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1

I wish my good man, I wish... But drug tests are my mortal enemy and I shall not let them take me down into the pits of damnation!
/r/seduction07/04/13 07:41 PM
50

Let them make their own decisions! Horsemallow 2013!
/r/seduction12/02/13 01:34 AM
1

Shit nigga you right, you right!
/r/seduction10/02/13 11:40 PM
3

Haha chill out bro, it was obvious he was sarcastic and I was too! It's all love
/r/seduction07/02/13 05:15 PM
2

YES! Literally nobody does this! Many Sedditors could learn from what you release, and it will also help you with your own game, as you can learn what you need to do or say in the future!
/r/seduction07/02/13 03:00 AM
9

Said no one ever!
/r/seduction07/02/13 02:43 AM
6

I agree, it formed a part of who you are today and you need to always remember that.
/r/seduction12/01/13 06:36 PM
5

I definitely wouldn't respond that way the first time, especially if it was a joke. I'd just laugh and poke fun right back at her. However, if it happens a lot and she's being bitchy, do that!
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:38 AM
17

Next time she does it just be like, "Okay." Then hit up another girl and go out with that girl instead. Honestly, if she's doing it as a favor then you shouldn't be going out with her and it most likely won't lead anywhere. My .02 though.
/r/seduction04/01/13 01:39 AM
1

Hahaha thanks I didn't see it anywhere!
/r/seduction29/12/12 11:11 PM
1

What book?
/r/seduction29/12/12 05:27 AM
2

Very good advice! Win win situation.
/r/seduction29/12/12 05:25 AM
2

Logged in just to upvote you!
/r/seduction26/11/12 04:26 AM
1

Could you elaborate?
/r/seduction18/11/12 05:57 PM
1

This is me 100%! I really would like some help on it as well. It's not AA, more like DA (Date Anxiety).
/r/seduction18/11/12 05:57 PM
1

Ahhh, I gotcha. It definitely is a good idea, but the one near me is only next to a gas station so I can only plan to go there haha. Also, I need your advice on something. I'm good at approaching, flirting, kino, eye contact, # closing, blah blah blah the whole first interaction. However, I have really bad Date Anxiety (?). I'm always nervous to actually be 1 on 1 with them, I've never really had much experience with this before. Any help man? I just feel like I won't be able to make it interest…
/r/seduction18/11/12 05:55 PM
2

Quite contrary my good lad, I have recently stopped my intake of the Cannabis Sativa plant!
/r/seduction18/11/12 05:52 PM
1

I love Thai soup! I also like the excuse you make to go to the rink - I think I'll use it! I definitely have some girls in mind that would go for it, just need to get the logistics straight. What places have you been on dates that were the most successful? I definitely want some more options, I was thinking frozen yogurt?
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:44 AM
1

Yes, please continue! I don't do anything like dancing or beach volleyball (live about an hour from the beach - I'm on the east coast), but I do play hockey, but ice skating is considered a pretty lame date. I've been thinking like frozen yogurt or some shit, but I want to do something FUN that's not embarrassingly romantic, as I'm only 17 and in high school.
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:02 AM
1

I remember it, but it's vague, very vague...
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:56 AM
1

What good activities have you thought of? I'm really trying to ask some girls out, but I REALLY don't want to go out to eat at a restaurant as our first time hanging out alone.
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:14 AM
1

I heard it referred to as the 50 Yard Fake Out, and I use it alllll the time now! It's great, and is especially funny when used in conversation! 50YFA!
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:06 AM
1

YES! Being a leader is one of the most attractive qualities. I also have you RES tagged as "Floor Notes Guy" for some reason... Haha
/r/seduction15/11/12 11:58 PM
1

Damn my logic! You're correct, sir!
/r/seduction15/11/12 04:20 AM
28

You can fuck 4 different women!
/r/seduction14/11/12 02:29 AM
2

Exactly man! Think about it... If you talked to them and got rejected, well, you're better off than you were as you gained experience! It's better to try and fail than to have never tried at all. And if you get the number, then you'll definitely see her again!
/r/seduction11/11/12 11:38 PM
5

Congrats on the weight loss! That's definitely a great and admirable feat - keep staying healthy? If you don't mind, do you have any before and after pictures? And true inner confidence will come with time. As you start to realize you're not who you used to be, it will arrive. But for the mean time, fake it till you make it! Just know that you'll probably never see those women again unless you or her exchange numbers, so be yourself! Congrats again bro!
/r/seduction11/11/12 11:04 PM
1

I will man, and I'm definitely going to read No More Mr. Nice Guy! Cheers!
/r/seduction11/11/12 10:37 PM
1

Thanks dude, I usually do wait a while if they take too long to text back, but sometimes I just jump the gun... Just gotta step it up a notch. You've been a big help man, if I ever need anything else I'll shoot you a PM.
/r/seduction11/11/12 07:52 PM
1

