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5

So every couple on the planet is equally attractive in terms of physical looks? You know thats not true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:13 AM
4

Ok well some people prefer not to be liars like you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:11 AM
9

You’ve never played truth or dare? Or never have I ever? Or talked about sex amongst your friends? You’ve never done any of these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:52 AM
13

You basically answered your own question. Uprooting your entire life to find a partner in a foreign country is a big life decision. Obviously things are pretty dire if people feel that they need to resort to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:54 AM
0

Nothing, it’s just the latest buzzword
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:58 AM
8

Because the true fuel of casual sex is being attractive, not drugs and alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:32 PM
8

If you’re already physically attractive sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:57 PM
2

You wont answer it because you know the answer hurts your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:29 PM
0

Answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:59 AM
-4

Do you or do you not think that men often lie about how many women they’ve slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:52 AM
7

You can have high standards and also be a slut. With Tinder you can find a top 1% guy in minutes and he will be down to fuck you as long as you’re down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:18 AM
5

I know right. It’s like people say “well if a girl won’t date a guy because of his height, then she’s not a girl worth dating anyway”. Like ok, so you’re saying that 99% of women are not worth dating then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:56 PM
-2

Because 80% of women go for 20% of men. Unless you want to share a boyfriend/husband, thats not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:13 AM
13

Have realistic standards
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:37 AM
0

Still better than suffering in silence so imma keep doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:36 PM
2

I disagree with most of those things, but even if you were correct, you can’t control your height and that’s the most important thing women care about. You can be charismatic, funny, have a great job, be smart, be educated, be social, and women will still not give you a chance if you’re short. So none of that really matters when the one thing that we can’t control is the most important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:35 PM
3

Women can control their appearance. They can control the way their hair looks, they can control their bodyfat percentage, they can control the way their face looks by using makeup, they can control everything that a guy actually cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:20 AM
2

Hell no. I’m gonna keep complaining. It’s better than suffering in silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:53 AM
3

I think point is that men are reasonable people while women are not. We understand that some things are out of women’s control and we don’t judge them for those things. Women on the other hand are the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:49 AM
-2

So we should just suffer in silence instead? Fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:47 AM
20

Why don’t poor people just choose to be rich? Are they stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:46 AM
4

When they look like ryan gosling they do. Jesus fucking christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:39 AM
9

You can’t be serious. Look, I’ll tell you right now that it’s ok to admit when you’re wrong. Saying blatant lies like this just makes you come off as incredibly disingenuous. I would actually have a lot more respect for your arguments if you were willing to admit when you’re wrong. But when you say things that are blatantly false like “ugly ass dudes stay on top” nobody will take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:37 AM
1

Lmao she just exposed herself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:31 AM
4

Because based on the typical definitions of gorgeous and mediocre, what you just claimed is absolutely false. That’s why they need you to define it, because you clearly have a different definition of gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:28 AM
5

Actually? Cool now I know that I can disregard absolutely everything that OP says because they’re clearly living in delusionland
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:26 AM
0

Given that probably 95% of women have some type of height requirement, this statement indirectly implies that about 95% of women are not worth dating. A stance that I don’t think most blue pillers would try to argue for, but they end up indirectly arguing for anyway when they say this dumb shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:56 PM
2

There is nothing feminine about an obese woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:34 PM
6

Nah the real answer is just that men are less picky
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:38 PM
4

If they’re still in college I would say this is true. So this would be true of girls 18-22. But after they graduate college they’re absolutely going for slightly older guys with good paying jobs, a nice apartment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:26 AM
1

Trust me, I have
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:17 PM
1

Glad you’re willing to admit the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:03 PM
1

Because I’ve put in the effort and nothing has changed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:02 PM
3

I relate to this heavily. Its sad how women on this subreddit will just try to deny that this is a very common experience for a lot of men. They think that if you put in effort it guarantees success. At the end of the day, thats just not true because women are ultimately still shallow and that will never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:51 PM
2

The same as putting in effort
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:49 PM
3

He’s right. You’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:47 PM
1

I put in a shit ton of effort and women still aren’t interested. Doesn’t matter how much effort you put in if you’re physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:46 PM
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Have you ever gone outside before? You clearly haven’t, because if you had then it would be obvious to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:41 AM
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The healthy wear a crown that only the sick can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:37 AM
–

Wow, that almost sounds as bad as being a man!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:35 AM
0

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:54 AM
7

The rule is not about guys having multiple girlfriends, its about them fucking multiple women at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:49 AM
1

People in the United States between the ages of 18 and 30
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:46 AM
-4

Stop having unrealistic standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:51 PM
1

Young adults are not idiots. If you choose to have a relationship with an older man that’s completely your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:26 PM
1

Why are putting the blame on the man in this situation and not the woman? They’re both equally responsible for this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:53 PM
1

You’re doing better in life? You’re gonna eat yourself to death by age 40, fattie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:16 PM
8

I’m a simple man, I see glowupgirl, I downvote
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:10 PM
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Again, you’re fat, your words mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:08 PM
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You’re fat, and also a troll, your words meaning nothing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:05 PM
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But you’re fat so you’re still losing lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:04 PM
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To remind you that you are a worthless fat girl, and your words mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:02 PM
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You’re fat, your words mean nothing to me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:01 PM
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You’re fat, your words mean nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:57 PM
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So you’re a whore lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:53 PM
1

https://preview.redd.it/ztt1vpexk7qb1.jpeg?width=725&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=09c4ac05480838a81984d44fefea3f37d134b8b7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:52 PM
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18-35 is a huge range. Find me the stats for 18-25 versus 26-35.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:09 AM
3

Ok so what exactly is the point of making this post. You can’t change how handsome your face is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:01 PM
1

Because its broken for men, not women. What kinda question is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:14 PM
12

So apparently my real life experiences aren’t true, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:06 PM
2

Not really. I’ve basically already done everything to improve my looks that is in my control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:47 PM
4

I’m not autistic, just physically unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:41 PM
7

Like you would talk to any person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:10 PM
10

I go with friends, no women are really interested in chatting with me though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:47 PM
17

This is not even true though. There are lot’s of men who DO put in the work and still get nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:10 PM
10

I do the same and still have no success with women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:09 PM
5

This is just not true though lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:36 AM
1

You’re an outlier then, and I think that’s a pretty unhealthy way to look at dating and relationships. I would recommend therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:41 PM
3

Im sorry you find the truth upsetting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:12 PM
4

Believe it or not, men are not like women. We don’t treat dating like a game where you’re always trying to secure the tallest guy, the guy that makes the most money, the guy with the highest social status, etc. If we meet a girl that we like, that’s attractive, and that we enjoy being around, that’s good enough for us. We are satisfied with that. As a woman, you might have a hard time relating to that, but that’s the truth about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:10 PM
3

*you’re
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:58 PM
1

Did you read my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:57 PM
3

It’s not settling if she’s hot. That’s by far the most important thing to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:52 PM
1

95 rounds up to 100
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:44 PM
10

Because maybe he met a girl that he really likes who happens to be a barista?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:44 PM
3

No I’m just telling you how 95% of men think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:19 PM
2

Ok well I never said that so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:17 PM
1

Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:13 PM
37

A high value man is going to pick a hot barista over an ugly lawyer 10 times out of 10. Assuming equal looks and personality then sure they might choose the lawyer, but a women’s career is so low on the list of priorities that it will rarely ever be a determining factor that moves the needle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:08 PM
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You don’t have one because your an ugly reddit girl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:44 PM
1

That’s because you’re an outlier weirdo. There’s a reason you’re using reddit instead of instagram like a normal girl. Only weird, antisocial, ugly women use reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:33 PM
1

Thats mainly just because women are pussies and are too afraid to kill themselves. Women attempt suicide at much higher rates than men, its just that they pussy out after they incompetently fail at killing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:28 PM
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There’s a reason that the vast majority of women get married. Get back to me when you’re 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:35 PM
2

This should be the top comment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:15 AM
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Easy to say that now. I doubt you’ll be saying that when you’re 40 years old and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:14 AM
6

I do but you clearly do not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:10 AM
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And again more gaslighting. It’s comedy at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:55 AM
–

Lmao and you just proved his point with more gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:28 AM
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Im a simple man, I see a Lilith post, I downvote
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:21 PM
4

It depends where you live. If you live in a small town in the midwest then probably not. If you live in LA then yeah you’re definitely gonna struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:29 PM
2

What else do you expect them to do when women’s standards in the US are unattainably high?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:00 PM
1

But what if youre the only person who finds them hot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:37 AM
2

A girlfriend isn’t any cheaper, so really you’re making the smart decision
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:30 AM
20

Because men and women are DIFFERENT. We achieve fulfillment through different means.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:24 AM
-1

If you had a boyfriend he would have protected you. But you didn’t so you had no one to protect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:02 AM
-4

A random guy might not help protect you, but a boyfriend absolutely would protect you. So to answer your original question, men bring protection to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:01 AM
-4

Lmao so in the previous comment you were asking what you could possibly need protection from and now all of the sudden you have a laundry list of situations where you needed protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:53 AM
6

No it doesn’t, this is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:56 PM
4

Watch out we got a badass over here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:55 PM
-2

Which she chose not to do lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:49 AM
0

Again, I suggest you look up the definition and try to practice it. Then maybe you can become a decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:32 AM
-2

No I suggest you look up the definition and try practicing it sometime. It will make you a person worth being around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:21 AM
-2

Women try to have empathy challenge (impossible)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:42 AM
2

Well what do you bring to the table? You listed all the negative stuff, what’s the positive stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:41 AM
1

Im pretty sure OP realizes that, his post is very tongue in cheek if you didn’t pick up on that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:05 AM
2

In America, asians have the highest average income. Asians are also much shorter than white people on average, so please explain how being tall makes you wealthier?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:57 PM
2

So if tall people are healthier then why do short people live longer?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:51 PM
2

Lol you literally just made up like half of these things. You realize short people live longer on average than tall people right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:18 PM
3

There are plenty of men who get sex that aren’t misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:14 PM
3

These “true colors” that you speak of are not real. They don’t hate women for no reason. They hate women because women wont have sex with them. If the women had sex with them, they wouldn’t hate women. Its not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:38 PM
3

You do realize that incels are the way that they are specifically because they can’t get sex right? If they were getting sex regularly then they wouldn’t be incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:14 PM
2

I already knew this but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:14 AM
2

I mean not really when you consider that fact that women are the one’s who choose who gets sex and relationships. Guys just take whatever they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:45 AM
10

If you go to college in california and you walk around campus and look at the couples, you’ll see all of the asian girls dating white guys. Like literally 90% of the asian girls in relationships are with a white guy. Its honestly kinda creepy how much they fetishize white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:54 AM
6

I’ve got bad new for you. Socializing in your formative years does not prevent you from adopting any of these ideologies. People adopt these ideologies because of years and years of rejection and failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:00 PM
6

None of those are young women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:04 PM
4

Once women stop lying, we will stop assuming that they are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:09 AM
10

Whatever a woman says her body count is, take that number and multiply it by 3 for the true number.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:37 AM
1

Holy shit get a life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:37 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:23 AM
2

What about it doesn’t make sense? Do you not speak english very well?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:30 AM
1

Why do you think that? Most women I’ve talked to think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:49 AM
1

Why is she stupid though? Please explain why she’s not allowed to have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:00 AM
2

Why are you trying to invalidate her preferences? I thought women were allowed to have preferences, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:52 AM
6

Why are you saying she’s stupid? She’s just a normal, average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:50 AM
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His post wasn’t a question though. It was a statement about how women act. Try reading a little closer next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:09 PM
14

Fine advice for women, HORRIBLE advice for men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:43 PM
12

Latinas definitely care about height way less than any other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:56 AM
0

74% of americans are overweight. If you are not overweight, you are already above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:19 PM
4

Are you serious? It’s a complete deal breaker for most women. Most women refuse to date a man shorter than them under any circumstances whatsoever even if he is perfect in every other category.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:11 PM
7

If you were actually a fighter you would know that a shorter wrestler is going to beat the fuck out of an untrained tall dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:06 PM
8

I don’t know why women try so hard to deny this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:03 PM
1

Its not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:48 PM
10

Maybe they’re not seeking those things, not because they don’t want them, but because the barrier to entry has become too high and they know that their efforts will be unsuccessful so there’s no point in wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:33 AM
19

Source: they made it up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:30 AM
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There is a reason that 99.99% of men do not look like him. Yes, you do need extreme discipline to look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:03 PM
5

If you ever had to experience the opposite, you would fully realize how much of a privilege it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:47 PM
3

Spittin facts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:01 PM
5

Spittin facts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:01 PM
4

Spittin facts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:01 PM
1

Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:36 AM
2

So you think women dont care about height?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:30 AM
6

W
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:26 AM
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Depends on the individual and how low the ceiling is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:51 PM
-1

So you care about how men view you and you specifically do things to avoid being viewed as unattractive to men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:50 PM
1

Hey, I’m just telling you the facts. Sorry you don’t like the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:37 PM
1

That’s literally just not true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:28 PM
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That’s not leading someone on, that’s called having a legitimate relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:11 PM
1

Show me a peer reviewed source and I’ll believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:30 PM
-9

So you’re admitting women only do things for men’s attention, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:21 PM
1

Well yeah because dating apps only gained popularity recently so those relationships havent been around long enough to be considered “long term”. Come back in 20 years and that number will be over 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:18 PM
1

That’s irrelevant, the point is that most people today meet on dating apps. You can’t just write off women on dating apps when most women these days are meeting guys on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:09 PM
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As someone who spent years and years doing self improvement I can tell you first hand that it made no difference. If you’re unattractive women will not want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:45 PM
1

50% of all couples met on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:25 PM
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Hard Ceiling is a perfect term honestly. I’m gonna start using that as well if you don’t mind because I think a lot of blue pillers don’t understand this concept. Yes you can improve yourself, but certain traits will always give you a hard ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:24 PM
-1

No its just bullshit advice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:22 PM
-3

An individual woman will not stay young, but there will always be young women. When your gf gets old just dump her and trade her out for a younger one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:01 AM
1

That’s why I’m advocating for consensual sex, not rape wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:38 AM
2

People feel lonely because they don’t have other people to spend their time with. By having sex you are spending your time with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:21 AM
1

