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Well, yeah and no. Yes in the sense i make quite a lot of money. No in the sense that there's still a lot more to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:59 AM
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I have no solution for you. The system is far too broken and corrupt as it is now, and we all see the writing on the wall that it's going to become even worse as feminisation of men and "feminism empowered women" are taking over. The only thing I can tell you is that you're still a man, and no one can take that away from you. On average, and by far - we are smarter, stronger, and better than women in nearly every single way. So while you were dealt some very shitty hands, you do have the strengt…
/r/MensRights08/02/20 04:53 AM
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100% with you on this one. Romance is for those who deserve it and have proven over a long term that they know their place, and know how to please you. You don't buy the town's slut chocolate for Valentine's day.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 04:49 AM
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Have you tried this and has it worked for you? I keep my relationships red pilled, but on certain days such as valentine's day, I'll romance them for a change, and it makes the connection much stronger and makes them crave even more.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 04:45 AM
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The 50th law it's called, that one I read it 3 times. It really helped me to not only get through a really hard period in my life, but to also foster a more fearless attitude. Read it, I'm 100% sure you'll love it if you already love the 48 laws.
/r/MensRights08/02/20 04:23 AM
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Ah, understand. I only have experience in my own field of being an entrepreneur so I am biased and don't know that much about other fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:20 AM
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It's an absolutely life changing book. I've read it 7 times so far, and it still keeps my attention every time I pick it up.
/r/MensRights08/02/20 04:19 AM
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Law 38: Think As You Like But Behave Like Others http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com/2011/05/law-38-think-as-you-like-but-behave.html https://medium.com/@asandalis/law-38-think-as-you-like-but-behave-like-others-8ff0fd646406 ​ Read those, and read the full 48 laws of power book too. Pretend to be neutral in school, because you're there to learn, get good grades, and that's it. You're not going to change the system as just a student, so don't become a martyr. Think as you like, but when in a host…
/r/MensRights08/02/20 04:17 AM
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Fucking hell lol, 20 going on 40 with that face and that style
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/20 04:09 AM
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In normal jobs here, I see men and women working similar amount of hours. When it comes to being self employed or having an own business, then I see those people (men or women) working a LOT more hours than the average. But more often than not, it's men who are self employed or starting businesses, so that skews the number a bit. ​ In my case, I used to use amphetamines (and meth at times) to pull off crazy 50+ hours long programming sessions - all to build a business.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:59 AM
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Lol, I have absolutely no idea how I would react to that. With how uptight the English were (and still are), I'd love to be a fly on the wall at that event. In Argentina the age of consent is 13, and Argentina being one of the "good" countries in South America, points that a low age of consent doesn't mean that the entire country is going to descend into madness. The key point is that it is consensual, and not abusing a position of power. But from when I was 13, I was very well aware of what rel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/20 03:51 AM
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Idiotic because before the age of marriage was MUCH lower than it is now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/20 03:30 AM
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The quickest times I've gotten girls in bed, has been with my wife getting sexual with her. They tend to feel more comfortable when it's a woman initiating things, so that helped set the mood pretty quick. There were times we'd meet a girl when the bars are closing, come home, and the three of us would start fucking.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:56 AM
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Nothing really. I don't do the bullshit they "want" us to do like asking for consent every single step of the way like an autistic retard, but I am good at reading when she is interested in things progressing or not. I don't do something sexual out of nowhere with a girl, I always watch for her signals first and then progress.