Yeah I use my iPhone daily, so it's all good! Do you have any advice for texting game? I could really use it at the moment!
/r/seduction09/11/12 02:21 AM
1

I'll actually start using that, except with the Notes app on my phone. I don't have anywhere to put a pad and pen haha.
/r/seduction09/11/12 12:19 AM
1

Yeah I plan on going about 2-3 times a week then upping it in regards to time and weight. Slow and steady wins the race!
/r/seduction08/11/12 02:21 AM
1

I definitely see where you're coming from, I gotta sack up and start asking for advice. You can't go anywhere without some guidance, that's for sure. I always say I'm gonna start eating better and hit the gym, but I never do. I'm not overweight, I'm 5'7" 130 lbs, but I just need to gain some muscle mass...
/r/seduction07/11/12 01:31 AM
1

I've given you 11 upvotes - you deserve them! Definitely true that nobody knows what they're talking about, except us Sedditors haha... But that's some great advice, high school literally doesn't fucking matter, besides being used for getting into college. I'm glad that I can make mistakes now so I'm unstoppable in college! Honestly, I'm lucky I'm not failing and have only 2 B's with the rest A's. I don't study at all, even though I'm in all AP classes and calculus. College is gonna kick my ass …
/r/seduction06/11/12 12:01 AM
1

Dude, thank you so much for that comment! I've read it multiple times, and I'm going to check out all the links after this AP History homework (homework sucks bro)! Hopefully I can find the motivation to get motivated, I'm usually not pretty lazy but it's a big lifestyle change. As for your comment on where I am, I'm currently in 11th grade (17 years old). Definitely interested in business/finances, so I'll probably head down the same path as you. I honestly cannot wait for college, so much fuck…
/r/seduction05/11/12 02:10 AM
1

Exactly! Glad to hear you're starting your own business - mind if I ask in what industry? I'm still in high school and in an entrepreneurship class, and it definitely seems like the most profitable (but stressful) career option.
/r/seduction05/11/12 12:55 AM
1

You've just inspired to me to start again! (I've been doing it daily). Day 1 is tomorrow; the dawn of a new era for iStoned!
/r/seduction05/11/12 12:43 AM
1

Thank you! After cutting out both and returning to fapping, I have to say I saw no decline upon return - especially since I kept out porn. I haven't gone 10+ days since the summer so I might do that to see how it goes; however, I hate the fact that a light breeze will give me a boner haha... I was lifeguarding and I was literally on day like 14 and a breeze came, instant hard on... Twas' an interesting day!
/r/seduction05/11/12 12:00 AM
1

I honestly didn't see much improvement from /r/NoFap, it's mostly just the porn that actually hurts your game. I cut it out months ago and haven't looked back!
/r/seduction04/11/12 10:38 PM
1

Ahh, yes you definitely shed some light on it. I originally took it as a way to win her over, but this obviously won't do it, especially if she originally wanted to stand you up. I don't think you could actually win her over with it, but as you said, it's just a ploy to get the last punch in.
/r/seduction04/11/12 08:04 PM
1

I'm going to check out all of those! Thanks man!
/r/seduction04/11/12 08:02 PM
1

I like this idea, but I don't know how effective it would be. If she had the idea of "I want to stand this guy up" then I don't think it would work; however, if she simply missed it on accident, she'll be relieved that you did too and this could possibly work. Any other insight?
/r/seduction03/11/12 09:44 PM
1

Yes! Once you start seeing results it honestly feels amazing! I realized that compared to last year, I have improved so much in the way of seduction, but I still have much to learn!
/r/seduction03/11/12 09:04 PM
1

I started doing that and it honestly helps the most. You work on humor, conversation flow, eye contact, body language, everything. It's perfect practice for the HB10 that counts!
/r/seduction02/11/12 09:30 PM
4

HE DELIVERED! with the help from a friend.
/r/seduction02/11/12 12:54 AM
1

Fast.
/r/seduction02/11/12 12:51 AM
3

Since you don't do that often, your mind is subconsciously telling you not to do it, since it's out of the norm. This is why you need to talk to every girl you see! Once it becomes the norm for you, you will literally talk to every single chick everywhere!
/r/seduction02/11/12 12:46 AM
4

Nope! Some girls are just like that...
/r/seduction02/11/12 12:43 AM
2

All you can ever do is try brother!
/r/seduction02/11/12 12:36 AM
2

The Advice King makes his debut once again! Jokes aside, I have to say I definitely agree with your post. Going out every weekend alone gets endless and repetitive - I'd much rather have multiple girls than a new one every week.
/r/seduction02/11/12 12:35 AM
1

Yeah, check him out on youtube, he's amazing at explaining and he gives in-game footage too.
/r/seduction29/10/12 08:52 PM
1

