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| 3 | Can we stop shaming men for having a 99% physical attraction "trigger"? It's not "shallow," it's biologicalI feel it’s the opposite- women gave so much grief for men being this way, then society decided it’s chill for women to sort based on height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.Interesting, i’m always more worried to talk to women in more run down areas, assuming they’ll categorize me as a threat, but maybe the reality is more complex than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Society threat profiles men if they approach women, and clowns on them if they end up lonely and "unfuckable"It’s because feminism took over our discussion spaces and used moral arguments to shame men into feeling everything is oppression of women, so men carry this shame around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 04:40 AM |
| 1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.There is cam footage of her opening his door and going inside apprarently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 03:43 AM |
| 1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Being a human means opening people’s doors? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 03:41 AM |
| 4 | "Both women and men believe that their gender disadvantages them. When so many men feel underappreciated and so many women feel mistreated, it creates a vicious cycle of resentment." → ResearchHere’s what it is for me. I feel lonely because when starting out, a lot of women won’t like interacting with me. Because I’m bad at it, unpracticed, and scared. So I don’t engage because it fees like that’s what women want from someone like me. But then I stay the same. For years. I realize I’m already what women hate. But the only solution is to disregard women’s wishes and interact with them MORE so I can overcome the fear. Not a great deal for me. I’m not good enough for them as far as I kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 03:18 AM |
| 14 | "Both women and men believe that their gender disadvantages them. When so many men feel underappreciated and so many women feel mistreated, it creates a vicious cycle of resentment." → ResearchYou almost answered your own question in a weird way. You put- Lots of men are lonely. I’m going to now bring up the worst examples of who I associate with this group of men. Why would I want to tell my friends I am sad because I don’t understand how to be good enough for women? They’re going to assume I hate all women instead of giving me the benefit of the doubt that I’m dealing with a lot of fear and confusion and social anxiety. I assume I’ll be immediately associated with the extreme versio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.This is just false | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losersIf we want to reduce hatred between the sexes we should be willing to listen to one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losersHow do you find it helpful to call men simply describing something they experience as “the hatred of women?” It’s like a totally different subject. What does what I’m describing have to do with hating women (misogyny). I’m literally just telling you that tons of men experience something and then talk about it with each other, then you’re like “oh they all hate women.” It’s like totally random. It’s kind of like saying men observing that tons of women like tall guys means they hate women. Or did … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losersWhere did abuse come from? Not at all what I was saying. I’m saying a whole lot of women chase men who other women are already chasing. That was all I was saying. So if a guy somehow is seen as already desired, suddenly several other women see this and want to take on the challenge. They assume he must be valuable if someone else decided was. Literally all I was saying, not that women enjoy being abused. I’m not saying it’s all women obviously either. I’m just saying it’s enough that men agree c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losersHonestly, what he is describing is the agreed upon experience that men have. It’s our truth, for most of us anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 11:14 AM |
| 1 | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingHandsomeness is not a requirement for many women if there is enough toughness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people while avoiding dating apps?Why are you going around always saying this one thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:31 PM |
| 2 | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingBut when you discover it… you’re gonna want to discuss it and that should Be understandable because it’s confusing hence why so many men end up talking about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 07:11 PM |
| 2 | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingBut what women are sexually attracted to in the first place can surprising and disappointing to discover. This is expecially true because a lot of men are made to feel ashamed for their attraction to women, which is largely simply because they are women. It’s disappointing to meet men who are mean people and see them having a lot of success if you aren’t. And a lot of men go through this at a young age. It should be understandable why it’s discussed a lot. To me as a man, manipulative personalit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 06:45 PM |
| 2 | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingHere’s what’s odd to me. I feel that society villainized male sexuality so heavily- microaggressions, toxic masculinity, all those buzzwords etc. Men are generally Attracted to women- because they’re women. Yet so many women are attracted to people who are straight up bad people. Yet society as a whole wasn’t really criticizing this while just blaming men for everything. So it’s a confusing thing for men to really come to terms with. I personally found it surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 06:34 PM |
