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:10 AM
1

Maybe it’s changed but when I was studying there we had apartments overlooking Piazza Navona and pretty much that fact was enough to close the deal with Italian girls at bars and clubs. There was a club at the time right across the alley from our building entrance. There would always be people out in the street on the weekends and sitting on our stairs. They’d see some random Americans come out and immediately wonder why the hell we lived in such a place- it was a former nunnery attached to St A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:57 PM
3

Architecture- sexiest degree out there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:18 PM
2

Yeah everyone thinks of sexy tax preparers…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:18 PM
7

If you are jerking off 9:1 then your sex partner is you, not the 1
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:35 PM
3

And after the swelling goes down and the bruises heal the tall guy will still be tall and the short guy will still be short…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:15 PM
1

This one or the identical one from a year ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:36 AM
1

I think it depends. I used to be an architect and I had a girlfriend who would always say that’s what I “was” even though I had left the field before ever meeting her. I made like 2-3x as much in my current job as I ever did as an architect, but architect just sounds more impressive. And in many ways it is, but definitely not in the pay department.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:04 PM
8

Take a statistics course. Average doesn’t mean the exact center of a range of values.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:50 PM
3

Why do you wear pants? Doesn’t seem very manly- biologically speaking…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:06 PM
1

You literally said it was 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:48 PM
2

And $80k is rich? In which big urban center?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:24 AM
3

So it’s only about legalities not reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:22 AM
8

You know rural areas are located next to urban ones right? There are these things called “commutes” And I still have friends in very big cities that I wouldn’t say agree with this claim you are making. Cities are also filled with poor people that would very gladly be making 50k let alone 80. The poverty rate is generally higher in urban cores than surrounding areas- but it’s all about being rich right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:50 PM
14

Because it sounds like you are trying to hedge by saying 18 which just so happens to be the age of consent round these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:47 PM
7

None of us were pulling down $70k when we were mostly dating. I’d say the vast majority met their partners in college or shortly thereafter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:43 PM
14

Oh really, magically at 18? Seems like a rather arbitrary year biologically speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:40 PM
3

In rural PA, but my friends are from coast to coast. I’ll probably be at about $150k by the end of the year but it can go up and down 20-30k depending on how hard I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:28 PM
7

And when do you reckon they start being attractive. It certainly can’t be their 20’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:21 PM
6

I make more than nearly any of my circle of friends from high school and college and most of them seem to be doing just fine in the lady department if your standard here is a 6/10…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:14 PM
7

You know women age right? They aren’t perennially in their 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:11 PM
3

Poor, landless losers haven’t been able to vote for very long either. Just sayin’
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:15 PM
11

The average age of women at first born child is over 30 in the US now. Obviously reproduction after 30 isn’t such a huge issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:35 PM
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Men so masculine they can’t handle a self-possessed woman… Give me break. If you need your woman to be some shrinking violet you aren’t quite the man you believe yourself to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:03 AM
1

It’s definitely the way she has me measure my height and then has me show her the balance in my bank account. Gets real spicy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:15 PM
2

Most of the princesses have no parents. It’s a whole trope that they die tragically. Have you ever actually watched a Disney movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:32 PM
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Something around 40% of first births are to women 24 and younger. So yeah they will still have those kids 10 years later, but a big chunk of women are having kids under 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:17 AM
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Plenty of 18-25 women with a kid…or a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:14 AM
2

I don’t know, there is a new Chevy ad where he gets her a puppy and she gets him a $60k truck…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 03:24 PM
2

Military is probably also not a great place to draw conclusions- look at other areas of human behavior from within the military and those who have left compared to the general populations. Suicide, binge drinking, substance abuse, sexual assault, spousal abuse. Doesn’t seem to be an environment that fosters typical or healthy human interactions necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:57 PM
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I feel like the sample drawn from a strip club might not be the most accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:48 PM
2

People’s dating gripes have become a personality type
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:35 PM
1

Good old ancient times when it was common for men to fuck boys at the bath house
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:10 AM
1

That is exactly what happens with lions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:44 PM
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It wasn’t about whose work was considered more dangerous, just who is doing the work. In those societies the women are working many more hours than the man. Unless you consider sitting around in the bush for hours waiting for an opportune piece of prey “working”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:41 PM
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And where do we draw the line on “nature” for humans? In most hunter/gatherer societies the “gatherers” are responsible for way more of the calories than are the hunters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:53 AM
1

So if you hang out with 2 chicks but they are sisters it’s all cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:47 AM
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Female lions do nearly all the hunting for a pride…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:43 AM
1

It was intended as shorthand for those tasks that are commonly associated with what a woman would have traditionally done while maintaining a household- cleaning, laundry, dishes, cooking, ironing, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:53 AM
2

He downed what was left of his Monster energy drink and stared intensely into the mirror. A cloud of Axe hung heavy in the air. “I’m not just an Andrew Tate fan boy” he tells himself. “I don’t even like him that much…I AM an Alpha dammit!” He’ll show that dude on Reddit what a real man is. “But it feels so wrong!?!” As wrong as how he uses the word “literally” for everything. But that has never stopped him before obviously. And it won’t today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:39 PM
1