You’re probably an unattractive woman so your opinion is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:39 PM
1

What a stupid ass comment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:37 PM
2

So why is there a model currently dating him? I thought women were gonna get “weird vibes” from him and be “repelled” by his energy. What happened to that? Explain that, I dare you. If that were actually true, then I imagine he would have had a pretty tough time landing a literal model as a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:13 AM
2

And despite all of this his dating life has not suffered whatsoever. You’re literally bolstering my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:30 PM
1

Its called an analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:23 PM
12

He’s currently dating a model and has committed no felonies whatsoever. Explain that. Do it, I dare you. You specifically said “success IN DATING”. Stop trying to move the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:20 AM
12

He’s literally dating a model right now lmao What happened to “women will get weird vibes from you and be repelled by your energy”? Or “women are biologically programmed to stay away from men that hate them”? What happened to that, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:09 AM
12

He’s a multi-millionaire who fucks any girl he wants. You’re just mad because I already found a very clear and obvious counterexample that invalidates your entire argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:04 AM
9

We’re talking about success in terms of sex and dating. He doesn’t have a problem with either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:33 AM
15

Yes, I’m sure chris brown never gets laid LMAO this post is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:45 AM
1

🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:35 PM
1

It’s just pattern recognition
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:41 PM
1

No, women actually broke me. Sorry you don’t like hearing the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:41 PM
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They are if you break them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:36 PM
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Nah I certainly don’t hate myself. I know I’m a great guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:24 PM
1

What? We’re not talking about violence, your comment is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:24 PM
1

So if someone punches you in the face, you’re not gonna hit them back because you know how terrible it feels to get punched in the face? No, you’re gonna punch them back and stand up for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:22 PM
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I wasn’t having any success before the bitterness anyway, so it’s not like it really matters
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:33 AM
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I don’t see what’s so difficult to understand. Somebody hurts you, and you want to hurt them back. That’s a pretty normal human reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:19 AM
1

You would be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:20 AM
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Let me ask you this. How do you think most of these men came to develop these views and attitudes towards women? I’ll tell you right now that no man is born with these feelings of hatred and contempt. These feelings are developed due to YEARS and YEARS of rejection, failure, and frustration. None of us were born like this. I didn’t used to hate women 5 years ago, and guess what, they still weren’t interested in me. Another 5 years of failure and frustration passes and guess what? A straw breaks …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:51 AM
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Im arguing that sex and intimacy are very important to have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:24 PM
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Ok in that case I am arguing that sex and intimacy is important to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:38 PM
12

Not being able to vote is definitely worse than having your lungs filled with mustard gas in a dirty, wet trench in a foreign country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:25 PM
12

We want you to stop acting like victims. Because you clearly didn’t have it worse than the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:39 PM
3

We’re not talking about rights, we’re talking about needs. The commenter above me defined a need as something that you absolutely require in order to live. You do not need bodily autonomy in order to live. Therefore, according to their definition, bodily autonomy is not a need. It is a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:53 AM
1

And are you losing weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:17 AM
3

Is bodily autonomy a need or a want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:16 AM
2

Then stop eating meat for the rest of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:12 AM
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I think eating less calories than you burn will help you lose weight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:11 AM
0

Ok then don’t eat meat for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:10 AM
2

Dating is just prostitution with more steps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:54 AM
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I’d much rather just fuck attractive hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:39 AM
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Find God
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:33 PM
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Boo hoo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:03 PM
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They use the “personality” excuse to avoid admitting that women primarily just go for looks. You can give them all the evidence in the world of men with bad personalities getting laid, and they will still try to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:58 PM
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I’m a man and I’m terrified of walking around at 1 AM. To claim that its perfectly safe for a man to walk around alone at 1 AM is completely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:27 AM
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Yes it’s your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:38 AM
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You gain confidence by succeeding. Because your past successes are evidence that you can and will succeed again in the future. If you’ve never succeeded before, how can you have any confidence that you will succeed in the future? If you’ve struggled with every single homework assignment all semester, why would you have any confidence that you’re going to do well on the final exam? Having confidence when you’ve never succeeded in the past is just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:04 AM
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Only because the standards for what women find physically attractive are ludicrous. Men will walk into mcdonalds and fall in love with a random girl working the cash register. For girls they gotta have a guy who is tall, that immediately cuts out half of all men. Gotta have a guy who makes more money than them, that cuts the number in half again. He’s gotta be their preferred race, extremely handsome, in shape, funny, etc. It’s an entire fucking laundry list that by the end of it you’re left wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:56 AM
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It wouldn’t necessarily fix anything, but it would give me the satisfaction of hearing women admit that they are superficial. I just want to hear you guys admit it instead of trying to hide behind a veil of “personality is all that matters!”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:45 AM
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When the standards for physical attraction became unrealistic and delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:39 PM
1

I’ve literally seen women look at a picture of Chris Bumstead, the current top bodybuilder in the world, in the off season and say that he has a dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:48 PM
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When did I say I was ever mad about that lol We’re not even talking about men’s shelters
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:24 PM
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Because men are busy working other jobs like construction, firefighting, working in sewers, and all the other viral jobs that women don’t want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:14 PM
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Lol and this is what I meant by delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:42 PM
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Im not going to engage in a debate…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:38 PM
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See what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:28 PM
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Debating with delusional people is a waste of time so no I’m not going to engage with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:19 PM
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I’ve seen enough of your comments on here to know that you are delusional. Your words mean nothing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:11 PM
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So many women claim they want a guy who is “emotionally available” which is ironic given that 90% of women lack even the most basic form of empathy. Men are 10 times more empathetic than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:57 PM
1

I mean personally I would be way less resentful of women if I was getting laid regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:52 PM
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This video was shot in Ohio. All these women are from Ohio.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:47 PM
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Ok that’s not really the flex that you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:55 PM
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So you’re basically admitting that without men, women would be living in the stone age. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:50 PM
1

You don’t have to be fit, you just have to be not fat. Which is extremely easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:43 PM
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Hot girls don’t have real hobbies. Their “hobbies” are scrolling on instagram, taking pictures of themselves to post on instagram, swiping on tinder, doing their makeup, going out to the club/parties, online shopping, etc. Seriously, if you ask any hot girl “what do you do for fun?”, they will struggle to give you an answer. Literally every one of their “hobbies” revolves around seeking male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:42 PM
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If you had as much testosterone in your body as a man then you might understand. Otherwise, your opinion means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:59 PM
1

I don’t think I’m ugly, I just know I’m short
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:27 AM
1

5’8 is not short, it’s literally an inch below average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:23 AM
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Ok so why mention it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:59 AM
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So then what point are you trying to make by saying that you know unattractive men that are in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:39 AM
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Just because some unattractive men are in relationships does not mean that all unattractive men can find relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:34 AM
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Just because some unattractive men were able to find girlfriends does not mean that ALL unattractive men can find girlfriends. You can’t use the argument of “well this ugly guy did it so that means you can too”. That’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:29 AM
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Ok and? I’m talking about america.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:25 PM
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It’s not oppressive. It’s saving human lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:24 PM
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You think women are oppressed in america?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:02 PM
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And women still cry and act like they’re oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:28 PM
4

