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Men do not owe you attention or compliments.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/26 06:17 AM
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You can do anything to a woman, except bore her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/26 06:20 AM
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You can go to this site and see how rare the man you want is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/25 10:24 PM
8

What does it take to be your bff?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/25 10:15 PM
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What was the point of her article? There was no conclusion, only her mindless drivel. I've realized how when women speak it's only to verbalize how they're feeling in the present moment. It's often not insightful or worthwhile. She wants to be approached and is feeling unwanted, so she's grasping at straws to explain it. Naturally she arrives at the problem being men: "It’s much easier to convince yourself that sex and women are worthless pursuits than it is to cope with one’s own lack of sexual…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/25 10:04 PM
12

What does being a 'good man' mean to you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/25 09:56 PM
24

The bold-faced lying women regularly engage in is disgusting. Men shouldn't tolerate it, and call it out at every turn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/25 09:49 PM
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I'm not sure I agree that most women aren't like what the media portrays. The anonymity of being online makes their true nature come out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/25 09:44 PM
7

A family provides you with purpose and a sense of belonging. She's missing that. She craves it. That's what she's lamenting the entire article. Also, she isn't refusing to be a punching bag. Nobody is talking down to her. She feels left out and left behind because she IS left out and behind. She's not part of the group. She's different. So she feels inferior. This is all about her feelings, not anything her family is doing towards her. Her entire article talks about her life and what's lacking. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 10:14 PM
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That's what she said she wanted. She felt left out. And rather than face her family again and experience the shame, she's choosing to spend it alone with her dogs. If she's actively dating, then why is she spending Christmas alone? She feels comfortable putting the rest of her history out there, why would she suddenly keep her dating life private? If she was dating someone, then the article wouldn't exist for a lack of basis.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 09:34 PM
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If she can easily date and is fit and attractive, then why isn't she married with her family unit? If quality men are beating her door down and offering the life she wants, then why is she choosing her two dogs? The reality is there are no quality men, and she's an awful woman to be around. Her current situation validates that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 08:05 PM
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She sounds miserable to be around. You knew what the entire article would consist of after reading the first paragraph. This reminded me of a woman I briefly reconnected with recently. We dated when we were both younger but it didn't work out because of maturity issues. She is now 33 and has a dog. She's only 4 years away from being the woman in this article. She is difficult for no reason. It's really sad because she's smart and pretty but can't get out of her own way. If you're a woman who is …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 06:55 PM
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How do you gather she isn't complaining? "I can't help but feel lacking by not having my own little family." Her entire article is complaining and coping. She laments the consequences of her actions. After reading the first paragraph I thought she must be insufferable to be around. She's 37 and it's not going to get better. Women don't look into freezing their eggs unless they're desperate. Just because she phrases things differently doesn't mean she's any different from the other women we regul…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 06:46 PM
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That's a great point. However, it doesn't move them closer to their goals and only sabotages their progress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/24 11:16 PM
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They can't afford to. The brokies need to continue scamming men on dinner dates so they can eat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/24 01:14 AM
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Women know they lie to each other. Yet they also choose to believe the lies their 'friends' tell them. I don't understand it. Why would you choose to believe known liars? What benefit is there in doing that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/24 10:58 PM
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I don't think she's close to seeing the scam for what it is. They all turn and run at even the hint of accountability and introspection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/24 10:56 PM
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Is she looking for a sugar daddy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/24 11:19 PM
16

Women saying they love hard is a massive red flag to me. Also, it sounds like she's looking for a wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/24 05:01 AM
24

That's stupid. I'm not in high school anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/24 09:42 PM
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I watched something from a psychologist who said women do this kind of irrational stuff primarily because it works. Same with crying, shaming, any other form of manipulation etc. They don't think ahead about the consequences down the road, only about the immediate results. They're like children because they're allowed to be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/24 01:54 AM
22

What does getting intimate without sex mean?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/24 01:51 AM
4