Maybe you need to work on some redditor fan fiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:24 PM
2

Andrew Tate told me you gotta leave them wanting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:22 PM
1

I mean I should have known better- you didn’t say you were “literally” done. I should have read it more carefully. But yes, you are clearly the victor here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:21 PM
2

Oh you got me you cheeky scamp! Weren’t you leaving? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:12 PM
2

Using the bold function to emphasize your incorrect statements isn’t helping… Thanks for playing!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:04 PM
2

Oh lord…your example is describing Nazis because you say “Nazis are…”. You are describing Nazis directly as punks. Bunch isn’t the quantity of Nazis in your sentence. I didn’t say “followers of Andrew Tate are a bunch of wannabe alphas”. That’s an explicitly inclusive statement. Again, please don’t feel constrained by the conventions of the English language. Go forth and misuse it boldly as you quite literally have been doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:47 PM
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No because I quantified it by saying “bunch” instead of “every”. If I meant every I would have said every. But I didn’t. You simply chose to make it into every even though no such explicit quantity was given. But please, keep using “literally” to describe all the things you choose to imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:31 PM
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“Literally”- you need to look up the meaning of that word. A “phenomenon” is not explicitly inclusive. It could describe a single instance or huge number. In this case I used the ambiguous “bunch” as a quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:19 PM
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You aren’t so good at this huh? Try the part you put in bold…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:12 PM
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You are really good at reading things that were never written by me- what a talent! Go do some alpha stuff champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:08 PM
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My comment was not exclusive. What you described certainly can happen. Is it what usually happens? Almost certainly not. Good leaders understand their own limits and blind spots and seek out the guidance of others, but they usually don’t go about proclaiming themselves an alpha male either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:58 PM
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Or maybe they are pretending to be leaders when in the end they know they are just a bunch of followers? Nah, too reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:45 PM
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I’ve always been struck by the phenomenon of a bunch of self proclaimed alpha males handing over their time, money and loyalty to another supposed alpha male in order to buttress their own claims of alpha maleness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:20 PM
1

Value isn’t always dollars…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:13 PM
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I feel like it’s somewhere in between. If she is attractive and considered attainable the count becomes meaningless. If she’s attractive to the point of being perceived as unattainable then she is described as undesirable because of the count. It’s basically a performative exercise of a standard when there is no reasonable consequence for exercising the standard. If they “reject” some gorgeous babe because she has slept around too much they didn’t really lose anything by deploying the standard b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:34 AM
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I’m not saying there is a required investment in dates prior to sex. It’s the presentation of an expectation of sex at the jump if a gal wants a chance. He holds the expectation in this case and expects it to be respected. But it’s juxtaposed with paying for half a meal as if these are similar expectations placed upon women. They simply aren’t. Then it’s all framed within the context of establishing a LTR as if these filter mechanisms presented at a first date are somehow relevant to the success…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:38 AM
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The one night stand has existed for millennia. There are literally Greek myths about it. I have no quarrel with what ever is the “appropriate” amount of courtship. The idea of comparing 1/2 of dinner with sex is that they are totally incongruous. As if the risk of paying for all of dinner is remotely comparable to that of fucking someone. But those expectations on the parties are presented together here as if they are. I take issue with the presentation that if you want to get into a LTR with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:14 AM
1

Is the assumption here that her exclusivity with you is long established before your exclusivity with her? What’s the longest one of these LTR has gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:01 AM
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What do you define as LTR? What’s the minimum length of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:47 AM
2

Sorry I forgot that the value of 1/2 an appetizer and a cheeseburger is essentially equal to having sex… Call it shame if you like, but it’s an absolutely ridiculous juxtaposition. You want to get with him? Well be prepared for sex but you better offer to pick up 1/2 the tab too. And those are the challenges facing women in the dating world. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:42 AM
0

Being attracted to one another with sexual tension seems like something other than how this is being described here. This feels like they better be ready to hop in the sack and pay for the upsize on that value meal if you want to hang with this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:00 AM
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Partner? You planning to sign a lease on a new place with her after dinner or something? If a woman seriously suggested 2 checks at dinner I would take that as a very bad sign for the prospects of a 2nd date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:57 AM
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I feel like I had a decent run in the online dating world and never once did it cross my mind to expect the woman to pay for the date. Even the dates that were complete shit shows. Desirable men pay the bill, because you’re a man. That’s just how it is. Going halfsies on dinner has never dampened a single set of panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:41 AM
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This sounds like the most tedious mating dance here. Offer to pay the dinner bill but I won’t let you. Convince me you want to have sex but don’t actually offer it. I’m not really sure these are the big issues that women online dating struggle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:30 AM
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Do you expect her to ask if you want to be picked up? See if you want the door opened for you? If it’s a straight up date just pay the damn bill. So you want them to want to have sex with you but if they actually do do you think less of them? Because it feels like that’s the next part here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:21 AM
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Christ you want sex on the first date and you are going to fuss over going Dutch on the dinner bill? What a catch!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:07 AM
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I would be curious to see what tasks end up being included in the studies though. If the count ends at the front door or we are only looking at people in apartments or something it could skew it quite a bit. On child rearing though guys do have a lot of ground to make up. There are way too many dads that seem helpless with young kids in particular. Dads should be capable on any task the mom does aside from like breastfeeding- but you can still hold a bottle. And while it’s great for society to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:34 PM
5