Thats hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:53 AM
2

Men don’t give a fuck about a woman’s job or social status. We just want someone hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:39 PM
1

It’s literally the truth. I’m just stating the truth. No emotions involved. The truth is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:43 AM
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If you’re in college there are thousands of 8s and 9s walking around campus at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:40 AM
1

So once again you are telling other people what should and should not make them happy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:29 AM
2

It’s almost like these women have absolutely no idea what they’re even saying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:52 AM
1

You’re seriously condoning sex trafficking, thats pretty fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:50 AM
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Of fucking course a person who doesn’t have any desire for sex can be happy without sex. What the fuck is this argument? 99.9% of men have a desire for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:46 PM
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Aesexual people are extreme outliers which makes your argument extremely weak. 99% of men have a sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:36 PM
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Imagine trying to tell somebody else what should and shouldn’t make them happy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:32 PM
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Given that they don’t have the desire to have sex I would say yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:29 PM
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If it were that simple then everybody would be happy all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:52 PM
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I didn’t choose for it to be like this. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:45 PM
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And you agree that it would suck to live your whole life depressed right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:37 PM
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You don’t need it to survive, you need it to be happy. What’s the point of surviving if you aren’t happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:27 PM
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I don’t want to contribute to sex trafficking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:09 PM
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Not like a man though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:08 PM
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You would understand if you had testosterone in your body but you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:57 PM
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Its illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:56 PM
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There’s a difference between needing something to survive and needing something to be happy. What’s the point of surviving if you aren’t happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:38 PM
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Theres a difference between needing something to survive and needing something to be happy. What is the point of surviving if you aren’t happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:36 PM
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Not true at all. Sex is a very intimate act regardless of who its with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:34 PM
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Theres a difference between needing something to survive and needing something to be happy. What’s the point of surviving if you aren’t happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:32 PM
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Women basically say this so that they don’t have to admit that women care about looks tremendously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:26 AM
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This is a very weak argument. I agree with the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:45 AM
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They don’t want to be approached in public…by unattractive men. If you’re an attractive guy its totally ok to approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:23 AM
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I’ve heard so many girls say that. You’re being willfully ignorant to try and prop up your argument. Either that or you never leave your house and interact with real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:25 AM
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That’s better than not having sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:24 PM
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Bruh if I have sex with a girl and she never talks to me again after that’s still a win. I’m not gonna suffer emotional trauma or some shit you’re being extremely dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:24 PM
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That’s the funny part, they don’t exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:59 AM
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It’s just different though. I’ve never had a problem making friends. I’m even friends with lots of women. But when it comes to romantic relationships there are no women who are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:13 PM
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I like attractive women and attractive women are not into me so no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:05 PM
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Asking someone on a date. Planning a date. Picking up your date. Paying for the date. That’s dating. Women do none of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:42 AM
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Because dating is not difficult for women. Dating is not something that women do, it is something that happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:33 AM
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Yeah that’s gaslighting. There are things that repel people that are completely out of your control. It’s not necessarily because of one’s own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:00 AM
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This is the gaslighting OP was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:48 PM
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You just got exposed LOL Nobody take this girl seriously, please. She is a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:31 PM
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You realize nobody believes your lies right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:06 PM
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This is accurate. You don’t necessarily gain extra points for being really tall. It’s just that you don’t lose points for being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:58 AM
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Being tall doesn’t inherently make you attractive, it’s that not being short gives you a fighting chance. Girls don’t care so much if you’re tall, they just want you to be not short.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:56 AM
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Yes Yes, very No Yes Yes Yes No Still never had any success. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:06 AM
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This is a terrible argument and it goes to show that you really dont know what its like to be a man. As a guy you can check off every one of the criteria listed and still fail just because you’re unattractive physically. Yes, the shit you’re talking about matters but it only matters if you’re already physically attractive to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:02 AM
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Idk probably 25-50 if I had to guess. Something in that range
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:56 PM
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Ok well every girl I’ve ever talked to has said they would not date a guy shorter than them. Most have said they would not date a guy who is shorter than them in their heels, and some of said they would not date a guy below 5’8. In other words every girl I’ve ever spoken to has said they care about height
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:59 AM
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Ok well I don’t know where you live, but in America 99% of women care about height. Every female friend I’ve ever talked to said that they would not date a guy below a certain height. Would you date a guy 10 inches shorter than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:36 AM
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Hey, you said it’s never mentioned in real life and I proved that statement to be a lie. It’s not that being tall is attractive, it’s that being short is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:55 AM
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I literally watched a girl say to my friend’s face that she would date him if he were 2 inches taller
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:42 AM
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I’m saying women “care” about height way more than men do. As a response to your initial comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:11 AM
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Women aren’t really used to being rejected so when it actually happens to them they generally aren’t emotionally equipped to handle that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:32 PM
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I’m sharing my experience of girl’s being obsessed over my height
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:08 AM
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Tell that to all the girls on dating apps who ghosted me immediately after I told them how tall I was
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:45 AM
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You would be grateful if you ever had to experience the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:36 AM
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I’m really not insecure though is the funny thing but I can see why you might think that. I’ve been short my whole life so literally after 25 years its not something that I even care about. I’m happy with who I am and I wouldn’t change anything about me even if I could. I’m just sharing with you the way that women have treated based on my height. Again, I’m happy with my height, it’s women that are unhappy with my height. I hope that gives you some better perspective on the situation. Obviously …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:52 AM
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Why do you assume I haven’t worked on myself? I’ve gone to the gym 6 days a week for the last 7 years. I put effort into my hair, my fashion, I have plenty of friends including friends who are women. I think a lot of people like you try to blame the personality of people who struggle romantically. When in reality, looks matter. And sometimes theres just not enough you can do to overcome being physically unattractive or short. Trust me, you really don’t get it until you’ve lived it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:01 AM
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It’s difficult to talk to the “right” girls, when the “right” girls make up like 2% of the population. Your self esteem can only be battered so much before you become depressed. Also, why are you shaming women for having preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:57 PM
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Girls dont want a guy shorter than them unless theyre tall like you. Most short girls require you to be at least 2 inches taller than them or taller than them in heels so basically 4 inches taller than them. You know how many times I’ve heard short girls say they wont date a short man because they dont want their kids to be short?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:04 PM
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A guy who is 5’1 will never be a 7 to you or most women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:03 PM
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5’9 is still tall enough to the point where it’s not a deal breaker for the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:56 PM
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Bruh literally just take the ear gauges out and do your makeup and dress well and you’re a 5 minimum, probably higher. You look fine. To call yourself a 3 is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:55 PM
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Ok well you’re right that I don’t know for sure unless I see a picture of you which I haven’t. There could be other things wrong but again I wont know because I havent seen you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:34 PM
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What percentage a women do you think care about a man’s height? How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:28 PM
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Thats not true unless you’re literally deformed. I’ve seen pretty unattractive girls look decent with makeup. Makeup wont make you a 10 but it can absolutely take a 3 to a 5 or a 4 to a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:22 PM
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Im open to dating a taller girl, theyre not open to dating me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:12 PM
1

Yup that’s pretty spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:11 PM
5

