iHkg31f3 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
34	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild?		iHkg31f3	/r/RedPillWives	03/02/22 05:50 AM
4	What can wives do to encourage spending quality time with their husband?	DISCUSSION	iHkg31f3	/r/RedPillWives	17/02/22 08:50 PM

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6	Homemakers and Feminine Influncers Who Aren't Tradcons/Religious or Grifters? The YouTube algorithm has been recommending me a lot of Japanese/Korean home makers recently. I like how the videos portray home life activities as a mindful passing of time. Otena Vlog is really interesting to watch for homemaking tips for working couples. Haegreendal is a South Korean stay at home mom who maintains a beautiful home for her family. Sueddu is a South Korean freelance artist who makes good home based content. Kimono Mom is a former Japanese Maiko/Geisha who lives in Tokyo with he…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/02/24 09:58 PM
1	How did you master The Art Of STFU? I’ve found I tend to nag when I’m either hangry or bored/looking for projects. Getting food always helps quell the crazy. And working Monday-Friday keeps me too tired to be bored/looking home projects. I’m still a work in progress, honestly. I tend to do things on my own if my husband won’t help me around the house avoid nagging. This is not always the best strategy though as I usually need help with something like lifting the old TV or trimming the outside hedge.	/r/RedPillWives	26/01/24 11:00 PM
1	Relationship Challenge Field Reports My challenge this week has been transparency. To keep our monthly budget, I can only spend so much on the credit card. That’s been more challenging lately as one grocery bill alone puts be at 75-80% of my monthly spending limit. It’s hard to share the cost with my husband sometimes as I feel guilty about what I’ve spent on—even if it’s important stuff like food. Anyone else struggle with this?	/r/RedPillWives	26/08/22 03:36 AM
2	Casual Questions I’m always flattered if my neighbors ask to borrow something like eggs or repair tools. It builds some trust without being too intrusive in their lives. Maybe you could ask the wife if she has something to share that you or your husband might need? Otherwise, what you’re doing already sounds really wise.	/r/RedPillWives	26/08/22 02:57 AM
1	Course on feminine archetype? Have you looked into Jonathan Pageau on YouTube? He’s a guy that’s really into archetypes, culture, and faith. He’s got some interesting videos titled “The Real Power of the Feminine”, “Where is the Divine Feminine?”, and “Getting Feminine Symbolism Right with Rachel Fulton Brown”. I need to watch some of these myself tbh as they look pretty insightful.	/r/RedPillWives	23/07/22 02:12 AM
14	The Good Wife Weekly Challenge My husband is building us a new deck. It’s been a lot of work in the heat. He asked me to rake the leaves around our house to get rid of mice nest material as he saw a mouse go under our house. Got the raking/leaf bagging done quickly and he seemed really relieved. Not my most favorite house maintenance task, but we’re both glad it’s done.	/r/RedPillWives	22/07/22 08:16 PM
3	help with married sex life Do y’all have friends or family that can watch the new baby so you two can have a proper date night? My enthusiasm would also be low trying to handle a new baby, a new body, and so many changes in general. If your grandparents live close by, I’m sure they’d be happy to spoil your little one while y’all spoil yourselves for a special night. Sometimes dressing up and doing something outside of your regular routine like a movie, bowling, laser tag, mini golf, etc can help get us out of that rut. Ha…	/r/RedPillWives	26/05/22 02:02 AM
2	For those who are genuinely happy with their careers, what do you do? I’m a local city health inspector. I look at restaurants, pools, septic systems, daycares, and do mosquito surveillance/treatment. It’s fun because every day is different and I’m not stuck at a desk all day. Got a sweet farmers tan too! I’ll never get rich. But I value spending my time with my family more. I care about my family’s food, water, and health. So, also caring about my local city’s food, water, and health feels natural.	/r/RedPillWives	26/05/22 01:46 AM
3	Tea Time What are y’all’s food/gas inflation strategies for the months ahead? I’ve cut some meat from our diets and do multiple chores while I’m out in the car around town. Anything else we can do as a household?	/r/RedPillWives	19/05/22 03:42 AM
1	Tea Time Wishing everyone in this community a Happy Easter! He is Risen!! Enjoy spending time with your families eating chocolate bunnies, hiding eggs, and making memories this weekend.	/r/RedPillWives	17/04/22 01:37 AM