/r/MensRights08/02/20 01:54 AM
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What's your sleep schedule? Do you get a good 8-9 hours of sleep at night? If you mean the shape of your eyes being sleepy, they could also just be droopy and then I don't think anything but plastic surgery can fix it.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:57 AM
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Ah, then it's entirely different. Is she like this often, or is it just a one time thing? If she is rational most of the times, then the best course of action is to talk to her, explain to her why you weren't cheating (your alibi), and calm her down.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 12:19 AM
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Fighting doesn't help, don't scream back as that'll make the screaming even worse. To be an alpha doesn't mean always going on fight mode, you can choose your battles. I find it's best to just leave. Standing there like a deer in the headlights makes you look as if you're lost and defeated. Leaving just shows you're not putting up with that. You can also tell them that you won't tolerate them screaming at you. That is if your voice doesn't break when you say it.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:10 AM
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So you cheated on her, and she wants to leave you. What is there to handle? You fucked up.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 12:08 AM
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Well, if you feel that you're the type who absolutely needs to have sex with other women, it is something you can take up with you girl. I explained to my wife while we were dating that I could never be exclusive, so even now that we're married I still date and fuck other women. It's not fully open since she doesn't fuck other men, but she is involved with girls at times.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:06 AM
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Books and such, I don't think they're so required to hide. One of the best books I read, The Rational Male, doesn't really scream TRP unless you actually read it. With my wife at least, she knows I browse TRP topics, and a lot of TRP men I know have gfs/wives that are aware of it too, and not many of them really think much of it. But ofc, your experience may vary.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:00 AM
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She rejected you, showed absolutely 0 signs of being interested in you, and now you're wasting your time asking here - for how you can waste more time on your "next step" with her - after you simply heard she said you're cute. Not counting the fact that a woman thinking you're "cute" is not that great in itself, when she thinks you're sexy or hot, then it's something. Puppies are cute. Alpha men are sexy.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:50 PM
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Bulgaria
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/20 11:48 PM
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I've spent quite some time here on asktrp, and it's pretty easy to pick out the guys who clearly haven't read the TRP sidebar at all.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:42 PM
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First, you're a fucking idiot for wanting to cheat on your fiancée. Second, the way you write is really very hard to comprehend. ​ But, if she hasn't contacted you, it's very likely she isn't that interested, or else she'd have jumped at the opportunity. You don't have much to lose by contacting her and just seeing if she responds.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:39 PM
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Latin dance clases. So salsa, bachata, and such. Country is Bulgaria.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/20 10:56 PM
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Respond with "of how good it looks on you", or something to this effect. In the future though, try to minimize texting, and keep your texts shorter.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 08:59 PM
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When the age of consent here is 14, who am I to argue with the government?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/20 08:44 PM
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I went to a yoga class here. The youngest woman there was 38, oldest was 56. Disappointing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/20 07:58 PM
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Don’t. It’s your fucking life, not theirs. Getting married now will mean you’ll rush to find a woman, and your career can even suffer. Same goes for having a kid. And as your value increases the caliber of woman you’ll be able to attract will be far higher than what you’ll attract now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/20 03:14 PM
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Red pill perspective is you do what you want, don’t do what you don’t want. I personally would advise against fucking low quality women as they’re just a band aid over a bigger issue of not being able to attract quality women. Don’t fuck uglies. Don’t fuck fatties.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:42 PM
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And I get happy when I see men hitting 35+, their careers are going great, they have money, confidence, looks, and are banging 18 year olds
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/20 02:31 PM
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Doesn’t seem like you have much other options than to keep looking. Also look into improving your sales skills and how you present yourself. An interview is a sales pitch where you sell yourself.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:26 PM
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I’m just an inch taller than you and I’ve been with some 52 or so women (I’m 28 for reference). So your height is really not that big as limitation as you might think. Second, why do you care and why does it matter if it was a mistake or not? It’s in the past, who cares. Move on.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:21 PM
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I've met women in a lot of different places, but currently I live in a very small city so I'm meeting women in a latin dance class. It's great because not only is it about 4 men there for some 12 women - but when dancing, you're both very close to one another, so that breaks the physical barrier too. They also have parties often, so sometimes we all go to a club together with a bunch of people from different "schools", or we all drive to Greece to party there.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 12:32 PM
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Nothing but to keep fucking other women, until you meet another one that's just as good if not better.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 10:01 AM
