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iArts/r/seduction30/10/11 08:55 PM
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iArts/r/seduction15/11/11 11:54 AM
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iArts/r/seduction08/09/11 02:31 AM
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iArts/r/seduction03/10/11 12:46 AM
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iArts/r/seduction21/10/11 05:38 PM
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iArts/r/seduction22/11/11 05:12 AM
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iArts/r/seduction14/11/11 07:03 PM
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iArts/r/seduction18/10/11 08:43 PM
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iArts/r/seduction22/09/11 03:13 AM
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iArts/r/seduction13/11/11 08:43 PM
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iArts/r/seduction09/11/11 10:24 PM
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iArts/r/seduction02/10/11 06:10 PM
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iArts/r/seduction26/11/11 05:04 PM
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Of course it's normal man. Keep working on it and you'll get wherever you want to be.
/r/seduction16/11/11 03:24 AM
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What about mentally?
/r/seduction15/11/11 09:16 PM
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Wow. That's is an amazing response. Truly,thanks you for writing all that. About Durden,from what I understood,he was never the most outgoing guy,so he barely sarged himself. He is more like a seduction nerd.
/r/seduction15/11/11 07:27 PM
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But it's specific about seduction. AskReddit's answer will be just lame jokes about it,instead of an actual advice on how to seduce said girl. Can I rephrase it somehow for Seddit?
/r/seduction10/11/11 11:04 AM
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You probably live in Downtown area? I wish I lived there.
/r/seduction21/10/11 08:14 PM
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I'm at Yonge/Steeles. A little bit past Finch. I really should get a license.
/r/seduction21/10/11 08:10 PM
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I live with my parents an it's really not an option. For numerous reasons. I live on the very edge of Toronto. North York to be exact. Thing is,most girls you meet around here live up north. As you know,no subway goes there. Even busses don't go there late,which is retarded,but thats how it is.
/r/seduction21/10/11 07:50 PM
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I don't think you realize why I mentioned that I'm in Toronto. Nothing is 10 minutes away here. a 1 hour cab ride will leave me broke.
/r/seduction21/10/11 05:52 PM
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That sounds too good to be true.
/r/seduction18/10/11 10:37 PM
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Was never a problem for me,honestly. I actually had a lot of success with girls before I moved to Canada 3.5 years ago. It's just that before,I always got introduced to new girls,almost every day. But here in Canada,I don't know as many people,so I have to approach myself. I never realized before,but now I know that I have AA. And I want to beat it. Because I MUST GET LAID ASAP.
/r/seduction18/10/11 09:19 PM
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Came here to say this haha
/r/seduction18/10/11 08:35 PM
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Good point. It's my other head thinking man.
/r/seduction02/10/11 07:44 PM
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Any way to recover now?
/r/seduction02/10/11 07:31 PM
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Haha how is X supposed to help?
/r/seduction28/09/11 07:33 PM
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So I met up with her. It wasn't anything special. Nothing interesting. I didn't go for any kino at all. However,at some point she said that if she would be seeing someone she wouldn't be here. Also,she told me that I was her closest friend,I told her that there's no friendship between guys and girls. She said that she knows. I'm confused. I'm not going to her birthday btw.
/r/seduction28/09/11 04:13 AM
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I'm meeting up with her in a couple of hours. I think I'm gonna squeeze my teeth and play it cool. To be honest,I realized one thing. It's not specifically about her. It's the fact of defeat,that I couldn't get her to be crazy about me,what bothers me most. I feel like I could get any girl,but I don't succeed in it. And that doesn't let me sit in peace at home. Crazy,but true.
/r/seduction27/09/11 10:55 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Time to change myself. It's been long enough.
/r/seduction27/09/11 07:48 PM
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Thanks for your reply. What you said about going to the party and flirting with everyone there. That's exactly what I'm thinking of doing. I'm just afraid of one thing. I'll see her with some other guy and man,this will be tough for me. I know myself. My mood will go down in split-second. From there on it could become a snowball.
/r/seduction27/09/11 07:10 PM
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So let's say I go along with the FWB thing. At the same time I still try to build as much attraction as possible. There's no way that she will eventually change her mind and develop feelings? It just seems like friend zone is this mysterious black hole that you can't get out of.
/r/seduction27/09/11 03:09 PM
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So am I stuck in the zone now? I'm supposed to meet up with her tonight. Would it be too pushy to ask straight up if she just wants to be FWB?
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:39 PM
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It is oneitis man. It's oneitis with every girl. :facepalm: I really appreciate your answers. Thanks for taking the time. You said that I should go there,but flirt with other girls instead. Can you explain why?
/r/seduction27/09/11 08:49 AM
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Could you read the link I posted in OP? It's about a girl I'm stuck with right now. You advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm meeting up with her tomorrow and not really sure which path to take.
/r/seduction27/09/11 03:29 AM
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Waiting for your big comment now ;)
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:41 AM
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I don't go grocery shopping haha But I get the idea and will definitely try. Here's a question,should I try it with waitresses too? Or I should stay away from them for now?