Thats exactly what it looks like lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:10 PM
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So almost 1 in 10? Thats a pretty significant proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:09 PM
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I just do not agree with the majority of women they picked for each rating. It’s way off in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:52 PM
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Every girl who is a 3 or 4 has the ability to raise themself up to at least a 5 or 6. If you’re a 3 or 4 then you’re probably overweight but you can change that. Eat less and exercise. If you’re not pretty? Get good at makeup. There is no excuse as a woman to not be at least a 5 which is good enough for most guys. Men are judged based on things they do not have control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:51 PM
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Don’t believe this for a second. Unless maybe you go to college in Mexico? At my college I never once saw ANY girl (let alone a sorority girl) dating a guy shorter than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:46 PM
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5’9 is not short at all dude. Try being 5’4 and then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:44 PM
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This list is lowkey trash. The ratings are way off by consensus male standards. Edit: Just looked at it again. It’s not even lowkey trash, it’s high key trash. Terrible fucking list. Whoever made this was smoking crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:42 PM
1

Well at least you can acknowledge the fact the being short makes it very difficult to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:10 AM
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So you agree that your social circle doesnt matter if youre below 5’8
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:48 AM
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Damn I wish I was 5’8 that would make things so much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:38 AM
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Or you’re short. The thing women care about most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:58 AM
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I thought you said you have to be 5’7. Also for a lot of women its not enough for their partner to be the same height as them. They want a guy who is at least 2-3 inches taller, and a lot will only date you if you are still taller than them in their tallest pair of heels. In other words theyre looking for at least 5-6 inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:21 PM
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You might have a faster metabolism which makes it more difficult to gain weight. That can be true. But if you eat enough you will gain weight. If you think you eat a lot but you dont gain weight then you’re probably not actually eating that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:18 AM
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Ok so please educate me. Tell me about the underlying science that explains why it’s impossible for certain individuals to grow their muscles. I already know you won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:29 AM
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I’ve been lifting weights 6 times a week for the last 7 years so I think I’m fairly educated on the subject. Yes genetics are a factor, but that mainly has to do with how the muscle inserts onto your frame as well as how your muscles respond to weight training. But no matter what your genetics look like, if you train your glutes with progressive overload, you eat in the caloric surplus, and you get enough rest, your glutes will grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:24 AM
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There’s no such thing as genetically thin. You just don’t eat enough to gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:23 AM
1

Ok and whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:25 AM
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If you were short you would understand
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:10 PM
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Except being fat is a choice, and it’s also terrible for your health. Being short is neither of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:36 AM
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It’s the classic “well people at nightclubs are bad people anyway” defense. As if going to a club or a bar or a house party isn’t something that the majority of young adults have done at some point if not regularly. I’ve seen many female redditors try to use the defense to absolve women of all the terrible things they do at these venues. The truth is that the majority of female redditors are introverted and not conventionally attractive so they use this defense as an opportunity to try and shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:34 AM
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Girls basically treat short men as sub-human. I’m just waiting for all the gaslighting women to come in here and tell you why your real life experiences are all a lie and how women aren’t actually pieces of shit towards short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:11 AM
1

Look up Bagel Boss
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:05 AM
0

I am 5’4. Now what.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:02 AM
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Its not socially acceptable to express these sentiments in real life. Thats why you see it online because there is anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:59 AM
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Makeup wont make you taller which is the most important factor for women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:55 PM
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Your glutes are a muscle. Train them and they get bigger. You have the power to get bigger glutes if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:54 PM
1

What about someone who’s not physically unattractive but not necessarily attractive either. Can personality be enough to make them attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:30 PM
1

Exactly, so your entire comment is irrelevant because women dont actually prefer younger men in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:18 AM
2

Makeup exists
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:55 AM
0

Then why do you never see 40 year old women hooking up with 25 year olds. Sure it happens very rarely but the reverse is 10 times more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:43 PM
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Its not worse because you can control how attractive you are as a woman. If you’re fat? Lose weight. If you’re ugly? Wear makeup. Also, just because men place a lot of value on looks, doesn’t mean its a high bar to meet. Men can simultaneously place a lot of value on looks while also having a very low bar for what they deem to be “attractive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:51 PM
7

Tinder makes it easier than any other point in human history to find a casual hookup partner. Of course the top 20 percent are having more casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:24 PM
7

You’ve never been an unattractive man though. So you still don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:23 PM
7

The numbers are declining because the bottom 80% of men get nothing these days. The top 20% of men are having more casual sex than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:19 PM
4

Spoken like a true woman that has no idea what she is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:17 PM
5

If you ever experienced the opposite then you would realize that it actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:13 PM
6

Where I live and where the majority of people on this subreddit lives it is illegal. Your “solution” is to just go commit a crime lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:11 AM
1

Prostitution is illegal, it is a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:42 PM
1

Just dont tell them then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:47 AM
0

Sure but you’re going to give more leeway to an attractive guy than a non attractive guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:44 AM
1

You have to have a baseline of social skills no matter how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:16 AM
25

If you are attractive, women will look for any reason to keep talking to you. If you are unattractive, women will look for the tiniest reason to disqualify you. He makes it look easy because women are making it easy for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:42 AM
7

Its just biology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:58 AM
11

It means that women have an extremely high success rate compared to men on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:42 AM
37

And yet all the women here will preach to struggling men that online dating doesnt work and you have to meet women in real life. Like no, unfortunately online dating is how young people date these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:32 PM
0

I agree, the actual cutoff line for most women is not 6’0 its more like 5’7-5’8
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:07 AM
1

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:04 AM
22

Worst fucking advice I’ve ever read lmao. You should just title this: How to be single for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:52 AM
2

Hell yeah brother. You’ve put in the work, now you get to have your fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:00 AM
10

One man meeting your standards doesn’t mean they’re not unreasonable. There are 4 billion men on this planet. Of course at least one is going to meet your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:03 PM
16

That’s probably because your standards ARE too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:45 PM
1

Ok so you agree that a good relationship would make your life better. Based on that it should not be difficult to see why people who struggle to find relationships feel like something is missing from their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:15 AM
1

Why are you assuming all these things about me? You’ve literally made up an entire story in your head that you’ve now shoved onto me. Regardless, the reason that you wont take an oath is because you know that ultimately, a relationship is something that you want out of life. It’s ok to admit that. If I’m incorrect about that then take the oath right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:53 AM
1

Well you said you’re fulfilled without a relationship so why would you be opposed to taking an oath right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:40 AM
1

Ok so why don’t you take an oath right now to stay single for the rest of your life since its so fulfilling the way it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:29 AM
2

So you just admitted that being in a relationship with the right person would improve your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:10 AM
1

Genuine question for you. Would you be happy staying single for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:36 PM
3

Uh no, height cannot be controlled
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:35 PM
2

At least men are selective about things that a woman can control (aka her weight).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:20 PM
9

Stop the gaslighting. Women care about height far more than men care about tits or ass. I’ve never in my LIFE seen a guy turn down a girl because she had small tits. But I have literally seen girls turn down guys TO THEIR FACE by saying it’s because he’s not tall enough. Do you know how many times I’ve been ghosted on dating apps immediately after telling the woman how tall I was? Stop the gaslighting, you have no idea what it’s like to date as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:05 PM
0

Being attractive, being tall
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:19 PM
0