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Because by asking for a relationship, you showed neediness. So, there is a chance she lost at least some attraction to you. If you go there, you will show that you really are needy - by needing to be with her even if it's with other people. So the best you can do is not go, as if you had other things to do, showing that you're not going to chase her constantly, and if she is interested in you, she'll contact you afterwards even if you didn't go. So there's not much to win by going, but there is …
/r/askTRP07/02/20 09:26 AM
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Don't contact her, see if she contacts you back. It's going to be hard as hell but you can maybe still salvage something. Don't go to the party, if she did lose interest in you, you going there will make things even worse.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 09:21 AM
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Not quite true... If the man’s behaviour harms a man, it’s toxic masculinity If the man’s behaviour harms a woman, it’s a crime against humanity and the United Nations might get involved
/r/MensRights07/02/20 08:09 AM
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It does. My issue isn’t not getting hard but finishing too quickly after porn. When you enter a girl instead of just your hands, it’s such a better feeling that it’s hard not to blow your load instantly
/r/MensRights07/02/20 08:06 AM
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I never attack women. In theredpill, we didn’t (and don’t) attack women. You’ll find people in the anger phase but most of the top posts are about self improvement and gender dynamics. Here, we don’t attack women. The problem though is that being anti-feminist is now seeing as attacking women. If you don’t support female supremacy or if you support men’s rights, you’re then labelled as anti-women. To conclude, that guy is a fucking idiot.
/r/MensRights07/02/20 02:37 AM
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He also ordered McConville to pay his ex a $2,000-per-day fine.­ It’s not only about the ‘spousal support’ he burnt. They also wanted to really drill the point on who’s side they’re on.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 11:40 PM
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By definition feminism does not mean equal rights for everyone. But, if they can freely support feminism, I’ll proudly support ‘the patriarchy’.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 11:37 PM
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Stop going after people who don't make an effort to come to you at times. What you need to do to be wanted, is to be interesting. To have confidence and an aura about you that shows you're a man who knows what he wants and will go for it, and nothing stands in your way. Do you do anything interesting with you life? Forget the people who knew the "old" you, and focus on meeting new people instead that you can have a blank slate with.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 07:34 PM
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Would you throw a hot dog across the courtroom to show what sex with her is like?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/20 07:24 PM
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This is what a free, powerful, and empowered woman looks like! Fuck off with your sexist ideas about the sanctity of marriage and being faithful to your husband!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/20 07:22 PM
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I don’t know what point you’re trying to make
/r/MensRights06/02/20 06:30 PM
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So it becomes sort of a self fulfilling cycle. This is exactly it. When you get into that cycle, it suddently becomes MUCH more expensive for you, making it even harder to come out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:01 PM
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No, it's not the same here. It's a LOT more relaxed. When I had a very bad year in my business and couldn't pay, the government simply paid my ex girlfriend child support, and then when I had money I paid the government back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:00 PM
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Keep it to yourself. You won't change 50+ years of blue pill conditioning.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:35 PM
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In many states, you can be jailed for not paying child support. It's not hard to find stories of men who lost their jobs, got behind child support, and were jailed - making it so they fall more behind, owe more, and have a harder time finding a new job. So I don't know about changing diapers, but when it comes to child support - they expect you to pay to the point that even if you really can't, they'll make sure to make it even harder for you to pay by jailing you and putting a record on your na…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 12:26 PM
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Not every man who wears a suit and tie are businessman or white collar. But most who do, are. Not every woman who dresses slutty is, but most likely she is. ​ You can't judge a woman by clothes alone though, that's not an accurate unit of measurement.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 11:11 AM
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Finland is one of the most "equal" countries on earth. For feminism to exist there is proof that feminism is about supremacy and not equality. Feminism in an equal country = anti-man.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 11:07 AM
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Keep working on your business. As I worked on mine, in the start I did need validation from others, but as my business grew and so did my confidence - I found it much easier to not rely on anyone for validation but myself.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 11:05 AM
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Not going to happen. Unless WW3 comes around and a huge portion of men are wiped out, it won't happen. ​ But you can go MGTOW, I'd respect that. The only thing I wouldn't respect is if you (or anyone) were to stop improving themselves altogether and give up on self improvement. If you keep working on yourself to make yourself a better man, improve all aspects of your life and work to become a man you can be proud if - it's even better if you're not doing it for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:03 AM
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Got it, so then what you need is as I wrote in the first place. Internal validation. What interests you? And what is it that you want to achieve in life? And what skills do you have? ​ Have you considered starting a business before?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 11:01 AM
