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ConversationiAM_A_NiceGuy/r/seduction01/03/21 11:12 PM
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ConversationiAM_A_NiceGuy/r/seduction08/06/21 05:15 PM
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/r/seduction25/03/24 07:57 AM
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If he is making as much as you tell(P.S. 5 books in year is not a lot), you are right here to be a little insecure but honestly if you look at the situation: You are 24 dating a 32, you’re the prize, a trophy wife, you have to stand up for yourself and be treated the right way. It sounds like you are in debt to this man, and if you act like it he will make sure you feel this way. A relationship should make you happy, be your zone of comfort, this sounds like a school to be perfect wife. You will…
/r/RedPillWives01/02/24 05:28 PM
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I can provide proof of multiple men, having nothing going for them and marrying beautiful women who loves the shit out of them and work a great job. I myself have done pretty well. And women don’t cheat they are unlikely to, if you treat them well. There are some bad balls in the bunch but that’s why you date.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:36 AM
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For me it went really well, it was like a cherry on top. I was dating two girls and really liked them both and at the time were only people whom I could hang out with. They found out about each other, and some how started being stalkish and pleasing towards me.
/r/seduction11/07/22 07:00 PM
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I will tell you a story, I have a friend and he is not what you call attractive, or any all close to fit actually quite the reverse according to societal standards(he is happy with it). To give you a rough idea this guy’s BMI exceeds the range defined. Money is low, but he has one thing going for him, girls making food for him, trying to leave their husbands, buying him expensive watches, vacations, you name it. The only thing he does is prioritise his time and have fun with it, and whomever he …
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:56 PM
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So you are going out with 4’s, so that’s maybe what you are? Push pull comes for 8’s and plus. See ya there
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:44 PM
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This is so true, my wife told me that video gaming should be best kept limited and all the green flags I presented when I told her why my ex whom I dumped because I see being fat and unhygienic as red flag, also lots of makeup was a red flag for me as it meant unrealistic obsession, also too many sweets or having a broad social media and male best friend. I am so lucky to have my wife, she checklists every box is hot, smart, funny.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/22 12:49 AM
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I guess she kind of needed a texting buddy at that moment, and when you asked her out she couldn’t turn it down, I know it sucks but count your blessings. It’s a bullet doged, even if things went well with her. These kind of people refuse to communicate when something goes down in the relationship. Sorry for you man keep trying.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:43 PM
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Being funny and being a joker are two different things my man. The purpose is to let her talk, next time you meet a woman ask her positive open ended questions. Keep asking, she will question you back be witty about it, Initiate physical touch(if she doesn’t) back off a little. You will see.
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:15 AM
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You can cry, or be a man, first of all drop the illusion of entitlement. I have seen guys better looking than me humiliated by women, I have taken women from guys taller and better looking than me amidst conversations. You have to know “Girls fall in love by their ears”. Be interesting, put value in a conversation, women will hook up with an ugly funny guy rather than someone crying “I look good I am entitled to pussy”. Its much more than 11 minutes of sex, its much more than the achievement of …
/r/seduction29/07/21 04:42 AM
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For those asking #3 and #5 are totally true, but you better be busy. Don’t play games, you will have blue balls. If she recognises the pattern(which she will) good luck getting her to trust you.
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:39 AM
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Indifference works while dating, try it in a relationship your girl will get a new ‘friend’.
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:34 AM
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Been with one, she loved to talk so I just asked questions. Debated playfully if she was wrong, she pinged me on Insta but she had a boyfriend so I didn’t escalate things. Don’t come from a place of getting girls, come from a place of getting to know people, if she is meant to be you will feel it.
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:30 AM
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Oops looks like I touched a nerve there, maybe pretty girl with a bland personality? Or just bland personality lol
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:32 AM
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Why would I ask someone I met just once or twice or just a texting buddy if they like me. Even I won’t like you without knowing you, maybe its just another one of the pretty girls with a bland personality. So if the texts get drier, maybe she isn’t into me or just isn’t fun both ways it’s a pass.
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:21 AM
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I have been in the same boat as you, the exact same. The girl who blocked me even met me afterwards , telling how sorry she was for doing the things she did but then I saw how shit of a person she was. She hinted at sleeping together but I just couldn’t stand the person she was. Work on yourself, she may or may not come back but you have yourself, try being a better version and you will land someone better 110%
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:59 AM
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And you have some unsorted issues with your mother, try introspecting. She is not the ‘one’ dude, leave her alone. Unblocking you isn’t an invite for you to reach out to her, maybe she is just being polite assuming you are sane again. Just DO NOT CONTACT HER.
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:56 AM
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The fact that you are asking a stranger about how you can get this girl back alone tells me how needy you have been. Break your heart, cry but accept she is not coming back. If you really cared about her, you won’t bring discomfort to her. If you are the source of discomfort, distance yourself. You must love in a sense that the other person feels free
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:53 AM
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You don’t tell a person about your day voluntarily, that’s boring and screams relationship. Girls will never tell you they are not interested, they are very kind that way. They assume you will get the hint and back off, they don’t want to be rude or hurt you so back off when chat gets drier.
