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lol… I have worked in the food service industry and served drinks. Where did I ever say anything about not being nice to bartenders? I never said that at all & OP goal as he described it is to turn a cute bartender into a FWB & maybe a relationship. His goal isn’t to have a nice conversation. What are you talking about “polite conversation?”
/r/seduction27/07/26 05:46 AM
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That's her job. She might not be forced to work as a slave but most people need their jobs to live the lifestyle they are accustomed to. If you had any female friends who have ever worked as bartenders or servers you should ask them how many polite & respectful conversations they recall vs the horny dudes hitting on them
/r/seduction27/07/26 04:18 AM
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RIGHT… like his plan is golden he just needs some ideas to tighten it up. Becoming a regular thinking it will help you with a cute bartender sounds like a perfect recipe to get friend zoned. He also proceeded to insult her & her job by saying they are whores. . . Just grow a set & ask her if her boyfriend gets jealous that guys hit on her all night. You will learn right there what the situation is
/r/seduction26/07/26 11:53 PM
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lol... RIght. You don't need to say they are the same thing when you use that as a comparison. You asked for advice then get mad when someone tells you what they think. Just go ahead with your plan cause that is what you were gonna do from jump
/r/seduction26/07/26 05:44 PM
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a coworker & bartender are not the same things... at all
/r/seduction26/07/26 05:32 PM
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yes nothing cultivates a successful relationship more than when someone is forced to be there & is financially motivated to be friendly. . . I'm not saying that a flame can't spark over time but if you are going in there with a plan to build up a relationship it is likely to fail.
/r/seduction26/07/26 05:12 PM
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Yeah that’s it to me. Bartenders get hit on all night & being cute + friendly means more $$ to take home. I think becoming a regular is a terrible idea. You are just gonna think you are building up something that is prob not there. If she is remotely interested she knows right away & not going to change because you spend tons of time at her work
/r/seduction26/07/26 04:26 PM
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They will be more welcoming then. . . catch more bees with honey
/r/seduction24/07/26 03:21 PM
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Tanning salon attendant
/r/seduction24/07/26 03:08 PM
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Yeah but not right away. I disengaged then when she came back I acted aloof & uninterested. Never brought up those previous comments directly. Really ignored that they happened & started fresh. Eventually I was the one to walk away in the end. You can overcome it but it’s best to move on instead of wasting time in the present
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:04 AM
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Yeah prob this. She knows within 5 min of meeting you of how she wants the night to end. This was always the outcome
/r/seduction30/06/26 01:28 AM
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Don’t do it. People who are working have to be nice. A lot of cute girls know they can get better tips by convincing guys they are into them. It’s a tale as old as time. Don’t make someone working give an awkward response. If you truly think she is interested you can leave a contact card or write a brief note with your number. If she was truly interested she would reach out
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:12 PM
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I always just say we are both adults who can make adult decisions. When I was younger the girls my age all dated older but now that they aren’t the hot young thing they want to hate on the next generation
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:21 PM
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lol… are those the only two options? Ice cream or straight to fucking
/r/seduction29/04/26 11:35 PM
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Look at how many people they follow. If they follow 200+ it means they follow everyone. If they follow like 50 people they are more selective. You gotta remember that girls instagrams are flooded with follow requests and DMs. They have a different experience than men
/r/seduction12/04/26 04:15 PM
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lol.. no. Go talk to her in person. If she is open & friendly you can ask for her Instagram. You don’t want to tell her that you looked for her Instagram without ever talking to her in person & are scorned she didn’t accept your request. Actually the best thing you can do is forget Instagram completely. Find a way to talk to her in person & go from there. Just ask about her day, job, any thing
/r/seduction12/04/26 04:10 PM
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lol. Act like nothing happened. Look at it from her perspective, if you haven’t talked to her why would she even know that’s your Instagram trying to follow her. She has her account set to private for a reason.
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:45 AM
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She prob gets tons of Instagram follow and DM requests. Prob didn’t even look at it. Go talk to her in person instead.
/r/seduction12/04/26 08:57 AM
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Glad it worked for you but I think any girl I have ever hollered at would laugh if I started reciting a short poem
/r/seduction06/02/26 07:48 PM
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lol… unless you are at a hostel then you should be fine.
/r/seduction03/01/26 08:55 PM
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Hang by the lobby bar and play video poker. Find someone hot doing the same thing
/r/seduction11/12/25 08:07 AM
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lol… please don’t bother people where they work with that unless you have been given STRONG hints to do so. The strippers don’t really like you & are friendly cause they can spot a trick
/r/seduction07/11/25 06:39 AM
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Sending that to “her” is like sending it to your contacts list
/r/seduction21/10/25 05:00 AM
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I mean was that whole setup not obvious? Dude is still trying to work a hook up with someone trying to scam him. Second you send her a pic she gonna send it to your friends list unless you pay them. Prob not even her in the pictures.
/r/seduction20/10/25 09:01 AM
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lol… brah no girl wants a a wang pic from a dating app. You should have blocked her & moved on the second she said that. She is just waiting to blackmail you. When you see a red flag don’t ignore it
/r/seduction20/10/25 05:52 AM
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Right. She didn’t prove your point at all because she didn’t want to go to your place. That’s your dumb ass fault for not reading signs. You don’t make demands of high quality women. Should be thankful she is willing to contact you
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:54 AM
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I would strongly consider it. I once got called out cause my fb profile picture was me and an ex & a lot of my posts were with her. Once we broke up I never used fb a lot so didn’t check it ever. Starting dating someone new & she mentioned she found it. I just laughed & showed her I didn’t even have the app on my phone. I didn’t remember the password & had to recover it.