Well that’s why my original point was that the advice isn’t really good advice because there are other factors that women care a lot more about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:15 PM
1

Well I do think they’ve increased but it still hasn’t yielded any success. Being social by hanging out with friends, going to social events, parties, kickbacks, talking to people in my classes, etc. I tried dating apps for a couple months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:05 PM
1

Mostly women from the internet but just having good hygiene, working out, dressing well, being social, having hobbies, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:58 PM
1

Idk I just feel like personally I’ve followed most of the common advice women give and it still hasn’t done anything for me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:51 PM
2

Thats what im saying, the advice wont help because im too short for her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:18 PM
2

Well obviously it wont help if im too short for her anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:13 PM
2

Because they won’t tell you the truth because it makes them look shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:09 PM
3

You never addressed my point, you just went off on a random tangent about the history of red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:01 AM
2

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:17 PM
1

Ok im not really concerned with the history. I’m just telling you why so many men have become aligned with this ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:33 PM
4

You think men LIKE being angry? I’m sorry but that’s an absurd claim. The real reason why the red pill has gained popularity is because it’s a forum where men can connect and relate to other men who share the same experiences as them when it comes to dating, sex, and women. Every red pilled man became red pilled because of their experiences with real women. In a world full of people who will try gaslight you and discredit your experiences, the red pill an outlet that will actually listen and und…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:05 PM
9

This is the true answer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:53 PM
1

So you think a 5’5 guy is never going to get rejected because of his height as long as he has an attractive face?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:13 PM
5

Ok but if a guy has a very attractive face but he’s short then that will overrule his face for most women. So in that case height is definitely a more important factor than face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:06 AM
2

Maybe if you were originally 90 pounds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:46 PM
2

If you’re 6’5 and muscular as OP claims, you would literally have to be either hideously ugly or the most socially awkward person on the planet to struggle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:10 PM
4

The things women care the most about are things you can’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:52 PM
11

Unless you are attractive and have a very active social life, it will be extremely tough to “passively” meet a girl. You are correct that you will need to make active efforts in pursuing women if this is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:53 AM
2

Because it’s better to let other people know you have a problem than to suffer in silence?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:41 PM
3

Yeah we enjoy suffering and we enjoy not having any sex or relationships or intimacy yeah you’re totally right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:34 PM
6

Only sensible comment in this entire thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:31 PM
9

There’s plenty of great single guys out there. It’s just that women don’t want them because they’re not tall enough, don’t make enough money, not attractive enough, or some other deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:09 PM
1

I’ve heard many people say this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:35 AM
1

Being short is different, it is an absolute, non-negotiable deal breaker for the vast majority of women. Like literally there is nothing you can do to change a girl’s mind if she doesn’t like short guys, which is the vast majority of women. Doesn’t matter if you’re a billionaire, celebrity, astronaut, comedian. Shortness is the one thing that women will not compromise on whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:41 PM
1

If it only it were that easy, that would be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:28 PM
2

Just be attractive bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:24 PM
1

I am a very friendly person, but definitely more shy and introverted. Never had a problem making friends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:57 PM
3

Why do you try so hard to deny the fact that looks matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:48 PM
1

I did do that. Like I said, I was friends with a lot of women in college. It still did not change anything or open up any doors to meeting women that I do find attractive. If it’s not due to my looks then what is it due to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:05 PM
1

You didnt really answer the question. Why is it not logical that if unattractive girls are interested in me, and attractive girls shut me down, that I must be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:18 PM
2

Well obviously you don’t know my story but I’ve only started to find out about this whole purple pill, red pill, black pill, manosphere world within the last couple years or so. I didn’t know any of these toxic online communities even existed while I was plugging away in college trying to meet girls. It wasn’t until I finally graduated having had zero success with women over the course of 4 years that I finally drew my conclusion and started to become bitter. So the toxic online communities had …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:46 AM
3

If they have an ok personality sure. Also depends on the ecosystem and how attractive the other guys around are. If every guy at the party is a 4-6 then a 5 can do ok. If everybody else is a 7-9 and you’re a 5 then you’re kinda fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:19 AM
4

When I started trying to talk to girls (my freshman year of college) I had no idea whether I was considered attractive or not. So I went out to social events to try meeting people, talk to girls, etc. I talked to girls I found attractive, girls that I didn’t find that attractive, all types of girls. I noticed over time that the prettier girls all reacted very negatively to me, did not reciprocate engagement in conversation, etc. While it was mostly unattractive girls that seemed to be interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:17 AM
4

I would say a 5 is the bare minimum and if you are a 5 then you would also need to have an incredible personality to make it salvageable. A 5 who is shy or introverted is not going to have success either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:02 AM
1

We don’t have no standards, we just have realistic and reasonable standards unlike women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:57 AM
12

Im just being honest. Im sorry you find the truth offensive. Am I obligated to find every woman attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:56 AM
20

Unattractive meaning that the majority of women are not attracted to you. I know im unattractive because all the women who are attracted to me are unattractive, and when I try to talk to attractive girls I get shut down immediately, rejected, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:43 AM
2

Did you read the title of the post? We’re debating whether women are more stringent about “types” than men. Its sounds like we both agree that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:39 AM
12

You’re probably a good looking dude or you at least meet the minimum threshold. Therefore this advice will work for you. If you’re unattractive it won’t change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:00 AM
8

Damn I very much relate to your college experience. Meeting women doesnt make a difference if youre unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:56 AM
33

Spoken like someone who has truly not lived life as an unattractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:53 AM
1

No, you just proved my point that women have much more stringent “types” than men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:37 AM
1

Ok the majority of men don’t. Including attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:35 AM
0

Men don’t have “types”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:17 AM
11

Im just saying that I’ve followed this advice and I’ve still been single my entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:16 AM
24

As a short guy I can already tell you this advice wouldn’t help me. I would meet a lot of new women and probably befriend a good amount of them but they would still not want to date me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:36 AM
9

Obviously anyone with more options is going to be pickier. That doesn’t change the fact that women still have much more stringent requirements than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:27 PM
6

Not sure if you’re from california, but every asian girl is dating a white dude out here. It’s kinda crazy actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:46 PM
15

Even men with options though are generally very open to different types of girls though. Their “type” is just attractive girls. However, they could have any hair color, be any race, be any height, be thick, be skinny. As long as they’re attractive. Where as girls will literally pass up a perfectly attractive guy because he’s blonde instead of brunette, and he’s 5’11 instead of 6’2, and he has green eyes instead of blue, and he is a little too muscular for her liking. Men’s “type” is attractive g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:42 PM
4

Why would you not want to help someone in need?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:21 PM
8

The 1950’s were 70 years ago. Women have been making their own money for a long ass time already.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:59 PM
0

It has nothing to do with enjoying spending time with women. The only thing that matters is if you’re attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:16 AM
3

This is facts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:13 PM
1

Why do you think they fell down that rabbit hole in the first place? Because they had already been removed from the dating pool by women’s “preferences”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:31 AM
2

Not true, they could just be physically unnattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:38 AM
3

In that case your problems are definitely fixable. I know its easier said than done, but you do have the power to control your own destiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:52 AM
0

I would say it was mainly Zendaya choosing to date Tom Holland that was the biggest factor. That being said, I don’t actually think most women have changed their opinions on the matter. Women still overwhelmingly prefer tall men despite this “narrative” that has appeared recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:53 PM
1