| 2 | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingEveryone accepts the flawed nature of men? What about all toxic masculinity conversation that went on? I disagree. If anything it feels like the other way to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.Bruh what! Great social skills won’t help unattractive guys? Give it a rest this isn’t true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Feminists can't be "allies" to men's activists, because the feminist movement, broadly, is actively hostile to men“Yall” seems to imply OP is a MRA, but he likely isn’t, so it seems to be men in general was my understanding. I guess who cares at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:41 AM |
| 7 | Feminists can't be "allies" to men's activists, because the feminist movement, broadly, is actively hostile to men“Let alone care about yall” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:27 AM |
| 8 | Feminists can't be "allies" to men's activists, because the feminist movement, broadly, is actively hostile to menBecause men are human beings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagPlease look into occasional water fasting immediately. I beg you. There are studies showing promise. It’s literally free. My memory and coordination was getting worse- I was getting worried- it turned things around. Every two weeks try just water fasting for one weekend day (so abour 36 hours). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Do women understand that not all misogynists are incels and not all incels are misogynists?It originally was supposed to just mean “can’t get laid.” Then culture noticed the misogyny some of them had and said that’s what it was. If someone wants sex, can’t get it because they can’t figure out how to be good enough, and then they fee sad… that automatically means they are full of hatred? I don’t get it. You can also just be sad/ disappointed about something right? Obviously now if you use that word to describe yourself you are knowingly associating with that whole group and how people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Why do so many people think porn determines these preferences? I think this theory is pretty out there. There are so many places where people don’t see porn and are attracted to similar things. Have you seen that correlation between renaissance paintings and the ages of the women in the paintings? Did porn do that too before it even existed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:18 PM |
| 5 | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.Because the internet makes everything confusing because extreme opinions get blown out of proportion so no one can tell what the typical opinions are anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:10 PM |
| 1 | I complimented women out in public for the past 2-weeks and….it’s fine.The real world is not the radical extremist feminism that has taken over social media. That’s what’s going on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | I complimented women out in public for the past 2-weeks and….it’s fine.Dude, no? Lmao. In the library in broad daylight people don’t think they’re literally about to get raped, generally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:32 PM |
| 1 | I complimented women out in public for the past 2-weeks and….it’s fine.Honestly though, I was totally shocked to see women supporting OP. i was expecting then to all be scolding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menWhat if the first guy they go out with abuses them or something and they are psychologically scared by the experience and then struggle with dating? Obviously a woman can struggle with dating for legitimate reasons, even if it’s less common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.…. How is that not relevant on this sub, a place to debate gender issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menHow is violence against women increasing in the western world? Pretty sure that’s a downward trend like most crime (property crime being a bit exception I’ve read). Some of your points made sense to me though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:48 PM |
| – | It's almost impossible for a man to "use" a woman for sex unless she is mentally challenged or something.A lot of women do also sleep around though now? Or at least many seem willing to put out knowing the guy might not give them a real chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:24 PM |
| -3 | Only when you get rejected by a woman do you know who she really isWhy do people here keep acting like women never try to humiliate men they aren’t attracted to. I’ve actually almost only ever experienced women rejecting in a mean way, it’s much more rarely been “I’m just not interested sorry.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:08 PM |
| – | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.When men complain they can’t date anyone they’re attracted to…. Are they met with sympathy by society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:58 PM |
| – | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.Lol, can you stop generalizing and saying women never have any flaws? This is getting ridiculous. The entire post was about how men find clips of women complaining about being single, and here you are saying it doesn’t exist. Yes these men blow this out of proportion for their audience and this content is annoying. But stop acting like women never complain about men. No they don’t say the same exact things. Why would they when the challenges are different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.You act like women never do anything mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:49 PM |