That would not be surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:34 PM
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I think the answer is some kind of reasonable balance, but I think people put on the blinders when they start thinking of “chores” and men and women. Before getting divorced I took care of the maintenance of the house inside and out and my ex and I mostly split chores like cleaning, dishes, laundry etc. After we got divorced she had the house for a year and it suffered because I don’t think she ever quite realized the effort involved in all the things she never participated in. After 7 or 8 mont…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:07 PM
1

And that’s why in the comment before I had said “at least partly self-actualized” because no matter what part of your choices are influenced by the outside world. But this guy is talking about choosing a sofa as if even owning a sofa only makes sense to impress someone else. Don’t know about you, but my favorite sofa was bought because it was comfortable. I had zero concern about what anyone else thought of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:48 PM
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I thought that might be the case but the pairing with hobbies made me think you were treating them as “extracurriculars” The point remains though. We are here talking about the burden placed on women to maintain a household with chores and child rearing- “womanly tasks”- but are we overlooking various “manly tasks” about the house that men are typically thought of performing? Do those tasks get discounted by being characterized as “hobbies” because the guy actually might enjoy lawn care or chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:08 PM
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I never said that, but this guy is saying he’s making his decisions based purely upon how he believes someone else will react to it. Not the culture, not society, not his friends, or the neighbors- but a potential sex partner. And not just what they think but whether or not it is more likely to actually make that person into an actual sex partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:00 PM
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I don’t doubt that. Again the original point was about being partners in things- not looking for a nanny. But in mentioning “outside work” what is the value of mowing the lawn or shoveling the driveway (seemingly traditional male household chores) in comparison to tasks inside the home? I can honestly say in 15 years of owning homes I am the only person who has ever mowed the lawn or picked up a snow shovel at those homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:54 PM
7

Probably spending very little time on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:34 PM
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Most people- man or woman- don’t live a life of grievance against one another where the entire world is some zero sum game for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:18 PM
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I don’t disagree with that general characterization. I think everyone benefits from living alone for a period. Learn to maintain your lifestyle on your own first without other people to lean on- parents, roommates, significant others…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:50 PM
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Who is maintaining their household when they are single? Of course though, this was a professional talking to a bunch of other professionals who would be working in a professional setting. I think the unspoken assumption here was finding a “partner” not a “nanny” The advice definitely wasn’t to find someone to fold your laundry and load the dishwasher.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:35 PM
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Had a guy come into our professional practice class in college to talk about the transition from school to the professional world and strategies and whatnot. After all his advice the thing he said was most likely to help you succeed was finding a good partner in life. He said in just about every facet of life it takes way more effort to take it on alone and the value of a partner exponentially increases your leverage in achieving your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:37 PM
1

Achieving personal fulfillment by checking the boxes on someone else’s list. Doesn’t sound so red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:33 PM
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Christ, I hope you don’t make every decision in life based on whether or not it will increase your chances of landing or keeping a partner. Try to be an at least partly self-actualized person instead of a collection of things you believe other people might find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:28 PM
1

Different strokes for different folks. If that’s what works for you and yours have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:22 PM
1

Different strokes for different folks. If that’s what works for you and yours have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:22 PM
1

Oh so you are putting all the emotional labor for the relationship on her- like the initial post suggests to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:17 PM
1

And she gets the benefits of your clearly high opinion of her as well…and you never have to face the horror of folding a fitted sheet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:08 PM
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You literally just said her efforts at home are essentially worthless compared to working out in the “real world” like yourself. Are you so bad at pairing socks and loading a dishwasher that you think what she provides around the house is more valuable to you than the money she could earn outside the house? By your own admission, she would make more cleaning someone else’s house or watching someone else’s kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:00 PM
2

Are you actually in a position to make good on any of these claims- woman at home? Kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:53 PM
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I think anyone regardless of sex should live alone for some period of time in order to learn and understand what it takes to maintain a household. Too many people never had to successfully maintain a lifestyle without leaning on parents, roommates or significant others and never figured out the plethora of tasks- big and small- that go into living.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:46 PM
2

My biggest hang up is the comparison between the 2 guys. The dumb guy seems perfectly satisfied with their state of being- that’s probably healthy. He’s performing to his ability and isn’t attempting to blame anyone else for the outcome. It would be different if he always went around confidently proclaiming his genius then failing and blaming other factors for the failure- that would be faking it. The smart guy needs to figure out how to accept himself. That doesn’t mean lowering your standards,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:19 PM
2

I don’t think this scenario is about faking it. All the characters seem to be described as really having the confidence levels described. The OP just seems to believe the “low performing” individual doesn’t “deserve” to be confident for some reason. I have no issue with the “high performing” guy and his lack of confidence due to outside influences. It’s unfortunate. But it’s not fair to denigrate the other guy just because he’s not as smart or whatever. He has every right to be happy with who he…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:36 PM
1