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Yeah but consider that most men don't work like hell to improve themselves, they don't constantly lift, improve their social skills, build a good business or career. Most men are pretty... average. So they don't have a high standard for the women they're with, and will validate anything with a vagina. Therefore raising the value of vagina. ​ You can't change that. The only thing you have control of is yourself. And it's your call if you don't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:58 AM
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Why do you get needy? Is it because you feel that you "can't lose them"? If you internalised TRP, hold frame, and all that - but fail on getting needy, that's possibly *the* reason they get turned off by you.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 10:56 AM
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You need a mission. And that's a shitty answer to give you when that's what you're asking for. But, if you have a degree in business.. why don't you start your own business? My business is what kept me grounded and always pushing like hell all these years, it's what's kept me always wanting to improve myself and always improving. Never stagnating.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 10:54 AM
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Because in general, women are placed higher than men for the fact that most men will fuck anything. Look at instagram thots who get a waterfall of men commenting them, Look at 4/10 women on Tinder who get more messages than even a 8/10 man. So women have this constant stream of validations for the fact only that they are women. So that makes it easier to "accept yourself" because even if you're a fat woman who has just an "Ok" face, you'll still get dates and you'll still get laid. So why go thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:51 AM
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....? What is your reasoning for even asking this? Of course they should be able to choose who to sleep with. Even the most red of men would agree with this. The only people who'd say they shouldn't be able to choose are incels and black-pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:48 AM
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Why are you going back to her? Why don't you have other options?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 10:39 AM
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Confidence is hard to "fake it until you make it". Confidence mainly comes from skils you've built, from being good at some things, and from having a track record of getting things done and achieving thing. But they might not be ghosting you for lack of confidence. How much of TRP have you internalised? Have you internalised to understand, for example, that you shouldn't be too available to her? That you shouldn't always jump when she says jump? That you shouldn't constantly talk to her? If you …
/r/askTRP06/02/20 10:39 AM
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Your therapist is not full of shit as what they said applies to most people. You could of course be an outlier. If you have been and stay this way for, say, a decade or so - then you'll really be able to tell whether you're truly satisfied without emotional attachment or not.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 10:00 PM
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Messing with alphas lead to pain in the same sense that for men, messing with attractive women also leads to pain. It leads to pain because of the attachment which they have towards the other person. When they are emotionally invested, they are more susceptible to being hurt. ​ They deal with it for him. The same as a man would deal with the pain of an attractive woman. ​ I'm making generalisations here though, since you didn't even describe what kind of pain you're referring to, so it's just a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:45 PM
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> yes, when I was young and severely depressed and suicidal and just all around a big fun bundle of f\*ked up.”* Key point here. There is no accountability. If she gets into a depressed state again, there is a good chance she'll fall back to her old way of "curing it" by cheating. And if he then wants to leave her, he'll be insensitive and an asshole for not "being a man" and supporting her in her time of need.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 09:42 PM
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Just make a move on her. In general, stop trying to look for signs and hints and meaning in what a woman says or does to see if she is into you. ​ You make a move. She rejects you, she's not into you. She reciprocates, she's into you. Then the mystery is solved. ​ You're a man, it's not your job to decypher hidden meanings. Your job is: You want something. You got for it.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:40 PM
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Did you ever think of the physical Consequences of pregnancy and abortions? Do you ever think about men being sent to jail because they can't afford to pay child support? About men having 20%, 30% of their paychecks taken for a child they did not want? Because TRP is infamous for saying awful shit about women. And left-wing/feminist media is infamous for saying awful shit about men. Context matters. Not to white knights. If she has a pussy, she can do no wrong. Do you pay attention to history wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:30 PM
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When she is in that state of mind, she'll likely not be able to see her own faults. The best you can do is ignore her, don't engage her, and let her come to you once she has calmed down. When she does and is calm, then you explain her that you will not put up with such behaviour. Don't do it in an accusing way, but a straight forward and firm manner. Not blaming. Explaining. If you feel that it's a bit hard to just ignore it, go out for a walk or do something interesting to keep your mind focuse…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:19 PM
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Then move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:10 PM
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You are incorrect. I'm stating what I believe to be correct in a matter of fact manner, without adding how I actually feel about the facts I'm stating. Not once have I made any mention about "wishing things were better" so I do not know where you picked that up from. You need to learn that you can be aware of a harsh truth and accept it, without being affected by it and letting it guide your life. And no, most people don't enjoy "right here right now". Most people barely even know what meditatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:08 PM
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You need to learn how to be more aloof and indiferent to them, and their drama. When they see you react, of course they want to keep pushing you. And perhaps even the fact that you aren't attracted to them makes it worse, as they want to somehow "break you".