Wages have been stagnant BECAUSE women entered the work force. Women didn't need to enter. Feminism told them to 'break free' from their oppressive housewife role and embrace the fulfilling career. Feminism has been a lie since day 1. Also, many builders are building poor quality high cost townhouses or apartments in my area. The issue is the demand is greater than the supply. The reason demand is so high is because of illegal immigration and also people leaving blue states with tons of cash fro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/24 07:02 AM
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She's a 5 at best. But she has crazy eyes and she's wearing a hoodie to hide things. So realistically she's probably lower.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/24 07:17 PM
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It's not only the property, but the jobs too. Women DEI themselves into jobs they don't deserve, making money they didn't really earn. Then they whine when their dating pool becomes smaller because they prioritize earning potential so heavily. If a man had her job, he'd be making the money she wants. So he'd be what she desires. And since most women want to become SAHM anyway, what does her job/education matter? They're creating their own problem then complaining about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/24 01:25 PM
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I'm not sure I agree. Young men are leaning more conservative but young women are doubling down on their feminist views. What exactly will cause a change in the culture?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/24 10:10 PM
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What's the solution to all of this? I don't see anything changing until there's a major economic crisis or world event like a major war. Am I to continually look for women who aren't like this? That's such a headache and feels like a fruitless endeavor. The traditional wisdom of finding traditional women at church doesn't work anymore. Every part of society has been infected with feminism. I know some people say go overseas but I'm not familiar with the language or culture in the East, so the li…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/24 08:24 AM
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She still doesn't get it, and she's almost 40. She has all the classic red flags too. Notice how she doesn't ask for advice, but only if there's other women experiencing the same thing. Misery loves company. But I'm supposed to believe single women are the happiest demographic?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/24 04:30 AM
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I'd like to hear his side of the story. What happened for 15+ years for him to ignore his wife sexually?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/24 03:35 PM
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I think confidence and a good sense of humor can go a long way. It won't take a 5 to a 10, but it could take a 5 to a 7.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/24 07:26 PM
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When I see that I read it as a confession of what she did to him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/24 08:02 AM
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I forgot about this video. I love it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWrb71qNfzk
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/24 11:16 PM
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Why do so many women harp on the need for respect from their man? To me it's quite simple. If you act in a manner warranting respect then you'll get it. What am I missing?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/24 10:40 PM
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I sort of disagree. Women already have the media and institutions advocating for them. What need is there for a few forums similar to RoK or RP?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/24 07:06 PM
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Why didn't you end up together?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/24 08:22 AM
2

Are widows worth dating?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/24 12:58 AM
2

What does she mean when she says "All of which is a reflection on them."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/24 03:15 AM
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Is that a man?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/24 03:10 AM
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Hey fellas! Have some sympathy! She was rejected 5 whole times in 2 months! If only men knew what that was like.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/24 01:29 AM
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I'm confused how or why women speak as if it's widespread and inevitable. Seems to be more hamster logic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/24 09:22 PM
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I'm curious, does anyone know where women get the idea that men are killing their ex-wife's en masse? Or that DV isn't taken seriously?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/24 04:04 PM
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Does that place still exist?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 09:08 AM
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ENM?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/24 12:41 AM
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I think men primarily chase money. If titles come along with it, so be it. Women are most interested in status though. How many times do women break up a relationship and their friends/family think she's the victim, regardless of what happened?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/24 01:25 AM
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I think it's more so she can tell other people she can't find a man up to her standards. Social status is of utmost importance to women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/24 12:53 AM
1