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:29 AM
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I lol'ed at "Delicious refreshment". Hahaha
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:26 AM
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Noted!
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:25 AM
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Could you describe it in short?
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:03 AM
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Well,thanks man. You know,it's tough. I don't go around and whine like this to everyone I know. I just came here,because this is THE place I believe. Lots of people here know what I'm talking about,I'm sure. You know what's the worst thing that I think to myself? I used to be naturally very good with girls. I mean really. But in the past couple of years,I just can't do it. I don't smile as much. I'm not as friendly. I don't know what the fuck is happening. It scares me. I'm sure moving to a new …
/r/seduction27/09/11 01:29 AM
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Talk about what? Just randomly? Lots of people find it creepy. Sorry man,I'm anal like that.
/r/seduction27/09/11 01:17 AM
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I'm in Toronto. You are probably right. It's an idiotic process in my brain. I'm thinking "what if she takes it wrong and I don't get another chance to be in bed with her? And I want that chance". On the other hand after all this crap I'm thinking "screw you. I'm going home.". :)
/r/seduction22/09/11 05:56 PM
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Good thing,or bad thing? And how do I play this? What about the birthday?
/r/seduction22/09/11 09:57 AM
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Here's what happens. This is my current situation. There's a girl that I was attracted to for a while. She was attracted to me as well. Last weekend we were at my buds place. Made out,sexy time,everything went good. I haven't seen her since Sunday. But I really want to. THIS is my problem. I want to talk to her,take her out,you know. But all this makes me look needy. I thought maybe I just wanted attention,maybe it's not specifically with her. So I went out with some other girls. Nope. Was bored…
/r/seduction08/09/11 08:21 PM
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There's the ONE for all of us my friend. I wouldn't even worry about that. Seduction is more of a way of having fun on the way to your perfect partner. In my mind at least. On the other hand the fact that we can manipulate people into doing something really bothers me. Question is,to all the people who practice seducing : is she in your bed because she wanted to be there as soon as she saw you,or is she there because you manipulated her mind? This would always bother me. But hey,I tend to over-t…
/r/seduction08/09/11 07:15 PM
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Oh I didn't mean that you have to prove anything to me of course. It's just that if I'm wrong,I want to know where I'm wrong in my thinking. I like questioning stuff.
/r/seduction08/09/11 05:14 PM
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Will do,thanks!
/r/seduction08/09/11 04:23 PM
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I thought of that too. And hey,maybe you're right. But it's been a reverse process for me. I used to have a lot of success with the opposite sex. But in recent years it changed. I can't even explain why. I gotta mention that I have some trust issues. Not sure if it matters in this case.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:48 PM
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I'm sorry,but I don't believe it's true. I know a guy who personally knows Durden and Mystery. He is good friends with Durden,but hates Mystery. Reason is,Mystery straight up manipulates people,just for fun. BUT,one thing they have in common,they are both professional liars. It's their life. So unfortunately,I do believe ghat seduction is mostly about lying. I hope you can prove me wrong.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:11 PM
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Good point. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction08/09/11 11:51 AM
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Thanks for the reply! Oh man,its hard to explain what's happening in my head when it happens. It's something like: -Should I tell her 'Have a good night. Sweet dreams'? -But how is she gonna look at it? -It's kinda nice,but makes me look like I'm into her too much. -Blah blah blah a million other things like that. It drives me crazy sometimes man.
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:57 AM
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But what's the difference if you show yourself right away,or later? If she doesn't like your true self,she'll run away later,after she finds out who you really are. Is there a difference? Sure,you'll get laid before that. But that's not my point. Getting laid is not my main purpose.
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:54 AM
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It's probably a combination of both. If you're like me,you know. Good question tho. I used to have lots of girls. But I changed for some reason. Sometimes I miss the times when I had tons of girls and didn't really care. On the other hand,I felt pretty happy,but I know that I was missing out on something bigger. Because honestly,it's not the same when you're with a girl just for one night,or when there is a girl who's there to support you when needed etc.
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:37 AM
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Happens every time. I can do everything 'right' as long as I'm flirting. But when I get closer to a person,it all just changes in my mind and heart. Messed up.
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:31 AM
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But see,what if I actually WANT her to be a big aspect of my life? I don't mind her time. That's what I meant. Since I enjoy spending time with her much more than most other things in my life. And I'm not a forever alone either. I go out. Have enough friend. Gym. Work. Hobbies etc.
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:30 AM
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That's what I'm asking. Do you think it's possible to combine the two and have success?
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:27 AM
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I don't think you understand. A lot of times,maybe even most of the time,I understand that things that I want are probably not the way to go,but it's hard for me to resist. It's hard to explain,if you're not a quick lover. It's just very intense for me,every time.
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:26 AM
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Upboat for you,my friend.
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:24 AM
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Amazing words. Thanks you!
/r/seduction08/09/11 08:43 AM
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