iTAMEi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	“I don’t sleep with guys on the first date” proceeds to sleep with me on the first date It’s very confident behaviour, not upset about sex being off the cards and then carry on having fun anyway without getting weird about it	/r/seduction	30/05/25 09:33 AM
1	“I don’t sleep with guys on the first date” proceeds to sleep with me on the first date Nah you don’t understand, the key is to really be accepting that you won’t get laid, you can’t fake it	/r/seduction	30/05/25 09:32 AM
4	“I don’t sleep with guys on the first date” proceeds to sleep with me on the first date “The economy grew 0.1% and is not in recession”	/r/seduction	29/05/25 11:31 PM
45	“I don’t sleep with guys on the first date” proceeds to sleep with me on the first date By respecting what they say and carrying on as you left off. Just an “okay no problem”. But you need to truly be okay with it, women are far better at reading people than men are. I’ve also had this happen multiple times and it hasn’t always led to sex but often it does. I think it builds trust and then they give themselves permission to go for it.	/r/seduction	29/05/25 11:28 PM
13	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? For me in theory I’d fuck anyone I find attractive. In reality I won’t put much effort in (and thus it probably won’t happen) unless I get on well with them. Seeing a prostitute has never appealed to me at all either.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 11:26 AM
5	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? Friend of mine said this week alone 5 guys have given her their phone numbers in the street. Says she’s not going to text any of them.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 11:21 AM
2	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? Yep me neither. I had to grow some balls and start putting myself out there.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 11:19 AM
20	I left my number for the cute waitress and she texted me "Heyyy". What do I do? While this is good advice I think a butthole pic would probably work even better to help stand out from the crowd.	/r/seduction	27/06/22 10:19 AM
12	If you fuck a guys friend will you lose interest in her? Yes I would completely lose interest. 1) Could cause trouble between friends 2) I'd probably assume you didnt really like me in the first place	/r/seduction	26/05/22 11:40 AM
10	[Opinion] Women aren't having a good time dating. Yeah I started putting actual effort into my appearance last summer and it’s made so much difference. I’m no leonardo Di caprio but I’m in a position to make choices now.	/r/seduction	24/02/22 12:44 AM
8	PSA: Hinge is the best dating app When I first used it I had this experience, but over time the algorithm has adjusted and it's now the best app for me	/r/seduction	22/02/22 12:55 PM
2	What can we learn from Pete Davidson? Lol why u mad bro	/r/seduction	18/02/22 05:58 PM
2	What can we learn from Pete Davidson? She had a boyfriend she hadn't told me about before the date. I'm getting laid regularly so I also literally don't care.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 02:09 PM
23	What can we learn from Pete Davidson? Congrats man happy for you. I went out with a woman recently who commented I’m the most secure person she’s ever met her in life and she respects me massively. Didn’t end up getting with her but that was cool to hear and it’s 100% that book that’s done it.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 12:46 AM
6	What can we learn from Pete Davidson? Kanye still has another level of fame though. My mother knows who Kanye is there’s no way she knows who Pete is.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 12:15 AM
7	What can we learn from Pete Davidson? I think so. There’s a lot of general mindset stuff which would be great for everyone.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 12:13 AM
71	What can we learn from Pete Davidson? I need to read it again. That book has transformed my life. It’s such a positive to approach to attracting women. Essentially be the best person you can be and don’t worry about others.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 12:07 AM
4	Why are the single mums more receptive? Depends on age for me. There's so many women in their 20s that don't have kids I don't see the need to go out with one. Not implying anything about them as people I just don't need kids in my life. I respect anyone who works hard to love and look after their children. However when I'm older probably will view things differently if I am single.	/r/seduction	11/02/22 07:05 PM
21	I dated an objective 9/10 girl for a year and now don't feel I'll ever get a girl that hot again. Need advice. Comparison is the thief of joy my friend	/r/seduction	11/02/22 10:22 AM
17	What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count? God damn I love girls	/r/seduction	03/02/22 12:34 AM
5	Any regular weed smokers here? > I'm down to smoke anytime Yes my G what a man	/r/seduction	27/01/22 11:48 PM
4	[deleted by user] Yeah I've got a few comedy podcasts I like to watch to get in a jokey mood	/r/seduction	14/01/22 07:49 PM
1	The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life. Yep really looking forward to it... dont want to catch AIDS though	/r/seduction	27/11/21 03:20 PM