Yes but you need to have social skills. You can be confident in yourself but lack the social skills to talk to women. Being confident and having social skills are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:08 AM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:57 AM
2

Because that’s the advice everyone gives when talking to girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:03 AM
2

Being confident in yourself has nothing to do with asking women out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:02 AM
-1

“How can you complain about being hungry when there’s a half eaten hot dog laying on the dirty sidewalk right over there!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:42 AM
6

Ok well most guys want to have sex in their 20s not wait until theyre 40 with no experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:20 AM
0

More like wanting to have sex with a woman who is not repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:18 AM
1

But he’s attractive so none of that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:15 AM
4

Um because it’s true?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:31 PM
1

Why are you trying to dismiss this guy’s claims when you yourself have never tried dating as an average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:24 PM
1

Oh ok, I actually agree with you for the most part then. If you’re 5’7-5’11 complaining about your height then you definitely have other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:30 PM
2

So let me get this straight, you actually think that women don’t care about a man’s height?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:13 PM
1

Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:28 PM
1

Ah damn thats what I thought, I hate my life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:05 AM
4

Theres a difference between average height and short though. When you say that girls on social media saying “no short guys” isn’t even true, you then go on to state that they probably find average height guys attractive too. Well to me that still sounds like the no short guys mantra still holds true for them. They’re ok with tall or average, but not short.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:26 AM
2

Not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:36 AM
1

So 5’4 you would not be ok with even though theyre 2 inches taller than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:24 AM
25

I mean you literally said in your post that if you’re above 5’8 you have a shot. You realize 37% of american men are shorter than 5’8 right? So you yourself would agree that non-social skills are absolutely a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:13 AM
3

Im 25. There have been some girls shorter than me who have liked me, its just that I wasn’t attracted to any of them. So I guess I do have somewhat of a chance with shorter girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:53 PM
0

Agreed. I see dudes who are 5’8 complaining they can’t get girls because they’re short and I’m like bruh. Dating would be a breeze if I was 5’8.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:47 PM
6

Idk what you mean by stats but I’m 5’4, been lifting weights 6 times a week for the last 7-8 years, i put effort into my hair, my clothes, I have my finances in order. Still got nothing to show for it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:36 PM
5

I’ve done that, it doesnt make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:27 PM
1

Ok but you’re not short
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:26 PM
6

It just sucks when you’re considered below average because of a reason that you cannot control
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:16 PM
3

You think we want to be victims? No we just share our experiences with dating, and then you put that label on us for sharing our real life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:11 PM
4

Nobody knows you have a small dick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:09 PM
4

Tall women are not considered unattractive. You’re just wrong about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:05 PM
0

That might be true for women. Men dont have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:35 PM
8

No because they realize this is a very small minority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:50 AM
4

As someone who has been lifting weights 6 days a week for the last 8 years, I’ll tell you right now that it doesn’t make a difference if you’re short and don’t have an attractive face. I’ve done basically all the things you’ve suggested in this comment chain and its all bullshit. It only works if you’re attractive. Your advice will get you no where if you aren’t attractive. Yes you can do things to improve your appearance but it only goes so far, especially if you’re short you’re just fucked no …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:15 AM
2

Facts facts facts facts facts, couldn’t have said it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:09 AM
8

Some of us don’t have a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:31 AM
2

It’s really not that much higher. You’re greatly overestimating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:54 AM
2

That’s still orders of magnitude higher than the 5% of men that women are actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:51 AM
1

Yes, this isn’t even a question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:48 AM
34

Emotional intelligence is such a BS buzzword. Literally means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:41 PM
1

So all the healthy, happy, emotionally available people are assholes? I’m confused what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:05 AM
1

Why do you think young women are generally attracted to assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:00 AM
2

Unfortunately dating apps are the way that most of us young people meet these days. You’re severely hindering yourself if you dont use these dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:58 PM
5

Maybe they can’t afford the insane prices that escorts charge? Maybe they want to have sex with someone that actually wants to have sex with them? The possibilities are endless!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:24 AM
0

Thats not an option
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:50 AM
26

How the hell is it not the same as makeup? Its exactly the same as makeup. You’re using an artificial product to appear as something you are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:30 PM
31

Ok how is that any different from wearing makeup? “Once a girl takes her makeup off the guy is gonna know she’s a liar.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:59 PM
1

My sister in christ, we don’t care about validating our masculinity we just want to have sex and feel loved because it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:35 AM
1

Yeah, idk im a short guy and I’ve struggled greatly with women my entire life. It just feels impossible when probably 95% of women have a height requirement. I’ve been trying to overcome the depression that has come from this but its hard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:12 PM
1

What do you consider “shorter” in reference to the “shorter” men you’ve dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:05 PM
0

I’ve heard countless girls say that if a guy takes her out on a date, and he doesn’t pay for the entire date then there will not be a second date. Not to mention anniversary gifts, birthday presents, christmas gifts, etc. If you don’t spend money on these things for a girl I guarantee you’re getting dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:45 PM
1

Better than nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:23 PM
4

Dating is just prostitution with extra steps
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:22 PM
1

Maybe if you have a son under 5’6 then you’ll truly have some empathy and change your line of thinking when you seen how much he struggles with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:06 PM
1

Yup definitely believe that all of your sisters in law are attractive enough to be models…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:32 AM
0

Yes I’m sure they are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:25 AM
0

My bad I should have clarified it only applies to attractive girls in their early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:22 AM
9

“Women don’t owe you anything” is just code for “I’m an entitled asshole”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:18 AM
-1

Ah it makes sense now. Hang out with some girls in their early 20s and you’ll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:14 AM
4

Thats not even true, we all owe each other respect as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:12 AM
1

That’s where you are wrong. The overwhelming majority of women care about height, and there are a lot more short men than there are women willing to date short men. That’s why it’s an issue. A lot of short men are never going to find a partner because of this. Maybe if you have a short son then you will begin to have some empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:32 AM
5

Having friends does not compensate for the lack of a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:55 PM
0

Every single girl I’m friends with has told me they will only date a man if he’s older than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:50 PM
1

So out of curiosity what are you gonna do if one of your sons ends up short? Are you gonna feel bad for him because of all the women out there like you who will not want to date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:10 PM
1

That’s fine, I’m just laughing at the irony of the situation. Also, tall women limit their own dating pool because they refuse to date someone shorter than them. Short guys are fine dating a woman taller than them, but most taller women would never do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:50 PM
1

It’s just ironic that you yourself are the problem, and you’re artificially trying help your potential son circumvent this problem which you yourself are contributing towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:14 PM
1

It’s easier for men dating wise because theres a lot of women out there that have the same attitude that you yourself have
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:59 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:09 PM
1

Why do you need your kids to be tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:07 PM
1

🤣 I’m dead bruh this is honestly hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:19 PM
1

