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i_never_get_mad/r/seduction25/04/16 04:47 AM
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This is not a med sub. You clearly have a medical issue, whether it’s physical or mental. If you are looking for a solution, I think it’s better to see different doctors and therapists.
/r/seduction14/03/21 04:57 AM
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You mean, ask her out?
/r/seduction25/02/21 05:56 AM
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I wish that policy is up to me to make. But it’s not.
/r/seduction25/02/21 05:55 AM
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Thanks. I guess what I do from now will determine whether it could evolve to something flirty versus remain as best work buddies. We’ve done a small high five, but considering the pandemic, physical touch is still a big no no in the office. I’ll need to see what I can do about step one of that dicarlo stuff
/r/seduction25/02/21 04:59 AM
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I don’t always do that, but I think that’s a very good way of thinking. That mindset put you as the protagonist in your world.
/r/seduction16/01/21 04:55 AM
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A lot of adults don’t act like adults. It’s not limited to “young” adults. A lot of things are going on here. Some of What’s happening is that a lot of people grew up in a family that teaches the idea of “men are the decision makers in the family and women must be submissive”. This gives an anxiety to men when they aren’t able to make decisions due to lack of response from the other side and/or disrespect the decision from the other side. At the same time, that tradition doesn’t teach women to m…
/r/seduction16/01/21 03:05 AM
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But I think it’s worth noting that the person may not have an alternate date on the spot. What I do is just “let me know when you are free” and forget about her. Most serious people get back to me with an alternate date on the spot or pretty soon. I think the point is to give them the ball. We are dealing with adults. Adults are supposed to be able to make decisions.
/r/seduction16/01/21 01:53 AM
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I honestly have no clue what you are talking about. Sometimes I write things only to realize that the entire conversation is not worth the time, so I delete them. So it might be great which deleted comment you are referring to
/r/seduction11/01/21 09:35 PM
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Wait, what it what I want to say is “you are so beautiful”? Am I not being honest?
/r/seduction11/01/21 05:32 PM
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Lol this is the second dumbest thing I’ve read all day.
/r/seduction11/01/21 05:30 PM
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What do you expect from a person who learned his idea of intimate interaction from porn?
/r/seduction11/01/21 05:28 PM
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Wanna be a salesperson for my company? I have an amazing product that sells so easily. I’m just out of hands. The thing is that you have to buy 200 units at $1k per price. But don’t worry! You can easily sell each one for $2k. You are making a ton of money. It’s an easy sell, too.
/r/seduction04/11/20 09:53 PM
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When did I ever say no sex?
/r/seduction23/10/20 02:47 PM
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If you think seduction only means getting laid, you have a lot to work on in terms of maturity.
/r/seduction23/10/20 02:31 PM
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Is this sub only about sleeping with women?
/r/seduction23/10/20 01:14 PM
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Is your post specific to online dating? If then, yeah, ghosting is not a guaranteed sign that it’s a hard no. It wouldn’t hurt to ask. But in general, without the whole pandemic, people may not want to say no in your face. It’s very common for people to do soft reject by being non responsive (or responsive but minimal). One should be able to read the scene and give them a safe space. Just say “here is my number. Hit me up if you are interested in meeting up this weekend” and then move on.
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:04 PM
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Your post is half baked. While you shouldn’t give up so easily, please respect boundaries. When someone says no, that means no, and you should move on. When someone shows discomfort, please create distance. Learn to move on and learn to pick up signs. Not everyone is comfortable at saying no. We all wish we could, but everyone is different. Don’t think consistent knocking will somehow work every time. Accepting rejection is difficult, but it is a critical lesson that everyone must learn. You are…
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:52 PM
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I agree. Everyone talks about how to approach, but no one ever talks about how to handle rejection. “You are a huge pussy for considering.” And then “got rejected? Deal with it” Rejection is often a trigger for a lot of rapists. It’s not just a simple process.