2	The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life. Making socialising a priority in my life I suppose. If there’s an opportunity to meet new people I always take it. And also actively looking for social events. Could be anything, a yoga class, people in a pub to chat to etc., meeting friends of friends... Next week I’m going to an engagement party and the only person I’ll know is the groom. Previously I probably would have turned this down.	/r/seduction	27/11/21 11:28 AM
2	The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life. Come to England life is normal	/r/seduction	26/11/21 11:09 PM
17	The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life. Major turning point in my life when I realised this	/r/seduction	26/11/21 06:28 PM
2	The Absolute WORST ADVICE that I have EVER HEARD (and that you are told everyday) Had an acid trip this summer where I realised I just needed to actually fucking try. Lo and behold, things are now happening.	/r/seduction	13/11/21 01:16 PM
3	How to immediately get a date with a girl after a match? Do you live in a city? If it can be done fairly easily then yes it’s no big deal so doesn’t come off too strong	/r/seduction	09/11/21 01:03 AM
1	How much do you text when you've set a date? Maybe 2 or 3 texts a day but if I’m enjoying the conversation maybe more. Also try and set the dates up ASAP so that this isn’t much of an issue.	/r/seduction	08/11/21 12:30 AM
1	Lessons from 15 years of learning seduction: How to be attractive. Can confirm I know a few jacked fellas from the gym who are boring af. Nowhere near enough to just get muscles. It feels like people focus on this because it’s an easier fix to get women that actually being brave. Essentially, can I get jacked enough to not have to do anything. I think once you have big enough muscles that people generally regard you as “fit”, the benefits to attraction probably really level off. It’s made me realise I need to give general socialising probably an equal footing a…	/r/seduction	27/10/21 08:38 PM
1	Lessons from 15 years of learning seduction: How to be attractive. I know he’s not real but I’m so proud of Jose	/r/seduction	27/10/21 08:27 PM
5	[deleted by user] Something I find useful about dating apps is they keep my texting skills up.	/r/seduction	12/10/21 11:58 PM
1	How much easier was it for you to date upon moving out from living your parents? I’ve been living at home over the pandemic and had nothing going on romantically. Finally moved back out and it has taken me less than 4 days to get a date.	/r/seduction	26/09/21 09:23 AM
3	Do you talk to women in general? At some point I just get to feel like i've been speaking to too many dudes and get an itch to chat to the ladiez	/r/seduction	25/09/21 02:18 PM
10	Do you talk to women in general? Doesn’t become a crutch at all in my opinion. Helps get in the mood to socialise. And yeah the social proof thing too.	/r/seduction	25/09/21 01:45 PM
22	Do you talk to women in general? For me it's also about getting warmed up. On nights out and thinks I'll often start out talking to men as it's gets my sociability going with a bit less pressure.	/r/seduction	25/09/21 12:29 PM
1	It's crazy how important social circle and status is Yeah one thing in my life is I have a group of friends who live in the city I grew up. I’ve slept with a few of the girls in their friendship group that they’ve met since I left. There’s two more I’m convinced I could probably sleep with but they’re ex gfs of friends of mine at this point. I think me visiting and getting hyped up by everyone in the group has really really helped there.	/r/seduction	08/09/21 02:51 PM
1	Who Has It Harder In Dating, Men Or Women? Once you sleep with a girl it’s true - the dynamic totally flips	/r/seduction	06/09/21 03:59 PM
2	Who Has It Harder In Dating, Men Or Women? yeah not saying it's easy for everyone, more just commenting on the general dynamic	/r/seduction	06/09/21 01:54 PM
16	Who Has It Harder In Dating, Men Or Women? IMO men have it easier if they want a relationship, women have it easier if they just want casual sex.	/r/seduction	06/09/21 12:15 PM
3	I had ball cancer - here is what I learned As someone who's had TC, really sorry to hear that.	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/21 04:44 PM
6	I had ball cancer - here is what I learned I’ve had it too bro. Biggest thing I learned is gratitude. So blessed to be healthy 🙏	/r/TheRedPill	25/08/21 08:45 PM
6	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? I’ll generally just put a TV show on that basically everyone’s seen like the office. Sit down next to her and after a few minutes I’ll turn my head look up and down at her lips and eyes and usually they kiss me. The rest is history. Seen people saying about offering a drink, not really done that before but quite like the idea.	/r/seduction	22/08/21 11:48 PM
1	If you are friend zoned, but still have feelings, it’s always better to distance yourself until the feelings fade—or accept the friendship is over if the feelings don’t fade Idk still scratch my head thinking about that sometimes. Went from getting off with her and having deep chats about liking each other to “this isn’t happening let it go”. Think I too up front wanted a full on relationship which don’t think she wanted to launch into without trying dating. Plus I had zero game.	/r/seduction	21/08/21 07:45 AM