Tyler Durden from RSD
/r/seduction29/10/12 03:46 AM
2

Tell me how it goes broseph!
/r/seduction24/10/12 11:12 PM
2

Probably confident enough? Fuck no bro, you're gonna pull this shit off like a motherfucker! Storm in there, show her whats up, get the D wet, everyone's happy!
/r/seduction24/10/12 12:30 AM
2

Amen! The ROI (return on investment) isn't worth it in this situation!
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:58 AM
2

I'd say we have a practice - date compromise. Practice then go out somewhere after? You definitely don't want to end up in the friendzone, but at the same you want to keep things sort of sexual. The fact that she wants to meet up again is a plus, so there's that. If you can't swing anything after, just keep escalation high in the practice. Reaching around her to show her chords, getting close while you're both singing, etc... And don't stress about not having seen her in weeks. You've probably b…
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:53 AM
2

No problem bro! I'm glad to help a brother out! For moving the relationship further, definitely try to isolate her 1 on 1, like taking her on a date or something. I wouldn't suggest dinner then a movie, that's cliche as fuck and boring, also no chance for escalation. Try something fun, like teaching her to drive your car if it's manual, or apple picking, or frozen yogurt. Anything really!
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:47 PM
2

Well always assume attraction first off. Her niceness could be how she displays her attraction towards you, and she's just merely friendly towards others. Start kinoing her and escalating and you'll know if she likes you or not. If she doesn't respond well, slowly escalate and she should come around.
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:14 PM
1

Notice her eyes, are they darting around or fixated on your eyes? If she's making steady eye contact, IOI. How's her body language? If she's pointing her body towards you, smiling, and actively participating in the conversation, IOI. Is she not ignoring you and actually responding? IOI. Also, you might want to check out this comprehensive guide of IOIs: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/lb91f/newbies_read_this_iois_iods_qualification_and_more/
/r/seduction20/10/12 04:40 AM
2

I'll be glad to check them out!
/r/seduction20/10/12 03:58 AM
1

Zing! Give her the Nobel Skeet Prize!
/r/seduction20/10/12 03:58 AM
3

loads of extra credit Indeed, sir, loads of extra credit hahah.
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:27 AM
3

And possibly schedule an after school study session?
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:26 AM
1

As long as you can be discreet in the corner, I'm sure the professor won't have a problem with it at all.
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:08 AM
3

Sit next to her at the beginning of next class and initiate conversation, and go for the appropriate close (most likely #).
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:05 AM
1

Good man, chatting up a few girls and hopefully going somewhere with those. And you should definitely do some [FR]s! Who cares if nobody believes them dude, I know they'd be fucking sweet haha.
/r/seduction19/10/12 12:55 AM
1

Pumpkins are just so...majestic and sexy!
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:04 AM
13

Bracing!
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:35 AM
5

Advice King strikes again! Hahah bro I've given you 15 upvotes total... And holy shit are you really 50? You've got mad game.
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:27 AM
1

No problem man! You have 3 more years to develop! I doubt you'll be f-closing as a freshman but definitely go for # and K closes!
/r/seduction17/10/12 02:01 AM
2

Going through this at the moment actually, so I hope I can offer some insight to help us both! Show her yourself, as in don't try to hide anything. Don't be beta and become a pussy, but instead show her the ALPHA version of yourself. Exemplify all of your positive characteristics, and just be all around interesting. Engage her in conversation, get her number, then go for it. Don't beat around the bush - just do it! You won't know if she will date you until you try for it! Girls our age usually c…
/r/seduction16/10/12 01:47 AM
1

Maybe once, with a smirky smile, but never, NEVER do it repeatedly. It shows lack of self esteem and confidence. Compliment yourself man!
/r/seduction14/10/12 05:58 AM
2

Dude you're in the military - you could literally just wear your uniform to a bar and get laid!
/r/seduction13/10/12 05:58 PM
1

Hahah I have seen it but it was a while ago man! Definitely not in theaters though. You're not old at all!
/r/seduction13/10/12 05:57 PM
1

It is unclear - which movie is it? I don't normally watch movies anyway
/r/seduction13/10/12 05:33 PM
4

That's what I regret about my pre-enlightenment days. I'm a junior in high school, and fuck me dude... I was so awkward back in those days, especially middle school and freshman year. Couldn't even hold a conversation with a girl, now I'm making them laugh their asses off! What I learned here was that it's mostly how you carry yourself, which I found to be so true. Once I changed my attitude, my game changed to the peak it has ever been, and continues on a path of enlightenment and upward prospe…
/r/seduction13/10/12 04:48 PM
1

Definitely this! Haha it could either go super swell or "sucky."
/r/seduction13/10/12 04:46 PM
2

Definitely agree with this. ALL girls talk to each other (mostly) and your reputation will spread. But the downfall is that your reputation is mostly set in stone by freshman/sophomore year of high school since you probably attended middle school with the same kids.
/r/seduction13/10/12 04:33 PM
2