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:49 AM
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Dude I guess you are following Corey Wayne, if yes you know you need to get over this one. Obsessing over her would show her your neediness in one way or other. Don’t try to trick yourself, find and talk to other women that’s the only real way. Remember ‘Repetition is the mother of skill’
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:46 AM
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Dude I guess you are following Corey Wayne, if yes you know you need to get over this one. Obsessing over her would show her your neediness in one way or other. Don’t try to trick yourself, find and talk to other women that’s the only real way. Remember ‘Repetition is the mother of skill’
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:46 AM
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In my view it has to do with the insecurity of letting you go. She knows you are worth it, and is fearful you will land someone better or checking if she can still have her way with you
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:35 AM
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Yes, my ex would put up photos as her dp which would make some sense to me but when I changer my dp’s she would block me to see if I contact her on any other social and this keeps on happening.
/r/seduction10/07/21 08:11 AM
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I understand your perspective. Cast, religion definitely plays a huge role here plus more women in India are inclined towards only long term relationships that convert to marriage. Hook ups, or fling things are more common in girls from wealthy families and I believe many of the women looking for long term relationships invest emotionally heavily once they find the guy which they think can fulfil a certain list of qualities(mostly income, and a good background ) or basically would be accepted by…
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:09 PM
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Its like Warren buffet saying money doesn’t matter, everyone is at different point in their life having different priorities. If women/sex/a relationship is your goal, and you are growing as a person because of that goal; I see nothing wrong in making it ‘pinnacle of your life’. You achieved your goal, it no longer motivates you, time to move on, but telling others “I have been there, it’s nothing man” is just feeling yourself.
/r/seduction06/07/21 11:44 AM
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You will also lose freedom
/r/seduction18/06/21 08:15 AM
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I am doing better, thanks for asking. Just by writing out all those emotions I feel I understand myself better. The girl had her reasons, what happened happened, it doesn’t mean I have to stay like this. I am working on my communication skills, getting better at understanding people, and just trying to be more social. I will possibly rant again, but it’s ok. it’s part of the journey. I occasionally come back to just re-read all these helpful comments. I want to thank you for taking out your valu…
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:38 PM
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I just re-read this today, this is so helpful. Thank you!
/r/seduction14/06/21 04:54 PM
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Thank you for this post, I started talking to this girl and she just made random excuses for not talking over phone and stuff but actively texts me. Keep the conversations going, which were basically random blabber. I told her I want to meet her to get to know her better and this text thing is not for me, hopefully I did the correct thing. Update: I friend zoned this girl, since our dating prospects seemed very tight but we connected well. There was what I sense little resistance at first but th…
/r/seduction11/06/21 02:39 PM
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Don’t beat yourself around it, take it easy, be ready for anything. Felt like this few years back, not a good position to be in.
/r/seduction08/06/21 08:35 AM
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My advice would be to stay chill, don’t talk about the date again. She might be going through something, just keep the talking limited, only professional. If you try to talk or interact more than usual with her, she will take it as a desperate attempt to re-setup the date. Happened to me, a girl I set up date with ended up cancelling at the last moment. Instead of being pissed off(which my younger self would have done) I told her “More pizza for me”. Week later she literally forced me to arrange…
/r/seduction08/06/21 05:13 AM
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This is so fucking true, self improvement definitely helps but when it comes to vibing with someone universe definitely plays a huge role. My advice is just get out there with things you learned and be yourself, if its supposed to happen it will happen!
/r/seduction07/06/21 05:37 AM
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I needed this today, thank you so much
/r/seduction04/06/21 04:57 PM
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I kind of get your vibe, but lets we are talking about israel palestine and this girl is messaging me. Now I want to transition what shall I say or do, because its a pretty serious topic. How do I transition?
/r/seduction31/05/21 12:40 PM
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Thanks for the advice man, I really agree with the escalation part. I am not a nice guy, I am really upfront when it comes to something I don’t agree or something I don’t like. I never message first unless it’s appropriate but I get the escalation part. One thing I have constantly found is when you try to transition from a formal topic to a romantic one or try to change the innuendo girls usually find that as manipulative, they think you were investing in the previous topic as disguise just to g…
/r/seduction31/05/21 12:34 PM
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I agree with the Instagram part, but the thing is in open social environments like a gym isn’t it a little weird to ask for number? Because if she refuses it will create a weird tension when we see each other next time and I never told this women whom I got out on date with to drink and make out. They suggested it, the last thing I want to do is come out as needy
/r/seduction30/05/21 08:23 PM
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I thought texting needs to be formal and just be used to schedule something more fun and engaging? But yeah maybe you are right I should have communicated the sexual innuendo from the start
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:22 PM
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Nah I totally I get it dude, I kind of saw it coming for my that comment. To clarify I wasn’t interested in her, she is an amazing person and I know she is way smarter than me and works harder at gym. I will just edit that, thanks for the input
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:12 PM
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My mistake I didn’t clear the context here, I talked to her before just the usual talk what you are into and stuff, as my country is under lockdown I invited her to play among us and asked her to invite her friend too. She told me she would text me and let me know which she never did during this phase I told her I knew about crypto and was intrigued by it. I never texted her again and around a week later She posted a story asking for help about crypto thats when I asked her to call me and discus…
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:09 PM
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To add I met another girl at my sister’s wedding even though she had a boyfriend she persisted me to add her on Instagram and talk to her and hinted at making out. I added her some days later and it just didn’t happen. Another girl had a similar story, had boyfriend, told me she was really attracted to me and kind of wanted to stalk me but when i added her. Boop nothing, never messaged me nothing
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:01 PM
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Words of wisdom
/r/seduction21/03/21 10:26 PM
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Dude I was 14, it was supposed to be a joke. My friend(just an idiot like me) told me to just give it a try and check the water kind of thing. I didn’t even like the girl!
/r/seduction02/03/21 06:32 AM
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