What's PPD?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/24 12:47 AM
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"Men are price sensitive. They do not want to pay full price for what another man got for free." RIP the Godfather.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/24 10:46 PM
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Even if she met her version of Mr. Perfect, she'd fumble the bag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/24 10:21 PM
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I think it's because women value people/relationships more than men, especially romantic relationships. So they hate anything that might threaten the stability of the relationship (hobby, other women, etc.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 10:32 AM
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The more I learn about women and their nature, the more I'm inclined to not see them as people. I'm not sure if this is a problem, or a consequence of learning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/24 01:44 AM
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I'm sure she got that from her great friends, who also tell her that men are simply intimidated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/24 12:07 AM
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Who keeps telling women that men are intimidated by them? Never in my life have I ever, even for a second, been intimidated by a woman. It must be coming from their friends. Single women really do keep women single. RIP Godfather.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/24 04:41 AM
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Is it possible to find a woman who doesn't nag? That's pretty high on my priority list. it serves no purpose and is just obnoxious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/24 09:00 PM
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To quote the late Patrice O'Neal: "I've dated women with PhD's all the way down to GEDs and they all spit the same bullshit." I found out he's correct. Also, the reason why housework is unpaid is because anyone can do it. Children do it. It's important and necessary to keep the house running, but it's easy. I'm so tired of women talking about the chore of housework. They aren't hand washing clothes and hanging them to dry. They aren't fetching water from the well, and heating it up on the stove …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/24 08:03 PM
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I can't tell if their inability to take accountability is from nature or nurture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/24 11:02 PM
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If women age better than men, then why do men keep going for younger women? 0 critical thinking going on here. I swear women just invent this bullshit in their heads without any consideration for reality or what men may want/value in a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/24 04:06 PM
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She wants a man to lead her when she feels like being led. But this man is also supposed to intuitively know when she wants to be led, and step up. He also must know when she wants to lead and be comfortable with that. Another disagreeable woman who expects men to read her mind. She also thinks she can act in an unlovable way but still be loved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/24 04:00 PM
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I noticed this as well. Her story doesn't add up. Why would anyone accuse her of being a whore if she hasn't slept with anyone for years? If she hasn't slept with anyone for years, how are men using her for sex? I'm glad I found this place. I've learned so much about women's nature.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/24 04:20 AM
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Why do women want an exciting guy? Are they incapable of entertaining themselves? I've never expected a woman to entertain me. I have plenty to keep myself occupied.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/24 11:02 AM
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I disagree. I think the media have pushed liberals so far left that the divide between their insanity and what's reasonable is vast. It's no longer an issue of nuance, it's an issue of clear right and wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/24 05:02 AM
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This is off topic, but I've been thinking about this lately. For those of you who are Christian, do you think the Bible is full of red pill information? Ex: Eve giving into her feelings and eating the fruit instead of obeying what God said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/23 12:13 AM
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I can fix her!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/23 06:51 AM
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Why not teachers?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/23 05:52 PM
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I'd never heard of that before so I did a little research. "Kohlberg believed that women tended to remain at the third level of moral development because they place a stronger emphasis on things such as social relationships and the welfare of others."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/23 06:46 PM
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Do women even love men? It seems like they just appreciate your utility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/23 04:20 PM
12

I'm not sure what this quote means: "not realizing that their very verbalization of that and a belief in open, rational communication is the very thing that’s killing (or killed) their woman’s desire for him." Does this mean it's unwise to sit a woman down and have a healthy discussion to resolve an issue? If so, the solution then is to tell her how it is and move on?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 10:44 AM
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Do you think women behave that way into their 30's and later because ever since they were 14 that's how the world works for them? If a woman is 30, that's been her reality for more than half her life. I suppose it's probably difficult to self-reflect at that point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/23 06:50 AM
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It's too bad women can't choose who they have children with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/23 04:29 AM
21

Perhaps arranged marriages were the best thing for women, since they're incapable or unwilling to choose properly until their circumstances change. But by then the damage is done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/23 12:09 AM
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Genuine question, do women have these expectations because men are spending this much on a first date?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/23 02:53 AM
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"He didn't have a dumb wife, he had a smart wife." wat
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/23 05:46 AM
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I read once that women choose men who are a project, so their focus is always on him and not her. It's a way to avoid accountability for their shortcomings. I don't understand the "I'll change him" attitude. If he changes, he won't have the qualities she finds attractive anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/23 03:55 AM
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What I don't understand is choosing irresponsible men then complaining about the consequences. They know what's going to happen, yet many seem incapable of stopping themselves or even considering how this plays out long term.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/23 03:53 AM
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Why do they do that? Emotional variety? Controlled danger? Thrill of slumming it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/23 08:42 PM
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Remember, it's not a lie if you believe it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/23 12:19 AM
12

