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| 22 | My biggest mistake in online dating chats (and how I fixed it)Nah, it’s literally AI written. Which wouldn’t necessarily have been bad if you wasn’t intentionally trying to pass it off as human written | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:09 AM |
| 4 | how to master sh***t tests which you can hardly win?Agreed this is the best answer. Passing a shit test is to simply not over explain. It’s basically saying “I see what your doing, and YOU are being weird. I’m also going to be sarcastic and not butt hurt because your being just a cute little girl and it’s funny” | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How long should I wait when a girl I’m interested in doesn’t reply to my text?Just do what you want to do. The rules everyone keeps putting down comes from a place where everyone is “pretending” to be something their not. Here’s what works. Do what you want not out of desperation but entitlement. I went on a date with a girl, enjoyed it, found her attractive, sent her a text once I got home and told her I had a good time and I definitely wanted to see her again, had a 4yr relationship I’ve missed girls because I got home, played it cool and didn’t text for a few days, got… | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Great first dates…not leading to secondsHonestly just went through this a few days ago myself I dress pretty stylish (not over the top, but look together) Met at an amazing taco spot and she had a drink About 1 1/2 hours Laughs, flowing convo Flirting, banter, I tease her, alittle cockiness Great deep eye contact Couldn’t king because of our positioning Kept convo interesting and on her Paid for date Walked her to her car with her talking about how she wanted to try other food places I know Ended with a long hug and her saying “I hope… | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected after the first date for the first time. Now I'm confusedExactly, it’s all about attraction. There’s no other answer. If you were that person’s life crush she will hold hands immediately, kiss immediately, smash the same day. “Completely cooperation” should be the new measure we gauge by There is no way around it | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 08:37 AM |
| 4 | Starting from less than zeroI came out of a 17-year relationship that started when I was 16, so I never dated until 2019. Here’s what I’ve learned from experience (and all of the mistakes): General Mindset & Approach Most people in the dating pool are emotionally scarred. They’ve experienced failed relationships and are paranoid. Normal behavior like texting often or being romantic can seem like red flags. A simple trick: Learn to make a napkin flower at the bar while she talks. It’s subtle but shows creativity without bei… | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 01:10 PM |
| 12 | Hate all you want but routines workLol, a random dude basically asked me and my group this on NYE. He randomly tried to open us since we were near him and started asking each person individually “what’s your ny resolution” then some type of props and a high five when we answered. He seemed like an Okay dude, nothing offensive. We vetoed his ass even after he was going to buy us shots, because we just didn’t want his company lol. The point is, if someone doesn’t want to talk to you, usually they still don’t even after breaking the… | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 06:06 AM |
| 10 | Extreme flakiness from girls on the appsHere’s what seems to work the best You need to use voice memos and have a personality. Voice memos is the silver bullet because you can say much more controversial things in a really playful way, while text it’ll likely come off harsh, aggressive, or a red flag of some kind. You need to spike their emotions and have an interesting conversation, and text doesn’t really allow for it. Another is if you can get HER to send voice back, and laugh, COMPLIMENT her laugh “you have a really cute laugh” is… | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | What’s your best openers in person and on textI guess you’d be taking what I said abit to literal. Obviously no one’s walking into a gym scouting women while wearing club clothes right? But ripped and stained workout gear won’t be winning any trophies either. Walking around Walmart in some stylish gym cloths WILL work too So just apply common sense to how you dress and you’ll be fine. Looking like you haven’t showered in a week wearing clothes out the garage probably won’t work | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 12:08 PM |
| 4 | What’s your best openers in person and on textReal life would be the only way to get cute chicks while being average. Either they meet at school / work / cold approach. Online dating won’t work for an imbalance of looks. In cold approach, you’d have to approach a lot of cute women, be dressed decent, smell good etc, and basically a direct opener “hey I thought you look cute and wanted to say hi, why are you in Walmart today? You look more like a target girl haha” | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Went on 2 dates, and now she won’t initiate anything with meIt’s possible something may have threw her off. But it’s more likely it’s the holidays, which is a shitty time for dating because of all the distractions etc. it’s best not to try to “keep” her engaged in text while y’all on break, as it’ll come off as really needy and make you lose any attraction since y’all just starting. You gotta let her control the flow. But if she’s really not then you gotta backup ALOT, you haven’t earned hardcore communication yet I’d just shoot her a “hope you got every… | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 07:37 PM |
| 17 | Guys who propose within 3 months of knowing a girlI think 1-2 for a proposal works best. Here’s the thing, after 5-6 months you start to really get to know the person, the fakeness starts to fade away and the true person starts to come out. Another 6 months and you start to get a true idea if you would see marriage potential. If you wait too long, then you start to waste YOUR time. 3yrs doesn’t prove anything about person that 2yrs didn’t. So eventually you’ll have to take a risk. Bottom line most marriages won’t last until death either way so … | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Need help with message I receivedHow’d it go? | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Would it ruin my reputation?Make sure when you go to leave any interaction both you and the woman are laughing, bonus points if you touch them (like on the shoulder etc). This way the optics looks like you weren’t rejected | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 08:43 AM |
| 8 | Why is there absolutely no goid advice on texting? Seriously this is my one holdup.The problem is texting will hurt you more than help. You need to build just enough rapport to get them on a date Ignore this bs about being interesting. All this stuff comes off as weird to women. I’ve literally had them say that even though it didn’t seem weird and was “witty”. What works the most is don’t ask wyd, how’s your day etc type questions ever If you stay away from how’s your day, wyd, your beautiful, your ahead of 99% already I swear Just come with something that sounds like the star… | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 09:02 AM |
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