Forget your emotions and be an icey cold motherfucker. Game her like you would any other girl - you're putting her onto a pedestal. You need to bring her down and treat her like you would any other girl that isn't your crush.
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:35 AM
3

To have sexy times in, of course!
/r/seduction09/10/12 01:16 AM
1

Hahaha you must be the happiest motherfucker on the planet if it hurts to not smile! Maybe use this as an advantage and tell the girl about it?
/r/seduction07/10/12 01:39 AM
1

Practice man! Go 5 minutes without smiling, then 10, then move forward from there!
/r/seduction07/10/12 01:29 AM
2

Seriously - if you're smiling and you're not happy and you can't control it you should check out a doctor. Haha
/r/seduction07/10/12 01:18 AM
2

Dude I love the look! I get compliments when I wear a nice collared button down and some nice chinos! Mostly because all the other guys dress in gym shirts and t shirts haha.
/r/seduction06/10/12 07:28 AM
1

Yes - this is on point! What I described is sort of a stepping stone to get to there.
/r/seduction06/10/12 07:27 AM
8

Try dressing nicer to get away from the casual kid look (button down shirt or polo with chinos). It really helped step my game up to the next level!
/r/seduction05/10/12 03:29 AM
3

Footsie is an overlooked part of kino - it's cute and fun. Fuck the haters!
/r/seduction05/10/12 03:26 AM
2

This x1000!
/r/seduction05/10/12 01:43 AM
1

Stoned, you say? Well, weed isn't good for seduction. Makes you paranoid, and you're not levelheaded... Alcohol on the other hand is liquid courage, maybe you guys should just get fucking smashed?
/r/seduction05/10/12 01:42 AM
3

But they do it with bitchface on and cunt-voice turned all the way up. Damn, this made me lose it. And Desmond, that's a fucking cool name, you probably get that a lot. If you're super tan, I'd imagine you look like some secret agent. Haha...
/r/seduction05/10/12 01:39 AM
2

CLASSY AS FUCK!
/r/seduction05/10/12 01:38 AM
5

Dude you're gonna be a handsome ass motherfucker, and all the other guys are gonna have acne and be fat. As long as it doesn't interfere with your daily life like locigalmisologist said, then don't worry. Plus women do love a well groomed man.
/r/seduction05/10/12 01:25 AM
2

This reminds me of How I Met Your Mother... Sort of...
/r/seduction05/10/12 01:07 AM
3

Surprisingly not, the schedule question was great - he just didn't follow up and then turned extremely beta (charlie?).
/r/seduction04/10/12 12:33 AM
2

I get that too man! It's like this nagging feeling like "this won't end well" and it sucks! And you're exactly right. Things don't just end badly, either you directly cause them to or some outside force that you have no control over causes it to end badly. YOU are the one who controls you're destiny; always remember that.
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:43 AM
2

I hope it turns out well!
/r/seduction03/10/12 12:37 AM
3

Don't regret the missed k-close; you definitely made a great impression but make sure to kiss her next time! Also sounds like you had a successful night!
/r/seduction02/10/12 12:51 AM
1

No problem fellow Junior! Go get 'em!
/r/seduction01/10/12 02:12 AM
2

This x1000 HS is super cliquey, try to get in with every group so girls aren't biased towards you based on their friends (usually douches) opinions of you.
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:39 PM
2

It's definitely different than the real world. This summer is when I discovered Seddit, and I can definitely tell how changing my texting game helped! Last year (sophmore) I usually texted this girl everyday, and at first she displayed interest, but since I never made a move, she lost it and I was left sad. How could that happen? Texting too much and not making a move. Unless you're texting about something important or setting up a date, I'd generally stay away from mindless / random banter. Unl…
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:34 PM
2

Thanks bro!
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:26 PM
6

Junior in HS here, with the answer to your question. Incorporate everything. Everything. From eye contact to kino to k closes to negging to talking to everybody. It helps you get into a groove for college, and when you're there, you'll be THE fucking man. Just because f-closes don't happen (as easily), doesn't mean you have to nit pick Seddit for what you can use. Use it all, and test it all before you get into the real world. What happens in HS usually stays there, but if something crazy happen…
/r/seduction30/09/12 09:22 PM
2

Advice Kings strikes again!
/r/seduction27/09/12 10:46 PM
12

What happened to the deer??!?! And great post by the way!
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:44 AM
1

I'm in high school as well (junior) and just simply ask for it. The girls you read about in Seddit are more mature and definitely not college aged or more mature. Sure, some are mature, but most are giggling little sluts (haha). Just be super fucking confident. Most high school relationships revolve around social circles, and get yourself into her clique or group of friends without being friendzoned.
/r/seduction26/09/12 09:27 PM
3

