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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	[deleted by user] This is a well tempered response and I agree with communication. I am very much of the mindset that I won’t date a girl with a strong personal social media presence especially if they are wearing next to nothing on it. I will sleep with her but I will not be serious about her. It is not an ultimatum because that would mean there was a choice otherwise. It is a complete nonstarter.	/r/seduction	07/02/22 07:38 PM
13	[deleted by user] I don’t date women who have a personal social media for this reason. It would be the same as me posting in grey sweatpants with the outline of my dick on social media. Why am I doing that? I already know what I have and I don’t need validation. I don’t need to prove anything to anyone. The only reason I would do that is to attract a woman who wants to be dicked down. It is thot behavior for someone to post risqué pictures on social media and simp behavior to allow it	/r/seduction	02/02/22 01:43 PM
1	What’s the best way to make girls chase you? To run away	/r/seduction	30/09/21 02:41 PM
1	I can’t seem to hold a girls interest And that is important to notice and be honest about. Game to have sex with someone is not the same as game to build a relationship	/r/seduction	04/09/21 10:07 PM
2	I can’t seem to hold a girls interest Do they hold your interest? Ask yourself that every time you speak to them. Are THEY doing enough to be in a conversation with you. Take looks and sex out of the picture and above all stop worrying if they find you interesting. That isn’t your job. Your job is to see if you find them interesting.	/r/seduction	03/09/21 04:27 PM
2	Has anyone ever been cold approached by a girl? Yes I have. It is usually the same thing every time because I do have a pretty bad case of RBF. Girls will approach and ask if everything is ok, have I just been dumped, why do I look so serious, etc. I’ll usually smile after and say my face just relaxes into a scowl. I’m not a bad looking guy and I guess looking intense shows some mystery.... I don’t know	/r/seduction	27/10/18 03:16 PM
1	So this chick i use to bang a while ago sent me some mean text? The classic girl calls you a pussy because she wants you in hers. She, at the moment, is feeling some type of way about you. Do not take the text personally. It is meant to elicit a response from you so she can attempt to take the upper hand in the conversation. She still does not have the upper hand	/r/seduction	23/08/18 09:36 PM
1	Hey guys so i was texting this girl for a few days and i was trying to set up a date so the thing she never responded after that kind of ghosted me am i being too straight forward or too early for setting a date?I am not particularly upset about this just wanted to learn what am i doing wrong !! The one thing that I hate (and I feel others hate as well) is the rapid fire texting. For goodness sake just send one response with the information back. Not three incomplete sentences. To respond to your question; you didn’t do anything wrong yet it seems. I have no clue how you got her number but she is cooling on you. I agree with most others in leave her alone and build up your girl numbers and hit her back in like 5-6 days with something random/witty/funny and see how she responds.	/r/seduction	23/08/18 01:16 PM
1	Seddit, in your opinion, will that "we'll see" ever become an "i'm down"? Hmmm. A little more advice: don’t invite her out in a group of people as a first in person meeting. You can meet her for coffee or a drink before heading out to hang with your buds. You can let her know this	/r/seduction	10/08/18 06:33 PM
1	Seddit, in your opinion, will that "we'll see" ever become an "i'm down"? She seems pleased with herself which is fine, but that means the text approach will need to change. Whether she is interested or not is left to be seen from that string of texts but it seems like she has a lot of attention from guys already or maybe attention from a specific guy and that is why she is being noncommittal. If you like her and want a chance then you will need to switch the established power dynamic. If you stop talking to her all of a sudden there is a 99% chance she will not text …	/r/seduction	10/08/18 01:45 PM
2	"I'm scared of meeting you" Wait, what? I’m confused. Is this post real? You sound like you are DOA. Best case scenario (she is not a terrible person) is she is telling you the complete truth and that portends a bad outcome for you. Worst case scenario (she is the worst person) is some alpha is shtupping her daily and she is using you for an emotional attachment. Everything in between is not good	/r/seduction	07/08/18 05:48 PM