| 2 | why do you all take the manipulative arguments of the opposite sex so seriously?Overall this makes sense. But why are women such shitheads in the first place? I just am disappointed how they are abusing their cultural power while acting like they have no power at all. They made it so only men have privilege meanwhile them saying men are evil over nothing was so normalized for so long. And society refuses to acknowledge this until maybe just lately. What you’re saying shuts everything down, except if she films it or something. There is no shutting down social media. That has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarrantedSome definitely do claim it’s inherently creepy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 07:24 AM |
| – | What can older guys do to not feel shortchanged in the dating world, like they say?You’re saying if someone has a decent personality dating should be easy, but people can have a good overall personality but end up sabotaging themselves out of fear at key moments etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 07:03 AM |
| – | What can older guys do to not feel shortchanged in the dating world, like they say?Really? People can have psychological blockages in certain areas but overall be fun. You can imagine people like this existing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Women are far more socially brutal than men areI genuinely do not think women only do this for their own safety. Open your eyes. They do it because they can. Please stop pretending female bullies are nonexistent and all women are morally reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:59 AM |
| 0 | why do you all take the manipulative arguments of the opposite sex so seriously?Women abused their cultural superiority that is tied to their historical oppression and used it for bullshit ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:48 AM |
| 1 | why do you all take the manipulative arguments of the opposite sex so seriously?Dude, will women ever just stop saying totally insane shit and being endlessly supported while doing so. Like will this hell ever end? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:40 AM |
| 5 | why do you all take the manipulative arguments of the opposite sex so seriously?But the radical women on the internet who the media decided are the most important people on earth, they never do anything in bad faith right? They only act with reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:38 AM |
| 3 | why do you all take the manipulative arguments of the opposite sex so seriously?But as a man the reason I’m afraid is because I wNt to be a good person, but women decided that every little mistake I might make means I automatically hate women so I can’t tell a woman I want her because if she doesn’t want me back, it’s too late I’m already a bad person, apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:31 AM |
| 0 | why do you all take the manipulative arguments of the opposite sex so seriously?Because I thought society was more reasonable. I didn’t expect that when women started saying “men aren’t allowed to talk to us” while society constantly is telling me I should believe everything women say… that I could just disregard that and value my sexuality anyway. I genuinely didn’t know it was an option. I really want to be a good person. When women use the shame of human history with words like misogyny, they are ensuring that conscientious men like me will hide away somewhere. When they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:26 AM |
| 2 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierI don’t know what you’re trying to prove anymore. I feel like I read two contradictory things. There are other things at play like fear, maybe evolutionary, that make it hard for a lot of men to take action. This is common knowledge I feel. There are studies showing on average men have a bigger sex drive. I think on average men are more interested in sex. That’s all I’m saying. On average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 11:22 PM |
| 2 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierOkay here’s an analysis- are you a woman? I’m a man. If I suddenly said “hey want to exchange pics and maybe meetup and hookup?” You would stop chatting immediately. If our genders are reversed you would continue chatting due to potential sexual interest. I believe this is due to men being more open to random sex, hence more horny? See what I mean? I don’t feel like saying men are in general a bit more horny is conrroversial. Sexual harrassment is more common in this direction in general and thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 09:38 PM |
| 2 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierBecause these men can’t figure out how to get the women they’re interested in? It’s not because they don’t want sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierWhat’s HL stand for? Horny lonely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 09:24 PM |
| – | Guys should start denying women sex, stop being too available for them and start treating them back, exactly they way women treated you.You haven’t? Not saying I agree with the vibe of the post but women do absolutely try to humiliate men fairly often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.All you need to have is some social anxiety and a few bad experiences with women actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?Congrats! | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger womanOf course. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger womanYes, son. That was my other account. We should talk. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | post speaks for itselfBetter yet, instead she was cast in Hustlers, which was about drugging and robbing men. I have no problem with the movie existing, and they were wall street dickheads, but to cast someone in a film who actually committed the crimes in real life? And then not a single media outlet pointed this out. I think one blog did. Pretty shocking. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/07/21 12:41 AM |
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