1	Tea Time Agree. What’s your favorite way to eat butter?	/r/RedPillWives	02/04/22 12:18 AM
5	Showing Care and Support Lord have mercy on PearlSunrise and her husband. 🙏 Does your husband have a few close guy friends who he can count on for support? Is he close to his father or your dad? The world feels very unstable right now and having a solid group of supportive men who encourage him is important for y’all’s marriage too. If not, I’m just gonna recommend him connecting with this group of dudes: https://fraternityofexcellence.com They seem like the real deal. Your husband could contact the owner about the cost…	/r/RedPillWives	28/03/22 04:25 AM
2	What is the real way to relate to your husband? I make him food, give good back rubs, and am ready for a romp whenever he feels like it. Otherwise, my husband is more liberal than me on a lot of things. I lean more on the conservative side. We get into lots of arguments over our opinions. But I always try and make sure we don’t make each other an “enemy” over our different opinions. He’ll always have my respect and unconditional love because I didn’t marry him for his opinions—but his character and who he is as a person. During a heated argum…	/r/RedPillWives	21/03/22 03:29 AM
4	What does an average day or week of your relationship look like? Context: Married 7.5 years. Weekdays: M-F we both work 8-5. I work in the field. He works from home. I make us coffee during my lunch break and do light chores like wiping down counters or unloading the dishwasher. After work, I make dinner, clean up, and then we do our separate things to wind down for the evening. He doesn’t enjoy cooking so it isn’t something we do together—but at least we eat together. Weekends: We spend time together during the weekend either watching a movie at home or goin…	/r/RedPillWives	21/03/22 03:04 AM
5	How to stay motivated as a sahm? I get lazy with my chores a lot too. Chores and housework are never ending haha. When I get feeling that way, I watch YouTube videos of Mennonite SAHMs like Lynette Yoder or Megan Fox. They are my cleaning and mom goals because they make it look so easy (even though it’s not). Busy seasons happen in our lives so I’ll be okay with a certain level of craziness in the house. We’re only human. Right now, my oven is a mess. But I’m letting it slide because I’ll get to it when I get to it. Can the kid…	/r/RedPillWives	19/02/22 12:12 AM
3	What can wives do to encourage spending quality time with their husband? The movie night idea sounds great! It sounds like a good way to meet him where he’s at mentally and physically while also acknowledging my need to be close to him.	/r/RedPillWives	18/02/22 01:55 AM
3	What can wives do to encourage spending quality time with their husband? Thanks for all the great suggestions! I guess my question is more about how couples stay connected? I miss the early years of our relationship when my husband and I would walk and talk for hours on a walking trail or plan a special meal together. We don’t do it much anymore—and I miss it. I hang out by myself most of the time and sometimes feel disconnected emotionally from my husband.	/r/RedPillWives	18/02/22 01:42 AM
2	What fictional character inspired you to embrace your femininity/reject feminism? Tami Taylor is wife goals haha! She’s so relatable!	/r/RedPillWives	17/02/22 10:51 PM
3	What can wives do to encourage spending quality time with their husband? Desk-top video games. I don’t really enjoy them. So at least for us, I end up doing the housework while he plays. Definitely interested in hearing what other couples do to “date” each other in their marriage so to speak.	/r/RedPillWives	17/02/22 10:46 PM
4	What can wives do to encourage spending quality time with their husband? Life gets busy. I’m worried my husband might be depressed due to work stress and health problems. How do I encourage quality time together without being a burden? I make suggestions like going for walk on a trail or even going to the grocery store together, but those suggestions get forgotten about.	/r/RedPillWives	17/02/22 09:00 PM
5	Just a quick question: What books are you all reading? Fiction: Re-reading “An Old Fashioned Girl” by Louisa May Alcott. It’s a book I always return to because I love Polly and her adventures of being an old fashioned girl in the fast changing times of the 18th and 19th century. Non-fiction: “The Poison Squad” by Deborah Blum. It’s about how a chemist,Dr. Harvey Wiley, and group of interns tested formaldehyde, borax, and sodium benzoate (which were commonly added to milk, flour, and canned goods back then) in a dangerous lab experiment to change foo…	/r/RedPillWives	09/02/22 05:10 AM