Poor woman is disappointed her sex tokens didn't buy her a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/23 05:45 PM
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RIP the Godfather
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/23 02:53 AM
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Why aren't the men out of my league settling for me? Why won't the men out of my league treat me like the princess I am?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/23 10:47 PM
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When women are single and childless, some men don't have standards when it comes to looking for sex. So to women who don't understand men, it's not a big deal to have 'standards' now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/23 10:57 PM
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Define the relationship. "So what are we?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/23 08:00 AM
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Women view their red flags as badges of honor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/23 11:27 PM
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What she meant is that she wants resources, and the occasional break from parenting. But that's not socially acceptable, so she dresses it up a bit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/23 03:52 AM
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Why do women slap their hands together when speaking? I really don't like it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/23 03:49 AM
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I'm becoming convinced women are slaves to their emotions. They're completely run by them. And f-boys provide plenty emotional variety.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/23 10:48 PM
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"I'm told by all my friends I'm way above average in looks, personality, and intelligence." Women are notorious for giving compliments they don't mean. Why do they buy into those compliments every single time???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/23 01:08 AM
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Is it possible for men to love conditionally, as women do?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/23 05:31 AM
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I'm glad I found this place. My spidey-senses started tingling halfway through reading that conversation. I'm improving....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/23 11:17 PM
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My cousin is almost 6' tall. Before she found her husband, finding someone taller than her was extremely important (he's 6'4".) Fast forward 10 years and I mentioned her height requirement in a conversation. She laughs and said it's not that important anymore, and character matters much more. I'm glad she found a taller husband with solid character. I wonder how many other good men she passed over because of the height preference.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/23 12:52 AM
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Her eyes are dead. That's all I need to know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/23 09:04 AM
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Nice
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/23 10:21 PM
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Some of those aren't red flags. She's just listing things her ex's have done that she didn't like. Women always tell on themselves. I think women have no clue how to qualify men for a serious relationship. That's why they invent lists like this or harp on astrological signs as a way to weed out undesirable men. I'm not sure if they're inept or simply blinded by their emotions. I think going back to having fathers choose for them and eliminating no-fault divorce would solve many issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/23 09:02 PM
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Where are you finding these profiles? hotsinglemethheads.net?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/23 03:55 AM
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She seems very impressionable, naive, and selfish. Women seem to regularly throw away decent marriages. Given how many of them stop maturing in their teens, I question whether they're fit to make adult decisions. An innocent child is growing up without a father in the home, and a man is heartbroken because of her actions. It's just a sad situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/23 06:10 AM
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Either way it doesn't matter. Don't chase women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/23 06:17 PM
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Well said
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/23 12:03 AM
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I don't think so. I think she's primarily letting her frustration out. The benefit for us is we see small instances of honesty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/23 10:26 PM
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I couldn't finish the article. I can't stomach the nonsense she's writing. It's not my job to share the load when I receive nothing in return. What if I do help this woman, what am I getting in return? What can she offer me? I feel bad for the kid, who didn't ask for this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/23 06:26 PM
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She's checking all the boxes. It's interesting how often this happens. I'm glad I found this place. I hope he leaves her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/23 06:21 PM
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Ever since I learned about the thousand cock stare, it seems to appear everywhere (including this woman). What women haven't been run through?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/23 04:59 PM
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She's upset about the lack of attention. I hope men walking away en masse will have the desired outcome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/23 10:47 PM
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What does "feel a type of way" mean?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/23 07:57 AM
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What peers? Women compete ruthlessly with their 'friends'. They're tryin to impress people they don't even like. What's the point? None of this makes any sense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 09:27 AM
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If a woman says that I assume they were the abusive ones. Accuse others of that which you're guilty of.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 09:25 AM
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Why is it women refuse to be realistic about the man they qualify for? I'm baffled. Is it because they can save face among the sisterhood and still convince them she's a high-value woman? Why would women rather protect their ego than be realistic and have a man? If I remember right, 1 in 4 women 50+ are on antidepressants in the USA. They aren't happy. They're trying to convince themselves they're okay?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 07:20 AM
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Physical, emotional, verbal? Which one? If things were going along just fine, what did she do to elicit such a response?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/22 07:05 AM
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I don't think so. I value my time, and if it's not being invested wisely I'll move on. Remember, they don't owe you anything. You can respond in kind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/22 06:53 AM
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A few quotes from Patrice O'Neal come to mind: "P**** ain't all I want unless that's all you got." "I've dated women with PhD's all the way down to GED's, and they all say the same bullshit." Most have no hobbies, no unique insights, no personality, and don't offer anything aside from a warm body. What do they offer in return for being asked out on dates?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/22 05:59 PM
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How will your first solution happen peacefully?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/22 06:38 AM
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I'm on the fence about this. What are the best arguments for/against it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/22 05:06 AM
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While reading the update, I was really disgusted when she said, "He saw me completely broken but he still wants nothing to do with me..." What did she think would happen? He would find out then console her? Is there a happy ending after she fucks another man? I've read on here that women lack the ability for long-term planning. After seeing multiple stories like this, I'm starting to agree. There is too much to say about this post, but I'm baffled how women can take no responsibility after doing…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/22 05:03 AM
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What other peaceful solution is there?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/22 04:49 AM
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I've seen many of my friend's marriages destroyed by modern women. Then the women are rewarded, and the kids suffer. Nobody wins. Coincidentally, it's often over the women's own insecurities. Many of us know men who went through experiences like this. Why don't we all vote and elect people to change the laws?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/22 07:26 AM
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The one commenter said 'desire is tied to their (women's) emotions.' So women naturally want it more when they feel cared about, and less when they don't. Let's apply that to men. What would happen if men only went to work and gave a woman his time/attention/resources if he felt cared about? What sort of a relationship would that look like?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/22 08:18 PM
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The average woman in the usa is something like 5'4" and 170 pounds. That's fat. I don't care if it's what we normally see, that's fat. This woman is also fat. You can tell by how thick her arms are, and her lack of showing collarbone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/22 09:07 PM
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She looks in shape? I think she looks fat. Fat single mom can't get a date. Color me surprised.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/22 04:16 PM
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I think it's sad how they'd rather cling to their delusions than adjust their preferences to be realistic. Ego really is a crazy thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/22 06:48 PM
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At this point, I can't tell if women understand what an analogy is or not. I also find it amusing how she kept repeating 'women are not a key.' I'm shocked at the emotional response. Shocked I tell you. There was no critical thinking in her response.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/22 04:38 PM
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What does that mean? It has to take up storage space somewhere. Where it is all being stored? Is an actual person doing it, or is it automated? Some of the logistics aren't clear to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/22 04:17 AM
1