Give me a break. The OP is characterizing the one who performed the task better as a “better man” and you are taking issue with me saying he crumbles when things don’t go as well as he’d like? The OP is disdainful of someone who is comfortable in their abilities and limits just because he’s not comfortable in his own. Life rarely always goes your way. Being able to deal with it when it doesn’t is just as important as how well you perform at the task itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:19 PM
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There is nothing wrong with understanding your own limits and living happily within them. You’re problem seems to be that people can be perfectly happy with “less” simply because you perceive yourself as having “more” but you aren’t actually happy with “more”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:58 PM
13

Really is he “better” if things don’t go his way he crumbles? How’s that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:55 PM
3

Oh no what will we do in a few million years?
/r/MensRights07/12/22 04:26 PM
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Higher income individuals and couples simply don’t have to deal with many of the issues faced by lower income people. All those daily financial stressors take a toll mentally and emotionally and it seeps into the relationship and dating world very easily. When I was dating after divorce I almost exclusively dated women who had kids. Not because I was seeking that but because those were the women that seemed to be in the same place in life as me. They had the same kind of maturity in that regard …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:46 PM
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No I think many when faced with opportunity are also keenly aware that it means the potential for failure too. A lot of people out there with big dreams and big talk that can comfortably avoid making good on either because they just don’t have enough money to realistically make it happen. You can safely be a successful tugboat captain in your dreams knowing full well it’s never going to happen. So when someone says “Here I have the money, go make your dreams real.” that can be pretty scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:02 AM
3

You know it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:55 AM
1

It’s that you want someone who has a certain mindset and not necessarily a certain income level right? Because the mindset will work at any level- banker or starving artist. Once you hit a certain level of earning a lot of the biggest challenges in life fall away and many of the big stressors in a relationship- financial- become less existential. You’re not stressing over utility bills and the rent assuming you haven’t been living outside your means. Not arguing over who filled the gas tank or w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:37 AM
1

You’d think if you were “naturally geared” to lead the prospect of having the resources to really go for it would be appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:20 AM
8

Yeah a return to a world where there are scores of fatherless children who are essentially seen as a resource drain to their absentee fathers at best and possible future mating competition at worst sounds like a unique thing that was brought about by dating apps. It’s certainly not a phenomenon that exists in modern times before about 10 years ago…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:18 AM
3

No idea, but they say there is a lid for every pot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:55 PM
3

Yeah I get it, just filling in more details. I believe the most notorious session of her was being covered in chili dog sauce. It was quite the…spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:49 PM
1

Always ate Panda Express. I don’t think I ever saw her cook in an entire year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:45 PM
2

My ex-wife makes $200-$300k depending on the year. Understandably, we don’t exactly trade notes on our dating lives but since we have 2 kids together there is a little insight as we agreed after the break that the kids don’t meet anyone without giving each other a heads up. 6 years on I’m remarried a few months now and I didn’t find getting tossed back into dating all that difficult. On the other hand, I think she has really struggled to find eligible guys. A lot of that is finding a guy who cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:38 PM
16

One of my roommates in college did solo fetish porn where the girls were covered in various foods. It paid the bills. Never late on the rent. Though the girls in her sorority tried to get her kicked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:16 PM
7

Not seeing too many people starting off with “My current wife…” or even “My current girlfriend…” Need to concentrate on getting one before worrying about the better one you might find years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:19 AM
27

How many people answering this have even a mild potential to be married and successful at 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:23 PM
2

After taking a 15 year hiatus from dating, I’ve got to agree that women in their 30’s are way better then the ones in their early 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:50 AM
3

I gave no advice. The last line is simply an old saying demonstrating you don’t get to claim the accomplishments of those who came before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:38 PM
10

It’s basically what is your specific contribution to society that is greater than the average woman? Whether it’s a great king or some guy fighting in WW2, you want to stand on the shoulders of other men to tell women they haven’t accomplished as much. What have you actually accomplished though? You gotta do your own growing no matter how tall your father is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:22 AM
8

Is heralding the accomplishments of better men on Reddit in and of itself a contribution to society? Seems like stolen valor?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:53 AM
2

She’s from a culture where you literally can’t touch certain people because of their royal standing. Had the touching been in reverse you can be sure offense would have been taken too.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 09:21 PM
1

Because the royals are known for their impeccable race relations…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 09:18 PM
4

So you agree- a few years. People don’t get bent out of shape over 4 or 5 year age differences in adults dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:31 AM
2

From those I’ve found in the wild it always seemed like they would mention this podcast or that article or whatever. Maybe it’s different as a guy, as if they a attempting to see if I too was a subscriber to those views and want to find a kindred spirit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:30 AM
7

Again it’s by a few years, not 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:25 AM
2

Aren’t most of these types pretty open about it? Like they wear it as a badge of honor?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:25 AM
4

Yeah the studies support developmental changes in the mind by a matter of years not decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:07 AM
2