2	Tea Time Do you have any brand recommendations for affordable comfy dresses? The dresses in my closet either require me to look more fancy then I feel or make me feel like I’m wearing a potato sack.	/r/RedPillWives	09/02/22 04:15 AM
1	How do you control your anger? I try and let go of my desire to “win” or “be right”. It’s not easy. But it forces me to really listen to what my husband is saying and understand why it’s important to him. I find with this approach my husband then approaches me with more kindness and understanding in why something matters to me.	/r/RedPillWives	09/02/22 03:59 AM
2	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild? I get that. My fear(and my husband’s fear)is that going to church without him might cause well-meaning people to make judgments on our marriage —which I treasure and don’t want to lose. That’s why I haven’t gone against his wishes and attend church online. I’m glad your husband supports you praying and reading scripture with your kids. It must be hard though finding a like-minded group of women outside of church fellowship to connect with.	/r/RedPillWives	04/02/22 02:15 AM
1	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild? I’ll look into volunteering in my area. There’s a local Meals on Wheels that might need some help. Plus, hanging out with others in a kitchen is always fun. I bake something for my neighbors every Christmas and am looking forward to receiving some tamales from one of my neighbor friends sometime in the future. Thanks for the great ideas!	/r/RedPillWives	03/02/22 07:24 PM
9	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild? But when you aren’t on here are y’all in like Target, HomeGoods, or Walmart or something?!	/r/RedPillWives	03/02/22 06:22 PM
2	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild? Mom’s wouldn’t avoid me for not having kids their kids can play with? I guess my fear is rejection for something that is out of my control.	/r/RedPillWives	03/02/22 05:03 PM
9	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild? Yep. The struggle is real. Like you, I keep my mouth shut to maintain at least some friendships. But I would really like to be myself around more like-minded women.	/r/RedPillWives	03/02/22 04:30 PM
2	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild? That would be so cool!	/r/RedPillWives	03/02/22 03:40 PM
2	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild? I’d need to talk with my husband about fostering. But the Big Brothers/Sisters program sounds like something good to look into! Thanks!	/r/RedPillWives	03/02/22 02:19 PM
7	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild? I bet. I wish I could have children. But fertility treatments and adoption aren’t something we can afford to do right now.	/r/RedPillWives	03/02/22 01:29 PM
8	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild? Will try and do! Any advice on how to gently encourage my husband to go with me? He’s not a big fan of church. Or should I just go by myself?	/r/RedPillWives	03/02/22 06:42 AM
18	How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild? Background: Married for almost 8 years. No kids due to infertility issues. Work full time. Husband isn’t religious, but I attend church online. Any help or advice is appreciated!	/r/RedPillWives	03/02/22 05:59 AM
4	What’s for dinner? “Clean out my fridge” casserole It’s easy to cook after a long work day since I just pop it in the oven.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/22 02:35 AM
4	Prom dress pressure I think so too! ☺️	/r/RedPillWomen	17/10/21 01:16 AM
25	Prom dress pressure Have you tried Korean fashion formal dresses? I’ve found their styles of dresses and fashion to be classy, put together, and modest without looking frumpy. YesStyle Rozley	/r/RedPillWomen	17/10/21 01:07 AM
9	Nurturing a warm and pleasant disposition? I think we as wives can still offer a bit of spice to our sweetness. It’s just figuring out how much spice works for different situations. If I were too sweet all the time, my man might get diabetes. I think Dolly Parton has a way of being feminine and feisty that endears people to her. I wish I knew her secret because I’m still working on how to balance sugar and spice in my marriage.	/r/RedPillWives	15/10/21 01:04 AM
4	Engaged in your early twenties and a lot of negative opinions I also got engaged and married in my early 20s. Married now for 7 years. We didn’t get a lot of flack because young people get married early in the south. Actions always speak louder than words. Y’all have already conquered challenges together as a couple. As you get older, those challenges may change a bit, but you get to face them together and become stronger. Expect marriage to come with its own joys and sorrows. But be glad that you have someone to share them with. Also, “livin life first” k…	/r/RedPillWives	02/09/21 10:37 PM