29	Date Asked if She Could Bring a Friend Reschedule. Spend the weekend picking up other girls. Go out with her next weekend	/r/seduction	30/06/18 03:54 PM
1	What does she mean yo Come over	/r/seduction	13/05/18 07:40 PM
2	Girls Feel Like I’m Smothering Them When you have slept with these girls, did you think that you and that girl are exclusive; an item? Yes? Stop doing that. Date other people and go put without them No? Great. Date other people and go out without them. Once you find a girl and are in a relationship there will be plenty of opportunities to make them feel special then subsequently disappoint them, repeat.	/r/seduction	13/05/18 07:38 PM
1	Effect of weed on game If the girls also smokes weed then it actually makes me more chatty because we will both be saying stupid stuff and laughing about it If the girl does not smoke then it can be a little challenging but I can still make it work some of the times	/r/seduction	05/12/16 05:08 AM
1	Girl want to bring our friend to a date, how do I respond? What I would do is invite friends of my own and make it a group lunch/boozy brunch. Everyone pays for their own food/drink and probably won't initiate conversation with her after that day. If Dave was cool then I would invite him out because it sounds like he got friend zoned and I would wing man for him and get him a girlfriend/boyfriend (i don't judge). I would then watch as Sarah's text blow up both of our phones and laugh quietly to myself. That is just me tho	/r/seduction	30/05/16 01:40 PM
6	Seriously, how do you flirt...? You should not be thinking about the amount of time you are making eye contact during a conversation. Get out of your head and just be in the conversation. Sorry if this wasn't the answer your were looking for	/r/seduction	17/05/16 03:56 AM
14	Seriously, how do you flirt...? Make eye contact with the person that you are speaking with, regardless if you are flirting, meeting someone for the first time or interviewing for a job. Shows confidence and is an easy way to see if the other member in the conversation is having a nice time Listen to what the person is taking about so you can ask relevant questions and make witty remarks. Relax and have a good time with it. Get out of your head. Laugh when something is funny. Make fun of her/him when they say something silly. …	/r/seduction	17/05/16 12:17 AM
2	The way I view girls is holding me back so much, and no matter how much I read about pick up, I'm not getting much farther past approach anxiety You need to get out of your own head. It seems you are living a self fulfilling prophecy because you keep thinking too much and that makes it harder on you. I would advise talking to a bunch of girls without any thoughts of closing a deal, getting a number and just see how it feels	/r/seduction	16/01/16 10:42 AM
1	I miss seduction but I have a long term relationship. There is nothing wrong with talking to another person while in a relationship. You are still a wonderful person with a lot to share with people and that shouldn't stop. You just have to stop when things are moving towards a danger zone. I am in a LTR and still meet new people. The only caveat is that I have been told that I have led girls on by talking to them, but I ignore that stuff because I should be able to talk freely with people without someone thinking I have ulterior motives	/r/seduction	22/05/15 05:08 PM
1	College womanizer, can't pull it off anymore If you are at the same school it is possible that the girls you met in the first semester are talking to the other girls at your school and you have been dubbed a "dog".	/r/seduction	20/03/15 08:04 PM
1	problem with that one guy she had some interaction with before me. I'm sorry, but I don't understand your question. Do you want to know if you should let her invite other people to your house? I can't answer that for you, but if it were me I would have let her know in a very ambivalent way that the invitation was only for her and I will just meet her at the club. Was your question should you put the blame of saying no on your DJ friend? If so then no. If you have already said one guy friend can come you are stuck. It will make you seem threatened by Niclas spec…	/r/seduction	20/03/15 07:59 PM
1	What does it mean to be a smooth talker? Smooth has 3 parts imo. The first: saying what you want in a way that people can understand you. Not having an aggressive tone when speaking nor a timid tone. The second is maintaining a good cadence with your speech. When nervous, human beings tend to change the pitch, tone, speed and/or volume of their voice instead of keeping it "smooth". Lastly: maintaining a relaxing and inviting presence with strong eye contact. Not too much eye contact to freak someone out, but don't look at the floor whe…	/r/seduction	13/03/15 02:27 AM