/r/seduction07/10/25 03:11 AM
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You can blow it up and reach out to him
/r/seduction07/10/25 02:04 AM
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lol. Will try it out
/r/seduction23/09/25 03:12 AM
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Tequila But don’t push anyone against a wall or touch her behind the knee. Super creepy and never heard a girl say baby I love it behind the knee. Be attractive and confident isn’t a trick
/r/seduction22/09/25 01:26 AM
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Right. Those convos don’t look real at all either. IMO it’s easy to text girls when they are interested. That’s really all that matters. They have heard every line & seen every move if they are attractive. They aren’t being swayed by aggressive texting
/r/seduction21/09/25 05:04 PM
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That sounds like a boyfriend calling more than a friend. I have been in a similar situation where the friend just comes to where we are. If you weren’t feeling it & she has a boyfriend just let her go. If she reaches out can suggest something closer to you but I would prob hold out on spending more time and effort
/r/seduction07/08/25 12:14 AM
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Keep me updated. I bet dime to a dollar that she’ll come over twice then the third time she will just casually ask what’s the WiFi
/r/seduction02/08/25 11:59 PM
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She wants the WiFi password but needs to get ya on the hook first
/r/seduction02/08/25 10:47 PM
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I would not initiate any texting from my end. If she wants to text then it’s fine to respond. I would just try to say something like, I can’t wait to hear about your Cool vacation the next time we hang out
/r/seduction26/07/25 06:16 AM
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Bro you gotta stop as soon as you mentioned the gun. None of this is worth pulling a piece out or even getting your ass kicked. Not every girl at a rave is looking for a hook up. If they have violent exs then you both are at risk for violence. Stand up for yourself but focus on deescalation & if needed move on. It’s not worth it
/r/seduction12/07/25 09:36 PM
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That’s not really a catfish. Manti Teo was a catfish.
/r/seduction30/05/25 12:39 AM
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You could suggest another option on the tour but include something about dinner after or another activity. See how she responds.
/r/seduction16/04/25 03:48 AM
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I mean sure but acting like not responding to a rejection is some big win is pretty whack too. Everything about being rejected is whack
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:56 AM
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I usually say something like, Sounds good, stay #BLESSED
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:16 PM
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That’s what I was gonna say. I have an ex who no matter what time I post a story she will be one of the first 5 to view it. If you want to reach out to her, go for It. You aren’t talking to her now & if she ignores you then nothing has changed. I definitely would not mention anything about your Instagram story to her… ever.
/r/seduction24/03/25 07:27 AM
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Shoutout to showing up late for a first date. But should have just bailed from the jump.
/r/seduction15/02/25 07:32 AM
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Lol. . . There isn't anything to do but move on. That's a NO from her and has nothing to do with her parents. She is being nice. On to the next one
/r/seduction20/01/25 09:53 PM
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I would just talk with them and figure out the logistics. Shoot him a text half hour before coming home and he can go to a movie or something. Also depends on your date too. But I have gone over to a girls place when she’s had a guest and it was no biggie
/r/seduction13/01/25 10:17 AM
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I usually just grab the bill and pay on first date & don’t discuss it. But if she says something about splitting or paying that is what I suggest. I usually try to keep first dates low key and quick. Give each other outs if they aren’t feeling it
/r/seduction06/01/25 12:27 AM
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I suggest splitting the bill but we each pay for the others order instead of our own. Girls usually laugh and like this suggestion. That way we both get to say that we paid for the others meal
/r/seduction06/01/25 12:17 AM
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Start with some comments on stories and posts. See if you get some responses back.
/r/seduction26/12/24 10:40 PM
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Just play it by feel. If you think she would be down to ride together suggest it but don’t make it a big deal.
/r/seduction14/12/24 06:12 PM
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Hotels tonight or Google travel Hotwire & Priceline but you won’t know for sure until it’s booked what hotel
/r/seduction10/12/24 10:35 AM
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Hope you have a great birthday! We should get together soon so you can tell me about it
/r/seduction03/11/24 02:06 AM
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Yeah so much of this advice given in here is not gonna work in the real world. I try to give advice from my experience
/r/seduction29/09/24 04:15 AM
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I usually just say I don’t have a tab open because I am not drinking tonight. If they push it further you know they are just fishing for drinks.
/r/seduction28/09/24 08:26 PM
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That’s how I would play it. Make it a fun time. You want the friend to like you. Some girls are more constable having a familiar face around
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:08 AM
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I will usually say some variation of “I respect that. Hope he knows how lucky of a guy he is” then quickly keep the conversation moving. Just me but still treat the girl the same & with respect. Trying to show my personality & that I am fun. Just cause they have a dude now doesn’t mean it will always be that way.
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:28 PM
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yeah. . that was not the smoothest. . Went from first to 100 to quick.
/r/seduction08/06/17 06:50 AM
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2nd this. Sometimes put something funny in the background and add some cool graphics
/r/seduction01/03/16 04:16 AM
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