Who is storing absolutely everything posted on the internet?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/22 10:08 PM
20

Your terms are acceptable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/22 07:19 AM
33

That was the first thing I noticed. Hard pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/22 06:20 AM
2

What about women having low self esteem, and being critical of themselves? How does that play into things?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/22 06:01 AM
11

Anyone can point out the problem with something. It takes real intelligence to come up with a solution. I don't see a solution offered that I can do something about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/22 10:14 PM
7

Do women love themselves?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/22 06:16 PM
6

I don't like videos like this. Nothing actionable on the individual level is offered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/22 06:13 PM
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What goals does she have at 40? It can't be kids and a family. What's so important to split up a relationship that long?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/22 02:44 AM
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It's a way to place blame back on men to avoid accountability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/22 02:29 AM
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This happened to a friend of mine. He married a single mom and adopted her kids. She divorced him once he became a doctor. He pays child support for kids that aren't his, on his doctor's salary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 07:51 PM
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She finally realized it's what she needs, but not what she wants. That's why she reluctantly says those key words, while also mixing in her wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/22 06:05 PM
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I don't think she has the right attitude. She hasn't changed at all. She's only pretending because the mask slips up here and there. There's nothing old fashioned about being a single mom. She also slips in her height and dressing up. What does that matter? She's lying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/22 04:16 PM
10

Preferences*
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/22 02:50 AM
3

I'm tired of hearing the word 'standard' when what they really mean is 'preference'. I thought women were the better communicators....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 06:57 PM
6

I believe her claim of cooking knowledge.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 05:45 PM
4

Society is already having repercussions. Most school shooters are from single mother households. Same for most men in prison. I could go on. The list is lengthy. But then again, it's much easier to blame the effect (men bad!) rather than the cause (fatherless households.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 05:43 PM
4

"Doesn't seem that bad." "-very delusional." wat
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/22 03:17 PM
46

Is this where I say: Men aren't vending machines where you put in sex tokens and get relationships out of us?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/22 12:40 AM
5

Since it's standard equipment on all women, what's special about it? I'm confused.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/22 05:38 PM
6

Why do they think this though?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/22 03:28 AM
19

If she leaves her man post-cancer, what do her options look like? No man would get with her once he finds out what happened. This makes no sense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/22 07:53 PM
15

I agree. Watching them continue to blame men was amusing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/22 06:52 PM
25

Why would a woman look down on a man for that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/22 06:40 PM
57

It's all about status. They couldn't care less about the logic of anything. They just can't stand having lower status than their friends they secretly hate and ruthlessly compete with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/22 05:01 PM
6