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:56 PM
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I've lose close to $100k on people deceiving me, lying, and being overall scum bags. It bothers me quite a bit and I think about it at times. But the last thing I let it do, is get to me to the point that it affects my work and ability to earn more. ​ So first, cut the drinking and gambling, now. Gambling is one of the worst vice imaginable and it's fucking retarded that you're so upset that you didn't get paid, but now you're pissing away the money you do have. Drinking, it clouds your judgemen…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:49 PM
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You're 100% on point. If you lose the social proof of other women wanting you, she'll question why it is that she is still together with you. On top of course, of the physical attraction itself also fading.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:45 PM
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You're still focused on looks. It's not only about looks. And when the alpha talks over you, he is AMOGing you (showing he is the alpha male of the group). And of course you get insecure, and the more insecure you get, the worse it becomes because then they see that if you don't respect yourself, why should they? Eye contact isn't about autism, I bet you dollar to donuts it's related to your lack of self esteem. But this group, it seems way too far gone for you to fix things and be the alpha in …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:57 PM
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Anecdotal evidence and statistics. If someone has been in 14 committed relationships, odds are that there is at least one or two whom she fondly remembers and wishes she was still together with. And being "alpha widowed" is a thing as well. If one of those men was very alpha and/or high status, she'd compare you against him subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:55 PM
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One of the girls I was with, was a virgin, and I took her virginity. From there, every.single.fucking.thing I suggested we do, she was up for it. And we ended up doing some very depraved things (only the two of us though, of course - never involving anyone else). The reason she did everything though was because the attraction was there. The more attracted to a man a woman is, the further she will go for him. Likewise you hear stories of women who sucked off the entire football team in college bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:54 PM
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Let me concede and say both are bad, but for different reasons. One implies she's likely an alpha widow by statistics alone, and has a lot of emotional baggage. The other implies she is far too sexually liberal and is a bad candidate for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:36 PM
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It could likely be performance anxiety. When you are masturbating, there is no one to please or impress but yourself. When you are with a girl, you then can become self conscious as to whether she will like it, and if you will please her. This pressure completely kills your erection. And, it feeds on itself. Once you have one failed sex attempt due to lack of getting up, you'll start to become self conscious about it. ​ Take the NO and see if it helps. You just need to fuck a few times with a ha…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:27 PM
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Looks is half the part. I take it that you lack confidence, and you lack that aura of confidence to you. That aura that you are a man with a mission, you get shit done, you know what you want, and you won't put up with anyone's shit. Also, when you are around these groups of people who are used to disrespecting you, there is social proof that you are not to be respected. It then feeds upon itself. So if it is a social group that acts like this towards you, your best bet is to cut everyone off en…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:25 PM
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What you need to consider, is that a man who will wait 6 months for sex, give up, then come crawling back - is likely the type of man who isn't able to get it elsewhere, meaning he is a low value man. He might be more inclined to commit to you, but it might be out of desperation. Or of course it could mean he loves you, either or..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:22 PM
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True. But it says a different thing than one who was in a gangbang. Neither positive, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:08 PM
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Not really because the n count by itself doesn't mean or tell much. A girl who has had sex with 14 men, all in a committed relationship is entirely different than a girl who had sex with 14 men, but 4 of those was a gangbang.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 06:56 PM
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I agree with you. I gave him step 2 of the solution, and learning how to interact is step 1.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 05:51 PM
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Why exactly did they call you toxic? Did you say or do something specific aside from doing better in your career? And most men don't have each other's back, that's somewhat wishful thinking. There are good men as much as there are good women, but most people are out for themselves, and most people won't hesitate to put you down if it means they can benefit somehow. Men often like to put other men down so that they can be the "alpha" one in the group.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 05:29 PM
