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| 9 | 17M about to be 18 soon, struggling with virginityDo not go to the military. It will fuck you. If you do, consult someone with your ASVAB results so you can get funneled into a certain area. Someone who has been in the military and hates it preferably. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/26 06:40 AM |
| 4 | 17M about to be 18 soon, struggling with virginitySkimmed it. You're 17. I'm 32. Kinda been where you been. Lowkey, y'all have it harder. You have too much information. I would have these thoughts but have little exposure to it outside of things socially. You might find that you have more neuroses as you go to therapy. TL;DR you throw the vibes off. You come off as needy emotionally. I have too before. It's hard to work with sometimes, the sorrow, the fear. I didn't lose my virginity till I was 20. Some people I've dated didn't lose it until la… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/26 01:47 AM |
| 5 | How to hookup and date as a guy with severe social anxiety?Yeah the POC + Autism + Scrawny + Socially Anxious nerfs to us make things suck. However, there is a type of woman who is probably into you. You have to find the combination of places to be consistent and places where you could find these women. You might also have to change up your style if there are none of these places or the women you like aren't typically interested in the type of person you present as now. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/26 09:04 PM |
| 7 | How to hookup and date as a guy with severe social anxiety?AuDHD. 5'5. Scrawny. Go to places repeated where people can get used to you. Somewhere you're not overstimulated. Get a sense of style. If you don't know how to do that: look at color wheel patterns and don't wear bluejeans and get solid colored shoes or shoes with simple colors. Just talk to people until you get comfortable. Become a regular. If your body is telling you it's nervous listen. You can maybe force yourself through for short bursts, but overall it's hard to deal with. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/26 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Why is it redpill guys tend to have more hookups or more causal sex partners ?The ideology is toxic but so are most people so ya know... | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/26 02:06 AM |
| 16 | I fear I’m going back to my incel way of thinking.On the spectrum. Bars are our kryptonite. There's too many high level social games going on there. You need to go to a place that has more structure and consistency. I've been decently successful in the dance scene. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/26 04:16 AM |
| 3 | do you think reading literature for women might help boys stuck in red pill?AHHHHHH 😫😫😫😫😫😫. Okay, do I have to read Fruits Baskets? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/26 01:18 PM |
| 0 | do you think reading literature for women might help boys stuck in red pill?Books aren't real life either. If you read something like the Great Gatsby or a Tale of Two cities or watched women oriented media like The Notebook, Twilight, Titanic or lots of Hallmark movies, and looked at the commonalities between them....it'd probably affirm a lot of your fears about women tbh. Lots of cheating and fuck shit. Women entertaining men while they're in relationships. Backup boyfriends. Emotional affairs and or actual affairs. Ya know....the types of shit RedPillers think women… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think minority men are often more sympathetic to the RedPill?Black Men: Because black masculinity rewards that shit. Asian Dudes: Because they get to see in real time how fucked over they get from not being percieved as masculine enough. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 03:59 PM |
| 5 | do you think reading literature for women might help boys stuck in red pill?I'm pretty sure lots of these people have them as anime pictures. These anime portray women in cutesy ways. They are not realistic. As someone who watched Lucky Star and then had women friends irl, the reality was a bit sobering. They're not infantile. Also real life doesn't correspond to anime. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 03:56 PM |
| 3 | “Hypergamy” is not worth worrying aboutBy "real problem" I mean, the inability of men to show up in stressful life situations? And yeah, I'm just trying to figure out the extent of the problem. There's a lot of information in numbers. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/26 08:58 PM |
| -4 | “Men love unconditionally, women love opportunistically”Andrew Tate, Clavicular, male celebrities, athletes. Something something Tom Brady got cheated on so it can happen to you too. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/26 07:42 AM |
| -3 | “Men love unconditionally, women love opportunistically”It comes from the environments the red pill leads these guys to. If you are, realistically, making more money you expose yourself to more women who operate like this. Same if you're consuming content by these men. Same if you're looking at the most masculine men and seeing the opportunities they have. There is something to be said about gender dynamics though. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/26 06:44 AM |