I'm not sure if she does or not. Based on what he told me, she started planning this probably 2-3 years ago. I think it would make sense she started planning her exit strategy around year 7. It's so sad how she's allowed to do this without reason and he and the kids suffer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/22 08:23 PM
45

This is correct. A good friend of mine had his wife leave the house and take the kids with her. He was dumbfounded. Before he was served with divorce papers he asked her why, and she never gave him an answer. A family was torn apart and he doesn't know why. He's a very solid man and doesn't deserve this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/22 06:39 PM
3

I don't think so, but he does. He seems to be happy with the arrangement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/22 06:28 PM
4

No. She got her tubes tied after 2 kids. I don't fully understand what happened, but they had to get an egg and a sample from him and he had a kid. He said it cost him 12k USD. She was tired of being a single mom and wanted to lock him down and not have him run I suppose.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/22 02:22 AM
6

A friend of mine married a single mother. She was going to church and was a good girl, but somehow managed to fuck him on their second date. He claims things are still doing well a year later. Since they now have a kid, I hope she doesn't pull the old bait 'n switch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/22 09:55 PM
9

I don't think they consciously believe it. I think they say this because it absolves them of responsibility once things turn out poorly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/22 09:52 PM
7

Why do women display their red flags proudly?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/22 06:54 AM
29

Women are sharing men. That's why fewer women reported being single.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/22 06:50 AM
31

I was reading the comments on TwoX and some of the mentioned the 'bang-maid'. It seems to be referred to in a derogatory way. What do the women think they do that's worth noting, aside from those two things?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/22 07:11 PM
29

Surrogates make a decent amount of money. I'd guess that's how she's paying the bills for now. People do interesting things when they're desperate. Another woman who thinks she is the prize, despite her current predicament. She even has the audacity to say "y'all have to deal with that." I wish I had this level of confidence in my life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/22 10:25 PM
25

The true behavior always comes out. Don't be deceived.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/22 06:47 AM
6

billion*. If you total the numbers up, about 70% go to entitlement programs and 30% goes toward the military. Covid could have messed with those numbers, but that's the usual percentages. https://www.cbo.gov/publication/57170
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/22 07:41 AM
6

Where are these women? Don't say church, that's been overrun with masculine women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/22 05:41 PM
7

Is this what's referred to as the Epiphany Phase?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 08:32 PM
6

Because they're not as much of a physical threat at face value. However, that can change once you know the man is capable. The lack of respect doesn't ever change from women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 08:27 PM
16

I think women crave emotional variety, and those types of men provide it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/22 07:53 PM
3

What are some signs she's doing this? Are they ever genuine?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/22 09:15 AM
23

I think it's about status. Her friends get men, kids, and vacations and she doesn't so she has lower status.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 02:39 AM
8

Bruh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/22 07:32 AM
6

Oh god. Why did you phrase it like that? So gross.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/22 06:17 AM
1

What's the issue with calling a woman out on her poor behavior?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/22 06:47 AM
26

Why are most women's bios the same thing? If they're old enough, the life experiences mirror other women too. It's so odd.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/22 01:09 AM
2

Thanks for the link. What's your opinion of this information?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/22 03:35 AM
3

What is the source for this information?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/22 10:54 PM
5

How do you think a red-pilled man would do with a single mother?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/22 04:52 AM
6

What I meant to ask was, why do women admit they have losers for baby daddies? Why do women proudly admit their bad decisions? Why do they think they're selling men on who they are when they do this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/22 04:55 AM
13

Why do so many women do this? I'm so confused.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/22 06:14 AM
1

Won't he still be the BB in the next relationship, unless he changes something?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 08:38 PM
1

Move on to what, since he's the BB?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 06:58 AM
2

Did you respond to the 'you're lousy in bed' comment? What's an appropriate response to something like that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 06:29 AM
4

Does she have the thousand cock stare?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 06:52 AM
2

Do you guys have an opinion on the book No More Mr. Nice Guy? The author seems to make a similar claim.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/22 01:39 AM
1

What's a real man? I suppose it's shaming language to get someone to save her? What does she know about real men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 08:26 AM
6