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Yes, but you just gave him a very vague description on what to do. Does he know about frame? Does he know about about AMOG, or when a guy is tryong to put him down into the beta position? Does he know about abundance mentality when it comes to girls and friends? Does he understand how the attraction of a woman works? Does he understand how to pull a girl without stepping on the toes of the men and creating trouble? Does he understand how to escalate with a woman? Does he understand the dynamics …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:48 PM
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No, I can't, because he gave absolutely 0 context to how he wants to apply it. Does he want to look good for the boss? Get a promotion? Bang the secretary? Let's see you give bullet points, and condense TRP without knowing any context.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:41 PM
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You might as well have asked "how do I fly an F-35 fighter jet?". TRP isn't a bullet point list of things you can follow. It's more of a mentality you build within yourself, something from within, and then it changes how you interact with the world and how others will look at you. Read the sidebar on the main subreddit and browse through top posts.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:34 PM
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Read books, watch documentaries, browse Wikipedia aimlessly, go to museums. What you need to do is feed your brain with information available to make conversation. You need new perspectives on things, to be able to look at life and conversations in a different way, from a different angle. ​ Second, read books about psychology, to better understand how the human brain works and how to interact with it.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:44 PM
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Are you holding your breath? Because you're blue as fuck. ​ First, make a move whether she has a boyfriend or not. It's not your problem if she cheats. If she is a cheater, she will either cheat with you or someone else. ​ Second, when you have been hanging around with her for so long, giving her all this validation and spending all your time with her, without making a move - she likely does not even see you as a sexual being in the first place. The thought of sex with you for her is likely as f…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:41 PM
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You are all over the place, lol. Take a step back from the situation, you're seriously overthinking it. And when she gives you any kind of attention or any kind of "signal", you're jumping right onto it looking for a meaning. ​ So first, you have oneitis. You shouldn't care and you shouldn't be the one asking "if she is your gf". That is not for you to care. You shouldn't be the one looking for commitment, the women are the one who should look for commitment from men. Second, you are really lack…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:36 PM
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As in, to claim that working out changes your bone structure is ludicrous. And while there are men who were dealt the shit trifecta of short, bad facial structure, and small penis - most men are by definition average. So for them to work out and improve themselves will of course make a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:24 PM
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It was as you said, I was overweight and the fat hid my facial structure. Considering the rate of overweight men and obese men - there are a lot of bones hiding unser a lot of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:22 PM
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I like sluts I would never commit to one in a million years, but I still like them No strings attached, no emotions, no games. Just fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 12:43 PM
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He's about 500 million dollars richer than you and I are, and what I learned from him absolutely works and made me a LOT of money - but you're entitled to your opinion.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 12:39 PM
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Well, she reacted and I don’t know what the texts were so I can’t really say. Word of advice, if you’re still entertaining other women - never imply exclusiveness. A lot of women will accept you spinning plates, but if you do it after implying exclusiveness, then you’re a liar and a cheater. Done is done though. Don’t contact. See if she comes back.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 12:00 PM
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Don’t react. Don’t don’t don’t don’t react. If you react with anger at someone who is angry, you will just escalate things. Ignore her entirely, don’t even bother telling her anything, and let her blow her steam off. By being level headed, you are showing that you aren’t afraid of her and that she doesn’t intimidate you. Could you imagine Mike Tyson getting angry at a cute 5 year old girl screaming at him? No, he wouldn’t react as she is no threat to him. Only react if she gets physical with you…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 11:53 AM
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Pretty much I hope you didn’t ever imply exclusiveness with her because then you’d be the one in the wrong But if you never implied that, then it’s up to her now to be against it and not be with you, or to accept it Don’t contact her. If she contacts you, pretend that nothing happened, don’t talk about it, don’t ask for apologies, just put it under the rug and act as if everything is ok. Because if you act as if nothing happened, you show that this isn’t a big deal.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 11:51 AM
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Face 100% matters The biggest changes and improvements in my facial features though has been achieved via working out My jaw line got better, chin got more defined, and even my neck being thicker makes my overall appearance look more manly It’s all about working with what you got. I wasn’t dealt a shitty hand by God, but I wasn’t dealt a game winning hand either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 11:46 AM