I really like how he talks about projecting your perceptions about the relationship. It really hit home when I realized that you must get to know the girl herself, and not fantasize about what you think she's like. This definitely motivates me to talk to more people! See who they REALLY are, behind the sweet, gorgeous face and/or personality. Quality post my friend!
/r/seduction25/09/12 11:15 PM
1

Holy shit the story of my life!
/r/seduction25/09/12 10:41 PM
1

Literally just thought of this while reading your comment. What if you put on her underwear/shorts/jeans/lingerie/whatever and said that? Hahahah...
/r/seduction25/09/12 10:38 PM
1

Congrats bro! I would be too!
/r/seduction25/09/12 12:53 AM
2

Another great segment of advice. Wait while I make some popcorn and keep em' rolling! Haha
/r/seduction25/09/12 12:53 AM
1

What's YMMV?
/r/seduction24/09/12 11:42 PM
14

Holy shit dude. That was... FANTASTIC!
/r/seduction24/09/12 11:41 PM
1

You're RES tagged as Advice King from an earlier run in with you. My humble, modest majesty!
/r/seduction24/09/12 11:36 PM
2

Ahh, the Advice King strikes again with his knowledge!
/r/seduction24/09/12 11:28 PM
1

I was thinking about this as well. Maybe the first was sweet in her mind, then the second one crossed the line? It's some fucked up logic but hey, it's women... Haha.
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:45 PM
2

I have a stutter too, and best thing to do is accept it and move the fuck on. I stutter when talking to girls, guys, professors, teachers, the whole sha-bang. Keep eye contact, it shows that you don't give a shit and that it's YOU. I use to drop my eyes subconsciously, when I thought it was a beta-pussy-bitch thing to do; however, it's a part of me and I embrace it. I don't fucking care what people think or say about it, if they have enough problems to worry about a speech disorder you have, the…
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:16 PM
-4

Fourthed.
/r/seduction18/09/12 09:08 PM
2

Will do boss!
/r/seduction18/09/12 08:48 PM
1

Dude everybody makes mistakes! There's no point in pursuing anything if it doesn't pose a challenge. Just persevere my brother.
/r/seduction18/09/12 08:19 PM
2

Absolutely! RES-tagged you as "Advice King" so I can see your future posts. Edit: Just realized how creepy that sounded hahah...
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:19 AM
2

I know what you mean! Experiences can teach more to an individual than a lecture or how-to post can.
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:06 AM
1

VERY nice post! I'm sad that I only have 1 upvote to give you. Very informative and entertaining; we need more posts like this in r/seduction. Props!
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:56 AM
1

Those who tend to be wealthy and smart tend to be very shy or awkward, but the tougher / more attractive guys are starting to become more classy, with stores such as Ralph Lauren and Banana Republic. Everybody is different, but I'd have to say girl go for the fun, attractive guy. They definitely like wealth, but as long as he's not dirt poor, they'll pick him over the smart, wealthy, nerd. That's my $.02 though.
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:19 AM
-4

No, you deserve a medal!
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:33 AM
1

I don't know if I should be facepalming or clapping...
/r/seduction17/09/12 01:45 AM
3

I'd also be interested in knowing this. It seems pretty legit.
/r/seduction17/09/12 01:24 AM
1

Kino Kino Kino! And by the way, you don't have to have a scripted opening or mid game or end game. Simply say whatever you want. Just carry on the conversation. The women will more than likely open up, so you can branch off from what they say.
/r/seduction16/09/12 03:55 PM
1

Your name is very fitting.
/r/seduction16/09/12 03:19 PM
23

Zis hair really helpz me to start ze sezy times
/r/seduction15/09/12 03:35 AM
1

You are just a legend!
/r/seduction15/09/12 03:20 AM
-2

I forgot to mention the way I would have. Obviously with a smile, and laughing my ass off. Then possibly getting up and approaching a different set. It's all subjective.
/r/seduction14/09/12 02:34 AM
1

This man set you up with the perfect link!
/r/seduction13/09/12 10:50 PM
5

I probably would have waited about 5 seconds, then when the rejection set in, laughed my ass off. Then for measure I woulda said, "Damn girl!" If she didn't hear me the first time, it would have been a funny scenario. If she was indeed rejecting me, it would show you don't really care. Bitches be trippin dude
/r/seduction13/09/12 10:48 PM
1

I understand what you said, but can you provide an example? Seems a little far off from what most girls are attracted to.
/r/seduction13/09/12 10:44 PM
6

How this got any upvotes is beyond me... It's just creepy. shudders
/r/seduction12/09/12 10:58 PM
2

Yes! Please take some pictures OP, you can blur out your face if you don't want your identity revealed.
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:37 PM
1

Exactly, you can't state your intentions in a less subtle way!
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:28 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:27 PM
1

Funny, but sadly true.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:44 AM
1