None of this story makes any sense. She wants to find a man and have kids but chooses to walk dogs in her free time? Why is she not going out regularly to meet men? She's exchanging precious fertility time for $100/day? She's worried about the potential guy's financial situation? She can make/withdraw roughly 90k/year in retirement. Is an additional 50k from an average guy (what she can realistically get) a big consideration? Aside from health insurance, what big expenses will she have in retire…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 08:12 AM
6

Holy fuck. This page blows my mind with knowledge quite regularly. I'm glad I found this place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 08:38 PM
6

I don't think it was pointless at all. It's informative to know what to look for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 06:25 AM
14

I wish I had information like this when I was younger. It would have saved me so much trouble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 01:02 AM
4

What shit tests do you get?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/22 07:35 AM
4

I've had the exact same experience the few times I've tried. Complete deer in the headlights look as the hamster starts trying to rationalize why I'm wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 07:32 AM
28

That quote from her says it all. She is free to behave however she chooses, but she doesn't like the consequences of that behavior. It's the same thing over and over again with them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 10:09 PM
5

Thanks for your response. I don't look to women as my only source of fulfillment. I do have hobbies and I don't do poorly with women. Culturally speaking, it's important for me to get married and have a family. However, I want nothing to do with that now. I don't know how to square my culture with my knowledge of what women really are. Why would I willfully enter into a relationship with a woman who can ruin my life?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 03:33 AM
2

So what you're saying is, I need to work on myself and keep myself occupied and productive. Okay that's easy. I don't understand how that addresses the issue at hand though. How does self-improvement make me want to engage with them in any capacity?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 03:14 AM
13

Now that I understand their nature (something that will never change), how can I accept that? Why would any man get into a relationship or even interact with them in the age of me too? I go between the anger/depression phases right now and I don't know how to move forward.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 07:28 AM
6

She's par for the course. She simply verbalizes what others merely imply.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 12:18 AM
14

If only women could choose their baby's daddy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 12:17 AM
19

She did get a gift though. She's simply ungrateful. Also since she mentioned the $200 necklace, she's a gold digger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 12:15 AM
1

Seems pretty reasonable to me that a contract signed under perceived duress isn't enforceable. It won't be thrown out if you do it properly. If you're a man who needs/wants a prenup, it's reasonable to broach the topic before getting engaged.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 08:48 PM
1

I read this sometimes in comments but where does this come from? Whenever I research them it says there are easy ways to write them to make sure they're enforceable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 09:04 AM
13

What are some warning signs to know a woman is like this? Just look for the standard alpha-widow ones?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 06:59 AM
9

Resting Bitch Face
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 05:27 AM
2

How do you respond when confronted?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 09:11 PM
6

Can you elaborate on this, or give an example please?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 10:20 AM
3

I'm stuck in the anger phase. Any tips? After seeing women in real life behave like this, what's the point of trying? How can I accept this is what they are, and willingly look to add one to my life?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 08:11 PM
3

I only read through 9 pages. Did they actually end up divorcing? I called it quits at 9 because I couldn't stomach her selfish posts anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 12:01 PM
7

She doesn't give a fuck about him. She's only concerned her meal ticket is gone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 11:57 AM
7

I only read through 9 pages before I couldn't stand anymore of her selfish posts, but in those 9 pages she states she had a meeting with her husband and he's not sure what he wants to do. She also saw the two kids and the youngest gave her a big hug and said he missed her, while the oldest was being forced to talk with her. I really hope the guy left her and she gets nothing. That's what she deserves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 11:54 AM
8

Historically speaking, the US government kept the national debt pretty low all the time. Wars made it go up, but it was eventually paid down to the normal low level. After the 19th amendment it's been constantly going up, especially after ww2 and the war on poverty from Johnson. More is spent than ever on social programs and many people think it's not enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 11:43 AM
47

Are there any single moms that aren't broken?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 12:07 PM
4

Holy fuck. You explained shit I've been trying to work out myself for a while. Thank you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 10:12 AM
29

I've been reading the side-bar quite a bit, and women seem to lie about their past to men they see as relationship material. How can you tell if a woman has a wild past? What are the signs to look for?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 07:54 AM
7

How do you test it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 10:21 AM
1

I'm confused. In the first paragraph you said she doesn't respect him because he's settling for her. Then in the second paragraph you say she wants a guy who she can respect for settling for her. What?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 10:51 PM
17

It seems to be a telltale sign of it, yes. It's useful in helping identify which ones to avoid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 12:02 PM
12