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With her, fuck her. Not literally. Kick her to the curb. She’s treating you like shit. Women aren’t as overt about their sexuality as men are. Just because she doesn’t talk to you about it it doesn’t mean she doesn’t want you. Rule 1 of women is trust what they do, not what they say. So see how she behaves around you for a cue on her sexual feelings towards you. Also, you shouldn’t be talking about sex in text/calls in the first place. Keep that for in person where you can properly build the ten…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 11:25 AM
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Just to add, women communicate on a much different level than men. Stop being so overt with your intent with women. Learn to tease and not show what you want. Keep her guessing a little. Learn how to play their games. When you are so overt about your intent of wanting to fuck her, it shows a lack of understanding in how women communicate. Specially over text. She should know you want to fuck her, by how you act around her, and the little things you say. When you show all your cards, the mystery …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 10:35 AM
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First, Always sending the conversation to "so we gonna fuck?" makes you look like a thirsty idiot with 0 social skills. You need to learn how to and when to engage them, and give them that bit of validation or conversation they're looking for. Of course, within limits. This girl sounds like she wants to put you down, that's entirely different. ​ But if you ever run into an actual high quality woman who is the type who enjoys an intelligent conversation, and your replies are all "when we fucking?…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 10:27 AM
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Girls in general need/want/seek validation, and social media and apps like Snapchat made it very easy for them to get this validation without putting virtually any effort in. It doesn't really say much about a woman who do such things, BUT it does say quite a bit about a woman who doesn't do such things. A woman who doesn't seek such validation is likely to be more down to earth, and less insecure.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 10:23 AM
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https://www.audible.com/search?keywords=grant+cardone&ref= If the link doesn't work, search for Grant Cardone on Audible. Then read in this order: How to get and stay motivated The 10x rule Be obsessed or be average Secrets of selling Sell or be sold Closer's survival guide The millionaire booklet Those books made me a 5x better salesman.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:26 AM
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Sales. How to sell anything, how to sell yourself, how to sell a product, how to sell an idea. Sales is the core of virtually every interaction with another human being. ​ Want to bang that cute girl? You need to sell her on you being the man she's after. ​ In an interview for a better job? Sell them on you being the perfect candidate. ​ Want to land that high paying client for your business? Sell them that your business is the perfect match for them. ​ Want your 5 year old daughter to eat her v…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:43 AM
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You can't really quit school then, so your best bet is to find a way to maximise how much money you make from what you already have. What is the growth potential of your site? Does it get a good amount of traffic? And how optimised is it? Is the speed blazing fast? Does the design look polished and modern? Do you have featurs and functionalities which maximise your revenue per visitor? If you have a site making money already, it's not a stretch to grow it further.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:53 AM
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You're a man, the world is always against you. But you're a man, so you'll fucking pull through it ;) ​ Meditation helps a lot, so great that you know how to cope when anxiety starts. It seems like you found a good woman, who treats you well. Just keep swallowing more red pills, and you'll likely have a great long relationship. Best of luck! :)
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:29 AM
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First, there ARE some women who can handle you having moments of weakness and will stand by you, so it's possible your relationship is still viable. Oneitis, oneitis is a state of mind, not a state of the relationship. What you seem to have with her is a long term relationship, not a oneitis for her. You'd have oneitis if you were fearful of losing her, did everything she wanted, caved in to her, and let her walk all over you. A long term relationship is often healthy. Oneitis is not. ​ So what …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:06 AM
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Therapy. You're not qualified to get her through this and to help her. If you were, you wouldn't be here. ​ She needs proper therapy because for you to keep pushing it on her without even knowing "how" to do it and without her being in a mindset in which she wants to get past her trauma - you'll just make things worse. There's not much you can do but being supportive, be patient with her, and let her take things at her own pace. ​ Or you can always decide if this is too much for you to deal with…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:01 AM
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The first thing to drop is 5-7 hours a week that pays $50 a month. That's barely $2 an hour.. When does your education finish? And your jobs, is there an option for you to work full time? What do you actually do in those jobs?