I have a penchant for death metal and highly experimental music as well as really bizarre progressive stuff from the 70's and 80's. I was also wearing a Bloodbath tshirt That could be your problem. Try a wardrobe change? I recently switched from usually wearing gym shorts and concert tees to polos and chinos (khaki shorts). I'm not saying change who you are, but it's just food for thought.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:38 AM
1

I understand what you mean, I just try not to stare. Although I noticed that it felt like my eyes were darting around, so I try not to break too quickly, just don't keep it 100% of the time. And if you make eye contact with a sketchy dude, just nod and keep doing what you were doing. It's not an insult and you'll get respect.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:33 AM
1

True, I think I've been doing that as well, I usually only notice one eye or the other, but I usually just try to plain make eye contact. Have you ever heard women discussing how long they like the contact to be held? I try to hold it 3-5 seconds then break then resume. I don't try to stare them down for like 10 seconds.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:11 AM
1

Only one solution: do it! This is your life, your path, your destiny. Take charge and change what you don't like. Work and work, and eventually the work will pay off.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:05 AM
1

Great advice! Definitely shows great communication and social skills, so everybody is included, then you impress the girl, which makes your job a whole lot easier later on when isolating / escalating.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:04 AM
3

Can they notice you're just looking at one eye? I usually meet both eyes by just simply making eye contact.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:03 AM
1

Or a boner.
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:06 PM
1

Just RES'd him as Floor Notes Guy haha. He spits the truth! Preach it brotha!
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:03 PM
28

Life begins outside your comfort zone. Just stare as deep into their soul as you can, and eventually it becomes normal. At least that's what I did / am doing
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:01 PM
2

I know what you mean! Feels amazingly awesome
/r/seduction11/09/12 10:45 PM
1

To be honest, I never knew how bad I was at it until I started actively doing it. If you want to impress a woman, eye contact is KEY. My game dramatically went up as I started maintaining eye contact more, and now it's a habit.
/r/seduction11/09/12 10:45 PM
1

I meant to put well written but somehow it slipped through my fingers, literally. Thanks for the lesson!
/r/seduction11/09/12 10:41 PM
13

As did I. Very well post overall.
/r/seduction11/09/12 02:49 AM
47

Maintain eye contact, it's the number one thing (besides inner game) that has helped me the most.
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:33 AM
3

Keep it flirty, and brief. Text her sporadically (once every week or 2 weeks) to keep interest up. Tell her that you're going to hang out when you come back to cali.
/r/seduction07/09/12 01:52 AM
2

Unless you plan on actually meeting her in the future I'd just cut connections. Don't want to get all worked up over this girl if you can't meet her again. But that's just me man. If you want to talk to her, talk to her.
/r/seduction07/09/12 12:47 AM
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zomgorz da confidenze iz importents
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:55 AM
1

Exactly. Step by step process.
/r/seduction05/09/12 11:12 PM
7

Just do it man. Easy as that. Simply do it. Your anxiety will never pass, but you will learn how to curb it and therefore how to approach 100x better. Practice makes perfect!
/r/seduction05/09/12 12:39 AM
3

Post the text and we can decipher it! Then on the date bring it up as a joke and tease her a bit, but make sure you're smiling.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:32 PM
2

the snozberries taste like snozberries!
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:14 PM
2

Identifying gold. Yep, it's gold.
/r/seduction04/09/12 11:11 PM
0

Exactly. VERY into social standing and popularity.
/r/seduction04/09/12 02:42 AM
3

True, very true. The next two years of high school seem like forever, and college seems a lifetime away. I'm glad I'll have that much time to practice! Haha glad you loved my posts!
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:36 PM
1

Word man! I'll try! Haha
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:35 PM
3

Amen man! High school sucks compared to college; use this time to work on your game so you're unstoppable in college!
/r/seduction03/09/12 03:09 AM
3

Hit them up in a few days, but don't wait too long as the attraction will simmer down. If they flake again, go find 3 better girls!
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:51 AM
17

I'll be 17 very soon, and I can say most of the Inner Game and confidence stuff can definitely be applied to game high school girls. Most of the fast escalation won't work, as many teen girls will escalate, but they seem to take longer to get to that point. That's just what I've noticed though. Definitely hard to get one night stands in high school...
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:40 AM
3

Happy cake day!
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:29 AM
1

Indeed.
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:26 AM
1

I thought you were raging but you turned out to be a nice guy! Props to you man, so many hateful Redditors running around. <3
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:25 AM
1

I understand, it sort of is a bit cocky, but alpha none-the-less. I respect your opinion but we differ, good sir!
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:24 AM
5

He was having fun, and it made everybody laugh. Don't get your panties in a bunch man. Fun is the name of the game!
/r/seduction02/09/12 10:56 PM
1

Awesome man! I can definitely tell you that she came to you because of your chill, nonchalant vibe. Your roommate on the other hand, most likely tried too hard and came off like a raging idiot. Keep up the work bro!
/r/seduction02/09/12 10:55 PM
3