| 2 | “Hypergamy” is not worth worrying aboutOh yeah, I could've been clearer. If someone said "voter fraud quadrupled from 2020 to 2024" that seems like a really bad thing, unless you know that before it was 1 out of 100k people to 4 out of 100k people. So if a million people vote and there's typically not an election where the difference is in the 100s of votes...that might not be a problem worth warranting at least an emergency response. 7 times isn't good. I I also acknowledge that there are patriarchal systems and a lack of emotional … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 08:29 PM |
| 0 | How is Believing in Blackpill and Doomer thoughts supposed to help you?🫡 | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 04:37 AM |
| -2 | How is Believing in Blackpill and Doomer thoughts supposed to help you?Not everyone can just do that. You seem to be stuck on that one idea. You should talk to a couple of them. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 02:31 AM |
| 3 | How is Believing in Blackpill and Doomer thoughts supposed to help you?People can't really cope with life being unfair especially if you're pre-disposed to depression and you are bombarded with this shit every time you go online. Men are largely neglected emotionally so a lot of us don't develop well. The pressure to perform masculinity is high so you either get the hardasses ( red pill ) or yearning toxic optimists ( black pill ). They're the only people who will have sympathy and empathy for your situation. Women will say things, but largely they don't really get… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 12:53 AM |
| 1 | “Hypergamy” is not worth worrying aboutOkay, I have ADHD. I don't wanna drop this into AI to risk getting the wrong answers back. About how much outside of the norm did this deviate? Or how significant was it? If it's like half or a third, that's significant and it sucks. But if it's something like 10%...it sucks, but maybe it could be overall getting better, the article seemed to say it relied on caretaker imbalance but that's been changing. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/26 03:17 PM |
| 3 | “Hypergamy” is not worth worrying aboutOh my bad. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/26 03:09 PM |
| 1 | “Hypergamy” is not worth worrying aboutI'm a leftists. Also have a lot of liberal women friends. They even talk about their boyfriends like shit sometimes. Leftist women....I've found tend to be worse. Like in an effort to prove their politics, I've seen them put their boyfriends in bad situations. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/26 11:31 PM |
| 6 | “Hypergamy” is not worth worrying aboutIf I had to guess the hypergamy leads to a real fear that: - These women don't actually love me, I am a placeholder for another guy that they actually want and they're settling for me after a life of adventure and sexual experiences that I could never measure up to. - The intrusive thought that you have nothing to offer a woman who has been with "better" guys than you. I've been in a couple situations like that. It kinda sucks. Some women suck. Some women don't suck. The only people who validate… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/26 08:56 PM |
| -5 | “Hypergamy” is not worth worrying abouthttps://retractionwatch.com/2015/07/21/to-our-horror-widely-reported-study-suggesting-divorce-is-more-likely-when-wives-fall-ill-gets-axed/ | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/26 08:45 PM |
| -1 | It is easier to be red pilled than take accountability.Your reading comprehension correlates with your emotionality. Lots of these men are just fine. Lots of these women are just fine. Lots of evil people are just fine. You are falling for the emotional equivalent of the just world fallacy. People are fucked up and a-okay. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/26 04:13 PM |
| -2 | It is easier to be red pilled than take accountability.I think you underestimate the utility of having someone, even someone who has that narrow judgement on you. Lots of people get into these relationships that last. Lots of women will fuck men who fulfill that fantasy. Tradding is a kink. People get married and have children. Even Hitler had a girlfriend. Obviously, I hate this, but, let's be accurate. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/26 02:25 AM |
| -3 | It is easier to be red pilled than take accountability.There are plenty of red pilled men who get women. The ideology is bad, but it's not *completely* ineffective. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/26 05:43 AM |
| 3 | The women I want don't want meindie chics into music probably. Your scene is probably concerts, co-ops, book stores, niche bars, vintage shops, weekend markets, that sorta thing. You can also go for alt women, but maybe get a piercing or something so you look more alt. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/26 11:38 PM |
| 3 | The women I want don't want meIf you want to date alt women, you gotta have some fashion, signals, or interests adjacent to them. Also, alt women tend to go for certain types of dudes. For instance: I have dreads, and I'm scrawny, short (5'5"), black, and skinny and kinda sad looking. Golden retriever personality. On the spectrum. I typically attract bisexual switches, earthy / witchy types. Honestly, it's neat, but I don't like it either because they're a bit chaotic and too morally flexible. I like more cutesy cosplay girl… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/26 10:23 PM |
