TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

iLiveInAHologram Archive

View 0 posts and 35 comments by iLiveInAHologram on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:03 PM
6

It’s just a matter of timing. Too soon and it makes me cringe and wonder if he’s trying to sweet talk me or genuinely be sweet. But it’s just too soon for me. Later on I LOVE it and it would mean a lot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:09 PM
9

When they call me gorgeous and babe too early on. It seems like false intimacy to me even though I think he’s really just trying to be sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:39 PM
1

Weight is the biggest one by far The only other things would be wearing dresses, make up sometimes, and smiling more (looking more approachable).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 02:50 PM
5

Curves don’t make a dick ugly! The other stuff...yeah. Weird colours can put me off too. When I start to like a guy though that feeling transforms how I perceive his dick though lol. I never liked big mushroom top ones until I had a crush on a guy with one. Ended up loving it, go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 01:09 PM
1

I think there’s a range of quality of sex. And sometimes neither of you expect what you ended up getting. Like some nights are just bombbbb. And some nothing just is great even though you’re doing the same things or at a low energy level. Maybe a bit lazy but the attraction is still there. But starfish is where one party is completely disinterested, uninvolved, and disengaged. Men don’t want that because they want to feel wanted and desired. Idk I don’t think starfish and maintenance sex are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 05:21 AM
2

There absolutely is. Feminism is both a movement and an ideology and there are many shades to the ideology. In my opinion conservative feminism compliments rpw quite well. It’s about valuing traditional gender roles and women’s place in that. Like empowering femininity and valuing motherhood etc.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 04:28 AM
0

I listen to my gut and look for patterns that might be emerging. And don’t chase men. Let him ask her out and offer some plans, as in id say I’d love to meet up with him sometime, what’d he have in mind?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/19 04:18 PM
1

Nah, it’s really not. Sometimes life gets in the way, there are shy people, people may have other motivations etc. People age and grow at different paces. Virgins shouldn’t be shamed. And teaching people things for the first time can be a lot of fun. But if they aren’t for you I just wouldn’t be with one. Try not to shame people :) you never know their life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:03 PM
2

I’m sure he found other things attractive about his previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 10:58 PM
1

Being that you’re heterosexual I don’t think you’re the one to comment on how attractive guys are. Because you don’t know what it’s like to be attracted to a guy. Like I couldn’t comment on how attractive women are, just what I think men like. Hmm idk I can only speak for my experiences. And I’ve been pretty lucky with them. But I realized after my first relationship ended, and a long term one at that, that I didn’t want to waste time by being coy and that I want the guy to know where I stand wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:50 PM
1

I wasn’t talking about suuuper nasally or high. Just on the nasally side
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:43 PM
1

If I may ask, what’s your gender and sexuality? I find normal guys attractive and I’m a straight woman. But I have to stop and ogle them a bit. Idk I feel like men notice women’s subjective attractiveness more often and quicker than women notice men in that sense. And I think that gives off the vibe that men aren’t attractive. We just are busy with other things and have to stop and think about how cute that guy is. That doesn’t mean he isn’t attractive. To put it more simply men prioritize check…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:08 PM
1

Voices are a thing for me. I love a good voice. But the guy I dated and fell in love with and before him one of my biggest crushes both had nasally voices. It’s not a deal breaker or puts me off. Think of it as something more neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:57 PM
2

All of those are ‘hot guys’ and celebs. Just average guys you see at university, at the gym, at the beach, at stores, out hiking, doing yard work, walking the dog, at a bbq, at a restaurant, etc. Normal and average guys are completely attractive. I’m a practical girl. Celebs are eye candy and/or entertaining, normal guys are the ones I want to date and spend time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:52 PM
3

Responding to the title alone, this is absolutely untrue. I love the male body and definitely ogle men...but probably not as often as men stare at women. I look at his shoulders, butt, chest,arms, legs, face, hands, hair, jawline, bulge, height, the way his body moves, etc. And I loooove it. Men are sexy as hell and I love their bodies. Way more then I ever could with women. Hence, I am straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:56 AM
1

My women’s intuition is what I refer to the feeling about someone after I vet him a bit and get to know him. 99% of the time I can’t look at someone and see automatic red flags. But like with this one guy I was talking to him for a week and enjoyed it but then I noticed he wasn’t respecting boundaries or my needs. To me that’s a big ole red flag and I don’t care to stick around and see how it’ll take shape for us. The only other times I refer to a feeling as women’s intuition, and this is mainly…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:27 PM
1

I don’t think it’s attraction. I feel like it’s because women are usually the bulk of the victims of serial killers. So there’s a fascination in learning about them. It’s taboo and dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:24 AM
1