Exactly. If she was actually creeped out she wouldn't of danced with you, let alone hug you. You played it cool, and now all that's left is to pursue her or let her go.
/r/seduction02/09/12 10:46 PM
4

Seems to me you've never stripped down in front of people. Not douchey at all man, it shows a good sense of humor and that you aren't afraid to show people your body.
/r/seduction02/09/12 10:41 PM
0

Just give it a whirl dude. Don't get shitfaced, but get drunk so you know how you feel and if you like it. If you become an alcoholic, don't blame it on me. I'm not liable for any damages, as the above statement was not true.
/r/seduction01/09/12 02:31 AM
0

Love your name. Just wanted to tell you that. Peace.
/r/seduction01/09/12 01:33 AM
1

Hahaha damn, sucks to live there! I was thinking of maybe living in Boston later in life, but not anymore! You should seriously try out the South. Hot, respectable, DTF women.
/r/seduction31/08/12 11:23 PM
1

Nope, 11th. I have way more time than I need to prepare haha. Oh well, hopefully I'll be able to pass the time quickly. I honestly am jealous of most college students, it's just so much freedom.
/r/seduction31/08/12 11:22 PM
3

Are all northern women like that? I chatted up two girls from Philadelphia and they were acting bitchy. I'm from the south so most girls are friendly enough. But the Northerners...Ugh...
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:42 PM
1

Glad to hear it bro! Fucking own that university! I'm still in high school so I've got some time to practice the art before I go away!
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:36 PM
1

Hahaha I haven't smoked in a couple months. But yes it does, moreso than alcohol.
/r/seduction30/08/12 05:12 PM
1

Say stuff back. Be like "Don't fucking touch me" while making sharp eye contact. Don't move your eyes; glare into his fucking soul. Usually this will get them to back off as they realize you're not a pushover. I wouldn't escalate to violence, if it gets heated walk away. But never let anybody push you around. I'm not saying don't defend yourself, but don't get physical if he's not threatening your life.
/r/seduction30/08/12 04:38 AM
1

No problem man! Glad to have helped! The easiest thing is to always assume attraction. It sounds a bit cocky but it stops you from fretting on if she likes you or not. And if she rejects you, oh well. There's literally billions of other women out there. Billions. 1,000,000,000s. Hope you have a great day tomorrow! Keep us updated and do a field report!
/r/seduction30/08/12 04:27 AM
1

I don't know why but these two words made me lose it and I busted out laughing. Love this sub
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:22 AM
1

Congrats man! It all goes uphill from here! However, they might have become over flattered because you complimented them TOO much. If you open with a compliment, leave it at that and let your body language do the talking. Such as kino and eye contact; it all goes over well than words. The boyfriend thing was probably a shit test. Don't take it personally, every girl will throw it out if they're near their friends so they don't seem slutty. I guarantee that if they were talking to you they were d…
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:30 AM
1

It definitely worked. We weren't shy or nervous at all, so we definitely portrayed our interests. Pre-approach we just picked names and went for it. We never guessed one right :( Direct would definitely work as well. They're so used to just being ogled at that even a "hi" would work wonders.
/r/seduction29/08/12 08:00 PM
1

Well when we went swimming I pretended one of them was drowning so I saved her (I'm a lifeguard) and it was pretty funny. Also we went back to their beach house so we sat close on the couch leg over leg. Just act funny and touch when appropriate. The big thing is don't be scared to touch, but don't do it in a creepy way; be 100% confident and they'll love it. She actually kissed me so it was more just building the tension. Be confident and you'll win em.
/r/seduction29/08/12 07:57 PM
2

2 friends and I went to the beach this summer and absolutely KILLED it. We approached many sets and had almost all positive results. We ended up with numbers and all the goodies. Our technique was to pick random names and pretend like we knew them. So we'd walk up and be like "Hey Rachel what's up? Do you remember me from school?!" Say it very confidently and with a cocky smile and they LOVE it. You then go onto guessing names and kino / k close. Just mess around with them and have a great time.
/r/seduction29/08/12 05:12 AM
2

It really helped me. Hope it helps you, too!
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:48 AM
2

I stutter the letter H mostly, and it sucks since I play ice hockey...
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:28 AM
6

Okay, this is going to be a long one. I've stuttered all my life. My grandpa stutters, my mom stutters, and I stutter. It seems to be genetic for some reason, but I'm going off on a tangent! Anyways, it used to be really bad. REALLY BAD. Being made fun of for it a lot as a kid really helped shape me into who I am today. I don't care if anybody makes fun of me now or teases me. It's just someone's opinion, and I can easily brush it off now. The thing about my stuttering is how it has progressed. …
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:27 AM
2

No problem man! Glad I was able to help.
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:27 AM
4