| 3 | How to red pill detox?I like BRS on tiktok. He's an attractive handsome guy, but he tells it like it is without being sexist per-se? I think the problem with addressing red-pill content is that there are social gender difference between men and women, but there's this social taboo to addressing them without being labeled sexist so a lot of men don't get an accurate world model to begin with. When they find their world model breaking because they've been told ineffective things *go to therapy *be a "good" person / gen… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/26 01:27 AM |
| 5 | I’m on the autism spectrum and never in a relationship at 31, considering genioplastyAs someone in therapy, I don't think therapy will help you especially if you're autistic as I'm on the spectrum. Chances are, your autism is killing you more than your looks are. Getting surgery is a bit extreme and if you don't get results after the surgery you will probably feel like an ass. I would spend the money to get laid so you can feel a woman's touch and bust a nut, and then once you feel a little settled, I would work on approaching women and trying to change your lifestyle so you're … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/26 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Why do men move from anti- to pro-feminist positions? (Academic Interviews - Repost)I'm outside the age range, but I moved because of all the gamergate posts I used to see about Anita Sarkessian. When I dug into it to try and understand the controversey and actually watched her videos, I found them to be more educational than harmful. Made all the chuds shoveling the controversy seem stupid. Made me sympathetic to feminist causes from being in a previously somewhat neutral space. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/25 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Feeling Stuck After Doing the Work: Short, Bald, Ethnic, and Still Struggling with Self-PerceptionIt's very hard! It's hard to feel. Think about yourself from a year ago. Think about the problems he had. You know that feeling you get when you wish you could tell them that they're able to get through some problem, or that they'll be able to feel better, or that such and such thing wasn't the end of the world? You don't have to be days out in order to do that. You seem socially awkward. You are going to fuck up. A lot. You're going to make mistakes. A lot. You can still love yourself, though. … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/25 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Feeling Stuck After Doing the Work: Short, Bald, Ethnic, and Still Struggling with Self-PerceptionHeya! You don't seem that observant! It also seems like you might be going for women who aren't your type or genre. You 100% can go to the arcade every day. You could go to an arcade bar even. Be a regular. People see you around often, you get comfortable. You might not even need to do it for the women, just do it for yourself. When you are happy and fulfilled, you are more attractive. You are not transformationally attractive, but people can detect when you aren't and it might make your approac… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/25 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Feeling Stuck After Doing the Work: Short, Bald, Ethnic, and Still Struggling with Self-Perception31 M, 5'5", black, autistic, babyface, beard doesn't connect Don't give up yet! The physical aspects of being attractive are tough to overcome, but it just means you'll have different avenues. I think ironically you might not be leaning ENOUGH into your activities. Making this comment, but I'll be back in a bit. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/25 02:30 PM |
| 1 | I want to escape the red-pill (it makes me miserable), but I don’t know howYou didn't even offer advice. You just told him to be confident which is the most shallow cliche shit. He's being vulnerable and honest about his lived experience and you can't even meet that. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/25 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Should i use this girl for dating experience/dick gameEh, you're basically a highschooler. The chances of a ltr between y'all wouldn't last anyway. Y'all are young and figuring yourselves out. It's slightly immoral. Like you'd probably be a douchebag, but it won't have long term consequences. Her one way obsession with you probably isn't healthy and she'll have to learn that lesson one way or another. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 01:09 AM |
| 2 | I want to escape the red-pill (it makes me miserable), but I don’t know howFind a good group of guy friends who go out and can put you on with and show you how to approach women successfully. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/25 12:46 AM |
| 1 | I want to escape the red-pill (it makes me miserable), but I don’t know howSkip therapy. Most therapists aren't worth shit, you will invest a lot of time and money searching. Maybe read a book on it. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/25 12:45 AM |
| -5 | I want to escape the red-pill (it makes me miserable), but I don’t know howException proves the rule | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/25 12:44 AM |