I heavily support #2! All pieces of good advice like #4 is just them trying to be nice and smooth things over before flaking. Don’t overthink it. It’s basically lip service. Make sure you always meet your matches in a public place and give them a week to ask you on a date. Don’t chase them, let them come to you. Unless it was a great date and you want sex I’d personally avoid sleeping with them right away or going back to theirs to cuddle and watch a movie. I consider it a part of my vetting. If…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 03:03 PM
3

Smiling is quite feminine and makes you approachable too! But maybe it’ll remind you to stop and smell the roses and enjoy being a teenager.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/19 04:40 PM
2

I feel like it’s BOTH based on the male ego and the fact that it’s easier to have sex when you want to have it as a woman and that kind of doesn’t show choosiness. Like it could potentially reflect your standards. But I also know that some women have higher sex drives and do what they gotta do. Being in the 50/50 red and blue pill is a weird place to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:35 AM
6

Ask him if he’s had second thoughts and/or why he hasn’t brought anything up. I think direct and gentle communication is important here
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/19 05:22 AM
1

Perhaps I worded that poorly, I meant within a relationship. Everyone has a different sex drive and prioritizes it differently. It’s an instinctual need that we’re biologically programmed to seek and everyone wants it to a different degree. We’re all different and my guess is you need it less than many other people do. Nothing wrong with either, just try to find a partner with a similar sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 01:58 PM
1

People differ greatly in how much sex they need/want, how sexual they are, and how they prioritize it in their life. For you maybe, it’s a desire. But for many people it’s much more highly prioritized and important in a relationship. There’s nothing wrong with either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 07:28 PM
1

I worry that because my hair grows so fast I’d have a 5 o’clock on my arms 😂 so I’d rather put up with soft dirty block hair. I don’t think arm hair is too serious to worry about but that depends on your genes and preferences.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 11:46 PM
3

I personally do. My sex drive is fairly reactive and if I feel something for a guy and know he wants me then suddenly I have a high sex drive. If I don’t feel connected to him I won’t want to have sex. Im not all women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 01:24 AM
8

I would ask him to be more present during conversations and try to stay off his phone a bit more when it’s just the two of you. Let him know it means a lot to you to have his undivided attention. Let him know that it’s also completely uncool to be checking it during sex. That might be a good time to ask him if somethings going on at work or if he’s concerned about something. Definitely do NOT ask about women specifically. Just if there’s something at work or with friends that’s important or stre…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 03:17 PM
1

That’s amazing! Good for you! Hmm if you don’t think it’s a security thing that stems from something outside of the relationship maybe there is something like you’d like to see him a bit more often? Practice mindful thinking though and try not to engage with negative and harmful thoughts
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 07:27 PM
4

Maybe you need to work on yourself a bit, like find other areas of your life that also make you happy. Like maintain your relationship but also focus on your mental health, friendships, goals, and hobbies. I think that will relieve some anxiety I think. I wouldn’t share that you’re feeling this insecure though. But I think your feeling this way is a symptom of needing to focus on making yourself more secure in life in general. Like maybe you’ve got some anxiety and you’re focusing on him instead…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 04:21 PM
5

This might sound silly but get a kimono robe! They’re flowy and feminine and make me feel a bit more together in the morning before coffee and the works.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 01:33 PM
11

I think smiling is one of the easiest ways to flirt. It’ll make you look happy and beautiful and if he asks what you’re smiling about tell him you just think he’s handsome or you’re happy to be with him. Or be cheeky. There’s a million ways you can spin it and I think it’s a very simple way to flirt.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 08:02 PM
1

From a woman for the guys: don’t joke about being a sociopath, it’s not something to brag about even though you’re likely not one. I’ve had three guys do so and I explained what an actual one is like and how fast I’d ‘nope’ out of the situation. Have more than one dating profile pic and make sure they aren’t all selfies. Ask questions about her and her life. It shows an emotional maturity that is super attractive. Two guys I’m talking to, don’t really do so and it bums me out and I notice it in …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:12 PM
20

Just had dinner with my dad and I think the world of him too. Your post has made me kinda emotional 😭☺️ so sweet and loving. I’m going to save that k-drama line for Father’s Day! You’re def lovable and it’s sooo important to respect the people you let into your life. Like I agree with your values.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 12:27 AM
1

It’s not possible to say either way, but I DO think many more are more emotional and get attached than we are led to believe by popular culture. My personal experience is about 50% of the guys I’ve dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:13 PM
3

Not usually, no. But there are times when it’s too early to be expecting me to be the guy’s source of emotional support when we should be in the phase of getting to know one another and making good impressions. Once I have an emotional connection to the guy I’d be happy to support him when he needs a shoulder. In general, I’m the anxious and indecisive person so I do need my partner to be my rock. But I can take on the role at times when need arises.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:49 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter