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| 1 | How will online dating survive SORA?Hahah well more of a personality mismatch to game in venues/public. If not i would not have had a lot of succes in OLD... sport :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How will online dating survive SORA?Hahah although i disagree with you from personal experience, i find it cool how different things can be seen from another perspective. I'll share my experiences regarding both forms of dating and give you counter arguments for your reasons. My personal experience has not been like that at all. Acumulating all my dating apps i had around 2000 to 2500 matches. Have spoken to the majority. Mind you obviously i ghosted sometimes or they ghosted me. That is just an online thing. I was catfished three… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How will online dating survive SORA?What makes it more fulfilling? Where i don't mind it more "fulfulling" doesn't cut it foe me tho. OLD makes it easier to see what is available and connect and filter people that you match or don't match with. Almost no playing games or investing hours into a person just so that they say: "it was nice flirting, but i actually have a boyfriend. Thanks for the drinks tho." 😂. All in all my OLD dating experience has been a 1000 times better than meeting random people in person. Then again maybe it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 03:29 PM |
| 16 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?Do what makes you happy bro. I lived like that for quite some years and don't regret it. Currently dating a cool girl. We both come from work. Fire up our xboxes and tv's which are next to each other lol. Chat, cook together and game together. Then sleep and repeat. Sometimes going out to do fun stuff. You don't have to be all over the place to enjoy life. Just do what you think is fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesThat is why i did coffee dates ot a drink and nothing more on the first date. If a woman would say she would like to eat somewhere nice, i'd ask if she is taking me out. I would without saying it upfront obviously offer to pay or split later on. If she insisted it was my job as a man to pay first, i would gladly decline the offer and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menJust go for it. I'm not a BBC, but i'm hispanic (regular build lol). Have had invitation to have sex with a guy his wife while he watched. I did it a couple of times lol. Just do it, just another story to tell when you're drinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Would you date a man who has slept with 100 women?That is the most non-sensical thing i have ever heard. I'm an introvert at hear. Have not seen a club since i was 26, i barely drink and don't do drugs. Had LTR's till i was about 23. Then i said fuck it, this is not working i'm going to become a ho, around age 24/25 i actively sought casual sex. At 32 now, my bodycouny is 150 (i keep track). Never have i drugged a woman, i never have sex with women who i have the impression that they don't know what they do. I never manipulate women as i believ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 11:06 AM |
| 2 | The only men who truly benefit from modern dating culture are the tip top percentile of menJeez stop with the self pity.. I'm 174 centimeters tall which is like what.. 5"7/8?.. I'm nowhere near rich lol and i'm not hung like a horse and guess what. I still get attention, get numbers, have new women on rotation (young up to milf/cougars). It's about how you present yourself and your confidence. Heck i have dated women that are 5 inches taller than me without heels. Stop with the limiting self beliefs and have fun with people, flirt, laugh, be the guy they want to be with and don't be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Women are actively repelled by genuinely kind men no matter how attractive they are, and rather consistently go for toxic men who mistreat them. This entire issue has been hijacked and obfuscated by them fabricating this bullshit “nice guy” narrative.Woman are repulsed by yes-men and men who ignore their own desires and lack selfrespect. I'm known as a kind guy, but i have my boundaries. I attract enough women while not being toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 12:29 PM |
| 13 | Why aren’t we as harsh on promiscuous men as promiscuous women?It does, yes. In the end happyness for one man does not equal happyness for another man. I enjoy my freedom. I enjoy chatting up multiple women and having sex with multiple women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 06:21 PM |
| 21 | Why aren’t we as harsh on promiscuous men as promiscuous women?Women can get sex easier, thus it's nothing special... Us men on the other hand have to be on top of our game to be able to get consistent sex from a variety of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.You can look at it on your way or biologically speaking... Because if you look at it from the animal kingdom perspective, you'll see that only the males who demonstrate certain traits (confidence, outgoing, cheeky, going for what they want) ensure that the offspring keeps living. Those are apparently traits those men have in common. Where as the more chill oud male is probably a bit shy, not as confident, don't really go for what they want. You see, women don't look for partner that are socially… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Men today act so feminineHow much do you cost? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Men today act so feminineWell i make sure the women that i'm with orgasm, that is why they come back and i have different FWB's and Fuckbuddy's. I don't risk pregnancy, i do risk my money getting leeched off if she decides to keep it. So we're about the same. She has the option to abort the baby, i don't have the option to not pay child support. Death?, i can get robbed, stabbed or get jumped if i go to meet a woman. Murder and rape, yeah sure.. will me paying her dinner make her have less chance of getting raped?. Loss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Men today act so feminineHaha i know right. This is the issue women have. Thinking their time or body is more precious than ours. We're in the same boat baby. If we like each other let's go. Your time is as valuable as mine, but women seem to hate that view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 09:59 AM |
| 9 | Men today act so feminineMy own body.. because you see, she isn't doing me a favor.. we're doing each other a favor and i don't need to pay for her time as i'm investing my own precious time. If she thinks she is worth more than me, i'll swap her out for another woman. Easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Men today act so feminineMen used to pay because women weren't allowed to work. We live in 2023, not the 1600's. Grow up and pay your share as some of you like to freeload free meals and activities and have nothing else to offer except your body. I only pay for women that i seriously date. Also never do more expensive dates if we startes dating, she has to earn that. Complaining? Haha sure thing sugar tits. I play videogames and have my fulltime job. I use it to relax from my stressfull job. While gaming i'm being socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?Would probably invite myself over to her place to smash. Try to set her up for regular smashes.. but still avoiding to date her seriously lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 07:50 AM |
| – | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.I was out before she finished the sentence lol. I'm not about that life 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.Why would i lie? People can be brutally honest if you're also really honest and open. Maybe it's also difference in culture (western Europe). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 01:20 AM |
| 9 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.I know right? She then felt insulted, that i didn't want to date her seriously lol. I said why would i want that? Her: "Well you get me! I can cook and clean and i'm fun.. also i love sex!" Me: Well.. i can cook and clean myself.. so don't need a woman for that. Why not add me to your roster of guys you fuck and you search for another guy that is willing to put in all the effort. Her: Well no. You can pick, it's you date me seriously or nothing. Me: Then i guess we part ways. Then i deleted her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:58 PM |
| 27 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.For me personally it's because some women see it as two options. I have had this convo occur once in a while. I meet a woman, we talk and hit it off. I'm not searching for a LTR and i'm open about it. Woman then says: "Oh.. but i already have one/two fuckbuddy's so no need for a third.. i'm however open to date you seriously." I then feel offended because my reasoning is as follows. I have to put in effort to get you in the bed. As the guy that would presumably seriously date her, i have to deal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Well then you think it's not true. Cool 😁. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Well you believe it or not, it's up to you.. and honestly i con't care what a guy from the internet thinks of me. Have a good one 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Well lives has ups and down pal. As of now my illness is under control... so life is been a lot better ;). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 02:37 PM |
| 18 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Hmm bitter, maybe. I'll tell you my story. From my 10 to 18/19 years. Girls/women didn't like me It was like they collectively hated and/or were disgusted by me. Obviously it was due to me being fat, insecure, timid and a nerd. However i didn't deserve to be treated like that. I never spoke or said weird things to them. I just minded my own business. Yet women would go out of their way to make sure i knew that they were disgusting just by me existing and minding my own business. Never felt kindn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 11:31 AM |
| 1 | If you walked into a room with 100 people of the opposite gender, all of them are single and around your age, how many of them do you think would want to go on a date with you?Depends! I do pretty well on tinder and on the streets.. i would say.. maybe 30? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.True, so is a man his heart. I just depends on your perspective. If you want to go out and eat? Sure let's split then. For me it's about the effort a woman puts in. Her showing up is not enough, because well.. so do i. Her not going out with someone else is also not enough, because she's not the only one with choices. A drink is something low key, not expensive that i'm willing to dish out. Same for activities. Tons of women brag about doing/eating/drinking for free at the expense of men.. and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:13 PM |
| -1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Golddiggers/meal free loaders still give in if you're cool enough.. They say women fall in love with their ears.. men with their eyes. Oh well.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:57 PM |
| -1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Hahah why you mad that i have found the loophole? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:34 PM |
| -3 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.You are never going to be able to change this my friend... However, a nice trick is to NEVER take a woman out to eat on first/second dates if you're serious. A drink somewhere is cheap, you still pay and she is happy. Oh yeah and if she insists on doing dinner dates, try and seduce her anyway without going on said date. Pump and dump her. Ho's need to learn their place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 12:08 PM |
| -5 | My observations with guys who pull womenWhy do you run out of things to say? | /r/seduction | 17/07/23 06:01 AM |
| 89 | My observations with guys who pull womenAn addition if i may be so free to do so. Use your strenghts, accentuate them. My strenghts are being cheeky/playful, direct, have a deep voice and my passion for my job and i would say i'm a pretty good in sustaining conversations. Me weaknesses are club/dance game and basically anything very outgoing extroverted. Last 3 weeks i pulled 9 cuties (mostly online game) being direct, chatting, getting the number, calling (deep voice) in combination with cheeky banter. Don't be afraid to slip up and … | /r/seduction | 16/07/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?I have been slaying it since early/mid twenties and it's only getting better. It was terrible when i was age 14 - 20 (i was overweight and insecure as fuck). Now i'm getting higher quality women, both younger and older. I'm more confident of who i am. I'm a single 32 y.o. male with no kids. In my country some status due to my job and have had some appearances on social media and going to have a part in a small documentary, which will air soon. For me, yes definately. I also expect to keep slayin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?Relationships are a two way street. A woman who doesn't put in the effort isn't worth it. If you're a man who has choices, then well, get you a better woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?If she is a good woman, she will obviously do the same. It's a two way street in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:56 AM |
| 5 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?Playing video games is childish?. Cause looking at "reality tv" is such a nice and adult thing. It's because after a while the spark is gone. They do nothing to appreciate the woman. Stop dating her, stop courting her, essentially stop making her feel like a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if your daughter became a sugar baby?I would probably disown her. If she is willing to put the family name and honor to shame. That's it. OnlyFans, sugar baby, escort/prostitution, nah i would have raised you better than that. Probably the reason that if i ever have kids, i would prefer not to have a daughter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Truly how important is “masculinity” to women?But the way you look can also make someone feel some type of way. I'm not tall i'm 5"7 or 5"8?/173 centimeters tall in a country with the tallest people (The Netherlands). While some women do not give me a chance because of my length (which is ok) i do have a deep voice and i'm built stocky/muscular. Women do tend to say that they love my deep voice and frame...does help that i have a pretty face.. or so they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:30 PM |
| – | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?Spend all the time you want on everything you want to do. Spend all your money on things that matter to you. Have sex with (many) different women No need to go to obligatory social/family gatherings that aren't directly tied to your own social circle and family. No to argue/have discussions over trivial stuff Arrange your household on your own terms. No need to take anyone their feelings or actions into account when doing something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 11:01 AM |
| -3 | There is no hook up cultureNo brag here, but i have enough women on rotation. Since my 23 till now (32) only dated seriously for a couple of months. Women do get nasty, just not with everyone.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 08:52 AM |
| 3 | If it's insulting that someone wants you after they've had their fun in their youth, would it be even more insulting if they still didn't want you?Sugar babies are a waste of money, you're better off hiring a prostitute/escort instead of giving a woman money just for how she looks. Make her work for it ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 09:53 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think there is so much anger towards promiscuous women?As someone that has been around. Male 32, around 140 - 150 women i have slept with. Anger no def not, respect yeah but to a certain point?. I would never date a virgin woman because i don't want to go through the hassle of learning her everything and such.. but i also would never like to date a woman that has been around. FOR ME personally it's about shame, status and pride. Having a woman on your side that has been used up, has been dominated by countless other men, which other men have nude pi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Older women have different kind of insecurities. But funny how your experience is so different from mine. When i was 17, i couldn't relate AT ALL with women my age. It felt like they were from a different universe lol. I could always have fun and good vibes with older women.. them again, they often said i had an old soul, so maybe that's why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?When i was between the ages of 21 and 30 i noticed the older women were always more prone to chat me up and get dirty with me. I'm talking ages 35 up to 50 even. As to the younger counterparts or around my age.. i often felt i could never really connect that well to them. Now that i'm 32 i'm getting old as well 🤣. Anyway i have never found younger women to be easier though. In my experience they tend to be more complicated and often overcomplicated.. which to me is a turn off. My view is that yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Does the past matter? Talking about sexual historyBut for me it's not a matter of being good enough. It's a matter of respect for herself and her view on sex. Personally i know i wont be the biggest guy she's been with or the wildest or whatever... i don't care about that, i try to be the best lover a woman had through communication and understanding. I just don't want my woman to be used up in the form of a gangbang lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Does the past matter? Talking about sexual historyWhy is that insecurity? That someone has a different view on something does not make them insecure. For me it's a sense of pride. A woman is someone who you can be proud of having her on your side. If my woman got gangbanged by 5 guys and used as a cumbucket.. i can't be proud of her. More power to you if you're able to see through that, it's just not for me. Other side of it, is i don't want my girl to be a virgin or some shit like that. Sure she could of have enjoyed her life a bit and screwed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Question about how body count and status works.Women don't know, unless you have made a name for yourself or tell it yourself but that is cringe. I am (unfortunately) known as the player from my work. Women, without telling me say to me i have a fuckboy vibe. I'm flirty. Women say: "I bet you have enough women right?." Or say: "You're attractive, so i know i'm not the only one i talk to." Also, if you have sex with a woman and they talk with other women, they know how you are and word can spread. Some are disgusted by the fact that i used to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:58 PM |
| 18 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?Currently between the 130 and 140 bodies. Was a failure in the beginning. No woman would look at me. Started working on myself, big time!. Without trying to come off as an asshole. I got pretty ripped, everything went smooth. Had to get a burner phone for my bootycalls/fwb's, because my regular phone would blow up. At first i felt on top of the world, after a while i did notice it also brought me bad vibes. I used to see women as objects i could throw away when used. No respect towards them. Did… | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 04:35 AM |
| 0 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.Why is it shallow? I guess the difference is in the fact that men and women are of equal value, but the things that they do or have to do to have certain value are different. For example. Men aren't given the time of day in the dating scene. I know quite some men that can't get laid unless they go to sexworkers. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Sex is readily available at every moment at their whim. I'm currently dating a girl and she showed me how her facebook and instagram looked like. Every,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:04 AM |
| 4 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.It is in one way hypocritical. I mean i have in the 3 digits of women i slept with. I mean, i love women that sleep around, because hey.. i love sex with women.. and they sleep around with me. However what people seem to fail to see is that even though we're the same value as people, different things give us that said value, and that is subjective to everyone. I would gladly vibe and have sex with as much attractive women as i can.. i would however not want my girlfriend, which i need to be prou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?First off my job. I lead by example of posting very sexual photo's would not do me good. Second, due to illness my body has deterorioated.. so not really THAT hot anymore. I used to post pics of me working out, tighter shirts, bulking arms, but no nudes. Cause i knew it would get attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Confused about how open and emotional guys are expected to be?It can be a turn off if your too vulnurable too quickly or too late. You have to hit the sweetspot. You have to know when you have build certain rapport when you can show more deep stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.Interesting read!. I recently hit it off with a woman that is into such stuff.. while i'm a bit on the fence about it. I like rough (sometimes) but not all the time. She told me she likes getting abused, bruised, bitten, scratched and has rape fantasy. In her own words "nothing scares me, you can take it as far as you want." I'm really not into such stuff that gives bruises and a lot of pain... but i asked her how she got into it. She told me when she was single in her wild phase, met guys who w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 08:36 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men should pursue serial monogamy, not casual sex.Yeah well that is just your opinion. I used to have flings from age 23 - 32, with some LTR's in between, learned a lot.. now dating a reallh cool woman. So there is no guideline, life live how you want!. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 11:10 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.I would have to disagree with this. This will be a long read, but hopefully it can motivate at least one man to make a change and experience what i experienced. I used to be a VERY insecure, almost obese, small teen (5"4?7) in a country where the average male is 6"1) I used to have social anxiety, breaking out in sweat when talking to people. Afraid to look people in the eyes. Barely able to speak up. I was (still am) an avid gamer, that back then only had male friends. When my friends were 14/1… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 10:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV:We should raise men like women or men more emotional.Men commit 90 percent of violent crime,rape,murder,kidnaps,financial extortion,robbery,accidents by DUI,physical assault etc.Difficult to say what part does have a bigger factor. I work at the Dutch National Police. We invest in the troubled youth with a lot of different organizations in order to have an appropriate approach to them so they stop committing crimes. They teach us what drives the youth and/or men to commit more crimes. Mind you, there will always be men that are more prone to violence and or/crimes due to how they're wired. But also men that due to socialization are more prone. Combine the both and make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV:We should raise men like women or men more emotional.Men commit 90 percent of violent crime,rape,murder,kidnaps,financial extortion,robbery,accidents by DUI,physical assault etc.If i remember correctly, men are more prone to commit crimes due to having testosterone. Combine that with a bad social economic position, bad parenting, bad living situation, no hope in sight to have a good job/education and having a low IQ.. that is the perfect storm for men to commit crimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Women complain that men are too influenced by porn, but women are more influenced by romance novels/TV showsI like the orgasm gap.. because as someone who is a giver, i can let women enjoy sex with me and make them come back for more lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Im a woman who like traditional relationships with masculine and dominant men but there are simply not a lot of these types of men out thereI guess i would be quite dominant in bed and for like 70/80% of the relationship. However, i'm not willing to be a provider in the sense that because i'm the man, i pay for everything, while the woman keeps her entire salary lol. The "sub" women i met, had the view that the man should always pay for everything because that was the dominant thing to do. Basically becoming leeches while i as a man would work for them to spend my money and they just repay me with sex and company, no thanks. I can g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 09:49 AM |
| 4 | Is it better to be hook-up material but not relationship material, or the other way around?I'm guy #1 here. By a long shot not some sort of a-type celeb looks type, but i do pretty well. It really depends on what you in want life. If you want to settle down, find a life partner, have a stable life and have children then my life is not for you. Although some women do want a relationship with me, the majority see me as a guy just to have fun with. My whole personality and view of myself is that i'm the guy that fucks them and after a while they settle down with some other guy when they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How are there enough high value men for all of the women who feel entitled to them?They wont. I have seen quite some women settling for men that were initially not attracted to, just because they're getting too old to start a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 01:08 PM |
| 2 | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Honestly no. Might be due to attachment issues from my youth or because i genuinly like being a lone wolf in that aspect of life. I don't know why i feel like this and if the feelings i have are really me or damaged me thinking and feeling. (as i don't know different). I like the chase and the thrill of the "hunt". The question i'm asking myself right now is why i think like this. So i actually for the first time ever made an appointment at the psychologist to see if i need to be healed. As of n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 11:50 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).I'm 32 and you'd be amazed what age range still messes with fuckboys like me 18 - 45. They know we won't offer them what they're looking for (stability/comfort/kids/cohabitation/marriage). After a while women get tired of having fun and they search for relationship material. That's when we both move on. I have actually known quite some women that tried to lock me up, whilst complaining about other guys hitting on them for a relationship. Even guys they said they didnt find attractive/annoying, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:43 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).In a sense yes, in another sense no. For me? Doing pretty damn well with the ladies. In my country i have a cool job that pays a little above average. Emotionally not able to connect due to trauma. But i'm funny en enthousiastic about life in general. I can give women a good time. In a long shot i would say if i had a daughter i wouldn't want her to meet a guy like me. Even though i'm honest with my intentions. I'm a total fuckboy but i'm open about it. Yet women still seem to hang out with me a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:27 PM |
| -1 | What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for.Is that so? I'm one of the few single guys left from my friends group. In my experience, whilst it might be biased, i meet a lot of single women online and offline and they seem to be in a hurry to settle. Often being mean to me for not sharing their same ideals. While i cheer them on and wish them luck in their search for love, family and kids, they often become very mean for me just saying i like being single and not having the urge to settle down, co-habitate and have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 12:03 PM |