Here are some basics ideas man: Coffee, Lunch, Dinner, Walk around the park, Movie, etc. Just anything you can spontaneously do without much planning. But there's also other. Check out local concert venues for upcoming artists, or you could make reservations at a nice restaurant. You could also try boating, fishing, or anything really. You could ask her what she wants to do, which sounds beta, but you could possibly pull it off. Maybe something like this: "Hey, we're going on a date tomorrow nig…
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:20 AM
1

I do the same thing brother. It's nice to see an attractive girl check you out once in a while; validation is a two-way street!
/r/seduction28/08/12 05:26 PM
14

In essence. Once you push past your comfort zone, you eventually become more at ease with what you do. So your comfort zone expands. Eventually, you won't be going outside of your comfort zone when you approach girls, which gives you a natural and confident behavior. TL;DR Approach 24/7
/r/seduction28/08/12 05:12 PM
2

Nope, don't want her to forget about your or lose interest. The interaction is still fresh and positive.
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:01 AM
65

YES! She already said she would show you her friends, capitalize on this! It's instant brownie points, and she's vouching for you.
/r/seduction27/08/12 11:38 PM
2

Ask her to meet up sometime, then escalate.
/r/seduction27/08/12 11:33 PM
2

Short, tight skirt; a top that reveals but not too much; doing your hair in a way that compliments your facial features; and most importantly, smile. I'm a guy so I'm not sure how much that will help haha.
/r/seduction27/08/12 11:21 PM
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Hahaha don't want any surprise butt sex or anything!
/r/seduction27/08/12 01:11 AM
3

I think I see what the problem is. You honestly just want to get to know her, but you think that you should make out / f-close or whatever. Just do whatever you're comfortable with. If you want to get to know her better, spit your game then go for a # close. You can then set up a date for later.
/r/seduction26/08/12 02:44 AM
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Capitalize on those opportunities man! She had her hand on your thigh. Keep escalating and BAM! The thing is, regret hurts more than rejection, since rejection is final, but regret can pick away at you. Next time you're out, as Nike says, "Just Do It." You'll thank me.
/r/seduction26/08/12 12:30 AM
-2

Just make sure he knows you're not gay... Don't want any misunderstandings if you know what I mean.
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:35 PM
3

Great FR brother. Keep going out and finding success! It's not just rinse, lather, repeat. Every night is different, and definitely becomes what you make it. Women aren't alien my friend, quite the contrary. They're humans, just like you and I. Once you sort of grasp this concept, it's MUCH easier to have a more natural conversation.
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:21 PM
3

Just realized that too... Also had an epiphany of how often women shit test me as well...
/r/seduction19/08/12 02:11 AM
1

You're 100% correct. Ever since I've started reading up on this stuff, I've just been motivated to talk to more people and be more friendly in general. The tips about Inner Game have helped me immensely.
/r/seduction18/08/12 03:18 AM
2

Couldn't have said it better myself than you two did. I feel it's a part of Inner Game to feel complete with yourself before you start picking up. The #1 rule of Seddit I've come to realize is Inner Game over everything.
/r/seduction17/08/12 11:19 PM
2

Sounds good! Should have followed through when that HB 7 said you were getting laid haha. Glad you had a great learning experience. But persistence is key, so keep going out brotha!
/r/seduction17/08/12 10:30 PM
2

Any more information? We can't just go with what you said in the title man
/r/seduction17/08/12 10:27 PM
1

Go to there place? Or fuck em in the car bro! The places are endless
/r/seduction17/08/12 10:23 PM
1

I'd say just try to get over it. Practice, practice, practice. Also what do you mean by manifest themselves physically? If you give specific examples I might be able to help better. I have a stutter that I was born with, but I just keep knocking away at it and I get more fluent. Now I'd say I'm about 90% fluent, as opposed to 60% when I was a kid.
/r/seduction17/08/12 04:05 AM
2

It's not a bad thing, and I don't do it too often. Just every once in a blue moon. And I'm not 15 lol.
/r/seduction17/08/12 04:03 AM
9

We are here. You may not know it, but we are here. Watching, waiting, plotting. Writing FRs, commenting, upvoting.
/r/seduction16/08/12 05:46 PM
2

No problem man! If you keep to the 3 second rule, it'll eventually become a habit and you'll approach people 24/7.
/r/seduction15/08/12 09:23 PM
10

Sounds like an awesome experience! I'm glad you were able to circumnavigate your AA to have a great time! Recently I have gotten over some of my AA, but it will always be there. Think of the nervous feelings as a challenge, and capitalize upon them to approach girls. I've read about the 3 second rule, where once you see a HB, you have 3 seconds to approach. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. It's an unbreakable law, and if you choose the rule, you MUST abide by it. Good luck sir!
/r/seduction15/08/12 08:35 PM
3

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/r/seduction15/08/12 03:00 PM
1

Damn, that's a 14 year difference. She was only 4 when you graduated high school haha. But props to you!
/r/seduction13/08/12 05:04 AM
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