/r/seduction14/08/20 02:31 PM
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I think the point is that the “nice guy” label should be given by others, rather than yourself. Sure, you can do nice things to make yourself feel like you are a nice guy, but you don’t have to announce it. If you do nice things, because you think those are right things to do, kudos to you and nothing is wrong with that. But don’t do that because you want to be a nice guy and that’s what you think the nice guys do and don’t tell others that you are a nice guy. Do things that you think is right, …
/r/seduction14/08/20 02:23 PM
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Also remember that the opposite is also acceptable. Not wanting or being interested in sex is perfectly acceptable. Don’t argue or push someone into having sex just because it’s “natural”
/r/seduction10/08/20 06:45 PM
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True. It’s just a matter of how one practices and/or expresses that desire.
/r/seduction10/08/20 06:42 PM
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Have you considered perhaps those people are abusing the idea of mental illness? Have you ever talked to a therapist for mental health issues? I’m guessing not, because the very first thing you do is talking about your past. That reveals the root cause of whatever mental health issues you have. It’s like any field of medicine. Let’s say you have allergic reactions. Would you just take benedryl, or would you try to find what you are allergic to?
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:38 PM
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No one is ever excusing the behavior. Knowing the root cause of the symptom gives the next step for recovery.
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:24 PM
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No one ever said mental health is an excuse. It’s a reason. One could never fix the issue without knowing the root cause.
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:08 PM
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It is a mental health issue. But not every mental health issues need external intervention. The ones you are talking about are self controllable. The dude in article clearly needs intervention. Think of it as a paper cut vs sword cut. Paper cut can be self medicated. Sword cut needs a surgeon to stitch up. One’s lack of ability to control is a sign of mental health issue. Is it an excuse? No. But is it a reason? Yes.
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:07 PM
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Body language is a language. We often forget that when we learn a spoken language. If language barrier prevents a good relationship, could deaf people not have a good relationship? It’s tougher, because you aren’t used to other forms of communications, but it’s certainly doable. After all, what prevents you guys from learning each other’s language?
/r/seduction03/01/20 04:22 PM
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It’s not black and white, but what you can do is black and white. You can’t make the decision for the other person. You offer something, and if that doesn’t work out, you let the other person make the decision. Hey, wanna meet up tomorrow No, I’m busy. Okay, let me know when you wanna meet up. That’s it. If s/he reaches out, then it’s good, if not, the person isn’t interested. While the reasoning may not be black and white, the result is black and white.
/r/seduction03/10/19 05:41 AM
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Good look is like having a good resume. It’s easier to score interviews.
/r/seduction24/09/19 11:31 AM
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Find something to do. Literally anything, and then see if you find anyone else who does that. For me, it started with craft beer. I found a good craft beer bar near me. I hung out with other regulars. Another one, which is probably controversial, is Crossfit. Yes, it’s stupid, but you know what? People who do CrossFit tend to have healthier life style, and they are really, really friendly. It’s just who they are. I haven’t seen a single asshole crossfiter. I move around a lot due to my millennia…
/r/seduction23/06/19 02:26 AM
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Nope. Haha that’s why I asked. I feel the same way, and I find myself dating more than one person doesn’t help much. Also, even once I get serious with a person, I still have the same issue. So it’s always been a difficult problem to deal with.
/r/seduction07/02/19 03:49 AM
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How do you plan to resolve that validation and neediness? Simply ignoring it, or fulfilling that from other sources?
/r/seduction07/02/19 03:32 AM
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honestly, i go through the posts on /r/AskReddit and pick some good questions. as you probably noticed, most of them definitely require good/meaningful thoughts. I really liked the one about google smell.
/r/seduction05/04/16 02:37 AM
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do you actually use the word "date"? like, "hey, can i take you out for a date?" Or do you intentionally phrase your invitation that implies a date without using the word?
/r/seduction14/01/16 04:23 AM
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I'm on the same boat here. I'm very affectionate, both romantic relationship and friendship. Yeah, I'm that guy who hugs everyone in the friend group. Anyhow, I'd like hear more inputs from others, but I THINK a good way to not seem so clingy/needy is showing that you are affectionate to everyone. When you are "needy," you are not needing a person. Instead, what you are truly needing is the other person's attention. if you are affectionate to only one person, then it seems like you NEED that per…
/r/seduction03/12/15 04:51 AM
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