| 5 | What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for.You're part of the minority. As am i. Every couple of years i meet a woman and think.. hmm why not try it. We hit it off but eventually, very gradually, i feel like i have almost no breathing room left. Eventually the arguements start: "You don't want to spend time with me? Because i want to spend every second i can with you." Uhm no? 2/3 days is more than enough for me. Eventually more arguements and i always end up resenting the relationship, only for me to start the cycle over again in a coup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 11:55 AM |
| – | Are the only men who care about n count are men with low or no n count?Good luck with your wife who got used by half the town bro. Sincerely a guy with a solid n count. Call me hypocrite, such is life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Do women care about the type of job you have?Not enterily true. Although i'm probably going to get downvoted due to my job. I'm a cop in an European city. Pay is regular, but still can live comfortably. When women hear i'm a cop, quite some few tend to show more interest. I recall entering a house party, getting there and was almost invisible.. until someone said: "Yoo, you're that cop that was on Instagram right?." I just said yeah. Immediately some women showed a LOT of interest. Whenever i tell what i do women their views of me tend to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.To men obviously and i know quite some men that think that way and since i am a man, i see value in that. A woman that sleeps around with everyone i respect but will never wife. A man that has to go through the entire hassle of looking good, having game, working on confidence, style, ambitions. A woman just has to exist and some workout to look even better. That in itself is no achievement at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.It's not that white or black. I don't mind if she had fun, as i said i don't want a virgin. But i also don't want a woman who has been ravaged by a lot of men. Example. If she had some commited relationships and then had a period of having fun. Sure go ahead. I wouldn't want to be that loser dating the woman that went around town having sex with tons of guys. I would be the sucker that also gets the hassle instead of all the goodies. Me having to court her, wine and dine her, all that hassle, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.To each their own right?. A lot of women don't mind that much.. as oppossed to men. In the end being happy with the choices you made is what counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.Well some women actually rejected me for having a high N count and i'm okay with that. However due to the psychological differences we have, for some reason quite some women know that i'm a womanizer and show more interest.. And for me it's not the same. Men have to make way more effort to get laid than woman, thus it has more value if a man is able to succeed in doing so as oppossed to a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men.It depends on how you look at it. Men and woman are the same but also different. Woman have easier access to sex as oppossed to men. I know a lot of guys who don't get laid as to the women that i know, that can have lots of partners if they want. I guess this will be and old discussion i guess. As for me, not to brag. I have a three digit n count (beginning of three digits). I have had enough options, i have lived my fantasies and done some pretty crazy stuff. I enjoyed doing these crazy and fun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Those of you who participate(d) in “hookup culture,” do you think it has benefited you or harmed you overall?Emotional damage (insert meme/gif) 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Those of you who participate(d) in “hookup culture,” do you think it has benefited you or harmed you overall?I had zero confidence. Social anxiety.. i would start breaking out in sweat when people spoke to me. I was very overweight. Afraid to look people in the eye and speak up. I started working out.. A LOT. became a bodybuilder and let my body do the work at first, then worked on my personality and confidence. Then balanced it out. Now i would say i'm pretty balanced. I know who i am as a person. What i want, what i need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 03:46 AM |
| 22 | Those of you who participate(d) in “hookup culture,” do you think it has benefited you or harmed you overall?It has benefited AND harmed me at the same time. I went from hero to zero. From not being able to even get a convo to slaying in the triple digits. Benefits: - Gave me a lot of confidence - Way more experienced in bed - Gave me the skills to socialize and flirt with women - Gigantic ego boost when i started getting a lot of slays - Met some really cool women - Made most of my sexual fantasies come true - All in all changed my view from negative to positive. Harmed me: - Find it difficult to trus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingNah, if i have time i'll respond. If i'm working a dangerous job (which i do), i don't have the time to be on my phone whenever they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingYeah i know, hence the reason i didnt date those women seriously and didn't mind them leaving or disliking me for not comforming to their views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingLet me explain it completely. It was either they barely respond and i put in a lot of energy for half assed answers because: "men should take the lead in the conversations." Or I would just send a hey, how are, going to work now so talk to you in the evening when i'm done. (And i'd answer her questions and ask some back to reas after work). Then i'd get called and texted non stop. Angry texts as