OP- I’m not going about hunting down your old posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:20 PM
2

The OP. She’s a virgin with a sexual portfolio of cyber sex and a douchebag dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:16 AM
4

According to a woman with admittedly zero sexual experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:02 PM
4

But she’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:39 PM
9

I’m sure this survey by a butt doctor is highly reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:22 PM
39

Maybe date someone in person first before writing off the rest of your love life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:45 PM
1

That’s my point. It’s far more complex than just averaging 2 heights. There are no sure things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:15 PM
3

5’9” is the US male average. And again I’m 6’1” and my ex is 5’ and our daughter is going to be upper 5’s when all is said and done. Our son hasn’t been high in the percentiles but he’s started a spurt since turning 6. I was never particularly tall until late in high school and didn’t stop growing until college. Genetics isn’t just averages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:40 PM
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My mom is 5’3” my dad is 6’3”, me and my brothers are all 5’10”-6’1” and my sister is 5’8”. My daughter is in the 90th percentile for height and her mom is 5’. My daughter will be taller than her mother in the next year or so. Genetics isn’t linear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:28 PM
2

I’m saying being at 0 is different than being at any other number. Your example was 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:52 PM
4

That’s different than chasing some higher number.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:32 PM
3

Psst…you could just lie. No one will know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:41 PM
23

Is this really that big of an issue after 2 or 3 dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:56 PM
2

That’s not even necessarily true. Also the vast majority of siblings that believe they have the same father actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:28 PM
5

Fraternal twins are no more related than brother and sister 10 years apart
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:17 AM
7

Spend some more time and you will the women aren’t exactly choosing the bottom of the barrel guys in that setting either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:21 PM
1

Must be all the Mormons…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:12 PM
5

No because the OP is claiming there is some statistical impossibility facing him finding a woman. If the dad found a women he is an anomaly that probably just beat the odds. It would be like asking a lottery winner their strategy. There wasn’t one. It was pure luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:00 PM
11

Yeah we just see harems all over in modern society…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:58 PM
9

There are literally more women than men, so statistically…. Also how is the wisdom of a father any better? That guy clearly got a girl despite this supposed statistical impossibility against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:50 PM
6

The other joke might be if you are wearing makeup you might be looking for a different sort of “beard”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:01 PM
10

I think the fact that people claim to have a “type” pretty well disproves this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:35 AM
1

Sexual dimorphism in mammals doesn’t even always favor the male when it comes to size and strength. It tends to, but it’s certainly not the rule. You seem to be suggesting evolution produces some kind of objectively “better” outcome in terms of performance. That’s not how it works. Evolution favors whatever behaviors or features result in successfully being passed on- often at the detriment of other competing behaviors or features. It doesn’t work toward any particular “ideal” or “right” outcome…
/r/MensRights04/11/22 07:41 PM
1

Oh and there aren’t other animals more closely related to humans that don’t exhibited different sexual dynamics? The fact is we are humans and the fact that we are able to discuss other animals habits in detail and compare them to our own pretty well demonstrates the ways animals behave have little to nothing to do with how we organize our societies.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 07:15 PM
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Even accepting all that as true, was any of the progress inspired by the social dynamics of prisoners or large cats? No. In those poorest places on the globe which social dynamic do you think typically rules? Pretty sure it’s not the one where men have less rights than women.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 12:48 PM
3

It’s a comment on the content not the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:41 AM
-8

I don’t know, there is more global wealth, health and knowledge today than at any other point in human history. Probably didn’t get here by checking on what prisoners and lions are up to…
/r/MensRights03/11/22 07:49 PM
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I don’t know, there is more global wealth, health and knowledge today in human history than at any other point in time. Probably didn’t get here by checking on what prisoners and lions are up to…
/r/MensRights03/11/22 07:49 PM
2

Sure, but if you can’t trust their answer on that question what value is their view of the behavior? If a group tells you they overall disapprove of a behavior moreso than another group, but it turns out they also participate in the behavior just as much as the other group, what value is there in the disapproval? It’s like the golfer who is going to make a big deal of picking and placing your ball but then they take gimme’s on a 3’ putt when they are out on their own.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 05:59 PM
1

When I started dating my wife I made maybe 70% more than her. In the time since I am probably doubling her earnings now. But she is passionate and ambitious about her profession. She already has a few degrees and is working on a doctorate. Sometime in the next 5 or 6 years I’d wager she will catch up and eclipse me in earnings. I’m totally fine with that and I look forward to the new possibilities that will open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:27 PM
5

Well it is difficult to overcome some level of public profile. Being a “nobody” always helps if you wish to present the real you in a new relationship. Maybe you need to lead with your goals as an alternative? Acknowledge that you have achieved X but that what you are looking to do is get to Y and Z and that won’t happen by undermining everything you did to get to X to begin with. I don’t know if you want a “partner” in your endeavors and certainly not everyone does. It’s probably also very diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:15 PM
1

Guess it depends how closely women’s behaviors mirror those of men… https://ifstudies.org/blog/extramarital-sex-and-religion-democrats-vs-republicans
/r/MensRights03/11/22 04:01 PM
7

