i8twobugs Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
200	Finally escaped 3yr relationship as a Cluster-B abuse survivor	RANT	i8twobugs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 01:42 PM
67	He (36) dragged me (28F) through the dirt for talking to guy friends. Tonight, I caught him on a date.	LIES MEN TELL	i8twobugs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 09:21 AM
60	Ex-LVM (37M) won’t stop stalking me (29F) 4 months later, all the way to FDS. He MUST be perceived as the victim.	SCROTES MAD	i8twobugs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 12:19 PM
44	UPDATE My (27f) bf (35M is mad I downloaded a dating app... we are in an open relationship, by his choice.	SEEKING ADVICE	i8twobugs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/19 01:01 AM
10	My(27f) bf (35M) is mad I downloaded a dating app... we are in an open relationship, by his choice.	SEEKING ADVICE	i8twobugs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/19 07:30 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	Ex-LVM (37M) won’t stop stalking me (29F) 4 months later, all the way to FDS. He MUST be perceived as the victim. He liked to “joke” and tell me I was getting too old for him and he’d need to trade me in for a younger model.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 12:45 PM
34	Ex-LVM (37M) won’t stop stalking me (29F) 4 months later, all the way to FDS. He MUST be perceived as the victim. Yep, I’m making a new one now. He can obsessively stare at this one all he wants.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 12:30 PM
30	Cry me a river. So this is my ex's new gf	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 12:07 PM
2	Finally escaped 3yr relationship as a Cluster-B abuse survivor First of all... I'm proud of you. Second of all... it gets better. I've totally thrown myself into working out, eating better, and surrounding myself with people who truly LOVE me. I had to work very intentionally to break down the isolation my ex had manipulated me into by reaching out to my friends and making plans to see people again as often as I could. A lot of those conversations were hard... Some of my friends said "I told you so." A lot of them gracefully didn't need to. The best friends…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 12:04 PM
4	Ladies NEVER ignore your instincts or dealbreakers. Here’s yet another scrote having broken a woman’s heart after stringing her along for a year. When this happened to me, it was usually because he’d been dumped by one of his side chicks. Of course he didn’t want to talk to me about it… but I suffered the mood swings regardless. Real class act, he was.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 05:20 AM
21	Never try to change a man. Can confirm. I stopped waiting. Edit.... no.... I stopped TRYING.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/21 03:31 PM
13	True crime and age gaps This explains so much about my own LVMX, who was also borderline and bipolar.... terrifying stuff. Happy to be alive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/21 03:31 PM
3	Finally escaped 3yr relationship as a Cluster-B abuse survivor So. Much. This. I just finished reading "Whole Again" by Jackson MacKenzie, and my new mantra is 'It's not my fault - it was never about me.' I saw his brokenness and I wanted to be a savior to him. He called me his goddess, and said I was the light that tethered him to earth and kept him from going savage. All that did was set me up for failure... And you're right, I want to stalk him and know if he's absolutely miserable without me, or if he's already moved on with a new floozie to keep his be…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 01:17 PM
4	Finally escaped 3yr relationship as a Cluster-B abuse survivor The first one is that there’s nothing wrong with you if you ever find yourself still missing him or craving his approval in some way... Some part of your brain may still have lingering cravings for his approval, even if you know 110% that you actually want nothing to do with him in reality. Even if multiple years have passed. I needed this... I was feeling it hard tonight. I miss the idea of him - companionship, having a best friend, and someone to share all the stupid, embarrassing stuff and la…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 12:57 PM
16	Finally escaped 3yr relationship as a Cluster-B abuse survivor Yep. I had an impulse the other day to download dating apps because I was thinking of what it would be like to be in a loving, and nurturing relationship, but talked myself out of it because I don’t want to need someone else to make me feel loved and nurtured. I’m willing to wait and deal with my own shit first. I don’t even know who I am anymore, and that’s not how I want to walk in to a new relationship. I wanna know me and like me first.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 08:58 PM
4	Finally escaped 3yr relationship as a Cluster-B abuse survivor Y’all are stuck with me now. I’ve lurked for a few years but never commented because he is a fellow redditor and I was scared he’d find my profile and it would be a new fight about talking to strangers. Cause only HE knows what he’s talking about.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 08:45 PM
8	UPDATE My (27f) bf (35M is mad I downloaded a dating app... we are in an open relationship, by his choice. Yeah I got a series of drunk texts last night asking why I wasn’t trying to get him back, and how I could “hurt him, again.” Sigh. Delete and block.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/19 05:15 PM
12	UPDATE My (27f) bf (35M is mad I downloaded a dating app... we are in an open relationship, by his choice. He had already unfollowed my insta when I checked. I did him a favor and finished it off with a block. Having a hard time letting the phone number go.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/19 02:04 AM
20	My(27f) bf (35M) is mad I downloaded a dating app... we are in an open relationship, by his choice. Second to last paragraph made me cry.... His recent dates include flying a girl in for the night. (Yeah. He bought her plane tickets to come for one night.) Then he took another girl to a hockey game with front row seats. The next date he took ME on was at.... Costco. So he could grocery shop... I’ve told him that him dating other girls has given me anxiety to the point of vomiting. No changes. You’re right. I’m lying to myself....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/19 08:00 AM