/r/askTRP05/02/20 06:24 AM
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But... you're looking into the 12th century for an example... Look at TRP, it's quarantined. Look at dads who want to "paper divorce" for a child they did not want, while the woman can at any time make the lone decision to get an abortion. Look at how these men are shamed. If a woman doesn't want a child, she can abort it at any point. If a man doesn't want, he's told to "man up" Look at the men who go to TRP to try and better themselves and not end up being yet another beta cuck, we're shamed i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:31 AM
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It sounds like she's the one who has the power dynamics over you, with buying you things all the time. Sounds almost like you have a sugar mamma. Aside from this, and the shitty power dynamic you're walking into - I don't see any reasons to next her. Enjoy your sugar mamma ride.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 05:27 AM
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Can you elaborate a bit more before I answer? So I know the point you're trying to get across.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:20 AM
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I agree with your message but not with your details. Kind of. No, women aren't all devious manipulators and men are caught up in a web of misdirections, lies, and games. I agree. ​ But 3. Society warns Men about letting their lust destroy him but too many dont listen. Disagree. Society doesn't. It reinforces what makes men into suckers. Society reinforces that a mans life is worth less, that women should always be looked up to solely for the fact she is a woman. It reinforces that women are the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:14 AM
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Because it's a good rule of thumb that women's appearance degrades as she ages. For every attractive 35+ year old woman I see, I see 30 attractive <20 years old girls. ​ Also, older women are higher maintenance in a sense. They tend to be a bit more jaded and bitter compared to younger women, they lack that bubbly fun personality which = femininity, and a lot of them are alpha widows, so they will test you much harsher than a younger woman would. ​ They also tend to "want something serious and n…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:34 AM
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Organise your life into a schedule. Look at this, it's called a Gantt chart: https://i.imgur.com/ZrWvWQ9.png I use an app called ClickUp, but Trello and Jira also have it. So what a Gantt chart is, it's where you put what you're going to do, and you organise it in such a way that to do task B, you first have to complete task A. And it's not the same as a schedule in the sense that you do task A from 12:00 - 13:00 and task B after that, it's organised in a way that no matter what time it is, you …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:31 AM
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You have a GAF attitude towards girls you're attracted to because you don't have an abundance mentality. To you, any attractive girl you interact with is valuable because you know that if she rejects you, you don't have other girls just as attractive waiting for you. ​ The only cure, is to spin more plates, so that if one plate falls, it's not a big deal. When you have 5 attractive plates at once, you won't care for a new attractive girl, as you have others waiting for you.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:15 AM
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Having a mission is the most important "cure" for this. When you have a mission, say, building a business, it's easier to take a step back from a situation which can affect your overall long term goal. A man without a mission is a man who will get distracted by every shiny new object, and one which will continually seek some fleeting high for he has nothing else to ground him and keep him focused.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:10 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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