2	Question for Men: What aspects of women make you want to approach them? So in a club I open up sets and make friends in order to more efficiently open up more sets. So saying that: I can separate it between flats and heels in a club. I will more than likely always approach a girl already wearing flats. It says a lot about their mentality. They came to get down and dance and they knew heels would not get the job done without considerable effort. At a club I am looking for a fun girl, not a girl that got glammed up to look good to loud music (I am not saying girls in …	/r/seduction	12/05/12 02:11 AM
1	going out every day for a month? where do you go Because at college people would go home, or maybe get a visit from family or something else. Thursday was the best day at my school because everyone would be getting ready to go out	/r/seduction	11/05/12 10:41 PM
2	Question for Men: What aspects of women make you want to approach them? Bar: type if drink Club: type of shoes During the day or night at any other location: eyes, then sneak a peak at the booty	/r/seduction	11/05/12 10:37 PM
1	Seddit, how soon do would you invite a classmate or coworker to one of your own parties? After about 30 minutes after our first word exchange.	/r/seduction	11/05/12 10:30 PM
1	Seddit, do you ever feel intimidated by girls who are higher value than you? Short answer: no Longer answer: there are no value levels or leagues in my mind so no.	/r/seduction	11/05/12 08:12 PM
1	??????????????????[FR] I don't think you did anything; it is what you didn't do. You probably could have made the play to kiss her (I don't know cuz I wasn't there but I remember in your FR that you said you should have.) If you had made that play then whether you succeeded or failed you would have known for sure if you coulda closed. Now it is a mystery and people tend not to enjoy unsolved mysteries in their lives. I suspect that is what is bothering you.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 01:38 AM
1	[FR] Rome Day 5 - Jumping the language barrier: Italian 2 set on my last night I backpacked last summer and I will tell you right now that Italian girls have different attraction standards. You had your in while on the bed. The first time that I talked to Italian girls, I was taken back because they were not responding to my flirting but they still seemed attracted. Then I met some Italian guys who were nice and told me to go up to that girl I was chatting up and just go for it. I did just that and viola closed. Different cultures have different steps. You could have possi…	/r/seduction	26/04/12 04:19 AM
1	[FR] In one night, I managed to avoid a disastrous date and escape the friend zone with a K-Close! Just know this, you never know what the girl is thinking. Just go for it. From your description I am not sure if you were ever in the friend zone.	/r/seduction	18/04/12 09:54 PM
1	Dealing with The Cock-Blocking Girlfriend the Girlfriend Cockblock used to happen to me lots, but now normally I always go for the one that looks the meanest or the least cutest girl in a group when I am going solo. True there is a casualty but it works most of the time; sometimes they don't even care when I start hooking up with their friend.	/r/seduction	17/04/12 05:14 AM
1	Best way to spin this into something positive?: Girl I'm into found out about me hooking up with some one else Honestly; don't do anything. Just keep on moving forward with your crush, and likely she will like you more because you are "wanted" by others. She will start to play that fake hard to get game and so on and so forth.	/r/seduction	17/04/12 04:23 AM
2	Intelligence and Seduction- competing interests? I have had this problem before, but the best thing to do for people with high intelligence is too also be well versed in social and media topics. That way you can connect with the girl on a number of different levels.	/r/seduction	17/04/12 04:15 AM
1	How to salvage a friendship after you reject them? instead of trying to reconnect with him on the basis of friendship, reconnect with him by ensuring that when he is with you other girls are flocking to him. Soon you will be one of the guys/wing woman of the year	/r/seduction	29/01/12 11:45 PM
3	My 3 laws of pickup, sharing welcome 1) eye contact 2) break the "touch barrier. Try to convey your words with the slightest of touches. My go to is the hand on the leg or on the lower back as I say something close to their ear 3) do not back down. Do what you came to do and then leave. Never linger...	/r/seduction	29/01/12 11:41 PM