Because of people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:01 AM
2

Exactly, so your claim is incorrect as it pertains to my life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:48 AM
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I mean idk where the hell you’re from but when I was in college I would say 90-95% of the students were a normal healthy weight. Maybe you’re from like Mississippi or one of those other high obesity states idk. I’m from california so I guess thats probably why we are all a normal healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:42 AM
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Because it’s mostly young men on this subreddit so obviously we’re looking to date young women in our age range. If you look at every woman from age 18-24, you will see that young thin attractive women are not the minority. They’re only the minority if you’re looking at like women age 18-50. However as a guy in my mid twenties, I’m obviously looking for someone in the 18-25 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:48 PM
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Being ugly isn’t a choice lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:03 AM
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Women care about age and height far more than men. Most men are willing to date older or taller. Guy’s literally just want a girl who they find attractive, that’s it. Women want a guy who’s taller, a guy who is older (but not too old), a guy who makes a certain amount of money, a guy that has his own place, a guy who has a car, a guy with friends, a guy with a prestigious job title, etc. Men don’t care about any of this shit. Just don’t be overweight and be somewhat physically attractive that’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:35 AM
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You would be an outlier when compared to what happens on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:37 AM
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I means just look at online dating data. On average, men swipe on 50% of women. On average, women swipe on 5% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:34 AM
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Women are far pickier and its not close
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:19 AM
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What about average dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:18 AM
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When did I say there was a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:17 AM
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Its your right to remain single yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:29 AM
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Ok have fun with that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:10 AM
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If there are no available men that you want to be with then your standards are too high
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:07 AM
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Its not controversial to want someone you’re attracted to, it’s that the standards for what is deemed “attractive” have reached a point of being unreasonable and unrealistic. Often times women these days aren’t even chasing what they find attractive but what society tells them they should find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:48 PM
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If she’s pretty I promise you none of that would matter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:03 PM
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You joke about telekinesis but literally that’s actually the amount of effort that most girls put in. I’ve literally heard women say that their attempt at making a move is making eye contact. That’s it, fucking eye contact. I make eye contact with hundreds of women per day, there’s no fucking way for someone to know that eye contact is a signal to come talk to them. Literally that is one of the most pathetic things I’ve ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:29 AM
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Thats exactly what they do though. Women do not make the first move because they don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:15 AM
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So many women refuse to accept this. They will just continue to gaslight you and tell you that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:39 PM
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As a shorter guy you have to do everything in your power to better yourself in order to have a CHANCE to land a girl. The key word is chance. You can do everything right and still fail just because height is that important to girls. Yes there are other factors beyond height that girls consider obviously, but height is the number 1 dealbreaker for women beyond anything else. You can be absolutely perfect in every way, but if youre too short its a no go for most women. I don’t see why thats so har…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:54 AM
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I’m just glad that I’ve finally found people who understand what I’m going through
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:48 AM
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I’ve done everything in my control to improve myself and I still have no success with women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:41 AM
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95% of women literally don’t have a personality. They just adopt the hobbies and personality of whatever guy they start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:30 AM
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Yo, I just wanted to say thank you for posting this. I just found this subreddit so I’ve been looking through some of the top posts which is how I got here. Everything you said is 100% fact and women need to fucking understand this. Thank you for standing up for all us who have been silenced and gaslit into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:15 AM
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So true. When I talk to women they’re so cold and disinterested and rude. Then an attractive guy starts talking to them and they’re bubbly, happy, smiling, chatty, etc. It has nothing to do with personality and everything to do with physical atteactiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:34 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:42 PM
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How is that what I want to hear? You think I like hearing that women don’t want to date short men? Thats like the opposite of what I want to hear. I’m guessing you think all the women in the video are paid actors too? Lmao it’s comical at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:30 PM
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What? I’m happy she’s making money because she makes good videos
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:09 PM
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If you don’t wanna take it from then take it from other women. Watch this video from the 5:23 mark https://youtu.be/lkh1q4glwUE
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:05 PM
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Lmfao so you won’t listen to me. You won’t listen to other women, in a video made by a woman. It’s just willful ignorance on your part at this point. The literal moment that you are presented evidence that defeats your argument you just choose to ignore it. Honestly, I’m not suprised whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:25 PM
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That doesn’t really help me then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:01 PM
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I mean there obviously nothing I can say to change your mind so I’ll just give you this video to watch instead. Go ahead and watch this video from the 5:23 mark https://youtu.be/lkh1q4glwUE
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:00 PM
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Good to know that you and your friends are different from me and my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:42 PM
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Ok having one short friend that gets dates doesnt mean girls dont care about height tremendously
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:42 PM
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Yeah no shit, we have basically the same personalities thats why we’re best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:40 PM
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Obviously but please continue to tell me about how you know more about me and my best friends than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:30 PM
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How short?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:16 PM
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That’s why we’re best friends. According to you it’s just a coincidence that they’ve all had sex and I havent I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:07 PM
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I actually have better grooming, style, physical fitness that pretty much all of them. Why? Because as a shorter guy, you actually have to do all of those things well to even have a chance at landing a girl. I’ve literally tried to do everything in my power to make myself a better person. It still doesn’t matter because women value height over all of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:05 PM
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Well yeah the only way to prove that you’re attractive would be to send to a picture, so until that happens I can’t just take your word for it. I find it funny how instead of just admitting that girls care about height you have to instead try to gaslight short men and blame their personality for their shortcomings. It’s not the end of the world for you to admit that women care about height. I think most women wouldn’t even be ashamed to admit that they care about height. I can literally send you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:02 AM
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Tbh I don’t think you have to be attractive to do any of those things. I’ve known some unattractive girls with stalkers. 95% of women are catcalled so it’s clearly not just the pretty ones. Having a guy buy you a drink is a very low bar. Men who are out clubbing or at bars have very low standards. Theyre drunk and they just wanna fuck anything they can. Girls will literally try to gas up even the most unattractive women, I’ve seen it many times. I mean props to them for being supportive, but as …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:55 AM
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Literally all my best friends who are tall have had sex. We have the same personalities thats why we’re best friends. The difference is that when we go out to parties, clubs, etc. They get attention from girls and I don’t. It’s not that hard to figure out why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:21 AM
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How attractive are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:15 AM
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I mean you can’t just say that you have one short friend who has a gf so therefore its not hard to date as a short man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:13 AM
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Yeah I wish I was 5’7, dating would be way fucking easier
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:09 AM
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Why should that number matter in the context of this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:03 AM
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Why would I not pity someone who has no power over his situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:02 AM
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Facts brother
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:00 AM
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I think you may have misunderstood. I don’t think my biggest flaw is my height. I’m perfectly happy with my height. However, WOMEN think that my biggest flaw is my height. I have no problem with my height whatsoever. I’ve been short my whole life, this is just who I am. Unfortunately, women are not willing to look past my height despite the fact that I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:57 AM
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Oh please do tell me what it is 😯
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:48 AM
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I wish that was the issue. Sucks when your biggest flaw is something you cant change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:44 AM
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Why are people so afraid to admit that girls care about height tremendously?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:33 AM
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It’s the main thing to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:22 AM
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How can I work on being taller? Oh wait, I can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:46 AM
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Shoutout Tiger, that boy nice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:50 AM
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Just know that you’re the reason these memes exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:48 AM
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Because you will only date someone 11 inches taller than you, yes thats exactly why
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:45 AM
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Shit pisses me off so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:37 AM
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Its literally girls like you that are the reason why this meme exists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:35 AM
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Just what women say, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:32 AM
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