to how i dare to not answer within the hour. So i got myself a burner phone which i put on flight mod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingSending a message doesn't always mean you can chat for hours on end. People have social lives, work and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women open themselves to more danger when being "nice" in rejection rather than being honestIt's the fault of us/some men for reacting that way. I have never gotten angry with women when rejecting me. Moreso, complimented them after i asked them why and to be upfront. After they told me the true reason(s), i had some more small talk and nice convo, wished them the best of luck and left/deleted them from my messenger app. Some even send me some messages afterwards that they thought it was really cool, how i reacted so calm and mature. I guess some men feel entitled to stuff, just becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingBecause after i would start the convo, they would all start responding and checking if i was online. If i was online and didnt respond immediately, they did initate discussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingIn my experience a lot of women are just plain bad at the dating game. Sure they decide if the man has a chance, but that is it. A lot of women that can barely hold interesting conversation, don't have hobby's besides watching television and 'reality"-shows and clubbing. Expecting men to do the majority of the courting. I too have had a lot of success with the oppossing gender (i'm male). Had a burner phone due to all the messages i would get from the women. A lot of women just want the man to l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Does giving women less attention work?Yes and no. I'm more introverted by nature, so i tend not to talk to strangers that much. I've had women tell me after some months/years that they though i was mysterious and interesting because i didn't chase them. I've also had women tell me after months/years that they thought i was attractive and interesting, but just let it be, because i never gave any signals.of interest or hardly gave any attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 09:55 AM |
| 13 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?I gave up on traditional dating due to those kind of expectations yes. Women i met, expected me to be top tier provider, but they only provided their body to me and a lot of headache, mindgames and irrational nonsense. I'll pass on that, thank you very much. Before i met my current gf, the only dates i had were sexdates, couldn't even be bothered to go sit and have a drink as i thought that was a waste of time.. I can't even recall when the last regular date i had was. I was lucky however that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?175cm which i think is.. 5"6/7? Right? I am a minority in a country with the tallest people. Males tend to be 6" or 6"1 on average. 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 08:57 PM |
| 8 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?Women are far more superficial and nasty than they tend to show. When i was ripped and muscular, the amount of crazy things that happened made my jaw drop. I could behave like an asshole and still get laid within a couple of hours of chatting, without having to go on actual dates. Some women actually opened the convo's with VERY sexuals comments. Several women literally told me in different ways: "Hey, you mind if i come over and just blow you? Or you fuk me?." Women on the street would make ina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 11:35 AM |
| 5 | What do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are these desires different from eachother?I guess women want comfort, trust and acceptance.. But men want it as well. Men and women are different, but also the same if you understand what i mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveIt's also not just the online part. I have known quite some women that like to make fun of men who approach them. I would be hanging out with them, a guy whom they knew would try and hit on her. She would reject him in my presence in a subtle way After the man left, she would proceed to gossip about the guy in question. Showing texts and pictures that he sent her. You better believe i'm not the only guy she tells this to, this goes round through all her friends. This happened so many times that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveI agree with some things but not all!. I will give you the introvert speech. I would be seriously F'ed if there were not any dating apps. I rarely approached women face to face as i'm not much of a talker to people that i don't know. Even when women approached me, i was busy doing my stuff (either working out, working or with friends and hanging out with THEM). So i subconciously shut down the convo, don't know i get hit on, don't feel like flirting. I also don't date at work (don't shit where y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are afraid of dating and marrying single mothers because they could be on the hook to pay child support for children that aren't theirs if the relationship endNot true. Before i met my current gf who has two kids, i had a burner phone with enough women to date/FWB's and ONS's with. MY reason for dating my current gf is that she understands me as a person and we vibe well. ALSO she already has kids, went through the whole living together and raising a family type thing. I am not such a man, i don't like the idea of cohabitating and don't want kids of my own. ALSO, I am capable of having my own children, BUT i don't like the idea and responsibilities th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 12:39 PM |
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