1	If you are friend zoned, but still have feelings, it’s always better to distance yourself until the feelings fade—or accept the friendship is over if the feelings don’t fade I cut contact on Sunday. Hardest thing I've ever done. Bit dramatic in all honestly. Just see her a lot less don’t have to make a big thing of it.	/r/seduction	20/08/21 11:50 PM
10	If you are friend zoned, but still have feelings, it’s always better to distance yourself until the feelings fade—or accept the friendship is over if the feelings don’t fade Call me fucking blue pilled but I do think it’s possible for people to just genuinely not want to lose a friend. I’ve been on both sides of it though and it just doesn’t work if one person has fell in love. Obvs I don’t know the exact situation here.	/r/seduction	20/08/21 04:17 PM
7	If you are friend zoned, but still have feelings, it’s always better to distance yourself until the feelings fade—or accept the friendship is over if the feelings don’t fade I was the boy in this situation when I was a teenager. After a short period where we would hook up at parties she rejected me and made it clear nothing would happen again. I gave up and we tried to stay friends but the feelings would come surging back every time I'd see her. The teenage infatuation was strong but I knew it was never gonna happen so it was just torture. Eventually I realised the only thing I could do is stop seeing her and just let the feelings fade over time. I do feel bad that …	/r/seduction	20/08/21 03:03 PM
1	Having hot platonic friend while trying to attract other girls I’ve had this happen. Had a mixed gender group of mates and two of the girls were pretty good looking. One night we were all on a night out and I pulled a random girl. She suggests going back to her place in the taxi on the way she’s grilling me about which of those girls I’ve fucked. I said none (the truth), and she refused to believe it and got really pissed off at me. We did not end up sleeping together. Literally only happened once though. I’ve pulled loads of times with them around and not …	/r/seduction	16/08/21 09:30 PM
7	Why dating apps can basically never work for LTR. Yep I know so many people who have met online - this sub is the “all the gear no idea” of dating Read the title and I was just like this is completely false	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/21 02:48 PM
10	Why dating apps can basically never work for LTR. Yep my sister got engaged at the weekend to a guy she met on tinder	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/21 12:57 PM
3	Why you don't do anything Ah that mythical balance. This is rare find on the internet.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/21 07:28 PM
1	Fortune favors the bold This is common	/r/seduction	29/01/21 12:00 PM
1	Fortune favors the bold That would be Northern England	/r/seduction	29/01/21 11:03 AM
2	Fortune favors the bold Northern Britain XD Do you mean fucking Scotland	/r/seduction	28/01/21 06:51 PM
3	How To Consistently Be In A Great Mood When You Go Out Idk man I learnt about it following one of the courses on the app a few years ago - search headspace visualisation or something	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/21 03:39 PM
94	How To Consistently Be In A Great Mood When You Go Out FYI this is a legit meditation technique - it’s taught on headspace	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/21 05:27 PM
7	As an average guy, when did you finally start getting girls you considered out of you leauge, and what did you do to achieve that? went to a good salon and got my hair cut by younger hot women (instead of a guy or old ladies). Fuck me this is a good shout. Been struggling so much to find a barbers I like.	/r/seduction	08/11/20 11:10 AM
0	Reminder: Keep Your Problems To Yourself This honestly reads like fan fiction	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/20 12:50 PM
1	Oneitis ruined me. Now the journey begins. Don’t even friendzone her best thing for you is to just never speak to her again, you’ll probably find she doesn’t give a fuck anyway and that’ll make you wake the fuck up.	/r/seduction	23/05/19 09:54 AM
1	Do I have a low sex drive? What is wrong with me? Trying giving up porn for a little bit and see what happens. I've massively cut down my usage of it and it's definitely made me more attracted to girls who aren't in the absolute top tier.	/r/seduction	01/01/19 01:43 PM
5	Women Are Like Children, With Examples She ruined his business for a birthday party?!? Wow I would not be able to control myself if a woman did that to me. Why on earth did she even have access to the business accounts? Did they run the business together or something?	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/18 01:41 AM
3	Becoming confident has been the best thing that's happened to me in the last 5 years Was the therapy private or through the NHS?	/r/seduction	12/07/18 12:43 PM
4	[X-Post] College guys of Reddit, would you rather be the "side or the main in a relationship? Who wants to be the fucking side? If it's literally just sex carry on but if you have feelings then fuck that	/r/seduction	08/10/17 07:00 PM
1	Friend zoned, is it permanent? Give up man you'll only torture yourself. Life is too short.	/r/seduction	31/08/16 01:11 AM