Just because huh?
/r/MensRights03/11/22 03:55 PM
7

I’m suggesting nothing- it’s a question. Seems weird they wouldn’t ask if the respondents had actually had an affair. How they view affairs that don’t involve them is just about meaningless.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 03:46 PM
4

No who between liberal and conservative women. It doesn’t really matter how they view it.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 03:45 PM
4

Yeah but who actually engages in the affairs more often?
/r/MensRights03/11/22 03:26 PM
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Don’t lead with your wealth if that isn’t the lifestyle you actually live. If you present yourself as all flash and riches that’s what people will expect- not fair but it’s the common response. I’m no where in the league you are talking but I have my own business, own a nice house and usually always have a less than 5yo vehicle along with some hobby vehicles. When dating I made it clear I’m an ambitious and responsible person in my professional and fiscal endeavors but I’d never talk money. I’d …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:12 PM
30

I think I lost 4 IQ points reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:46 PM
8

Baby steps. Can’t expect someone who is unwilling to clean up after themselves to be able to teach kids how to clean up. My parents always had a chore list that the kids needed to complete with age appropriate tasks. Establishes some self reliance and responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:42 PM
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I’m a guy. And if you expect someone to pick up after you, you are expecting someone to be your mother. Great for a child, not so much for an adult. If you can’t iron a shirt or clean a toilet or prepare a decent meal, you shouldn’t expect that your gal should do it all for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:54 AM
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Awful lot of guys here seem bent out of shape for having to keep up with house work. Have you never lived alone? Have you never been responsible for these routine life tasks? Do you expect your lady to be your mother- cleaning up after you and having a meal ready for you at a given time? A man should be able to handle any task in the house and take care of it when it needs to be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:32 AM
1

When given advice by a person with neck tattoos- take it. -rules to live by
/r/MensRights03/11/22 03:05 AM
2

Yes the glory days of the 1920’s when flappers became a thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:01 AM
26

The presumption of maturity is probably our mistake here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:50 AM
35

Wait people in that much of a relationship don’t just have a shared account for expenses? If you’re worried about going Dutch on the dinner bill maybe you shouldn’t have been out to dinner to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:23 AM
8

It is an interesting contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:27 AM
3

And you can’t seem to realize the same stability that benefits children might actually benefit the 2 adults too? You have greater combined resources, you have at least the agreement that you are working toward shared goals, you have someone to help you when you are sick, hurt, lose a job, etc. Someone to confide in and invest in and invest in you. It’s a promise you can hopefully rely on to get somewhere greater than the sum of the parts. You can certainly do that without a marriage as well- but…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:51 PM
2

The way some of the English is written makes me feel like it’s coming from overseas some place?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:27 PM
8

So the man can get mauled by the bear first while the woman watches?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:22 PM
7

Big strong man will protect you. He might even get enough pelts to make you a nice parka
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:13 PM
-1

Well it sounds like you don’t know how perilous your situation is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:06 PM
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Men have land? Protection from animals? Are these commenters living on the savanna?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:59 PM
2

How does a legal agreement make you a better parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:57 PM
1

Well I’m wondering if it’s coming from outside the US
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:56 PM
3

For food or raising as their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:29 PM
4

Yeah god forbid you actually trust a person. Will you sign a lease with a woman? Mortgage note?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:29 PM
4

What’s compelling about it exactly? If anything being DINK is the most amazing thing ever. Double the money, half the responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:01 PM
35

Is there some kind of cultural thing here with the constant claim that women are getting “protection”? Protection from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:00 PM
3

You don’t need to marry to have kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:57 PM
1

The spreadsheet is hyperbole. It’s that you seem to be keeping track of your instances of “vulnerability”. Maybe it’s your rhetorical style, but the writing lends itself to the interpretation that “here’s an example of me doing some no-risk vulnerability but I’m not going to bore you with all the other examples, just trust that they exist” Like I said, the way it’s presented in the post sounds transactional. Maybe it’s not in practice, but it comes off that way in my reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:43 PM
1

“I’m not going to go through all of my messages and give other examples of vulnerability but you should get the idea.” Sure sounds like you are aware of others and they are readily available. Am I reading that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:34 PM
1

Hey you’re the one that says you have a bunch of other examples? That doesn’t sound like an assumption on my part- sounds like someone who is keeping track.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:29 PM
1

I don’t know, maybe it’s that you seem to appear to have a spreadsheet accounting for each time you’ve been “vulnerable” in a text that gives it the feeling of being less than sincere? Like you’re tossing out just the right amount of vulnerability to reel her in. The hardest part of being vulnerable is that you are being vulnerable. You’re exposed, you’re ego is put in peril. But if you go about it in a way that doesn’t actually require some risk are you actually being vulnerable at all? I’d say…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:23 PM
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That’s a restating of what I believe is your position. I guess if I had to articulate what I believe- the way emotional openness or vulnerability fits in relationships between men and women there is certainly an aspect of levels and intensity that go along with how developed the relationship is. As is the case with so many things in a relationship. But once you turn it into an “if I do this, I can get that…” kind of scenario you’re not really being vulnerable, you’re being calculating. I’m a pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:15 PM
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It sure sounds like you are more concerned with effectively convincing her of something about yourself than you are with establishing healthy trust between parties that actually allows someone to be vulnerable and then also be understanding of the other person. If what you really mean is “you should start slow and build to more substantial and meaningful emotional openness”- sure of course. But the way it is written feels like it’s a strategy not trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:58 PM
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Because you are consciously tempering your level of vulnerability to achieve “just the right level” to be attractive to your love interest. Once you seek out to curate the feelings that’s transactional. You provide this specific, discreet amount of feelings to get what you want out of her. I think you are confusing the trust part of vulnerability with opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:52 PM
6