Her eyes look weird. Is there something wrong with them?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 01:14 AM
8

The loser's stories sounded like something an 18 year old guy would say to a woman in a feeble attempt to impress her. I'm genuinely perplexed why she had to 'have him' after those pathetic stories. Is she proud of herself afterwards? I've lurked here for a while and this is the most disturbing/disgusting thing I've seen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 03:13 AM
2

Bro, I can't stop laughing at your comment. You just decided, "Hey I'm a man just like Paul was, I'm going to add to his wise words!" I love it :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 10:07 PM
5

Do these women not ever think things through? If she takes half of what she didn't earn, how can she live with herself? It seems so scummy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 07:01 AM
7

I'm confused by these women. They all claim to "now" want something real, but they aren't even attracted to responsible men. The women will just end up resenting the men they "settled" for, and being miserable. So the point is to use the guy for his resources, while putting themselves in another unhappy situation? How can this situation ever play out in a positive way?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 06:06 AM
4

What do you do when she starts treating you poorly? Divorce?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 03:23 AM
5

The biggest red flag for me was her saying "I don't know what I could be doing wrong." This shows a complete lack of self-awareness. This will only lead to the man being blamed for anything that goes wrong, since she is perfect and never makes mistakes. It's sad nobody ever told her "No" or called her out on her poor behavior.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 06:33 PM
3

Yes I do. You're very kind to answer my questions. I'm just disappointed in women and in how this all plays out. Babysitting a wife sounds exhausting and not worth the effort at all, especially with no-fault divorce being so prominent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 10:27 PM
2

Why do they want men to restrain them? Why can't they handle their business on their own? They sound like children, incapable of staying in their lane and conducting themselves properly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 08:28 PM
5

I don't know what to do with all this information. It's all so fucked up. I'm repulsed. How can you possibly get past this information and still find value in modern women?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 07:41 PM
3

There are so many fucked up things here. What the fuck is the point of ever dealing with women? Also, cheating isn't one mistake. It's hundreds or thousands of decisions that eventually lead to it. After you cheated, there's nothing you can do to repair what you've done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 05:10 PM
5

Just to be clear, in a woman's mind it's acceptable to cheat on her man so he breaks up with her if that's what she really wants? What the fuck?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 06:28 AM
7

I read the link. I'm very confused though. Why doesn't the woman just break up with the guy and move on? Why does she cheat on him? What's the purpose of going through all of this when a short conversation will suffice? The article said she wanted the guy to get pissed and break up with her. Is that so she can claim she's the victim? Why would she want the guy to get mad and end the relationship?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 03:57 AM
1

I had a lying/cheating ex I'm getting over right now. I do go to the gym and invest in self-improvement. What do these great women bring to the table? What could they possibly bring that would warrant marriage?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 03:19 AM
1

Thanks for your advice on self-improvement. How will that help me if I don't want to talk to any woman though?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/21 12:43 AM
3

How could I ever get married to a woman, if I have no desire to interact with one? Or at the very least, treat them like a friendly dog?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 07:27 PM
18

This sub has been immensely helpful in teaching me about women's nature. However, now that I'm more aware, I have absolutely no desire to ever interact with women. How can you know this information and still want to talk to them? I'm struggling quite a bit with this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 05:19 AM
1

I think they give that information so you have a rough estimate of their usual size.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/21 11:38 PM
2

Thanks for the explanation. I'm currently stuck in the depression stage because I find it hard to accept women's nature without despising them. How can I get to that stage without the contempt? I'm still single and would like a wife, but I can't bring myself to talk to women knowing what they really are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 02:57 AM
2

What?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 04:26 PM
7

Holy Fuck! I just had an epiphany. Your wife wasn't upset about you not helping the stranger. She was upset at her lack of influence over you, since you didn't listen. So later that night she fucked you to ensure she still had at least some influence over you. I wish I had this information 20 years ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 06:37 PM
37

You literally just described my cheating ex. I didn't see who she was until it was too late. Now I'm heartbroken :(
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 12:15 AM
3

Thanks for the explanation. Unfortunately, my cheating ex was one of them. I just couldn't figure out why she was like that for a long time. I suppose when your needs are being met there's no incentive to grow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 08:19 PM
1

What makes them stop maturing when they start having sex?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 07:01 PM
2

This is a really harsh truth to swallow.
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