| -2 | I want to escape the red-pill (it makes me miserable), but I don’t know howYo this isn't helpful | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/25 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Chad doesn’t existIt's not the only option, but it's the biggest option by volume. Most people who date today meet on a dating app. You can't dismiss it. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/25 01:38 AM |
| 0 | Chad doesn’t existI think that's pretty valid, though. I don't know what the statistics are for real-life courting or if there are methods to even measure that, but for a lot of men, they probably mostly interact with dating through an app. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/25 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Chad doesn’t existI think your take is right...but it also proves their point right? Isn't that the 80/20 rule in motion? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobYou don't need her and you can find better. There is a broad spectrum of women. Some women have inflated standards like she did. Other women will entertain deadbeats. If someone truly likes you, they'll compromise but right now you're not much of a compromise. You're still building your life out. Don't get discouraged. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with your insane envy of promiscuous people?I think that it is harder for you, but I don't think that you are doomed to die a virgin. I think you can either save up enough money to travel for sex, or, after enough trial and error, you could find someone to have sex with. I think it's worth acknowledging that it will be harder if you're autistic and that you should take heed to what I said earlier, but I think if you let go of the despair and defeatist spirit you have then something could eventually happen for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/24 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with your insane envy of promiscuous people?Oh what makes their soul ugly? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/24 07:17 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with your insane envy of promiscuous people?I don't think therapy is going to solve this core problem. It seems like u/6022141023 has a need for sexual exploration that isn't being satisfied. I think you'd feel better if you felt sexually desired or if you had the skills to access these sexual escapades that you feel deprived of. Maybe you're not attractive enough to achieve the sexual goals you have with the people you'd like. You could do your best to improve things like your appearance through working out, surgery ( not fair but could … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/24 07:10 PM |
| 0 | A sugar daddy that’s a little bitterYou'll be happier if you just let this go. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/05/20 03:24 AM |
| -1 | A sugar daddy that’s a little bitterNo they don't! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/05/20 03:11 PM |
| 9 | A sugar daddy that’s a little bitterBeing a sugar baby is an acting job. Emphasis on job. Both men and women do it. That's why the pool boy stereotype is a thing. You're not critiquing women this time, you're just being sexist. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/05/20 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Liam Neeson says harassment allegations are now 'a witch-hunt'Liam Neeson bout to get fucked up huh | /r/MensRights | 13/01/18 09:52 PM |
| 0 | "Women's equality day" sale at restaurant in Louisville[deleted] What is this? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/16 07:03 PM |
| 1 | "Women's equality day" sale at restaurant in Louisville[deleted] What is this? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/16 04:27 PM |
| 2 | "Women's equality day" sale at restaurant in Louisville[deleted] What is this? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/16 03:47 AM |
| 1 | "Women's equality day" sale at restaurant in Louisville[deleted] What is this? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/16 02:38 AM |
| -11 | "Women's equality day" sale at restaurant in Louisville[deleted] What is this? | /r/MensRights | 17/08/16 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Twitter Permanently Suspends Conservative Writer Milo Yiannopoulos: Why is the twitter safety council such a hotbed of anti-gay bigotry?[deleted] What is this? | /r/MensRights | 20/07/16 06:00 PM |
| 13 | Teacher gets probation and 120 days in jail for raping two boys. "Judge Reilley granted probation for Himmelspach, citing her lack of a prior criminal record, her apparent feelings of remorse and her willingness to comply with the terms of probation."[deleted] What is this? | /r/MensRights | 17/06/16 04:18 AM |
| 2 | How to become a better dancer in club-style environments.[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 09:50 PM |
| 6 | How to become a better dancer in club-style environments.[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 06:24 AM |
| 4 | Anyone here who *didn't* grow up being social and mingling with girls (i.e. hard-mode seduction)?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 06:18 PM |
| 0 | The power of a yawn.[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 24/01/14 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Being a male and a friendly male puts his arm around you over your shoulders.[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 07:44 AM |
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