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| 0 | If you are unsure if a chick is just being polite or is interested, should you just straight up ask? | iShitPost37 | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 04:51 PM |
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| 124 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)Seriously. With 75% of the population having HSV-1 as well as the same estimated figure for HPV I feel like statistically this guy has had exposure to something. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 09:23 PM |
| 8 | Turning things sexualChicks love cuddling man. Sit next to her with a blanket. Ask to cuddle then things after that should be pretty self explanatory | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Forget cold approach, status max instead.Seeking status just to get ass seems like a justification for seeking validation and approval which seems like a recipe for disaster for someones self esteem. This is a shit post. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 01:21 PM |
| – | Forget cold approach, status max instead."Become an actor." Okay | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 11:37 AM |
| – | I can’t tell if a girl is into me or notIm on the same boat man. Try this though, ask her to meet out of school to do some school work TOGETHER at a coffee house or something and kill two birds with one stone. You could take breaks in between work and also you guys can make use of your time and not get behind on school work. I'm gunna try this with my chick. Good luck my man. And just remember this dating stuff takes time. Be patient. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 02:48 AM |
| – | I can’t tell if a girl is into me or notBut she could also genuinely busy with school work as most students are this time of their semester/trimester. I've stayed up late the past 3 nights getting work done.. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 02:39 AM |
| – | If you are unsure if a chick is just being polite or is interested, should you just straight up ask?sometimes she will take hours or days to reply, but when she does reply she usually will be apologetic or will give decent responses. Sometimes when I ask her questions about her to get to know her she'll give decent answers, and will ask the same back, but seems like she usually will try to always bring the conversation topic back to something school related. so could possibly indicate she doesn't want some relation outside of school. I asked her before, nothing specific but just in general if … | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 05:10 PM |
| – | How did you overcome AA? I just stay there, until the chance is over.I suggest cognitive behavioral therapy. Look it up. You'll write down what's going on through your head, and then you analyze those thoughts and realize how irrational they are. Also gotta realize that this is a VERY common problem for almost all men. You can do it, but the only way to get better at approaches is by.. well approaching. Another thing to understand is that you can never completely expel AA. It will always be there to some degree. But the more you do it, the more you able to handle… | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 02:45 PM |
| -1 | I overcame my approach anxiety but have problem holding a conversation.Yeah I'm probably just gonna wait until the semester starts. The thing is I'm in a very male dominated major, but my community college still has some really good looking babes. Just gonna have to cold approach. Been trying to approach girls at Starbucks this winter break but the only girls that go there during this time are high school chicks.. RIP | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 04:22 PM |
| 3 | I overcame my approach anxiety but have problem holding a conversation.How'd you get over approach anxiety? Also where do you approach women and what openers do you use? | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Social Media GameAre these people that you somewhat knew from school through mutual friends or something? Cause most of the time girls find it kinda creepy if you just message out of the blue. I've done it before but they were girls I use to go to school work and had a lot of mutual friends. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | 2019 new pursue locations and places.Coffee shops. Go there and do some work on your laptop, take a break once in awhile to talk to a girl who is sitting down, waiting for her coffee, or a barista. | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 04:07 PM |
| 38 | Is Tinder Gold worth it?Don't waste a damn penny on tinder.. if you really want to meet women get out to the real world and approach real women.. | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 05:12 AM |
| 4 | Best way to confirm date (stop flaking)?Don't overthink it. It doesn't hurt to ask. It's not being needy, it's a basic question. If she didn't reply within the hour and you sent her like three texts then yes that is needy and unattractive. | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 03:30 PM |
| 8 | Is the pickup/day game community dead?Can't assume she's already on tinder. There's plenty of girls, more than you think that are above the validation, and the dozen of cringy messages from creeps. | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Getting past cold approach anxietyAnd I'm sure at church and house parties, people approached there too 😂 | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Getting past cold approach anxietyBut if your social circle isn't as fast as it use to be, because you are no longer in high school or you don't go to a university, you're gunna have to go out of your way if you want to meet new people. What do you think people did before dating apps? | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Getting past cold approach anxietyI'd say something like, "hey I just wanted you to know that I think you're a cool person and I wanted to meet you." Yes going up to a stranger and meeting them is in fact a normal thing. After introducing yourself, ask them something like, "what's something cool about yourself?", Or if I'm at a coffee shop I'll say, "excuse me, sorry to interrupt I see that you're busy with "x" but I thought I needed to take a break from my homework, and I just wanted to meet you". Other intros, you could give t… | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Getting past cold approach anxietyGet to know her? | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 01:30 PM |
| 38 | If I meet a girl that I really like, I automatically think I'm not good enough for herI feel like you may have low self esteem. Just get out of your head, be confident, and when you date someone remember to take it one step at a time. Dont expect too much too soon, dating and relationships take time. Just go with the flow. | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 01:24 PM |
| 1 | I just couldn’t do it!The best thing to do is to go into the mindset with no expectations other than that you are trying to meet another human being. Don't go into it expecting a number, or to set up a date, or that you're out to scope potential girlfriends, or hook ups. I feel like that is where a lot of the anxiety stems from. Just be natural, have an authentic conversation and go with the flow. If you're feeling the vibes, then ask for a number. Not really feeling it? Then carry on. Just take it one step at a time… | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | I keep on meeting really beautiful girls but can’t seem to “get on base” at all!Try to get to know her. Find out what makes her, HER. A good follow up question would be well why did you pick that field of study? This answer will tell you a lot about her character. Find out what she's passionate about, her life growing up, what she wants in future life, ask about her family, her hobbies, her values, etc. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 12:59 AM |
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