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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | And she's STILL marrying him after HOW long??? | NAH, SIS | i_am_jacks_dharma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 08:12 PM |
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| 3 | HVM prefer monogamous relationshipsA good friend of mine has engaged in various poly arrangements throughout the years (sometimes the primary partner, sometimes the secondary etc), and she says it is easily the most drama-filled relationship model possible by default. My additional take is that it also precludes true intimacy with any one partner, breadth over depth. It's a way to codify being a fuckboy/fuckgirl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 07:08 PM |
| 11 | How do you perceive big d*ck energy?"Haunted" is the best descriptor, and I empathize entirely with that experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 06:11 PM |
| 37 | Positive stories of finding a HVM or enjoying singlehood?Puttering is the greatest joy I never knew I could have. +1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 01:12 AM |
| 65 | Positive stories of finding a HVM or enjoying singlehood?Was previously married for a decade, been divorced four years now. When I don't have my kids I can meet up with friends or have a solo day out as I please. If I want to spend a day in quiet solitude organizing my house, there are no disruptions. Or if I want to stay in listening to random podcasts and junky pop music there is no one sulking in the background critiquing it (my ex was/is the epitome of a killjoy.) Another bonus I wasn't expecting: I have so much more support and community now as a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 01:10 AM |
| 23 | Positive stories of finding a HVM or enjoying singlehood?How did you meet your fiancé? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:37 AM |
| 47 | Positive stories of finding a HVM or enjoying singlehood?Love that your husband is still being assessed a decade in 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:36 AM |
| 7 | 63 year old scrote with 38 year old woman expecting a 7th child together 🤢🤢. Good luck sis!Not saying Alec doesn't deserve to be put on blast, but let's not forget this woman LIED about her heritage, her upbringing, and even had a fake accent for a while. She's the ultimate PickMe, so of course she's going to fulfill his "I'm going to build a family I can die on before shit gets real into the teenage years." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 05:12 PM |
| 43 | This is what it's like in a HV relationship. 💖Just to offer a counterpoint (or maybe a caveat) from my own experience: for this set up to have a chance at success, both "givers" need to have strong boundaries and self-love that are often the result of hard learned lessons that recovering from toxic dynamics with "takers" create. When a giver is still acting from a place of proving their worth based on what they can provide, being up close and personal with another giver can feel alien and uncomfortable. The motives that create a giver don't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 02:25 AM |
| 5 | To all you mamas out there…Thank you 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 01:56 AM |
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