Yeah all the muscle in the world doesn’t make someone good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:45 PM
12

Yes too transactional. Like pickup artist stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:44 PM
2

There is a whole sub about big dick problems. Plenty of people there complaining about the struggle of big dick. Though I agree the way this is written is making the vulnerability aspect very transactional- not actual vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:41 PM
1

Beauty is only a light switch away…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:32 PM
2

Yeah there are some things that outweigh cash. I worked as an architect for years and didn’t make a lot of money doing it but people always seemed impressed by the job. Meanwhile I make like 3x what I ever made as an architect but people still seem more impressed by the fact that I used to be one than by my current profession. Some pursuits come with status even if it doesn’t translate to money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:28 PM
1

Status can definitely be a moving target and sometimes unexpected. Had a fun experience this weekend at an NFL game. A friend organized getting tix for a group of about 2 dozen in an enclosed club section of seats- pretty fancy, felt nice going through the special entrance to the stadium for club tix holders. It’s all by design and it works. You start to feel real special. Get to the club level and immediately realize there are a handful of hall of fame retired players in there and a bunch of pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:04 PM
1

Well I guess I’m happy to see you realize so many items of “status” are fleeting at best and worthless at worst. It’s not fair to judge all human relations by how things might play out in specific, temporary circumstances- such as the captain of the football team in high school. The captain of the football team from my high school days is a friend and even he looks back at high school as dumb. People grow up and change, don’t try to apply behaviors across the board. I think a lot of what you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:40 PM
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I’d like an accounting of what one needs to be considered to have “status” or the ability to “provide” versus an “average guy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:06 PM
7

My vote is 7. Seeing some eyeballs would help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:03 PM
3

That’s confusing biological age with beauty standards. They aren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:10 PM
3

Yeah I also doubt you’d see much difference at that range of ages being discussed here. That plays a bigger role closer to the end of life. Even at 40 they are only about half way though life on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:57 PM
1

But being bald at that age might be the exactly correct expression of those genes at that age. There may be absolutely nothing less “fit” about those genes than the other ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:56 PM
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What the hell does “genetically younger” mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:45 PM
1

Explain “cannot socially acceptably dress up”? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:33 PM
1

I like how half a century of pre-internet, post sexual revolution history and interaction is just ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:31 PM
11

People in their 30’s now went through all the same economic shit that people in their 20’s have except they also had 2008 to deal with. Signed, My 401k balance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:16 PM
1

…sick burn…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:21 PM
4

Riiiight… sounds like you might be more addicted to jerking off than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:24 AM
5

Have you considered that you are seeking a fantasy? Porn isn’t real. They are literally actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:20 AM
2

Yeah and neither of those are informed by reality champ
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:18 AM
4

How do you even know what you want if you haven’t tried it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:09 AM
2

Sounds like you have no valid reason not to bang your buddies…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:28 AM
5

You can fuck your guy friends now. It’s totally acceptable 🌈 Problem solved!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:03 PM
1

Hangovers and puking are for babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:56 PM
3

And yet the median age is 30. Half above, half below. So clearly it’s not so certain as you seem to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:55 PM
1

I’ve found if a gal has it together in her 30’s she’s probably got it for the long haul. In the 20’s you still can’t really say how things will turn out. Hot 40’s babe- she’ll still be a looker at 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:49 PM
3

And clearly most people aren’t trying to get knocked up in their 20’s- thus the median age is 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:45 PM
1

Try harder…I could kick my 20’s self’s ass and drink him under the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:44 PM
3

No! No! Figuring out how life works and how to be happy is settling! Don’t you see!?? True greatness is griping about not getting laid at 24!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:43 PM
3

The median age for giving birth is 30 in the US. So quite literally as many women are older than 30 giving birth as under 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:37 PM
1

Keep scrolling…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:35 PM
2

I did answer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:36 PM
3

Beauty is only a light switch away…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:27 PM
1

Being attractive doesn’t mean you have any clue how to actually fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:26 PM
5

Think a lot of people here are living a “Leo lifestyle”? I mean if he can do it while “badly aging” any of you young bucks should have no problem. See how well it works…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:19 PM
7

Hit the nail on the head. Seems most of the guys talking this way are pretty young and not objectively successful by any typical standard but they are buying into some fantasy where a decade or so in their future they get to run the show while simultaneously complaining that all these young, sexy women can’t also see and accept the grand vision they have of themselves today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:07 PM
5

No one here is Leo though huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:00 PM
6

It is, and it’s sort of funny you seem to believe 20-somethings have a monopoly on sexual prowess? Having actually lived through my dating life of 20’s and 30’s and having participated in the “sexual / relationship marketplace” (that kind of thinking probably being your biggest issue right there) I can honestly say dating, sex and relationships were more fulfilling when your partner has a bit more maturity, life experience and understanding of the world. Just because some 23yo babe is smoking ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:59 PM
2

No you quite literally premised it on the “sexual marketplace”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:37 PM
5

You realize you will one day not be in your 20’s and who ever you meet in their 20’s will also end up in their 30’s as well. Or do you expect to perpetually have 20-somethings?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:36 PM
5

So you believe a relationship is just sex? There are loads of young, physically attractive people who absolutely suck as people. What’s the point of being around someone if you hate everything about them except their wet parts?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:13 PM
3

Women in their 30’s > Women in their 20’s Fight me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:05 PM
1

Is the author 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:03 PM
18

How’d he suddenly become 2 years older?
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:54 PM
1

Yeah because obsessing over how height might impact dating when someone isn’t even done growing makes all kinds of sense. We should encourage it! If he concerns himself with his height enough he might actually grow even taller!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:13 PM
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Yeah it’s almost as if there are no absolutes or something. So. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:27 AM
3

Relative height, not absolute. The position almost always taken by these folks is that it’s absolute- it’s quite obviously not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:25 AM
2

Well seeing as on average men are taller than women…the expectation would be that the men are taller even if all pairings were totally random. These people seem to believe women can A: easily discern a 6’ tall person. B: only ever actually want someone 6’ or taller
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:17 AM
2

If you know all your intentions at the very start it doesn’t really sound like you care to learn much of anything about the other person…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:15 AM
3

Yeah only pseudo-pedophiles are paying for virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:26 AM
1

Oh I agree. Being shorter and especially simply less than 6’ isn’t a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:29 PM
3

Oh so you quite literally did try to keep the same standard for a mate all from high school through young adulthood for a decade and a half… I think of who I was interested in in high school and it seems ridiculous to me now. That’s not because of who they were- they were just typical teen girls- but I was just a typical teen guy too. It made sense to have those kinds of standards then- it doesn’t now. That’s not settling. Live a little and you realize how meaningless the social dynamics of high…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:43 PM
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Yeah all those women going through years’ long relationships just to bail out and finally land a 6-footer… People get into and out of all kinds of relationships for all sorts of reasons. The OP is trying to claim that central to those reasons is height. Anyone with eyes can see being under 6’ is not stopping the majority of men from finding women. Of course you’ll just say it’s “settling” because of course that’s what it must be! People only ever settle, they never actually change. Whatever you …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:57 PM
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Maybe the 15yo kid would be better served realizing there is a lot to deal with in life besides your dating prowess in high school. If you look back at your high school years as some great achievement in your life, you probably aren’t doing so well. That doesn’t mean people should expect those years to be miserable, but certainly don’t be miserable just because they aren’t amazing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:51 PM
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Where’s the study that short men have to invest more money to land a date than tall men? I’ve never been on a date where I didn’t pay for the whole thing. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:44 PM
6

Give 1000 monkeys 1000 typewriters and they will eventually produce all the absolute truths in the world…or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:27 PM
11

But the premise here is that under 6’ can’t even get that far. If they are getting divorced they sure made it a long way…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:18 PM
12

Been to a lot of weddings where the groom isn’t 6’….
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:41 PM
3

The real problem here is the premise- seeking some kind of absolute truth on Reddit- is probably unwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:00 PM
10

Yeah because speed dating isn’t an anecdotal situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:56 PM
2

Well I’m literally taller than most men and yet I don’t see mostly taller men than me in settings with couples
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:53 PM
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As a 6’-1” man I gotta say I see an awful lot of sub-6 footers running around with ladies. Should I be letting them know they are doing it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:32 PM
15

Went through a no fault divorce and I can’t imagine how it would have gone otherwise. The court basically just signed the form and we worked everything out on our own. 6 years on and it has worked fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:14 PM
0

If I got rid of friends for each of their poor life choices I wouldn’t have too many friends. I think it’s your place as a friend to express your concerns but you can’t live their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:02 PM
15

Jeez a lot of people must believe you just die after 35…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:11 AM
1

Weird flex, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:03 PM
2

Spend some time around organic chemistry…hands get washed before peeing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:51 PM
6

You still cross an income threshold and suddenly it’s all men in the bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:24 PM
10

Hey now if all the accomplished women start dating the dregs what are the accomplished guys supposed to do? Some guys actually appreciate ambition, ability, drive, success and aren’t looking just for a young, dumb and pretty thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:48 PM
2

Perhaps consider that “money” is a very simple corollary for other characteristics that might be attractive- ambition, commitment, creativity, intelligence, self-control. Certainly not always, but probably more often than not, if a man has some “money” that wasn’t from family or similar, they very well might also have these character traits which many women find appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:17 PM
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